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Then you don't really love them or you got this wall of protection wall up or it's just something physical. this is the taking over the game all right everybody welcome to truth after dark do you think that men or women are more toxic Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to another episode of The Truth After Dark. I'm your host, Azar Faraday. Your boy, The Truth, Paul Pierce. What's happening? What's happening? How are you feeling? I'm good. How you doing? I'm cool. I'm all right. What's what's up? What's what's up? Yeah. Talk to me. What's on tap today? What's on tap is just something that I want to touch on first and foremost that's been happening in our community so often is like people need to like mental health has been a real issue these days you know i just lost somebody to suicide but this is the third person i've lost to suicide that's my friend not including like family uh my best friend shot himself in the head when we were 17 you know i've and then my friend just shot himself in the head the other day and so then i just seen like a few more people like an NFL player, this person. People are killing themselves. They say that the rate in which people are killing themselves, especially black men, is at the all-time high. You think a lot of that has to do with social media and the pressures of like, because I think now as a community, we're dealing with way more pressures, and we pay attention to it. If you look at a high school kid and somebody's bashing them online, they don't know who it is. And it's like like it's so many different ways to attack people. And it messes with your mental, especially at a young age. And if you're constantly dealing for that for years, the build up of it, it's just like, man. So I think that a lot of that stuff has to go back toward the home and how you control. How do you control that part of someone's life? Because I think social media has a lot to do with it. Yeah, I mean, I will say that we have an overload of information online more than ever. And I feel like less people are connecting with nature or touching grass or living in the present moment. And there's a lot of comparison. And I always say comparison is the thief of joy. You go online, you see everybody doing this or everybody doing that. And it just gets to a point where some people are overwhelmed by that and they just feel like they don't want to live anymore. I also feel like we're in a state where we're more connected than ever, but more alone than ever. Being isolated is a big thing in this generation because we're so connected via the Internet. It's less interaction. It's less people saying, let's meet up. Let's go outside. Let's go to the movies. Let's go here. Let's go there. Because you can sit here and see a whole world in the palm of your hands. So you're less likely to interact, especially the younger generation. they're so connected via the internet but they're so not so isolated so we're connected more than ever but we're disconnected more than ever too and everything is just like at the tap of your finger and you can do this and you can do that and people were now seeking validation more than ever via the internet you know like oh i'm feeling sad i'm gonna go on the internet and do this but then as soon as that's gone then you feel empty again you know and i feel like we just have lost sight of community and connection in real life and living in the present moment too yeah there's more pressure on younger people at a young i mean you know younger people than it has been before yeah for sure because when you didn't have no worries no cell phones and everybody was outside enjoyed the little things in life yeah it's different it's different now so when you look at your peers you look at kids your age and cyberbullying and all of those things it's just like damn so how as a parent do you control that with your kids how do you limit that access to social media until what age because actually when you when you think about the people are older come in suicide but it's i think it's the build-up from childhood and the social media error that gets to them the pressures of the world is more than ever because of what we read and what we see from other people that's not real stuff that's not real that's affecting us and you know what else it is is like people go through breakups and stuff and then you go to their instagram and they look so happy and they're posting like they're living their best life and then you see them with a new person and see them in a new relationship and it's all this stuff when you don't really know how someone's really feeling on the inside but it can look like that while you're in the bed depressed you go and see oh this person like i deal with friends right now that are going through breakups and they're depressed and they're in the bed every day and they go look at the person's instagram and they're out living their best life and they look like nothing has fazed them and they're posting subliminals and all this stuff and it's like damn like it's even harder to go through a breakup it's harder to be in a relationship it's everything is so much harder because of social media there's a lot of positive sides of social media too but i will say that like those aspects of it can make it more difficult you know what i mean because we're so we can stay connected with people we have no business staying connected to. Like, I shouldn't have to see what you're up to. Like, especially if you're trying to heal from something or you're trying to like go somewhere, like it's difficult, you know? And it's like, before I was on social media, like, and I had to do a career on social media, I would deactivate my Instagram all the time. Like I would be off of Instagram all the time because I just would feel like I just need a break. Like I need to force myself to feel present in the world. So like, if you don't have to use social media as a career, I really suggest that you take some time off of it, like give yourself a week and just get off of social media in general. Yeah, you see how it's affected Kaisenai. Yeah, he's going through all that. He's going through, you know, and he's talked about it. And, you know, I think a lot of his was probably based on social media or, you know, streaming. That's all the world that he lived in. Yeah, he didn't live in the real life. And the pressure of doing it every day, constantly being this way and constantly interacting with the