Reading Glasses

Ep 447 - Queernorm Books and How to Schedule Library Holds!

33 min
Jan 29, 20263 months ago
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Summary

Reading Glasses hosts discuss the 2026 Reading Glasses Challenge's first category: queer norm books (LGBTQIA+ characters in worlds where queerness is normalized, not a source of conflict). They recommend Paladin's Grace by T. Kingfisher and The Library of the Unwritten, and provide advice on managing library holds to balance borrowed and owned books.

Insights
  • Queer norm books serve as escapist comfort reading during periods of social and political stress, offering representation without marginalization narratives
  • Book banning and challenges are directly impacting publisher acquisition decisions for queer YA and middle-grade titles, creating a market gap that readers can support
  • Community vetting of queer norm titles is essential since the category isn't consistently marketed by publishers, relying on reader recommendations across platforms
  • Library hold management requires intentional curation—limiting simultaneous holds prevents overwhelming reading queues and allows owned books to get attention
  • Reading challenges function as motivation tools even for participants who don't complete them, expanding reading horizons and encouraging genre exploration
Trends
Growing demand for queer norm fiction across all genres (romance, sci-fi, fantasy, horror) as distinct from queer-focused narrativesPublishers becoming risk-averse with queer YA/middle-grade content due to book ban campaigns, creating opportunity for indie and established authorsIncreased visibility of sapphic hockey romance as a subgenre, driven by mainstream adaptation success (Heated Rivalry TV series on Max)Reader-driven categorization and discovery replacing traditional publisher marketing for niche reading preferencesAudiobook consumption patterns differ from print reading, requiring format-specific adjustments (playback speed, listening context)Library apps (Libby) creating behavioral patterns where free access drives reading prioritization over owned collectionsQueer representation in sports fiction gaining mainstream crossover appeal beyond traditional LGBTQIA+ audience segmentsAnnual reading challenges sustaining multi-year listener engagement and community participation despite low completion rates
Topics
Queer Norm Books Definition and DiscoveryLGBTQIA+ Representation in Young Adult and Middle Grade PublishingBook Banning and Censorship Impact on Publisher AcquisitionLibrary Hold Management and Reading Queue PrioritizationSapphic Hockey Romance SubgenreAudiobook Format Preferences and Consumption PatternsReading Challenge Mechanics and MotivationEscapist Fiction During Political StressCommunity-Driven Book Recommendations and VettingT. Kingfisher Fantasy and Horror WorksHeated Rivalry Adaptation and Cultural ImpactLibby and Library App Usage PatternsQueer Representation in Sports FictionAuthor Mental Health and Book Banning EffectsReading Wheelhouse Curation and Genre Preferences
Companies
Green Chef
Meal delivery service sponsor offering customizable recipes, organic produce, and sustainability features.
Book Riot
Book recommendation platform where listeners can find queer norm book lists and reading challenge recommendations.
Goodreads
Book discovery platform mentioned as resource for finding queer norm book recommendations and community reviews.
Libby
Library app discussed extensively regarding hold management strategies and reading prioritization challenges.
Max
Streaming service hosting the Heated Rivalry television adaptation, driving mainstream interest in hockey romance.
People
Mallory O'Meara
Co-host and author; passionate about hockey romance and queer norm fiction; provides book recommendations and reading...
Bria Grant
Co-host and filmmaker; discusses reading habits, library management strategies, and queer norm book selections.
Louise Kennedy
Author of 'Trespasses' and 'The End of the World is a Cul-de-sac'; praised for literary fiction with introspective na...
Layla Taylor
Author of 'Sick Houses, Haunted Homes, and the Architecture of Dread'; nonfiction work on architecture and fear.
T. Kingfisher
Fantasy and horror author; 'Paladin's Grace' recommended as queer norm fantasy with romance and humor.
Samantha Irby
Writer and creator involved with 'And Just Like That' reboot; mentioned for comedic writing contributions.
