My Lil Valentine

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He buys flowers from the man on the corner, calls you my little Valentine, walks on the street, walks on the way, walks on the street side of the sidewalk without thinking, don't call me your little nothing. Big Valentine. My little Valentine. Your little nothing. But you know, I don't like when people be saying my like, when people be like, my little shit. What is my little shit? The fine shit, little fine shit or whatever they be saying. They be saying my little shit. My little shit sounds kind of gross. Because I do got a little shit. I be having a little shit, but that's not what I would be called. Oh, like nothing about that is cute. Imagine somebody had your name like that in they phone and they had like the little poop emoji. My little shit. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind. Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought. We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today. I know they be happy when we feed the streets. I know. We've been doing good with the solo episodes. Yes, we have, because I feel like we went on a run where we had, like, a lot of guests, so I feel like we owe that to them to give them, you know, a run of a lot of solos. We got to mix it up. We do. We do. And I hope they enjoy any, because it won't last long. Yeah. Another one that's finna come. We finna have a lot of guests. But it's going to be guests that y'all enjoy. We've heard y'all. We don't want to get ate up. They said that you always saying it, and it's not what they be saying. Bro, it do, though. I'm telling you. I be saying the comments. I know. I know they be like, Lex, nobody asked for that. I'm like, bro, y'all be in my DMs. Y'all be in the comments. They do be. But tell the truth, though. Do you say that sometimes just to make them feel good, just to make the guests feel good? We have not had one guest on the show where everybody was like, nobody asked for this. I'm telling you. I know. At least we'll be like one or two people at least. Yeah, one or two. One or two. Out of hundreds of thousands. That's enough for me. That's a request. That's still a request. And I must meet all of my people's needs. I want everybody to feel loved and paid attention to. We should do a poll on Instagram. No, we should not. We should. I feel like we should do a poll and like ask. Well, I guess we kind of did do that. What? We made a post and we asked them who would they like to send. And everybody said themselves. A lot of people was tagging themselves. They were like, let me on the couch. And you know what's funny? I actually wouldn't mind doing, like, a fan episode, like, one day, like, doing some kind of contest and doing it, like, maybe once a year or something. That would be fun. It would be fun. But the thing that scares me about that is I feel like if we pick somebody to do it, I don't want them to come and they think it's, like, it's not what they think it is. And they get on the couch and they just get nervous and they don't show up. You know what I'm saying? Like, you have to really... You got to give it your all. Like, you got to do it. Yeah, but I think... I don't feel like they should be nervous, though. Because, you know, it's not that many people in here. Now, if we did it in front of a live audience, that would be different. I don't even think it's about the people. I think it's just the set-up. It's the lighting. It's the... I mean, then sitting here with us, a lot of people probably maybe get nervous in front of us. I don't know. But I would like to do it. I just hope that, like, if we ever do it, like, we pick, like, the right person who's going to come on here, join in on the conversation, mesh with us well. Like, I actually think that we should do that. Yeah, we should maybe try to... Like, maybe they have to do, like, poor minds trivia. I think that's too easy. We gotta do something like... Something like what? What you thinking? I don't know. Like, Hunger Games? Like, Survivor type shit? Hunger Games. Uh-uh, that's too much. I'm just kidding. We gonna end up getting sued. No, but I don't know. But we'll think of something that's, like, very... I don't know. I don't know. We have to think of something good. It needs to be something hard. Yeah, just so, like, it'll really, you know, weed it out and see who's really, like, can mesh in with this. I don't know. Well, in other news, we are coordinating. You look very nice. Yes, thank you. I got this from Baby Boo. That's cute. I like that. It's a cute, like, little date night dress. Now, you know, they told us that the girls have to retire this burgundy color. They said it is tired. They tired of seeing us in our burgundy, and we need to let it go. Who said that? Everybody on TikTok. Probably somebody that can't dress. Well, that's me. I can't dress, but I like the birdies. I like the birdies. I feel like people who be saying that type of stuff, you know, always, you look at they page, and it always be them. You know, I just face it. They always be the ones. It always be the people with the most opinions, and then you look at they page, and you be like, oh. Okay. I'm not gonna lie. I feel like every time it's somebody in the comments be like, ooh, Lex, what you got on? Lex, you look tacky or something. Every time I go look at that page, I'm like, bitch, we dressed the same, hoe. I'm already... You my twin now. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I mean, I don't feel like y'all be dressed the same, but I'm sure they be looking the same. Yeah. Because it's usually like that. I mean, I don't know. I like the burgundy color. I definitely think, you know, at one point, people was overkilling it. But as long as the outfit is cute, I don't really care. Yeah, I like a little burgundy. I feel like as long as the outfit itself is cute, who cares? Yeah. It's like, and burgundy been around forever and ever. That's like literally one of my mama's favorite colors. Really? Yeah, she always wore burgundy when I was growing up. Y'all new to these. Y'all ain't true to it. So, you know, burgundy is a good home interior color now in 2026. That's like the trending color for 2026 is burgundy. Right. So who we gonna listen to? Them on TikTok? Or the interior designers? Me. I'm the interior designer. You should listen to me. Girl. But I will say I am trying to incorporate colors this year a lot more. Because I'm always a black and brown girly. You a neutral girl. Yes. Neutrals. That's it. So I am trying to, like, add more colors. And I feel like burgundy is, like, it's a baby step. Because it's still, like, a... It's a muted color. A muted color, yeah. Yeah. But, I mean, I don't know. Because the fashionistas are saying that you're supposed to get all of your good pieces in neutral colors. Because you could wear them more. That's what I'm saying. Like, it's a staple. I did a little shopping the other day. What's that designer name? It starts with the M. Man of... Man of... Man of something? Manier. Manier. Manier. I know who you're talking about. I got a few jackets from him. Yes, baby. I ordered some jackets, and they are so teat, but they were all, like, black and brown. I said, I tried. Baby steps. Baby steps. Yeah. Yeah, you got to start somewhere. I don't know. This fun fact, these pants, I have had them for 10 years. Ooh. Over 10 years. And that's on staying skinny. That's what I was about to say. You can still fit them. And I can still fit them. That's amazing. Shout out to American Apparel. Ooh, that used to be the store. Because American Apparel used to be having all of the clothes, all of the gems. and I used to stay up in American Apparel hated to see me come in. Them high-waisted shorts that were kind of shiny? Yes. With the thigh-high socks? We used to wear... That was your bartending outfit. It was. If you was a prime-time bartender, you had on them thigh-high socks, the high-waisted shorts, and a crop top. Everything was high-waisted. And the chucks. And you had to have the chucks on. Yes, and then it was just really good material. Like, the dresses and stuff were all spandex, but it was, like, body-hugging, body-contouring. Yeah. It was just really good quality stuff. And clearly, because like I said, I've been having these pants for like 10 plus years. I forgot I had them in my closet. I was like, are they all match perfect for my little jeans? And that's what I'm saying. That's quality pieces. Because I'm telling you, I done went through about 16 pair of Fashion Novers in 10 years. I already know them Fashion Nover jeans be getting hauls in the midst of too quickly. And then when you wash them, the hems be coming out. Everything, baby. You open the wash, there's just a bunch of thread in there. That's it. Now, I will say, Pretty Little Things quality, I like their quality. Like, I'll buy their sweatsuits. Like, the sweatpants and the tops, that's good quality. Yeah. I will order some Pretty Little Things. I love it. They make the tall because, you know, I'm a little taller. I like Pretty Little Things. Yeah, they be having some, you know, little one-twos. Anyways, it's Valentine's Day. It is. And, you know, we want to spread a lot of love. And that's what we're doing. Well, first off, do you have any Valentine's Day plans? I don't know yet. You don't know yet? That's good. That's a good sign. I don't know yet. You know what I'm saying? I hope I'm surprised. We'll see. My boyfriend booked a cabin. Ooh! Oh, that's exciting. Y'all seem to get freaky. Y'all are. About to get freaky in the woods. I know that's right. He's been listening. He's doing good. He in therapy now. Love that. I love that. Okay. We love a man at least. What you doing? I'm going out of town. You know, a little one-two. something light. It's just a little quick weekend trip. A little New York. I love a little quick New York trip. So