world, showing your life every second of it and it's just like dang you just got to the point to where it didn't feel like real life I guess yeah and then when you just like put it down it's just like you like what what do I have what's been going on yeah and it's like damn I couldn't imagine living that lifestyle because you look at him he's made a lot of money he's he's successful at what he did one of the biggest streamers in all of the world but now he's just not happy yeah and you know like people they make fun of him for talking about his mental health and stuff and also too in the same breath it's like we sit on instagram and we only see the good sides of everybody you only share your highlight reel of all the good shit that's why even for me i make an effort to be like vulnerable and honest like i go through dark places i go i struggle with shit all the time in my own mental health and it's like important to highlight that but when you do people make fun of you or they're one they're saying you're seeking attention or you want this When in reality, a lot of people want to do it because they want to show you like everything ain't what it looks like. There is moments in your life where even me, I have to come up on this podcast and have a conversation. And I'm not in the best mental place. I want to break down. I want to cry. I want I don't feel good. But I have to do it because I've made a commitment to do this. So there's moments where, you know, like you got to do things where you're not in the best mental space. and I for not, like people always hit me up like, oh, you're so pretty, you're this, you're that, you're popping. And it's like, I be one of the people who know like, I have my shit too. Like I go through shit all the time. I think you should express it though. I think, you know, people see the popping part of you on social media, but they need to see the other side too. Like you dealt with, you know, a friend going through suicide. I think you should really go on and express that. Like let them see how you really feel. So let them, you know, when you do that, you humanize yourself. Yeah, for sure. You don't look like this big aura that people look at you as like, oh, she's goals. She's, you know, who I want to be. But like, dude, you got to be vulnerable. But I do. And that's the thing. I'm very vulnerable. And the people who actually follow me and be around me, they know that. And I feel like I always want to be that way because my whole goal is to like share. Like when I was lacking confidence and I still struggle with my own insecurities and the things that I go through when I went through that, I really didn't have anybody to lean on, really. And I feel like the whole point of me starting this journey was to be someone that a young girl could look at and understand, like, like, you know, you could get through this. There's things that are difficult, but you can you can push through anything, you know. and there's so many women now that look to me for advice and mentorship and I want to always show those moments that are not always good you know and I and I and I make sure to try and do that and even in moments that I have there is people that are like oh you just want attention or you what's wrong with you you you don't have anything like people assume you just because you may have this or you look this way or you have this you don't have nothing it's like one thing I could tell you is you could strive to look like the most beautiful woman in the world and you could still have the darkest heart you know like you can strive to be the most rich person in the world you could still be lonely and feel empty like these are all things that happen and I have been vulnerable and open about you know I've never been someone who has a big support system and a big circle of people and a lot of friends like I've moved through life alone in a lot of ways and I've dealt with feeling like you know I'm facing things by myself a lot and I don't because I didn't go to high school like that so in a school where I had all these things like I don't have this large group of home girls and I don't have all of that stuff you know that a lot of people have and for me it's like I I don't have the biggest support system the people I have I'm very grateful for but you know I've moved through life feeling alone a lot you know and I've been open about that and I just always want to encourage people who feel that way like there's light on at the end of the tunnel you know and there's there's you gotta you gotta change your thought process like every time you have a negative thought think of something positive and replace it that's how you train your mind and train your subconscious mind um to just be more positive and like you really gotta to live that i think people who are going through depression uh the best thing for that is just like yeah be vulnerable number one express it but then i think routine helps yeah for sure you have to find something that you like yeah uh and and kind of like use that as a method to kind of cope whatever you're going through whether that's go to the gym for a certain few hours a day for Sure. Or go to church or take a walk or something that you into Or a hobby Find a hobby something that you can just get your mind off of things and keep you busy I think it helps with the process of getting through or actually having somebody to talk to Who's that one person? And if you don't have nobody to talk to, you know, I think, you know, if you're not religious, it's just like find somebody. Like find somebody that you can express it to. And if that's not a person who's there, use the social media to talk to. Turn off the comments and just be vulnerable. Just express yourself. And let it all out and just be like, man, world, this is who I am. Like it or not. Or get a therapist. All the stuff that I've shown you. That's really not me, but this is me giving myself to the world. And once you let it out, I think you'll start the process of coming back to reality. because when you're in a depressed state of mind, you're not in reality because you start thinking of things and thinking about suicide and thinking about, you know, just too many negative things. So I just feel like you just got to do a number of things to just snap out of it. Yeah, and people who struggle with real depression, I know I don't want to be insensitive because it is hard for people. It's a real mental, I don't know, I don't want to call it illness, maybe mental illness