Addressing your assumptions about us

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I don't want my parents to listen to this. what's up dude and welcome back to the um i like this filming in the morning i feel like a little bit more alive the afternoon i'm like yeah our kids are with grandma so we can have some alone time to ourselves yeah with all of you watching us anyway we're having a great time guys we were a little disappointed we looked at our analytics and apparently 63.8 percent of you aren't subscribed they're watching the videos so that hurt my feelings i'm not gonna lie i was a little hurt by that personally maybe they just don't have a youtube account no they have a youtube account everybody has a youtube account no for a while i had favorite youtubers and i was like man i just wish i could help them out but i don't have an account you can't subscribe if you don't have an account didn't you think that it cost to subscribe a long time ago but guess what good news guys it's free so i would just encourage you to quickly make an account subscribe to us share it if you like it give it a star if you don't like it you shouldn't share it why would you share a podcast if you don't like it no if they don't like it They're probably not here. Let's hope. I mean, gosh, don't torture yourself like that. If you're watching this because you don't like us, that is some commitment. I wanted to bring up our fight last night. Oh my gosh, okay. What's happening? Speaking of couple goals. Abby, I'll be honest. I don't remember what the fight was about. I would only bring it up if it wasn't like a huge deal, but we resolved it. Walk me through what happened. I forget. I don't remember. I don't remember. Okay, well, I was really locked in on Beast Games episode five. Oh, and you were getting frustrated because our kids were running around in circles. No, no, no, no, no. They were being very loud. and I was like babe we could just put them to bed and then we can watch these games in peace. Well I thought they would like to watch beast games but they really are way too young for that. Do you think a two-year-old and three-year-old want to watch beast games? Augie sometimes likes it but anyway no this is after the kids were asleep. I got those distractions to bed and then you are sitting next to me and you're not paying attention at all to this show and you turn to me and you're showing me your phone like I can't believe it and then you start talking and I was like just trying to find the remote so quick because I hate to miss any second of really any show I'm watching, but especially Beast Games. I wanted to show Abby something on my phone and then I was really excited about it. And I was like, babe, look at this. And you're just like. It was like the pinnacle moment of this episode. And you're like, I mean, what are you? And I'm like, just wait. I was just trying to find the remote so I could pause it. I was willing to stop everything and give you all my attention, even in the most sensible moment. And it just really rubbed you the wrong way. Let's be honest, babe. This was halfway into the episode and there wasn't really anything pinnacle going on. And you weren't paying attention. So you have no clue. It was a really big deal. I'm sorry. Who's going to take care of our children when they're sprinting around our living room? They were asleep. Oh, they were asleep. They were asleep. At that point, they were asleep. Anyway, you're right. You're right. I'm wrong. I just looked at him afterwards. You're right. Listen, listen. Read my lips, baby. You're right. I'm wrong. Feels amazing. I love you. I love you. You're my right or die. But like literally afterwards, I just looked at him and I was like, you're wrong about this, by the way. And then he's like, okay. And then he walked away. And then he just came back down. He's like, I'm actually sorry. I was wrong. Today's episode, we're addressing your assumptions about us, but we're going to start off by reading a review from someone who left this on Apple Podcast. Thank you guys for leaving us reviews. Yeah. Quick thing. If you're not already following us at unplanned underscore podcast on Instagram, I would love for you to follow us. And we love hearing from you guys. And speaking of hearing from you guys, thank you to at everything underscore era. She says, or he actually don't know. They say. It's probably a woman. Let's be honest. 90% of our viewers are female. Yeah, that's what I assumed. But I should never assume. You know what they say. That makes an ass of you and me. Oh, gosh. You learned that from your grandma. Yes, I did. So it's okay to say it. Love this episode. Love y'all's episode. You are very open and honest and vulnerable. And it truly feels so real and genuine. Thank you for being friends that I get to chat with each week. I look forward to Wednesday and now Fridays. So much more because of Unplanned. Wait, that's so cool that she's tuning in to Always Here as well. So sweet. Thank you for watching both of our podcasts. That means a lot. Gosh, we really don't take it lightly. So thank you so much to all of you that have left a review or rated us or just follow us. It really, really is so special. It's not something we take lightly. Not at all. All right. Well, baby, without further ado, let's get into addressing assumptions that our followers have about us. This is spooky. Why are we doing this? I'm actually pretty excited. I don't know any of these, but I feel like I could probably guess a couple of them. Okay. The first one. I don't know what that means, but I'm ready. Yeah. Hopefully those didn't make the list. Number one, you guys didn't actually wait for marriage. Wow. Wow. You've seen this. Gosh, our grandma listens to this, guys. We're seriously going to ask these questions. Why does he? Okay. Why are we bringing this up again? Oh, my gosh. Do you want to answer that or me? I'm answering. You answer it. You want me to answer it? Okay, great. Well. Actually, don't answer it. Oh, gosh. I'm scared of what you're going to say. What? Yeah, but you answer it then. No, you answer it. Basically, we did not do it until marriage, but we did other things because we were so into each other. What is happening right now? are you gonna give you that i'm like that was literally so much tmi we've talked about that so many times before i can't believe people are asking that we weren't perfect angels but we really did and guess what and guess what nobody is if you actually talk to people who are like yeah talk to them and then they'll probably say the same thing i'm just serious some people some people save kissing for marriage and you know what that's amazing for them but that i i actually like you so i want to kiss you and i would say we tried our best but we really did actually technically wait yes we did yes we did okay if we're getting into technicalities and i would recommend that for everyone i really would number two you never cuss on the podcast but you cuss in real life wait a minute i just said ass though and you know what our grandma says it's in the bible so that's what she says that's what abby's grandma says is that the grandma said that i think maybe both of our grandmas say that ass is in the bible so it's okay so we can say ass on this podcast we just we wouldn't say anything else no um we definitely try to not to especially around the kids yeah definitely not around the kids it's funny though like just in the past couple months i've started i've started to curse i feel like i'm i'm becoming an adult yeah it's giving me the ick i gotta be so honest and you know what you are okay you were valid in feeling that way that is okay like you say it sometimes i literally told you this last night i was like that doesn't sound pleasant i was gonna say something but that's too far but yeah yeah you know what i was thinking of you know what i was thinking oh my gosh i can't oh my gosh end the episode end the episode right now i'm sweating