1451 - How to Build a Following as an Adult Content Creator Online with Dee Dee Secretfreak

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I've gotten more than one email from couples, especially couples who are looking to start up an OnlyFans or a Fansly or an X or whatever because nowadays that's what everybody does and they want information on how to do it. Now DD Freak, Super Freak who's been on my show before, actually emailed me about doing an episode on like the good or the bad and the ugly of why she left OnlyFans, but she's also on Instagram and acts and she's built a following on all those places and she wanted to do an episode on it. So I was like, oh my God, that's so perfect because people have been asking about it. And that's what we talk about on this episode. She posts hot pics, she started on Instagram and she worked up to like 90,000 followers on Instagram that went to X and worked way up to 20,000 over there and she's monetizing over there. So she gets a lot of action and then she did go on to OnlyFans and she gets specific about all of those platforms, how she did well, the things that went wrong, the things that went right, the things that she does to make sure she's safe and unfindable because she's anonymous. She talks then about, like I said, getting onto OnlyFans and she talks about everything she did on OnlyFans and she also talks about why she left OnlyFans, which is super interesting. She's only on X and Instagram and Patreon. She also talks about after OnlyFans that she got onto Patreon. She talks about that platform as well. So she's not an OnlyFans. She's on all the other ones though now. This isn't her regular gig. She has a full-time job but she does like creating content and she does have a good following and she is effing hot. Okay. She's the whole like MILF, tan, MILF and a bikini. You know, what is that? Content creator. You know, like that's her vibe. You're going to love her. Tons of guys do. So you're going to want to check her out all, she gives shout outs at the end to all of her stuff, but the links will be in the description. But this is a super interesting episode for anyone that wants to create a platform and build a following. I'm going to get right to and be right back on with DD Super Freak. Hi DD. DD secret freak. Welcome back to the Strictly Enormous Podcast. You were on before, right? You called in before. Yes. Yeah. You called in and we talked all about like your whole, we got your whole life story in your previous episode. You know, I always like to get someone's backstory first, right? So if people want your whole backstory, you can, we're talking bigger people. Let me just give that episode is 1262 DD. Oh, not to 1262. That's the one that she cheated on her husband. Where are you in my, what number was your thing? DD secret freak. Oh, I'm not sure what number my episode was. It was a very good episode though. I must have done it. I must have spelled it wrong. I think it's one, oh, one, two. One, oh, one, two, one. Oh, you already did one on posted naked pics online for husband. That's okay. So you did one, another one where we talked about posting naked pics for your guide. This today we're going to talk about content creating. I can't tell you how many, and you're going to talk about like the good, the bad and the ugly. Like you've tried only fans. You're not there anymore. You've done other things, right? That's what we're going to talk about the whole process and stuff you have built a following. And I know that I do get a lot of couples because nowadays that content creating is a thing, right? And people are, can just go put themselves out there and make a couple of bucks and just have fun. People are wanting to do it. And I've gotten more than one email from people saying do a whole episode on it. Give us tips. Like what should you do now? You don't really like only fans and we'll get to that. You know, I do need someone to come on and talk like someone that's very successful and only fans and knows how to work that. But you're going to talk about your exact experience and your content creating. Why don't we go back to like how and why you decided to content create and like your, as well as like your husband's role in it. So went back. This was back late 2019. Lost a lot of weight. Ended up deciding to post some pictures. Utilized Instagram initially. And so went with that. Was not confident that anything would take any traction, but it did. Now since we're really talking about content creating, talk about like what you decided to post there and what you were doing and what kind of traction you were getting. Get specific. Yeah, about our specifically. I had my, my account was the quote unquote milf content lingerie and kind of sheer looking, pretty, but again, home photos and did not show my face. So this was a secret account. Did not want to show my face. And that's something that you have to think about if you're doing content creation. Are you going to show your face? Are you going to take off all your meta tags off of all of your pictures? What does that mean? Explain what that means? Cause I wouldn't know how to take a, what the fuck is a meta tag on a picture? So if you, every picture that you take with your phone, your iPhone, which most people have or your Samsung, I guess, I don't know, whatever those are has a time stamp on it. So it has a geo location on it. So when that picture is taken and you take it in your living room, then everyone knows where your living room is located. If you don't remove those. Oh, interesting. That's interesting. Right. So if you get a stalker. Yeah. That's a little scary cause I feel like a lot of, I don't even know that. And so I feel like if I don't know it, probably a lot of people don't, but I'm not like someone that posts myself. I post for my work, you know, but anyone could look into my stuff and see where I live through my post, like a picture. You can. But I have my location turned off, right? Is that how you keep it off? No, we use a specific app that goes through and erases all of those. Do you remember what the app was? Didi, you can actually use any Photoshop app. We'll take those off. Right. But they probably have apps and just Google it. Just Google it in the app store. Yeah. And it's a metadata remover. How did you know about that? So we had heard from another content creator, be careful what you wish for. We got some warnings that, you know, it's all, it's all great until someone shows up at your door. Well, how did you meet another content creator? How does that even happen? You, so a long time ago, so in 2019, you could actually DM people and they would really respond to you. So specifically, I don't know if you've heard of Lisa Ann. No. Okay. She's a milk, like the top milk content creator. And so sent her a DM. Do you have any advice? And she did come up with some great ideas and the, and