but it is something that people deal with and they can't get themselves out of that place a lot of time but like you know like you said I think having a routine about yourself forcing yourself sometimes to get out of that funk and just get up and do things it's hard but you know you could do it and I I get it like you know and I think too like even for me it's hard when you go through these things because sometimes you don't want to burden the people that you're with and you don't want people to feel like burdened by like your issues or your sorrow so you keep it to yourself or you carry it yourself or if you're someone like me like i'm a positive life for a lot of people and like people love my energy my aura and when i'm this and so if i'm down or i'm not in space my energy is so strong that everybody feels it and it's like what's wrong what's wrong because they expect me to be in that space 24 7 and it's like that has been a burden on me because sometimes I'm like I can't perform for you right now I can't be this person like I'm tired I don't feel good like but then and then then you feel the guilt of the other person feeling like well what's wrong with you like why aren't you and it's like then you try to force yourself to get back into that vibe because they're expecting you to show up in a certain way you know and even in relationships I feel like when you're someone who has been alone a lot and you find someone that you can you feel like you can trust and you can talk to and you can be around that's a really scary feeling too because as someone who's been abandoned a lot or a lot or you know like hurt by people that were supposed to love you the most it's scary to put your trust in someone and be so vulnerable with someone and be open because you always have the thought in your mind like I could lose this person and then when I lose this person I'm going to be so devastated you know like so I've noticed with me I haven't even if I'm in a relationship like I don't fully like I'm always a little bit scared because I'm like oh my god like I love this person this is scary the the most overwhelming feeling for me is fear when I love someone when and it sucks because you want to be in the present moment and you want to love them and you want to be there but you're also nervous because you're like if I fall into this too deeply and this ends I'm going to be so devastated you know so that's like a really scary feeling that I deal with because I'm like I don't have a lot of people and when I meet someone I trust and I love that I feel like it's like family or home to me and then that thought of like I could lose this person it makes you like hold back a little bit because you're like, I can't give them all of me because then I'm scared, you know, like, because things end, you know, even if you don't want them to at times and it's just, it sucks, but it's a reality and I feel like that's hard, you know. So yeah, I think you just have to find things that you love that don't involve other people or depending on anyone sometimes, you know, like things that are just, that you have a level of control over, you know, whether that's like a hobby or community-based sport, like something of that nature that you do, that you love, that you can get into, I think that that's important. But I just hate to see, like, all these people killing themselves. It's just really sad to me. And I have a home girl who told me literally two days ago that she wants to kill herself. And I've been talking to her every second because I'm so scared. Because I've done this. I've lost multiple friends. My best friend killed himself, shot himself in the head. So, like, I've dealt with this a lot, and I do not. My best friend and my sister's best friend both shot themselves in the head. And I've dealt with this a lot. So I, when people tell me that, I take it very seriously. And, like, I plan on going to her house and cooking for her and cleaning her house and helping her, like, be there for your friends when they need you for real. Yeah, for sure. For sure. So anyways, that was a deep moment. but let's move on to something more light. Yeah, that was deep. That was deep. Okay, so anyways, Dr. Sarah Fatenau, our girl, and Wheezy and Mandy all did a podcast together, which I've been seeing the clips, and I love it. So there's a viral clip of Wheezy basically saying, and she's in a relationship, but she basically says she isn't afraid to lose a man. Like, she don't give a damn. She's not afraid to lose a man. She's okay if he wants to go to lunch one-on-one with another woman. She don't care about none of that. He could go to dinner with another woman? That's what she said. But you know, they'd be on some different type stuff. Weezy and Manny Bell said, I mean, they said the same thing. And Dr. Sarah was like, absolutely not. Like, if you have to go to dinner with a girl for whatever reason, like, come to my house. Come over to our house. I'll cook for y'all. Y'all can have whatever conversation you need to have. If it's like a friend that you supposedly have or whatever, like, you shouldn't be separate from us like any homegirl or anything you think is like she coming into town i'm there or come over to our house and we'll cook or whatever the case is and we just like no i'm not afraid to lose a man i don't care and then dr sarah's like well that's the problem yeah and so it's this whole thing now they're going back and forth and like their podcast was funny because they're so opposite like the dr sarah and like wheezy and mandy or whatever the case is because mandy never wants to be married you know she likes to have an open relationship she doesn't want kids she doesn't want any of that stuff and she's very clear on that you know what I mean and she wants like you know multiple partners or whatever the case may be um which in my opinion if that's what you want that's what you want like I don't believe that we should argue down people to change the way that they want to live like I'm not here to convince you that that's not the life for you like if you feel like that's the life for you then that's the life for you like I don't think that we should be in the business of convincing people to change the things that they feel work for them you know what I mean like you've been through certain things in life that makes you feel like that's how you want to roll then do that yeah I don't think like when Weezy is talking like that I think it's hard for her to be completely 100% in love with that