Diana Biller
Friend of show; co-watching 'Designing Women' with Mallory post-breakup; friend of the show.
Quotes
"Queer people, LGBTQIA plus folks in general, they have to be normal in this world, not marginalized. So it doesn't have to be cozy, but it means that whatever the conflict of the story is, it doesn't have to do with queerness."
Bria GrantQueer norm definition segment
"Everything is bad. Queer folks, especially trans people, are under attack in many parts of the world right now. And while reading can be about expanding your understanding, widening your empathy and learning, which we all love, it can also be a comfort in escape."
Mallory O'MearaChallenge rationale
"You got to pump the brakes. Only put books that you are wicked pumped about on hold. Cause I used to just any book I was even passingly curious about, I would put on hold. Can't do that anymore."
Mallory O'MearaLibrary hold advice
"Heated Rivalry is the real deal. It is truly we love the book. We love the show. From a like deep deep hockey nerd the hockey checks out."
Mallory O'MearaHockey romance recommendation
"We have to love it even harder and squeeze it until all the bigots get out. That's how it works, right? Squeeze the bigots out."
Mallory O'MearaHockey community engagement
Full Transcript
you're listening to reading glasses the show about book culture and literary life designed to help you read better i'm author and book devourer mallory o'meara and i'm brie grant filmmaker and e-reader in this episode we're taking off the first box on the 2026 reading glasses glasses challenge read a queer norm book we're gonna get into what that is so stay tuned Plus, we give some advice on scheduling library holds and recommending queer hockey books, which obviously this is a popular subject. And Mallory has a lot of opinions. It might be the only subject right now. But first, Bria, what are you reading? I'm reading a book that you recommended. And I've been reading it for like six months on and off. It's been kind of like my morning like nonfiction book that I pick up because, do you know my New Year's resolution was to not sleep next to my phone? Yeah. That's my New Year's resolution. So because of that, I don't get up and look at my phone first thing. but I do wake up usually before my alarm. So I'm like, what am I going to do? And then I, so I've been reading this nonfiction book in the morning. I'm reading Sick Houses, Haunted Homes, and the Architecture of Dread by Layla Taylor. Yes, it is so good. It's so good that I recommended one of my writing partners. We're working on a horror movie and I was like, you have to read this book. Like it's very like, it has a lot to do with like what we're writing. But it's, so she goes into, I mean, Mallory already talked about it on the show, so I won't get into it too much. But basically it's a nonfiction book about haunted houses and architecture and the way we view fear and otherness and all sorts of things through architecture. Like the part that really stood out for me is she talked about the Winchester Mystery House. Oh, yeah. And how we view that as like, oh, it's a woman who was trying to communicate with the dead and blah, blah, blah. Not true. But really, yeah, the real story behind that is that she was actually a woman just really interested in architecture. Sure. You may have told the same story on the show. So stuff like that, but then also going into like films and like, you know, like, like, Haunted House is in films and what makes them scary versus like ones and like what people do within the films to kind of play on our cultural understandings of fear. It's just a really fascinating book. And I love it. I feel like I'm learning so much by reading it. Anyways, fantastic. I am really enjoying it. What are you reading? I am reading a short story collection. so a couple of years ago there was one of my best books of the year was a book called Trespasses by Louise Kennedy and I am reading her short story collection it's called The End of the World is a Cul-de-sac and it is so great but Bria this book is so depressing it's one of those I've been reading one story a day and I will say it is such a language book it's like 15 different stories of like the interior lives of women well there's a couple about men but like very like It's very literary, very like interior lives of people, but it's sad as fuck. It's just like it's very, very sad, but it's so beautifully written. So if you are a language reader and you like very like introspective stories of it's a lot of like people who have made the wrong choices in life and are kind of reflecting on that. And it's, again, not a happy subject, but it's so well written, which is why I have not been blowing through it. I'm like, all right, one story a night. so it's worth reading but you have to kind of space it out and I'm really enjoying it which is a