Offset: Relationships, Risky Texts & Rap (FBF)

Daddy Gang, I am so excited for today's guest. He is a Grammy-nominated musician and he currently has a new album out. Offset is in the studio. Daddy Gang, this episode is a chaotic but fun ride. We get to know Offset a little bit. We talk about his childhood, marriage with Cardi B, fatherhood, new music, and we answer, well specifically he answers some of the most unhinged questions from you guys about sex, relationships, sucking dick, eating pussy, you name it Offset is here to talk about it. So coming out with me an Offset, let's get into it. I might give a little ultima. He's the most memorable to make. So little debut. His man just does not miss. I'm Twitter that she's secretive. Thanks sis, later I have a front. I will support him. Cardi B is expecting her second child with Offset. It's over. I just want to... I'm going to kill myself for the fucking old boss. Right the fuck off! What is up Daddy Gang? It is your founding father Alex Cooper with Call Her Daddy Daddy Daddy Daddy Daddy. Offset, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Call her Daddy. I am so happy you're here. We're talking about your fit. Tell me, I know you're very in fashion. Tell me how you decided to wear this today. So today I want to do something fresh and new so I went to Rick Lines, got these pants, I went to Cromharm, got these top and I got these Balenciaga like slides but how they sit on the cuff looked like a shoe so I felt like it was nice. Oh those are slides. They look like big boots. Yeah. They look like they weigh a lot. No they kind of like. They're not too heavy. Do you ever utilize the pockets in those pants when you wear cargos? No. No. Just for show. Just for show. I like sometimes when they stick out though because it gives it a shape by the pants you know. You want your legs to look even thicker. No. No. I just want to look a little girth. Just a little girth. Okay good to know. No. I feel like sometimes men struggle with fashion because they're extremely insecure. They don't know how to like get out of the box. They don't know how to trust themselves. What do you see as the number one mistake that men make in fashion? Um. Mannington challenge. That's what I call it. So when you, a lot of people that got money sometimes it's not so fashionable. They'll just go on a story and buy what's on the mannequin. Head to toe like a no go for me. It's like a track suit with the same print. Passing, passing top, zipped up. And then a lot of, then other than that, everybody think that designer has to be the dri... Like if you have on a lot of design and you're fashionable, no. I could go to the third store out dress and buy it or they got on some shit from designer. And also you hit it on the point. A lot of men just be insecure when they come to that. I agree. Whenever I see people in like the Gucci track suit, I'm like, it just got to go. It's too much. A lot of the G1000 G's everywhere. Yeah. And then I'm not big on print. Like I don't like the out loud like, hey I got on Gucci, I got on. Or man, I don't like that. I like nice and subtle. Settle. If you know you know. Mm-hmm. Something that I really found unattractive for quite some time that even if he was the hottest man on earth, khakis. khakis on men was kind of like an ik for me. Like I couldn't get past when men had like tight khakis on. Slacks. They call them slacks. Slacks. Slacks, but specifically the like light colored slack on a man. Like it just did nothing. Like I just was like kind of disturbed by it. And like I maybe I went to a prep school so a lot of these kids are like in their slack. Oh they used to wear the spares with the slacks too. Did you ever own spares? It wasn't my taste. I did go American Eagle and like ever crime me. Like that. I did that. Did you get the double pop polo? Double pop polo. I did that when it was in. When it was in I did that. But the spares, the potato shoes. I couldn't do that. I just called potato sweet potatoes. How do you feel about uggs? Uggs are fire. Okay. You gotta be a confident man to put those on. I feel like you could pull them off. I pull them off. What is something that a woman could wear? Like for me my ik is khakis with men. What do I think something a woman could wear that you're like I can't handle it. Take it off. I think it's just shoe string tied up so tight that you can leave a little shoestring mark on your feet because they so tight. Those I hate those just be dirty beat up and outfit might be fired but you just got those on. Just like come on don't do that please. Thank god I didn't wear mine today. Anyways I want to know a little bit about your childhood. I know you said you grew up in Atlanta but like let's paint the picture of young offset. Okay. Let's go back to elementary school. What are you like at recess? Like what are you doing? Who are you hanging out with? Are you in the cool crowd? Are you weirdo? What's going on? At recess. I don't know if I was in the cool crowd but I had my two little homeboys Malik and I forgot to add the dude name. And elementary school I wasn't like that cool. Okay. People was roasting me. About what? Just like my clothes wasn't up to par. My mama was struggling. I mean she didn't have it and my clothes was not up to par. I just wasn't all the way there yet. But by the time middle school hit I was like God. I'm playing sports, I'm playing football for the middle school. You know when you growing up as a boy you like being tough is cool too. I started to get a little more. That's the start to get a little tough. I had a couple fights here and there. Oh. Peabody hit. So you get to muscles? Yeah. I started to get a little rough. High school. I was that guy. Straight forward. And I won Best Dress my senior year and I got on Gucci my senior year. How I got to Gucci. You talk about that about the time. But you know what I mean? I was out. I was flar. Like high school. Flar. I also love like you said like maybe elementary school wasn't your vibe. But like it's really sad because there are some people that peak in high school. Facts. Right. I swear you so right and then you look at them now and it's like. I know the girl that I was like so jealous of in high school. I'm like she's not like she's not even the conversation anymore. Don't even exist. Right. Right. People don't say that. That's just so right. Like the super cool is do. Be like later