person it's always like if you feel that way that your partner can go have lunch with another girl. It's either a couple things. Y'all are in an open relationship. Yeah. Or you don't really fully 90, 100% love that person. If you're not afraid to lose somebody, you don't completely love them. I agree with that. You know what I'm saying? I agree with that. Like, you know, like, if he sat right in front of you in his casket and you give no shit, because that's pretty much almost what you're saying, then you don't really love them. Or you got this wall up, protection wall up. Or it's just something physical. Do you feel like there you could, sometimes you don't realize like until you're about to lose someone that you're afraid to lose them? Like sometimes does it take for you to be about to lose someone, for a person to be like, oh my God, I do not want to lose this person. because I feel like sometimes it may take for you to realize like I could lose this person for you to then realize like oh shit. You know what I mean? Yeah, that's a tough one because like when you like thinking like that or something happens to where you can lose that person most likely it's something you did. Yeah. Because you weren't afraid to lose up so then you did it and now. Now you're about to lose them and now you're like oh, I fucked up. Yeah. You know, but you wasn't thinking that when you was fucking up. So I don't know. It's like a lot of cases to where when you're about to lose them, you do everything you can, and then you got to go through it. If you're not willing to go through it when you're about to lose that person, like, you're going to have to get dragged to get them back. If that's what it takes, if you really love them, you'll get dragged to get them back. Even though there's some points where a woman will tell you, like, I'm really done. Like, there's nothing you can do. You can see it. You know. Yeah. You can be in a relationship a whole year or two before it ends, and it's been done. You know, it's been done. Like, you've been with that person five years, but it was done two or three years ago. Yeah, yeah. I've been there. Yeah, I've been there. But y'all just together, because that's what y'all been used to. And you're afraid to go through that pain of really separating. Yeah. So you're just, like, going through it, because you're like, I'm going to hurt to be with you, and it's going to hurt to leave you, so I'm just going to stay. Because you're afraid of what's next. What's next is scary because this, I know what this is. It's predictable. I know what's going to happen. We're going to go through this. We're going to fight. We're going to be whatever. We'll have a few one, two cool days. But leaving means, I don't know, it's uncertain. I don't know what's going to happen next. Am I going to end up alone? Am I going to meet anyone that I actually like ever again? Am I going to, like, what is that going to look like? And a lot of the time when you're going through that and when you lose someone, you highlight so many good things about them, even if you knew the relationship was trash and you're like damn like am i ever gonna have anybody else you know there's there's that feeling you know where you know will i ever like someone this much again or whatever the case is even though you knew that relationship has been over like because there's so much contention like there's one thing to like go through stuff with your partner but there's another thing when you know like this just nothing is working like we always He's got something. It's always a fight. It's always this. It's always that. I knew in my relationship it was over. You know, you go through your ups and downs, but when it's officially over for me as a man, when it started getting disrespectful. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like all the other stuff I can deal with, like being mad and holding back sex and, you know, just not going on dates and not doing stuff. But when it started getting disrespectful, that's when you know it was over. all the other stuff I can deal with. Yeah, when a woman gets disrespectful, she's cool. Yeah, it's over, dude. And you have to realize, too, even as a person, if someone's being disrespectful to you, there is no relationship anyways, because they don't respect you. And, you know, there gets to a point where even if you're not a bad person, the person views you as like, so, like, they look at you like such a fucked up, horrible human being, and you're like, man, I don't even want to be with someone that I have to fight against the fact that I'm really actually not this fucked up person. I made some mistakes and I made some poor decisions, but I don't even want to be with someone who views me so low down. Like, you think of me so horribly. What's the point now? I'm just going to be exhausted trying to prove that I'm worthy, that I'm not that messed up to you. And it's like, that's exhausting for both of us. At that point, you might as well go find someone else that you actually look at in a better light. Because once you start to look at me like I'm just horrible what are we doing like once I look at you like oh you're just this you're that you're that because the chances are is like people make mistakes in relationships but once you get past that threshold of like what you can take then it starts to get disrespectful and you don't even view that person in the light in which you like what's the point the only reason we're staying now is the fear of what's on the other side of letting go Yeah, yep, that is true. You know? You stay, you hold on for too long. You hold on for too long because you're afraid of what's next and what's letting go, but then you do so much damage in that time that you stay, you damage yourself. Then it goes from disrespect to now when y'all break up, it turns into resentment. Yeah, it turns into resentment. For sure it returns into resentment. It turns into resentment, you're like, damn. And God forbid it's even worse when you have to have kids with that person and deal with them forever. like me personally I don't have that so it's like you can resent someone but then you don't have to deal with them so now you over it like in a few years you could see that person be like what's up like we cool I don't have no beef like I don't care because I don't have to deal with you but see you do more damage to yourself when you stay because you hurt yourself more and you hurt the other person and then you get in another relationship