weird thing to say about such a sad book so that is The End of the World is a Cul-de-sac by Louise Kennedy and I'm reading Sick Houses by Leila Taylor so I want to take a moment to share some listener feedback Amanda wrote in to say hi Bri and Mallory as always thanks for the wonderful podcast it brings me great joy and companionship I had a few things I wanted to share every time Mallory closes the show with the bit about purchases in the void merch store helping to feed our hungry cats i imagine a giant magic dispenser in your respective homes upon which a huge lever is cranked by an unseen forest dropping a scoop of cat food into the bowls every time a purchase is made from the void merch store it's so stupid but it springs to mind every time i'm i think maybe we do need to rig this up i think sailor and lula would really love that i think the cats would really enjoy that yeah it sounds like a great way to feed cats honestly this is a new invention wow i'm literally i'm drinking out of my void merch we're doing video today but this is i'm drinking on my book slot nice mug yeah amanda continues to say i bought early drinks on audiobook thank you and was enjoying it but felt something was off i love mallory's voice but couldn't figure out why i couldn't get into his own listening then i solved it i needed to increase the speed to 1.25 so it sounded more like mallory from the podcast that's the thing i've talked about this on the show before when you do an audiobook they have you speak very slowly and enunciate every single thing so it doesn't read that's why whenever i listen to an author reading their own book i increase the speed to make it sound more more like them yeah amanda says i love the reading glasses challenges every year while i have yet to actually complete one it still helps me try new things and read things i would not have otherwise tried i don't like the pressure of having to complete a list of tasks for something recreational but I still love the challenge so much and participate in my own way as it has enriched my reading life so much. Thanks again for all the joy you bring to the bookish world. Amanda, thank you so much. And I can't remember if we already announced this on the show, but we, the winners were chosen for the 2025 glasses, glasses, glasses challenge. We're having the zoom meeting with them soon. I'm very excited about it. And thank you to everyone who participated, even if you didn't finish. Thanks for playing along. Yeah. Megan wrote in and said, hi, Brie and Mallory. I was recently listening to your discussion about visualizing when you're reading. It's always amazing for me to hear people talk about how they see books like movies in their heads when they read because I'm the exact opposite. I can tell you how an author describes a character. It's not like I've forgotten, but in order to see it in my mind, I have to try really hard and usually just end up imagining an actor or someone who mostly matches the description. Reading a book for me is almost like remembering something that happened a while ago. It's like, it's there already in my brain and I know it rather than see it. Okay. That makes sense. I also don't sub vocalize, which I suspect is connected. I don't hear the words in my brain when I read. And if I force it, I have a much harder time understanding, following the plot and remembering very much. My partner and I have a lot of discussions about this. He's also a big reader. And it's our go to conversation starter for parties. We suspect that part of the reason might be in the way that we learn slash learned how to read. I didn't learn phonetically and he did and he visualizes when he reads. I read in large chunks of text, almost like skimming, not exactly in words. Incidentally, this makes listening to audiobooks a totally different experience than reading words on a page. It took a lot of work to train my brain to log or understand audiobooks as books and not lump them with other audio media like podcasts or radio. Mallory, I know you asked what it's like for those of us who don't see things, and I hope this helped. It did. Or maybe it made it more confusing. Who knows? It's hard to explain your brain when it's yours. No, this makes sense. It does make sense, actually. And I think I, like, hearing this out loud, I kind of sometimes do the same thing. Like, I don't know if I have a specific picture of what a lot of people look like in my head. Like I have a general sense, but it's not like I know like specifically what like, you know, Katniss looks like. You know, well, I do because of the movie, but yeah, it's interesting. I don't know if I would make it up on my own. So interesting. She finishes by saying, join in the choir for all the good work you do. It always makes me happy when reading glasses comes up in my queue. Do you want to read Megan's Wheelhouse? Yes. Horror