yeah, we're gonna do a little one-two. Get it in and head on back. But I wanted to talk about love and spreading love, right? Do you feel... I saw a TikTok the other day. This lady made a video and she was saying her and her child were walking through the airport and her baby was like waving at people because she was like, my baby's just really, really friendly. And she got mad because this lady didn't wave back at her baby. And she was just like, that's rude as fuck. This is a child that's showing cheer and love to everyone. How dare you not wave back at my child? Like, she didn't do nothing to you. And I was like, not everybody likes kids. That's number one. If I don't want to wave at your baby, I'm not going to wave at your baby. Yeah, I agree. I mean, and I just feel like, too, what if she didn't see them? I mean, I'm pretty, maybe she did, but especially if they got that dried-ass Cheetos on their mouth and their hands wet. I hate a wet baby hand. Me too. Oh, I hate a wet baby hand. Me too. And they be putting their food in everything. And then they be trying to give you some. No. Oh, I'm gonna say the B word. No, bitch. No, bitch. I don't want your crusty, soggy Cheeto. Oh, my God. I had seen this meme. Well, it wasn't a meme. It was like a little video on Instagram the other day. And this lady had called her friend And she was like, hey, bitch, what's up? And the lady was like, girl, my kid's sitting right here. And she was like, oh, hey, little bitches. That's me. That is me, because you can get out the room, man. I'm trying to talk. That shit was funny as fuck. I was like, I mean. Yes. And don't get me wrong. I always wave at children. But I feel like, I don't know. I think people are just, I do think it's very easy to be kind now. I do. I think it's very easy to be nice. And I think we should. this world could use a lot more people being kind. For sure. But at the same time, you're not entitled to somebody else's kindness at the same time, too. And I think that's a good lesson for some children, too. This world ain't nice. You know what I'm saying? Sometimes you're gonna wave at a motherfucker and they not gonna wave back, bitch. I mean, and it's a child. Depending on how young they are, they're not even gonna remember their shit. Yeah, they're not. I don't really feel like babies be caring about that type of stuff. You as the mom, I don't feel like when you were two, you can't remember if you care. I do. No, you can't. I remember when I was a teeny, teeny, tiny tot. Okay. Okay. So what's something you remember? I remember one day I was in Kroger and I was just walking up and down the aisles. I was looking for some eggs. Mm-hmm. And I remember I asked the lady, I said, help, help. Mm-hmm. And she looked at me and she said, little bitch, and she walked off. And it stuck with me forever. That never fucking happened. And I said... That shit never fucking happened. That day in my diaper, I looked up at her and I said... Because where was your parents? Why are you looking for eggs? Because I was trying to help my mom grocery shop and I looked up at her. But where was she? In the other aisles. And you had on a diaper. And she left you by herself. And I looked up at that lady. I said, you're going to regret this. I'm going to be a podcaster one day. Girl, anyway. And you're going to eat your words. And lo and behold. I knew you was about to lie. I could see it in your eyes. I'm just saying. I do it. She regretted it. But no, I mean, I definitely do think it's rude a little bit when people don't speak to kids if they, like, wave at them or speak to them. But I don't know. Maybe because we don't have kids yet, but even once I do have a kid, I don't see myself just getting that upset that somebody didn't wave back at my baby. Oh, well, bitch, fuck you. Yeah. And I'm going to keep moving. Who cares if I find nothing to be upset about? Yeah. And I think, too, some children are a lot more talkative. Yeah. Like, I don't... Neither one of my nephews are friendly like that. Yeah. So I've never had to deal with that, like, being out in public with them, like, hi. But some kids are like that. And I feel like if you do have a friendly kid, I think that's a conversation that you can have. Like, you know, baby, not everybody's going to talk to you, and that's okay. You know, you still be yourself, and you don't change that. But I think getting upset at people for not waving at your baby is a little weird. I'm not going to lie. It is. She was going off. She was hot, honey. She was mad. But, you know, people be like that about their kids. And, I mean, I guess I get it to a certain extent. Like, you know, you're going to be up and protective of your child. Yeah. If they didn't do anything. Like, to me, it's different if they did something to be rude to the baby. Yeah. Versus just not saying anything back. Like, if my baby waved at you and he was like, fuck you. Then I'm going to go off on your ass. Then I might end up in Fulton County. So why you didn't feel sorry for me? That lady called me a little bitch. Because that shit ain't happening. That shit ain't happening. Okay. Okay, and I agree with that. Like I said, I just think, like, people aren't entitled to care, as long as they're not rude like that. But also, like, this is why I really don't like talking to strangers in the airport and having small talk either, because, like, once you start, oh, this is my youngest. People be doing this here? Yes, like, if you're, like, at a random bar, you're, like, sitting next to somebody and they want to talk, that's fine, but hi and bye. Once you start pulling up pictures of your kids, I'm sorry, I do not want to see pictures of Lil' Frederick. I really don't give a damn. I'm like that with my coworkers. Yes! I don't give a damn. Bro. It's new baby you got. Dog, unless it's somebody like in my circle or like but like if any of y'all had a child of course I want to see pictures but like if it's somebody I'm not, I really don't care to see pictures of your kid. I'm sorry. Yeah, me either. At a bar though. People don't do that at no bar. I'm here to get lit. Yes! Not trying to be lit. Killing the vibe. You and your baby. You and your baby on Santa Love. Bro, kids, I tell y'all, pictures of kids and pictures of people's pets kill the vibe every time. I don't want to see none of that shit. It do. Yeah, people need to learn how to read the room. Because like I said, like, if you showing me pictures of your kids and you at the bar, you don't have nothing strong enough to feel good. You are not a good drinker, buddy. Because you shouldn't even be thinking about them kids right now. I'm telling you. Or your pets. Especially not your pets. Man, the club is full of ballers and their pockets full grown. What are you doing? Yep, yep. You know what I'm saying? sex. But yes, that's funny. Okay, so let's get into the first topic. What are we talking about today, Chelle? Okay, so for the first topic today, we're going to be talking about Valentine's Day no-no. We always talk about what we want our partner to do on Valentine's Day. So I feel like for this first topic, we can talk about the things that we absolutely don't want our partner to do on Valentine's. Like, no-no. Don't do this shit because we might break up on Valentine's Day if you do. Would you break up with somebody on Valentine's I would break up with a nigga on his birthday. Oh, I've done that before. I don't give a damn. I love it. If you got a goal, you got to go. Yeah, I definitely did that before. Yeah. And I'd do it again. I would do that shit again, too. Like, if you make me mad enough, nothing makes me happier than ruining your birthday. No, see, I wouldn't necessarily want to ruin your birthday, but if you're just so happy that it was your birthday, oh, well, I'm not waiting till the next day. I can't. I got to get it out. But that's me anyway. It don't matter what day it is. Like, if I have to get something off my chest, I got to get it off my chest. That's me too. Okay, so Valentine's Day, no, no. Let me ask y'all this. How do y'all feel about enormous stuffed animals, like the big old oversized bear, big old oversized dolphin? Yeah. Do they do dolphins? I don't know. Maybe. That's cool or whatever. Why is it a bear? I don't want no big-ass bear that's the same size as my nigga. Where the nigga in the dick? Oh, oh, oh. Who am I? I have to clutch my pearl. I'm just saying. Like, why the fuck? I want this big-ass bear. Oh, girl. Oh, my God. I'm just saying. I'm just keeping it real, because that's what you was thinking. Jesus. Why the fuck I want that shit taking up space in my house? Like, I think it was cute when we were younger. Yeah. You know, because I actually had a boyfriend give me, like, a huge oversized beard for Valentine's Day. The one that passed? No, not him. He's still alive. Oh, okay. This one's still alive. But, yes, he had actually got me, like, an oversized bear for Valentine's Day one year. And it was, like, really cute. He had got me a whole bunch of balloons, the bear, some candy. He had took me out to dinner. It was, like, really, really nice. He got me some Juicy Couture stuff. Ooh. Juicy Couture. Yes. I had Juicy Couture back in the day. You was that girl. How old were you when he did all this? Um, I was, like, 16 or 17. Oh, so you was putting that coochie on him by then? Oh, yeah, yeah. I mean, because I don't recall, like, a boy giving me gifts in elementary school. Like, it was just the generic, you know, your mama would go and get the candy and the cards for the whole class. Yeah. And everybody would give it to you. I never had a boy do nothing, like, super special for me when I was in elementary or middle school. I remember being in elementary school and, you know, you would get the cards and the candy for everybody in your class. Right. I remember a boy from another class walked in the classroom. Like, the teacher walked him in there, and he came in there and brought me a card and candy and he only gave it to me because he was... That is so cute. But, again, I was so embarrassed. I was like, oh! Whatever. I, like, literally, I was like... You was like, what? I looked at him, I was like, oh, my God. Gross. That nigga got titties. I was like, and I remember, and I was just like, as an adult, when I think about it, I'm like, that was so mean. And you never said nothing to him again? I mean, I did, because he lived in my neighborhood. Oh, okay. You know what I'm saying? I know, like, we used to kind of, you know, we used to flirt, but we supposed to keep that shit in the neighborhood, hoe-ass nigga. I got other niggas in the room. You know what I'm saying? I just borrowed Jason's crayon. You know what I'm saying? Watch out, my boy. Jason's crayon. Yeah. Crazy. So I just remember, as an adult, I'm like, man, that was so mean. And I remember my teacher was like, she pulled me and was like, that was not nice. Like, you don't do that to people. And I was just like, you're a hater. Mind your business. Okay, yes. That was probably so embarrassing for him. I mean, it was probably embarrassing that he had to walk over there by himself anyway. So the teacher walked him over there. And he just, like, walked in and sat in on my desk, and he left, and I was like, nigga think I give a fuck. That is crazy, Nick. So how did y'all ever, like, when y'all had another conversation after that, how did it start? Because if I was him, I wouldn't have been fucking with you. No, it was just kind of like... Honestly, it was just kind of like... I don't know, we never really talked about it from what I remember. I mean, I was literally in first grade, first or second grade. I was like, bitch, why you embarrass me like that in front of the class? Mm-mm, we was holding hands, and, like, nothing ever happened. That was my boo. He was my side piece. No. Clearly you treated him like one in front of everybody. They probably feel hurt him to this day. They be probably asking him, what's your villain origin story? You know what's crazy? I am not being funny, y'all. I swear to God. I think he's gay now. Segregation in the day. Integration at night. When segregation was the law, one mysterious black club owner had his own rules We didn worry about what went on outside It was like stepping in another world Inside Charlie place Black and white people danced together But not everyone was happy about it. You saw the KKK? Yeah, they were dressed up in their uniform. The KKK set out to raid Charlie, take him away from here. Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him. From Atlas Obscura, Rococo Punch, and Visit Myrtle Beach comes Charlie's Place, a story that was nearly lost to time. Until now. Listen to Charlie's Place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Segregation in the day, integration at night. When segregation was the law, one mysterious Black club owner had his own rules. We didn't worry about what went on outside. It was like stepping in another world. Inside Charlie's place, Black and white people danced together. But not everyone was happy about it. You saw the KKK? Yeah, they were just dressed up in their uniform. The KKK set out to raid Charlie, take him away from here. Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him. From Atlas Obscura, Rococo Punch, and Visit Myrtle Beach comes Charlie's Place, a story that was nearly lost to time. Until now. Listen to Charlie's Place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is Ryder Strong with a podcast called The Red Weather. In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune. It was nature and trees and praying and drugs. No, I am not your guru. Back then, I lied to everybody. They have had this case for 30 years. I'm going back to my hometown to uncover the truth. You can now binge all episodes of The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. grabbing dinner with another, and praying your karmic ken or barbie appears before your shelf life runs out. 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And I had it for a very long time, but I was like, this doesn't go with anything in my house. Like, you can't even set it on the bed and it look cute. It was just kind of in the way for the longest time. Yeah. So that's definitely a no-no. He's taking up space. So, yeah, let us know how y'all feel about an oversized, you know, stuffed animal. Okay. Let's see. would you want your partner to propose on the day? No. No? No. For me, no. I really want to be surprised when I get proposed to. Okay. So I don't want it on no holiday. Don't propose to me on Christmas. Don't propose to me on Valentine's Day. Don't propose to me on my birthday. Because I don't want to be anticipating it. And I feel like when people do that type of stuff on though, like you kind of know that it's possible. Like, oh, it's my birthday. He might propose to me on my birthday. or he might propose to me on Valentine's Day. No, I just really want to be surprised. Yeah. So, no, I want it to be my day, a special day that's about me, not about nothing else. The reason I feel like that is because I think the proposal on Valentine's Day is just kind of, like, corny to me because now you're going to celebrate, you know, your engagement on Valentine's Day. And I think when people get married on Valentine's Day, it's just kind of corny and cliche for me. I feel like it's just predictable, I feel like everybody kind of does it. How do you feel, Ty? I agree for the most part, but the relationship I'm in now, our first date was on Valentine's Day. So I feel like that would be like, it would be cute. But that's different. Yeah, that's different, though. You know, like, it would just be like a full circle. But I agree, other than that, if it was anybody else, no. Yeah. But I feel like that date has significance for y'all. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Already, yeah. Already. Like, if it doesn't have any significance outside of it being Valentine's Day, like, no. I would rather you propose on the day we had our first date. Right. something like that. You know what I'm saying? Or like... Or another monumental or like important date that happened in our relationship. Like, can you imagine your boyfriend takes you to the first restaurant y'all went to on y'all's first date on the same date and proposes to you? Like, that's a lot more thoughtful and sweet. See, this is why I could have been a nigga. I would have all the bitches. I be saying that too because I would have been a trick. Man, what? I would have had it... Y'all think little baby crazy. Huh. What? I'm saying. All I'm saying is... I was like, that's random. I'm just saying. I be on them T-pages too much, bitch. You do? Because I was confused. I was like, huh? I'm just saying, I would be like... Like, in my younger days, I would probably have a whole bunch of women, but I would be such a romantic and good partner. Because it's just so easy. I guess because I'm a woman. I would just... You know, it's so easy to make a woman happy. You know, we're very simple when it comes down to it. Women just love romance. Yeah. That's all you really got to do. Don't lie and be romantic. And pay a little bill here and there. Yeah, I agree, but I don't know why men just don't get it. Maybe it's not as simple as we think it is, because I feel like if it was that simple, it wouldn't be more of them that don't get it than ones that do. I know. Damn. That's so rad. Okay, let's see. would you be into a group Valentine's Day date with other couples? Yeah, I think that would be cute. Yeah. I'm not mad at that. Not every year, no shit like that. Yeah. But like every once in a while, yeah. Like I want to, when I get my house, I want to, and when I get married and stuff, I want to have the house where we like zoo Valentine's Day and like Galentine's and everybody bring their men. Yeah. I don't like Galentine's, but you know, we couple. Yeah. And then, like, Christmas and Thanksgiving and just all of the things at my house. I really want to have, like... The hosting house. Yeah. So I don't see anything wrong with that. Yeah, I agree. Because we going home after. We know that you want the big dick. We know, sister. We know y'all going home. But I agree. I think Valentine's Day, couples, dates, I think that would be a fun idea. I've always wanted to do, like... I've never, I don't think I've ever been on a double date, though. Oh, I have. Like, I don't think I have, because usually, like, the guys I date, it's like, I don't, not that I don't want to bring them around. It's just kind of like, I'd be like, mm, I don't know, because men vibe different than women do. You know what I'm saying? Like, I've been on a double date with, like, my guy and, like, his homeboy and, like, his girlfriend, but I've never been like, okay, me and Drea, we finna invite our boyfriends or something like that. I don't know why. It's just never, like, came up or the opportunity. But I don't know. I would like to have, like, I think it would be fun to have, like, a couple that you, like, travel with and y'all do stuff together all the time. Like, I think that would be fun. So I'm not opposed to it. Do you have a couple that y'all hang out with? Yeah. My friend, they live in D.C. She's a mom, so, like, when we get away, we going international. We did it last year, went to Mexico, and we had a blast. Yeah. That's cute. I love that. Like, the hosting, I'm with you. Yes. I love that. Like, I definitely can't wait to be in that era of my life where, like, me and all my friends married and we be going on couples trips and stuff. Yes, I think that would be fun. That just seemed like such a good time. I'm not gonna lie. Like, hosting Friendsgiving, I was like, I like this. And then, like, when everybody was eating, you know, I was in