and that starts to pour over and it's like damn I I done stayed too long that I damaged my mind because I'm thinking now this is how people act. Now I'm getting disrespected. Now I'm on the defense. Now I feel a certain type of way in my new relationship. I think that we got to learn how to let go quicker. Well, it's hard. It's very hard. It's hard to break the building down. You know, you done built something, you done built over the years, and it's hard to let it go. It's hard to walk away. It's really hard. And again, I think starting over is hard and it's scary. Like, to have to be like, I'm going to start over and be alone and figure my shit out. Especially for women. Yeah, it's really hard. It's more difficult for women than it is for men, I believe. I believe that, yeah. 100%. Because I seen men get out of long relationships and be with the next woman right then and there Well maybe not in a relationship but like we use women to kind of like cover up our pain Yeah for sure You know where a woman will go through it a little bit more than a man Yeah. Like, won't date, won't go out. Yeah. You know, then you got other women who will date and go out. But, like, for the most part, it's more men that say, all right, I'm the next date. I'm outside. Yeah. And you know how hard that is? that's what I was telling, like, social media, like, as a woman, when you break up with someone, and you're, like, in the bed depressed, and you go look, and you see this man outside, like, I remember when me and my ex broke up, I'm sad, I broke up with him, but you're still sad, like, I had to let go, like, this was blowing me, and you're outside, and you people are so messy, they're calling you, oh, I saw the outside with, like, oh, girl, and they was, and then it's like, what, like, you just feel so bad you're like damn I was nothing to you like you just got another woman but what I noticed is with me it'd be like a few months and then like in a few months by the time you do your healing and like I go through my sad depression then I get up and I'm going back into the gym and I'm feeling myself again and I feel good I'm doing the inner work and by the time I'm back hitting it and I'm dating a new man then you calling me then you're like babe like I love you so much I'll never forget I remember I was like wanting my ex to like, you know, you want someone to fight for you. Even if you're done, you always want to feel like you're fighting for me. It's hard to fight for somebody after the disrespect though. Like you want to fight? Like, you know, in my relationships, I wanted to fight. Yeah. But like the constant, every day being disrespectful, like I was disrespectful once. Yeah. And it's not, but the constant disrespect, it's hard to fight back. No, I get that. and I understand that but I think you get as a woman you're like damn you want someone to fight and then you they missed the they missed the opportunity in order to do it and so I remember I was I broke up everyone oh he's hitting it this that I'm sad I'm crying and then I remember I got a whole new man and the night my new man was like I love you my old man I don't know what it was that man started blowing my line down oh I love you I want to be with you I'm so sorry and I'm I'm like, oh, it's too late now. I got a whole new man. I'm good. Once you move on me, I'm never doubling back on anybody I've ever been with. I never have done that, and I'm never doing that. Once I get over you, because the chances are I probably fought so hard, and I exhausted all resources, and I tried and tried. 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So, yeah, anyways, this whole drama with Moneybagg Yo, have you seen that? uh i think it was something with his baby mama yeah so basically he went to see his baby mom i guess and the baby mom has a new man and the new man bought her this house and all this and he's kicking it chilling at the new house with his baby mama they don't let it go they do but he wasn't there he's like out of town so he sees on the camera you kicking it what you coming over here kicking it with your baby mama chilling for. That's bulging. That's blowing me. So the man is hot. So the man goes to Instagram like, what? Like, you in my house and he's like tripping off the baby mom. Like, you left this man in my house and y'all are, it's not even about the kid picking it up, dropping the kid up. Like, you chilling on my couch kicking and kicking it in my house. Like, that's out of pocket. That is out of pocket for her. Yeah, she's wrong. Yeah, super wrong. If this dude got you in a new house. Yeah. Why are you kicking it with your baby mama anyways? Why are you kicking it with your baby daddy? Why y'all kicking it? Wait, wait, wait, wait. Hold on, hold on. He just came over to get the kid. He should have just came over to get the kid. But that was his, that was what he came over to do. Yeah, yeah. Okay, that's what he came over to do. To get the kid. So it should just be a quick transaction if you got another man. But he's chilling there for hours. Hours? Yeah, he was at the house kicking it with the girl. You kicking it. There's no reason you should kick it. get the kid and hit it. They got cameras in the house? Yeah. Oh, he saw that. He saw. Oh, okay. Well, she knew that. Maybe she didn't. We don't know if she knew. People don't always know if they have cameras in the house. Yeah, she knew. You live there, you know if there's cameras in the house. You know, you don't know always. If there's cameras not in the house, there's cameras outside seeing you coming in. Right, and then seeing you leaving. Yeah. Why are you kicking it? No. That's the struggle. So then, she came out and basically said, oh, I'm not messing with you because you're gay. And I found out that you're gay. While he was out of town? Who knows? These people are crazy. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, so she basically called him gay and said he's on the DEL or whatever. Wow. And they were together at the time. Yeah, they're together. So that means it's over. You just broke up. We just broke up. Well, you broke up when you was kicking it with the baby mama and baby daddy in my house. So we was already broken up at that point. He was done with her. He was already like, hey, I'm cool. So what do that mean? Do he got to get her up out of there? Yeah. And he also bought her a Range Rover. I need that. And so he was like, if y'all see my car in the streets, like, report it, because I need my car back. Okay, so I need the house. I need the car. He posted a picture of her in the car with the roses. He bought her the car with the roses. I need that back. I need everything back. Yeah, I need that back. I need that. It's probably in his name anyway, so he ain't in trouble. He get home, call the post. And then he puts the receipt up where he's playing for the private school of Moneybag Yo's Kid. It's time to go public. $2,500 a month. He's like, I'm paying some people's rent for the private school, and this is your child, Moneybagg, yo, who got money, and you not paying it, and I'm paying for the school. Like, I don't know how a woman could fumble. Like, women... That's tough. That's tough. You're trifling for that. I'm gonna keep it real. Damn. But based off of how she looks and her Instagram and everything, again... Don't base everything off looks, though. No, no, no. It's... I can... Yeah, it's based off of your actions and how you're moving. You half naked. You got 20 surgeries. You trying to catch the next best man with money. Yeah, you base it off of that. I'm going to base it off of that. Like, I could tell a type of woman, you can. Like, at the end of the day. He should have knew that. She looks... He should have knew that. You should have known that. This is my problem with men. You get these type of women who got a rapper baby daddy and it's on Instagram. How do you think you got her? And now you mad because she did exactly what she meant to do. You mad. You knew exactly what you knew. You knew, you knew, you knew. This is what happens with men. Again, y'all get with these women and think that you're different. You ain't special. She's showing you exactly what type of woman she is. Right. All on there, right there. You could see that. Like, there's different calibers of women, and we have to stop pretending that there's not. Like, let's stop pretending that. Like, women get mad at me. Like, some Holy Fans girl was blowing me, like, one time, like, going off, because she messed with one of my exes one time, and because I said something about, like, women being prostitutes, she was going in, like, trying to run shit. And I'm like, girl, it is what it is. You're a-hole. I don't know what else you want me to tell you. Like, you mad at me because I'm calling it how I see it. Like, I'm a different caliber of woman than you. If you decide that I'm better than you, that's your opinion. I didn't say that. I'm different, though. I'm a different type of woman, and I'm not in the same lane as you. We're not in the same league. who are not in the same category, if you decipher that as me saying I'm better than you, that's what you said, not me. I'm not, I'm just letting you know I am a different type of caliber than you. I don't choose to let anybody with 9.99 to be able to see inside of my booty hole, okay? I don't let anybody with $3 a month get to see me shake my ass. Matter of fact, you do that shit for free on Instagram, okay? I'm not that type of woman. Stop being mad at me because that's what you decide to do. That's the life you decide to live. I feel good about who I am as a woman. I go to sleep at night knowing that you can't see my body for a few dollars. I feel good about that. But you should feel good about what you're doing too. If you don't feel good about it, you should reevaluate your lifestyle, baby. That's on you. You know what I learned about women in breakup based on, you know, I'm listening to you and how you feel about the next woman that got with your ex. I swear every woman when they break up with that man and when that man get with the next girl she either she ugly or she a hoe no matter what she look like no no no I don't think that's true she's the baddest girl on the planet she ugly she a hoe or she a hoe that's not true though the woman who I'm talking about I swear I ain't saying you I'm just saying in general that's what women always do let me tell you the truth the type of person I am is like I will give credit when credit is due Even if a man that I've been with... What? No, because chances are, though, but I give credit where credit is due. Like, I've been with men, and they have beautiful exes, and I'm like, I will literally say, like, oh, she's fly, she cool, she was bomb. And then I've seen some of my exes, and their baby mom were this and that. For me, it's not even about the look. Like, y'all are going look. Like, what if she ain't up to your level of looks, but she doing things you wasn't doing, so that's probably why he would have. Yeah, that's cool. I'm not mad at that. It's not just about looks. But then y'all will bash because of the look. I'm not going to bash because I don't care. You will, though. You will. If you saw your ex out with somebody that was like, oh, she ain't me, but you don't know she ain't you because you're going off her look. You don't know what she's doing for that man. I get what you're saying. He probably rubs down every night, cook, doing all these things you wasn't doing, but you're going to just from the outside looking in, you're going to say she wasn't me doing all this. Girl, honey, look at her. I'm going to say this. But she's she. I'm going to say this, though. She's doing more. I wasn't perfect in my relationships at all, in no way, shape, or form, but I know that I gave a lot, and I gave my all. So whether she's doing all this, I know what I was doing. So you can look crazy, and I know that I was doing X, Y, and Z, but the crazier it looks, let me tell you why it looks crazier. This is why men look crazy. Don't look crazy to you. Yes, because you're hitting me up still begging to be with me. So she looks crazy, and you look crazy. How did they still hit you up? I just told you. what's up emails hit you up you so contradictory yeah they do so you keeping up no I just told you that my exes every three to six months one of one of my exes is gonna hit me on whatsapp and email I just said that like they do that like they do that they'd be like oh I wish what we had Iran is in the war and make me feel like are you safe like you know dumb shit I'm just making that up because I see the meme like that but you know men come with dumb shit all the time where they're like i just miss us and everything that we've been through like men are gonna come with that bullshit six months and every six months quarterly they're gonna come with that like that's all i'm saying so if you do have a new girlfriend it makes y'all look crazy that's why i don't want to be with a man who's hitting an ex or anybody up trying to say