on in life. Be like. Got down. What happened to you? Thank God I didn't turn out like Tom. Like he's a fucking loser now. Yeah. He got the girls back then. He's got nobody now. Yeah. So we both didn't peak in high school which is good. But you said you were popular in high school. You know how people have like the superlatives of like most likely to live in their mom's basement. Most likely to become famous. If your peers had to like name you as something back then, what do you think they would have said about you? I think they'll see me in this space. Because I always was like in high school I had grills in here. And like I always was trying to like I had little fake jewelry on in high school and do a change of shit on like. I was I was preparing myself for the real. And like I always cared about how I look. You know in high school like it like how you look is key. It's everything. It's everything. And I was like I was the first fucking personality as long as you're looking good. People in high school gravitate towards that. Exactly. Everyone's so fucking surface level and assholes. A lot of people thought I would be in trouble too though. I must say. Okay. Because I had a you know my high school growing up and you go through that time ignorance and doing dumb shit. And I was doing a lot of dumb shit in high school. A lot of dumb shit. Even got arrested in high school. It's just like doing a lot. So a lot of people like my teachers. What's her name? I want to say her name. Mrs. Mrs. Smith. Oh. Carnegie. Damn it. What's her name? Deborah. Starts with a e. Potentially standing right here right now. You told me. You know who you are. You told me that I was heading to trouble and I headed to success. Is that so good? Teachers that are assholes in that wild time. Like kind of like abusive. Like kind of abusive. You really think about it and kind of like tearing you down and preparing you to like. Like because you know what that age those words are like somebody feeding you that. Yeah. It's like damn. And are the people that you're supposed to trust. Like they're the people that are like supposed to guide you towards success. And one of them look at Deborah looking at you like you ain't shit. But look at life. Look at life. Also it's fucked up because you know that woman probably doesn't remember that shit. But you still remember to this day. She's my counselor. I can't believe I came in with you. Damn. Let me know and we'll somehow like dub it in at some point. If you could if people don't know you that well like describe your personality now. Now my personality is very fun. But I can also be very serious. I'm a Sagittarius. I'm very confident in who I am. Some people take it as kind of people that's on you. I know I look good. I like to I'm very creative. And I love to learn about creative shit. Book shit is not my thing. But like creative shit like how I'm doing my own films right now. And the A.D.s and what it takes to actually have a production company. I'm interested in learning. So I know how to handle my business from later on. And I think a lot of people with this I'm a role I was able to see that. Yeah. Because I always kind of been like not talkative and like too cool for school. And then on this shit I was like man I'm about to have free spirit. Why would change? I went through a big death that happened. And I was down for such a long time. And I just made me want to really enjoy life. You know what I'm saying? Enjoy life. Enjoy my career instead of it being like a job. Because it had got to the point where it was feeling like a job being. And then people always got something to say. And I'm like man fuck that. It's about me, my happiness. And giving my identity of who I am is my as a solo act offset. And it's like challenging myself to be more do more entertain and shit. Instead of the old shit. Because you know when you get successful you start to do it in the same patterns that got you successful. And then after a while it's like repetitive and it's like damn what's new? No I appreciate you sharing that. Because I think like sometimes the most fucked up shit in life is like if you lose someone close to you or you just go through anything traumatic. Like it can reset the way that you look at things. Yes. And that is a blessing in itself. Because you have to find the positives and moments in life. Right. And so to be like you know what I'm going to not take the shit for granted. I'm going to make sure I capitalize on all of this and like actually be present. I think that's amazing. Thank you. Yeah of course. Okay so you kind of started to get famous. You started me goes around 17. Yeah. Did you always know you wanted to be in music? Yeah. From like high school. From like middle school. Were you rapping in middle school? Yeah. Not seriously though. I wasn't taking it seriously. Okay. But when I could I would. And then by the time 10th grade happened it started to feel like it was possible. Yeah. With the school and like the homies rocking with it and like giving a little support. If you look back because I feel like everyone in their career kind of has that moment of like the oh fuck we made it moment with Migos. Like what do you think that was for you guys? See I so I was incarcerated with my song pop and then Drake got on my song. Got on my song shot my brother and I was in a jail sale one day right. And they doing count like a six in the morning. I'm up. And he's singing my song as he do count. So the whole time I'm in there I'm not telling people what's going on because I really don't know what's really going on. I just know he was in like a motion but I'm jail like my mind's everywhere. I'm in a fast pace and the guard doing the count. And he's saying I was such a. I was such a facet. And I'm like. And I couldn't believe it. I walked up to the door and he like move from the door so I can see who in the room. And then he as he walked off he's singing the song. I'm like yo what the fuck. No. And I'm like as soon as we got out I get on the phone call it back home like yo. Then they like yeah Drake on it. I'm like what. So you didn't know that the song was big until when you were in. I was a jail yeah I couldn't I didn't know like you know like your homies like yeah it's on the radio. But I'm not knowing like I'm thinking it's like we they got it played on the radio once or twice. Right. It's like a penny play. Yeah like