"Lets Rap About it" hosted by Fabolous, Maino, Dave East & Jim Jones

Hi Hater #14

103 min
Jan 28, 20265 months ago
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Summary

The hosts of 'Let's Rap About It' discuss personal growth, maturity, forgiveness, respect, and parenting over a wide-ranging conversation. They debate whether returning to one's neighborhood to display wealth is motivational or disrespectful, explore the nature of hate and hating, and discuss how to raise children with discipline and self-defense skills while managing their exposure to the hosts' public personas.

Insights
  • Perception of success displays depends entirely on the receiver's mindset and life circumstances—the same action can motivate one person while triggering jealousy in another
  • Maturity is not age-dependent but rather a function of self-knowledge, responsibility, and authentic living regardless of external expectations
  • Forgiveness and moving forward are distinct concepts; you can choose not to pursue revenge while still maintaining emotional distance without full forgiveness
  • Teaching children self-defense and confidence is essential, but must be balanced with conflict avoidance and respect for authority
  • Transactional parenting (rewarding behavior with money) can damage the parent-child relationship by making love conditional and creating unhealthy money associations
Trends
Generational shift in parenting philosophy: from strict discipline to transparent conversations about adult realitiesGrowing awareness that wealth display in communities requires intentional framing as giving-back rather than flexing to avoid resentmentMental health and emotional intelligence becoming central to definitions of maturity among younger audiencesDebate over social media exposure of children and how parental fame affects child development and school experiencesEmphasis on teaching financial literacy and work ethic to children rather than entitlement through transactional rewards
Topics
Returning to your neighborhood after successDefining and recognizing hate versus dislikeDirty macking as a form of hateAge and maturity correlationForgiveness and personal growthRespect as courtesy vs. earned respectParenting with transparencyTeaching children self-defenseTransactional parentingWealth display and community perceptionBullying and standing up for yourselfChildhood trauma and parental influenceFinancial responsibility in relationshipsSupporting a partner's career ambitionsOnly Fans and parental embarrassment
Companies
Playmaker
Sports picks app sponsor offering $50 bonus for new users with promo code 'Let'sRap'
Prost Picks
Sports picks platform mentioned as America's number one sports picks app in sponsorship segment
People
Fabolous
Co-host of the podcast discussing personal growth, parenting, and community dynamics
Maino
Co-host contributing perspectives on maturity, forgiveness, and self-defense philosophy
Dave East
Co-host discussing parenting, transactional relationships, and personal development
Jim Jones
Co-host sharing stories about returning to Harlem, parenting daughters, and self-respect
LeBron James
Discussed in context of returning to Cleveland and performing at home with elevated energy
Luka Doncic
Analyzed for potential scoring performance against LeBron James in upcoming Lakers-Cavaliers game
Jamal Murray
Mentioned in context of Denver Nuggets vs Brooklyn Nets matchup prediction
Teofimo Lopez
Opponent in upcoming boxing match against Shakur Stevenson on January 31st
Shakur Stevenson
Discussed as defensive fighter favored to win upcoming fight against Teofimo Lopez
Quotes
"Hate is an action. You're giving energy and time to something and hating on it. It ain't a one-time thing."
Dave EastMid-episode
"Maturity is knowing yourself and living your life. Not trying to appease everybody or make everybody happy."
FabolousMid-episode
"A man with his own is a man with a throne. Nothing in the world is like having your own."
MainoLate episode
"You can forgive somebody without being their friend. Some of the times it's for you, so that's not on your mind."
Jim JonesMid-episode
"Don't be the person trying to always avoid it. Sometimes you gotta step on some shit and get it over."
Dave EastLate episode
Full Transcript
And you'll piff what you cooking up A lot of shit been going on so let's rap about it A lot of right, a lot of wrong so let's rap about it Controversy every week so let's rap about it Family that don't even speak we can rap about it They crashing out on IG let's rap about it Heavy body want a beef let's rap about it People going now sad let's rap about it They really want clout bag let's rap about it Let's rap about it What's happening you already know what it is You know what we about it's the number one podcast in the game Let's rap about it and it's brought to you by Playmaker Presented by Prost Picks America's number one sports picks app So you know how we coming You know how we coming What is happening What's up with y'all How y'all feeling What did I say Starting off wrong What did I say If you starting off wrong How What did you just say I said what's happening No before that What did I say So you know how we coming You know how we coming What is happening You know how we coming I got gifts I come bearing gifts this week Know that spids on it Of course I come bearing gifts this week Know what's going on I come bearing gifts this week Appreciate you brother Look here dark pit you heard New boys You heard chrome on the side I like these Chrome dippers you heard I like these Nice nice nice Chrome dippers What's happening how y'all feel though Feel good How was your week Man I was in Miami You was in Miami I seen you did a Norris You did the drink champ Yeah yeah yeah Shout out to Norris You had a few drinks You told a few truths Just a little bit You told a few truths Nah you know what he kept it real Melon Melancholy Yeah it was none of that We kept it cool though You know what I mean Cool vibe I don't believe it I'll sweat it up You said it was a little cold down there It was like Going down in the 50s That's cold for Miami Absolutely Once a year in Miami It gave leather jacket weather for like four days Yeah It was back Yeah everything cool We back in the city with 17 degrees This brick I had to give a weather What you told me when I seen you The energy The energy when you come back When you leave New York There's a certain energy out of town That don't exist Something different about palm trees Make you feel better That sun hitting You get up and feel more progressive You might want to work out Go for a run New York just feel too gritty Angry It puts the different Miami LA make me feel like that Put some different energy And you definitely want to be Hella productive You feel Nobody speaking in the morning Everybody angry That they got to go to work It's cold It's cold Everybody was spellies Yeah yeah yeah It gets masked It gets golfs Yeah It gets like that The big game is almost here And there's no better way to cash in During America's biggest sporting event Than prize picks Where it always feels good To be right And since the big game is right around the corner That also means it's your last chance To get into the football action Before the next season So close the season now Right with prize picks By getting $50 instantly In lineups where you play your first $5 When I got on prize picks Made a lineup And started flipping that bonus cash into winners That took watching the game to a whole new level I've been cooking up lineups with the football playoffs The big game bout to go crazy Drake May, Sam Donald More more more Touchdowns all damn day And don't forget to add some basketball to your lineups too You know I'm rocking with my guys Josh Hart and Michael Porter Jr. Prize picks now has early payouts If your player gets off to a hot start You now have the option to cash out those winners Before the game even finishes Join millions of users and sign up For America's number one sports pick app Just download the prize picks app today And use code Let'sRap to get $50 in lineups After you play your first $5 lineup That's code Let'sRap to get $50 in lineups After you play your first $5 lineup Prize picks It's good to be right It's flexing when you return to the hood Motivation or disrespect and why? Um...flexing I think it depend on how you do it And the um...how the hood might already feel about you So if you buy something brand new Because the first time I ever bought a Bentley The first thing I did was drive straight to my hood Or did the same shit? That's the first thing I did Like I swear I drove all the way from Long Island Straight to Brooklyn, right up Gates Avenue Come out and everybody just see me I'm jumping out, I'm taking pictures Because of my mind I'm thinking it's like This is the motivation that they need Like they need to see me like this They watch me come up, now they need to see this But is it really motivation or does it Change up and become deceit, jealousy Or you...I think it's something with any success anyway I mean, well when I first started getting some money Harlem, it was a lot of stills, a lot of money going on It was a lot of cars outside Like that was the thing to do was to come out and stunt So it was like the first thing you did You got watch, you got jury Start getting money and music, get the cars You're pulling right up to the block It was a heavy stunt, it was a super flex But as you get older and start to realize What's this represent on the flip side There's the jealousy and envy and people Plotting and things like that And then as I got older I started to do More for my hood and just coming back and stunt And I did a little bit of less than that And more giving back than anything So it was progression for me from stunt To actually giving back and letting the kids see Someone that actually came from the same places they did And was able to do some amazing things And still come back to give back as much as he can And things like that, you know what I mean? I think it could motivate a younger person And it could baffle an older person I don't think it's on the age I think it's the mindset You could come back to your hood And somebody is just how they perceive it People going to look at it and say that's motivating Some people going to look at it and say Yo, he trying to shit on us So it's really the mindset of the person that see it I believe everybody who has come from the hood Has came back to their hood to just even just return To where they come from and show Like you said, show the people from there that It is progress past there But depending on the person, how they receive that Which you can't really control either Because it's them, it's how they mindset Some people going to look at it and be like Wow, man, I want to achieve that one day And some people going to look at it and say Yo, he trying to come back and shit on us And how he goes through that So it's really the mindset to me Of the person that receive it It's not really flexible When you were younger, I was coming through the shit On a few niggas on purpose You want the niggas that you know that you don't like And don't like you to see you You already know you want to entice them When I was younger, that was like shit I'm not going to sit here like niggas I wanted to come through and shit on a few niggas Like what? My bag is here now