the, the safety aspect of you don't want someone showing up at your door. So those safety precautions were taken to remove metadata and not show my face. What about your house? So there are other apps along with those Photoshop apps that you can put different backgrounds. So you take out, so all the background that you see in your pictures are fake? Yes. Yeah. That's smart too, because I can't tell you like sometimes when I, you know, I get a lot of couples on that have our content creating and stuff and they'll be like, Oh, we don't put our face. I'm like, Yeah, but do you put your living room? I once busted a guy cheating. I once busted a guy cheating on me because I saw like a Christmas tree at his friend's house and another girl there. And I knew he was at his friend's house. Do you know what I mean? Like backgrounds could get you busted. Okay. So you better. Backgrounds are huge. That is huge. Yeah. It's like, wait a minute. I know that painting. Yeah. No, I knew the Christmas tree, but wait. So did so for, so right from the get go, you're getting advice. You're doing your, like you're really doing your, like your due diligence to make sure you do this safely because you knew you wanted to do this and you wanted to build a big following, right? So you don't want to get any of the negatives that that woman talked to you about. So all of your, so you, so does the background when you put a fake background look normal? Like it just looks like someone else's house. You have to be very careful and utilize the AI software, a good AI editing software. But does it look good? Yeah, it looks pretty good. Okay. So every one of your pictures is a face background, is a fake background is what you're saying. We look and we see you on a car or outside. Is that fake or when you only do that when you're home? Only at home. Okay. I'm outdoors. It's outdoors. Right. Okay. I got it. Okay. Great. So you, you, and when you reached out to that woman, what other kinds of things did she tell you anything else that you remember? Her basic thing was the safety and, and keeping yourself private and, and be careful what you wish for. Because if you, if you explode, then the consequences of that you may not like. Something like the guys coming after you and all that kind of stuff. That kind of stuff or other people finding out. You're, you know, I have a real job. I have a real job. Yeah, I got it. Kids, family, you know, parents. Right. Yeah. Of course. And laws, you know, friends. Yeah. Coworkers. You know, your children's friends. So yeah, you, you have to be careful of those consequences. And so when you first went on and started posting pics, did you get an instant following waiting chance? Like, did you start to get traction very early on or forget what you said? I got traction pretty quickly and was, was absolutely flattered. I was like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe someone would find. Well, you got a very hot body for a milf, right? You're super tan. You got big boobs. You're really in shape. I do. All right. Yeah, I'll compliment you. You can thank you. Thank you. I appreciate you doing that. I appreciate that. I'll let people know how hot you are. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, go on. So I do really well and it grew and it grew and initially the Instagram, it really, really grew during the COVID time when people were home and bored. Got up to like 90,000 followers. Wow. Then wanted to do and it was kind of the wild wild west during that time, the first couple of years. There wasn't a lot of clampdown on what you could show and do. Then moved on to the Twitter where I could show more and get away with it because it's can, you know, it's continued to be the wild wild west and then I'll ultimately tried Patreon and I've kept that one and then only fans. Okay, but let's stay at Twitter for at Instagram first because you blew up to like 90,000. What do you think was the key to your success on there? Like was it you have to post every day at a certain time? You have to put a hashtag, tags like what, what do you think the secret sauce was? It has changed over time. It used to be you needed to post every day. You needed to respond. Then the logarithm, you just never know what it's going to do. I know. Sometimes you have to stop and then not post for three days and then you need to post at a certain time. You really need to use their data tools that they have to see who your followers are. So in your, in your Instagram, you can go to insights and you can see that for me, my followers are primarily American like 90% and my followers are between the ages of 35 and 65 males. So I need to think about what are the, what's the 35 year olds and 65 year old male doing? 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When they're getting to work. My European followers, if I look at my data, they're in their 20s. Interesting. That's interesting. Yes. It's very interesting. I have to say that data, like if you're on any kind of platform or doing anything, like data is so super important. I just don't get how and why so many people don't pay attention to data when it comes to like everything in life because everything in life is about data. And there's so much data available. You know, I grew really big on YouTube before I got deleted. And it was because I looked at everything the minute I would send it out. I was looking at the data of how it was going, how it was spiking, and then I would change the title or the thing. Like you know, all that data is given for a reason and you could really work with it to make yourself successful. That's what it's about, right? It is. Yeah. And so how did you go from like zero to 90,000? How long did it take? It was probably two years. Okay. That's not bad. Did you have one thing that went viral or was it slow, steady growth? It was very steady. Okay, that's important. Yeah, it was steady. And it was interesting to find out what was, because I could spend time on the nicest lingerie with a hotel setup, all the lighting, and a picture of me in my underwear, cotton panties, and a cotton bra, you know, just like this, whatever, would like go crazy. They'd go crazy for it. So I don't know if it was because they thought I was sending it to, like they imagined that it was for them. Yeah. Yeah. Like I was taking them a little, you know, I'm getting ready for work selfie. And so it was very strange what, what would work and know what shot. No, but let me tell you, yeah, but let me tell you, I have heard that exact story on more than one occasion. Okay. And it's because there's something about a blooper or even a fuck up or like you said something that's not so produced that like gets people talking. I once had a guy named Dr. Joe Court on my show and he went very viral on Tik Tok supposedly because he said like, Oh, you could still be straight and suck a dick. But