by Latina authors, niche histories on architecture and or urban planning. Well, you should read Bria's book this week. Listen. Yeah. Very good. Fantasy that goes hard with the infrastructure of a world like politics and religion and feminist art critique. Thank you so much, Megan. You can email us at reading glasses podcast at gmail.com. If you want a list of all the books we talk about on the show delivered to your inbox every month, you can sign up for our newsletter. There's a link in the show notes. And before we talk about finding queer norm books, we're going to take a quick break. Reading Glasses is brought to you in part this week by Green Chef. Green Chef, who offers over 40 customizable weekly recipes designed to give you peace of mind. Bria, tell us all about Green Chef. Peace of mind? More like piece of cake. It's a food box. 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You hand somebody a yardstick, yardsticks become part of the family. Granted, it's a weird idea, but it's lots of fun and it works. Listen wherever you get podcasts. this week we're ticking off the first box the very first we're breaking ground on the 2026 reading glasses challenge mallory has a way of saying this week that is you know what people have written in and commented about it and i never this week it's also the loudest thing you it's like you're those two words i don't know why you're screaming them at me people i never knew realized that i did it until someone wrote in and now i can't ever unhear it when i'm listening to the show back it's i don't know what it is it's just i'm gonna start out i'm gonna start out strong with things yeah yeah it's it's like you're really gearing up for you know what i appreciate getting a running this for eight years and you're still coming in with a lot of energy. We had nine years. Okay, don't tell me that. That's too long. That's too long of my adult life. That's your whole adult life. That's as long as you've been an adult. Basically. You're doing this podcast your whole adult life. I guess I've been doing reading glasses for almost a third of my life. That's what... Yeah, that's wild. And it's a fourth. It's like almost a fourth of mine. So. Oh, my Lord. Yeah. Wild. OK. So how do you complete this part of the show? We're breaking new ground by reading a queer norm book. How do you complete this part of the challenge? Which books are we choosing? And most importantly, how can this improve your reading life, especially if this is one third of your life that you've been talking about books? So, Rhea, kick us off with the rules. Okay, we know you love rules because we've been talking to you for nine years. This is, it is queer norm book. Okay, so it doesn't matter the genre, but it's a book in the world of the book that we're talking about. Queer people, LGBTQIA plus folks in general, they have to be normal in this world, not marginalized. So it doesn't have to be cozy, but it means that whatever the conflict of the story is, it doesn't have to do with queerness. So homophobia is not a big key point in the book. It's just being queer is a part of the society in the novel. That's where it is. So that's how we define queer norm, which is a new sort of category. We did an episode on it last year, and it's cool to see this category pop up, and I think a lot of our listeners are really responding to it. Yes, people are looking for escape. So speaking of, we put this on the challenge because everything is bad. Queer folks, especially trans people, are under attack in many parts of the world right now, And while reading can be about expanding your understanding, widening your empathy and learning, which we all love, it can also be a comfort in escape, which is great. And this is a reminder that you do not have to stand in front of the fire hose of diarrhea that our society, at least here in America, is right now. Don't. Oh, that's the grossest image. Thank you, I'm a writer. What? What in the fuck? A fire hose of diarrhea? How else could you explain the news right now? please never say that again okay i will never say it again i will retire the first and only time i will use this metaphor but we will we want you to know that it's oh you don't have to marinate in it it's okay to temporarily escape to a world where the problems are werewolves or evil aliens but not bigots and i just i want to this is not in our outline but i wanted to include a little missive from authors against book bans some a little concerning piece of news is that there's something that's going on right now where queer authors especially queer YA and middle grade authors are actually having a hard time selling their books right now because there's so many book bans there's so many challenges against queer books that editors are afraid to buy to to buy queer novels for young adults and kids because they're afraid that it's