anyway oh my gosh we can cut that no that has to say that's so funny i'm actually really sweating i can't breathe Okay. Okay. Next assumption. We're moving right along. That's so bad. Matt. Sorry. Mute it. Mute it. All right. Okay. Assumption number three. Okay. Matt loves Abby way more than she loves him. Agree. I got to be honest with you. It's true. He's obsessed with me. Wait. And no, I'm just kidding. No, that's true. I believe that's true. You really believe that's true? Yeah, of course. You believe that you love me more than I love you? Yes. Now, in the past, could you have argued you maybe, but I feel like I love you more now. Actually, yeah, I would agree with that. I'm just kidding. Really? That's just sweet. No, I feel very loved by you. But you think you love me more than I love you? My love for you is like steady. Like it's like bedrock. It's like foundation. And you are like a puppy dog, like in love. You know what I mean? Or it's just like. Like it's just more obvious. It's a ton at once and then it like slows down. Yeah. And then it hits again. it's like it's like these waves of like puppy dog crackhead spurts of energy i mean yeah but it's never like puppy dogs never like upset with you you know what i mean never like you never question whether or not a puppy dog loves you yeah but sometimes it's just really intense yeah and some it's just more obvious i'm obsessed with you i'm like bedrock i'm freaking obsessed with you thank you i love you a lot i love you too baby okay wow guys who made this list hey uh we have a producer now that compiled these so thank you shout out to emma for compiling this it feels like Also, you guys all submitted these on my Instagram. So thank you to everyone that did this on Instagram. Yeah. This one says, y'all have sex every day. Wow, we really are. We're getting into it. I don't want my parents to listen to this. Yeah, I don't think your parents listen to our podcast, though, do they? That would be great. I don't think they do. Good. Your parents do. My parents definitely do. They're crazy. So I'm okay with them knowing we're crazy. Okay, yeah. This is weird now. You can answer this one. Let's save that one for later. Let's come back to it. I can't answer that right now. It's too early for that. Guys, it's 9.30, okay? We just woke up. Number five. You guys poop with the door open. We do, actually. No, you don't. I do. You don't. Well, no. Now we both poop with the door closed. Wait, we both poop. It's evolved over time. We both poop with the door closed now. We used to poop with the door open. But then we're like, guys, that's smelly. Why would we have the door open? I don't think we have like a strict one. I feel like sometimes it's open, sometimes it's closed. Yeah. um if we're going not anywhere other than our bedroom though then the door is certainly closed is it clear that i haven't taken my adhd medicine today i assume you just got rid of that i actually have a refill that i've been meaning to pick up from the pharmacy yeah see that's what i i so i need to go do that okay here's the next assumption you guys are mad rich like billionaires oh my gosh no i mean i know we are we have a lot of well we're we're well okay how do we answer that We're not billionaires. We're not billionaires, but God, we're in a season of blessing. We can say that. Did you know that when we met Tony Robbins, he's one of 3,000 billionaires in the world? Well, yeah, there's people that are richer than us. Well, yeah, but I was just like, I didn't realize how few I was. So I just thought that was really cool. I was so nervous for that interview. Anyway, back to being rich. You guys made us rich. Can we just be honest with that? Like, this wouldn't have ever happened without the dudes. We have definitely, I mean, I don't think, I mean, okay, the word rich has seriously bad connotation. And honestly, even growing up, I didn't like that word at all. And I didn't really like people that I titled that way. But we are making more money than I ever thought we would ever make. 100%. I think the crazy thing, too, is we started this hoping for it just to be maybe some side money. Maybe. I grew up making videos for every school project because if I needed to do a presentation or a speech, there was this rule that you can make a video instead. and I just honestly enjoyed making videos. So I would do that for every school project, worked on the high school TV crew. And then when Abby told me that people were vlogging on the internet and it became their job, I was like, even if I can make like 500 bucks a month doing this on the side, that'd be the sickest thing to get paid for making videos. And so started it up, it didn't work at first. I got super disappointed. I was super frustrated because I'd post every week working 40 hours a week and then it just didn't work and then eventually it did work. So anyway, long story short, We started off in low-income housing when we started the YouTube channel in 2019. And now we're obviously not in low-income housing anymore. So that's all because of you guys and your support. Seriously, couldn't have done it without you guys. Well, and your hard work too. Something we're very grateful for every single day. And also it's a very big responsibility that we are generous with it and steward our money well. Anyway, that was a long-winded answer. We're not billionaires. And actually, I will say, like we are doing very well. But the estimations, if you were to Google it, are incorrect. I can just tell you that for a fact. Yeah. If you were to Google our net worth, it is not right. But that's fine. I mean, heck, I'll never forget the day that my papa, who has since passed. That was funny. Yes. He Googled our net worth when we were at their house. And he's like, Abby, whoa. And I was like, papa, that ain't right. You can't believe everything on the internet. He didn't know that. And you can't blame the people that calculated that figure because they went off of our total YouTube views times a like $8 CPM. I feel like some of them are just pulling it out of there. Which is $8 per thousand. Yeah, eight bucks per thousand views. But if you do the math, that makes us like worth something crazy. However, we never made that money because like 99% of our views on YouTube are from YouTube shorts. We had a lot of shorts go viral. We have a lot of viewers on short form content. And if we only had ever relied on long form content, our views would be literally like 99% lower. Even if that was all accurate though they would still have no way of figuring that out. I know. It actually makes me think about like celebrities when you look at their network. Yeah I don't believe it. I don't think it's true. I think it's all. It could be way higher or way lower. It's all smoke and mirrors. And that was a very long answer. I feel like money is very taboo but I also just want to be real. I know. Yeah. We look at each other at the end of every day and we're just like. We feel so grateful and thankful. Yeah no seriously. Next one. Abby makes Matt get pedicures. Oh my gosh. Have you seen his tall? do they look like they've been pedicured yeah i actually hey speaking of my toes guys i wore shoes for today's episode so you don't have to look at my toes when you look at my toes hey if you're into feet pics go look at last episode because my feet my dogs were out they were out they were out remember that oh yeah i thought you put them away yeah last time i don't make you get pedicures you probably could stand to get them probably i don't care i personally don't care what your toes look like my heels are kind of nasty i'm getting that like old man heel yeah already what is that i think it's fungus gosh do i need to get like athlete's foot spray my dad used to have that at our house he would have to spray it's like an orange bottle and you spray it on your oh my gosh you're already there sorry i'm like out of my dad we're already there exposing my father we already there he gonna disown me thank you to element for sponsoring this portion of today episode we all need help staying hydrated and electrolyte deficiency or imbalance can cause headaches cramps fatigue brain fog and weakness And Element is a great option because it is a zero-sugar electrolyte drink mix and sparkling electrolyte water born from the growing body of research, revealing that optimal health outcomes occur at sodium levels two to three times greater than government recommendations. 