I geotagged to capture a man *solo!*

Okay, the next one is mixed motifs. I don't even know what a f***ing motif was. I'm not an English major. Like, if someone was like, I'm wearing a mixed motif outfit, I would be like, shut the f*** up. Like, what does that even mean? I'd be like, all right, babe. What up, you little freaks? Okay, guys, I'm doing something really stupid right now. We have an emergency debrief situation. Hi, this is Halle from the streets of New York. Guys, I had every intention of staying in last night. fashion week and whatnot i feel like someone compared the february fashion week to like coachella weekend too and i couldn't get that out of my head all week it literally just felt like a lot of parties but just like why am i here kind of vibes the thing is with the week that is fashion week there's just like a lot of like comparison in a lot of like you know people want to go to like all the good shows and there's like it just feels very exclusive for no reason and like I feel like the brands just get super picky pickier each and every year like there's shows that I were that I was invited to last year that I wasn't invited to this year but that just like happens it is it is what it is it's fine I guess if you're like not getting your feelings hurt or whatever but like I just kind of felt annoyed the whole week but it is fine I just think it was just too much it was too much and I didn't want to do any of it and I told people I didn't want to do any of it but I still do it every year anyways enough about that what else happened to me last week I went to Shea Margot on Thursday night and they have DJs sometimes like we're like it's a ticketed event the tables like start at like 20k somehow we got ourselves on the list without having to spend money which is always the goal but there was obviously a lot a lot of like rich men there which I loved and I met a boy we fell in love but he's kind of really scaring me he's being too much he's French and it just I feel like Frenchmen kind of wear their hearts what's it called what's the saying they wear their hearts on their sleeves and it's just feeling a bit suffocating to me because that's not really my vibe i don't wear my heart on my sleeve at all like just coming off a little bit too strong it's giving like kind of desperate it's giving a lot he's very very sweet he sent me flowers the next day like a massive bouquet of beautiful flowers and it was just like a little bit much but i thought it was really sweet and kind of him he also sent me soup because i haven't been feeling well i've been dealing with a uti for two weeks now like and i was like okay utis are not something to be with like if that gets backed up into your kidneys it can be a real issue that's like a lot of old men that's how they die is from utis fun fact because once you're like kidneys are you're so i've been on antibiotics for the past week in i haven't been taking them probably like i should be there's probably like rules when it comes to antibiotics you're probably not supposed to like you know drink on them i stayed up for 48 hours one night this week and i just never went to sleep i like probably those things didn't mesh well with the antibiotics very good but alas i'm still standing here so yeah it's just been one of those weeks and now i go to miami tomorrow and then the bahamas this weekend for a brand trip which i'm actually really excited about because i feel like all i need is some vitamin d to like clear my head although it's technically a work trip it is just gonna be nice to get out of New York I just feel like a little bit New Yorked out right now and we need to take a break it's like a toxic relationship like I need just some space some time to like reflect and think and then I'll come back a better person for it but for now I just need a tan honestly that was like one of my ins for 2026 is to never be pale and I don't think I've ever been more pale in my whole entire life. Like I feel like you can see through me. I'm not even kidding. So hopefully like it'll be really nice weather there. I don't know what the Bahamas looks like this time of year, but I feel like it'll be nice and warm. I need a UV above an eight and I'll be happy. But I need to take a break from drinking this week because this week was just all too much. I bruises all over my body. And while we're on the topic of fashion week, I thought we'd just go over some of the best New York City Fashion Week trends that we saw this week. I feel like particularly street style stuff because I feel like that's a little bit more interesting. And I've been like trying to like make an effort this year to like be wearing real clothes when I go outside opposed to just wearing like sweats, which is what I want to be doing. But I'm just trying to be like a bit more intentional. So let's rate these outfits and let's go through them. The best New York City Fashion Week street style looks are a master class in winter dressing. Suede in overdrive. You know, I like suede. I like love the matching of suede. Suede's really expensive, actually. It's like the most expensive thing. I think it's more expensive than leather. During my birthday week, you know, my parents always come out here and we go shopping. We go