really what he told me when we're on the episode is that actually he had on, do you ever see those webbed socks or like those webbed sneakers that guys could wear to the gym? They're atrocious. Yeah, they're fucking atrocious. So he was wearing those webbed sneakers in his post and people were flipping the fuck out over those sneakers. And that is, so well, not traction. It went viral because of that because people were trashing him. So sometimes when you create a mistake in the background, Toronto unicorn told me too, she did a mistake and she got up and walked off and she forgot to edit it and people went nuts over it because that's what gets people talking. And that's what you need to do in your post to make them go is like get the people, the more comments you get and everything. So people will comment on fuck ups a lot, by the way. Yes, they will. Yes. Okay, so go on. So it was steady growth, which I think is like what you actually need in the long run, right? Not just like a long haul. Yeah, totally, totally. Okay. So you're 90,000 at Instagram and then you move to X. Now, did you pick up traction and do the same stuff all over there and you did well over there? So did roll well. I've done well over there. 20,000, 21,000 on X, which is a lot because well, Instagram has changed and I can go back to those kind of rule things. But you know, anytime you comment on X, everyone sees what you comment. So they're and who you follow and it's very public in that format. So a lot of people will not comment. They will not like on Twitter, but you can see on your insights as well how many people are looking at something, how many people are zooming in, how many people are lingering on that Twitter post. So again, using those insights, you can see what works and what doesn't work on both Twitter and Instagram. And don't you find that sometimes like a couple of things that are nowhere and sometimes like out of the blue will just get like 10 times the amount of something else and you know, I don't know. For me on Instagram and Twitter right now, certain posts are getting 75,000 views when they normally get like 10,000 or 5,000. You know what I mean? Like they're getting, you know, 75,000 and it's not happening the day of it's happening three days later. It's like, and it's happening on X too. I'm like, what the fuck's going on? But like you said before, it's important that the algorithm could change on a fucking dime. Yeah. And they decide. Yeah. They decide what they're going to do and it may kill you or it may explode. You just don't know. Yeah. You ever get I was shadow band for years, but I didn't ever stopped because I was like, I don't care. I've got, I would have, I had like 16,000 followers and I get like 30 likes if that on a post is like, it looked like I had fake followers, but I, they were, I was shadow band. But over time, all of a sudden now they're blowing me out like crazy. So you just don't know. You never know. I had an Instagram that Instagram was like 90,000. It got hacked. Oh my God. And somebody stole it and I couldn't get it back. There's companies that are made. So it's starting over. There are companies that are made to do that. The minute my YouTube got taken down, someone started a fake YouTube thing with my name, with my episodes saying, go to my Patreon to their cup of coffee site and shit. It took me more time to get them taken down than them to take me down on YouTube. It was so fucked up. But there's companies that like go in and do this shit on the regular, you know what I mean? They're sniffing around. How'd you get it back? Ended up didn't get it back. Just got them shut down. So I had to restart. So I had a backup. No, I'm not kidding. It was terrible. Oh my God. They weren't posting anything. It was like they were just holding it hostage. And I wasn't going to pay for it. Of course. I had to pay them to give it back. But it's so and it is absolutely insane that they can come up with all these passwords that you've got. And I had it like four factor authentication and they still got it. Wow. Yeah. And I wrote a book and then two days later after it went up on Amazon, somebody wrote a book with the same title with my name. And it turns out that my publisher is like, oh yeah, they do that to everybody. Like there's all these companies out there. God knows where they're located, where they do this kind of stuff. You know what I mean? It's like a thing. So you always got to be very careful. So now on X, you're on there and you started to do really well on there as well. And you could do, you know, X, I see straight up porn all the time. I'm like, what the fuck? Yeah. I don't do that. I'll have, I'll show nothing below the waist, above the waist here, stuff that you cannot get away with on Instagram anymore. And some of the things that you say on Instagram, your wording will get your posts deleted. So you have to be very careful about that. They love the quote unquote solicitation. So you can't say certain words. So again, if you're starting all of this, you need to be aware of the platform rules and how they can be used against you. No, but explain that because I think it's super important about the solicitation thing because this is where people, and listen, if you're starting in only fans or, you know, whatever, and you're sending people over to a platform where it is paid and that's your point. I mean, you need to sort of say it, but like you have to, like you said, be careful because they could get you on the solicitation thing, right? Correct. So what you have to do is you have to be vigilant about their terms and conditions and just giving it, give it a Google or go on to, you know, GROC or something, some other platform and say, what are the no, no words this week on Instagram? Right. Nowadays with chat, you P T or even Google AI or like you said, GROC, whatever, you could ask it and say, and I really think you could actually put in, hey, I want to say this, okay, to say it. Maybe they'll tell you the right way. Right. You can even run your, yes, that you can say your whatever, you know, verbiage you want and you can run your picture through. That's great. And say, is will this, and they'll say, oh, this is has a 93% chance of getting taken down. Before we move to only fans because I'm assuming that's next, I want to ask you during all this time when you got like 90,000 people on Instagram, you got, you know, 20,000 over on X. You know, I want to ask you some questions about like, you know, participating and communicating with your people, but I want to know if you did get any of like negative stuff like stalkers or any of that stuff that that woman, not that no one found you out, right? Because you were smart about it. But like, did you get stalkers or guys harassing you or did you find that the guys that were your people and found you and were on your platforms were for the most part