going to get challenged and they won't be able to sell them in stores and schools. So now is a real, if you were thinking, if you're thinking about buying some queer middle grade and YA books, now is a wicked good time. Yeah, yeah. So how do we, Bria, how do we find queer norm books? Well, this has become a category over the last, we found that there's more and more people using this as a term. So it's something you can actually just search for on library websites, on sites like Book Riot, Goodreads, BookTube, BookTalk, anywhere you go that you get your recs, you can actually find a lot of Queer Norm titles. I even went Book Riot. This was on their Read Harder Challenge last year or the year before. Yeah, I think so. So they have a bunch of recommendations. And there's a lot. You can do romance. You can do sci-fi, horror, fantasy, ministry. You can do literary fiction. I mean, you're going to find Queer Norm in all of the categories that you would normally read. And what's interesting for me about this category of book is that someone has to read it first. Yes. I mean, I think it's becoming an advertised thing more, but it is still we're kind of relying on community. Like, hey, there's no homophobia in this one. So I feel like that that's kind of an interesting thing, too, where the book has been vetted, which is sort of nice. Yes. It's like it's a community decision, which I appreciate. Truly. And remember, just because a book is queer does not mean that it is queer norm. It's a lot, as you know, if you listen to the show, there's a lot of queer books out there, but it does not mean that it is queer norm. So you can't search for queer romance, queer fantasy, queer sci-fi. It's got to be queer norm. They're two very different things. All right. What are we doing for this part of the challenge? Bria, what are you reading? Okay. Well, I was like, I'm just going to happen across a book like this. I'm just going to accidentally read one. I'll be wandering in a field and one day a book will cross paths with me. that it's like, right. That it's like, Oh, and this character also is bi or whatever. And I'm like, okay, great. Um, but they're also fighting aliens. So like that kind of comes into my life It it seeps into my life regardless But then I was like that not how to do a challenge I have to go out of my way to like find a book So I actually I think I used the book riot recommendations. I think that's what I used, but I saw that the library of the unwritten is on a few lists and I've been looking at it for a while. So I thought maybe this is what I need to actually read it. It's been my, on my TBR. That's the beauty of a reading challenge. Yeah, that is the beauty and it makes it encouraged me to read it. What are you doing? I'm going to read, finally, Paladin's Grace by T. Kingfisher. You know we love her horror so much on this show, but I think I've only read one of her fantasy books. So this kind of feels overdue. And I know this is a queer norm fantasy book that's funny. And there's romance. And there's gods. And I can't wait. This is a very highly... When I was doing some research on this, people just love this fucking book. So I'm really excited about it. And again, things are so grim right now. I'm excited to escape into a little queer norm fantasy book with a bumbling paladin who falls in love with somebody. Sounds fucking great. So you can send your thoughts to reading glasses, podcast at gmail.com. Tell us what you're reading for this challenge. We'd love to hear what queer norm books people are checking out. And before we give out some book tech advice on scheduling library holds, we're going to take a quick break. Hey, Hey, it's Sue the Subway Train. Hey, guess what, Sue? I just inherited a game show, and I have to continue it because there are people out there who like to curl up into a ball and listen to it. Yeah, it's a podcast where listeners submit game show ideas for others to play on air. Well, it is. In fact, the dumber the better. Right, right, it's called Dr. Game Show. Some curled up balls consider it a tradition, while others call it a train wreck. No, not you, Sue. It's Dr. Game Show. If you're the sort that likes to listen to people competing for refrigerator magnets, then curl up into a ball and listen to Dr. Game Show every other Wednesday at MaximumFun.org. Time to solve a bookish problem from one of our listeners. Hello, Mallory and Bria. Thank you so much for our great podcast. I have learned so much by listening and really honed my wheelhouse, resulting in even more books read per year than even my book-hungry elementary school self could boast. My question is this. I usually use my library or Libby to consume books I am interested in or are on my TBR list. But on a rare occasion that I am really excited for a book because of reviews or recs and it seems to check all of my wheelhouse boxes