real quick or something and then it's like nah. And like after I had to sit down for like four more months as that went on and then they start being like guards like you could talk on the phone and you can um when upstairs going you can stay out and when the downstairs come down and like I just started then like I had a vegetation thing. I married now y'all so it's not nothing crazy. It's just before my wife. Yep. So on the vegetation they had like six you can have six visits in one day 30 minutes of peace and I had like my mom on there and I had like some girls I was dealing with but they weren't coming. My mama was coming every week but the girls weren't coming. Then like I didn't know how I was going on. All of a sudden they like you got six visits. I'm like I got six visits I'm trying to think like bro they sitting in a lobby it's like a screen and it pops up the face and it like put their name on my name and they're going up and coming down saying something to each other going up back to back and I'm like oh shit that's when I caught I was like what the fuck is what the fuck going on. Did my mama like son? I have a lot of girls. I don't care. I don't know. I just put them on the list. I didn't know they just pull it up and it was like oh shit this shit is crazy. That was my first taste of like taste of it. Do that is I don't think I've I never anticipated that to be like oh do you know when you got famous and you're like so I'm in my jail cell. Yes, the worst time ever nobody's showing love or my mama. And then the guard is fucking singing Versace walking past has that shit memorized and you're like wait that. I ain't even I'm like I don't want to be the lame dude like yeah I mean the other than people like bro you want some jail story shit you lying. So I just wasn't saying that and then that shit happened bro I was like oh shit. How long were you in jail for? Eight months. I signed in jail. You signed in jail? How did that affect your life being in jail while this was happening when you look back? I was like but for the blessed that I got something to go home to to be honest. I had my got this to go home and to instead of like the streets and like you know because I was old I'm 17 18 and now so it's like now living with my own dooks. I'm starting to see how life is and real life. The punishment's not the same. I've been to I sat a jail for eight months. I was like oh shit. I'm glad it happened that way though. I wouldn't take nothing back because I feel like it because when I got out I wasn't wild, wild, wild, wild. Like yeah. Yeah. Because I had just been in trouble. I had to sit down. I had a lot of my mama come by me out. It was a lot of things. I had to go through a program. So I didn't have to go down the road and program was just teaching me like to be more determined and more focused on whatever I want to do and stop playing around in life basically because there's a lot of young guys like me in the program. And they're like yo you get into any right up in here anything you get kicked out got to do two years. And so I'm like oh and so it slowed me down before I was going to fact I was wild. I had got wild. I had got to the point where I was young and just doing dumb shit. And then I feel like once you get on that path it's hard to like stop and re-center and it's kind of dope to hear that you're like I this was a perfect reason for me to be like oh I need to get my shit together. Like I do have something to actually look forward to and fuck my teacher because I'm not going to let that bitch be right. Exactly. It all comes back to the teacher. What are you most proud of from your time in Nigos? I'm most proud of the time we spent together. That's brothers and what we have to do what we did for the game for hip hop. For music in general. How influential. To be a part of some sort of influencers is the biggest blessing ever. Because we do this to influence people and little old us coming from Gwyneth County. All the way to this now. So it's like that's what I cherish the moments with the brothers. Obviously you're married now. I love that you're like I need to clarify guys the women were coming in jail when I was not married. Like I know people are very hyper fixated on your relationship. But before Cardi. Talk to me about your relationships with women like what is the craziest. Craziest thing an ex girlfriend ever did to you like we like some crazy stories on her off. Craziest crazy. Give it to us. Oh I don't want to name them. No no no. Yeah because it'd be too. Yeah so I come home one time and all my clothes is in the pool. Like crazy just simply just just simply just good. First off I'm just not getting to the money. So my thousand dollars for the shoes is like precious. Precious. You feel like I couldn't go out. It's not until I couldn't go spend 20,000 like it was cake water. I would be like oh I'm good. No. So my and I collect shoes and shoes when they get wet. Some of them can't come back. They old like old Jordans and like rare shoes and all my whole closet like was in the water and I was gone for like three days on the road. It was like it was molded. It's stanked milled to it. You can even clean it. It was over with and it's like yo you gotta leave. Why did she do that. Speculations. Uh-huh. Well cheating speculation offset. Speculations. We had really she had did something right. Uh-huh. So I put on ice. Uh-huh. Then I met my wife. Uh-huh. If you get it, then I met my wife. And so yeah that was already in the flooded. The flooded. Yeah. What was your reaction when it all went down? Were you just, did you scream? I'm like yo what the fuck is my closet? And then like how my bathroom was sit like you walk out. It was a window like a big ass window. You can see the pool. And my shit just floating. Some of the shit to the bottom, Titanic. Some of the shit just like shoes to the bottom. I've brought down cause I'm not knowing how long it's been in the pool and I'm looking at it like yo it's the green shit on it. It's like September 2 so the pool ain't the cleanest. It ain't even summer. It's like September. Yeah. Sometime. That shit had me sick. I ain't gonna lie. That shit had me sick. I have some Gucci chat. I have some shit. Oh. But not a tracksuit. Not a tracksuit. I never had those. It's fine. The top and bottom set. Yeah. I bet the sparris would have lasted pretty good. Potatoes? They'd have been soggy potatoes. Cause they got that like thick thing at the bottom that kind of keeps it guarded. That little whip at the bottom of the thick little thing at the bottom. Yeah. So you eventually married Cardi. What was your first impression of her? I had seen her on it. I was watching her on line for her try it. And I just loved the way how raw she was and how confident she was. She didn't even fuck with nobody thought with the way you think. And it's like damn, that's fire. Funny, great personality for what I can see. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm like, this is funny girl, she's cool girl. And then I shot my shot and I switched it. How did you go from being like, oh my god, I want to meet that girl going in a date? How did you know she was the one? First off, she's a family person, right? So I pay attention to like, fuck the music and all that shit. That shit never mattered. That's not what I look at. I look at like your home values, because I'm from the South. So I'm raised by my mother and my grandmother. So I come from strong women. And I see how dedicated and determined she was to get to a certain place for her family. It never was about like, oh, I wanna buy me a da da da da. It was like, I gotta buy my mom a crib. I gotta buy my aunties. Like her family big and she's like, damn their demand, because it's like she's trying whatever and then her struggles. She come from the bottom, from stripping. And she still was helping. Like, when I hear the stories, she still was helping the family with that little money. And it's like her grinding her, her focus, you can't tell her nothing. It's the same way with me. Like, you can't tell him and nothing. You can tell him, I can't do at all. I don't care what you think. I'ma do it. And I'ma show you, I can do it. It's the da da determination. Yeah, yeah, she's solid. Solid. What's your favorite thing to do together as a couple? Just being at the crib with the kids running wild. Because it's like we work so much, right? Yeah. And so like, it'd be like the smallest things. People might think trips and da da da da, but we do all that. Like we travel on the regulars just without jobs. Yeah. Buying things for my girls, cool and shit, but like the quality time, because during that time she might push me or I might be pushing her or like, you know, you had those real conversations at the house. You know what I'm saying about your aspirations or what you want to do, what you see yourself doing in the next five years. And we talk a lot about business so we can set up the kids. So they're not forced to be in this industry like we are. So you don't think you want your kids to like be in this industry. I mean, if they wanted to, yeah. You know what I'm saying? But I'm definitely not pushing on them. And I'm definitely not like, because it's dangerous, man. It's like this shit is crazy. I love that you're a family man. What is a dad quality? You have that you think people would be surprised to know. I can break my daughters here. Love. Also, I can cook certain things. Oh, yeah. I can cook some chicken. You know what I'm saying? I can cook some mac and cheese. What kind? Huh? Mac and cheese? Vox. No, I could do it from like the noodles in the water and like, drain the noodles and like, clean the noodles and like, I could do that. Okay. And make lasagna. Yeah, man, I could whip it up if I need to. Damn, if you need to. Do you do it often? Not so much, but it's when it's appropriate. I can do it. And Mama taught me how to cook. Love it. It's great. It's a great quality to have. Obviously, you and Cardi went through things in your marriage. And I feel like people online, as we know, are they love to stick to a narrative? They love to be like once a cheater, always a cheater. Like, why do you think so many people are just stuck on that? And like, can't move on. Because I feel like people dive into negativity. Also, I feel like there be like a hate train of people that don't like my wife right? And she does everything else to the tea. So that's the only thing you can attack. And it's like, we are humans. But I hate that shit because it's the end of the day. It doesn't affect home. And it's the end of the day. We move past shit, get past shit, grow up. I was married very young. I was 26 year old getting married as a mega superstar. Number one, I have a number one record, fastest life ever. I made mistakes, right? But it's like, that's like me walking up to somebody. I just be wanting people to feel how they feel. Like, oh, you failed college. You didn't make it through college. You went to college, you didn't make it through. And you work a bullshit job. People that would never want to hear that shit every day. Like every day you wake up or every day, you feel like, or some you got to say every couple of weeks or something, it's like, oh yeah, you work in McDonald's. That shit is fucked up. What I'm trying to say is, I would never say that anybody will do nobody okay. But that's how they should feel. It's like punching somebody consistently. Punching and punching and punching and punching. And like trying to bring a family down. I don't think people value or understand the value of family in this day and age. Because a lot of people don't, a lot of people are married. Like, you should be a lot of people don't talk to their parents. I talked to my mom when like, so it's like it's a family thing. And it affects not just one person. It affects the family. So that shit be lame as hell. But we've gone to the point where we've like, okay, bro, fuck y'all. I appreciate you saying that too. Because I feel like it's like so many people think they know the end and out of people's relationship. We don't know fucking shit. Like, we don't know anything about your guys' relationship. And so when things like that happen, it's like, how many fucking people have been cheated on? I have everyone probably watching this has. Like, that's just like, that is something that couples go through. And I feel like it just sucks that obviously that's one thing in the public eye where it's like, now everyone's gonna have an opinion of like, oh, Cardi Leath and Mer, oh, you leave her like, it's like, shh, shut the fuck up. Mine, you're fucking business. Like, how's your relationship? That's what I'll be saying. The people who really be saying that shit be singles here. And they're triggered by it. Or they get cheated on all the time