anything at all because then i look stupid because they look stupid to me i'm like y'all he's still trying to hit me up he they look stupid to me you look stupid and i look stupid if my man is doing that to their ex it looks stupid to everyone like i don't want that i want i don't like that so that's why women think men look stupid because they be hitting us up still asking for this and that all right so listen go ahead i'm gonna break this down what you said this is what you said you said joe men be hitting you up looking stupid because they've got girlfriends No, I don't know if they have a girlfriend. You said maybe they do or they don't. I don't know for sure. But how they looking stupid. But I'm saying, you just said, if I seen him out with another woman and I'm like, oh, she doesn't look like this. The only way I would say she looks stupid is because in my mind, I'm like, your man is still hitting me up all the time. You look stupid. Like, that's what looks stupid. You never seen your ex out with another girl? Never? My ex see me out, but I never seen my ex out. Oh, yeah, I have. I've never seen that before. A couple of times. I would, like, I would not care. Like, I don't have no feelings for none of my exes. I would not care at all. It would never make me feel a way at all. Yeah, me neither. Like, okay, cool. I love that for you. And if she was drop-dead gorgeous, I love that for you. All right, so if you saw your ex out with another girl, would you speak? No, I'm not speaking. I don't have nothing to say. Like, I'm not speaking if I, you weren't with another girl. I'm not speaking regardless. So you could be with another girl or not. I'm not going to speak to my ex if I see them out regardless. like for just a bunch of different reasons. Like I don't have, I don have no beef with none of my exes I don have no beef I just don fuck with y We not together anymore I don have if we don have kids there no reason the question is this okay if you women are men you see your girl or your guy out and they what they do will you speak and I'm talking about the guy is with his girl and they went they new girl or say like you see your ex with another dude will you speak to her? Because like me, I'm not. I mean, I'm not. I don't really care. I'm not even really tripping. You know what I'm saying? But like, for the woman, what I noticed is like, I seen my ex out, but I was with somebody and they was with somebody and I was ignoring it. I was just like, you know, I didn't even look. But then every time you turn, you see them looking at you. You're like, damn, like, what the hell? Yeah. Like, why are you, oh, let me turn my back. Like, damn. I feel like that's awkward for, like, for me. It ain't awkward for me. No, no, no, no, no. I'm saying I feel like I don't want to be in the situation where I'm the girl and the ex is staring over. Like, I would want someone to tell me, like, yo, that's my ex there over there with this. Because I'm not going to be sitting here looking like, she's like, I don't like that little shit. Tell me what's up. Like, if it's your real ex, like, if it's someone you just dated, whatever. but like if that's my ex like if i'm out with my man and i see my for real ex that i was with for years i'm gonna be like that's my ex right there i'm gonna say that yeah if it's someone i dated real quick or whatever no but if it's my ex i'm gonna be like that's my ex right there probably but it just depends because if it's just in passing for two seconds then i might not say nothing at all like if we're walking in walk out but if it's like we're all sitting right there and they're on the other side he's staring over here like that's crazy this is my ex they're tripping but i have seen my ex has seen me out with somebody yeah like my and they he talked and spoke you know what i mean and said a lot of shit and i was just like what like i was just on a date but he didn't realize you know okay okay so it was just like you know you know what i'm saying like he didn't know that i was with that person so he was just saying like god sent me you here today as like all this stuff and it just felt so wild to me but i think that at the end of the day like, I'm not, I don't care if my ex has a new girlfriend and she's Beyonce, the baddest bitch in America. Good for you. I'm really happy for it. You could be like, damn, I fumbled. I would never think I fumbled any of my exes. That sounds stupid as hell. Like, how he got that all? No, no, no. I don't think that. I would literally just, literally be like, cool. Damn, he just upgraded. No, I'm not tripping off of that. I'm telling you, like, I think that, no matter how the woman looks, no matter what, if it's someone that was in alignment with you and we couldn't work it out. I'm happy for you. Everyone deserves love. I don't have no bitterness or resentment in my heart because the opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference. For me, when you hate someone, you still have feelings for them. You still care. I don't have no hate for you. I'm indifference. I don't care. I'm indifferent. Whatever. You got a girlfriend? Good for you. I'm actually happy for you. Real shit. Good for you. I don't care. I'm indifference because it ain't no happy I ain't saying. It's not happy. But it's like I'm not out and I'm just like, oh, this is making me so upset. He got a battered bitch. Like, good for you. Like, cool. Do your big one. You cool. Like, I don't have no feelings for none of my exes at all. Like, there's no feelings there whatsoever. Like, just period. Like, it was over when it was over. Right. You know what I mean? So there's a viral meme that says relationship red flags. Right. So here are some of them. Tell me some of yours. But the first one is actually still cool with your ex. I don't fuck with that. That's a red flag for me, too. Still cool with your ex? Yeah. Love bombing. Someone said all her friends being single is a red flag. Someone else said. That's not a red flag, though. That's just unfortunate for her friends. Yeah, that's how I feel, too. Phone screen being turned down. They said that's a red flag. Someone who's fresh out of a relationship. That's a red flag. To do what? To be in a relationship with her? Yeah. Okay. These are all relationship red flags. Okay. And someone who's like super entitled. Those are just some of them that the people named. Do you have any? Yeah, I hate a female who, I mean, or a woman, whatever y'all want to call it, whatever. But I don't know what y'all is these