or I have a gift card, I will buy a print copy. But because my library books have due dates, this is going to be very relevant for Bria Grant, I end up almost always reading slash listening to library books first in order to return them on time and then while I'm returning them pick up more than I had on hold thus repeating the cycle this leaves a lot of very anticipated books still closed on my shelves because I know I will have them forever do you have any advice on how to better schedule my reads so that I stay on top of my library books but I'm still able to own books that are likely to become favorites without them becoming shelf sitters thank you triage reader in Connecticut Bria what do you think this glasser should do this is a problem it's a problem for me it's a common problem I I like a schedule. I like a due date. A due date really keeps me motivated. And for the longest time, I took turns between a library book and what I owned. But at some point, I was like, I'm just going to do the library books first because I would get so many. And like, it's just, it got hard. So I do understand this. This is a big problem for me too. I think what you have to do is get less books from the library. That's what has helped me and like space them out. So if I don't have a due date, I don't have to worry about it. and I can be like, oh, I have a book from the library, but it's not due for like 20 days or 15 days or even like a week. And I'm like, okay, I can hold off on this and read something else. It is hard because they are free and it's right there. So it's easy to get a whole bunch and hoard them and like get as many as you like. It does feel like supermarket sweep when you're on Libby. Yeah. But if you, I've noticed that if I have less on my account, like instead of 15, I have like, you know, five from the library, then the pressure doesn't feel as great to be, to read those and I can go back to the ones that I have purchased. that sort of has been my solution to this. Cause I hear you. I, I rely on those. That's the due date is the only thing that motivates me. Um, what do you, what do you, what do you have for this person? Uh, well, first off, I want to say triage reader. I like Bria have been there. I also want to say how much I love when people write in with little titles like this instead of names. It makes it seem like, it makes it seem like we're fancy advice columnists. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's very dear. What's her name? Abby. What's her name? Dear Abby. Okay. Dear Abby. or I was going to say it makes me feel like we're sex in the city. Like we're, isn't Sarah Jessica Parker a writer in that? I've never seen sex. Have you never seen sex in the city? You've never seen it. Do I seem like somebody who would watch sex in the city? You know what? You'd be surprised you watched the show. In the 90s, there was nothing to watch. Okay. So we all watched the same shows. It was Twin Peaks. That's the show that I've been watching over and over for 15 years. We all watched the same shows. Sex in the city came on before the L word. So my friends and I in college, we would watch sex in the city and then the L word together. Like back to back. and were either of them good? Some of them were good sometimes, but they had a lot of great clothes. So we were into that. You know, I'm bad at TV though. And I just like the only 90s show I can really think that I just watch Twin Peaks over and over again. Well, you're into Golden Girls now. No, I've never seen Golden Girls. Oh, Designing Women. Oh, right. But that's from the 80s. First of all, I gotta tell you, Golden Girls is really good. Just so you know, it's way better than you think it's gonna be. It's really funny. I think Golden Girls is probably really good, but I've been watching ever since my breakup, my dear friend, Diana Biller, friend of the show. We've been doing Designing Women Days, which has been amazing. And I bought some shoulder pads because of this show. But that's from the 80s. Okay. If I like Designing Women, will I like Sex and the City? No. Not necessarily. But I do think you would be intrigued. I don't know if you'd like Sex and the City, actually. I think you'd be kind of like... Can't wait. I can feel... What's that, Bria? That's the sound of 2,000 emails flying towards us about Sex and the City? Folks, I'm not shit-talking Sex and the city. I've never seen it. I just, you know, I'm really bad with TV and mostly I just like weird, weird TV shows, but I'm open to it. Please do not get mad at me. I've never seen sex in the city. I'm sex in the city neutral. Anyway, triage reader, this happens to me all the time. You got to break the cycle like Bria said. So I'm going to, I'm going to give you some, some advice on managing that whole list. You got to pump the brakes. This is what I do. And hopefully this helps you only put