I'm telling them to start starting on you niggas But as you get older, it changes Your priority changes also and shit like that Things that was more fun to you No more fun to you once before No more fun to you and shit like that But the thing is this though Whether you coming back In a Rolls Royce or a Honda It's going to be people that's going to be for you And then it's going to always be a community of people that It don't matter, like you never going to satisfy them If you doing good or bad That community exists You can either come back or not And they still going to be Unsatisfied You can come back in a fucking Porsche Or you can come back in a motherfucking Toyota Like it's still going to be something to say People talking shit like gift backs This is what I'm saying It ain't enough You bring 500 turkeys You ain't bring a thousand though You could have brought a thousand This mad people out here That's how it is That's how it goes You can never do enough That's why I said it's the mindset of who will receive it You can't control how people I could 100,000% agree with that You got to do it with your heart Everybody else going to take it So do we agree that Intentionally when you coming back It's not disrespect that you coming back to show You coming back But then again you might want shit on a couple niggas You might want disrespect I'm saying a couple niggas You coming back and shit on a few niggas It's like you dammit You dammit if you do you dammit if you don't If you never ever come back around That's what's going to be said I think it'll never come around But if you still got that same mindset If you still come through You not doing enough And then if you come through And like this happened to me This happened to me If you come through too much You like Tom ain't nobody He always don't get seen You become normal again You too accessible It waters down It waters down whatever fame you The quality because they see you all the time True You understand he ain't got Ninky riding around in black with that Bentley You understand? Yeah that's him right there Don't worry about it he'll be through here He be back He see you come on He pull it over He be right back He talk about being like That ain't gonna be that That ain't gonna be people up in a second So you try to balance it out though man I get it though But you said something keto bro And I started to do the same thing In my neighborhood it's the giving back Because I think that makes more of an impact For the ones that are appreciative Like he said he's always gonna be somebody complain We can't do nothing about that But for the ones that appreciate it Them kids Those mothers Those fathers out there trying Those are the ones that count That's the ones that actually count That's where it matters People are hating them really They don't know how it shit like that A lot of hate be confusion The people like that Like you said the mothers them kids And you really doing something for them Whether it's school give back Whether it's Thanksgiving Christmas whatever Whatever the time may be It might not be a holiday It might just be in a good mood And that's what's going on But you know where hate come from It's admiration It's confusion man It's confusion also But it's also being dissatisfied With oneself 100% You look in the mirror You don't like what you see That's a fact You wake up every day You don't like your life So you lashing out on everything That you feel like is It's a shit that you would That you projecting you wish That should be you That's the only reason I said that And I agree with you as far as it don't matter With age That was 100% correct What? But what y'all saying But the last thing we were saying Hate it don't matter But if it's somebody Your age or older I'll be personally feeling like When they like You know what I mean It hit different What you mean like You be like damn I would expect more Nah they just I feel like they can see They own failures Oh got it More than a kid that's 15 and 16 Yeah A dope Somebody your age or older When you come around Like that I feel like that That jealousy Or that hate is a lot stronger Than a kid No let me tell you what makes it stronger This is what makes it stronger When a nigga that's hating You already know that he pussy And he hating And you know him to be pussy You don't know him to be Nothing else but pussy That definitely makes it That's crazy And it's like Because I'm rapping Right And then I'm wearing tight leather shit You got me fucked up But I know you to be pussy What's wrong with you nigga Right They ain't like your lover off it Just whatever it is Like the half Whatever it is Man in these self In these soft Hey how you ever been a hater I don't think I've ever been a hater I don't think I've ever Hated on a man Anytime I seen somebody Get something I Damn you know what I congratulated that Or I strived to do something like that I don't think I ever was a hater That sounds good I've hated I've hated before But what I think everybody's been a hater Even though they recognized me as a hater I think I definitely hated on somebody I hated I didn't hate to the point where it would Effect somebody You don't even know you hated But I'm hating You might catch yourself like Oh I'm hating I'm hating Whoa that ain't Oh shit How dare I I'm acting like unusual I'm acting like unusual You're acting like unusual You're never what hate we talking about I just hate it already Hate it already That's how you know you hated If you didn't know the level of hate What you dirty What you dirty macking This going back to this dirty macking I don't play like that Hating dirty macking is different A dirty macking hater is crazy Hating is this Hating and dirty macking is two types of It's similar though It's hate and cousins But it's hate and cousins If they label you that Or whatever you a dirty macking hater Dirty macking is a form of hate Haters at the top The haters the Dirty macking good Like you know when the police Make the little brackets and they go Dirty macking is a little bracket Here on the mob Shit the dirty macking is the underpull The picture of hate at the top And then you go to this slide It's dirty macking It's dirty macking It's the captain's dirty macking So that is So the like a bracket Haters like you said Nigga drive by and be like Man fuck that nigga You hate it like that That's a form of hate for sure That's hate That's hate Even if you didn't say it If I said fuck that nigga It was already understood We don't like each other Okay It's different I'm not hating on you Because I see you in your range bro Oh I see you with your jury on And all that I'm not jealous of you nigga You never hated on nobody Not for having nothing You never hated on nobody in your life That's the biggest That's the biggest lie That anybody can tell you That's a lie man I hate the nigga That anybody can tell you When I grow up You back in this day I'm gonna be real with you I don't even know what the Man for the joy is You can ask the When I was younger When I couldn't get some shit You ever hated on something My mom was in them really Couldn't They wasn't buying that shit for me Or they couldn't afford it at the time I definitely hated I hated niggas that had no faces before me Or whoever had it I hated for sure Tim's before me I hated on niggas that had the joints before me I hated to kill you man I hated No my hate wasn't that strong That's extreme I'm talking about extreme That's extreme That's extreme level I was mad My grandma was just saying that I didn't have it I hated someone That means you want to kill them That's my grandma's wisdom I'm a hater Right There's two different categories I'm not used to having hate for someone I didn't want to kill nobody Because they had to make And I didn't have them But I was hating on them If somebody had to enjoy this And I didn't have them I didn't want to kill them He's a hater But I hated on them He's just a hater But did you have hate for that person This was described Did that make you not like the person I would see it I mean fuck out of here I knew I couldn't get on them You hated me I was hating on you You hated me But you don't have hate for that person What about your hate? Bro, I'm not having it You don't want to hate You never hated on nobody in the world Okay, so I can't remember what my hate would look like How about your ass mouth says Mouth's not hating that You lying man Nobody in this room believes you Never hated on somebody You hate it You never hate You never hate on a nigga that That they said what's toughin' on you man I'm not You didn't hate on him I can't picture a man on being like You ain't hate that nigga that did more time than you That nigga said that That nigga did more jail time than you mean Shut his fucking mic off Please get his mic off Please cut his mic off I hate that nigga That's crazy So you're not going to tell us You're not going to give us an example Nah, I'm over it You never hated on nobody in the world I can't recall a hating moment You niggas never hated I didn't like niggas because of what I was very squeezing Man, look at my glasses man You sure you wouldn't say you never hated it? Y'all got to understand what real hate is All my hate though, I'm going to be real When I hated on niggas is because I didn't have I don't think that does Once I got, I don't hate it I never hated on nobody How old was you? I was young Alright, that don't count 14, 15 When you young like that I never been a grown man hater You never hated on nothing since you was 15 A grown man? I think it's a strange person I hated on niggas I hated last week on the niggas I ain't going to lie, I'm going to hate it I don't like that shit The name of the new podcast is Let's Cap about it Because these niggas is liars Yo, now listen to the rappers man I'm a fucking hater I don't give a fuck I'm a hater Thank you Jim I don't have to I don't have to I've hated on plenty of things Even if it was just in the room by myself With nobody No, it's just It's just hate Shit, I'm hating You can catch yourself That's it That's it Oh shit, I'm dirty macking That's how real I am with it I got to feel what I'm saying I'm just dirty macking I don't give a fuck It can be anything You can see some shit on TV man No, we don't do that Like we don't, not the same So it is Fuckin' hate It don't matter what What's the difference I just want to get this on the record Because we don't We don't get it You don't get it You don't get it You don't get it You don't get it You don't get it We don't get it You don't get it You don't get it Let's get this right You're never hated at all And you've never hated since you've been grown Like since 15 Like I'm grown man You haven't hated at all I don't hate you The fact that you're still out here Hating is crazy It's crazy, right? Y'all still be hating on this right now? Yes, that's it And now? Right now 26 I'm gonna be hating right now I'm a hater I can't take it I can't take it I don't hate Fab prison itself At least I can live with my insecurities You niggas I don't know You niggas is some closet haters You niggas is some fucking closet haters No examples of niggas I can't specifically say nothing I don't think that's hate bro I hate it deep or deep No, I hate her It's not you The last time I hate her Man, the last time I hate her It's different It's different, bro The last time I hate