cool? I would say 90, 99% of people are very cool. Yeah. And they don't like you. They just stop following. Yeah. They don't like your content. They don't. And they don't say anything. Yeah. But there is that small population of people who don't have anything nice to say. And it's, you know, if you don't like, I'm not, this is, I didn't come after you. But I didn't ask you to follow me. Yeah. It just came up on your timeline. Yeah. Please. And I had one guy just to this day chaps my ass. You're, you look like a man. Yeah. Terrible. Yeah. And look at it. Sad because you know what? And I'm right there with you because I'm on a public platform and I get, you know, comments all the fuck over the place. And I get so many rude comments because I'm very opinion. You know, guys don't like girls like me. You know what I mean? It's like a thing. You can't, you know, I talk too much. So I get it all the times. And those are the stuff you remember. Like, look, one guy said, you look at me and you have literally a hundred thousand people telling you you fucking don't, but you remember that one. And it's just so neat. And it's just, it's just unhappy people. That's what I always have to remind myself like these two is just unhappy. Because why like, I'm a happy person. I've never like posted something mean to somebody else. You know what I mean? Like, I, you know, so it doesn't, it's got to be that they're unhappy because why else? Like, would you ever post something like that on somebody's pictures? No, no, no. It just keeps scrolling. Yeah. You're happy. Yeah. So that's it. So, but, but I love that you say though that because I think sometimes people just assume that you would get all kinds of creeps and stuff, but it's, but you didn't. No, most of the people are super nice, complimentary. I get lots of fire, you know, and what about, I mean, now I know this from having like a page on a discord and an accent on Instagram. I don't do it as much as on Instagram, but like you really do have to comment back. I mean, I actually like it. Like I love what I do and I love talking to my people because we're talking about the stuff that we're talking on my show. And like, this is what I actually am interested in. So it's fine for me. It's not like a job, but I feel like what a lot of people don't get is that unless you're actually interested in talking to your fans and keeping in touch with them and participate, like that's the only way to keep them, right? And that's the difference, I think, to the, than the people that go big and stay and the people that don't, you know, so you got to make sure that you like what you're doing because you have to do that. You must interact. Yeah. And there again is that whole building your, your platform. Yeah. You must interact within a certain timeframe. Totally. So especially on the X. Yeah. Mm hmm. Yes. On, on Instagram and X, you, you must post or a must comment on your posts when they, when they respond. And those written posts are, those are golden. When people have the nerve to post words, not just little symbols, but when they post words that just elevates your, your, your, your, your feed. Yeah. Of course. You just really need your people to use their words and type something out. And that really, really helps. That's one of the, that's the best thing they can do. Right. DMs don't help. Mm hmm. But, but liking and sharing and making a thoughtful comment is, is, I mean, that is like chef's kiss. Right. So you enjoy that. So now you're on, right. Now, when do you go do after you get on Twitter is that when you move? Cause like eventually you, I would assume you want to kind of monetize, right? Were you monetizing on Instagram on X? I mean, Um, yeah, I monetize on X. I get a little bit, not a whole lot. Um, but, um, I've got some other branding stuff coming up. Um, I've got a coffee and, um, and then a dental, an oral care health product. Um, everybody loves my smile. So I'm partnering with an oral health product. Right. So you get sponsors, but wait, but let's stay with X. Like how did you, did you, you, cause when you want to monetize, you have to, have a certain amount of engagement and stuff, right? Like, you know, how did it take you a while? Like, did you just start monetizing? 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OK. They don't they really don't even know it's happening because everybody gets ads anymore. So it but I yeah, it just has to has to be with my my people, my 35 to 65 year old males. Right. There you go. OK, so and they know that. So they they they give them ads that are those kinds of people that are that appropriate. Yeah, they have all that that shit in the background. So now it did. What made you decide to go on to Onlyfans? Wanted to show a ad been asked actually to show more. And so went ahead and did that. So we just did three stages of photos. So we would do Instagram appropriate Twitter. And then we would do Onlyfans appropriate. So like if we had to rate it like a movie, is it like PG 13 Instagram are rated Twitter X rated Onlyfans? Yeah, sounds great. OK, that's right. Yeah, that's a great that's a great analogy. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. And and so just progressed to that just based on people wanting more content and less clothing. So trying to do tasteful air quote nudes never full legs apart and all of that. But so more playboy not penthouse. Correct. That would be an excellent analogy as well for those who know what playboy penthouse are. Yeah, yeah, there was always that. And then there's hustler, which is even more hardcore, right? There's those are the three things, right? Some people are the three things. Yeah, some people go. So it was playboy. It was playboy stuff. Yeah, you're totally a playboy. And listen, you know, what's great about those different magazines was there are like every guy is into something different, right? Some guys don't like penthouse and hustler. They they just want the playboy, right? Some people want the hardcore hustler all the time, right? So there's something somebody for everybody. And because you're going out to millions of people, it's like you're going to find your people depending on what you put out, right? You're going to get those guys that love playboy, right? And want exactly what you're offering. Now, when you went on to OnlyFans, was it hard to like sign up and get permissions and everything like was the platform similar to everything else? To everything else, yes. You have to show your ID. They have to do verification, age verification, all of those things. So there is a process to get signed up and to create an account and have your your stuff put out there. Right. And then also the way you're going to receive your payments and all of those things. So there is a long process to do that. And we've since stopped doing OnlyFans. Yeah, we're going to get into that, but I