books that you are wicked pumped about on hold. Uh, cause I used to just any book I was even passingly curious about, I would put on hold. Yeah. Can't do that anymore. What you do is you put them on a Libby or a library list and then you have a list of books that you're interested in, but don't put them on hold. It's just like, or you can even write them down, write them on a little piece of paper, write them, keep a note notes app on your phone, whatever it is, put them somewhere so you don't forget them, but don't put them on hold. It's so easy to go buck wild. And then you get overwhelmed and it really disrupts your bookish balance. I see all the time in the Discord, people are like, oh my God, 10 of my holds just came in. I don't know what to do. You got to just put only the stuff, because if you do that one, like Bria said, there will not be as many coming in and you will feel less pressure. But the ones that come in, you will remember and be really excited to read and you will get to. And then you can have a little bit more balance. so if you have tips on how to manage this if you have thoughts if you have a pitch for me to watch sex in the city please you can send them to reading glass or you have a send your top sex in the city episode to Mallory oh my god I think I could recommend one or two that would be like this is kind of worth watching well doesn't Samantha write Samantha Irby writes it now well that got that show got canceled and that was in just like that which is a different iteration of the show that people kind of hate watched but honestly I liked it too I liked I liked it You know we love Samantha Irby Come at me with that People didn like it but I thought it was great And Samantha Irby there was some funny shit on that show Wow. I'm not apologizing. I'm not going to like what I like. I cannot wait to get the email. I'm canceling my MaxFun subscription because I love Sex and the City. Because one of you likes it and one of you hasn't seen it. People, I'm not even exaggerating. We get emails like that. But if you have a reader problem or if you have a Sex and the City episode you want me to check out, you can send it to readingglassespodcast.gmail.com. Now let's answer a recommendation request from Helen who says, I was recommending the Check, Please! webcomic to a colleague I just learned is a hockey player. And she said, I want more hockey romances where women are the hockey players and followed with queer hockey romances too, to which I thought I've never heard a more Mallory question in my entire life. And I burst through the wall like the fucking Kool-Aid man. head to toe in hockey merch. So Helen says, so sending it in. I did tell her it might be a while. You are all super popular. Thanks for a great pod and all the recs. Brea, you want to read Helen's Wheelhouse even though it does not have to do with this question? Absolutely. Yes. Young adult fantasy that is a secret in this world. Anti-capitalist speculative fiction. Queer coming of age. Funny memoirs about dark topics. Celebrity memoirs about people I don't know anything about. Honestly, great wheelhouse. All right, Bria, we have to talk about, it's not the elephant in the room. It's the air in the room. It's the only thing anybody's talking about. It's the only thing we're breathing. I mean, when did this come in? Recently? Yeah. A few months ago, I think. I mean, it's within the last few months. That's recent for us. We get, people don't realize. The question is, is it before or after the heated rivalry phenomenon? That's the question. Before. And I appreciate this glasser being like, this might take a while. But we tried to get to this one in a timely fashion because, I mean, the thing about heated rivalry is that, yes, it is the only thing anyone cares about anymore. And it's for good reason. It's like, I understand. Yeah, okay, so heated rivalry is our suggestion. For my suggestion for this. Because I don't have hockey romances. It's your first, yeah, it's your first suggestion. It's my first suggestion. Tell the people. It's my only hockey book. It's my only hockey book. Okay, if you don't know what heated, okay, well, we're talking around it. I don't know why we need to say what it is. we have an entire episode discussion on it on our other show called greeting smut it's about two hockey players on different teams and um they're the two like best top players and they secretly fall in love and it's not two women obviously this person was interested in more two women but this is it is queer um and they have to keep it a secret because they're on they don't want to come out because it's the hockey world is deeply homophobic in the hockey world and also they're they're they're major rivals. And it takes place over the course of many years. And it's so romantic. And obviously they made a hit show about it that's on Max right now. And