days. See what I'm saying? Being entitled. Yeah, I hate an entitlement. Oh, my God. You know it'd be so killer. you start talking to some of these girls and they might have been with whoever motherfucker at the top. You know, they got lucky to be dating whoever. A-list, this and that. Then when that ain't there no more, they just looking at everybody else like, you ain't, you gotta do this. $30,000. Oh man, what about old girl that says something about the $30,000 a month or $50,000? Ayesha Diaz, she says she needs $40,000 to $50,000. Wait, wait, wait, what does she exactly say though? We're going to talk about this on the segment, so we'll talk about this in a minute. All right. But yeah, the entitlement is crazy to me. That's part of entitlement, though, that $50,000 a month. Ain't that entitlement? Yeah. That's crazy. Damn, how can somebody have that mindset? Like, you literally just like, that's just a high-priced, like, that sounds to me like you just a high-priced hoe. That's what that sound like. I need $50,000 a month for you to date me, do all the whatever you want. So look, this is the more or less segment brought to you by Price Picks, where you can win real cash by picking just more or less on your favorite players. Use code TAD and get $50 instantly in lineups when you play your first $5. So yeah, with the Aisha Diaz, she's saying that she needs $50K, $40K to $50K a month in order to feel good about her relationship and maintain her lifestyle, right? So yeah, that's definitely entitlement in my opinion, right? But it depends because what she said was this. If a man doesn't want you to work, right? Because a lot of men, especially depending on what their stature is, they're like, I don't want my girl to work because then she's not available to me in the ways that I need her to be available to me, right? And that's going to cost $50,000. So for her, she's like, well, if that's the case, I make OnlyFans, I make $40,000, $50,000, you don't want me to do OnlyFans anymore, then I need more than just my bills. Like you can pay my bills, but then I have no money left over. This is what she said in response. I have no money left over. I'm strapped. So I pay just my bills and now I can't do nothing. Like, so you have to give me more than my bills so I can save money. I can have shit cracking. So I don't feel like so stressed out about money. Right. However, her lifestyle is 40, 50 K. Some brides, that's like $7,000. You know, with her, hers is like 50 K. K, because she's saying that's how much she makes being on OnlyFans, and she has a mortgage, she has this. So a man who's dating her is like, I don't want you to do that. I don't want you to work. I want you to be able to travel with me, be available to me, do all these things. So is she supposed to say, okay, I'm not going to work and I have to lessen my lifestyle? Wait, how about keep doing OnlyFans and we can still travel, but you can do the OnlyFans in the hotel. Well, she's saying whatever she has to do. OnlyFans ain't no wake up nine to five. But she's saying whatever she does, she works in a club too. She's not just OnlyFans. She's a club bottle girl. So she has to be out. You make $50,000 doing that? That's what she was saying. She came on live. She was like, for me, people don't understand that. That's gonna run dry quick. That's probably the peak of it. Ain't nobody making $40,000, $50,000 a month. She's saying she works in the club. So she's a club bottle club girl. A month? She's saying that it's she see, like in the strip club and stuff, she's like, I see that money in a night. So for some people that sounds outrageous. But for me, I come across that money in a night. no i ain't going i am not going you are not maintaining that contract yeah that sounds ridiculous that sounds 40 50k is out of pocket no i don't care how bad you are you could be you ain't doing that every month like with no only fans and waitress and job that's if you are doing that that's the peak of it and that's gonna run dry you know that that's gonna man them subscriptions gonna run dry after about that if you doing that how many consecutive years have you been doing that because i'm gonna just wait you out when it go down to like five like then what would you go say like damn like come on that's extreme that's like the highest level of high and if you are there that's cool but that's not gonna last long because it's gonna be a new girl that's gonna be the hot topic and the hot girl and it's always gonna be somebody that's going to take your place. So like that $50,000 a month. But is it entitled for her if a man is like, I'm going to take care of you. I'm going to help you with your bills. Nah, if you're looking $50,000 a month, let's keep doing that. You can keep doing that. But I'm saying, she's saying that the man, that's you. We're talking about a man who's saying, hey, because there's a lot of men like, yeah, that are like, hey, don't worry. I'm going to take care of you. Give me $50,000. I'm going to find somebody else. That could be like, you could pay $5,000 a month. I'm like, that don't even make no sense. It's like I'm buying your love now. Right. Like, what, I got to pay? Like, come on, that don't even make sense. I mean, because that's like a red flag to me. Because it's like, that ain't going to be real. It's going to be talking about the relationships you're talking about. It's going to last so long, and you're going to be off that. Like, all right, but see, she shouldn't even be saying that. Because it's going to be a dude that's going to come along that's going to do that. He's going to do it for three months and be good. Now what you're going to do? Yeah. You're going to have to go back to that. So, like, come on. That's not realistic. Come on. That's not realistic. A man do be paying stuff. I mean, we know someone who. Yeah, he'll do it for two, three, four, five months. Let's say the year. Then when your fans see you not doing that no more, can you jump back in it and get that same type of momentum? Yeah. Once you slow the momentum down, then it's over. You know? So. Yeah. I mean, I get it. I feel like. Yeah. She ain't no relationship, girl. She just entertainment. I'm paying for it. Not a relationship. I'm paying for entertainment. Period. I'm rich enough to pay for entertainment. And this is expensive entertainment. I'll do this. I'll blow this for a couple months. Then I'm off. You know what I'm saying? That's what I do. That's what it is. 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