her The last time I publicly hate her And went viral I don't even want to say what I hate her on But the last time I But what's it hate? It's the difference You hate her Oh, no, but in this generation In this generation If you say I don't like her Who the fuck is that? That means you hate Yeah Right or wrong If you say I don't like that That means you're a hater No No, that's what that means That's how they make it If you say I don't like it Right, that's my hater Right, okay So growing up Things that you didn't like Did that make you a hater? No You ain't posted like everything Hater is a... Hating is an action I think hating means you are taking Specific time Right You're giving energy and time To something Right And hating on it It ain't a one-time thing It's like I'm hating on this shit Right Every time I see it I don't care what it's doing I'm hating on it You can see something Cross on the TV and be like I don't like that shit You got a deep form of hate That don't make you a hater I don't make you a hater I'm just a mere hater Your niggas have hate in your soul Like, that's different, bro I don't hate my soul, man I'm just a hater I'm just a hater I'm just a hater Please, he don't need these guys I don't hate nobody, man What? Ain't no hate out here, man This guy's crazy, man Hating not liking ain't the same thing You ain't posted like anything I don't like nothing, man When does maturity really kick in for men? When y'all feel like you... At what age do you feel like you hit maturity? If you like the world, tell her I'm still a YN, so I'm definitely not mature yet I think maturity can kick in at Any age for a man You know what I'm saying? It's the lifestyle they live in What is maturity, though? Is maturity paying your bills? Or does that mean you got a... You got a weird suit You got a confusing maturity with gratuity Like, what's up? I mean, I'm talking about in the sense of What do they consider you to be mature? Like, they want you to dress a certain way? What's the definition of maturity? To me, it's like being responsible Pay your bills and then growth, though So I think maturity in men I think we continue to develop Until it's over Like, it's just a development Until it's over, right? We like to laugh and joke That may give a sign to somebody That it may be immature But that's not that That's just people who understand So we got to get serious? No To be mature? Being that serious don't mean you're mature Exactly I think mature is you knowing yourself And you living Living within your means And living your life You know what I'm saying? Like, you're just really So it's supposed to be a growth So when you get to know yourself You're growing to yourself As you get older You know yourself more, too You're still young You're still figuring out a lot of shit You like some shit, don't like some shit Once you get older You kind of know who you are And I think that's maturity right there Recognizing who you are And this is what I want to do If I want to still wear Jordan's and I'm 60 I could still wear Jordan's Your maturity is just knowing yourself To grow into yourself But society doesn't paint it like that No, but those are people we don't give a fuck about The people that talk stupid like that So the thing is maturity is Like I said, it's a growth It's a development, right? And it's some of the decisions you start to make It's things that we do today, right? That we had to drop other behavior To get here, right? Because that was part of the stage you're growing That was the journey to maturity To get, you know what I mean? I don't like to put a number on it though Because it don't got nothing to do with it You know when you meet a young nigga And you be like, this little nigga 25 But he got a head on his shoulders He, you know, it's at any age That's crazy He got, I'm not even sure what's on his shoulders But that's crazy That we're going to put you in a pause category For right now I don't play pause We're going to fervor our conversation I'm just going to let you know We're going to let you know We're going to let you know We put you in a pause box for one second This is crazy Alexa hit up pause main, oh, page One second, now we good Back to the conversation So what I was saying is that thing about maturity It's a thing about maturity, right? Because they society would paint one picture of it It doesn't mean nothing Because if you would put me next to a person in a suit And they put a picture of who looks more mature What's one they going to say looks more mature? The other guy Right, but that thing could be a stone cold bum Pussy, like doesn't know He could be a, he could be a Like there's nothing for like you did like A whole petal, like I'm just saying like You could be all kinds of shit So what constitutes maturity? You did Right, opposite of maturity Mature is childish Childish to me is trying to live For other people and what they think And what you, your perception And what they think I can't, that's why mature to me Is just really knowing yourself And living your life Because that's maturity to me When I see people living When you see anybody and they Truly authentically they sell That's when I'll be like Right You know what I'm saying You know how new people Whatever that And I can't know who they is Whatever they characteristics are Whatever that is Childish is trying to Peek everybody happy It's a common responsibility Like there's That's what I'm trying to say Like there's responsibility Equal maturity I believe so Like if you're responsible Of taking care of your family Taking care of your bills You dig it I think that's the most Ingredients of being mature For me is being responsible But I like what he said too About knowing who you are And accepting who you are 100% that was cold And not trying to go out your way To appease everybody Or make everybody happy Or try to be a part of every trend That is childish Right So what you wearing is who you are This being a solid man Which could come at any age Right I don't think no age You can't put no age on maturity It depends on the person To speak about maturity is Forgiveness a part of growth Shit it's just some shit I ain't forgiven I don't think so I think forgiveness is a part of growth I think you could forgive certain things And because you outgrew it You outgrew the situation You outgrew the person You outgrew the relationship You know and you could just forgive Whatever happened in that time And you know it's all different chapters in life So the next chapter you might Gotta forgive what happened two chapters ago You know what I'm saying So you could keep moving forward With the chapters ahead I forgive other things that I forgave But I definitely don't forget So what about the things that you don't forgive To me, it's a situation The situation, right That right there is all situational Because it's certain things you don't forgive I can outgrow you I can outgrow the situation But I could never forgive Certain shit So it depends on the situation You could forgive without You don't say you had to be their friend no more Sometimes you forgive shit I forgive shit for me Because I don't want to hold on to the Energy that come with me Having to be not forgiving of the situation So I'll let the shit go Just so I can move forward And I don't got like being angry and being mad That shit is an energy inside yourself too You gotta hold that energy when you see somebody You know what I'm saying But you might put it in your pocket What that energy? Until you see that Until that Until they gotta come out to you You know what I'm saying I feel like that's why I said it's situational It's situational That's why I said it's situational I don't want it in my pocket You want to let it go Yeah, I'm trying to go So everybody that wronged you in life Has been forgiven Because you outgrew the situation It's forgiven to me I might have not had a Conversation that you know I forgive you But you and your own You just don't kind of try to carry it I gotta work on myself And we don't gotta be cool Just because you forgive somebody That don't mean that Alright, we be That's what I said Some of the times it's for you It ain't nothing Just so that's not on your mind You know what I'm saying I might get that one day I agree with Mr. David though Like it's situational It's certain things that I don't know if I've ever forgiven I just kind of like Not now nigga Okay? Not now But I don't know if I've forgiven it Right, so but I guess forgiveness is growth Because you letting something go That's kind of holding you I don't gotta wake up with it on my mind Everyday but that still don't mean I forgave the situation Or I forgot it I could move on with my life But it's a small part In the back of my brief Every time you bump into that situation It's gonna hurt you bad for that For me I can't let that I forgive everything But I have let a lot of shit go Because of things for me to feel good about Even but it's not worth it But I haven't forgiven everything But I've let a lot of shit go So when you don't forgive something Are you not growing? I don't believe that I mean can you let some shit go Without forgiving? That's what I wanted I feel like I Yes, yes Because I've let shit go But I do not forgive Because you listen It's a choice right So if you cannot forgive somebody And then choose to not pursue whatever Punishment that you set forth on them Okay Right so it's like I choose not to address that I'm gonna leave that alone But I don't forgive them I just choose to stay the fuck away from them Right and not have that energy a part of me Right just leave me alone I leave you alone Right But I just don't want to fuck with you So But is that holding you back though? Possibly it's on your mind Because you're gonna revisit that situation Every time you say it's a person Every time you see that person You're gonna have that energy in you You're gonna have that energy for them When you see that person When you forgive it and let it go You see that person and it don't even It don't give you that energy You know what I'm saying I see somebody that I had an issue with In 12th grade I ain't got no issue Like a Life has moved on It's right I want you some shit right now I see somebody not so long going And then I'll be trying to like What from the 12th grade? Talk about it What happened in the lunch room bro? I'm fucking traumatized What happened in the lunch room man? Damn It's a thing though Sometimes it's just like healing It's such a way to know You can't tell somebody How long Right how long is that? You know whether it's anything like that situation I don't say that you gotta just You know what I mean It took me time to forgive certain situations It takes time because you might be In a different stage of your life And you can move forward from it Like it ain't really about nothing Like you know what I'm saying Or it was about something then But where I'm at now I can't say time does heal Like they say that shit That's just a true thing In due time you tend to Forget a lot about a lot of shit There's a whole new merit in your life anymore And shit like that I think disrespect has levels Snicker raging Real shit I just feel like Some disrespect is like You know what I mean Like that doesn't I could get past that But all disrespect now like that That's why I set out the gate at situation You guys are angry guys I need therapy or something Who's that Mr. David and who You and Dave I thought I had anger Y'all here talking and acting like Nobody never played or violated or did Nothing that y'all can't That y'all just like oh no it's all good I'm not dead no more Who said that? That's how the combo sounded right now No that's not what it sounded to me I said from the door Angry It's just certain shit I'm just not I'm not angry I'm just I can't forgive You said maturity You said maturity is known yourself I need to do more I know myself and I understand that It's just certain things that I may not let go But I choose not to pursue them So I think that that's the balance in that So what you want to put those two together You think not forgiving is mature? Not forgiving is still mature If you choose not to pursue the issue Right if you pursue If you choose to just let it go I don't fuck with you I don't like you You know what it is about forgiveness It makes you feel a sense like Now we gotta be friends I forgive you I hope you I forgive mad people that I still don't speak to But I forgave them for what happened Or whatever that I still don't mean that they gotta be Your best friend after that It don't mean that If it was an issue from the past That y'all can It's a lot of people who Squash beefs and issues Even just even in the hip hop game you look at That don't mean that they Friends like that Yeah they a rap group all of a sudden They just got past whatever The shit was so they could move forward And they be having to do that in public So that people You know they know that they had an issue They be having to show people like It still ain't no issue no more And then they still go their separate ways after that That's cool depending on the situation But when things happen it's like I say I won't forgive it I won't pursue it but I'm probably Somewhere at some point Maybe wishing death on you somewhere I don't know You know what it is I got a problem Everything in my life could be going Personally fine And that should be in the back of my mind That's why I gotta be at home No this is my thing no Wake up if you're there Oh no not even that No no no Look look look look Who did that Is this if everything else in your life Is in order All your responsibilities Everything you handle and you mature But you don't forgive this Does that make you immature? No it's just still not Everything else is handled Everything else is handled as a man But in the back of your mind You still wish you could It's old shit you know what I'm saying It's old There's no time Let me know nothing till you die So you still Till you leave So how about this one last question Death on that person I'm not wishing death on nobody walking the earth No I don't wish death You all got different views about that You told me that's what you do You into wishing death I don't wish death I don't wish death He looks like he prays for death I don't want to quiz you Please take this man life Lord He doesn't deserve to be here Bring him back to you Everybody deserve a fair chance to live Shut up I ain't wishing death on nobody Oh my god Did you feel good if they did pass away I mean you know I might pop some shit Be honest though We might celebrate I'ma shut the fuck up cause y'all won't be honest You know behind me out here looking crazy Was it anybody That you ever had a problem in your life And then some You know what They're gonna ban me at some point Yo I'm not here He gonna tell you that he pray for people's death But he ain't never been a hater before In his life Do you see how the type of shit like It's not add enough This is the shit that people gonna watch the podcast It's not math man It's not math man Listen You never hated but you wished death Six seven Six seven So you never celebrated At a Hearing of Something happened Do you like oh worked Yes Go to the next question bro Go to the next question bro Somebody read the next question bro What community What community am I offending right now Bro Let's not talk about the community They ain't heard a nigga talk Yo you heard the news What Yo you heard the news Nigga did you hear I've been through shit let me just Leave it alone Take care of Blacker Yo Yo Stop it Kobe I don't want to Leave it alone Getting real dark up here Chill out man Alright please just leave it alone Just leave it alone Please Do you owe strangers respect Or is respect just a courtesy that has to be Earned I think respect Is all in the approach Right but do you owe it to somebody Strangers I'm respectful to people I want people to be respectful to me I move off respect I try to Make a reciprocal thing Where people if you're respectful Then I'm respectful in that light Indeed I think respect is a courtesy That you show it because that's what you want in return I don't know if it's necessarily Old to anybody Because you could be somewhere and you say You speak to them they don't speak back They rule Because they don't owe you no respect Being respectable and having respect for someone Is two different things I would say Like if I'm a respectable person I'm going to respect everybody I see in an encounter But having respect for someone Is something different I might be respectable to everybody In this room but I still don't got no respect for this nigga Having respect is Is something like Walking in a room And not going out your way To maybe bump into somebody Right? That's being respectable But it's having respect I think I'm trying to decipher if there's a difference between the two But I think that being respectable Is different than having respect for you You understand what I'm saying? In prison right? So it's like It's understood that you got respect for the next man So when the lights go off And niggas Is about to go to sleep You don't want to be the nigga playing your music loud Because you got respect for the man Right You being respectable You understand how it can get But it's showing respect also 100% But that's not necessarily having respect for the nigga you don't like In that same part What do you mean the nigga that you don't like? The nigga that you don't like You see you can have respect for your enemies too You do understand that You can't You can't You can't You understand that Y'all don't see things out of eye You can respect the fact that It could go all the way But you have a certain level of respect for I respect you so I think we all kind of saying the same thing But it's a courtesy though Because I'm not a disrespectful nigga though Like I don't just walk around Being disrespectful to people What? I don't even say that Yeah you said something It was something it was like a little sound It was like a little sound It was a little sound You said something You said something It was a little sound That was a loud sound It was like a statement I'm saying I don't walk around being You be fouled ain't man Come on y'all been around me for years I move with respect That he don't walk around being disrespectful Yeah We've been all kind of places together I agree I keep it respectful Only one thing happened with us With who? At that place when I was proud out of my mind Don't put me in this It was me and you When I didn't know where I was at And I grabbed that mic and I said Man it's Jim Jones Man on the building man the lobby boys It was the first time you've done Something like this That was a crazy night man A crazy night But I just want to get everything on the record Because you said a lot of things on the record tonight You said you've never hated In your life But then you said you wish You're not clear You said you've never hated 15 What happened? I just want to get everything on record And he hated me and he hates to this day He's hating right now Right now It just so happens to be Alright cool We learn more about each other everyday We learn more about each other everyday I'm talking about you man I'm talking about you man This is crazy No but What? Forget about it but Spitz we good though? No we good though We good though That was the only time that was Spitz we good though Hey forget that shit We good though It's a broken shoe gore Spitz came in on I feel like Spitz No man we might not know He just don't want to blow it up Spitz face Leave it alone Oh my god Pause if necessary No man Your face is giving You got my fucking Nah it No we good man Alright man I don't know you for being disrespectful bro I come up to strangers You know what I mean I don't know you for that I don't know you for that There's only one time that you had an outburst I'm not going to say that I've been berserk before Okay so this is okay You just said it was the only one time You said it was only one time when it was me and you That's the only time that happened with me and you When we almost got into altercation Yeah but it was new I was being disrespectful to the guy Never again after that Never again Public out with you You don't recall Let me ask another thing Since we are in respect If you're in a relationship Do you expect your partner To respect what you do Or believe in what you do Respect it in a sense like You know if you have to do something They can respect what you have to do For your career You got to be in a video with girls You know what I'm saying The second part of that is do they got to believe In what you do Yeah I would want my partner to believe in me Believe what I'm trying to accomplish And respect what I'm doing Especially if I was doing that when we met I would want that Yeah Me too I would want my partner to believe In what I'm doing But I would want her to respect it first Because A person believes That's not their vision Can kind of fade away after a while If they don't see what you see until it happens But as long as they respect what you're doing Along the ride and shit like that They know you're chasing their vision That's the most important But if she don't believe If she think your shit is trash I'm saying like Do the duration of time What you might grind for Somebody else might not see that The belief in that might not be as strong As it was when she first started Your ideas refreshed to her It could become But if she still respects the grind No matter what Because she understands what you're up against I believe for me that's the most important thing And I have to get it apart I'm going to go with respect Over the belief Because I think the respect could Make the belief stronger If they respect what you got going on And it do happen to happen for you You know what y'all write though Like rethinking about that She may not believe In what you're doing so much She may not see the vision But she loves you so much that she respect that Listen babe, whatever you got to do Because you believe in it that much She respects it You over here with your little rips Raps and all that Do your thing You in the studio, beatboxing or whatever Fuck you doing Beatboxing is crazy That's how she's going to chat That's how they're violent That's how they're violent You out there beatboxing I don't know if you know but I love that nigga That's in the chat You might as well wrap that studio shit up And you never gonna know She put the beatbox in the chat That's the beatboxer Nah nah she don't respect All the even bro The beatboxer here Anytime you pull up Now you're gonna joke through the beatboxer You bring the beatboxer with you tonight But I love him so much Then I'm gonna I respect his beatboxer And it whatever it is And that's love, I respect that Yeah I'm gonna respect over belief Yeah that's what's up I think I want my partner to Just believe in me Like they might can't believe Or don't believe Where you coming from to where you Saying you wanna go It might be hard for them to see That might be just your goal, your dream But if the person believes in you They kinda stick with you To whatever you end up You know what I'm saying It's kinda with the same thing and what y'all saying Is that I want my person to believe in me You know what I'm saying But I do from there they just gotta Support that they might not believe You're gonna be the biggest rapper in the world But if they believe in you They gonna stick with you See how that works out What about on the flip side though Spice You got a partner you believe in in her How does that work I think I should go both ways Yeah but are you supportive I think I should go both ways Like Is it depend on what your partner is Is it important to her Yeah only fans Damn man Are you supporting nigga this is Simple bro don't make It's simple it's simple It's a scenario I don't think I could support this I might not believe in the only thing I ain't gonna believe in it But you believe in her You believe in her Yeah if I believe in her whatever you want to do What I'm saying What she's showing on there I believe her might stop a little bit What she's showing on the only thing She ain't doing much she just feet Yo you know It's also people who are only fans Right they just go up there and just be I don't know who subscribes to this And pays to see it but some people just go up there And post pics of their vlogs Gotcha You didn't subscribe and see some shit you could have seen on What's up They just be on there horny Gotcha Because it's beyond there waiting to see some Shit When she might flash you some shit next time Then she put 10 door pics up on you That's how they meet So really for real You gotta believe in your partner For real for real No matter what it is You might not even believe in the actual thing But just believe in the person I could respect the person Believing in the person more than What do you think they doing What's this has a significant other Put you in a compromise on the uncomfortable position Before and how did it happen I've been in an uncompromising position before I only been in a compromise I woke up I woke up in this girl The man was knocking on the window Right so check this out I'm landing in this girl house In her crib Right and that's all I hear in the morning And a girl like waking me up Oh my god get up get up get up Get up get up get up And rushing me into her kids room Now mind you I'm laying in her house But ass naked Socks off toes out everything But she don't know what she don't know Won't kill her she don't know that I can't prepare for shit like this So when I'm grabbing on my stuff I got the grip so I go into the kids room I'm stepping on toys and shit Trying to get dressed trying to put Everything on and shit so I sit down on the bunk beds After I'm dressed What's in there on the bed After I'm dressed I'm in the room nigga I hear boy come in What's the kids in the room what they doing No no kids what's the kids was at school It's a daytime It's a daytime so keep this in mind When you're grieving always going to school day Right so I hear boy come in and I'm just sitting In there like damn alright So I don't know how long this nigga gonna be in here But I already know my car in front If he come in here I'm just going to back him down I don't want no smoke just Take it up with her let me get out of here brother Let me get out back with her Take it up with her So he I don't know if he came and Chilled for a minute dropped some money off You know I don't know what he did He was only in there for like an hour I was in there for an hour In the kids room on the bunk bed I was on the bunk bed standing Quietly What And then he goes on the top bunk Like this I got Sniper stand With the blanket on Sniper for the top bunk And then he's like he's coming in for it Gotcha I'm a man Bradley Cooper this nigga for the fucking top of this Bunk Now I'm not going to do I'm going to back him down Right I'm in there for a buck Okay solid hour So now I hear movement now I'm saying alright so now I got to I got to get ready Because it can happen I'm saying like maybe he Maybe he heard something maybe he know I'm in here I'm just going I just need to get to my My car I heard footsteps coming so I get In the position I point the grip So the door Listen I already got my speech ready Listen nigga Take it up with her Let's not make this something I don't want to do this and you don't want it done Trust me okay So I heard steps coming And the door Joked open And she jumped back oh my god You want a gun in my house? Fuck it right And this nigga in here for hours? Truly So luckily it was her man I got out of there and shit man I came back another time but you know That's another story but you know You came back for seconds You couldn't help yourself But I was an uncompromising position You liked it I wasn't That was me knows I got a story to tell That doesn't That was my significant up at the time At the time The matchups coming up this week One of course is the Lakers Going to Cleveland to play the Cavaliers LeBron's Kind of homecoming Everybody knows LeBron is from Cleveland How y'all feel about LeBron's game When he go back home Is he going to be more or less Is he going to put on a show Is he going to go crazy Since he back at home Or he feel like LeBron slowing down And it's just going to be another game What you think? I'm going to go more Just because I feel like where he at his career Just to be you know To go home you always want to turn up a little more Knowing your family might be in the building I'm going to go more with LeBron I'm going to go more too Having home court advantage Going back to see all your people You get energized for that type of shit When you go back to the hood You heard that I'm going back home to go crazy All the homies coming out I'm going to go more I think he going to cook up where he get there I feel the same way It's going to be more because Going home he got more to prove You know it's a section of fans It's like oh man He's supposed to be playing here He left us So it's like he got way more to prove I think he going to try to really really show out Facts I feel like the game is going to be A more game for LeBron In every statistic I feel like he going to really stay out On the floor his men is going to be up He going to really like give it his all Just because he coming back home Is there another NBA player That won multiple championships In different teams like LeBron Like that Like the dude Like LeBron is that That nigga so it's like That been at his like that I don't know What championships he got It been roleplayers He got believe man Miami and Lakers The pandemic Lakers But then he got some with the cleaver Yeah he got one He got one in three Anywhere he want That's kind of dope That's my point so he even got more of a reason To go crazy 70 or two games He balling I think with Luca I'm going to definitely go more with him And I think just him knowing that He's back in Cleveland With LeBron You know what I'm saying He's going to be high energy though He hit 30 though on LeBron I'm going to go more And if he already in that motion right now Scoring like that I don't think he's going to change it Yeah I think he could definitely do 30 or more I think it's really going to be Between him and LeBron Yeah it's going to be their show You know what I'm saying I definitely think he's going to make sure LeBron is in the game He right And Luca kind of get his Just in the floor of the game He's going to get his Carla He definitely going to do He do 30 on a slow night Like Luca nasty That's not going to be a slow night That's going to be high intensity 100% so he definitely That's what's going to make it Because they going to be going hard too Can I place my picks now I like how you're talking Can we do it now? Luca for LeBron I'm going to look at LeBron You're going both for LeBron I'm definitely going Luca for LeBron I'm going to be smart I like Jonathan Mitchell But I'm definitely going less From what he's been doing For the past couple of games On 3s? I'm going to go more You think he's going to do more than 3-3? Just what we were saying Based on the energy of the game When the energy and the The bro is different I think knowing that LeBron is coming in there And Luca the Lakers is coming To Cleveland That's a big game in Cleveland He's the star in Cleveland too Shooters going to shoot So he's going to When they in the slump They tell him to keep shooting He's still in Cleveland's squad So he's still not the slump on this game But he's going to have to perform I think he can do more than 3 I'm going to go with the less I'm going to go with the less Fair Tomorrow night we got Brooklyn out in Denver How y'all feel about that? Always for Brooklyn bro Yeah That's looking He's got Brooklyn He definitely out this It's like you want to go with your home team You want to go with your town The altitude, the air flow Different out there They going to make it hard for us But I mean look Brooklyn I love you though Love ain't going to get it Love ain't going to get it I'm going to be the BK Spirit It's always the BK Spirit We talking about NBA now Denver? We can't control You get different when it comes to basketball I don't even want to If I'm going smart pick I'm going Denver Smart pick Brooklyn I like that But at the end of the day If I'm going to jump into the fray To make a dollar I'm with you Six seven I mean When my son was going to school before A lot of times I was getting in trouble Expecting me Expecting me to kind of You know what I mean? Expecting me to kind of embarrass them A little bit in school Because he went to a different type of school So it was a little hard for him It wasn't easy hearing it I could stop what I was doing I had the kid He was watching and shit Like everything I'm doing In the public and shit also I went through that with Kari She told me a few times That A few of the kids in her school Be on the internet You know what I mean? Not bad But That it threw her off that they even know That much about her dad type shit You know what I'm saying? Like they came to her with new information How old is your daughter? Kari about to be ten in March Man, time flies It's getting younger and younger So even when I go to drop her off Or pick her up I see the parents They know me They say I love you in this Or I love the album So I know the parents is here But once it gets to the kids That is nine years old I look at it like it's more on the parent But you're not doing nothing embarrassing though It's not that I'm violating in no form of fashion But at the same time It's like When I pick up she was like Dad they was talking about you today Or somebody brought you That just that throws her off So I get what you're saying Not that they're saying that Your dad's getting caught doing this Does she feel like a sense of embarrassment? She feels like Why are y'all talking about my dad? I don't know your dad I can't speak on your parents But what about in the sense of what y'all do That would say of something that you do To make money Would you feel like you should stop doing that Because your kids may look at it away But if this is a way You're providing for that child So I don't think you should stop You can have that convo with them You got that convo with them But I don't think You should stop What you've created To provide You get what I'm saying I would never want my kids to be in a situation And my parents did all they could do But I don't want my kids living like that You get what I'm saying? I gotta keep it where it's at Or better So regardless of how they feel We gotta provide In the sport we chose But I think it's definitely Depending on the child Or the school they in Or their surroundings I think it's definitely due for a convo What kind of job could a man have That could be embarrassing To his child What's your favorite job? What's that? The OF shit So what about like a mom? Kyrie might stop speaking to me She hear I got OF Dad you're doing what? It might be over My first situation Only fans In my free time That's crazy Slinging me is crazy Only fans is what You can't go out that way You can't go out that way Dave the butcher You can't go out that way Nah There's a lot of ways to go out If that's paying your bills You out there being a stud That ain't paying my We not doing that So do you stop Do you cut that off? This is my thing That ain't my thing He said that ain't my thing The butcher This is what I feel right? Not to be confused with that thing This is crazy This is my thing bro I don't knock nobody hustle You heard? I wasn't raised to knock a nigga hustle So if that's Taking care of your lady Not anymore we talking about No we talking about you I already said I don't agree to that Hypothetically speaking I don't have a fucking holy fans None of us got one You don't got one? I'm just questioning if you have one I don't think it's under your name I told y'all I'm under your alias name I'm under your name I can see you right now I'm under your name and the scheme is I'm gonna say me You might be a wife Hypothetically speaking If you was doing a job That might have been embarrassing to your daughter What's embarrassing? Was she coming back and saying that No She wasn't embarrassed It was more like I think she was It was just more like why are they talking about my dad In school I know you famous dad I've been out with you She know the vibe with me But it's still like alright That's your world When I'm in your world with you Cool Why are they in my school when you drop me off in the morning Why are the kids bringing you up I get that I think it was more of that than an embarrassment But that's not nothing that you would stop doing Spirits like If you was doing a job I mean cause I was like what kind of job would you be doing that's when you said OF So if somebody was doing a job like that They daughter or son or niece or sibling You out there doing that man Why are you out there Fucking counting What if that's bringing you money What if you're making a million of money off that And you the butcher Yo The butcher The niggas might be like My daughter can't eat no books dog You know what I'm saying My daughter can't eat no books dog Exited best So On a different side Like on something that could be like Really personable to y'all Say how y'all have had A weed collab Or like a weed brand And what if somebody Was like teasing your kid Like yo your dad sell weed Or you know what I'm saying How would you handle something like that Coming back to you like with your son Or your daughter coming to you and say They say that you sell weed and stuff like that But you know like Niggas have had weed collabs Mad collabs right right right So that could be something that they can look at And it could be So what you gonna do is you say daddy They say that you sellin dope Nah look I still Nah baby I'm selling hope mama I'm selling hope mama Not real shit though Man to the girls Dad do you sell drugs I still hide that I smoke weed To my daughters Nah I get that hell yeah They smell it But I don't I don't violate I don't like nothing in front of them If I see them run up to me I put it out I don't violate Now my son he's 16 J-hip Jaden seen East He seen my name So I gotta keep it a buck with him You know what I'm saying My son was 7 My problem teaches my daddy and my mom's Smoke 5-5 5-5 But they be watchin bro That's why I don't play like that in front of them girls Like I don't J like it was more like He might catch a nigga in the bathroom Here they are you know what I mean He see me The girls I'll be still to this day I'm conscious of that You got daughters you always gonna be like I'm conscious You smell me like I'm conscious with that We could be on vacation Yo bring them in the house But looking at what he said As a scenario And you out there selling Well not selling but you got a weed strand I'm gonna keep doing them weed strands If that's making me money So you won't stop Some shit I learned and I'm not As aggressive as my parents But it was certain shit my parents was on We had to just mind our motherfucking business As the child As the child We had to just mind our business A lot of shit is like Why you ask me that Why you doing that You might get ran down Why you got the Accent too much So a lot of shit and I'm very vocal Because I feel like I got girls I want to be that fall in the girls life That is just transparent I want to talk If they ask me a question I want to answer it But some shit is like I'll tell you that in 10 years That ain't for you right now In this moment Mind your business I'll be on that It depends on the situation Some things kids gotta stay in a kids place The internet bro They're gonna ask you some grown shit It's being adults place They're gonna ask you some grown shit That might throw you off like What you just asked me They also seeing a lot more That's why they even Because they exposed a lot more They see things But I think like you said In a sense of you got a hustle You might have to have a conversation with them And bring the understanding to them I'm super with the convo Look The only thing with me Is that I even smoke So that's a tricky convo With the girls right now In a few years Convry will be a teenager I feel like that would be an easier conversation Like you know this is what When your dad is on the news For guns What? They never had to experience that I ain't had that convo with them Wait what? What you saying? Imagine my son going to school And then the next one And he's on the news Jim Jones Got it Is that embarrassing Is that embarrassing I don't think that's embarrassing He was embarrassing When you go to all private school Like you got eight kids in the class And you spend all day And nobody else parent That might be worse than all the other man's conversation That might be harder Listen son I know you asked me about what I do But understand If you see anything with it in there Just understand that I'm We eating off this We eating off this And I know It doesn't make me tease you In school That dad is slinging me He's like a big slinger I get it But just chill out You know It's crazy What you got to do to provide What you got to do 99.9% of the time Kids got money until They get to a certain age Where you feel like You need to explain what's going on to them Until then You eating good, you sleeping good You got the clothes What's up Since we talking about parenting Do you feel like dealing with your kids Have you ever had to be trans Action with your kids for them to do something Or they act like if you just ask them to do something Do they do it or they make you feel like Or you feel like sometimes I got to Give them something to do I'm not Action with spoiling in which a lot of us Can do especially when we got some money I don't know I guess I'm transactional but I spoiled the shit Transactional means give something To get something, spoiling them is just You doing whatever you want to do But have you ever had to Do something for your kid For him to do something, especially at With your son at that age, once they get a little older They really be on something like I took my son and I got $100 for you to do this for me So that's transactional though right But that's not like for everything I've done that too for little shit Put it together for me real quick I got a couple dollars for you I did that I don't really be doing that I want them to actually start doing stuff To make money I want to actually train them To work under me in a sense And have them make money that way But I don't want to start them like Yo I got $100 if you do this Once you start that kind of situation I feel like you changing Y'all dynamic a little bit I'm guilty, I did it a few times Like put these sneakers Grab this shit for me real quick Or go put this And they be like Give me a second, I'm playing the game No stop right now I got a couple dollars for you I would say yo you could work for me today I want you to work with me today and I'll pay you That's training him to I want you to work with me now But when he was younger and shit like that I'd be giving him a little like I got a couple dollars for you dude And he was like He might ask me for something That's how I do it, he might be like Yo can I get the new Wu Wu I do that for you How much that cost? You got to do this I'm not about to just give you that money So you don't understand how to work Yeah you got to kind of Even if it might be some of my new shit Because I got people that come do my yard Like they don't have none of the things That I had to I got housekeepers, the yard people So all the little bare minimum shit That kids might have to do That shit is done already So I have to find other shit You know what I mean? If you want that do this So I get it But I don't want to just give them bread for nothing They got to still show me some type of hustle But I felt the transaction on a whole other level Because I felt like dealing with my daughter's mother It was like Going into an area where it's like The only time My daughter You're setting up The environment up to where The only time my daughter's really hit me Is when she wants something Right and it's like That's start to fill trend This is the only time that you're really On my line now When I see your name pop up now It's attached to Something that's needed or wanted You know and that don't feel good Either You know what I mean? You can get that from many family members Which are children Waging a love on you Can you do this for me? And if you don't do it But then when you keep doing it It's like the only time I hear from you Is when you look out And you know what's crazy You might see that family member At the family reunion And you might not even see them like that And then when you do see them Based on what you said yes or no To the last Whatever they ask for That's the energy that you're going to receive At that next function So it's just be like Man, you know what I mean? With them kids I feel like They don't know no better bro And it's really more like They don't know better but that's on the adult What you're presenting to them That's how they get money I believe in transdaction Love too though Like if you show me love I'll show you love But I'm not giving you money for your love I'm not giving you money to be my friend That don't make any sense to me Giving money for love That's prostitution You know what it is man? I always remind my kids No matter how cool I am No matter what I'm finishing up just now Y'all the lobby boys with that one They fucked that up Money for love is prostitution I would say so I always remind my children I always remind my children That I'm their father Beyond the Because you know that Like the friendship It could become a friendship almost Like You wanted to be a friendship I always remind Right That you that fit Listen to me If I buy you this or I don't buy you shit This is This is who I am So I always have to kind of get that remind And I think a lot of times My transactions be the tone of my voice You heard My daughters know when I'm being cool What tone do you use? I can't do it right now I gotta actually be in that mode To say When you get pissed Your octave goes higher Or is it like deeper I feel like the kids They peep it It don't squeak I've never been a squeaky n***a Ain't nothing squeaky about me I ain't never been squeaky Yo man It's a whole cream Yo Mike Tyson mode It's a job I'm just trying to figure it out I ain't ever been squeaky But I think We all got kids bro Your kids know when you being cool Saying something or when you dead ass When you not playing And that don't have to come with buying shit It's the tone of your voice Or the energy you're saying it with When they remember like alright Kids know that Kids know too sometimes Just to see how they react Same thing you gotta do with grown people Kids too I used to try my parents and tell them I couldn't try them He know I got money for McDonald's Curve Look at JB He wanna slap you in the back of your head But he can't What's that face What we doing that You gotta just really fill people Sometimes you gotta say no Just to see where no leads See where no goes See where no goes If you wouldn't act it up I was gonna go to McDonald's But you wanna be screwing your face up Now we going home We got McDonald's out of the house Dunk and Donuts Friday It be Monday Dunk and Donuts Friday That's a weekend thing We not going to Donuts every day We not gonna Donuts every day after school Especially on a fast food set Your kids would be low key addicted to fast food Friday They would only want fast food So you gotta really like curve them off Just to protect them down there You can't have them in fast food every day But it's the same way we loved it though We used to love that But we wasn't getting it every day But we loved it We couldn't get it When you couldn't get it you loved it McDonald's was a treat Imagine knowing your parents got it We knew Oh mommy ain't buying that shit Imagine knowing He could buy this He could buy 10 burgers right now So the fact you saying no to one They gonna fire Like stop playing with me man Discipline though they gonna need later on It be real Boys be told how to fight growing up And perform a protection Before ever turning the weapons I think so I think as a man You should be able to protect yourself without a weapon But that's a boy though Boys turn them in I think you should be taught that as a boy If you have a father Right It's not guaranteed it's gonna be taught But even if you ain't got a father You should learn that If you a father with sons You better put them on Your father taught you Early early Karate boxing And told us You might learn from fighting You gonna learn in the streets I think as a man Because men are what Providers, protectors Whether it's women, children I think that's something that You shouldn't be a 30 year old man Who never had a fight before 30 year old man who never had a fight before It's a lot of Am I bugging? You don't think that exists? Yeah, that's what I'm saying It's a man who's nervous You don't think? Y'all acting like that don't exist You remember the arrow we in People out here that never had a rumble I'm gonna have the most randomest fights in life My mother would be like Yo listen If you come in here with that pussy footin' shit If you come up here crying You getting your ass whipped I went up in here crying one time I got my ass whipped When nigga put me to sleep He put me in a choke hold When I was in second grade In the bathroom put me in choke hold in second grade And my homeboy went to my My house and told my mother I remember those Yeah the boy put you in sleep Nobody asked him Knocked on the door And I asked him to come over here And deliver his message That was the first troll That's when trolling started You know what my mother said? She said oh yeah Okay, and I got my ass whipped Then my father If I had a problem with a kid on the block He would go get him And make me fight him in front of him So it was different Like he would go actually go Sort the kid out and say You wanna fight my son? Let's go Shit come in You gonna go fight him Niggas took my bike one time I pulled up home Crying sad, mad Niggas spun me too It wasn't like I got robbed Let me see the bike And I'm just You know you were young Niggas did that shit to mouse before You know what I mean? Four or five basketball games Then went by Still ain't came back on my bike I'm home Don't come in this house without that bike You heard? My pops was like that Like it's dark to the mother fuck I'm not, I'm supposed to go Find my bike right now? I don't know what it's Nigga had with my bike Don't come in this house without that bike So I early on I already knew I had love And protection in the crib But don't be outside violating Our name Don't be the punk Nigga, don't come in this house with that Go get your bike I went outside for another Two, three hours just wandering around And found my bike You heard? You had to fight for the bike? No, Niggas just Niggas just had my bike You lucky you ain't running out You know what I mean? You know what I mean? Nigga probably went through every bike He could go through on my bike He did Vice was cause, nigga crazy He could go through every project, everything By the time he spun back to where we was at I left sad Niggas took my bike You heard? Get to the crib Don't come in this crib without that bike Go back outside My niggas That's crazy but you had to You couldn't not fight in my crib You had to fight My brother, we had my sister fight you like a man We all had to fight I want to tap into one of them boxing gyms I don't like them teach my son The crazy part From that I don't really want them to be a boxer I just want them to have a good little piece of you I think that would be That's good, I had Zayn in that I put her in karate class Absolutely I think that would be a cool thing Protecting yourself is Something that I feel like That's a plus, bro But it's not promoted as much as it should be Because we living in a world where Zayn don't hit back You got to know how to handle yourself in any situation And I think that goes for man or female I got all daughters really So I feel like I didn't put Kyrie in little boxing lessons I want them to know If a girl played with you You're not going to be swinging or grabbing head I want you to two piece of You know how much of a proud dad You can be, your son came home like Papa hit that niggas with that two piece That's what I learned Exactly You don't want to call your son just got punched out Not at all And couldn't do nothing about it I don't want to say that My son told me he had a fight My son had a bunch of fights But you hype and then you also got to tell him That ain't really like No, he got a fight though That ain't it, but be able to protect Hold yourself down If somebody play with you and put their hands on you Hold yourself down at all costs 100% I'm just don't believe in that My son is born in You also got to teach him to be shy To avoid any Then you get punched in the back of the head Avoid or something don't mean you're going to get punched in the head Okay Let me just tell you something If somebody crossed the line of discretion Then you got to give them work Don't be the nigga trying to avoid shit Because that's how you run into shit What? Not real shit, ducking and dodging shit Ducking and dodging and avoiding Ducking and dodging and avoiding It's two different things Don't be the person Trying to always Avoid Avoid a situation Because those situations Will find you regardless Sometimes you got to The situation head on Step on some shit and get it over I'm saying avoid as many problems as you can You're going to run into problems regardless But if you can avoid problems I would say avoid them I'm saying avoid problems I'm saying avoid trying to be the person To try to always avoid it Don't always be the bigger person Right you can't If the kid want to fight you At school 3 o'clock I'm fucking you up What you going to do? At 3 o'clock if he crossed the line of discretion We going to get with it It ain't going to be no if That's growing pains Everybody need to grow up with certain shit If I come outside at 3 o'clock and nigga crossed the line We going to get with it What happened bro? Go get him before he gets you He already gave you a threat We ain't waiting for him to cross no line I'm not raising the killer As long as you know how to self-defense You ain't got to press the issue No we speaking in general brother I teach minds don't provoke But defend Hold yourself down Don't go out there looking for nothing But if somebody come to you playing Then you give him that Get right with him But don't go out there looking for nothing You telling him go get with him If somebody make a threat to you He got to show me No that's the wrong way I'm not waiting for no threat Because that threat can be something I'm not waiting for no threat I'm not waiting for no threat You threatening me? Understanding how life is It's people that been threatening That ain't never came back from that I got a step on it I got to get it out the way You going to beat him up because he said something This one try to say what are you going to do I got to do what I got to do Right now you going to throw everything away Because somebody says something while I'm done See now you getting too technical Like we not throwing nothing away I might karate chop him Okay I mean slap the shit out of him Like All in all I think teaching your kids To defend That's it it's defense It's making a awareness of me to that Like with your kids Knowing how to defend themselves And not being getting bullied Being bullied is a whole different thing I'm all of a parent you are You might not be there We don't even talk about that Kids need to know how to protect themselves We're talking about getting bullied This is all of us going on in schools Bullies is all kinds of things happening in school Okay we talking about school alright Alright that's true You don't want your kid being bullied You want your kid to be able to defend himself To stand up to a bully To stand up to any kind of opposition Don't be out here being a pushover Don't be letting niggas go in your pocket You know give you wedgies and all kinds of shit That's totally different than what I'm talking about So maybe I'm on a different conversation What conversation you on? I'm talking about being a respectable person at all times Like if you can avoid a problem Absolutely But if a nigga want a problem What is difficult? Listen all what side you to avoid problems Okay I'm well studied brother I understand that But some problems are unavoidable And then you're not gonna listen Bullies exist in a respectful manner though I'm gonna say don't react I said if somebody crossed the line of discretion You give them the business what happened Is that a physical line? What the discretion line? Yeah that's right here you crossed this line I'm gonna go up side your head No some of my lines are Mental They ain't even got to step They ain't got to get too close to you He ain't got to take no steps You're gonna take no steps The steps is already taken I can't The line been crossed Speaking of all this fighting Speaking of all this fighting It's a fight this weekend Tia Fimo You know how I'm going with it Shakur New York, New Jersey I'm going Shakur for the more I'm going Shakur for the more But you know they different fighters Shakur is more of a defensive But no knock Shakur for the more No knock I really got a chance to like Just watch Shakur over the years You know what I'm saying What you mean? I'm just a little more familiar with What's the boxing I'm more of a boxing fan I like Shakur but I like him Because What kind of fighter he is His skill set versus Lopez I feel like Shakur got A defensive skill set too Right Always get praised For his offensive But his defense is Really was why he gets to Right Because it's harder to hit him He not throwing a high volume of punches though Because he's so much on the defense He not getting hit a lot Right But some say It could be argued that he doing Some say, critics say That he's running a lot That can be said But they say that about Mayweather too But he's won the fight Mayweather that could be argued He's told a toll with a lot of people Listen We gonna see how this fight go The 31st But I'm definitely going with Shakur versus Jersey I'm going with bro Listen, this happen in the zone Y'all got the zone? I got the zone, yeah, that's happen in the 31st And the people Wanna watch it, it's gonna be in the bio We gonna put it in there In the description, you can sign up for this zone You gonna watch the fight, I'm trying to go to the fight if I can I think I'm gonna be in the building I'm gonna go see that live What's the last fight we all went to fight We went to No, we went to another fight after that Danny Garcia Danny Garcia And then we went to another fight also Me and you, what fight was that? I was with Charlotte at Danny We was in a club and Niggas started fighting What you talking about? That was the last fight we was at What fight was that? It was something random that was all What were you doing in 2016 And how did that ever change? That was a good year for me man 2016? I don't understand what this whole challenge is about I don't get it even but I Jacked that year At my first child that year Kareem Blessings I just got my deal with Nas that year It was up I moved out the hood that year I got my first spot in Jersey that year Damn I got the white ranger over that year Damn Damn You heard Yeah, we was running around that year Shout out to 2016 B I like that year 10 years later I'm still here, I still look good My teeth still white Still got my hairline What you think about that What 2016 I don't know I guess it's just going back 10 years They doing something that I don't know why they posting 2016 pics So special I don't know I guess 2026 is quieter now So That was the hottest Ever been in any life with 2016 How do you feel about Okay, so let's flip it And say this I'm doing a lot better now though In 2026 How far have you came I think I learned a lot about people More than anything I learned how to I learned money better How to Manage money I learned how to deal with Just everything I don't react the same as shit as As I did in 2016 My reaction is different Because I feel like I got way more to lose Than I had to lose in 2016 And you didn't feel that way back then I was Fresh out the hood I knew I had my daughter coming But she wasn't here yet She was about to be 10 So it hits a little different Me and her have conversations We build So shit that used to get me all Away mad and make me want to zap 10 years ago It don't really do that for me now I could get past I could get past it easier in 2026 than I can In 2016 I was back though It was just a bad year for me So many things happened to me House floor closed Deals went bad Niggas down on his chips Relationship woes Trying to keep it together Mommy house burns all down 2016 was a fucking hell of a year But 2017 Was 2017 was My Bounce back Super bounce back I can remember Did the album Called The Kitchen When I was putting My mom's House burnt down to the ground For that shit and it was like a Realization for me and shit like that It was like It was crazy though cause Maybe 2 months or 3 months before That I was just going through a lot of shit With all my business and properties and everything I needed to put insurance on my houses And I made sure I put Insurance on my mom's house I had to make sure I did that no matter what was going on And Not too long after that it was when that shit happened I cried to God Cause it was like if I didn't put that insurance in Then my mom's When they had the house and shit like that But it was like a lot of things that happened that year And it was like deep in the bounce back from it And 2017 was like My resurrection From everything I've been fighting And I'm still fighting to this day but In terms of a 10 year Time span What has been different From 2016 to now To now? Oh everything I've totally turned Around All my bad situations And made good of all of them And made better shape business wise Mentally, physically than I've ever been In my life I may have made more money before But I was in control of my business The money I'm making now I know where it goes, I see it, I understand it And it's more Profitable to me now than it was When I had a shit load of money That blew and shit like that But the journey bouncing back is incredible Cause it really I feel like That shit of overnight success takes 10 years And that's been 10 years of my bounce back To be right here And it was not like this 10 years ago So I appreciate you 2016 But I'm back Jack What about you Spare? 10 years I don't really know bro, I don't really like hold on to the year I was Having that shit in 2016 2026 Older in 2036 But what has changed What has changed Nothing, I just keep having that shit Having my way out here That's all That's life, my life How about inspiration right there You got pictures of Hoop from 2016 That shit Let's see them I might have had a Mohawk in 2016 I got some weird shit in me I know all of these pics are gonna be weird Yo Let's see what they look like She ain't do nothing nice Oh yeah, double XL I did do that that year You did have a good year that year I was a good year I was a good year What the fuck Snigger look like What's Miami What's the comedian name What's his name You just interviewed him Mike Apps Sommons Spitz had the shoulders out in 2016 I thought that was Pharrell Don't go wild about this Spitz, what's up with you Don't stand for that Spitz is violent What the fuck was that Oh shit Oh man, oh yeah That was a time I remember that year Yeah, that was crazy Yeah That's the pic y'all findin' my man It's crazy Y'all gotta relax over there It be the people that's cultured to you On that side, y'all gotta relax That was crazy That's what that picture was And Dray's just ended You just ended Damn, you got a 10 year bag Oh wow, this is a question for me This for you man Oh wow This for you man Last year was rough for me I moved in with my girl But now I'm on my feet again And I'm about to get a little apartment And she's pissed Mano, how should I handle it Well I'ma tell you like this On this side, okay If she allowed you to sleep In her house Whether it was on her bed Or on her couch Then you got to pay it forward bro I'ma watch it mad that he want to get his own thing He try and do his thing man That's what it says First try to do him First I'ma get my feet I want to get my own stuff Hold on He's saying Let me read your question Let me read your question Let me read it to you man Man, this is last year Was rough for me I moved in with my girl But now I'm on my feet again And about to get a little apartment A little apartment, nothing crazy Mano, how should I handle it Okay, she's pissed that you want to get a little apartment Okay, because she just wants to hold you tight Brother, you understand And here's the thing, get your apartment But you sit that lady down And you talk to her and say Listen, I'm so appreciative of you I thank you After you get the apartment Get the apartment first Because nothing like having your own Because nothing in the world Is like having your own The man with his own is a man It's a man with a throne God damn right 100% Get your apartment And you know her away because she was solid with you But she mad that you got your own now So that's an emotion Is that hate? It is hate, but here's the thing It's hate that's coming from love because She loves him Because she loved him so much To hold him down when he was in a time of need But what if he was knocking the bottom out that thing And we wouldn't love What happened if he just needed to place the state He was knocking the bottom out the bottom of the bottom Like so many of us needed what we were coming up And we just needed shelter A couple of weeks to get on our feet But guess what? We got to reward the ones That's real with us She's solid so we reward her You got to clip up man I don't want to see you level up She's not trying to watch you go up And you try to get something real So that she could kick you out one day That's just the feeling right now He got a better gauge of what's going on Listen, what I'm telling you, you feel like she's a hater? Definitely She's trying to hold him back She's trying to hold him back She didn't offer to decorate that house She didn't say, I'm going to get you the bathroom set She didn't say I'm going to make sure that she's cozy For when I get over there For when I get over there I want to make sure it's cozy I want to make sure I got a drawer in there You got to let her know easy though because she did the right thing She hated it She's mad that you're doing your thing though What did she do right? She held him down, she let him use that Because she allowed him to come get some more Watch Netflix Okay I'm telling you that I'm about to have Netflix in my spot And you're not volunteering to help me out So I might be hating I'm saying I agree with that So now who are you handling this? That's hate man We need a bottle of champagne You seen the movie New Jack City, what do you do? Cancel No, no, don't take that advice Don't take that advice, I'm going to give you the real advice What do we do? Take your time Don't listen to these niggas Okay If she is anything that you have a semblance Of love for and respect for Then you talk to her with humility And you speak to her like a man She wouldn't be mad that you got to a little apartment coming on the way She wouldn't be mad at that So if she mad at the fact that you got a little spot Come get the champagne Tell her she got one or two choices Get the champagne Champagne Go get the old school bottle of champagne Bottom line, you already know It is what it is On that note, we'll catch you on the next episode Of Let's Wrap a Body Comment, subscribe Shasta of Playmakers Highlattice Let me know if it's more or less You heard Subscribe Like Comment Comment Like Comment Like Comment Like Comment Like Comment Like Comment