and they're triggered because they're like, they have such a strong opinion, but it's like, mine's your business. It's your life, man, it's that of mine. How did you reestablish trust in your relationship? First off, I like respecting her position, right? We both public figures. We both in the eyes of people. Stop being selfish. You married this woman, you dedicated to this woman. And also, just being more communicative about shit, like, we just talk more. And like, you know, just, work was getting away sometimes. There was like, and we would talk all the time, but like, communication is key, man. If you don't like some shit, tell me. And if I don't like some shit, I'll tell you. If I do disagree with something you tell, you disagree with something while I disagree, we talk and the communication is key, not communicating. Is that it's fuck shit up? And it sounds so fucking simple, but it's like, right? And then all of a sudden, when you have a hiccup or something happens, you realize like, we never even talk about this shit. Right. So like, sometimes in moments where you're down, like, it kind of helps you if you're going to move forward, like rebuild something in a different way that actually will work for both of you. Like, we never fucking talk. Or like, we're eating dinners and we're not talking because we were too busy from our work, like finding moments, like, you just have to reset sometimes. I also like what you said, because I think a lot of people, I've experienced it. If you stay in a relationship after that type of like, infidelity, the person that cheated, like, has to give that person grace and time to heal. And I'll be like, are you over it? Are you over it? Get over it. And I know it's annoying for the person that cheated because it's like, I can't do anything. I just promise you I'm never gonna do it again. Like, I'm gonna be a better person, but the person that got cheated. It's tough. It take work. It's a lot of work. What you did was selfish. So it's their turn of yourself and you need to comfort them. Because luckily, I have a very loyal one. You know what I'm saying? And so, I don't wanna lose her for nothing. I live with a deaf, my kids, my son, I was daughter like, where they were, my daughter is like, like, by her dad. And I don't wanna ever take the, myself away from them from my dumbass decisions. There was another thing in my mind. This shit is a dumb North thing. Because I got other kids with, I have other kids and I'm not with their mom and it's like, that shit is hard, like, baby. I especially, they get older, they go to ask questions. Like, some of the hardest shit I went through was my kids asked me, why, why, why, why, why, why, why, why, why, why, why, that shit hurts you. And that's like another type of hurt where it's like, oh shit, the kids saying that shit. So, I just wanna be fair to everybody in the situation and not be like, yo, and not be selfish, bro. Because that's how that shit be when you do that shit, that shit is selfish. Yeah, it's like once you have kids, you are like last priority. Like you gotta be like, making sure everyone else is good and you have to be selfless, but it's also like. Do you have any good? No. Why can't you? I know stuff. I'm engaged and like, I know I eventually want them, but like, it's a lot of fucking work. Like, you gotta be ready to be like. And it's gonna pump your brakes. Scoor. Oh, this is right here, it's gonna pump it. Scoor. Thank. It's gonna pump it. Good to know. Thank you. Next. Okay. So. So. So. So. They. They. They. They. They. They. They. They. They. Offset. I call my audience the daddy gang. Okay. They're so fucking loyal, but they need help and they need the male perspective. So I'm gonna read you some questions they wrote into me. And this shit's fucking crazy. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Offset help. I think my boyfriend's addicted to porn. I know we should never snoop, but I went through his browser history and the results were shocking. On days when we weren't together, he was spending five hours on porn hub. I even noticed it on nights when we had sex. He would still end up on porn hub for multiple hours. Should I bring this up? And if I do, what the fuck do I say? Okay. But before you bring it up, right? Okay. Before you bring it up, you should try to change what you're doing to a company to do to see what he's doing. All right. When I say that, I mean, there's something on there that he might want you to do that you're not doing. So you got to pay attention to your man. And then man, want sex. Ladies, to get back at your man, the not the no sex thing. It's not it. Putting you down. I'm just letting him help you out. Now these are key factors because this is what happens. You get mad. You turn the cheek. And then you turn over in the bed. He's rock hard trying to get to his woman. And you're like, I'm mad at you about arguing. I'm wrong. But back to the question. Right. You got to, because you see that's very, that's because you rammed through shit. You got to let it come across first. You got to, you can't, he can't know that you're going through his shit. You're violating first and foremost. So you know, that's a violation. You're violating. Because if he go to your phone, what will he see? That's the question, right? So if he's with you, because my key thing I heard was he would see you and he still watch it. There's something intriguing on that thing on that porn hub that he's liking that maybe you should dive into. Right. Maybe he's watching all videos of like, Blumpkins. Maybe he wants to get his fucking dick sucked while he's taking his shit. We don't know. I don't know. But you'll find out if you really pay attention. Don't just see porn hub. What's the third? Yeah, what's the search? What is he? Is it like dressing up in a shirt? And then it's like, you're still don't look at it like too weird because at the end of the day when he not with you and doing it, I mean, he not doing it with somebody else or doing that to somebody else. So you got you a good one. But you got to step it up in the bedroom, baby. Do you have you ever gone through a partner's phone? No. Wow, you're a strong man. You know why? Because my mama always told me, don't do it if you don't want to get your back broken sign. Damn. You go through that phone. Those those chains that change that that that that going through somebody personal