literally my friends from college just texted me last night and someone was like, okay, I don't know why I haven't watched He Did Rivalry just now, but now I watched the whole thing in like a night and now I'm reading the book. And everyone's like, oh yeah, of course you got to watch it. And this is a, you know, a group of people who have all, you know, queer, straight. It's like a full spectrum there. And so I think even if you're looking for any kind of hockey content, I actually think this is a great romance to read. I loved it. I loved every minute of it. Sometimes things get really popular and it's fun to hate like, to be contrarian about them and to be suspicious of something that is so popular. He did Rivalry is the real deal. It is truly we love the book. We love the show. From a like deep deep hockey nerd the hockey checks out as we talk about it on the show go listen to our episode but yeah recommend this to to your co-worker and then i am going to read out my my gay hockey tbr so so i have not read any of these books but i'm going to me and your co-worker are going to go on a journey together and these are all sapphic hockey romances and i have three of them amazing so and again if you listen to the show you know i am the hockeyest hockey nerd i have dumped hockey romances because the hockey is not that good she literally has pucks for eyes right now folks truly pucks for eyes like coralline but just like pucks pucks honestly would love it um and i uh we they were i was getting booed during the heated rivalry episode because there are some moments and heated rivalry where i'm like okay yeah they're fucking but who won the game what was the score like the hockey really matters to me so that's something that i'll be be looking for in these books and the first one is wake up nat and darcy by kate cochran and this is two ex-hockey players they are they are both retired and they were rivals turned lovers turned enemies turned lovers again and they are these two retired hockey players hosting the u.s winter games coverage trying to not to fall back in love again and this just sounds so fucking fun i love i've i don't think i've ever read a book that was rivals lovers enemies lovers and yeah that's impressive yeah i am i'm i'm very excited for this and um u.s winter games or i i love olympic hockey as well so i'm excited to oh that's olympic olympic is the u.s winter games yeah so I'm excited for some like non PWHL NHL hockey my second one is like a power play by Ellie Sprinkle which I'm assuming is a pseudonym otherwise Ellie Sprinkle why are you not owning a bakery why are you writing books do you think it's L or Ellie Ellie Miss Sprinkle so this is a sapphic college hockey romance so it's the captain of the team and the new student coach with secrets so we love that And then the third one is Love Pucked by Emily Silver, which is sapphic pro hockey players. It is a coach and a player who are definitely not allowed to date each other, which always goes exactly according to plan. So I'll put these in the show notes. It's wake up Nat and Darcy, like a power play and love pucked. I'm really excited for these. And if they just kiss just to make sure they don't want to date, maybe that will work. It's fine. If you just kiss a little bit, that never turns into anything. Just to make sure that it's not going to work and just get it out of their system. Just do a little kiss. The let's get it out of our systems trope honestly is so fun to me. But yeah, I honestly, I'm over the fucking moon. So many people are getting into hockey. So many people are going into hockey games. So many people are checking out hockey romances. She still has not got me to go to one yet, though. I've still not made it to a hockey game. We tried to. We tried to. But you were busy that night. But I'm going to get you to a game. Folks, a lot of people are getting into hockey right now, and they're discovering that the hockey world is very homophobic. This is how we fight it. By getting into it. Don't let it scare you off. We have to love it even harder and squeeze it until all the bigots get out. That's how, that's how it works, right? Squeeze the bigots out. Squeeze, squeeze them out. That's, I guess what, that's what this whole episode is about really. So you can send your recommendation request to reading glasses, podcast at gmail.com. As always, I want to thank the wonderful mods who run our discord server and our Facebook group. Remember you can buy reading glasses, tote bags and shirts and stickers in our void merge store. Sailor right is, is right next to me waiting for his, his, uh, the lever to crank and a bunch of food to tinkle down. into his bowl. There's a link in the show notes for that. And if you like the show, please rate and review us on the podcast listening app of your choice. 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