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I actually what I what I do is I'll listen to audiobooks okay but most of the nights I'll be in a book can I tell you honestly what I did what did I do last night you want to tell him you're playing Minecraft with my brother with me and my brother you just told me to say it and then you got all the fizzes because it sounds lame okay it is lame and then when he and he had to get off for work and then it was still like 10 30 and I'm like dude kids don't wake up till eight or no 7 30 7 30 7 30 okay anyway i kept playing minecraft and i was listening to a finance audiobook which is so much fun to listen to a book while you play while you play a video game it's so relaxing actually it's overstimulating but i love that i'm happy for you thank you um no matt doesn't read books no i do i just claim to i just read wedding the wedding people that was a really good book you like two months you did read it i'm finishing up i read dune this this past year guys i'm reading dune messiah that's really good i reread all the hunger games it's called messiah dune messiah yeah it's like weird it's like set like extremely far in the future it's like star wars but like way more deep a lot more lore blasphemous uh i think it has parallels to our modern society but it's like just to make you think and stuff but it's interesting yeah i mean anyway yeah you read a little bit timothy chalamet is in the new dune movies and Those are really good. I think he's a great actor. And he's great. And I think him and Kylie are a cute couple. We should have him on the podcast. They would never come on. Okay. This one says, Abby always gets what she wants. Yeah, she does. I can't disagree. But I would like to think that we compromise a lot. I do think we compromise a lot. Okay. That's what marriage is about. Can I give myself a little credit right here? Because I do get my one, but I also pick my battles. Yes. And I will say. I certainly pick my battles. I will say you did make the decision that we are moving two times in a row. And I'll never hear the end of that. But what I do want to say is our new house is great. Yeah, I'll give you that, Matt. I do feel like I get what I want. But I do think I pick my battles wisely. Yeah. Yeah. I love you. I love you. I'm happy you're my wife. Abby secretly runs marathons. Where did that one even come from? I think they just think that you're crazy fit, which is true. Abby is extremely fit and she goes to burn boot camp, which is it's like women's CrossFit. And it's really freaking hard. There's videos of me on the Internet trying to do a burn workout and I'm like dying. It's so hard. That's not running marathons. And just to put things, I'm flattered. I'm very flattered. But just to put things in a little perspective here, I did the turkey trot this past Thanksgiving. Oh, yeah, we ran. That was kind of fun running together. Let me just tell you, three miles was like plenty. I think I will go into running when I'm like older. But now is not my time. next it says matt is the fun parent and abby is the disciplinarian gosh i kind of think that's a little bit more true though really i don't know i feel like we could be both adi what do you think you discipline i'm the fun one yeah okay i guess i am the fun one but i feel like i do this i feel bad when i discipline them that's the problem that's why she does it i gotta do it i don't like doing the disciplining but i do discipline them you feel like i'm being mean if i discipline them you know i don't want to be the mean guy i know me too but i'm also like we're raising boys yeah they have to become men we talk about we tell them that all the time they need i'm like why do we have rules in our household and i was like because we're growing you guys are going to grow up to be or no no i say because becoming a good young man starts now now that's so sweet you're a really good mom thank you you're like the best of the best of the best yeah thank you You're definitely the fun parent. And so, but I do always want them to know that we have rules and we have expectations for a purpose. It's not because we're trying to be mean. It's not because we don't want them to have fun. It's because they're going to become good young men. That's right. Next one. So yeah, that one was honestly pretty accurate. Matt has more social bandwidth, but also more social anxiety than Abby. Honestly, it might be true. There's been quite a few podcasts where like we'll interview someone and Abby's like, I cannot talk to someone for an hour. And I'm like, babe, like I'm fired up. Like, let's go do another. like I feel I'm feeling so I don't know I think I'm an ambivert I learned that from Vanessa Van Edwards who we had on the podcast and essentially an ambivert is a mixture of it of an extrovert and an introvert so I think there's times where I enjoy being by myself and like listening to an audiobook playing Minecraft and there's also times where I want to be extremely social so yeah I think I'm like most people um I do want to call out I don't think you have more social bandwidth than me you are more so you plan all the social events I'm like bandwidth is like how long I can socialize oh i see i show up i don't know if this relates to it yeah but i will say like there's a lot of times you have people over sometimes you'll just disappear disappear yeah maybe you do actually you do i'm like where did you go matthew james abby's great abby and abby's a really good host no it's not it's not better or worse you're such a you host the best parties abby's throw abby's having people over at our house like multiple times per week this one says you guys overthink i definitely do yeah that's something that i've always struggled with my entire life but i i love i love how quick you make decisions i'm very inspired by your confidence like you just you have such confidence and you can command a room like you can walk that you're giving me way seriously no you can walk into any room and you can make every yeah well you just make people feel like you're like the you're like the fun person to have around because you're you're just 100 yourself and you aren't very insecure but then you're like you're kind and you're always thinking about other people i think you overthink but it's because you yeah why do you really care i really care actually yeah that's a good that's i really really care um do you think i overthink i don't think you do i don't think that's something you do also the imposter syndrome thing i thought that was funny because i feel imposter syndrome but then something you told me once we can cut that out if you don't want it but wait remind me what imposter syndrome is yeah we can cut this out if you don't like it but basically imposter syndrome is where you feel like you're an imposter like sometimes we'll be at these events or okay here's a perfect perfect example we're about to sit down and interview tony robbins who has and he he's been a consultant for kings queens presidents like we're talking princess diana nelson mandela bill clinton tony robbins is a very very powerful influential man i am crapping my pants to do this interview abby sits down like she owns the room like you you were not but you were not but it was so good like you just are so you're not phased is it delusional i don't know what it is let me tell you what i'm so like inspired honestly by that i just fully believe a person is a person i i really don't want you to think that like i don't