just want to because people want to know how to start an OnlyFans. So now when you're on there and you're starting to post your stuff, are you you're using, I'm assuming your acts and your Instagram to send people over to your OnlyFans, right? Like go see more content over there, right? That's how you do it. Yes. So I use a milkshake, which is like a link or it's like a link that's in my bio. That link is both in my Instagram. And my Twitter and you can click on that link and it will show you all of my accounts that I have. Right. Okay, cool. And so OnlyFans, you get on there. How many people signed up for you and what were your prices and how did you do it? Did you do a free like what's like, you know, it was like 999 and had, I don't know, like 300 subscribers, 999 a month. And then you could, they could order special content for a higher price. Of course. Right. You can make special content for individuals and then they would have to pay to get the content off of OnlyFans. So you could make a special, special content saying someone's name if they wanted you to, or a special scenario or a special outfit. So why don't, I mean, should I already get to the part where why don't you, why are you not on there anymore and why you got off and why you didn't like it? Um, yeah, I mean, it got overwhelming trying to, you know, do all these requests. Um, people will steal your content anyway. I mean, it has like, we have, um, an incorporation. Everything's been stamped with that, um, incorporation, all my stuff. And people will still steal it. It's on the dark web. Um, so it just, and it just became very time consuming and not really worth. The, the, you know, the money. Right. Well, but you also had an Instagram and an X to take care of, because I do think this, and I'm just going to say the truth is that when, um, I have some people on my shows that have, uh, OnlyFans and I have a repeat Thursday. Every Thursday is a repeat episode. So people complain, why is this a repeat? It's like, every Thursday is a fucking repeat. Okay. It's repeat Thursdays. Okay. So, and so what happens with repeat Thursdays that I see, and I've known this for a very long time is that, you know, one year later, two years later, four years later, all of these OnlyFans people that when they were on my show, they had an OnlyFans and I promoted it. And then they're on my show, I'm repeating their episode. Their OnlyFans doesn't exist. I would say it's so rare, probably like 5% of the people so many years later, or maybe not even, maybe like 2% of the people. And I've had 1400 people on my show, like still have an OnlyFans. Even like my girl Casey, who was so hard dedicated, she was like working podcasts, writing books. She doesn't even have an OnlyFans anymore. And she did very well on there. So it is a, it is a full time gig. And that's what I always say, because people make fun of people that do OnlyFans and make millions of dollars. And you can. Okay. But that's should, that's going to be like your full time job. Right. And some people love that, you know, but it's not like not easy. It's constant work 24 seven, building any kind of platform, especially where when you're getting paid. Instagram, Twitter, you know, it's like free stuff. It's easy to get that. But like when you're in paid content, like Patreon, like your, you know, OnlyFans, like you got to work it because people are paying, you know what I mean? So it's you have that. Like you said, it's like it was too much pressure, right? Because you know, people are paying. You got to give them fucking content. It's very different than free content. Correct. It's paid. So they do expect or you're going to lose them. And then you're going to put stuff. It just became a vicious circle of it wasn't enjoyable. It wasn't enjoyable. Yeah. It was a chore. I didn't, it was like doing the laundry. Oh, we got to make more content. I was like, no, I don't want to do it. I don't, I don't want to, I don't want to do the laundry anymore. So, so got rid of it. Got rid of it. But there's still stuff out there. And again, now so much is AI generated. I mean, you'll have an entire OnlyFans account that is run by a 19 year old overseas. No, there's one man with any AI. And he flaked on calling into my show. There's one man, he's very famous for being a guy who has created like the top five AI generated pregnant OnlyFans accounts. You know what I mean? Like they're all AI and he's like the head of it. He like went viral for it. You know, it was like, and he was supposed to become on my show and he flaked. I was so mad because I thought it was like really interesting. So very recently, one of my guy friends sent me. A picture and I think it was like a video of like our super hot chicken. I'm like, dude, she's completely AI. Like he had no idea. So now I know who's AI and who's not. I'm starting to get good on it. But like so many people don't get that there's so many. There's fake. You know how many fake doctors there are? There was this one doctor I was sharing his viral video of like why chewing gum is so good for you because he's like a fucking hot doctor. And it was like so interesting because a lot of my friends chew a lot of gum and I'm sending it to everyone. And then I see some other woman who's like amazing. Do you follow her? Shelly Charlene. I forget her name is Charlene. She's like a woman. She's and she's outing all these AI people. He's fucking AI. I had no idea I'm sharing his shit as if he's really like this hot doctor. And he's got scrubs on and everything. But then once she pointed it out, I was like, oh my God, obviously he's AI. And now she's pointing out more. There's an older woman who's very hot and she's like a fashionista and she's very wealthy AI. I've seen her. You know who I'm talking about. Yes, I know who you're talking about. Yeah, AI doesn't even exist. She's always drinking and having more tea. Yeah, yeah. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, Charlene is outing them all. And because she you know why? Because she's the real deal. That bit, you know, and I think it's like annoying for people like, you know, listen, you know, when you're really creating real content and somebody comes in with AI and they're like, oh, gotta do AI. And you're like working your ass off, you know? Yeah, because they'll even put flaws in people. They'll put scars and stretch marks and everything. Yeah. Yeah. You need to. Oh, it's Charlene Johnson. You need to follow. She's great. She's got a billion followers. Yeah. She's like an older woman that went through men pause and like looks fucking killer. So, you know, has the hottest body, the hottest husband. She's all over the place. Is she AI? No, definitely not. She's there because my girl Susan Bratton does events with her. And I was like, oh my God, I'm so jealous. Your best friends with Shailene because I really like her. I think she's great. She, you know what it is? This is the thing. And I'm sure you get this because and we'll go back to you in a second is that, you know, I think and it's even with podcasting. I mean, I obviously love what I do. Okay. Or else why the fuck what I was doing? I didn't even get a dime for the first eight years I did my podcast. I just talked to people for free, you know, for fun. So I just think that the real like authentic, genuine people that really love what they're doing, you know, are the ones that rise to the top. It's just the way that because you have to love it or you're not going to be fucking into it. Like you weren't right for Onlyfans because you didn't want to do it and you were true to yourself. So you're like, I'm going to stop this. You have to be the ones that are making a killing on Onlyfans actually enjoy it. They love it for whatever reason, you know what I mean? And you have to. And she's very authentic. And that's what I love about her. And that's why she's so successful because she's like the fucking real deal. So when you got off of Onlyfans, like what happens when you get off? Like all your people, they just like, did you make an announcement or like, how long do you stay on a four, by the way? You just you stop posting and then until the last person's subscription runs out. So you just don't post anymore. Oh, interesting. OK, so how long were you on there? Did you last? Maybe a couple of years, maybe two years. OK, yeah, that's probably typical of like the people on my show. Right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's just it's a lot of work. You said it. Yeah, people don't get that. People don't get that. That's why I said I feel I think it's so rude when people are making jokes like, oh, Onlyfans turning and closing down that all these girls are going to have to go work at McDonald's. Like those fucking girls could run companies. OK, any bitch that's making three hundred dollars a month on Onlyfans. And you can make that, by the way, or fifty thousand dollars a month on Onlyfans is working her ass off. OK, she's not just like eating bonbons and taking pics of her feet, even though you can eat your bonbons while you're working, but you're constantly working, right? And you have a full time job. New. You're like you've got a real gig, right? Like you're like a professional. Yeah, I have a real job. So this is this is supposed to be for fun. Right. When it's not fun, I'm done. Right. You're not doing it for the money. I think that like, you know, you didn't care about the money. You were willing to give it up because it was too annoying. Correct? Correct. Correct. It was annoying. It got annoying. It was fine. It was fun at first. What kind of requests if you don't mind me asking, like, what kind of custom requests? Anything interesting? Oh, a lot of please say my name. Oh, really? Right. Yeah. It's really sad. Please say my name. Say my name. Interesting. Right. They want to touch yourself and say and say my name. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They want to pretend that they're with you. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it's like. No one's saying your name. I'm sorry. Yeah. Who knows what's going on? I mean, I have those episodes on my show too. The guys who haven't gotten fucked in, you know, 10 years by their wives, that, you know, they're not talking or people who are, you know, single or maybe their partners passed away, you know, who knows what's going on with life. Happens. Yeah, exactly. And you're talking 35 to 55 year old guys, you know, the older you get, the more you know, shit could happen. So after Onlyfans, what did you do? Just went back to X and Insta. Also, we have, we have a Patreon. So I have a Patreon account. Yeah. So the Patreon is no videos. So it's just still photos and it's at DEEDEE Secret Freak. I can make a little bit of money. It's like 9.99 a month still. Right. It's it pays for a vacation. Yeah. Why not? You know, yeah. It pays for a vacation. It's less stressful than Onlyfans. And a little more stringent guidelines. Oh, yeah. Oh my God. I can't even. Yeah. Yeah. Totally. And, you know, I was, I started only, I started a Patreon in COVID days, like around then when I was stuck at my house and I started, I didn't know anything about it, but back then they didn't have 18 plus accounts, right? So I posted and I've been on there since then. So I had 2400 posts all out in one day. Recently, this happened. I got a thing like you need to be 18 plus, like your channel. We're making 18 plus. Yes. Once I became 18 plus, DEEDEE. Okay. I had to, then I read the rules for 18 plus. You're 18 plus. Nothing public facing can have any kind of explicit content. Every episode and they turn this thing where every audio had like a, had something that anyone could listen to. I had to go through 20, 2400 posts, one by one and edit everything. To abide by their fucking rules because listen, Patreon pays more than just a fucking vacation for me. I've been working it for like six years, you know? So I, you know, work my ass off. I didn't want to lose my Patreon. I follow the rules. I'm a rule follower. Okay. I love rules because I could read them. I could live by them and I could, you know, do what they say. And then I don't have to worry about it, you know? Right. It's all real. And I have to clean it up. Yeah. Yeah. They know. And I, that's why I say for my Patreon when you're sending pics and, you know, R rated pics, right? You keep your stuff on there. Like how, how hardcore? Just more, a little more than Twitter, but not quite only fans. Right. Exactly. Yep. So a lot of sheer that and even sheer bottom. Yeah. You're 18 plus I would assume an 18 plus. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Cause you started later. They didn't have that when I started. So it was like a problem, you know? And so like, like, could we just talk about cause like, you know, do you want anything that you want to talk about any other of your platforms, content creating? And well, those are the things that I'm doing right now, the Instagram, Twitter and Patreon. Right. So let's talk about what your husband gets off on all of this stuff. Why don't we just throw that in there? Cause we have like, you know, how does your husband feel about all this content creating? Is how involved is he in all of it? He's involved. He takes all my photos. He does all of my editing and make sure that my pictures are safe. He, he posts a lot for me. He's kind of semi retired. We'll call it. Yeah. That's great. Um, it is great for him. So he, he, and then he's actually, um, he protects me. We'll just say, from, um, the nasty people. Oh, you're lucky. He deletes like anything. So you don't fucking see it. He deletes stuff. He keeps an eye on the account. I can't have, I can't be on my account. Yeah. When I'm at work. Of course. So, um, yeah. So he, he will, he