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Heart Transplant from Grandson • followHIM Favorites • Apr. 6 - 12 • Come Follow Me

5 min
Apr 2, 2026about 2 months ago
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Summary

This episode of followHIM Favorites shares Elder Dale G. Renlund's powerful story about Thomas Nielsen, who received a heart transplant from his 16-year-old grandson Jonathan after a tragic accident. The narrative illustrates the importance of remembering significant days and the transformative impact of gratitude, connecting to the week's Come Follow Me lesson on Exodus 7-13 and Moses's command to remember the day of deliverance from Egypt.

Insights
  • Remembering significant days and their deeper meaning creates lasting personal transformation and gratitude
  • Tragedy and loss can become catalysts for spiritual growth and increased compassion when properly contextualized
  • The practice of daily reflection on gifts received—especially costly ones—fundamentally changes character and behavior
  • Religious faith helps people reframe suffering by finding meaning and purpose in difficult circumstances
  • Personal sacrifice and loss, when acknowledged, deepen empathy and generosity toward others
Trends
Faith-based storytelling as a vehicle for exploring grief, gratitude, and meaning-makingEmphasis on intentional remembrance practices in spiritual and personal developmentIntegration of medical ethics narratives with religious teaching and moral instructionGrowing focus on how trauma and loss can produce positive character transformationUse of family narratives to illustrate abstract spiritual principles
People
Elder Dale G. Renlund
Shared the story of Thomas Nielsen's heart transplant in an April 2020 talk; is a physician
Thomas Nielsen
63-year-old heart transplant recipient from Logan, Utah; received his grandson Jonathan's heart
Jonathan
16-year-old grandson of Thomas Nielsen; fatally injured in a train accident; heart donor
Moses
Biblical figure whose command to 'remember this day' serves as the episode's thematic anchor
Elder Kevin Brown
Referenced for a talk about remembering the day one accepted the gospel
Dave Hadlock
Guest on the full Follow Him podcast; has background in biblical Hebrew and Exodus analysis
Quotes
"Remember this day in which you're come out of Egypt"
Moses (Exodus 13:3)Opening theme
"He lived an additional 13 years after the transplant, years he otherwise would not have had. His obituary stated that these years allowed him to touch the lives of family and others with generosity and love."
Elder Dale G. Renlund
"In the exuberance of knowing that we can be saved and exalted we need to remember salvation and exaltation came at a great cost"
Elder Dale G. Renlund
"Tom was a different man. The change went beyond improved health or even gratitude. He was more solemn, thoughtful, and kind-hearted."
Elder Dale G. Renlund
"Every day he remembered that gift. And it's because you're looking in the mirror that you're going to remember, right?"
Host (John)
Full Transcript
Welcome to Follow Him Favorites. This is where John and I share a single story to go with each week's Come Follow Me lesson. John, Exodus 7 through 13, you've told me you have a story that fits. What is it? Yeah, you remember after all these plagues, boy, Moses says the coolest thing. Exodus 13, 3, Moses said unto the people, remember this day in which you're come out of Egypt. That idea of remembering a day. Hank, when's your anniversary? That would be March 18th. You remember that day? Absolutely. Okay. Mine's November 28th. When's your birthday? That would be May 12th. October 8th. So you just, you remember those things. They're important days. Elder Dale G. Renlund in April of 2020, he gave a talk and he told this amazing story. He said, I became acquainted with Thomas Nielsen, a remarkable man who needed a heart transplant. He was 63 years old, that hits home, and lived in Logan, Utah, in the United States, following military service during World War II. He married Donna Wilkes in the Logan, Utah Temple, became an energetic and successful brick mason. In later years, he especially enjoyed working with his oldest grandchild, Jonathan, during school vacations The two developed a special bond in part because Tom saw so much of himself in Jonathan Tom found waiting for a donor heart frustrating He was not a particularly patient man. He'd always been able to set and achieve goals through hard work and sheer determination. Struggling with heart failure, with his life on hold, Tom sometimes asked me what I was doing to speed up the process. Jokingly, he suggested avenues I could pursue that would make a donor heart available to him sooner. Remember, Elder Renlund is a doctor, right? Yeah. One joyous yet dreadful day, an ideal donor heart became available for Tom. The size, the blood type were a match. The donor was young, just 16 years old. The donor heart belonged to Jonathan, Tom's beloved grandson. Earlier that day, Jonathan had been fatally injured when the car in which he was riding was struck by a passing train. When I visited Tom and Donna in the hospital, Elder Renlin says, they were distraught. It's hard to imagine what they were going through knowing that Tom's life could be extended by using their grandson's heart. At first, they refused to consider their proffered heart from Jonathan's grieving parents, their daughter and son Tom and Donna knew though that Jonathan was brain and came to understand that their prayers for a donor heart for Tom had not caused Jonathan accident Their prayers for a donor heart, right? No, Jonathan's heart was a gift that could bless Tom in his time of need. They recognized something good might come out of this tragedy and decided to proceed. The transplant procedure went well. Afterwards, Tom was a different man. The change went beyond improved health or even gratitude. He told me he reflected every day on Jonathan, on his daughter and son-in-law, on the gift he had received, what that gift had entailed. Even though his innate good humor and grit were still readily apparent, I observed that Tom was more solemn, thoughtful, and kind-hearted. He lived an additional 13 years after the transplant, years he otherwise would not have had. His obituary stated that these years allowed him to touch the lives of family and others with generosity and love. He was a private benefactor and an example of optimism and determination. Now, just as Tom, Alder Renlund concluded, did not take Jonathan's heart for granted, in a joyful and reverent way Tom remembered each day the tragedy that brought him extended life Wow In the exuberance of knowing that we can be saved and exalted we need to remember salvation and exaltation came at a great cost Wow. I just thought, remember this day, said Moses. And every day he remembered that gift. Wow. What a powerful story about remembering. And it's because you're looking in the mirror. that you're going to remember, right? It's the fact that you're still breathing, that you're going to say, wow. Hank, can you remember Elder Kevin Brown of the 70s gave a talk of a conference a two ago and how he remembered that day, right? Remembered the day that he accepted the gospel. These are important days. And here's Moses saying, okay, everybody, don't forget, remember this day. That's beautiful. We hope you'll join us on our full podcast. It's called Follow Him. You can get it wherever you get your podcasts. We're with Dave Hadlock this week. He has quite a background in biblical Hebrew, and he shows up some really fun things about the book of Exodus you've probably never seen before. And then come back next week. We'll do another Follow Him Favorites.