the corner like, this is over. Yeah. Everybody was cozied up on the couch. Feeling like grandma on Thanksgiving. Because I just have the coziest house ever. I love, like, when people walk into my house. Like, we just got our grills made from Essence. Shout out to Essential Grills. y'all make sure y'all get y'all grills done by my girl but she came over and the first thing she was like oh my god it smells so good in here she was like it's so cozy like I just love seeing people's like reaction to my home so I'm like you know what once I'm finished like really really decorating I'm definitely gonna be entering my hosting era for sure cause it's fun it's a lot of fun it be the clean up that be the problem but honestly y'all weren't that messy no we weren't we weren't but I don't know I just I'm glad that I'm also in the era of Housekeepers. Yes. Yes. Because, go on here, come on over the next day. The hardest part about the night was just, like, packing up that food and, like, putting the food up and stuff. And so much food left over. It was so much food left over. It was a lot of food left over. But other than that... But how many people? Because, like, would you do more than 10? No. A little more. No, no, no, no, no, no. 10 is the max. How many people was at my house? It was, like, seven. Yeah. Okay, yeah. Yeah, that was a good look. 7 to 10, I'm fine. Like, house party type shit, absolutely not. That's when shit gets to breaking, floors get to getting dirty. Like, I always wear slippers in my house, but the times I have walked on my floors, because you got to do that check. I like to lift up my feet and see clean feet. I don't like Kroger feet now. So, yeah, yeah. 7 to 10 is always good. Once you get above that, people start stealing. Your soap in the bathroom, missing towels, just gone. Batteries missing, candles. Mm-mm. Yeah, I never wanted to be too many people in my house to where I can't keep an eye out on what's going on. And I, you know, I buy a lot of toilet paper at one time, and people don't be having home essentials. They gonna stuff that bag up. People do take toilet paper, because I used to do this. All right. Not at people's house. When I was at work. Like, when I used to have a day job, and it was sometimes where, like, I would need toilet paper, and I'd be like, dang, I forgot to get toilet paper. I would just take a roll. What if they had, like, the big industrial roll? They did. You would take those big... And put it in my never full. Oh, sure. Drea. I mean, it would be, like, ran through a little bit. Like, it wouldn't be, like, a new roll. How did you get it out the bathroom? In my never full. Oh. I would put it in my... It was always full. Okay. Fuck. That's why it's called that. It fit everything. Whatever you needed. Oh, my God. Okay. You are crazy. I believe it. So, yes, you're right. People will steal your toilet paper. I know. Mm-mm-mm-mm. Okay. What if he totally forgot about the day altogether? I think that's grounds for a breakup. Absolutely. I think Valentine's Day, you know, it doesn't even have to be expensive. I feel like a lot of times, you know, we're going to be realistic. You know, the average person, I mean, it's hard right now. I saw a statistic today that said the average age of a new hire at jobs is 42 years old. That's insane, right? So I think even for Valentine's Day, you can go to Trader Joe's and get some $10 flowers. Hey, you know what? Work kind of stiff right now. I'm not getting a lot of hours, but I just want you to know that I thought of you. I think the sweetest thing I've ever had somebody do is like, get me a car, and they just wrote a love letter on there, and it was just the sweetest thing. And I was like, oh, my God. Like, it was just so thoughtful. So I think being thoughtful on Valentine's Day can honestly be cheap as hell. So if you don't do nothing for Valentine's Day, that's grounds for a breakup. Yeah. Honestly. I mean, and I just truly believe you ain't forget Valentine's Day. You can't. It's the same day every year since you were born. Literally. How did you forget that? Yeah. Yeah. He just don't fool with you like that. Like, I truly believe if people don't do stuff for you on important days that are important to you, they don't fool with you like that. And you're going to find out sooner or later. So you better take heed to the first few signs. Because if you end up deciding to, like, stay with this person and marry them, that's what's going to happen for the rest of your life. It's going to always be something. Always be an excuse. Because he just don't really fool with you like that. Because like you said, it doesn't take much to be thoughtful. Even if money is not plentiful and overflowing at the time, you can be thoughtful. Exactly. And you can get on. Now we got Google, Chat, GPT. even if you not naturally a romantic person and you can't come up with the ideas on your own it's no excuse get on the internet look some shit up chat GPT gonna get you some money well then y'all you can even type in your budget what can I do for $50 what can I do for $3 what can I do for $3 they gonna hook you up seriously you know what I'm saying it's something for every budget every single budget so yeah I think that's grounds for a breakup so let us know some of y'all's Valentine's Day no-nos alright Ty yeah It is Valentine's Day. The girlies is trying to get licked and drunk with they booze. So what are we drinking today? All right. So this one is going to be called The Sweetest Sin. All right? Because I know y'all are going to be sinful. I love that. Valentine's Day. I know I will. So the girls have some cute, like, heart-shaped cups. The top is off of this one, just so I can kind of show the garnishes. But in this one, we use some Crown Royal Marquis, which has been finished in Caribbean rum cast. So it is a whiskey-based cocktail. We have some Campari, some pineapple juice, some lime juice, and then we have some pineberry simple syrup in there. So that's giving it a little bit of that sweetness. And then because we are in Valentine's mode, some flowers, we have a hibiscus flower with some dehydrated roses kind of floating around inside. That's romantic. Berry, right? That does sound romantic. Put some rose petals all around the bed. So this is the sweetest scent. And what is Campari again? It's like an aperitif. Yes, okay. It's bitter. It's red in color. So when you make the drink, you are going to get some of that redness out to show. Okay. And just a little tip for y'all. If y'all are doing the rose petals around the house and on the bed, please use plastic and fake rose petals because if you use real ones, they're going to stain everything. Oh, yeah. That's a fact. It will stain your sheets and everything. It will stain everything. Literally. Do not use real rose petals ever. Okay? All right. All right. So now it's time to get into topic number two. All right, all right. So we're going to play a game called Foldy. Okay. He could fold me up. Read the attributes of each man and person and say whether they could fold you up. Ooh. Okay. So the I don't celebrate holidays man. He swears Valentine's Day is a scam. Still gets visibly bothered if you make other plans. randomly text, so what you doing tomorrow at 8.47 p.m. on the 13th? Yuck. Uh. Yuck. Uh. Boo. Tomato, tomato, tomato. He can't fall shit. No, he can't fall shit. And I also feel like people who try to be too woke and get into that whole spiel of holidays are about capitalism and shit and X, Y, Z. Look, it's already enough bullshit going on in the world. We know what type of world we're living in, especially as Americans. Mm-hmm. If we can find a joy in a day to just show love and show gratefulness, it don't have to be about capitalism. If you just do something thoughtful like we said earlier, you're just being lazy. I just think it's an excuse. I just think that's what people who don't be having our money be saying. Uh-oh. No, I'm with you what you're right. Yeah, because what you mean? It's a scam. Even if it is, my thing when it comes to relationships and partnerships is, like, be with somebody who aligns with you and y'all are like-minded and y'all like celebrating the same things because if you be with somebody who is okay with not celebrating Valentine's Day too, you don't have to try to convince her that it's about promoting capitalism. I just don't like that shit. I don't like that. Don't try to convince me that some shit that's important to me ain't important. It ain't important to you, so go find somebody else who don't care either because it is women out there that don't care. Right. But again, like I always say, I think people are always trying to date people that are not compatible with them. A big red flag, this is what y'all need to do on the first date. Ask him if he celebrates his birthday. And more than likely a man will be like, oh, I don't really care about my birthday. He don't care about nothing. You don't care about you turning and I'm not saying they gotta go all out and go to Greece and do all that, but anybody that doesn't at least celebrate their birthday a little bit, That's a red flag. I guarantee you, if you meet a man or a woman that don't celebrate their birthday, they gonna feel the same way about all holidays and everything else. No, yeah, facts. Because what you mean, you should celebrate yourself. I hate that I only get one day. Oh, we know it. That shit sucks. I be like, damn. Bro, every year... Matter of fact, we gonna celebrate the whole month. Every year when April comes along, I be like, oh, God, please. I'm glad that you know what time it is, though. Bro, I'm sorry, but, like, Turk still to this day was, like, the craziest trip of my life. Why? Because we just... We had fun, though. It was a great time. But every morning we woke up, it's like, here we go again. Barely sober from the night before. We're literally waking up, eating eggs, and taking shots. But I will say, I have never in my life... Like, that was a crazy trip for me. I have never in my life gotten that drunk on a trip, ever. Or just in general. I don't think I've ever been that drunk that many consecutive days. Like, we were so... I think people really don't understand. We were so drunk. We had bought bottles in the airport. All of us. Everybody. Everybody bought, like, two bottles. Two bottles, yep. In the airport. Mm-hmm. Then when we got to Turks, I think we was just drinking at the house. Then we was going to the places that we was at and drinking there. Then we ended up running out of liquor. Mind y'all, it was like seven people. So we had like 14 bottles. Damn. Yes, so that means each person pretty much finished two bottles. And we were there for like five days, I think. And then, like I said, we were drinking at the restaurants, drinking at the clubs, getting bottles at the clubs. Then we ended up running out of liquor at the house. We was so damn thirsty for some liquor. while we got our driver to go to a club and get us another bottle. And because he got it from the club, they charged us like $400 for a bottle of coffee. And we was like, bust it down, bitch. We got it. We got it, bitch. Bust it down. So all together at the end of the trip, no lie, we probably went through like 16 bottles. We went through a lot of bottles. We were drinking. We were drinking. When I got back, I was dehydrated. I had to go get an IV. Bro, I feel like my eyes were crossed for like four years. Me too. for it. Yeah, it was bad. I would never in my life drink that much again. We had a ball, though. Yeah, we did have a good time. I feel like... Was that you that fell off the... That wasn't you. Who was that that fell off the jet ski? That was Tiffany. Tiffany and who? I don't know who was on there with her, but I was like, are y'all crazy? Because they was just doing too much and I left. I ain't staying out here and be sharking fessing while those girls. Bitch, you on your own. I don't fuck around with them jet skis. But the thing was, the funny part about it to me was it wasn't shark infested because the water was like two feet deep. It was only like two or three feet. I don't know why they did that. I can't remember who she was on that with. But that shit was sweaty. But yeah, we had a wall. We had a good time. Okay. But yes, no, he cannot fold me. I don't celebrate holidays as men. Stay away from me. Yes. The Valentine's Day pop-up man. This is when y'all haven't spoken in months. He suddenly resurfaces on February 12th. Hit you with the, I was just thinking about you for real. Um, I can't follow shit neither. I'm not gonna lie. He can take me on a date on Valentine's Day. You know what? This is how I feel. This is somebody I've fucked with in the past. If I'm single and I just want to have a little fun Valentine's Day day, you can follow me up a little bit. You hit before, we can rekindle things. One thing about me, when I'm single and I'm just like, oh, my, oh, I'm focused and this and that, if somebody hit me up from the past and we can have a little rendezvous for a couple of days and then we leave and never speak to each other again, I'm okay with that. So, yeah, if it's a Valentine's Day fold-up... But the problem with that for me is they don't be trying to leave. Oh, yeah. No, you got to keep it clear now. That's the problem. Like, yes, if you give him some on Valentine's Day, he going to be trying to stick around again. Yeah, you got to... I truly do feel that way. Yeah. They definitely do, but I think this is kind of what I do. Like, after they leave, they'll hit me, and they'll be like, oh, you good? I'm straight. Yeah. Keep it real short. Yeah. Hey, brother, don't... We ain't gonna do all this. I was just beating it up last week. It was. Now I'm going back home to my man. We got back together now, bitch. But, no, I think I'm okay with that. I okay with a little let do something on Valentine Day You not dating nobody I not dating nobody I okay with that Only somebody from my past I agree with Lex exactly Yeah If you single Get a little quick sneak deep Yeah, it ain't sneak deep and I ain't got to sneak. It is sneaking. Why? Because you said you gonna go back to your man. Well, I was kidding. I was kidding. I don't do that. See, I was in agreement with that part. You are a changed woman. I am a changed woman. I really am. I hope y'all know that. I posted to my close friends. You saw it. That's how you see this? Yeah, that thing was... I had posted this video. Matter of fact, we was in Miami for Dreya's birthday. Wiling again. We gonna wild out for my birthday. Oh, I can't wait till this time. Oh, my God, y'all. I had posted this video. I was in this, like, thong bikini, and I'm just, like, brushing my hair, looking at the camera, ass all in the camera. I said, oh, my God, I have to archive this. I'm a lady now. Yeah. I was shocked. You was the lady then, too. It was giving, like, OnlyFans content low-key. Not really. Yes, it was. Like, if you're a person who said... I don't think it was that bad. And if you would have made it bonk, they would have... Like, you know how they do black hair? If you would have made it clubbed while it was fresh. Oh, my God. That would have gave on sense. I wasn't horrified. Because somebody had scrolled it and they liked it. And I was like, who is that? Who is this whore? And I said, oh, that's me. I had to archive it. Oh, my God. You know what? I was looking for a picture. 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Listen to Boys and Girls on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. We were wild. We were whores. What were we doing? Oh, no, but them T-shirts sold out. I might have to do it again. Rent-new, rent-new. One time, you know. Oh, my gosh. And, you know, I didn't post any pictures from 2016, but I really should because that was the year I got my BBL. Yeah. Pictures was outside. Yeah. I was like, I'm going to post my little 2016 pictures because, you know. Yeah. Been fine. That was a year. It was a great time. Okay. So, let's see. The Hood Romantic. He buys flowers from the man on the corner, calls you my little Valentine, walks on the street, walks on the way, walks on the street side of the sidewalk without thinking. Don't call me your little nothing. Big Valentine. My little Valentine. Your little nothing. But you know, I don't like when people be saying my like, when people be like my little shit. What is my little shit? The fine shit, little fine shit or whatever they be saying? They be saying my little shit. My little shit sounds kind of gross. It sounds like a turd. Because I do got a little shit. I be having a little shit but that's not what I would be called Nothing about that is cute Imagine somebody had your name like that in their phone and they had like the little poop emoji My little shit You know I only say no because I have never been, no offense to anyone I've never been really attracted to hood guys, the Y-ins and things like that Why did you say no offense because I'm sitting here? No, not to you, to the Y-N's and the hood niggas that's watching. Because I used to love me a hood nigga back in my day. You did. A reformed one. A reformed one. But yeah, that's not really my style. So I think it's not even about what they do. Because I think if you're attracted to that, that's who they are and you obviously like them for who they are. I've dated like one hood nigga in my life. And it was traumatizing. But to be fair, like, this is just a little ghetto, though. Right. These bullet points. Like, when I was dating hood niggas, They didn't do shit like this. Because you had rich hood niggas. There's a difference. That's why I said reform. They wasn't hood no more. Oh, my God. They wasn't hood no more. When I think about the men, the hood niggas you dated, it be like, what were you doing? Having fun, having a ball. I always think about Shaq. See, he was so fun. He was such a good time. We used to be in the club getting lit, turning up. He used to be sending me up. What's his name with the YN2? Who? The guy you were dating when we first moved here? Oh, yes, he was. But he was thoughtful, and he used to buy me little Gucci stuff, like, nice. He was cool. He was cool. He used to be buying me little Gucci stuff and stuff. So, yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like, I never dated the type of hood dude that would stop and get me flowers from, like, off the side of the road or walked on the street side of the sidewalk. I'm used to dealing with the type of dudes who, because they hood, they had me on a swivel. Like, they be trying to protect you. They not gonna let you walk. From the man on the corner? No, just in general. Oh, okay, okay. Because it says, walks on the street side of the sidewalk without thinking. Because, you know, a man is supposed to have you walk on the inside and he walk on the outside. But my dad taught me that. So I'm used to dealing with dudes who naturally just do that. And they gonna just make sure you straight. Then I gonna have you walking behind them and them walking in front of you. Like, I don't know. I'm not used to this. I think that's one of the rudest things when I see, like, a couple or people walking and he's walking ahead and she's behind them. I think that is the strangest shit ever. and that's what be happening when like a nigga come up, try to holler at your girl and things like that happen because he don't even know that she's with you because you walking 10 feet ahead. I don't be thinking it's strange. I just feel like that's another instance of the signs being there that that nigga don't fuck with you like that. He don't like you. Run. If y'all, that's how you should test your man. Get out the car and like kind of walk a little slow pace and see if he, you know, stands by your knees. He's walking ahead. Run from that nigga because if he lets you walk behind he don't give a fuck what happened to you. And then it's like, honestly, like, you know me, I be wearing, like, tall heels, so a lot of times I do be walking slow, and depending on where we're walking, Big Mama be needing help. So it's like, he be there. Yeah, he'll grab my arm and help Big Mama. You know I got a bad knee. So I'll be walking real slow, chow. Oh, yeah, so we gonna say no to the hood romantic. Okay? And the last one, the thoughtful gift giver gives you something small but insanely personal. Remember stuff you said months ago already had reservations made by January 20th. Yeah. I'm getting folded. Fold me up like the laundry. Come here, come here, come here. I'm getting folded like Kehlani, bitch. Yeah, like a lawn chair. Yeah, fold me up. I hate the thoughts of Valentine's Day coming up and you don't have reservations and everything planned out already. Yeah. Bare minimum, y'all, I'm telling y'all, make y'all's reservations ahead of time. Yeah. Ahead of time. And like I said, being thoughtful to me, as a woman who has received a lot of gifts in my day and age of dating, now when I think about my favorite gifts, I'll start a mushroom meal. When I think about my favorite gifts, I think about the sentimental ones. Yeah. The sweet ones, like things that people have done for me when I was like feeling down or feeling sad, notes that have been written for me. Like, one thing I do is every time, like, I get flowers, I always keep the card and the messages. And, like, I can just look back on it. And I just think it's just the sweetest thing ever. I love stuff like that. So, absolutely, I think being thoughtful will get you so far. Like, I love that. Even with my friends, I love, you know, doing thoughtful things. Or my friends do thoughtful things. And we're like, you really love me. You know what I'm saying? Because it's easy just to go sell somebody or go buy some shoes. or stuff like that is just, like, easy to me, and it's not impressive. But, yeah, being thoughtful, 10 out of 10. I agree. I feel like I would never want to be married to somebody that's not thoughtful. Yeah. Or romantic. Mm. Yeah. I need the romance. I need all the romance. All the things. All the things. Okay. 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So I add it to my, like, daily supplements or whatever. and, like, you know, I take my vitamin D, my chlorophyll pills, my omega-3s and all that, and I act... I'm telling y'all, I'm not kidding. But it also has, you know, it coats, like, your stomach. Yeah, it's good for your digestive system as well. It is, it really is, but that's not what I'm taking it for. When I tell y'all, it works, and I'm not even kidding. Like I said, I've been taking Slippery Um, but I'm so happy that they came out with it now. I'm obviously taking the Salt XO Slippery Um, and... the results. And then I do... 10 out of 10. 10 out of 10. And y'all know, I talk about this rejuvenating oil so much. Now, this is for, like, ingrown hairs, you know, dark spots. But what I do, y'all know I'm in my era of, like, no makeup, light makeup. So, obviously, I don't have makeup on today. I just have lashes and lip gloss on. Muse Beauty. And I like to dab a little bit of this on my face. It's something about when I see a girl and she's glowing and, like, her skin is clear and it has that, like, moisturized look. I'm just like, she is a girl who cares about her skin, well put together, and I know she smells good. When I tell y'all a little bit of this on your skin and you ready to go and it just looks salty and it makes your skin, like, bouncy and refreshed, I love this. This is my stuff right here. Thank you, Jalisa. I needed that. Shout out to Salt XO. Love it! So now it's time to get into the bed. Bow. The bed. Bow. Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow. She said it's so nice, I had to do it twice. Mm-hmm. I know that's right. Mm-hmm. So today, we are going to talk about semen facials. There was a recent episode on My Strange Addiction where a woman used her husband's sperm twice a day as a facial. She gets a fresh batch every morning and stores the rest for another facial at night. She claims that makes her skin clear and it gives it a plumpness. Okay? And mind you, this is not anything new. This is not anything new. This is something that I've heard about, like, long time ago, never tried it myself personally now. You remember that song, Ooh Na Na? He said, and why your face is so clean. Just tell them all of all late. Yeah, I probably agree. Yeah. But anyways, so yeah, I've actually heard of semen facials before, but the thing that made me curious specifically in this clip was her skin wasn't clear. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I actually saw it after you mentioned it a couple weeks ago. Yeah. I actually saw it on my algorithm right after that, and I'm straight to the comments. Skin was fucked up. You rubbing battery acid on your face, bitch. Yeah, she got the wrong nigga. She got the wrong... That nigga eating mac and cheese, green ham hocks. You don't rub no ham hock sperm on your face. Yeah, I don't like that. I don't know. And my thing with that is, like, you putting it on your face and you just letting it dry on there, so then now it's, like, sticky. It's probably a little crusty. I know it's crusty. You know when they, well, I mean... I know how it look when it dry up. Yeah, when it dry up. So it's like, it's all crusty. And then I'm just like, this is why I gotta stop hugging people. I already don't hug people like that, but that's why. I don't wanna be hugging no bitch that got nut on her face. It was like... Now you got ham hock juice on your lip. Mm-mm. Yeah. I don't like that, because it was another video that I had seen where this lady, it's called babbing. Yes. When you take your vaginal fluid and you put it, like, on your body so that people can smell your natural pheromone. She'll be, like, in the middle of a restaurant. Yes, she'll be in the middle of a restaurant and, like, put it on her neck and stuff so people can, like, smell. I know somebody, like, y'all got salmon. It's not like fish in here. When y'all started selling salmon, ha-ha! What's the catch of the day? Woo-hoo! Woo! But the funny thing is, in the video, her neck was, like, glowing. So people in the comments was like, I mean, I ain't gonna lie. They thought it was that rejuvenation. Yeah, no, they thought it was that coochie Jew. That is disgusting. But yeah, like... I just feel like, first of all, I don't know, because obviously, I don't care what nobody says. I know the girls like to have the pussy Olympics and be like, I smell like water down there. I don't know. Vagina does have... It has a scent to it. And I'm not saying that it stinks, but it does have a scent to it. But that's not a scent I think that people would, like, want to go around and smell. It doesn't stink. It just smells like vagina. It smells like coochie. It smells like coochie, and it's not like a smell that I just want to be going around smelling like. I think y'all are doing too much, babe. Mmm. If you, you know, just go get you a little La Vie Est Belle, bitch, and call it a day. It's just making me cringe, because I guess I'm just thinking about, like, interacting with people who actually do that. And, like, you hug your homegirl, and you're like, girl, what you got on today? Mm-hmm. Coochie lie. Because you know what I think about? I think about, like, times that I've gotten, like, and, of course, things that you've gotten done, like somebody got to put their hands by your face. Have you ever smelled a little coochie on somebody's hands and you were getting a service done? Yeah. That's happened to me before. I have. And I was just like... Is this La Coochie? Yeah. Maybe it was her hand or maybe it was her coochie. It was probably a little mixture of both. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? And I just, I don't like that smell. I think it's very strange. It's somebody right now getting their lashes done. It's like, I know what you mean. They watching this episode. You lash techs looking right now. Yeah, smell them fingers, bitch. Yeah, I don't know. They been babbing. That's just... They been babbing. They been babbing, bitch. I don't like it. That's just crazy to me. I feel like it's so many products that you could use on your skin. Why are you using nuts for your skin? And I just feel like, I don't know. Like, I know that they say it's really good for your skin, but where's the proof? That's what I'm saying. Where's the proof? There must be something that's in semen where people thought, like, not saying that it's collagen in there, but there's something in semen where people are like, oh, if this is in, because, you know, people use the PDRN, the salmon spurn. Cool, but salmon, they just eating algae and shit. of the sea. Yeah. Not this. I don't want human sperm on my face. They ain't eating pork rinds. Yeah, they ain't eating pork rinds. And you know, I've said this before. As a swallower myself, you can taste that difference in that neck. You can. If it don't taste good, why would I want it on my face? Well, I feel like if it don't taste good, why is you with that? I mean, sometimes you don't know. What do you mean? You don't know. I'm saying like, you could be dating a guy for like two months, and then y'all finally get to it, and then you taste it, and you're like, Oh, my God. But I'm saying afterwards, you will feel that him. No, no. Definitely not. But I'm saying sometimes, you know, you just surprise. Battery acid. You know, you just never know. Start coughing. Yeah. Oof. So I am not for the semen facials. I'm not for babbing. I think it's disgusting. I think there's too many skincare products that are actually good for your skin. And they do make vegan options. If that's what you care about, you want something natural, there's a lot of vegan, plant-based type products that you can use. I think stuff like that, though, is more of a fetish type thing. It has to be. It has to be. Because there's no way that you really believe it's good for your skin and your skin. Look like that. I mean, she look like a 16-year-old that just hit puberty, goddammit. Maybe, and that might be what's triggering it. Something. That might be what's triggering the breakout. It has to be, Drea. She could be allergic to it. Not only did she have... Bitch, it was like cystic acting. I know. It was deep in them motherfucking pores, bitch. Her husband probably just... And then it's like, how do you... So I guess, like, would your man put it in a bowl and then put it in a freezer? You know what, now... If I went in a fucking freezer and that shit was right next to my motherfucking... I saw this before. My crab cakes. Oh, my gosh. And then, you know, I saw this a long time ago, like I said, but I have seen women actually freeze the sperm and they'll rub it on their face. They'll rub it on their face with an ice cube. Yeah. It's just never given that serious. I think I have a very good skincare routine. I'll stick to my chemical pills. Me too. And things like that, because y'all doing too much. But honestly, we're in a day and age where people like attention. So I'm like, are y'all doing this for real, or is it for attention? Because it's just getting too much for your girl. That is not a Valentine's Day facial that I want. Yeah, I just wouldn't want that on Valentine's Day, on no day. On no day. Send me to the regular spa, please. Okay, let us know. And honestly, I want to read the comments on this episode, because have any of y'all ever tried a semen facial? I know somebody out there was like, ooh, let me try it. The girls love a DIY, bitch. I'm not letting that shit dry on my face. Yeah, because it gets... It gets sticky. Oh, all right, Drea, what we got next, child? So now it's time to get into the bow. Bow. The bow. Bow. The bow. Bow. Bow. Bow, bow, bow. Oop, hold on. Okay, sis, what you been listening to? Okay, so y'all, my bop of the week, y'all know I always got something different. And the other week, I think, I don't know if I made this my bop of the week, but I said Big Dets the Plug has a song with this lady named Ella Langley, and it's a fire song. I think he sounds so good on country records, but I went down at Little Rabbit Hole with this lady, her name is Ella Langley, and she has some bops. She's like, I love when a country music artist, Like, the music is very country, but they kind of got, not sold to their voice, but they got a little, you know, a little something-something in there. Mm-hmm. Like, you can tell, like, way, way, way down in the line, somebody had a little flavor in there. Okay. You know what I'm saying? So she has a song called Choosing Texas and it just a bop Like Choosing Texas Choosing Texas yes And I just I love You know that orange Texas in me pops out sometimes That country music gets to me But you gotta be careful with the country music you listen to because a lot of them motherfuckers are nagger. Like, Carrie Underwood, the road that she has gone down has shocked me. You know what I'm saying? Called my name into his leather seats. This is what you decide to do to us. That's one of my favorite karaoke songs. You know, I be wanting to be shocked, but I don't be shocked about nothing they do. Yeah, you right. You said it right there. We can't be shocked by that. Yeah, we can. We can't be shocked by that. Yeah, but Ella Langley, Choosing Texas, that's my bop of the week. Shout out to you, girl. What you got this week, Drea? Okay, so I like this song. I've been kind of like in my Afro beats bag again. So I really like this song, Rain Dance by Dave and Tim. Yes, that is such a good song. It is. It's such a good song. I love it. I can't wait to go on vacation. I feel like it's giving Bay K vibes. But I just really also just love Tim's voice. Like, her voice is so beautiful. And she is so beautiful. She is beautiful. That body is T. Face card, wicked. Voice smooth. Not wicked. Wicked. Wicked, isn't it? Isn't that where Dave is from? London? Wicked. Wicked. It's wicked, bitch. I'm going to add that to my vocab. I think that's a good word to add up in there. Yeah, nobody really says that. We're going to make fetch happen. Nobody really says that. I know. Future made that one song and then he never said it again. Future. Oh, Wiggy, Wiggy, Wiggy. That was a mood. Bam, where Future at? I don't know, but he need to drop something. He need to drop something for the streets. He do. At least for the men, because, again, the girls have been killing it. They've been feeding us. They've been feeding us. The boys are kind of lacking right now. Yeah. I've been saying that for a long time. Well, 21 Savage came out with a new album. Yeah, and it wasn't bad. I like it. I was jamming it. But I'm not going to lie to you. I'm still jamming Am I the Drama? I do like Am I the Drama still After a few listens you're like Hey this is a fire It is It has replay value And they was trying to play our girl They was I'm sorry But Am I the Drama is That magnet when I be working out Like a magnet baby Segregation in the day Integration at night When segregation was the law One mysterious black club owner Had his own rules We didn't worry about what went on outside. It was like stepping in another world. Inside Charlie's place, black and white people danced together. But not everyone was happy about it. You saw the KKK? Yeah, they were dressed up in their uniform. The KKK set out to raid Charlie, take him away from here. Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him. 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And now, I'm looking for healing. Boys and Girls dives into every twist and turn of the arranged marriage carousel. The meet awkward, the near misses, the heartbreak, and let's not forget all the jokes. Listen to Boys and Girls on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. because I'm wretched, baby. I said, come on now. That's what you be doing in the gym? Yeah, I love the whole album. I like Better Than You. That's my song. Better Than You. Because I will say, being a person who now goes to the gym at 7 a.m., you definitely be thinking I'm better than people. You are. I be like, you peasants are still in the bed. Yeah. I be up at 6 a.m. If you wake up... What Kendra said, conditioning my weenings. I deserve it all. that used to be our fucking song shout out to Kendrick that was a good album you gotta let shit ride and really Kendrick ate with that album he ate with that he did that was such a good song man in the garden I used to be outside I used to be outside y'all Drea is so serious when she works out I'm very serious cause bitch I didn't come to play Billy Blanks please I cannot come to play it is time to get it in and get these results. Girl, you are... In 2026, we are showing up for ourselves. I'm sorry. You will never catch me in the gym with Drea. I be in the gym at 6. Well, I be up at 6. But I be going to the gym at 7 and it does, you know, make me feel a little elitist, I must say. Anybody that wakes up in the morning, I'm not gonna lie, the 5, 6, 7, 8 gym girlies, y'all are better than the rest. I'm not gonna lie. We are. Thank you. People that wake up early and just do anything, I feel like. Because I'm not a morning person. I'm not to get up and grind, teen, no sleep. No, bitch. I'm on my couch. I actually, you know. I'm naturally like a... But I'm naturally a person who wakes up early. So I think that's why it's not as much of a struggle for me. Yeah. Because I already be up early. I just used to be a person who would just chill in the bed for a few hours. Yeah. And then I would get my day started. Now I get up and I get the day started. Well, you know, now that I'm Chinese, I do get up, and I put on my slippers, and I make my warm water. So I do feel better than people because I like to sit at my brand-new dining table, and I like to look at my beautiful view. At your view. And I'm getting an exercise. I'm scrolling. Yeah. I'm scrolling. You know what I'm saying? So you don't get arthritis. Yeah, I'm working them fingers, bitch, and I'll be scrolling. So that's my morning routine. I feel like anybody who has a morning routine, you doing a little something. Yeah, you are. Like I said, I'm taking baby steps. I am in the gym. I'm moving and I'm grooving. I'm proud of you. I seen you the other day. I said, I know that's right. It's so crazy because, you know, body is T, but I know it's about to get even better, and I'm just trying to get ready for tour because my main thing is, honestly, it's really not for aesthetics for me because I'm already fine. But I will say, I don't want to be on stage and be out of breath. Because, baby, when we be on tour, we be working that stage, and I caught myself a lot of times being out of breath. You know what I've come to the conclusion? For me, it is about aesthetics. I'm very vain. Yeah, and that's okay. I just keep wanting to be fine. And I feel like even with my body now, I have noticed such a difference in my body. I feel like I was fine before I started working out, but now I'm really fine. And it shows in my legs and stuff. When I wear shorts, I don't really have as much cellulite as I used to. My legs are so much more toned. My back is more toned. My abs be popping out. like, he's very much about aesthetics over Hugh. But, um, what was we talking about? I don't know. Oh, we was talking about Better Than You, the song by Cardi B, and I was saying, like, I'm not gonna lie, I love that song just because it's smooth. Yeah, it gives that. But yeah, um, after Further Review, I Am The Drama, it's a hit. Sorry. I know time has passed. You gotta let stuff ride and marinate airtime. I