will, um, he will go ahead and delete things and, and keep it nice. Um, when we got hacked, um, he worked really hard to get that account back. Of course we didn't, but he got the other one. He got it shut down on the other person's end. Yeah. Right. Um, but yeah, he's always investigating. He's always looking at the intel on it. He loves the data on what's working, what's not working. Um, and you know, let's me know where, where we need to be as far as how often we post, what the new rules are. So we can stay within the guidelines and not get shut down. Yeah. Totally. That's always the biggest fear, right? You sleep with one. I open when you're dealing with adult content. What is like the fun thing that he gets out of it? Like, you know, um, I, you know, I mean, by the way, I need your husband. Like I need, I think I might need a husband just to have like a coworker. Okay. Because I'm a little jealous that you have that fucking backup help. You don't even have anybody. Yeah. You need to get your, you need to get your man to do all that. Yeah. Because anytime I have help, I have to pay them. Like that you're guys free and he's like totally great and he's right there and he loves it. And he's super techie. Yeah. I need a semi retired guy. You just find you have 58 year old guy to come in and do all my shit that likes it though. But like that's what's great is that your husband's actually into it, right? He's into the data and doing the stuff that it takes to keep your platforms going. And he loves taking the pictures. He comes up with great ideas because he's, he's in his man brain. Yeah. So he, he knows what my demographic likes. Yeah. Um, what is realistic about, you know, what I can do, where we can go. Um, he's great at let's go this place. Let's try this. Um, we've, you know, rented cars to, to lay on. We've done motorcycles. We've done all kinds of great fun things stood in the middle of a highway in California with the double yellow going right between my legs with the mountains in the background. Oh my God. Wait, did anyone drive by? We had to, we had to hustle because there was a big duly coming down. Oh my God. But, um, so we kind of, we go and do these fun things and then we can talk about, hey, remember that photo shoot at that deserted gas station or so we have a lot of fun. Um, we get on the beach and, um, I'll change behind the towel that he's holding up into a new bikini for Malibu strings or Ola, Ola, my bikini people. And, um, so we, we just have a really good time doing it. So as long as we're having fun together and doing this together, then it'll continue. How has it added, if anything, to, you know, what has it, not how, what has it added, if anything, to your marriage? Obviously I'm assuming you guys have been together since the dawn of time, right? Yes, we have. Yeah. The dawn of time and, um, and it's fun. It's risk. We're taking risks. We're doing risky behavior that folks our age are not supposed to be doing. And what does that do for you? Does that make you feel like more alive? Make you feel like you, like give you like energy? Like what does that do for you? Yeah, it gives us connection. It gives us, um, um, a dopamine rush. You know, you're getting a rush from doing something you probably shouldn't be doing. Yeah. Even if you were 25. Um, and something to look forward to, something to train for. Yeah. Interesting. Um, to keep, to, to, you know, eat right and, um, work out and cause, you know, you don't want to look like a, you can't put on a micro bikini and be a tub. I mean, right. You know, that's mean. Maybe I don't know, but it, you know, you just have to look at the demographic on what I want my folks like. But it keeps you accountable. And sometimes it's good to have, right? Like I always liked having a gym buddy because it keeps me accountable to go more than maybe I would go on my own. So this is kind of like, you have to stay in shape. You know what I mean? If I want to keep doing this, yeah, I should stay in shape. Yeah. Yeah. That's good. Does it, uh, you know, did it spice up your bedroom? Things in the bedroom? Yeah, it has, it has. And it's, you know, sometimes we don't get to making the content because we're busy doing other things and the content takes a backseat. So it does. You know, the outfits and, you know, laying on the beach for four or five hours and then go take a shower and then, you know, yeah, it's work. So another tower shower. Yeah. Yeah. So last question for you, like, what has it done for you? Like who are you, who were you before you started this and who are you after you started this? Like, how has it affected it and or changed you in any way? Um, I think I'm, I'm more confident, um, in myself and my own skin. You know, you know, you're, you're, you see a lot of skin, but I'm more confident. Um, I try to be, um, a little more understanding to what other people are. I don't know. Like sometimes people want to talk to me about their problems. Yeah. And I think I'm a better listener based on that. And and I try to give creative, um, suggestions to younger folks and their relationships for some other reason. They're, they say, Oh, you guys just look so great together and how do you do it? And it's like, well, and maybe, maybe I'm giving some deity advice and not necessarily my own advice. About, you know, sometimes you got to hike your skirt up that I don't know if you know who Tiffany Grand at this, but she used to say that all the time on a, on a show she had on XM a long time ago, but sometimes you got to hike up your skirt and sometimes you've got to, um, you've got to be there for your husband or your man or whatever or your, your spouse, your significant other. You've got to, you've got to make a, um, make it, make it an effort. You've got to, you've got to be intentional about it. I would assume, I would assume that, you know, it also has kept you in touch with your sexuality and feeling sexy even at your age, regardless, right? Which sometimes, you know, by the time you're a little bit older, sometimes that could go out the window. It can. You feel, uh, you don't feel so confident. Um, you know, you've got some wrinkles and, and, um, and you're tired sometimes. Um, but yeah, it has, we live a very fulfilled sexual life. Tiffany Grand Anything in your future or is, are you happy with what you're doing right now? Tiffany Grand Um, happy with what I'm doing right now. Um, gonna go ahead and, you know, like I said, explore some other, um, monetization things. But for right now, this is fun posting, you know, three or four times a week, um, taking some content photos, um, getting a few free items is, is always, is always great. And like I said, I'll, I'll do it until it's no longer fun. And once it's again, these platforms become a chore that I'm going to be done. Tiffany Grand Yeah, but I think a big reason why you're not at that point is because