respect and like honor the work that they do and i just think everyone's a person yeah you know i mean that sounds dumb to say but like you know that's good i think that's really good and i think it's good to have that mentality of like we're all just people it doesn't matter if you're an unhoused person or a freaking billionaire you're just a person um this one is honestly along some of the same lines it says matt struggles with comparison more than he admits i feel like you admitted a lot man we're getting into my into my like should i just pull out my my diary and just read it to you guys no uh you do need to journal more i do i've started journaling that's been great i actually journaling is so healthy like it's so good just get your ideas you've been doing it more um been doing it more but yeah i would i would agree with that abby has to keep matt in line if he gets too hyper or off track when trying to focus yeah yeah it's kind of a given yeah shimmy matt would thrive did you just say jimmy yeah can you explain i don't know what that means I don't know. Jiminy? Who taught you that? Jiminy. I don't know. Who taught you Jiminy? That has to be Terry Biswell or Vicky Biswell. Does anybody say that? Nobody else says that. I've never in my life heard someone say that other than you, Abby. That's straight from your grandparents. You spent so much time with them growing up. Jiminy Crickets. Jiminy. That's what it comes from. Jiminy. Jiminy. Oh my gosh. You're right. No one does say that. Why do I say that? nobody says jiminy jiminy jiminy okay that would thrive in a normal nine to five more than people expect that is not true no i think that would be my kryptonite like i love that with what we do you guys we can like create stuff out of thin air like it's like we want to film a vlogumentary of going to europe with our family and we can and actually i want to do that i think it'd be actually be really fun i feel like i just feel like routine makes you feel dead inside yeah no that's actually yes yes that's it like it takes all the fun and spontaneity out of life i just want to live on the edge which is a that's like probably one of the biggest perks of what we do is that you have that like flexibility but then i'm over here trying to create routine out of a very not routine i don't like the routine routine makes me feel alive i can have i'm not that boring but actually I can have routine I also love it when we can try to like make videos on our YouTube channel that like we can have fun and our audience can have fun too like when we go to Disney with our family that's so much fun but I haven't been able to figure out how to make those videos like more like entertaining because it's just well we also just it's like we're going for us we want it to be fun yeah so it's like I'm still I don't want the kids to think that we're taking them to Disney need to make a video exactly so i'm like i'm still trying to figure out how to find the person perfect fusion of like what our viewers want to watch and then something that we can authentically enjoy yeah so that's the struggle because some of it like we're like we're not willing to make that sacrifice exactly so we put our we put our family first but i yeah i like i hate routine this one says you actually hate doing social media oh man um i actually love this i really really love it certainly don't hate it either been loving making videos since i was 12 i mean i think that social media has been such a blessing like to our lives seriously oh yeah very very very grateful oh yeah and grateful to you guys because you're the reason we get to do this um you don't always agree with how much you share online oh i would disagree with that i feel like we're i feel like we're pretty aligned this wouldn't have lasted as long as it has if that was like a point of contention for us yeah that's not to say there's not a lot of like conversations about it totally but i feel like we both really respect it's like if I don't want to share it then yeah there's no pushback from you and then if you don't want to share it's no pushback from me the biggest shift we ever had with that was three wow that was we're coming up on three years ago Griffin was just a couple months old and I came to Abby and I was like oh yeah I was like babe I think we should stop showing our kids faces online and she's like she's like that seems a bit extreme like why like that kind of like we just had it our kid was a couple months old and I was like no I think we should I think it Like, I think we need to like really make sure we're taking maybe it's an extreme move. But I was like, let's make sure we're always putting our kids first. And you're like, all right. And then we just stopped showing Griffin's face. We'll show their profile. Sometimes we'll show the back of their heads mainly. But it's like we just don't want them to be like we're OK with us having a pair of social relationship with people. We don't want our kids having that. Yeah. Well, there's so many reasons for that one. Yeah. That's one of many reasons. Yeah. We could. Yeah. one of many many reasons but yeah that's a good call out like yeah you're like i don't feel comfortable i was like oh and then i was like oh yeah good child yeah and we were aligned it was just like it was like a very simple conversation aligned but other than that like there's never been anything that we needed to really find alignment in i mean we find we run videos by each other if there's something that we're like oh this is kind of personal to abby or personal to matt we'll be like hey how do you are you comfortable with this we don't need to we can cut this out of the video or even if we don't need to post this video i'm making something vulnerable i'm like hey double check here yeah this isn't too much exactly so i think that's really good because i trust you a lot yeah um this one says matt reads comments way longer than abby does i do i actually if you see people reply to you in the comments it's probably me um do you really it's mainly me that does the comments right on my instagram i reply to comments oh okay so if you do abby's instagram that's abby responding to comments on tiktok and youtube yeah if anything just says Abby then it's me yeah and then for Matt and Abby on TikTok and YouTube that's me talking this one says you've changed opinions just to avoid getting clipped out of context oh dang I would disagree with that I think I think that we still stay true to ourselves we might just be a bit careful sometimes with talking about certain topics just because we know how easy it is to clip something and how easy things can be taken out of context online also too when we've had videos go viral for the wrong reasons it usually was just because like i approved it and didn't run it by a female who would have just been like matt you're an idiot this is like the dumbest clip you could post females are way better at like hearing things right that i'm dumb let's be honest you're not dumb in certain areas you can agree with that come on yeah you can't i'm stupid no no i would use the word naive naive that's better that's a nice way of saying i haven't changed my opinion but i think we are more cautious about yeah we're way more careful yeah probably still not careful enough gosh dang it yeah we're talking about our sex life on the internet how stupid are we that was gosh thank you to heal for sponsoring this portion of today episode can you guys believe that we are already one month into 2026 that is really crazy and you guys it only going to keep speeding up and i know that a lot of us set some lofty goals for this year and now is not the time to jump off that train no no no now is the time to dig in even more and a very perfect solution to upgrade your morning routine is with Huel you guys I know that for me and in our household morning time is chaos and that is why we find ourselves reaching for Huel more often than not they actually make our morning routine so much smoother because they have these Huel Black Edition Ready to Drink drinks. 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If someone's just like leaving tons of hate comments, we'll block them it's like you're not welcome here we don't know someone in real life but yeah there's never been a mute or block in real life no no irl nah i feel like there was one point where i was like i might need to um block my mom if we're like talking about oh my gosh about sex yeah i don't my mom but honestly i think she just learned how to why is it i guess it's just your audience dictates what you say so much right because like if you're from if you're around your girlfriends or if you're a dude and you're on your your your bros you can talk about sex you can talk about things that are like appropriate in that context but you're not going to talk about the same things like with your grandma or your or your parents i'm gonna tell you no one is currently blocked that i know personally in real life maybe that's why it feels more comfortable with me like it hasn't been like not we don't talk about sex my parents but like it's been brought up and for my parents and it's not as weird because my parents actually had a talk with me when i was a kid to explain what that was we've also cracked in my parents have oh we've cracked into it with your parents yeah okay yeah but it makes your mom uncomfortable yeah it does so i try not to that much but she's just more um reserved no i would say just more polite she's more private that is that is exactly what it is okay matt thinks abby could run the entire business without him oh where did you get that impression this is crazy i think she's the more i i think she's the talent shut up i could not run this without you i'm like you know you know do you know what the first thing people say to me if they recognize me in public is oh my gosh hi where's your wife no they do not say that no people get a picture with me when i'm not with you they'll they'll be like can i get a picture with abby and i'm like oh she's not here i'm like your i'm like your sidekick no when i see people people are like you're matt and abby to me as an individual that's so funny that's so funny So I think it goes both ways, but I certainly could not do this by myself, and Matt knows it. He might not admit it. I couldn't do it without Abby. Stop. That's not true. We're a power couple. I love you. Couldn't do it without you, baby. Love you. This one says, since getting more public backlash, you are more cautious with what you say and how you appear, erring on the side of caution. I feel like we already answered that. You guys nailed that one. Nailed it. And if you think that we're doing things just to get people riled up, think again. Think again, partner. that it happens we're from Missouri honestly that is a reason why it's happened a couple times you're from Illinois you're like 10 minutes from Missouri though is where you're from yeah we're not from Chicago that would have helped yeah anyway our Missouri audience is not happy about that and Addie's our Missouri audience she's offended she's from Joplin being in the spotlight all the time is overwhelming and you wish you could take it back I'm in a comfortable place with it right like people recognize us it's fun it's cool but it's not like we like well we can still go to Disney World with our family and like enjoy it like I think it'd be it'd be really hard if you were a level of fame like Mr. Beast where you can't even like go somewhere without getting swarmed no we're not like when like when we ran into Mr. Beast at Disney he had like a whole entire squad with him which was totally acceptable. He could even walk out of the car. Yeah they were waiting for the area to be cleared to walk out of the car. They were waiting for me to get out of the way. Well because it's just a it's a liability like people people swarm in and then there's like I wouldn't like that at all. You could have like a freaking flash mob form so I think that's I feel very lucky that we're a level of fame to where it's not that. You've worried that being good examples leaves less room to be fully yourselves um I feel like I lean fully on the full yourself side rather than the good example side which I mean that we can have a different opinions on but I don't feel like I like my main I always want to like make sure that I'm showing up online as like a positive like a light being genuine yeah and being like hopeful like I want to always spread a message of hope and like Especially hope towards like marriage, family, women, like things like that. But I definitely err more on the side of being myself rather than necessarily a quote unquote good example. Also, I've been thinking about this. What do you think our mission statement should be as a podcast? Because I feel like because of what we are as a couple, like authentically, and what we started on YouTube as, I feel like our mission statement is that we're promoting positive, healthy relationships and families. Yeah, normal. I feel like that's it's as simple as that because I think we just we see the value we see the value in healthy relationships and healthy family dynamics and that's like what we're all about yeah I feel like that's great I think we should formulate something yeah uh revisit that but also I feel like a big part of our podcast too is like the fact that like some of the best things happen in unplanned circumstances that is really cool that's like yeah I feel like that I like that pop that quality about our podcast like it's kind of like spontaneous like it was unplanned that we started dating when we did like you it's kind of also can we talk about it's actually so cool i'm so happy for you i wish i selfishly wish i could switch places with you but you were like crushing on me before we started dating which is kind of sick like to get to marry your your like high school crush i wish i was you you wish you married your high school crush no i wish no i wish that i had been crushing on you the whole time because that would make it even more special for me yeah you know i won see i always get what i want you do i mean you're you're smart you're beautiful you're funny like who doesn't want to be around you stop you're nice i don't really know what you're going with that what do you mean oh you're wishing that you crushed on me yeah i wish like i would have had a crush on you at 14 and then got to marry you well i got what i wanted i'm the winner i mean i did fall head over heels you did my senior year of high school you got what you wanted i like was legitimately hyper fixated on you i'm so obsessed that's sweet yeah this one says you have a lot of help house cleaner baby slitter slash nanny yes and no i think i think what's what's funny for this one is like we do have help but then we use extra time to then like throw like invite our family over have parties at our house host events so there's like never a dull moment here but i think it's good like abby's constantly cooking for friends family hosting gatherings and so we do have house cleaners but they come every other week and then we pick up our house like they to vacuum and like clean the toilets and stuff deep clean it yeah they'll deep clean but we have to like organize pick up all that yeah i think that's typical but yeah we do have cleaners that come that's been super helpful i love that we do um we have child care part-time so we can work but yeah yeah but I mean I don't know the child care part-time is like significantly less time than they would be at like what is it four hours Monday through Friday that we have child care yeah so that's pretty like we're with our kids and they're also napping with work during that time yeah so it's like it's almost like we have child care for two hours I mean you the reason you do that the reason you have child care during their nap is because then it gives you more time with the kids because you get the mornings with them, afternoons, after you're done working and then the night. So, yeah, I mean, we do still have to work whether or not people like to recognize this as a job, which is fine. Yeah. I think it's nice having the support because then we can do more for other people like you're saying too. Yeah. And also like, I also don't want people to compare themselves to me. Like mom's watching this being like, oh my gosh, like she works and she cooks and she cleans and she's like, no, we do have help. So I don't want like, that's an unhealthy comparison if we're not honest about that so totally um yeah and we're really thankful to that and that doesn't diminish the fact that we also work really really hard yeah you miss life before kids and feel guilty about it you know I used to but I don't anymore I agree I actually did too early on like I loved my kids so much but I was just like how can I it was it's a big adjustment to make and it's like you love your kids so much but you're like there's a part of you that's like man I there's a lot of freedom I had before that I didn't that I don't have now and part of me was like in this like oh no I miss our single us now I'm like the opposite to where I'm like I want four children you know like I never Abby I seriously I said four when I was a kid and then we started having kids and I was like oh frick we are not having four kids and then after uh after everything that happened in the fall I am 110% four kids sweet so down for four I do think that if you're like early on like and you have a baby and you're thinking like you're feeling guilty about like missing that i just think you need to give it a little bit more time i really think that you will fully adjust and like now like i love like i fully love our life and like i don't miss i don't miss obviously i look back really fondly on aspects of our life before kids but i don't miss it no and so um there was a time though when i was missing it and you like just have to grieve that change but i also want to shout you out matt whenever we are around people with babies which is so funny because I feel like you say on this podcast all the time like I don't like the baby stage I love the baby whenever we're around people with babies you are the one holding their baby 95 of the time you love babies Matt I do or you're just amazingly good at them and you can't help it well I think I held our babies a ton you did like all like I would work while like wearing our kids and then I think I would just I'd be like oh like I don't know you can sometimes get into this like what did i do like we're i have no minutes to myself i'm either wearing a kid or changing a poopy diaper you know you're like an extremely active father when it comes to babies i feel like i hit i feel like i hit like a phase that a lot of like moms back in like the 40s hit where they're like this is so much like i feel like i hit that seriously but then i but then they got older and it got easier and i'm like i love this i want a million you're amazing like i'm like you love babies you're amazing with babies i do love babies and you're always i'm random people's babies hey next time we have a baby i'm really excited to hold that baby a lot you say that a lot that's really sweet okay so i just want to expose that about you like you're like saying one thing but you're like behind closed doors looks really differently i'm a secret i'm a secret baby lover guys i love babies you are like always holding them even people that we don't even know that well they're like do you want to hold you're like yeah and then you end up pulling their baby the whole time i'm good at it too i get them to stop crying because there's a special hold i'm pretty sure that griffin and augur both colic because i did the special hold i did it with griffin all the time babe because he would start screaming and it would get him to he did spit up a lot it would get him i think he had so much indigestion but it would get him to like relieve whatever gas or stuff was trapped and i would just hold him i can't even do that i can't physically do that oh my gosh this one we feel like we've talked about this so what is it you regret getting married so young nope best decision i wouldn't recommend it for everyone surely I would yeah I feel like if you're gonna send it you got to be 150 million percent in yeah I mean you have to commit you got to burn the ships homie unless it's like look like if you're this is dark but if you're like in like a not safe situation that's a different like if we're talking like no that's that's always assumed okay but yeah anyway we burnt the ships and we were like we're sending my best advice though if you actually are considering getting married young is surround yourself with other married people even if they're older because I think if you continue to have your same young and single friends that's gonna be a real that's gonna make your life a lot harder gosh i honestly want and we did that we surround ourselves with a lot of married couples i go back and forth on on this i wonder if i regret not marrying you sooner like i wonder if i yeah like i wonder if i wish we would have like eloped freshman year i loved my one year of living with my girlfriends i did too but it's like marriage is so good and yeah i don't know No. I think we would have been totally fine to get married a year earlier. I just did a boys trip with my buddies. We went snowboarding, surfing, and skateboarding all in the same day. Because you can surf now in Arizona at the surf park, which is in Mesa, Arizona. And then Flagstaff, Arizona has snowboarding. And we have a half-five in our backyard. Which I built. It was actually really cool. Man child. I still need to post the whole video. But anyway, where was I going with that? Oh, I love my college roommates because we do yearly boys trips. but I still I think I regret not marrying you sooner oh we would have been totally fine to marry each other oh my gosh yeah um okay next assumption Abby gets hit on now even more than before the kids and it messes with Matt's head there's two assumptions in there I love it um doesn't mess with my head I don't get hit on I hype her up when she gets hit on I think it's I'm like, yeah. Well, it actually makes me feel good because I'm like, yeah, my wife is really sexy and you are jealous. I don't get hit on. It's fine. I also don't think the people hitting on you probably weren't even looking to check if you had a wedding ring first. They just think you're hot and hit on you. I don't get hit on. You do sometimes. I can't think of one time. It's not like a weekly occurrence, but there's been times. It's funny. It's when you're pregnant. You look so pretty when you're pregnant and you've had people, you've had men hit on you when you're pregnant. I look like an ogre. You've had people hit on you pregnant. that was a really odd person that did that really odd person um no i don't get hit on there's two things you assume they're both wrong i look like an ogre um no i don't get hit on and it does not matt mess with matt's head matt is the least jealous partner honestly i wish you were more jealous really yes i really like i actually really don't care but you could be a little bit more jealous you're super hot you judge people who choose not to have children. No not at all No I if you don want kids gosh don have them because Yeah that would be a bad decision if you don want kids That would be a really sad reality for that child But I think I think if you in this situation though I think your brain eventually comes around and you're like, I love this, you know. Not for everyone. I guess not for everybody. Um, I think for me, it's not, it's just like I don't understand it because I have. I don't understand it either now. I can't remember a time when I didn't want to have kids. I can't, I never had a time where I didn't want kids. I think timing of kids, maybe a thing for me at one point. but like the i love i love it so yeah i don't understand that yeah i don't understand that honestly does not want to get it but i also like i can understand not wanting kids until you're like 35 or something or 30 or 40 or whatever depending on when you want to start having kids i can understand that um but yeah then not wanting them at all i don't know i don't get it but everybody's different yeah i i can fully understand that everyone works a little differently so okay this one says abby's parents still live with you y'all just never mentioned that again lol you want to address this one it's not that big of a deal they don't live with us we had a massive falling out no that's not true it was bad um just this space that we're in we're not on speaking terms i'm sorry we love my parents they live very close we see them basically every day our kids are super close with them kind of like you were with your grandparents yeah no we are super super close but we they don't live with us i can walk around naked in my own house now that's kind of that was actually really nice the first time i did that i was like i don't have to put on clothes to walk around in my own home outside my own bedroom like in my own you know that's just kind of cool there are different perks i will say that yeah totally but um yeah no we still have a great relationship we love them this place that we're filming in though would not be here if that was the case oh yeah same with our other studio yeah we uh our old studio like i said if you guys watch the youtube video we used to drive 45 minutes to the studio to record so it's nice having an at-home studio now yeah it's very convenient but we love them very much you guys are superstitious no not at all this is their evidence though what is it because we don't show our babies faces oh you i think i guess they think we're superstitious because we don't show our kids faces it's not superstition it's just you know having an extreme protection in for our kids just because we don't we don't understand the interwebs i don't even think it's extreme honestly yeah i oh here's the thing i don't want people to think that we like are out here judging everyone that shows their kids online oh yeah yeah like i that's every that's every family that's every parent's decision and you just have to assess what's best for you and your family and your make your own decisions yeah yeah um but no we're not superstitious i think we're very much not actually yeah not at all abby saves money matt likes to spend oh what do you think if we were to sway one direction that would probably be the direction really see i feel the opposite i think oh really okay so like when i think about money um i'm kind of a nerd when it comes to finances i almost got my degree in finance before i dropped out to focus on social media but um anyway got 15 credit hours left but still got in the alumni magazine from missouri state which is kind of a flex honestly where are you going with it anyway what i'm saying is i love i like reading books about money and what i've learned is you you okay like finance one personal finance 101 save more like uh you need to or spend less than what you make personal finance 101 spend less than what you make if you can't figure that out if you're if you're taking out debt for everything buying car a car buying you know student loans if you're taking debt up for everything it's going to f you over long term anyway long story short i like buying assets so assets could be real estate it could be etfs which are like a half pipe no no abby abby but seriously like the half pipe is not a fraction of what we've been what we invested last year so it's just like we we put money aside i'm not saying you're financially irresponsible you're more apt to spend money than me oh okay i guess i just look at i look at very very financially i look at percentages and i look at our revenue and then i'm like okay we're out we're giving away 10 of revenue to charity and we're giving away x amount of percentage to our employees because we have to pay them like they have to pay their bills right and health insurance is freaking expensive and so anyway so like we have all that and then it's like okay how much of this can i put aside for to build assets so that we can one day when we're like old have like money that just works for us while we're you know you're on a side road you spend more money fine and it's because you're involved with the money more than me so like for me i'm like i don't see it so we don't have it i will say four years ago was but i spent a lot more money on certain things like parties i felt guilty spend a lot more money on that we're uh one month from now probably when this episode's out we're coming up on when i put in the order for our tesla model y that felt i felt so guilty doing that you shouldn't because it felt i was like like we had the money cash to buy it but i was like this feels so it just felt like an extremely bougie purchase but i love i really love that i don't think we're talking about cars we're just talking about like random things like can we can i be honest with you like what's a random thing like my half pipe i'll just actually bring up one that we haven't even talked about privately what i show up there's some motorized miniature vehicle for our kids on the front door it's like a plasma so it's a plasma it's a plasma bike for a kid it was it's not a plasma it's motorized oh it's a motorized it's a motorized car for our kids to ride anyway griffin and auggie really wanted to ride this kid's like little car yeah and i looked up on amazon it was 200 bucks and i bought it for them well there you go I probably wouldn't have bought that. Oh, that's fair. Yeah. What, I love her. I like buying stuff for our kids. I know. No, I'm not saying it's bad. I'm just saying. I don't say, I don't, I wouldn't say that I spend. They need it, babe. I wouldn't say that I save money, but I would say you're more likely to spend money. You don't drink alcohol. False. We do on occasion. Yeah, sometimes. Yeah, not that often. I like it. Hey, we had a glass of wine together on Abby's birthday. I really like a glass of wine. That was fun. I really enjoyed having a glass of wine with you. on our honeymoon you guys abby and i oh we like champagne champagne makes me feel it's kind of crazy this was six months before you're 21 but i guess but we but i guess okay we're in mexico i guess we were in mexico the drinking age is lower i think the drinking age should be 18 in america hot take okay well that doesn't actually matter what you think because the law is the law abby is a great singer well you can be the judge let me sing a little bit oh say can you you see abby is a really great actress wait can i say this the acting school abby and i went to initially before we changed our majors and we both auditioned for we auditioned to get into the same we auditioned at a ton of schools we wanted to go to the school and you got in a lot more than me but you're the token i got weightless i got weight listed it's because i could dance i think that's why because a lot of these guys you're very talented i took dance no you're very i did a decade of dance but anyway uh these um this school yeah so abby was immediately told on the day that she auditioned for the acting program you're in like she's that good that they were like we want you i got waitlisted for acting you got in so many other programs i didn't get into so what matt's trying to say is i have other strengths singing not one of them and you know what i feel like acting is my weakness i feel like i suck at acting i took private voice lessons my parents paid money that they worked very hard for for me to learn how to sing and you know what some people just got it and some people just don't got it and i don't got it did you know i think my song on spotify hit three million streams which is actually kind of sick and matt's a great singer so thank you baby wait i actually sometimes feel insecure that matt would more into me if i could sing better babe it's at 2.95 well so we're only guys listen to it 5 000 times oh my gosh well oh it's actually you have to listen to it 45 000 times okay my math is so bad um but yeah 45 000 streams away from give me your worst the the wedding song that i wrote um from that hitting three millions thank you guys and i like right now is that 1.7 proud of you thanks baby i keep singing um you like it when fans say hi to you in airports i saw you guys at slc last year abby's so sweet oh that's nice that's really sweet thanks for saying hi yeah we do like it when you say hi we really like saying hi to everybody for real we like when you say hi to us in airports we like when you say hi to us um in public spaces the only thing we don't like is if you're like we are in a medical situation if you're like recording us or taking pictures of us without our permission that's that's what we don't like that feels a little uncomfy that feels uh like a breach of privacy that's not the only thing we don't like that we don't like it if we're in the hospital oh oh if we're like in the hospital and if you're a nurse and then you're like can i get a picture with you but then it's like is that a hip violation i don't know that did happen one time happened multiple times i don't i think if you're in a medical situation not maybe the time yeah especially to ask for a picture yeah and if anything but any other time we're very very grateful and very very very very very happy to say hi yeah i think that is a hip violation oh it certainly is yeah you know what hipaa only matters when it's in the favor of the hospital medical system it's so left up babe we gotta we gotta like start a movement to like oh that's overwhelming i have so much to do we need free health care in america i will join that movement i'm not gonna start it okay you are super social and don't like alone time i'm an ambivert so yes and no what about you i'm an ambivert i'm an ambivert not just how unique and special and cool super silly um i would say we leave more on the social side but we also like to be alone too you know what yeah actually i gotta be honest i don't like being alone i really like hanging out with you just kidding by the end of the day i do like to be alone is this weird i like taking a bath with you can i say that you can say that i like it i think it's romantic yeah wait you know what that's a great example of a time i like to be alone i'm just kidding the last one i thought of it because i was like wait that's the time that i like to be with you yeah it's sweet but you ate but i can respect when you want to be alone in the back you do and i like it when you're there too sometimes i like it no i i feel like we lean more on the social side but we also do enjoy our alone time yeah you guys are soulmates from previous lives i just don't believe in soulmates honestly wow you said that so fast i died but we both don't like i think that there's a hotter smarter funnier guy out there for for abby than me but we ended up together and like she's got she's got to deal with what she's got no stop saying that you're awesome love you and i don't know that i believe in soulmates or previous lives i don't know yeah it'd be kind of sick what if we what if i was like a tree in a previous life it'd be kind of dope i mean this podcast is going to end because of the new one oh absolutely not how would you say that this is my final episode what i'm retiring from unplanned no don't leave please my leave of absence no i'm taking a sabbatical just kidding i'm not this one is not gonna end sorry about that or you're welcome whatever your opinion is on this podcast an old school youtuber would title this episode like abby's leaving the pod like exclamation point exclamation point and then it's us like this and the thumbnail you can already market it do it do it if you want oh my god Put it in the thumbnail. Put it in the thumbnail. Put it in the caption. But then I feel like people just get so annoyed by that crap. It's like they click on it. No, they just know that it's not true. They know that I'm always here. Unless you're a 13-year-old girl. Oh, that was good. Go check out Always Here. New podcast every Friday, folks. Wait, I heard that that got cut out of the last episode. What? My plug for my new podcast. So I'm going to plug it right now. Yeah, plug it right now. Don't take it out. Hey, if you guys haven't gone and subscribed to Always Here on YouTube and left them a review on Apple Podcasts, you should do that right now. No, no, no. If you haven't even, first listen to it. Just give it a listen. I think you'll like it. If you like this podcast, I think that it offers something totally different than this podcast. It's very chatty, very girly, very silly. Very silly. So I think that it's just a great one to listen to if you're, you know, doing laundry, you're running the grocery store, you're in the car. It's just one of those. So it's like you can come to Unplanned for certain things and you come to Always Here for other things. And I think they really go hand in hand well. My only insecurity is that maybe I am running my mouth on the internet too much. Too many hours in the week. This is a comment. This is a review from Bree. It says, best podcast. I love this podcast so much. I look forward to listening every week. You leave feeling inspired and ready to take on life. Love how genuine y'all are. That's so sweet. From one week ago, five stars. And it's on Always Here. I hope you can hear me with humbleness when I say you'd really love it. I really do think that. I'm very proud of what we've done and I'm really thankful to my sister-in-laws and it's a really really fun thing to record so um check out always here it's on every podcast platform whatever platform you're listening to this on you can also find always here so um love for you to like join that community and listen to us weekly because it's a lot of fun and I'm really proud of it this is the last assumption I'm returning to the one that we didn't answer earlier because it just felt oh my gosh wait it just felt like too much too soon you know this is funny we can answer it though hold my hand you all have sex every day yes we do was that bad no it's not bad we love each other that's great we're married how do you think we have how do you guys think that we had two kids okay i think this happened how do you think your parents made you think about that for i don't think you have to have sex every day for that to happen i think you but um i think we both have high libidos and we're young and we want to keep making babies so we're doing it we're doing it fun to practice wow you answered that question very differently than what i thought you were to say what what did you think i was gonna say i thought i don't know i didn't know what you were to say really what did you i feel like you had an idea of what i would say about that question i don't know i don't know that's funny very honest very candid very very out there very I do think I do want to see a world where like sex isn't as taboo because I feel like I don't think it is man well so many some people make it their whole job well that's true we should have a sex expert on our podcast at some point that'd be interesting weren't we going to I'll just have to take my mouth shut I'll just I'll be there in the room and you'll be the one talking the whole time I think we just need to talk about it in general terms not like our own not our own sex life exactly I mean we've already divulged plenty yes there's plenty out there on the interwebs plenty out there well this was a great episode and I really do have to pee. So I'm going to tune out while Matt wraps this up. But I love you so much and I really hope you check out Always Here and I really hope you enjoyed this episode and I love you so much. Thank you guys for being here. We really appreciate you tuning in for another episode and we'll see you next week. Peace out, dudes.