shit has is wrong in some relationships. It's crazy. Have you had a lot of women go through your phone? Of course. How did I get your password? Don't know to this day. You're putting the phone up while you're sleeping. They like open your eyes to face. I think I just have to just slick man, women are slick. Wherever you want to know, you're going to know. But as a man, especially as a man, I'm definitely not doing that. I just feel like it's like weird like bro. What do you do? Yeah. I get it. I did. If you got to go through the phone, I mean, you don't trust the person anyways. Thanks. Okay. Next. I need some advice on how to come back from a horrible night of drunk texting the guy that I'm into. Let me set the stage. I've been talking to this guy for four months, putting in work, playing it slow and making great progress. But last night, I fucked up real bad. I had six to kill shots too many and the text just started flowing. This man woke up to 25 texts of me saying things like, I want you to time me up, fuck me and come all over my face. I also even threw a nude in there that I apparently took in the bar bathroom. All he replied the next morning was, LOL, whoa. How do I recover from this? 25 messages. It's crazy, baby. First and foremost, you might even reconsider him because I ain't gonna lie. Me, like if y'all haven't had any type of, in the course, no sex or nothing, and you saying that type of shit as a guy, we like that. First and foremost, we like that shit. You know, the life I loud, whoa, he might be one of those cool ass guys, Twitter, like don't like respond, but you suppose to always make a woman feel kind of good when they do that type of shit because they're going out there. And if she was, if you are drunk, damn, that was kind of crazy. You kind of went crazy, you type me up, call all of the faces crazy, but as a guy, he supposed to set a little bit more than life I loud, whoa. Yeah, like holy shit, you look insane. Like fuck, let's do it. And then the next morning, let her not have that hangover scaries and be like, how you feeling this morning? Yeah, like he should have just been like, yo, you had a long, like what was going on last night? You was lit last night. But the life I loud, whoa, he might not be really, you might gotta choose somebody else. And then I feel like as the girl too, you should never have to be going so hard, ever round, give it down. Yeah, also like, how scary was the nude in the bathroom at the bar? Like, what were you doing? Yeah, like, she's like putting her leg up. How'd you put that off in the bar and everybody walking on you? She, damn, six to kill the shots. How do you feel about getting unsolicited nudes? Like what would be your response to a girl sending you a nude? Non-married. Not married when you were single. I will come for sure. But like I said, I'm gonna like that type of shit. Open the phone. Some of, we need that. We need that. Get you going. Yeah. What would it take? What kind of nude would it take for you to just give it a thumbs up response? Like, the bar one. Mm-hmm. Because I know the angle, the mirror too small and short. You really can't see what you want to see. It's cut off. You probably looking uncomfortable in the picture. I think the bar room is over the, it lets you a pro. But what are you going to do? The bar mirror is like a scene. Half a little less mirror. Most women are short as hell. How you like you angling that phone? Like, what's up in the bar? You see like the nasty toilet paper on the ground. Yeah, pissing shit. I know it's stinking there. It's the public bar bathroom. It makes me drunk. Pissing on the toilet. Shit. Yeah. She said, I would, I would still give you like, I would still because you're trying. Yeah, like you, you got to appreciate the effort. Like you got a nude. Yeah, you got a nude. May not be a mom. It's most, most of the guys thirsty are asking. Baby, you baby soon. You see me that other day, that's real quick. You see that little ass real quick baby. You see, slick, nice and cool. Long conversation. Been talking to them all day. Didn't get to the nighttime. See you in the titty. But before you were married, how many fucking Nudes were you sent in your lifetime? Estimate, estimate. You can get me in trouble, man. Damn. 100,000. I don't know. Shut the fuck up. 100,000 Nudes. No one. You want me sending one now. No one's better than Cardi. No one. No one. I fucking love your wife. No one. Like you know when you walk in the room, you're like, ooh, like. So they like my wife more than me. Like you got a good one. That's a good feeling though. Great feeling. At least you're not walking in and people like, God, his fucking wife sucks. Everyone's like obsessed with your wife. Yeah. That's cool. And I'm cool with it because I'm scared. You're like, yeah. I got the baddest shit in the room, baby. Yeah. She's gone. I like that. Next. Go ahead. Where are you going to say? Be like that sometimes. So sorry. I don't know. It's just happening. It's nice. It's nice. Yeah. She chose you. You're lucky. You're lucky. Yeah. We're lucky. Yeah. All right. My boyfriend is a huge believer in four play, but he sucks at going down on me. I don't want to make him feel bad or make him feel insecure, but I just can't keep pretending it's good. I've never had an orgasm from eating me out. What should I say? You got to see you're a woman. So you need to teach him how to do it. You need to teach him not to be so rough. There's more than like he's worth. See because these guys are not, you know, see, you got to know what she's doing down there. You know what I'm saying? You got to be, you got to kiss it. Be calm. Give it some couple of kisses, couple of smooches. Don't like dog. You're not eating a burger, my boy. I really want to tell him because you're disappointing. That's my boy. You got his down point, it's my boy. I know you asked me the question, but your boyfriend is tripping. You got to be nice and light on that thing. It's not to be, you're not being it up. Nice and light. But you got to tell him though because you got to teach him. Yeah, like even like, would you be insecure if the girl was like, oh my God, babe, I love when you eat me out. Like I want you to like go a little slower and like focus on like the clip, like go like this. Like that, like he's like lightly constructive and said like you fucking suck at eating box. Like yeah, you got to tell him the