to Bergdorf and Saks and we just like have a time uptown. and then we drink fartinis and it's like we do every year and it's amazing so we were shopping in burgdor if we went to the floor that has like the really high-end brands like miu miu and like all those other brands whatever so i picked out this like cute miu miu suede skirt and we didn't look at the price tag and that was a i've never had my dad like look at me and be like you need to go back and return that but he looked at me and said you need to go back and return it i never did but like he wanted me to it was like six grand or something for a fucking skirt it's ridiculous so i know suede's expensive and i like the matching of suede with like a brown boot this is how she's wearing it right here i'm not mad at it with a shirling collar that's really cute actually i like this outfit the modern girl fit a gray outfit in full monochrome continues to be the power move starting with a faux fur jacket styled over a simple charcoal turtleneck i've been wearing a lot of turtlenecks and sweaters this year i feel like this outfit in particular that she's wearing right now i hate honestly i also don't like ballet flats i know people are like really into that right now and it's like very quirky and energy and quirky but i don't like it at all like you're never gonna catch me in ballet flats i think and i don't know why you'd wearing like an open ankle with a ballet flat while there's like snow banks in the background that makes no sense at all to me but like no hate or no shade to her although i just completely threw a lot of shade and hate towards her but yeah this would be a no for me but i do like her pants i guess i'll give her that and like i love the turtleneck it's like very classy very chic but like still like accentuates the tits we like all those things okay the next one is mixed motifs i don't even know what a fucking motif was i'm not an english major what's a motif like a theme like if someone was like i'm wearing a mixed motif outfit i would be like shut the fuck up like what does that even mean i'd be like all right babe so fair isle and snakeskin two patterns you might not instantly think of mixing together. However, this showgoer proves that they can be worn in tandem, just keep to a similar color palette. Okay, I kind of get it, but that just sounds like a word salad to me. Just say you're not matching without saying it. That's kind of the vibe it's giving here. I do like this sweater, but I don't like long skirts. like bent straight leather long skirt like I don't think I would ever wear that it's cute it's chic but I would only wear this if like someone was styling me in it I don't know like I don't think I could I'm bad at like I have like a lot of good pieces it pieces but when I go shopping I kind of just like grab at things I really like that catch my eye but I'm bad at like looking at something and be like oh like i need that in my wardrobe about piecing things together in my head but i'm very impulsive and i'll just like buy it if i like it and see it in front of me and then i'll end up not wearing it ever but okay pops the texture winter outfitting is all about blending contrasting fabrics a seemingly neutral look feels fresh and alive where there are additional tactile elements here a faux fur here we go with the fucking faux again calf hair midi skirt and smooth leather boots result in a master class for layering while a pop of purple knitwear adds an element of surprise around the neck yeah i hate this outfit no offense to this chick but like i don't like the color purple really i don't like the skirt here these boots look like something shakespeare would probably wear and I don't like wearing colors that much I'm trying to be better about that because I wear a lot of neutral tones and like darker colors but I just feel like the purple is like a lot the faux jacket again I'm just not vibing with all right the next one is a cardigan as a jacket I do this a lot I honestly don't hate this as much as the last few we just looked at I don love the buttons It kind of giving uniform but I like her jeans It says, as temperatures start to slightly turn, except for in here, start thinking about transitional dressing. The Apri ski cardigan just bought for a cozy night by the fire is going to make the ideal outer place, outerwear piece atop black trouser pants. Yeah, I mean, I think that's cute. I've definitely worn a cardigan as a jacket. I think that's okay to do in like April. I think it's still way too fucking cold to be doing this now. I don't hate it. I'm not mad at it. I'm not mad at her. I think it's fine. I like the trouser pants. Another outfit I really don't like. I don't like animal prints though. Let me get into this one. This next trend is called the leopard topper. It says it's no secret animal prints are everywhere. And the leopard coat is the hero item of New York Fashion Week this season. i don't agree with that at all but okay play with it as a wardrobe neutral styling with a knit skirt set and camel for easy everyday wear add accessories for extra polish such as a mixed metal belt and knee-high leather boots um i mean the jacket's not terrible like i love a trench it's like the long fucking skirt that's throwing me