Too Personal #20
66 min
•Mar 12, 2026about 2 months agoSummary
The hosts discuss Women's History Month, relationship dynamics, personal finance management, celebrity obligations to speak on social issues, and fan engagement in the digital age. The episode balances serious topics like women's strength and resilience with lighter commentary on dating, money habits, and social media culture.
Insights
- Women's strength is often underestimated and underappreciated, particularly in their roles as nurturers, caregivers, and family anchors—a realization that comes with maturity
- Personal behavior and lifestyle choices directly impact business opportunities and professional relationships, regardless of celebrity status
- Digital connectivity has fundamentally changed fan engagement from physical, in-person connections to algorithm-driven, social media-based interactions
- Celebrities are not obligated to speak on social or political issues unless personally passionate; forced activism can feel inauthentic and manipulative
- Relationship success requires mutual alignment and shared values rather than transactional 50-50 benefit exchanges
Trends
Shift from traditional street-level artist promotion to digital-first, podcast-based fan engagement strategiesGrowing awareness of how personal conduct affects brand partnerships and business deals in entertainmentReversal of cosmetic surgery trends (BBL removal) signaling changing beauty standards and body autonomyIncreased skepticism about celebrity activism and political co-optation at fundraising eventsEmphasis on authentic relationship dynamics over transactional arrangements in modern dating cultureRecognition of women's economic and emotional labor as foundational to family and societal stability
Topics
Women's History Month and women's strength in societyRelationship dynamics and sexual frequency in committed partnershipsPersonal finance management and cutting unnecessary expensesCelebrity obligation to speak on social and political issuesFan engagement and artist-audience connection in the digital agePersonal behavior impact on business opportunitiesDating and transactional relationshipsCosmetic surgery trends and body autonomyActivism and political co-optation of celebritiesMotherhood and maternal sacrificeTourette's syndrome and public discourseSports betting and fantasy sports engagementWorkplace diversity and female leadershipAnger and intimacy in relationshipsSocial media influence on culture and behavior
Companies
Prize Picks
Sports picks app sponsor offering $50 in lineups for new users; promoted throughout episode with basketball picks
Blue Chew
ED medication sponsor offering chewable pills; promoted with promo code and product details including new Blue Chew Gold
Prospix
Sports picks app described as 'America's number one sports pics app' in opening sponsor segment
People
Fabolous
Co-host discussing personal experiences with behavior impact on business deals and relationships
Maino
Co-host contributing to discussions on relationships, women's strength, and personal finance
Dave East
Co-host sharing personal stories about mother's strength and family relationships
Jim Jones
Co-host discussing celebrity activism, political events, and personal experiences with business impact
Rosa Parks
Referenced as example of women's strength and historical significance during Women's History Month discussion
Khadija
Dave East's sister with heart condition; highlighted as example of women's resilience and strength
Jalen Brunson
New York Knicks player featured in sports betting picks discussion and analysis
Josh Hart
New York Knicks player included in fantasy sports picks and game analysis
Tyrese Halliburton
Indiana Pacers player discussed regarding impact of his absence on team performance
J. Cole
Referenced for innovative in-car radio promotion strategy as alternative to digital-only engagement
Cardi B
Mentioned as example of celebrity reversing cosmetic surgery (BBL removal)
Letitia James
Referenced in context of political activism event and Trump administration actions
Quotes
"Women give life at the end of the day. Women are the foundation of society. Of the world. This is a fact."
Maino•~15:00
"I couldn't even function without women. You know what I mean? Like just my base. That real shit I couldn't even I need it."
Jim Jones•~25:00
"Your behavior can ruin your business. You could be... we see like everywhere from actors to athletes to rappers and ours whatever you doing on your off time becomes part of your story."
Dave East•~65:00
"I don't think as a celebrity you are obligated to speak on anything. But you are obligated to stand up for yourself and stand up for your people."
Dave East•~85:00
"The engagement is way iller right now. The audience just switched up. It's not a disconnect because the engagement is way iller."