right way. Yeah. You see me, I always say this like when you have sex for the woman, it's to please her as a man. That's what blind men don't understand and they get it wrong. Like just because you can beat her down and fuck her all hard and shit. That don't really always like like you need to make your partner come. My brother, that's the whole part of it. Like it's not just about you and I feel like a lot of us men just feel like it's about us. And we like want to stroke our ego so we like, oh, and pussy. And that's not really what women like though. At a certain time, a certain place for it. Yeah, there's a certain time was hot, but it also it reminds me almost of like when men think fingering a woman is like the jackhammer. I'm like, I'm in pain. No, you can't do that. You got to be I see you see, but I'm going to keep it real. I have to get top the proper way to do it. You got to you got to be smooth down there, brother. Nice and cool and common collective to slower the better. It's not like a big like no, bro. And you got to focus on the clip. Uh-huh. The clip is the key to the to the to the to the to the to the to the to the to the mansion. I think some men are too focused on being like, I've watched so much porn. Like I want to get my girl to score and they think that is like you have to do that. And it's like I I'm in pain thinking about it. Yeah, like you got to please the woman, bro. It's not about you. A lot of men think of you about about them though. I got to show her this my first time. Fuck her. I got to show her like I'm that man. And no one cares. We don't want that. We need to give her the experience what she's shaking not because you beat her down is because you're like you know what to do. You know what a G-spider is. You know what it is. Words of wisdom from all of that. You're a boy. You're a truly man. Become her. You make ladies come fellas. Listen fellas. It's not about you, dog. You gonna get yours. Let her get hers first off. Box. Thank you. Generous. You have a penis. Now we need this. We need you to think with your penis on this one. Okay. My boyfriend hates when I give him head and says that what I'm doing just doesn't work for him. I have never gotten bad feedback, bad reviews, nothing from any of the guys I've ever been with. What should I be doing? No teeth. No matter how deep and how low you go. If you can't go too low, then don't go that low. Um. Sucking. Like don't suck my head off, baby. Like please. Like no noise is a plus with the liquid. The spit in the noise. The noise. The noise. Pause. Cause I wasn't supposed to make that noise. Oh, pause. But we needed. We need about for you today. Yeah. Like. Like, I'm gonna put it in the back of the side. It's a great key. Hands. Hands. We would rather the moisture come from the spit than you're like trying to smoke the wagon. Trying to smoke the wagon. When I say that, it's like you don't have a lot of spit on that thing. You're gripping, gripped pliers and you pulling up and, ah. You're a grunk bird. Ruck, we're not trying to go for that. We need, we need got got 3000. You know what the got got your ass? Yes. It's when your eyes tear up. Yeah. When you don't, when you want this thing, you should have tears in those eyes, baby. You should be crying to the dick. Uh huh. You got the cry to the dick, baby. Cause that's what lets you know you're a superb. It's all flowing. All flowing. The spit, the noise, the hands are twisting but it's not rug burn. They're moving. It's slipping slide. Yes. The action is going. If you want to suck it one time like it and make a noise, boom, do that. But like don't chew my shit down, man. I'm not trying to feel no teeth. Uh oh. Have you had your dick bitten before? Oh. Talk to me about it. Younger days, man. High school, man. Shit, that thing. You just be like, oh, hey, listen. That's cool. We don't get to the other shit. Let me just fuck you up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Just, just, just, just let me put it in. Cause you are munching on my shit. And then I always been. I always been the type to tell you like, yo. Vampire. Chill. We don't need the bikes, man. Cause that shit, that shit, that shit, that shit turning off, man. I might not even want to fuck out to that like, whoa. Too much of a horrible, oh. Side hip twist. Yeah, baby, you got you. We need to, we need to recruit, we need to be group and try this again another time. You know what's so funny of hearing you say that is the classic move of like, let's just fuck. I remember in high school, college all the time when guys couldn't eat me out. I'm like, okay, like, and you try to pull them up like, okay, like, wait, baby, just fuck. You didn't want to just fuck. We've been doing four play for like two fucking seconds. But you're literally like licking my belly button. That's not my clay. And so I'm like, all right, let me just pull you up, bro, cause it's just not working. That's when you actually should know that your shit. That your shit is bad. If someone's pulling you up like, let's just fuck. It's not cause they're eager to fuck. Well, you want sex to be enjoyable and long. So if someone's pulling you up, your shit's whack. It's just whack. And you just got a face to face. Stop using your fucking teeth. Stop munching on my shit. This is not a grilled cheese. You're like, oh. Get back. Oh, it'll jump. Get in the dark. You get that jump. Oh, oh. Hey. Stop. That's what I really want to do. Stop. I appreciate that. Okay, all the girls are now going to be like wearing like mouth guards and going in just like making sure no fucking teeth. Gums. All gum, baby. Gums, baby. We were moving on. We'll talk about your new album. Set it off. Congrats. Thank you. Talk to me about it. What's the vibe? Set it off, man. The vibe of the music is like very fine. A little serious here there, but I didn't want to, I felt like people was thinking I was going to go so serious because of the choice of your vest to have in my life recently. But I wanted to have fun. Like I said, I wanted to be free. Set it off title. It's just like set this bitch off like all the haters, all the whoever speculates. And it's like I'm going to show you how good I am who I am. And like I wanted the people to dive more into me as a person and like see my personality. That's why I did a lot of things. I did throughout this rollout. And this is like people know I'm cool, man. This album