your husband is right there with you. It probably gives, like, you know, it's something that you guys do together. I think that's like great because that's important when you get older, like, especially when the kids leave the house, sometimes people look at each other and they have nothing in common, you know? Tiffany Grand Correct. Yeah. Now what do we do? Tiffany Grand Yeah. You have like, you created this like new quote unquote hobby of something that really is, takes up a lot of your time that you have to communicate with each other about. And that makes a difference and that keeps you closer, you know? I think it's important. Tiffany Grand Who does who, who, who would think that that would be our, you know, thing, a whole moment creating, creating soft porn together. Tiffany Grand Yeah, but for some people, it's like, I always say, it's like, listen, people that have open relationships a lot of times are a lot closer, not because they're fucking other people. I think it's because they're doing something together and they're talking to each other ad nauseam, looking for people online, emailing them, talking about what they said back, texting them, then going and meeting them, then fucking them, then talking about it afterwards. And it's just, and I always say like for vanilla people, and it's the same thing with you, you don't have to open up an only fans and do it with your husband. You don't need to go fuck other people with your partner, just do something with your fucking partner. That's what it's about. It's about sort of connecting with, you know, and what happens, I think in regular vanilla couples a lot of the time is like, like I said, you know, you get married when you're 20, 30 years old, and then when you're 50, maybe you don't have the same shit in common and you don't want to do anything together, but you have to like that's the key to like, you know, staying connected and stuff and you know, having something like this, I think really helps you're lucky. That's why you're lucky because if you were doing this all on your own and your guy wasn't really involved, you know, that could like put a wedge. You don't know, you know what I mean? Because here you are getting all this attention. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it would put, I'm sure it puts a wedge in a lot of relationships. 100%. One is on board and the other one is not or not involved. Yeah. But that's with that's with anything in your in a committed relationship. You've got to figure it out. Yeah. Or you just go your separate ways. Exactly. Well, you're not going your separate ways. I love this whole episode. I got all the information I wanted from you. Okay. I always feel like I talk and I pretend I'm like the listener listening and what would people want to know? I feel like you gave so much great, important information for other people out there. Like I said, I've got more than one email probably about four emails from people asking me about like content creation information. You know what I mean? So I think that this is going to be a super helpful episode. Why don't you give a shout out to all your stuff and I will put it, I'll put you that link in the description. So I have Instagram, dd secret freak 2.0 Twitter, dd secret freak, Patreon, add dd secret freak. And then you can always go to my link in my bio on my Instagram or my Twitter and get those accounts. I look forward to showing off my new bikinis that I have from Olola, Malibu Strings and some other new brands that are giving me bikinis. And I know I'm looking forward to doing those photo shoots for my for my friends that I have on the on the internet. And then also going to be working on some a coffee branding with merchandise and an oral health product. Awesome. Cause your teeth, your killer teeth. I love my killer teeth. Yeah. How do you spell dd? Is it dd? D e e d e. So Instagram is the letter D, the letter D secret freak 2.0. Twitter is letter D, letter D secret freak. And then Patreon is D e e d e secret freak. Okay, good to know. Okay, cool. But in that one link you have, it has them all separated and stuff. But so anyone driving, you don't have to remember everything. I'll have it in the description. But thanks D e d e for a secret freak for calling in. Send me some hot picks for Patreon. You know what? I could post there. Make them a little bit less hardcore than you post on your own Patreon because I'm posting other people's picks. So I just don't like to get, uh, I don't want to deal with anything. So I always say like R rated, not no sheer anything, you know, be a little bit more conservative, like bikini shots. You're perfect for that. You know what I mean? Like, like Instagram shots are good for me for my page. And then on discord, you could do anything or you're my discord, right? Yes. Yeah. So just quick. You could post anything you want over there, more sexier picks. If you want to post them yourself, you can or send me those and I'll post them for when your episode airs. It'll be either like this Sunday or next Wednesday. Okay. All right, we'll get that out. So your folks are my folks will know. Yes. And for sure, we can get some traffic. Yeah. And I'll tell you, I'll, I'll tag you in everything and collaborate. Okay. All right. I thank you. Awesome. Thanks for calling in. This was a fun episode. All right. Thank you so much. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book, the book is called strictly anonymous confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story, there's a cuckooing story, there's a cuckold story, there's a gang being girl story. There's like, you know, like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book though, there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories. Like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an ebook available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book at the ebook. It's available if you buy my book in any format. I will throw in a complimentary link to my discord. My discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you'll get the discord and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my discord. It is private. This is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. That's why I think my discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. Everybody that's in there, people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are fucking great. My discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to my discord. Send it to strictlyanonymouspodcast.gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description, okay? Or just Google it, strictly anonymous confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. You could find it anywhere. You buy books, send me the picture and I'll give you access to my discord email strictlyanonymouspodcast.gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening.