What More Can I Say?

CardiB & Lil Kim, Tee Grizzley vs. His Mom, Jayden Ivey, BroRilla, Jobs Your Spouse Can't Do! & More

54 min
Apr 8, 202611 days ago
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Summary

The hosts discuss celebrity moments including Cardi B honoring Lil' Kim, Tee Grizzley's conflict with his mother over car purchases, and broader conversations about parental obligations, generational wealth, and workplace dynamics across various industries.

Insights
  • Parental support is a moral obligation during childhood, but adult children have no financial duty to parents—gratitude should be voluntary, not transactional or publicly demanded
  • Social media has enabled parents to publicly shame successful adult children, fundamentally changing family dynamics and expectations around wealth redistribution
  • Industry-specific workplace cultures (medical, military, radio) create unique social dynamics that influence professional relationships and personal conduct
  • Female solidarity in hip-hop remains fragile due to competitive pressures and external forces, though individual artists like Lil' Kim have historically bridged divides
  • Height and physical attributes function as 'cheat codes' in dating and social dynamics, creating measurable advantages independent of other factors
Trends
Generational shift in parental entitlement: older parents increasingly use social media to pressure adult children for financial supportFemale artist mentorship and legacy recognition becoming more visible and celebrated in hip-hop discourseNostalgia marketing for 1990s-2000s fashion brands (Sean John, Rocawear, Pelle Pelle) showing renewed consumer interestMental health concerns being publicly discussed as context for controversial public figures' behaviorCelebrity collaboration speculation driving fan engagement and streaming anticipation (Jay-Z and Pharrell project rumors)
Topics
Parental financial obligations and adult childrenFamily dynamics and wealth redistributionFemale solidarity in hip-hop industrySocial media's role in family conflictWorkplace culture in medical and military sectorsDating preferences by geographic regionHeight as social advantage1990s-2000s fashion brand nostalgiaCelebrity collaboration rumorsMental health and public behaviorReligious expression in professional sportsGenerational wealth building strategiesJob compatibility in relationshipsAlarm clock habits and sleep routinesParenting young children
Companies
Louis Vuitton
Mentioned as location where Jay-Z and Pharrell were spotted together, with speculation about music production happeni...
Chicago Bulls
Jayden Ivey was waived by the team over his religious and anti-LGBTQ statements made publicly
Macy's
Referenced as retail destination where listeners shopped for Sean John and other hip-hop fashion brands in the 1990s-...
DTLR
Mentioned as retail store where listeners purchased hip-hop fashion brands like Sean John and Rocawear
People
Cardi B
Brought out Lil' Kim during New York tour and gave her public recognition as blueprint and queen of hip-hop
Lil' Kim
Honored by Cardi B during tour; discussed as original blueprint for female rappers and bridge-builder in hip-hop
Nicki Minaj
Discussed as competitive figure in hip-hop who has not collaborated with Cardi B despite industry speculation
Tee Grizzley
In public conflict with mother over car purchase; defended himself by stating he bought her house and other items
Jayden Ivey
Waived by Chicago Bulls after making anti-LGBTQ religious statements; discussed as example of value-based employment ...
Jonathan Majors
Fell six feet through unsecured glass window during action film production; discussed as workplace safety issue
GloRilla
Criticized by Bro Rilla for not paying father's utility bills despite having financial success
Bro Rilla
Publicly criticized GloRilla on social media for not paying father's electricity bill
Jay-Z
Spotted with Pharrell in Paris at Louis Vuitton building; speculation about new music collaboration
Pharrell Williams
Spotted with Jay-Z in Paris; discussed as prolific producer working on new projects
Missy Elliott
Discussed as contemporary of Lil' Kim and potential glue figure in 1990s female hip-hop collaboration
Oga Po
Primary host of the podcast episode
Kiki
Regular co-host discussing topics and sharing personal experiences
Zach Bud
Regular co-host providing commentary on celebrity news and social issues
Tom Capone
Regular co-host discussing parenting, relationships, and cultural trends
Ryder
Regular co-host participating in discussions about dating and regional preferences
Quotes
"Once you become of legal age, nobody in this world owes you a goddamn thing. You owe yourself whatever it is."
Zach BudParental obligations discussion
"Kids are not an investment. Kids are not a stock. They're not a best person."
Tom CaponeParental financial duty debate
"I love to see unity amongst women, especially in hip-hop where it's a very competitive sport and messy men try to put women against each other."
KikiCardi B and Lil' Kim discussion
"Tall is the cheat code. Oh, tall is definitely the cheat code."
Zach BudDating and physical attributes discussion
"If you are above six four, it's a cheat code, dog. It is."
Tom CaponeHeight advantage in dating
Full Transcript
welcome to another one more can i say podcast this is episode where we at writer 332 i think i'm woke for this pot uh what's that i'm with your host oga po yeah man uh i've watched some of my pods i can tell what my energy is down y'all are full ready to go y'all done already did morning shows so i gotta start getting up early or something maybe Just start drugs. He did. Oh. He need to up for drugs, though. He got the drip. I got the drip. But I still, you know, hey, man, still getting up early is still a tough thing for me. All right, let's get to the first lady of the pot, the only lady of the pot. Woo-woo is Kiki. Woo-woo. Kiki. Y'all got the same outfits on. You do, too. That's crazy. Y'all dirty. Y'all all musty. We gonna call this the musty pot. This is the musty pot. Oh, I was going to change my look. Okay, here we go. Bam, there we go. It's me, baby. You didn't change your hat? I can't change the hat. I took my brooch off. That's mine. Okay, all right, cool. You put a jacket on. So now I got a different fit on. Come on. There you go, come on. All right, because we're not missing pods. This is what we have to do because we refuse to miss pods. After being on a write-up, I'm not getting fat. Nah, no. We all on a pip. The pod fam wrote us up, and we will not disappoint y'all anymore. There it is. Yeah. That funny man who just put his jacket on and not look musty is Zach Bud. What's up, y'all? Hey. What y'all do yesterday? What y'all do this weekend? Same thing we said last episode. Oh, okay. Well, come on. We got a lot of topics to get into that we didn't get to in the last one. All right. Let's get to it. Cardi brought out Lil' Kim during the New York tour. Gave Lil' Kim her absolute flowers, calling her the blueprint and the queen. as she should. That's good. I love to see this. I love to see unity amongst women, especially in hip-hop. Yeah, and especially in hip-hop where it's a very competitive sport and messy men try to put women against each other in corporations. Y'all do it yourself. Try to put women against each other all the time. I love to see Cardi and Kim have this moment, especially being two women from New York. I thought it was amazing. Shout out to them. Yes. Lil' Kim is the blueprint. Yes, she is. She is the blueprint. Absolute blueprint. And anybody that says otherwise, is crazy. Yeah, wish Nicki could do that. Wouldn't it be so dope if we lived in a world where Nicki Minaj and Cardi B could be friends together and collab together? That would be so lit. I don't understand why. Oh, I do understand Nicki's mean. Hey, I don't know. I don't know, but I just know that would be amazing. And you look back on Ladies Night, the song with Brad and Angie Martinez and Left Eye and Lil' Kim and everybody was there. It was just such a vibe, and I wish we could do that again. And I actually asked Brat about doing a remake of that song, and she said the women today just don't. It ain't like that no more. It ain't like that. And I was like, that's crazy. I think you could do it. I just don't think Nicki could be on it. But I think everybody else could do it. That's because y'all think Nicki is the only problem, and that's not the case either. Who else is the problem? I see Cardi B get along with everybody. I didn't say Cardi B was the problem. I love Cardi B. I didn't say that. But who else is the problem? There are other women in the world, in the industry, that may have an issue. Who? I'm just saying. I don't think it's just a Nicki she's not fighting with herself so this is the thing at that time when Ladies Night came out Lil' Kim was the biggest female rapper out at that time so you needed the biggest female rapper to embrace everybody so Lil' Kim embraced everybody at that time period and that's why that thing was able to happen the way it was I don't know about that we had Missy Elliott at the same time No, Lil' Kim was absolutely Missy. But Missy might have been the glue, though. Missy became bigger than Lil' Kim. When Kim hit, she was lightning in a bottle. We had never heard anything like a Lil' Kim before. Facts. But who saw those ladies like? Missy became bigger than Kim because Kim cooled off. But when Missy—I'm not saying Kim was better, but at the time she was bigger than Missy when Ladies Night came out. All right. Shout out to Ladies Night. I didn't realize. I've always thought this whole time that Ladies Night was Missy Elliott's song. That was Lil' Kim song. Yes. That's crazy. So it had to be. Kim had to be cool for this to even happen. But I feel like she's always been pretty cool and welcoming. Even when Nicki first came in the game, I heard rumors that Kim was there and willing to mentor her and things like that. But there were people and places and power and men that will tell you to, you know, don't, you know, be her friend and get what you need from. And then we're going to take our head off. Yeah. I don't think it was. I don't think it was. I don't think it was that bad man. I think it was the lady that has proven to be mean for decades. I'm not talking about Nikki. Get off of Nikki. Y'all can talk about nobody else because I know she is the queen of rap I understand it's hard to look past her but it's other women in the game who are just as messy and competitive as she is She was mean there's nothing wrong with being competitive like I said if Nikki had embraced everybody Nikki at the top of the totem pole just says hey I'm gonna embrace everybody and not those angry men that was like hey Nikki don't be friends. Who at my door? The men. What do you want us to do? Hey, you need to start hating on everybody. We're the angry men. You'll never be big. Y'all are sick. If you don't hate on everybody. Y'all don't believe that happened? Y'all crazy. So everybody just told her to be mean. No, I'm not saying it. She beefed with everybody. No, I'm not saying it. Everybody. Lotto, Cardi, JT. She can't find nobody not to be. Right. I hate you. Jay-Z, anybody. Jay-Z, whoever. People that made the internet, Mark Zuckerberg, anybody, bro. She does not like people, dog. Only for you, she got his trunk. Right. It's the only dude she likes until she don't. Are we crazy? T. Grizzly's mom accuses him of buying cars for a woman, but she said he wouldn't buy one for her. T. Grizzly actually responded in that saying, hey, I bought you everything. House is you good. I just didn't want to get the car because I was scared you was going to hurt yourself. What do you got to say about T. Grizzly's mom taking it to the Internet? That's a whack. Terrible. Especially if he said he bought her everything else and he didn't want her to hurt herself so he didn't get the car. I want everybody in the world to understand this is for children and parents. Once you become of legal age, nobody in this world owes you a goddamn thing. You owe yourself whatever it is. So if you are a parent and your child becomes successful, whatever they want to do for you is whatever they want to do for you. No one owes you a thing. No one is required to take care of you. It will be nice, but it's not, that's not, you raised them because you had them. But that don't mean it's his job to give you a life of luxury if he don't want to. So what if you had them, you supported them, you've been behind them the whole way, you don't think it's obligation? No, that was your job. You're supposed to do that. So what about the parent that has a kid that has an NBA player? Let's just say you're the son of an NBA player, and I take you out every day, teach you