is a lot to me, man. I worked on this album for two and a half years. Went through legal and different problems and I'm happy with my project. Usually I'm not really like I'm like, I don't give a fuck with people. I feel like my shit fired. If you had to pick what's your favorite song on the album, I feel like every time I say that, like then everyone goes and listens to that one song. Like what's yours? Worth it. Worth it. I'm just number three, me and Donald Tylerburn. And it's a female vibe. So ladies. Oh. That's my audience. I'm on some play shit, baby. So it's like it's not no, it's not a trap, a turnt record. It's a vibe. Like as soon as you turn it on, you're going to fuck with it. I guarantee you. Well, it's listening to the one with Travis. Dope. I saw the music video. Really dope. Was that in Thailand? Yeah. Freaky is really good too. Delicy also. It's fire. I mean anything with your wife is also dope. Fire. It's not real work together on shit. Yeah, hell yeah, cause we always do have a fun when we do our shit. It'll never be serious. It's not. It's always like we try and be lit, we lit this studio, had a couple of drinks. Let's go in. That's fun. That's really fun. Obviously this is your second solo album. Yeah. What has been the most rewarding thing of crafting your own image? My own creation, my own creative, my own creative vision being actually, to be serious, I have my own team, like everybody on my team understands the language I speak. And it's like my control of everything. I get to control everything. I don't want to be a troll free, but I get to control everything. I feel like some people don't just be getting it or scared to take their extra mile or won't get out of the box. They're uncomfortable with that with me. I want to challenge myself, watch a lot of film. I've been shooting my own, all my music videos have been shot by me and directed by me and even the staff hired by me, everything. So being able to do that, because I'm passionate about that shit. That's so dope that you're that hands on, because I feel like you can kind of tell with creators, like who's on their shit and who just showed up, did their lines and got the fuck out. I feel like you can feel that from this album. Last question. People that are watching today, yeah, I feel like we haven't seen that much of your personality before this. And I think it's dope that you're like starting to like open up more. But if people are becoming a fan today, what do you want them to take away from this interview? But first and foremost, you know, I don't be doing interviews, right? Secondly, it's like, I'm giving you an open jar of me so accepted. Like, this ain't no like trying to be cool. I'm not telling her to edit shit out. I'm not telling her. I'm just being raw right now. I'm telling her, like, don't talk about this. Don't do this. Yeah. I'm like, I want you to know as much as possible so you could dive more into me as a person away from the music too. Like, because it's not just about the music. It's about to all around. I would like you to be like, damn, he's just a cool person. Like, that makes me, that makes me feel good. Yeah. Because I shadowed myself so long, we're like, not really talking and like, that's boring as fuck. You know what I'm saying? And I don't want people to think I'm boring. I'm actually funny as fuck. And like, I respect you. And what you do. Thank you. And the lights you bring because you got the ladies and y'all what matters. This is what people don't understand if the women running this shit. That's why you think, why do you think women running music, think it's a coincidence? It's because women support more than men do. Facts. Facts. Women support. They believe when you go all the way, even with hiccups. Yeah. And I fuck with that. Offset. You are always welcome back here because I appreciate everything you said. And you are really fucking cool. Like you're fun hang. I'm excited that I got to get to know you better today because like, I don't know what to expect. Obviously when you sit down like, I don't, you know, I see you online. I'm like, I don't know. You're dope. You're really cool and you're good hang and you're funny. You're good too, man. You don't make your shit feel like no fucking questionnaire shit. You'll shit feel like we just have a good conversation. And it's like, and it's like a vibe. The setting of the room means a lot. It's not just in a fucking white fucking wall. I appreciate the player. You got some taste with this furniture too. I like what you do. I like how you do this. I'm like, I'm a fuck with the decor. That's the type of shit I like to detail. That's kind of cute. You got some good books up here. Uh-huh. You got pussypedia behind you. Oh, pussypedia. I guess a merch. Oh, I got some merch for you. Yeah. I'll get you some of my merch. Oh, yeah, I have my merch out, ladies. Oh. It's duid denim tears. It's with the album. You can get it on offset tears.com. He's plugged in. He's plugged in. Make sure y'all go get this set it off album Friday the 13th. Ladies, I need your support. I love you guys. Without you guys, we are nothing. I'm going to be the one to say it. And I don't got no pride and I don't give a fuck. We down here. Y'all love here. Bring us up there with y'all, ladies. I love y'all. I put three females on my album, which is Chloe Bailey Lotto and my wife. I have like five female joints on there because I didn't want to leave you out. I feel like a lot of times we leave you out. Thank you for the help. Thank you for the help. Thank you for the help. I want you to be able to be in your mirror doing your makeup and then put your hand down and move your hand and you look beautiful with my song in the background. I love that. I love that. Ladies, you want to dance? Do it. Get to it, baby. Your nails get done. You want to flip the camera on you. Banging, shoulder and people. Them fired nails you just got. That offset, set it off in the background. I love that. And I will see it because I'm on my TikTok. I'm on my Instagram. I will see it and like it that is not somebody working my shit. I like to be hands on. Love y'all. I love, look at you knowing TikTok being like, let me tell you guys how to make your videos. Offset. Thank you so much for coming on. This was so fucking dope. This was like five. Thank you. Thank you. Dude, that was. 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