Maino•~110:00
Full Transcript
A lot of shit been going on so let's rap about it A lot of right, a lot of wrong so let's rap about it Controversy every week so let's rap about it Family that don't even speak, we can rap about it They crashing out on IG, let's rap about it Heavy body wanna be, let's rap about it People going outside, let's rap about it They really want clout bag, let's rap about it Let's rap about it Let's rap about it, brought to you by Playmaker And presented by Prospix America's number one sports pics app Let's get it, what's going on gentlemen We back for another episode What we doing? What we talking about? Mr. David Jermaine Yo listen wild boys I got some teachers for you You do? Oh the karate kick king himself Wow Can I? Kong Fu Jo Kong Fu Jo Mo For real, I like that I like, yeah I'm gonna draw a door in back of my mind though I'm gonna draw a door I'm gonna put a door in back of my mind Really, I like this Yeah, I like this a good quasi I need a large though brother This is shmeety, I need a large I'm gonna get you right You got me? I'm gonna get you right You sure? I got you It's March, right? And then we just came out of Black History Month Black History Month And it's Women's Month It is So is this all women or is this black women? Black women All women All women What are some of the things that it took You time to understand about women Until you, until later in life I've learned the same thing Younger in life that I learned later in life That they're crazy That's all you got? That's all you got What you got? It's Women's History Month And that's all you got? So what you understood about women That it took you later in life to understand Something similar to what you was thinking I was like, they crazy but then As I got older They made me realize I was the crazy one They reversed psychology? You went for that trick? Yeah, yeah, yeah You felt for it? You felt for it with me the whole time But you felt for it? I'm gonna go for this Listen man I'm gonna go for the rap side Reverse Damn, they put a reverse It's okay It's okay It's okay You know? I think I learned that women are Really Stronger than people think they are Because men are supposed to be the strong ones But women really could put up with a lot of shit That men can't really handle in a sense But so like I always look at women And they gotta be strong No matter I learned that later on Like even stuff that I see now as an adult And I look at how my mom's got through it Or I look at other women And in their times They still just gotta get through it Men gotta get through it in a way too But women, it's like They gotta nurture They raise boys They raise boys to men That's right And I just think that I learned How strong they are as I got older You know what I mean? When you looking at your mom as a kid You know what I'm saying? Sometimes your mom gets on your nerves Because she just trying to push you this way Push you that way But you know it's a lot It's a lot even raising boys in a hood And raising boys to men Even in them kind of environments too So you know what I mean? Women give life at the end of the day Women are the foundation of society Of the world This is a fact That's a big fact Right? So this is That's a fact I feel like my mom's did shit My pop's probably never would have did Like he just It just wasn't the main thing to do Like my mom's like Me and my brother was sick And just certain shit When I look back at it now I'd be like my pops wouldn't have did that So that had to Like I feel like a mother's love Is just different Mothers are here to nurture You know what I mean? Women's strength is sometimes Not spoken about as much So when we talk about mothers I think about my mother I think about all the shit I put my mother through I got a lot I didn't Got my mother locked up Like shit that I done did They came and locked her up You understand what I'm saying? So I And she was Like Loved me like Was in jail Got out and was like They gotta love you You see what I'm saying? So that type of strength That type of love Is sometimes we don't We take it for granted 100% Even physically strong Because like Even how women have babies That's something like If men had to have the babies There'd be a lot less people out here Because everybody ain't Things would be curving now They're pushing those babies out You know what I'm saying? That's a good point Strength is what a woman represents I believe that women Mentally are stronger than men And can go through a lot more than Men can in that And what's main stated about women Being undermined all the time Because I've been through shit Like you've been with my mom And I've dropped up for shit That I've done And they come back out And act like Like You know what I'm saying? I definitely tell my husband To be able to do that You know what I'm saying? And there's so many instances Like that That women do stick up for Family For their loved ones For their better half Like you know what I'm saying? And they're usually the ones That we were talking The other week about Who's the first one that you call If you get in trouble And it's usually a woman You know what I'm saying? Your moms or your ladies Your moms or your ladies Usually your aunt Is usually a woman That's how that go That's a fact That is an actual fact They're more responsible You can count on them a little bit more Than you can count on niggas In certain situations And shit like that Like so Yeah, a lot more reliable Definitely So why we always saying Bros overhoes and Like why would they And that's when you started You know when you first started Y'all was like they crazy You know what I'm saying? No but now you try Now y'all trying to do it Now y'all trying to double down on my That was what I said I don't think That's what they made me feel I said Man I don't think I don't think March is Whole's month I think it's women's month Oh shit now they They going crazy Whole's history When is Whole's history? They got no month They have to have a month What month would it be? I don't think this is the month What month would it be like Orcas? For women that It gotta be in the summer It definitely gotta be in the summer It's like July It's like July It's July It's July July is definitely The whole summer July July 16 to like August 16 Like they got an off month They got a month worth of time But they got the whole summer They gotta be hot Cause by July They gotta be hot outside They gotta be hot They gotta be Yeah It's the whole month But July first though Cause the fourth day outside They wanna It's full homo by July You heard like stop playing Yeah You gotta add that We gotta add that July's whole history month That's whole history month Damn Don't break that You think about Don Julio Don Julio So what's the history Like are we Are we celebrating Some of the greatest Some of the greatest hoes The greatest hoes Some of the greatest hoes You haven't done it You haven't done it No, hold on Listen to me It's some hoes Not like it's some hoes That do it big bro I'm talking about This is a person's shit Don't make them a ho though But it's legendary hoes though Nah, that's what I'm trying to tell you It's a ho that really be