moves, teach you the game. I take you I put you in the right positions put you in all the camps I basically have given you my skill set and helped you develop and you you don't think you owe your parents something? No you don't owe them anything because guess what that child didn't ask to be here you created that child okay and so when that child came into the world they didn't know anything and you decided to pour into them hopefully you didn't pour into them for them to get it back on the back end it ain't an investment you know what I'm saying it's not a stop kids are not an investment Kids are not a stock. They're not a best person. No, it's like, oh, it grow over time. I put this work in and I'm going to get it back on the back. It don't work like that. I got to come about this jacket, y'all. Y'all just got to see this outfit. He even got hot. Yeah, I got hot. He having one of them flashes. But no, that's not your responsibility. If my son becomes successful and makes money or he doesn't become successful. So what's the difference? The only reason you making it a difference is because they have a lot of money. If your son worked at the post office and was not saying the post office, I'll use a different example. Let's say if your son was living check to check, you wouldn't expect them to pay for all your bills. No. Because so it's not about their obligation. It's about how much money they have. No, it's about sometimes parents feel like, yo, I've sacrificed. I've done so much. And I feel like, yo, like the same way I took care of you. I feel like you take care of me when once you get to your point. I hate that mentality. That's a terrible mentality to have for a parent. For a parent, you hate that mentality. Would you hate that for a friend? For a friend or outside. I'm talking living in the house parent, mom, dad. You think that's a bad way to think? Yes. I'm raising my son right now, and I don't want anything from him. If he decides to do something for me, cool. But if not, I couldn't imagine him becoming successful and then be like, well, you know, daddy, you owe daddy this. Hey, I'm not doing nothing. I'm doing stuff for my friends. I'm doing stuff for other people, but not the person that sacrifices. There's a level of sacrifice that you have with your son. I think any good child is going to feel that obligation. Like for me, my sister will never need, won't, whatever, as long as I'm able-bodied and alive and I have it. So that's just what that's a good child. But to get on the Internet and bash your kid, you literally throwing a temper tantrum on the Internet because he didn't buy you a car. Not because you're homeless on the street, destitute, because you don't have a luxury item. You know what I'm saying? That, to me, is very entitled. So that I cannot respect. And I think if we're just breaking it down, yes, a child is not, don't owe you nothing. It's about what I want to give and what I want to do. And if you raise me right and we have that type of relationship, I should want to do it. But if you don't get on the Internet the moment I say no, I've said yes a thousand times. The one time I say no, you on the Internet bashing your own child? I wouldn't give you shit. I think parents got a different responsibility. That ain't, it shouldn't be based off anything. It's not a return thing. Like, oh, you should do this for me. You should. They don't owe you any, any anything. Okay. They just don't. If they decide to do it, I'm happy they did it. I don't care if you did buy something for your friend. I think there's certain parents and there's certain situations where parents have done over and above and over and above for their child. and put their child in situations, put them in positions, not even a situation, positions to succeed. And I think there is a, to your immediate parent, I think there is an O. There is an O. Like, hey, my dad was here for this. My mom was here for this. My mom did this every single day, and now I'm going to retire her because she worked and she put me in the journalism classes or she spent her very last to take me to a basketball camp. I think, yeah, basketball can't. Because really the obligation to your child is to feed, clothe, house, right? Then it's the extra, right? The extra time where you decided not to do things. There's parents right now. I know a friend of mine that since his kids have been growing, you just don't see him into something. You just don't. Because his son is one of the top baseball players in the country. he's spending all his time taking his son to batting practices do all these different things I do think there's a level of O between child and parent so you think his mama taught him how to rap no no no no I don't know I'm going far out as far as he I would say you gotta remember T. Grizzly was also in jail T. Grizzly was in jail nigga get in here and get on these beats I mean she supported him while he was in she really went to jail. So you don't think she helped support him when he was in jail? I do agree, taking it to the internet is wild. That's wild. But I'm saying, you don't think that there was a level of support system with that? You don't think she, he just went to jail and his mom was like, all right, cool. I don't doubt that she was a great parent, Tom. My argument to this is just simply, clearly in his response, he has said yes a thousand times. The one time he say, no, you're on the internet blasting your child. that is not something that a stand-up parent would do no i know parents who children have broken their entire heart and ain't did nothing for them and gave them they asked to kiss their whole life and the mother's just sitting at home still won't talk bad about her kids in the public still won say nothing she didn your child the biggest disappointment in the world to you and still will speak highly of their child So it just I just feel like as a parent the responsibility is on you To not do that. What she did. She handled that wrong. Yeah. She handled that wrong. And the responsibility on you as a parent is to take care of yourself as much as you can. Oh, yeah, yeah. I don't think when your kids make it, I don't think when your kids make it that you're like, oh, yeah, all right. but like lottery hit you bang bang but i do think that i do think you don't stop working unless your kid says stop working exactly i think that's what i'm saying it's not required but i think it's an obligation i think there is an obligation i think from the kid if they feel in their spirit and in their heart i've seen the sacrifice my parents went through and my dad or whatever i just want to do this to feel good then i want them to have that then i think you should accept it and be grateful you know but it's to be the expectation is what i'm saying like oh makes me feel like that's a debt and i'm not in debt to you by being your child so no no i don't care if you took me to every basketball camp you that's what you want to do because you wanted me to have a better life and just you having a better life should be payment enough and to be honest because once you become a man and you get a wife which t grizzly has a wife and a family his responsibility is to them. Not your mama no more? And this is why when people get... No, it's just... Your mama should be self-sufficient. Sufficient. That's in our culture. In our community. In our community, we put our kids before our spouses and everything. And that is not the order of life. That's not. And that's why, I mean, you look at other cultures and their families set them up for