actually like the remix with Lotto. I do. The remix is fire. Yeah. She's just got some hits on there. I like the song with Lizzo, too. It's just like, it's got a lot of bangers on there. I'm not gonna lie. So, you know, shout out to Cardi B. I'm fucking with it. All right. Yes. Okay. Moving on. So now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show, which is Pour Your Heart Out. You know, if you have any questions, send them to askpourminds at gmail.com. That's A-S-K-P-O-U-R M-I-N-D-S at gmail.com. Period. You wanna go? Okay. Hey, Drea and Lex. I need advice. I'm 28 years old and Valentine's Day is coming up, and I'm realizing I don't actually know where I stand with the person I'm dating. We spend a lot of time together. We act like a couple, but there's been no real conversation about labels or expectations. Part of me feels silly bringing it up just because it's Valentine's Day, but another part of me feels like holidays make the truth unavoidable. Am I wrong for wanting clarity before Valentine's Day, or should I just let the day pass and see what happens? I think like I think you should let the day pass and see what happens and that'll give you the answer that you need I don't think like asking somebody because obviously if you're asking that puts kind of like pressure on him and I want to see how you move and I want to see what you decide to do and that'll give you all the answers that you need so I think that if you want the clarity how what he does on Valentine's Day is going to give you the clarity that you need because I don't care I feel like even if you just fucking on somebody and y'all aren't in a committed relationship. It's nothing to send somebody some flowers. I don't care. You can door dash flowers, literally. So I feel like even if you're just casually having sex with somebody, it's nice just to treat people like a human. I'm not saying that we're together or nothing, but it's just, it's free to be nice. So, we're not free, but you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah. So, yeah, I think that, and then it's like, y'all are 28, I'm sure he's either the same age or around your age range. Like, people know what they be doing. People definitely know what they be doing. So you feel like she's your age. until the day. Don't say nothing. I don't think she needs to say nothing at all. I'm very much like, I'm not a hint dropper. Like, I want to see what you do and how you move, and I'm not dropping no hints, but you better know how to show up for me. Especially on Valentine's Day, my birthday. Like, well, I'll say this. On my birthday and, like, Christmas, I always ask for what I want because I don't know. I'm just in the era of give me exactly what I want if you're going to get me a gift. Yeah. But Valentine's Day, I feel like, give them free range to do what they want. And yeah, do your thing. So if you don't do nothing, you know where you're going. I don't know. I would probably say something. Just so I can make sure I don't need to plan another date. Mmm. Back up. Yeah. Like, I would just say something. Especially if you don't know if y'all are that serious or anything, I would just be like, you know, Valentine's Day is coming up. Should I block my schedule off? But I also feel like if he wants you to, he should say something, right? Yeah, but maybe he's not But then also, too, some people are last minute. But maybe that'll put a little fire up under him, too, to, like, make it happen, make some shit shake right now. Yeah, maybe. Or I'm going on another date with somebody. I agree. I feel like... I feel like you could say something. I wouldn't be pushy about it, but maybe just mention it to see if his mind is even there. Because then, too, I also feel like that'll let you know, ain't nothing wrong with knowing a little early and cutting your losses early. Exactly. I 100% agree. But I like the idea of having a backup, chav. Yeah, have a little backup plan. Mm-hmm. Let me get one of these cupcakes. Oh, we not done yet. It's all right. Mm. That's all right. And y'all know we have the shot line. If y'all need to get something off your chest, you know, just want to holler at us about something real quick, send us a quick voicemail. We're probably going to play it on the show. Play that for me, Morgan. Thoughts and opinions. thoughts and opinions on you messing with the man um the man meets your friend he then later down the road asks you for a threesome with the friend that he met through you you let him know hey i'm not having a threesome with her but if you want to explore that personally go ahead he then follows up and asks you how the friend would feel about fucking with him What would you do? Cut him off. When he met the friend, he only included you to be nice, bitch. He wanted to fuck that hoe without you being there. He was just trying to extend the invitation. That was one of them situations where he was like, damn, I met the wrong friend. And there's no shade to you. Yeah, there's not no shade to you. But sometimes people are just more attracted to something else. But I would definitely cut that off. I have never met a man and introduced him to my friends. He was like, oh, I want her. And then he started... I've never had a man ask me for a threesome with my friends. I think that's just disrespectful. That's a little, yeah. That's disrespectful as hell. Like, I don't know. You definitely need to cut him off. He's attracted to the friend because for you to say you're uncomfortable with it and him to be like, okay, well, can I fuck her? That's wild. That ain't crazy. This today just been the theme of these niggas not giving a fuck. I'm telling you. I don't know what's going on. I can appreciate his honesty. You know what I'm saying? But you don't need to talk to him no more. I agree, girl. Let that go. And hopefully you have a good enough friend that you can trust her because a lot of times the girls be... She'll go fuck that nigga. Yeah. The girls be wildin'. I told y'all be on these tea pages. It be going down. Girl. The girls be getting... Do it! It's for sure. I'm so messy. The nosiest person I know. She is so nosy. I just feel like my life, thank God, has no drama, so I gots to get another people's tea. You know what I'm saying? So, yeah, cut them off. Cut your ties. Let's move on. Period. All right, girl. Oh, yes. And per usual, y'all know, make sure y'all go to MuseBeautyCollection.com. Get your lip glosses, matte liquid lipsticks, mascara. I have the mascara on today. Let me just say, and I'm not being biased, maybe a little bit. That's all right. But I have the best mascara out. Y'all see my lashes? These are my real lashes too. And I ain't using no growth serum or anything. This is just Muse Beauty Mascara. www.musebeauty.com. Collection. And y'all know, y'all go subscribe to Love Lex P, y'all. Officially today, I have hit 30,000 subscribers. I wish I had a whistle. Yes. Like I said, you know, we hit the year mark. It has been a year of fun and laughs. So if y'all are not subscribed to Love Lex P, y'all are missing out on the party. It'd be so much fun. New episodes every Monday, 10 a.m. Y'all make sure y'all go follow me on Facebook, Lex P. I'm on Snapchat as well, LexP05. I do all my daily, like, house updates on my Snapchat. So make sure y'all follow me on there. And, yeah, you know what I'm saying? And the poor mind girlies, you know, we got special things coming for y'all per usual as always. Y'all know we got that merch coming for that ad. And y'all gonna love it. It's so cute. Yeah, we got some fire stuff coming out, especially for the tour. We probably gonna be doing, like, a little discount or something for the girls if you get y'all merch before the tour. Yeah. At least we definitely gonna do something special for the Patreon. For sure. Like, y'all gonna get first access, all that good stuff. And shout-outs for that cupcake. It's good. It was real good. And I ain't had sweets in a long... And it tastes so good when you ain't had it for a while. Yes, I haven't had sweets in a really, really long time. I can't do nothing. I feel like my life is so boring right now. It's okay. I'm not eating a... Well, I don't know. They probably did have a little dairy in it. It's all right. They probably had a little... A little butter. Yeah, a little butter. That's all right. It's all right, though. It's in moderation. Well, thank y'all so much for tuning in. I hope y'all have a wonderful Valentine's Day weekend. And wrap it up. We'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Because we don't need no more Scorpios. Mm, mm, mm. I'm playing. I love Scorpios. Yeah. Happy Valentine's Day, baby. It's for you and only you. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Bright lights, fancy restaurants Everything in this world that a maker want I got a bank account bigger than a law should allow Still I'm lonely now Pretty faces in the cover of the magazine From their covers to my covers wanna lay with me Fame and fortune still can't find Just a grown man running out of time Even though it seems I heard of everything I don't want to be a lonely fool All of the women, all the expensive cars All of the money don't amount to you So I can make believe I have everything But I can't pretend that I don't see That without you, girl, my life is incomplete Without you, girl, my life is incomplete Listen for me, it's actually lingerie Girl, I remember it just like it was on yesterday A Thursday, you told me you had fallen in love I wasn't sure that I was It's been a year With the summer, spring, and fall But being without you Just ain't living, ain't living at all If I could travel back in time I'd relive the days you were mine Even though it seems I have everything I don't want to be lonely Through all of the women All of the fancy cars, all of the money don't amount to you. 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