out there I'm full It's even born Legend, legendary hoes I understand Yo I understand From women's history to hoes Right, the hoes The back that y'all got That was That was Julio Y'all would do it at half Y'all don't have Y'all wrong About what I'm sick of y'all man Because this is a commemorate Women Into shed light On women That's what I was Pushing for I said this is This is not That's not hoes month Over three months and With the July We just uplifted them We just talked about We talked about History of all type of women This is the women's history month And then July's ho history month This is different history But it all dedicated to women We're not bashing This is a community for that And we don't bash communities You know that already No, you do bash communities Yeah, 100% But we'll leave it alone Right How come I dare you Anybody y'all want to shout Off a ho history month Nah, we gotta do that in July No Anybody Anybody want to shout out Right now we're gonna Rosa Parks in them Right now we're gonna Rosa Parks in them Anybody want to shout out To somebody for women's month Yeah, it's the Rosa Parks Women's month Yes Shout out my mama Shout out my mother I'ma shout out the mother My children Shout out my aunties I'ma shout out my sister I'ma shout out our cast I'ma shout out our crew Yeah And now why you think Okay, and shout out to all the guys No pun intended But why you think we have So many female executives In our crew Right The females running the whole Let's rap about it So shout out to, you know Kowy, Donna, JB Shout out to everybody Shout out to Bianca Shout out to Bet Shout out to the whole gang Um, cause y'all hold it down And this is uh Camera shy Yeah Shout out to camera shy Yeah Shout out to my mom Shout out to Chrissy This thing here though Like It's not that I don't like it This is like, it's so competitive Bro, this is crazy This is crazy I don't know how to feel I don't know how to feel You like this one? No, like I hate this one But what is this What is this bro? What is this bro? What is this? I ain't saw that one yet It's like What is this bro? Yeah, like They swim at you And then they like That's a swim? This is tea Yeah, like what is this? Like you went under the water? I don't like this one You smelling of fart Like I don't like it I don't stone like how it goes You getting through it? You trying to weave through the crowd? Like did somebody let off? I ain't saw that one Gas mom I never saw that You know what I said? You gotta draw the line again East I ain't saw that one You never saw that? Let me shout out to all the women in my family Before I get slander Cause everybody Gave a proper shout out Dave, shout out to every woman in this family Shit me? Shout out to all my sisters I got my nine sisters Shout out to my mom Shout out to Chrissy Shout out to my grandma Shout out to every woman in my life That has helped me thus far on my journey And there's been a few women That definitely has helped me up strong And I definitely took my hat to y'all And don't know anything that I could do to That's only right Take it back So each little mama or your man I would not I couldn't even function Without women You know what I mean? Like just my base That real shit I couldn't even I need it It keeps me Speaking of women I want to shout out my sister I always talk about her Khadija She's one of the oldest people With her heart condition She was born with a heart condition I've seen her go through things that Men can never ever go through Even to this day when it comes to her health And being strong And still being able to be here today And I love her to death And she's definitely my source of energy And anytime I'm down I feel like I'm defeated And she called me on, she texted me She texts a bunch of people every day With these messages And it's just like I can't even She give me the energy to get right back up Like bro you watch her go through so much Let's get it So I'll stop with Khadija I love you very much baby girl Definitely shout out to Khadija What about some bills or expenses You cut down on as you learn to manage money You cut down on hoes man What the Damn Damn I couldn't help it No no no no That's all good That's all good But what's some of the things you're cutting down on Like I stopped buying like a bunch of cars a long time ago Like I used to have a shitload of cars And I kind of slowed down a bunch of them Cars they served me no purpose Right You know what I mean I don't move with as many people So at one point I was covering Mad hotels Mad flights Mad dinners You know what I mean When it's fun it's fun But after a while it's like alright So I think I'll definitely cut back on that You gotta learn to do everything in moderation though You know what I mean As you get older and shit that you used to do You kinda if that's your thing You gotta kinda find the balance and not Try on yourself out with them same things You know what I mean Right right What about you Spizzle I'm cutting down on nothing You're making more money that's it You got more money I don't know I think you gotta just You gotta live He wait for me I'm joking I'm joking But look we gotta live in your meanness But he really meanness Cause I took it in your meanness He really meanness like I You know we have this conversation I'm joking I'm joking You're joking but you're telling the truth Cause you remember the conversation That's true too though He gotta start answering this shit first Right Cause he's just set up I tried to get the car I told him I want to get this car He like get it They're gonna make more money That's what we do Right That's a fact Remember that To me I want to make more money That's the reason you gotta make more money You know what I mean You don't get the money That's the fact If the decision is cut back Or make more money If it's like yo I think you should Sometimes you gotta buy something Say you're speaking with your account We all got accounts You're having a real account With your account Your account like yo I think you should My argument is always Nah I could just get more bread I could make more bread And that'll cover whatever You was talking about We be alright What if your account is Reading to you as shit right And he like Mr. David You have to cut down on your porn Subscriptions Damn How many porn subscriptions you got You the blue chew Master you heard Masked guy I ain't got no motherfucking porn subscriptions Blue chew You the blue chew You heard Paws Chew them shit like skittles Oh man I paused I paused I said pause Yo I gotta stop Yo listen Yo y'all don't understand I paused I paused it Yo I don't understand the power That we actually possess We can stop pause Not as long as it's a nigga Like you talking You're not understanding It'll never end We can end the game It'll never end You keep it alive We can go back And listen we can go back We can go back to stand How do we end it man How do we do that By taking a stand And be like nigga Get the fuck away from me with that I don't play that shit That doesn't work And niggas just keep talking You be trying to You still be getting caught It don't work with y'all Because You know it's different But if a nigga was on the