success from day one. They come into the world with a trust fund, a bank account, a savings. and life insurance. That's where we really fall off as a community. We need to start investing in life insurance because all of us got to die. However, you die, we'll set up the next person. But this ain't an ad if y'all want to call me. Anyway, but for real, like, you know, so it's like as some other cultures, when you come in and tell your child go to the NFL, mama and daddy are already rich because grandpa and grandma left them well off and they left the company business to them. So they already well off whether you pay them than some of your NFL money or not. Then your job is to set up for your wife and your children and your grandchildren, and it just goes on like that. But we are, because we have been set back so far in the way we were brought into this country, it's not against our parents. It's just the way the shit been structured. Do you know what I'm saying? And we are trying to catch up. So now we need to start changing our mentality as people to be, Kiki, I need to be so well off and set up that my nephews don't have to worry about anything. You know what I'm saying? Their children are going to be straight off of Auntie Kiki, and then they need to make sure that the next set of kids are straight, and that's how it's supposed to go. But we just have a different mentality of, you know, buy my mama a house. Because a lot of times we grow up in broken homes, no father in the house, and then the kid becomes the man of the house, got to raise this person. And now the responsibility has become on the child. Yeah. It should be the other way around. Parents take care of children. Okay. And then they take care of their children. Yes. And then their children take care of their children. Yes, yes, yes. It's not the other way around. You don't go backwards and be like, yeah, you need to take care of me. Okay. I mean, I got life insurance policies on y'all anyway. So, all right. Thank you, brother. I didn't sign nothing. Just somebody take care of Noah. Just take care of Lux. Somebody get him. All right, man. While filming a new action film, Jonathan Majors fell six feet through an unsecured glass window while doing an action scene. That white lady got the voodoo on him. What'd he do? Fell through. They trying to get him. They let him back acting. They trying to get him, bro. Nigga good. You better get you some life insurance. Better get you some life insurance on Jonathan Majors. Nah, man. They trying to get him, man. He fell through a glass window. It was supposed to be secured. And he said he jumped up. They said he said he was okay. Jonathan. You supposed to still be down there. No, you supposed to still be laying down there. Okay? We not going to get our settlement check. If you popping up tonight, you okay. He's just so happy to be back working. He don't want to cause no problems. No, no. Stay down, boy. Right. Stay your ass down. Stay down. Oh, boy. We ain't got to work no more. Stay down. I mean, it's dislocated, but I'm fine. Right. Right. I'd be this boy on the set. I'd have been like, you all right? Mm-mm. Mm-mm. Mm-mm. No, you ain't. No. No, you ain't. Get back down, bro. That's so funny. Oh, man. Now the video gone wrong. Everybody is seeing Jayden Ivy preaching in the streets of Alabama after being waved by the bulls over his religious anti-LGBTQ rants. Ah, Jayden Ivy. Yeah, I was on Windy City Live. Shout out my girl Val Warner. And we talked about this. And I went a little hard on Jayden Ivy. but I really was just trying to make the point of you are entitled to your beliefs and how you feel and whatever and whatever you want to say if it's on your heart the Lord told you to say it that's on you right but you have to understand your value of the position that you're in and so what LeBron and Steph might get away with saying or would have gotten a week off in a mental health vacation your ass got fired and you got to think about that before you start taking a stance and making statements because the team obviously didn't deem you valuable. If somebody else would have said that exact same thing and probably has done or said something to that level, depending on their value that they're adding to the team currently, they would still have a job. So that's just mine. I don't think, well, I think his stance was, it wasn't just that one stance. He was making people in the locker room uncomfortable. He was doing a lot. People make people in the locker room uncomfortable every day though, Zach. But you know what I heard though? See, when I saw the story, I said he sound like them people who be super Christian outside the concerts. And you remember the people who be outside the concert? They're like, you going to hell. If you go to this, you going to hell. God don't like that. You go. And I'm going to tell people who think like that, that is not Christlike. That is not the way you're going to bring people to Christ. If that is your goal, let's say if your goal is truly righteous, you wouldn't come at people like that. Because what you're going to do is throw them off. Okay. You need to introduce them to them, and they'll see it in the way that you live. And then you be a light, and that can guide people. But yelling at people and criticizing them and condemning them is not going to bring people. It goes against your whole mission. So now I question the mission because what is the mission here? I thought if you're really that righteous, it should be to convert and help people. But telling them they're going to hell, you don't have to do anything. If you yell at people, that's not how it doesn't work like that. I guess for me, it's way more simple to me than that. I get it. You feel a way. But I still always say, so what? You feel that way, right? Anybody that got something against LGBTQ people, against Hispanics, against black people, against women, you're a weirdo to me. Because it's not going back, bro. Ain't nothing changing. You need to accept what's happening. You need to accept what's happening. You have an issue with LGBTQ, brother, that ain't changing, brother. People living their lives in the open and comfortable. It's not changing, bro. Like, what are you doing? You mad about Hispanics coming over and coming to America. That ain't changing, bro. You mad about women in the workplace. Hey, my dog, that ain't changing. So, I mean, it just is to me is it's it's just stupid. I have no other word for it besides being stupid. You mad about something that ain't changing. And I also think that there is a mental health issue there with him. He doesn't seem all the way there. So, you know, I think he probably does not need to be playing at this at this time. But again, I just I understand people have beliefs and I understand the word of God and what it says. But I agree totally with Zach about how you bring people to Christ is that tells a lot about who you are as a Christian. And it's just like that. That's the people out. Yeah, I always remember going to concerts, especially in the South. Let God sort it out. They had these big mic. They had the biggest speakers you never heard. You walking in and they're yelling at you, telling you you're going to hell because you're going to this concert. We had a man in Chicago. That's his whole life. He's been on the streets down there with a speaker. and just yelling at you. They used to call him some state street preacher. What did he think going to happen? Do you think Steve was going to hear that and be like, you know where I am? You know