Marcus in the morning back with second date update. Let's roll it out. We've got Brooke on the phone everybody say good morning to Brooke Hello, hi. Hi. Good morning. Good morning. Sorry you got ghosted. I don't know where to start sometimes Sucks let's talk about your date. I want to know all about Louise. I know you met online Would you do for your date? So, um, yeah, we met in San Mateo at like a Fakarita downtown, okay? That was one of those spots where you like order at the counter and grab a drink and just kind of find a table and Louis showed up in like a clean button down and jeans looking good. He was very friendly and engaging Right away, I didn't feel like there was any of that like, you know beginning of the date awkwardness Yeah, we just slipped right into it and he works in logistics And he had like so many funny stories about things going wrong and like the most ridiculous ways and yeah You're just like laid back and confident and it just made it feel very comfortable. So it started strong Yeah, and um, yeah, basically we like ordered tacos and split some chips and walk important question though How was the guac? That's how I rate all my Mexican restaurants Sorry, I don't mean to sidebar, but Walk and don't spare the details I love it. So it worked out. Yeah, I felt like he was really good listener Like he was asking the follow-up questions. He wasn't just like waiting for his turn to talk and um, yeah So then after dinner we like walked a couple blocks and grabbed some drinks at a bar Was there a kiss or anything? There was a hug of that Linger It felt like there was something there we didn't kiss but it just you know You fucking yeah, I was like, oh, this is heading somewhere, but then I just haven't heard anything So So natural and yeah, okay Well, this is the part where like we all take a beat and then I'm gonna call them with you on the phone And we'll see if we can get some business done. I want to because the lady should not be ghosted on first of all No Go ahead and you here we go. We're gonna call them. Okay. Take a deep breath. It's gonna be fine. Here we go I Is this Louise Yeah, who's this? Hey, Louise. It's Marcus calling from star one on three. Good morning. I don't suppose you listen to our show Do you I honestly don't I don't know who you are. I'm starting on so I do a radio show for star one on one three and I'm wondering if you might have a minute to be on the air with me because we are doing a segment called second date update and I guess You went on a date recently and your date is feeling ghosted and I'm just trying to figure out if something went sideways Or if you've just been busy, would you mind talking about a date on the air? Her name is Brooke Yeah Thank you. So what can you tell me about the date like did something go wrong like she thought you were great She'd love to go out again. You know, the date was good. No, no, the date was good Brooke was fun. She was easy to talk to you know, no issues with chemistry the problem was that she just was on her damn phone the whole time and You know, I got a phone call having tacos Like playing on our phone like people do when they go out to restaurants It's so rude like where they're having tacos and she kept taking her phone out checking her phone probably doom scrolling or whatever and It it it wasn't like it killed the conversation But it was enough that I noticed that she kind of kept going to it and then even if I remember at one point She said sorry, I just need to post this real quick It took a photo of our drinks at the table. Okay, and then she takes a photo She edited them whatever and then post it and then a little later. She goes and checks it again Showing me how many likes it was getting I don't really know that world to be honest I didn't care if she was morally into her phone and posting on social media I see and at the moment I kind of laughed it off I was being silly and I want to be kind But it threw me off and then we try to get some ice cream and then she did it again You know, it just felt like it wasn't a date. It was part of someone's content You know ability and she had something page. No, you know, I wasn't trying to make a big deal about it Yeah, but it definitely changed the energy for me. Okay. Well, so the other part of this Louise is that I've got Brooke actually listening Wow, okay, so that that's how this works. I'd love to bring her on Brooke. Are you there? Yeah, hi. Hey Hey, so okay. This is an easy one. You were on your phone during the date. Is that accurate? Yeah, I'm just like so surprised hearing all this though Like I had no idea that he came off that way at all like I just Like taking photos and then I post really casually and I just didn't really think twice about it It's not like I you know They're like tag you or make it about And then I don't think I was ignoring him to do it. So I don't I don't know. I'm just surprised And I understand where you're coming from I do like I understand what you're trying to do And I don't think you had any bad intentions Yeah, I think like you know if you had said something then I would have put my phone away no question I just like had no idea it was bothering You so I wish you would have just told me and I could have like fixed it and I would have put my phone away That's fair. I'm not I shouldn't have probably said something Um, I don't know if just felt like one of those things where I shouldn't have to ask that on the first date That's kind of where my head is at like should we all be on our you know On our game plan and you know from the from the jump type thing I don't know but you know, I hate social media. That's the other thing I probably should have mentioned that in a conversation. I just I don't appeal to it It seems fake to me and I just I just don't like it, you know, whether it's Instagram or TikTok or I just don't think it's just for me That's all that's your thing and that's okay. You guys I'll be honest with you Brooke, this doesn't feel like a match to me. Yeah, I mean it's disappointing I think I really felt like that on the day, but if you're not gonna be like honest in the moment and tell me how you're feeling and I don't know but there's nothing I can do about it and it's yeah Clearly the communication isn't there from the beginning. So all right, hang on. Yeah, that's not gonna work I'm gonna call that a lifestyle conflict second date update