street Like it'd be different Like your pause may not work nigga Like you know what I'm saying I said we stress you like He is still like Yeah like what Like you know Yeah he might go up the block And still say hey yo pause Like your niggas this is different Than your y'all They not letting you slide bro I'm telling you if we make a concerted Coalition Coalition Of what Okay Anti-pause Think about it You the only person having a problem Here's the thing because it's getting worse You know you getting worse Every episode So when it's going to be like Yo let me get that bread Like bread Uh uh they ain't You know what you be saying bro Shoot your shot on prize picks And get $50 instantly in lineups When you play your first $5 That's right prize picks is now Giving you $50 in lineups When you sign up And play your first $5 Prize picks makes every dunk Every dime and every board That much more exciting So don't miss the chance to get started On America's 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invited to the table The same is being valued at the table This is standing from the award show Where there was a hard R set Yeah they violated Somebody called a black man a nigger He had Tourette's He had Tourette's but he said nigger at the right time though When niggers was on stage And that's the word Tourette's made him say Not into his defense So this is the wild part So the last month Tourette's A female She's poppin on my page I know all about it She's lit The white one or the black one She'd be like one of them She'd be mad informative She tells you all the forms of Tourette's And nigger is one of the clicks No it's It's like What I'm saying is Nigger is one of her clicks They call it tix It's a tix That's why I fuck with you man We educated niggers man We educated And nigger is one of the words they say She'd be saying that she'd be like But it's a few words that they I never knew that word I'm just saying it's funny because I heard I was watching it but he might be out of line Because he was a white man and this happened to say nigger At the right time during the awards When niggers was black man on the stage too I think that makes sense man I ain't never seen no Tourette people in the crowd At no other awards shows We've all been out here Everybody here been here for a long time Why all of a sudden in 2026 With two black men on the stage It's a nigger with Tourette I know it He couldn't resist He was like on the mic or something Yeah they was on the stage Nah I seen two black men with the tix Right but what I'm saying That was the tix That was the tix That was the tix That was the shippel show That was the tix That was the shippel show That was the tix It was the nigger family It was the tix No disrespect to nobody That has Tourette We're not making fun of it We're just going through this whole thing So I know you're going to chop How convenient it was For his tix to come out At that very moment after two black people Just did their thing Pause What was the pause in that Two black men I didn't specify I'm fighting again I didn't say if a man or a female did their thing I didn't specify I'm going to let them slide That could be held up in court That could take some time I'm going to just let them catch that charge They ain't no verses pause That was one of them Are you actually valued if you've just been invited? I think it depends on what you've been invited to Sometimes just being invited Being invited is not being the same as being valued You heard? You can be invited to be the Circus clown inside the room That you don't even know about You don't even know facts 100% Would you go to a room that you know you're not Valued at? Mmm No, that's not a room I want to be in No matter what type of room It was and has a lot of Opportunity in the room with those type of people Who kind of feel like that about us anyway But we do have Valued at We have something to offer for them Because of who we are But that doesn't mean you're valued in the room So do you go in those rooms where you value that Where you think you could get value from Am I getting value out of that room for myself? I mean Because if I'm going to get value for myself then Boom, I might chance it You go to a room you're not valued at But you feel like you could get value from that room If I could get some value in that room If it's value for me in that room I'm busting up in that motherfucker Whoa Damn I'm trying to talk civilized to you here man This was a good subject I quit the show Spitz can I talk to you for a second Spitz I'm not going to talk about the subject no more He's like nah I want to get off it I can pause too I don't want to get off nothing Let's go to the next topic It's getting crazy It's getting crazy Yeah it's getting me that's it It's getting chippy Every relationship has to be mutually beneficial I mean every relationship has some balance in it Mutually beneficial I don't think no I mean They got this thing 50-50 There's a certain thing like a 50-50 I do then you do It's a balance that needs to have You need to have a relationship I think you got to have some type of value If you're not Useful then you're useless Right you don't want to be Misused but you want to You want to be useful So you want to be an asset So whoever you in relationship with Friendship Brotherhood Comrades business Whatever it is your lady You want to be an asset to them So does she have to be mutually that asset to you Is the question She has to be valuable to me Is it going to be not valuable to you Is she going to bring the same thing You bring it to the table mutually She might bring something different baby This is what we're trying to figure out It might be something different It might be what I like That's the balance though right That's the balance So it doesn't have to be a mutual benefit Meaning it has to be the same benefit If I do it she got to do it You know what I'm saying So does that equate to that in your brain Or does that matter to you Or you want some 50-50 shit What the fuck I don't even know what the fuck this nigga just said What the fuck I'm saying like You just started Man what he did I can't do no hands I'm like what the I thought I answered it already But obviously I did You answered it for yourself You answered it for yourself You said what you bring to the table That I said she Her value to me may be Benefit you Somewhere else she may bring other things She may be super resourceful She may be super reliable She may be a free Like she could be Whatever it is that I like Beneficial is a tricky word I feel like y'all got to be Mutually aligned in a sense Like where y'all Help each other Or bond each other in some kind of way Beneficial is start It sound the word sound like Transaction of like you got to be Getting something for something That's why it sound tricky to me If we align Like we don't got to even be in the same You know profession Or make the same what's anything But if we align with what we do align with I think that works I like that so the lady said If you want her to quit her job She need 45 To 50k per month If Who said that? The lady To smoke coke? What? My partner has to Give her 45 to 50k For her to not work Maintain her lifestyle Do she got that? So she basically saying That's what her over here is If the partner need that like I need 50 this month Do she got that? Or is it over? No but here's the thing What she's saying is If you come into her as a boyfriend figure Right And you say to her Hey I'm the type of nigga that don't want my woman To work I want you in the house But she need a 50 Okay so you not gonna be making your own money I'm gonna sit you down And I'm not only gonna pay your bills But I'm gonna give you extra And that's gonna come up to 40 or 50k That's a half a million dollars a year You said this is a monthly thing A month? She wants that For you to be her girlfriend Right if If you telling her not to work She was already making She was already quitting And you stopped her from doing that Stay home I want you to do that I don't want you to work Right So what was she working Because If she making 50 You'll be god damn baby bring it in You're making a 50 I personally would never tell her to quit that job Why would I tell you to quit Would you tell somebody to quit that job She might shit knowing us She might shit knowing us She might shit knowing us and more crazy shit Would you pay somebody 50,000 a month For them to be your girlfriend No No that's to keep her upkeep That's basically the same thing What he's saying is the same thing She needs that money to Maintain her lifestyle She need that money Frankie You need that money Frankie 50k 50k is a wild number I need to see If you get somebody 50k a month I need to see what's going on No 50k It might be a nigga that do that A few months This is not in perpetuity though Niggas That ain't in perpetuity That's just for now Just for now To this 50 run out Just to this 50 run out He might got 3,4,6 months in him But he ain't him But is it forever Till that lawsuit went out No I'm saying Whatever it is he might just say She just like that More power to him and her I'm not telling nobody to quit that 50k a month Personally Right but as a woman If you making that money You won't even want to I don't need you to get my own Anything that happen with you You might be mad one day Why would a woman want to stop Making 50 grand a month For a nigga to give it to Yeah It's backwards It's baffling Do you think people underestimate how much Your personal life impacts Your business decisions and success Yes Because it depends on your behavior I believe that Your behavior can ruin your business You could be You know we see like Everywhere from Actors to Athletes To rappers and ours Whatever you doing on your off time Becomes part of your Your story and what's going on with you Anywhere because you in a public life So I definitely think Your personal decisions that you're doing I don't think people always Look at it that way But everything you're doing Is going to be associated to your business Some people will still do business with you You know what I'm saying Or you see sometimes athletes get into some And all the companies drop them Or even as a rapper I've had situations Where you know something will happen And they like we kind of We fuck with you We cool and all that but we can't really Get none of that That happened to me for sure Over here so you know that's how Anybody's behavior Is going to be I don't even think it's a celebrity thing You know what I'm saying You could look on people's companies now Look on people's social media Just like cops get fired You see the cops twerking And then got fired The lady cops twerking And then got fired I know all about She was decent She was like in a video Twerking and then fired She might use that for something She got to take that behavior to another occupation Keep her uniform and use that As the knock on the door as the police I don't know if they let them keep it Or get a fake one Costume at this point I just think the higher up So whoever that may be They don't really want to Mix their name with no bullshit But behavior is everything like Fab said Like I fucked up I fucked up a lot of things Of behavior We know We know 100% We want to start this Gymnasium Jones We want to start this I fucked up shit too Let me tell you I smacked the shit out of a director In 4040 At a BT party Damn Yeah Then when it was time to Videos to get on BT There was an issue So I know all about scaring the money away I lost a whole movie role By doing what Was caught up in some bullshit And lost a whole role Gobblest to dad Pop Smoke That boogie movie That was supposed to be in you That was my role I went on a set Got into some bullshit The shit hit the TMZ The first people to call me was the head of the company Like yo We don't know if it's true or not But the fact that it's out We can't associate And then broke out that role I'm glad he did You would have been good in that role It was a basketball role Maybe it actually messes up The valley Especially now everything is going to be a TMZ They can't wait to You gotta look at your head Some people don't get the opportunity to bounce back From certain behavior Some shit I'm very lucky Let me tell you something about you Bro You Are the living breathing example of that Yo I don't know how to take that I don't know if that's a compliment No no no What? We all know you fucked up a lot of shit With your attitude and your behavior We know that but You're smart enough And creative enough And then you was able to bounce back I give you that Because it's harder than When you're scared of money What? Harder I'm done with the show I can't see it Calm down You sound like you're in a bad relationship Niggas said I can't be here I gotta give up Bro you can't say words like harder though Bro Difficult It was more difficult Bro it was harder Your choice of words Harder is an addiction if you do know that And when you look at what it means It don't mean that But like the setup before you said that You just gotta chill I gotta Chill Your head though It's hard For me to talk Difficult I'm not switching my words to Difficult It's like I gotta be so conscious On what I'm saying Pause That's the way of life I tried to give you Your little Set up right there Give you your little flowers Because you fucked up a lot of shit You know And they thought you fucked up some mother shit But you didn't You're doing really really good Round of applause Jimmethy Jones Gymnasium Caput Don't get his credit for being such a Creative guy You know Appreciate you I'm not talking no more though Who you date affect your business opportunities And how you should handle it How y'all feel about that Maybe I think if you allow it to It depends I mean What you think man It all depends Like if you walk in a Like a business meeting Or like a social gathering With your colleagues No matter what industry You in And you walk in there with a known prostitute That everybody What A known prostitute A prostitute could definitely hinder your business You can't pull up to the Mean like that What you mean Drewski was sitting Floor seats With a porn With a porn actress I might have been his That's what I'm saying It could be your woman It could have been cool On the wood Ew God damn Damn I don't want to talk You just said that a question ago And you was right back You already know what it is Let's rap about some hoops real quick Brought to you by the homies at prize picks New York is in indie this Friday This hasn't been the same Since Tyrese Halliburton has been out All season Crazy how they had such a run last year I've been trashed this whole Year without Holly Any thoughts on Jarvis Walker He been hooping for indie And on defense he a little different More rebounds More rebounds But you see what his last game was like I'm gonna go less I'm gonna go more with points His last game he did good on points But his career He might be in a good Everybody get a good game every now and then But his stats ain't For me to put my money on I think he even being brought up He might catch a little high street What's your name? Spitzzo? I don't know Jarvis Walker like that I'm gonna go less His seasonal stats He just looked like he had a good game last game Not to say you scrub a number No But even a garbage can't get a steak sometimes Yeah I can't assess that But back to what's important You already know what it is New York, Jalen Brunson You know how we do, Josh Hart What you think that's gonna be about Jose Alvarado More points, more assists More threes, what we talking about Let's go next More points for Jalen Brunson What about Josh? More rebounds for Josh And I'm gonna say More assists for Jose What you think, East? I like the first two picks I'm gonna go more More points for him I'm not really sold on him yet I'm gonna keep it less He's like an X-Factor player Every game he's not going You see the stats in the last game But sometimes You have 16 And then another game you might have So he hit a miss though The goal is not needed Every game You don't gotta do this I'm gonna lessen on Alvarado You right baby How many times a week should a couple have sex? Guru We gotta bring that to the table Let's talk about the niggas that's in the relationship Y'all would know better than me Yeah Let's talk about it It ain't no limit to how many times a week But I would say you at least gotta get When the spirit moves me You at least gotta get it one time a week No matter what No matter what I don't know about that one time a week I said it ain't no limit to how many times a week But at least you better get at least one time a week Alright where you at with it? You one time a week? Did I say that? Did I say that? How many? I'm in a plural situation I'll say that Or you need to how many days exactly Because it varies sometimes You niggas is in a relationship You niggas You two niggas right here You niggas And the question is how many times a week Should a couple have sex You niggas In a couple situation You heard my answer Everyday If it should happen If you wanna category once a week I did not say once a day I was speaking from people in a relationship standpoint From other people In general You should not be driving more a week If you're in a relationship You should not let a week pass Once a week is crazy But I mean at least get that If you're in a relationship Because two weeks is way far out of bounds Imagine a third week Come on now I'm trying to say Third week You're in a bed with your lady And you're not humping What I don't know nothing about it What I'm going through the simulation I'm just trying to understand The question is how many times a week How many times a week Did you not hear me You said what everyday How many kids you got He got a bunch of kids Seven times a week So the average person should go If time permits Right because you Because it's 24 hours in a day What do you think Spitz I don't know I'm like you I'm not in a relationship right now I think it's been in relationships What's going on man If I was What y'all doing in a week If I was in a relationship I was single in a week Say what What you doing in a week single It's hard out there man What you doing in a week single Man it's With the blue shoes and all that It ain't every week sometimes It can be slow You go through slow You don't think it's slumpy It's slow week It can be slow week What's the slow week Nothing You think that a person in a relationship Don't go through a drop You don't think they go through I understand that they may because sometimes Some people in a relationship And I'm speaking generally to these people Over here that maybe like You not as aroused Or it's It's slow week And then she probably like Want it and you like man girl I don't feel like it I don't feel like it This is maybe for niggas in a relationship No it ain't I don't feel like it That's why I said I wasn't talking to you niggas I knew you niggas wasn't going to Never Never tell them that I'm saying it Don't be in a relationship With somebody that ain't going to Turn you on Or ain't going to always arouse you It's the feet And the purpose of even being with somebody I ain't going to be with nobody that Freaky connection if you're in a relationship with somebody That's the only way it could be A relationship That's what I'm saying I want to be Turned on I want to be in lust with my partner I want to like Be in complete lust with her I want to be outside with her and look at her and be like God that's on Monday And then how you feel on Tuesday I need her to beat like Like that I need her to be fly Gorgeous I want to like Be outside with her and I want to I want to imagine things about her I want to fantasize about her 100% I want to think about her While I'm with her As if I've never been with her That's why I keep a fly check 100% I need that You're in a relationship that that person Has to 100% turn you on 100% That shit could fade fast Y'all still seven times a week Seven times a week when y'all beefing That's what I want to know cause you said Seven times a week is We know that you're not doing seven times But I like I like the angry shit sometimes The angry shit is I like the getting back From the pause I was about to go crazy I'm not I'm just trying to say you gang bang I didn't even say it Gang bang Gang bang fucking is crazy What are you talking about Gang bang What we talking about I don't know where you went What you just went Gang bang What I was saying was Remember To answer the space question During problems You You might not fuck seven days a week I'm not gonna tell me shit don't get dry When niggas is beefing I just said that I ain't in a relationship The get back from that It's always But how do you go about that Do you do it while she's still mad Sometimes Yeah Sometimes it goes down Sometimes The opportunity is kind of like The opportunity is like The opportunity is like The opportunity We're not gonna say We're not gonna hear that If I would have said it It would have been all I didn't hear it Sometimes it goes down What You asked me a question You would have said that they would have been pausing I didn't hear it Oh I get it There was a lack of You were saying The argument over the midst of an angry situation Is sometimes it happens But that's a very very very Rare window that that can happen What you mean It's sometimes just be mad sometimes It's like playing double dutch with Death streams and shit like that Even in that situation You could be mad at them up You could be on 10 mad That's still You still see them up for that don't mean like I'll never touch them You might be mad at them But if the opportunity presents itself In that 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You might not Everybody who Speaks up doesn't do it with just voice They might do something They might be out there And protesting They might boycott something You know what I'm saying People do different things in different ways I think some people are more passionate About certain situations So they volunteer They input a lot of times Just different opinions Some people might believe things In one way, some people believe things in another way And then that causes the back and forth But I don't think As a celebrity you are obligated To You are obligated to Stand up for yourself and stand up for your people And stand up for What's right But you can do it in different ways Versus having to say something Or action could be What about when they They want to use your influence To stand up for their cause And that necessarily ain't Your cause You can't allow that But if it's something you believe in Sometimes I feel compelled to talk about something that I I'm passionate about Like it's like These kids shooting At each other And hit a two year old School park That's something that I'm like I gotta say something Touch my heart I feel obligated I have to do this I don't think Because everybody's Human in their own way So it's like Nobody's obligated to do anything Right, but if you feel Some kind of way Then speak on it You don't gotta do nothing You can live your life the way you want to live your life Right Jim, I don't know if this was We did We went to some event And it was some kind of A Political event Trying to stop project 20 2025 Oh, it may was in the store I don't feel like He was jacking it No, he wasn't The speeches are nothing No, I wasn't You know what we are I felt like we was bamboozling A little bit like they put us in a room And use our face for their cause No matter if we was jacking it or not Because we was already in that room So whatever they were speaking to They put us on What you thought you was coming there for The bag They throw the bag in front of you And then they hit you And you talk about all type of wild shit And have your face like fat was here And he greased on what we were talking about Fuck everybody You just go put that on me like that But that's the type of situations That I'm talking about You know what I mean? I blame you You came with the bag You said I got a bag for us Or we gotta do a show for 5 minutes And then I see Spitz put a lot of Oat from Bag Day Everybody getting the bag We got bamboozling Didn't they lock that lady up too? Okay, no Letitia James I didn't want to say nobody No, no, no, no No, she ain't Nah, it was some regular shit The Trump is going after her Because she was attorney general And she was putting her foot down And stepping on him Right, and that's why he's doing it Exactly So I think what they was doing Was for the right cause Because they was trying hard To win the election At this point So they were trying to use celebrities And you know what I mean? And they were using New York So they had a bunch of niggas there I got the spill on what it was But when we got there I felt like Some of the dynamic changed a lot It got heavier there for some reason Right because they wanted everybody in the building So they didn't tell you much Yeah, but like he said Even the narrative they started pushing Got a little heavier in there It was just like whatever it is It's cool I don't feel like we obligated I'm obligated to push any narrative Or talk about anything that's not on my heart That I don't feel that I need to talk about That makes sense for how I'm feeling How I'm living and things like that You know what I mean? I talk about a lot of things that do concern me Like you and me like that I always talk about my neighborhood And the poverty and things kids go through And shit like that just like you and shit No one's obligated I think everybody should speak on what they Are comfortable or passionate about But I don't think anybody is Obligated to do or get Validated by what somebody else think Like you don't got to speak For any reason If you feel like you should speak on it Then speak on it But for anybody else's validation I don't think anybody is obligated And I don't think niggas should be telling Other people what they should be doing Or what they shouldn't be doing You can't be right You do it niggas I always feel like that Telling other people what they should be doing Or what they shouldn't be doing By whatever age and you not doing nothing But sitting on your couch I feel about that But how you feel about the fan And wherever they at And you they favorite rapper And Whatever their political views are They going through that And you they favorite rapper And you ain't said a word about it Yeah Yeah and they feel like you Should speak on it Yo Eastem I got all your albums I love you to death but why you not speaking on this Why you not Yo Yo say free Palestine You ain't said it yet So how do you feel in that situation Do you feel obligated in that situation No cause you may not agree with what they talk about I still don't feel obligated You know what I mean? I don't No at the end of the day The way they feel Whatever their political views May not be yours 100% Whatever is on your heart to speak on You should anything else I don't feel we are obligated to speak on that We don't feel like speaking on Right so nigga might have a whole Another cause like whatever his cause is May not be yours and if you felt Passion about it that's something totally different You know what I'm saying It's like you hit me for Speaking of fans the way we engage with fans Is different now do you sometimes Feel disconnected from your fans And if so how do y'all deal with Hey because the way music Is consumed and everything is digital Is not so much touching Touching people pause Touching people Whatever man I said pause bro I said pause This is why the game is called pause When you say something out of line You say pause that clears your name You don't even have to go over it again I said pause You didn't pause in gym a lot for somebody who Don't want to play because y'all got me nervous bro Because y'all got me nervous bro I'm speaking nervous bro I'm speaking nervous I'm moving different beats My body different beats This is like come on man Put your skirt up man But now you think it's a disconnect From technology And different things like that Yo man niggas getting paused every day Every day B I don't know like I mean I don't really understand the disconnect Between I think Everything is online Like before like say When you were doing your thing you had to get out In the street and now you don't really Have that kind of connection That's like you Right like the kids babies You don't promote the same way You had to get on the road And actually go to the city Do radio Go to the stations Everything is zoom right now You can zoom every radio station right now Some people are spinning back to that Cause I think J. Cole just did Like a indoor box with us He jumped in a car and went drove around I think that's good to do though I think it's more a surprise type of thing now It's almost like oh alright they viral On tiktok, instagram Everybody talking about them oh they gonna be In my city this friday Let's take a chance and go check them out You ain't even gotta be a fan of that person It could just be the thing to do Cause that's what's going you know what I mean Go there and get some content Let me pull up to this cause this was going on You ain't checked out nothing they been doing You don't even really care but that's what's Going on for the week So is that a disconnection for you? Is that a disconnection where now Just you trying to connect with a fan It may not even be a fan It might be just somebody who want to I think with me more Just me speaking personally The people that connect with me They've expressed that Just moving city to city Just over the years So I try to cater more To them And then anybody else that might be A fan this week might not be I'm not really trying To focus on that I'll be more tapped in like oh Not this person been fuck with me this long Let me keep doing that I'll tap more on what I know Is going They fuck with me I'm not really chasing what don't fuck with me Before it was different because We didn't have the internet Social media and when records came out It was only a few that came out So the fans had to focus on the records that this Drop and then they had to go see you Or go to the records store to get Just a more personal connection Now your record drops and they still got 93 million other records that they could go see That drop today before And they wasn't getting it from The device to the phone Was it so accessible To get it on the radio Or hit a song Hit somewhere But it's like Is that a disservice to us Or is it better now I don't know if it's a disconnection As more of it's like A different type of connection You know what I'm saying like a different route You don't go to the streets anymore Now you go to social media You don't go On tour or on what's the name You go to do podcasts You know what I mean I think it's just changed The route and it's kind of changed It's not physical no more But for a fan For a fan it may be even better Because now you can Connect with a person that you Actually got love for People can DM you You can tell somebody exactly how they feel You can comment opposed to Not being able to do that before I think the audience The audience changed Yeah it changed It might not be a disconnect Because the engagement is way iller right now The audience just switched up The person that would have waited in line Or woke up early in the morning to get that album Or get that meet and greet with that artist Because they was at that record store They ain't really got to do that no more It's still something that's missing from how it once was Because it's not manually You ain't got to really do that You don't got to connect with people Physically but that's society in the whole You know like how when you would Go to the tunnel and feel that energy Inside the club that same kind of Like that connectivity Like you saying it's not In front of you anymore Now you go viral That's the equivalent Of that feeling Speaking of that feeling Pause We got my man The relationship guru in the building No but I want to just say this before that I know we got that But I just feel disconnected in certain things Because it's like a Train going out on right now What's the train world Well girls Are like taking Back the BBLs like taking Taking the ass out They going to get a surgery again to get rid of it Taking the ass out Reversing it Going back to the UnBBL UnBBL is crazy UnBBL right now UnBBL UnBBL it Cardi says she's doing it You can have it Bernice posted something up about it She just did it But I just want to say ladies You can have this back Slow down Chill out You're moving too fast Let's think about this This is too early You want to keep them? I don't know who's giving your advice out there Just relax leave it alone You want to keep them back now Be proud of what the doc gave you Be proud Right No back seats Take it back No back seats It is what it is This is what we need you as the Guru As the relationship Guru I got life advice I got relationship advice I'm a love Guru I can help you I'm 29 And my little brother is 13 He stole my vape And took it to school Which got him suspended My mom thinks it's my fault because It was mine I told her I stole it She didn't really punish him And I don't have kids So I'm not sure how to approach the situation I also don't want to undermine Her parents What should I do? This is relationship advice? I give life advice to you You give life advice to me? I'm a life coach You're a life coach You're not just a relationship Guru And a life coach Let me hear this Listen 29 year old Leave it alone Alright This is your little brother He did have a talk with him You can't undermine the parenting of your parent You are not his mother or father You got to leave it alone It's a vape man What we talking about? He got suspended What do you mean? Because he said he's 29 He got in trouble with his 13 year old brother I don't know He stole his vape I don't know I'm on bad I told him he's 29 They don't have it all together yet They might still be in the mom's house But getting in trouble with your 13 year old brother 29 would have vaped in your mom's house It's crazy That's not the point No, the 13 year old got in trouble He said the 13 year old He said the 13 didn't get in trouble He got in trouble at school though He got suspended at school He's home doing nothing He's lit He's lit Let's go back to school I got suspended plenty of times It was lit They got to go to work I'm doing staying in here This is the behavior that fucked up them deals Right here That behavior right there Is the behavior that fucked up the deals early on With what? That shit you just did That suspended shit At least I didn't go to jail I got suspended Would you ever have a suspension for your child? Turn his mic off I was on the suspended list Turn his mic off I was getting packed up But for the 29 year old Shock it up It is, it's life bro 13 year olds they're going to make mistakes They're going to do stupid things It happens, you did stupid shit when you was 13 It's okay That's your mother's child Leave it alone, the most you can do is have a conversation With your little brother And let him know how important stealing Is something not to be doing That's it, that's the worst part about this whole thing That's the story of his brother He's 29, he didn't take that on the hop Why is you Trying to get that 13 year old brother Why is he asking Meno about this Because I'm a life coach We need to ask him What to do with the 29 year old They vape from the 13 year old brother This is the part of me Listen man, like I said Love guru, let's ship guru Life coach I'm gonna put the questions in the comments And we're gonna close out We're gonna shout out the playmaker Playmaker, you already know what it is We love you playmaker Like, comment, and subscribe Out of here Next week, next episode We're gonna catch your whole Let's rap about it