what? I'm wrong. You got me today. You got me today. You got me today. Just today, man. I think I'm going to go ahead and yell. Because I think sometimes people get so wrapped up in the text that you forget about the compassion and the love for God's people. And that's supposed to be the biggest part of it. Right. You know what I'm saying? Not just preaching what is black and white in the text. Because ain't none of us living 100% black and white by that text. but people seem to be very hyper-focused on homosexuality, and it's just a big thing. That's the only thing in the text. You would think that's the only thing in the text that they're telling you to go against. Only thing in there. Come on, man. Whatever, man. My thing is that guy sorted out. Everybody's doing all that yelling. I guarantee your house ain't made of stone. It's definitely made of glass. Borilla is back. Saw photos of Glorilla. with her dad at the game, chilling, having a good time. And then she said, bro, my lights was just turned off a couple days ago. Now, that is weird. You done made some bread, Borilla. And your lights out? Your lights was the last thing out. Like, I don't feel sorry for people about lights. Hold on. What now? Wait, what? You don't feel sorry for people about lights? Why lights? Why you hate lights? No, I'm going to tell you. Let me finish. lights, gas, rent, and condos. Them bills are kind of everything else, phones, Wi-Fi, those are the points that you got to let. Yeah, I feel sorry if you ran out on some hard luck and you don't have family members. I mean, not people that's homeless, those type of things. But the things that you have to be able to pay to be a functioning adult and you got out here on your own and you able-bodied, you could work. I don't know. Who are you talking about? You're talking about Glorilla or her daddy? Glorilla. So, no, they're saying, she was saying that her daddy lights, that Glorilla's dad lights was out. Oh. So, the thing was, she said, Bruh lights was just off a couple days ago. Oh, okay. But, okay. So, she's saying that Glorilla is in the picture with her daddy at a basketball game. Oh, okay, okay. She's coming, but his lights was just turned off. a couple days ago. That's what Bro Rilla's saying. So basically she's taking a shot at Glow Rilla, saying you taking pictures with your daddy, but his lights was just off. That's on the dad. And she probably fixed it. That's on the dad right there, though. And lights can be off for a lot of reasons. My lights have been off not because of lack of money, just because of lack of forgetting to pay that bill. You forgot to pay your lights? Man, I've done it a day on auto now, but at times where you just really ain't thinking about your bill, Like, you know what I'm saying? He was like. I was like, mm. It just hit that. You know how you in the house to go, dude, I sure ain't paid that bill in a minute. Let me call him right now. And then you got to call and get it back on and get a reconnecting fee and all of that. But sometimes you lose bills because of that. You know, you just might not have paid it. But I think Glorilla said that she was paying all her daddy's bills or maybe she forgot. Or it's a lot of reasons why the lights may have been off. And we don't even know if the lights truly, truly were off or Bro Rilla just trying to get another, another hairline. Let's go back to our conversation of whose responsibility is it? Who lights? It's the daddy lights, right? The daddy lights. Okay. So if his lights get cut off, that's the daddy's responsibility. I believe that. It's not Glorilla's responsibility. It's not. If she pays her dad's light bill, good for her. It's not her responsibility. It's definitely not. So, Bro Rilla, which is an even, what's really crazy is the broke sibling telling the rich sibling how to spend their money. That's really insane to me. Like, you're broke. So, I don't know why you think that you're going to dictate what my money goes. You pay us like Bill. You on the internet popping in and you getting some little checks out here. That's what I'm saying. I thought it was Bro Rilla. Yeah, you doing appearances. So, you pay us like Bill. How much have you contributed? No, stop counting people pockets. Please, there it go. Stop counting the pockets. And you're the word. That's it. You know, I do believe that my daughter gonna get famous. Well, she made some money. She bought me some sneakers. She bought her mama a lot of stuff which her mama I felt like deserved Yeah I think if my daughter does something really big and everything paid for great but if she wanted to get I wouldn I would feel good if she got me something that I didn need If that makes sense, like a luxury item. But all of the regular bills is paid for. So I get what you're saying. Yeah. You know, it's... You can't be out here like, Oh, yeah, I wish my daughter would've paid my lights. Tom's definitely gonna be like that. I feel sorry for his kids. They give him some money. Pay my lights? Tom's gonna be like, All that I've done for you. Yeah, yeah. He's done. I don't never say that out loud. But you feel it. You think it. I feel it. I do feel it. If I've done so done, and you're just like, all right, cool. Kids are not, well, you have certain kids that are thoughtful, thankful, but every kid not going to be like that. Oh, trust me. I know. Yeah. And I'm setting, but see, I'm already setting myself up. I know Noah ain't going to do a damn thing. I'm already setting myself up for that reality. Like, I understand that. He's going to be a boy. He's going to be doing his own thing. And I'm going to be like, all right, I'll just see him when I see him. You know, it's okay. I'm going to be okay. That's why you got to have your wife. You got to have somebody talk to her about it. Come on. I can't believe no one did me like that. He did nothing. Damn thing. I didn't sit up to school. He did nothing. Fans have reacted to Jay-Z and Pharrell being spotted together in Paris. Fans are speculating they could be working on a new project. Told you. Definitely a new song was made that night. Who was it? It was Jay-Z. First of all, it was Jay-Z and Pharrell in pairs walking out that damn Louis Vuitton building. Oh, yeah. And you know what happens in that building. Yeah, that's where he makes the music. That's where he makes the music. So he got a track on Jay-Z's new album for sure. You got a couple. That's what I'm saying. Skateboard Pete making records again. And T.I. got one. Clips got an album full of them. Hey, you think Jay ain't going to get something? Not a way in hell. They was putting the finishing touches on this album. I think the album's done. Pharrell putting out crack. He ain't missed. I don't know what he ever since he's been wearing them purses. He ain't missed. Come on now. Pharrell is putting them out. Stop wearing them purses. No, it's Pharrell. He can get away with it. Okay. He's like the head designer of Louis Vuitton. Pharrell gets away with the little man purses. It's okay because it's Pharrell. What about Spike Lee when he had that? No, that ain't. Spike Lee don't get away with it. What's a mess. For real still got to sell it. What are y'all putting in them purses? I don't know. What? I tried to get one of them little sacks. I tried to get one of them sacks. I almost lost my phone. I forgot. Left your purse. Yep. Left my purse. Mm-hmm. All right. Cameron said this girl could never be a lifeguard because while she's saving N-words, what a job you would, what job wouldn't you do? you wouldn't be cool with your significant other habit? Trainer. Trainer? Mm-hmm. A masseuse? Mm-hmm. Best mind massage therapist? Nah. Nah, you can't be rubbing on You ain't rubbing on no dudes. Nope. Physical therapist? Nope. Physical therapist? Damn, he can't even be a physical therapist. That's like a doctor. I understand. Step away? Mm-mm. Go be a heart surgeon or something. That ain't better. All them nurses in there. I don't need you rubbing down I'm stretching them out for a living. I know you like to get stretched out. Stretching, no. I like to get stretched. No. But, yeah, absolutely not. Only fans. Stripper. Stripper. What's it called? Where you're not quite a stripper, but you're one step away from the pole. Bottle girl. Cool on that. Wow. Bottle girls ain't bad. No, I'm cool. I'm cool. Can't be my girlfriend. Strippers ain't bad either. Can't be my girlfriend as a bottle girl or a stripper. Depends on what type of stripper. There's no backroom stripping. It's not that bad. No, it's still the same. Everybody a backroom stripper for the right price. No. I just feel like. They get up there just with the pasties and dance. Once you get to the. It's not a bad one. But once you. See, it's a more mentality thing. Once you get to the pole. I feel like there's a lot that can be bought within that. You know what I'm saying? I feel like you've already forgot a lot of stuff. And you was like. You've already bypassed. You know what I'm saying? A lot of morals. Justice for the strippers. No, that doesn't mean that. So I'm just like. That doesn't mean that. They trying to get their degrees. A lot of strippers be player mentality. They really don't care. Like, they have disassociated this as a sexual experience. To them, it's just literally clocking in and getting some paper. And that's what I mean. You've already, the fact that you have put that in your brain, you believe it, I don't want to be your man. I understand. You understand what I'm saying? Yeah. That means you have put away something morally for money. Mm-hmm. I'm not saying that strippers sleep with everybody. I don't believe that. I actually think strippers sleep with less people than nurses. but nurses absolutely nurses getting it in nurses and teachers I think strippers sleeping with less people than nurses and teachers I agree if you want to be real so you think if you for real nurses and teachers get it in get it popped in what poppington teachers do not get it in teachers teachers I used to write through the teachers and they get it in with the other staff members too teachers get it in no no way nurses now i have heard the medical field is wild like them hospitals really be like gray's anatomy now i have heard that teachers nurses let me tell you something it's three jobs they fucking dang shouldn't have said that nurses teachers uh uh what's it called the army whatever that is military really oh the military girls throwing that what military women nurses why are you whispering they're not going he always whisper when he when he bringing that point home he got a whisper i'm trying to tell you i'm just i'm like they're not gonna hear you zach talking about you right if she drive an ultima she drive an ultima now you getting too specific now Am I fine? Ryder, what you having to do Ultima's you didn't knock down? Ultima's? That's crazy. Is she driving? I guarantee you ain't never ain't no chicken joke. What about this? I didn't get up. That's crazy. What about what else? I forgot. It's a truck. Is it an Odyssey? It's something. No, that's just the one you knocked down. You can't even. What if you got a two Buick Sable in 1998. I was. I was gone. Like, you knew she was gone, yes. That's not, I'm not saying that Trinity's mom is a nurse. I've dated a lot of nurses. A lot. Trinity's mom is a nurse. You proving my point? Trinity's mom was not going, bro. My mom was a nurse. My mom was a nurse for 30 years. So you think your mom was going? I don't know. I can't sit up here and say my mom was going. That's my mom. You know what I'm saying? I can't look at her like that. You know what I'm saying? But I'm just saying from Medical professionals all together. Medical professionals be going. Yeah, they do. That's all I'm saying. They spend a lot of time together. They work a long shifts and hours. You think she was going? No. I'm not saying every nurse is going. That's not the statement. The statement is if you take the landscape of it. The profession. The profession. It's a horny profession. They horny in there. They horny in there. And it's not that they're more horny. Y'all dirty bro. They work, okay here it is they work, it's not necessarily them they work late nights. Yes, abnormal hours. They work in abnormal hours, they sleep there a lot and there's a lot of people who are successful and attractive there too as well. It's the hours it's the timing, it's the being away from family, all of that plays a part into it. Yep. They say flight attendants be going too. I don't know that personally so I can't put that on them. But that's what I heard. They do say flight attendants do. But I don't know. I've heard that. I ain't never had no flight attendants. I've dated flight attended. Was they going? She was very mean. I'm sure she had dudes in a lot of places. I felt like that. Okay. I felt like she had, she definitely had holes in other area codes. They say radio personalities. That's a bad, I wouldn't date one of them either. It ain't nothing but 10 of us. Left, but. We're 100% going. But y'all going. 100%. Y'all always smiling and laughing at somebody's face. That's not, I don't believe that. Yeah, yes y'all do. Yes, that's all y'all do. You think in people's faces. Oh, 100%. It's our job to be friendly, Kiki. I know. That's why I couldn't date one. I'm not going to lie about that. I would not like to date one. No, not early. You got to date after we've been famous for a little while. Once we've been famous for a little bit, then you can date. Even then, nope. Then you can date. During the time, women personalities, y'all be going for celebrities. A lot of the women personalities all have had a celebrity. more than the guys. The guys don't really get that. The women on this side and radio definitely have had some celebrity interactions. Yes, as you should. That I know. That I know. It ain't necessarily going. They going for every celebrity, but they definitely have dated a celebrity. Or two. That's a radio person. She's going to try to throw that in there. I'm just saying. Ricky Smiley I wouldn't why is you smiling all the time that's why I don't want no man I love Ricky I don't want no man named Smiley you too friendly you too happy Tom Capone he out there passing out turkeys and hams and Pop telling them pop they trunk now they popping they pussy ain't no way pop your trunk right next thing you know he right hell no they know I'll be down there cussing down my neck the turkey drive you got to pop your trunk baby nah now she popping pussy ain't no that's so nasty that's nasty that is a nasty life bro that is a nasty life if you out here putting hands in women's trunk and then you have to pop it later it's nasty alright are you a person who sets one or many alarms to wake up That's a good question, right? I don't even need an alarm at this point. Knock on wood, because this would be the one time I oversleep. But my body just naturally wakes up at the time it's supposed to. However, I do have 17 alarms in my phone. And they all have a different quote to wake me up. You know what I'm saying? It's serious. Your quotes are hilarious, too. 2.30 a.m. It's time, sis. 3.10 a.m. Rise and shine. 3.15. Your imaginary hair and makeup team is waiting. 3.30. you're gonna be a basic bitch today 345 is giving ugly and late that's yeah so it's like they set but i'm already up most times yeah my that that do you have an alarm the lord no my person my alarm is jesus no my alarm goes off and it goes off very loud and i put it across the room because i really every day so you have to get up to turn it off yeah That's the only reason I do it because I know I have to get on my feet. But it's so loud. And it's so loud. I mean, you have to. I was like, oh. And then I just get up and I cut it off. It's tough. On the weekends, do your baby wake you up early? Yes. He don't believe it. Like, he wakes up early anyway because I wake up early. But he don't believe in Saturday and Sunday and sleeping in. So I've been trying to, like, let him stay up as long as he wants on the weekends. So he can be tired. So he can be tired. But that's only going to give you an extra hour, and now he's just cranky. So I should have just let him go to bed. I'm hungry. And now he do this thing. Noah was like, he said, hmm. He came in. He was like, Daddy. I said, what's up? What are we eating for breakfast today? And I said, let me see. I didn't feel like getting up. I was like, I'm going to order some Chick-fil-A. So I ordered some Chick-fil-A. And then we were waiting on it. He get in the bed with me. He say, Daddy, what are we eating for breakfast? Sunday. Sunday. I said the guy. the breakfast for the day ain't even came. He is so funny because you irritate him. He like, I see the nigga didn't have a plan for today. He said, let me get ahead of tomorrow. Maybe he need a plate to order. He said, what are we eating for breakfast Sunday? Boy, stop asking me what we going to eat. He is so cute. Okay, how was your father-son date? I saw y'all went out on a date. It was cool. It was cool. Yeah, we went on a little date. He was out of school Friday, so we went to eat. We took him to the park, and he had a good time. We was kicking it. He's getting, it's so funny. He's getting so much older and cooler now. I can hang with him a little bit now and have not deep conversations, but we can have little conversations. No, that's not your level. We can have little conversations. He'd be like, yeah, I want this. And he ordered his own food. Yeah. He said, I want pancakes, I want bacon, and I want eggs. He was like, whoa. I said, get the hot chocolate. I was like, okay, good. I was like, get the hot chocolate. He's like, and hot chocolate. And I was like, good. So he can order. He'd tell me he wanted to go to the park. and then we it was a 45 minute wait and there's a park right across the street so we went to the parking while we was waiting on the food and it was time to go I said no it time to go We got to go eat And he said bye friends I have to eat now He so cute We left, and we just ate. But he cool to hang out. I can't wait for a little bit older, though. Cherish these days. I'm excited about, like, 10 and 11. I can take him to games, and we can talk about stuff. Yeah, yeah. It's all about how they, yeah. They do get to a point, though, where it's like, ugh. They don't talk. It's a whole thing. Oh, they stop talking? Yeah, yeah, I guess they do stop. Yeah, they go in the room, close the door. I don't like that. Yeah, it's a little teenage race. My nephew is coming out on the other side. He's just turned 17, and we went to open his first bank account. Oh, wow. So he got his own little debit card and everything. And watching him handle his business, I really was sad. But I had to be like, yeah, yeah. But they grow up very fast. You felt like a proud auntie. I did. I was just, it's like, I don't know. I don't like seeing a girl. No, not yet. Okay. He wanted one, and he's trying to get one. I don't really want him to have one. Yeah. Because I don't like the grow up thing. I wish he was still like Noah Sass. Yeah. Yeah. Now he got, you know, the real life and shit. He got a girlfriend? He got a girlfriend. Oh, wow. Look at that. Look at that. And his own debit card. And a woman. He in there. It's just wild to see, like. That's crazy. And I couldn't be. They don't need me. you know what I'm saying they're like oh he's a fake like he's good I'm like you sure like I don't need to be on it I don't need they like no so I'm like I didn't like that at all so hold on to these days yeah yeah alright let's take a look from black twitter what code in line we wore back in the day that this new generation has never even heard of well y'all don't know nothing about no South Pole that was short lived you wouldn't South Pole is that only a Gary yeah it was a Gary thing Shout out to Gary in the South Pole Yeah we used to go to South Pole South Pole is crazy South Pole had a short run It wasn't a good run But it was a short run Yeah I can't believe you was wearing that Shine John Jabo's Jabo jeans What's the time? It was some terrible Echo Jabo Echo had a time Echo had a moment Echo had a moment They don't know nothing about Echo Fubu Definitely don't know nothing about Fubu Cross colors K-Swiss They had a run K-Swiss was the I wish we could just bring them back I love them shoes you can bring them back go ahead they still make them I hate them my feet was too fat for them yeah mine too that's what's crazy on me fat people I never was I was jealous of K-Swiss that was like a that was like a drug dealer shoe they had your Bose K-Swiss what? I couldn't give them the K-Swiss and I don't know whatever top they had but like K-Swiss was like K-Swiss was the original white one I didn't like K-Swiss like you were bad they was fine I wear my K-Swiss Beauty Supply socks with the little cotton ball on the back of it, the different colors to match your outfit. Oh, yeah, when girls did that, that was a fire. That was a fire moment for girls. Yeah, baby fat. My best jean jacket was a Fat Farm jean. I had the Fat Farm jean outfit. I got it from the spot. Fat Farm, damn. It was clean. Fat Farm was dope. I wore the hell out that jean outfit. With my Iversons, you couldn't tell me nothing. Fat Farm, Sean, John. Your Bowls and Jordans. Your Bowls was that. with a white tee and a hair bone. Tom, did you wear Tommy Hilfiger? Yep, I definitely did. When they had a thing, when they found, they said Tommy Hilfiger was racist. You stopped wearing Tommy. I wore Nautica a lot. Did you wear Carl Cana? Nah, not that much. I like Carl Cana, but back then it was too expensive for me. It was too expensive for me. What's some sweaters, Biggie? Coogee. Coogee, too expensive. That was drug dealer uniform. That's Joy Diller 101 But it was a time In hip hop Where like Every You know how like All the rap girls Now got hair care lines Beauty makeup lines All the rappers Had clothing lines That's a fact Yeah Like T.I. had a cool A cool That didn't really That never took off Nelly had Volcal Volcal Well you know You know I was thinking apple bottoms But yes you wore Volcal You still wear Volcal Volcal tank top On at this point Volcal really never hit either Volcal was alright It didn't hit though G on it It did. The tank chops. G-Unit hit. Rockaway hit for a minute. Rockaway was it. G-Unit took over the streets for like two years. Yeah. Yeah, Rockaway had about a two-year, three-year run. Rockaway had longer than that. Yeah, it was it. Yeah, Rockaway had a mean run. They might have had one of the best runs. Them and Sean John had the best runs. Yeah, that's true. Them, Sean John, and Fat Farm, they were in a league of their own. Sean John had the best. I ain't gonna lie. I wore Sean John a lot. Anything that you could get out that Macy's? That was the real ones. You know what I'm saying? Dress to impress. You go to Macy's and be like. DTLR. That's where you was getting that from. Oh, yeah. Dress to impress was. I'm going to go to the damn Macy's. Dress to impress. I was killing dress to impress. Shout out to them. Truck fit. Don't forget Lil Wayne. Truck fit. Truck fit had a decent run. Not really. You didn't like. I like truck fit shorts. And I like the t-shirts. The skater t-shirts and the shorts was tough. No limit soldier gear. I don't remember that one. I don't even remember that. I don't remember that. Billionaire Boys Club. Of course. Ice Cream. That's still going. So wait a minute. So Billionaire Boys Club and Ice Cream have had the best and the longest run. BBC's still going now. Yeah. So they had it. They got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They got it. Eniche, remember that? I forgot that that's even a rapper. Eniche was Kurt. Mecca. Mecca is wild. Yeah. Eniche and Mecca was one of my ones. Yeah, I remember those. Peli Peli. Still running. Yep. Echo. The streets. but Pelly Pelly wasn't by rappers right no these just hip hop brands but Pelly Pelly still going that's the crazy part Pelly Pelly came it took a dip then it came back the west side gonna keep Pelly alive anybody over 290 it's just a rite of passage you have to have a Pelly Pelly yeah that's facts I do want one of them leather Averex jackets though them mugs hard there's too many colors on it no you ain't seen no black ones Yeah, solid Ava Rex or solid Pelly. A solid black Pelly or solid. No rhinestones. No, no, no, no rhinestones. That's what make it a Pelly. No, I'm cool. You got to have the rhinestones on that. I like that. What was the question? You really lost it. All right, Kiki, there's a question for you. After J. Cole has announced he's going back to play pro basketball, is there a pro sport you could do for a day and what would it be? me it's spades the support uno uno spades that's all I really got for you table tennis in my mind I feel like I could play um bowling pickleball I am pretty good at bowling yeah I about to say you had a bowling thing I can't bowl pro bowling I really can't bowl actually but I get lucky after a while my arm gets at in my mind I feel like I could play volleyball but I really can't okay Pickleball or volleyball? Which one? Pickleball. I could do that too. Okay. Zach? Badman. If I could just pick one sport to play, be a pro one day, I'd probably be an Olympian. Track and field. Oh, yeah. I'd probably be an Olympian. World-class Olympian. We don't know about all that. Me and Usain Bolt would be fighting it out. Please. In your dreams. Thursday night football cornerback corner yep I just wanted to get on there when they were like like yo Tone Southern Illinois I want to say my school that's the coolest part to me that's how I ain't got to get I ain't got to get no tick I don't know what to call it Tone Capone Southern Illinois Carbondale that's funny I want to jump up and get in the blocks right you want to jump around and then everybody be watching they be like this shit finna go down that's what I want to do yeah that's tough alright thoughts from the pod we're in time thoughts from the pod thoughts from the pod what is the pod thinking they're probably thinking they're probably thinking we gonna go to this one Monica Robbins 3713 said okay I didn't know Tom went to a rich town I had to Google it. That's what's up. You didn't believe him? Why you had to Google it? He told you he was going there. Joe M. Cleveland. Good morning, PodFam. Replay gang from Houston, Texas. Today's episode was short and sweet. Have a great rest of your day. Okay. Don't get me. Never mind. Uh-oh. Oh, Lord. Please don't. Kamisha Lockhart. What up, PodFam from Ohio? Love y'all episode today. Thank you, Ohio. Chatbully87, I just found this pod a few weeks ago. Shame on YouTube for hiding this from me for so long. I'm late, but I love y'all energy. New fan. I'm a new fan. Dope. Yes, welcome to the pod, fam, Chatbully. Welcome to the pod, fam. And by the name Chatbully, we expect you to be on all of our platforms bullying anybody that's messing with us. Yep. Period. I like that. Yep. Let me see. What else we got? Still cussing us out a little bit from the pip. I don't know what else to say. All right. I'm looking. I think that is it. Rosie Mars. I love it here. We love it here. We love it. Oh, Tiffany Womack, 3216. Hey, Zach, heart, heart, heart, heart, heart. You looking handsome as always From Baltimore, Maryland Well thank you That's what they call me Handsome Zach Handsome Zach Go to Baltimore Clean up This is so funny You know I've noticed The East Coast women like me Now you get one little comment About the East Coast women like you No for real I'm in on the East Coast I don't know what it is Everybody got a winning spot The East Coast is my spot Women like Zach Just in general The East Coast But I don't know Okay The East Coast is really You don't think that you have a reason where people like you the most? You know how I feel about me. Where you going, kid? They all on me. They all on me. Baby, I love across the country. You know what I'm saying? Ain't no wrong spot everywhere. What's your spot, though? Oh, West Coast. 100%. West Coast, yeah. 100%. West Coast killer. Woo! West Coast. They like a Tom Capone on the West Coast. They like a Tom Capone on the West Coast. That's so funny. That was cool, cool. in the North, East, West Coast. Oh, what? Man, who the ladies like? Michael B. Jordan. I'm whoever the ladies like. Michael B. in the West. What? Out in the West? I'm winning. I'm a GQ man of the year out West. I feel myself. I'm like, damn, boy. Woo. Ryder, what part of the country like you? He tall. Ryder's tall. Oh, he said here. Here? Here. Midwest, okay. He said Midwest here. Okay, I go. Right here. You ain't wrong where I get you. I ain't mad at you. Well, you 6'5", so it don't matter where you go. He just walk around, just walk in somewhere. They be like, hey. Tall is the cheat code. Oh, tall is definitely the cheat code. Tall is the 100%. He got a lot of stuff working in his favor, Ryan. I hope you're being responsible with the things you have working for you. Be responsible, brother. Be responsible. He can cook. and he tall. That's all he got to do. The hell with being responsible with it, Ryder? Just put a condom on it, buddy. You young, man. Party your face off, guy. Be responsible. And tell your boy about it. What happened with that one, bro? That is so funny. He got a talent. Right. He got a career. Oh, yeah. Get it. Get it. Let me see your quick little reel, right? Quick, girl. I got you. Say nothing. That is so funny. Crazy. I could not be 6'5", 6'6". What? I couldn't do it. What? To restrict me. Oh, my. Man, six pounds, you walk in, you bigger than everybody in the room. You looking down. Every woman. If she taller than you, she's just a tall chick. Most women are all shorter than you. What? That's just a. Ten kings. Don't let anybody tell you. Sorry, short kings. I don't want anybody to tell you. If you are above six four, it's a cheat code, dog. It is. I be trying to tell people. Never mind. Shut up. What you gonna say? Nothing. Somebody got no reason to say it. Okay. Oh, shoot. She's like, oh, yeah, the shiny thing on my left hand. Fiance kicked in. She was like, can't say that no more. Can't say that no more. Sorry. Can't. Oh, that's funny. Oh, man. All right, y'all. You know what it is. What more can we say? Okay.