off maybe it's because it's too like conservative, something I wouldn't really wear. But I don't really like wearing skirts. I wear like pants most of the time. I've been trying to be better about wearing more dresses, but like I would wear a dress over a skirt. I don't know. I don't love skirts, especially ones that make you look like, I don't know. The long skirt just like kind of reminds me of like Catholic school. And I don't like that. It's like PTSD almost. I mean, so far reading through this article, I really, maybe I'm completely missing the mark here but I haven't agreed with much that I've seen here and I feel bad even saying that but that's just my honest truth and I have to be true to myself on here let's go to the next one maybe we can redeem ourselves but okay utility standards start working utility like what does that mean working utility like a corporate job what does utility mean is that like what does working utility mean Marshall it kind of feels utility kind of feels like you work in like a factory why would why would I want to dress like I worked in a factory no yeah it's like I could get on board with the utility pant but I the utility jacket seems like you're working like on an oil break yeah like i don't nothing about my alpha wants to scream manual labor like i don't subscribe to that i don't hate it it's kind of even barber jacket but like more like not like i don't know so a big trend blah blah blah it adds an element of downtown cool a top wardrobe staple such as a black trouser pant we're with the fucking black trouser pant in leather ankle boots the cozy triangle scarf tiger print handbag ensures this one truly stands out with on tread finishes oh my god that sounds like a word like i don't maybe i just like okay i don't want my outfit to scream like i just came from work i don't know maybe that's me but i don't want to be screaming manual labor and that's just a personal preference the faux fur in denim formula all right this one's cute but like maybe they have to say faux for the article but i just feel like faux kind of looks cheap this doesn't look like a faux fur jacket though it looks like real fur yeah i feel like this is like giving elevated but like also like effortless in a way like it's so easy to just like throw in a pant get your nice little product baguette bag and like put on a cute fur coat like i did that saturday when i went to brunch like it's an easy outfit it doesn't take much time and you look like dressed up it's cute okay i approve of that high implant oh i read i was a freudian slipped um high impact leather what all right leather is always a sleek choice but rendered in burgundy i do like the color burgundy for this season i feel like it's been popping a streamlined coat becomes the focal point while printed boots and tactile accessories like a leather scarf and gloves inject personality without overwhelming the look i get what they were trying to do here but i don't like the finishes of this jacket to be honest and what is this leather scarf i'm confused like I don't like the hidden buttons it's not horrible but it's just like not something I would pick out all right the next one's caped and draped okay I like a cape I feel like capes are in it's like a scarf coat it offsets the dramatic proportion with slouchy denim and muted accessories to let the silhouette shine without feeling overworked Yeah, I feel like this is cool. I'm into this. It's easy to throw in, like, a nice pair of denim pants. And, yeah, it's chic. I feel like Lauren wears a lot of capes. I feel like that's how I know it's chic. The oversized bomber effect is the next one. I actually do love an oversized bomber. This is more my style. And I feel like it's just, like, good for the winter. Like, I think the oversized look is very New York. It's very cool girl. It's very like chic. And I feel like you can find different ways to like add personality to it. I don't, anyone that can pull off anything oversized is doing something correct in my opinion, but that's just me. Okay, what's next? The ladylike leather. I'm into this a whole lot of it. Head to toe leather can read ladylike when you pair separates like a collarless jacket and a full midi skirt. Here we go with the midi skirt. I feel like midi skirts would only work if they were leather though. Like I feel like that would be the only situation where I'd be like, all right, that would be a really cool look. Yeah, but leather on leather, I feel like it's very like feminine, but also like kind of like sexy, like dominatrix vibes. So I think it's hot. I think it's a good vibe. Kind of feel like I just clocked every single one of those outfits. Hopefully bizarre doesn't like come from my neck. All right, that was fun. I feel like I was kind of harsh, but you know, fashion is subjective. And that's okay. I wasn't clocking anyone that was wearing the clothes. I was just clocking the outfits. But like maybe I need to get on, like I need to fix my, I don't know. I feel like as long as you feel confident, it works for you, you know? All right, next segment. Last episode or a couple episodes ago, I did a sipper spill kind of like segment where I was kind of exposing myself in my life. And I thought that was really fun and it was received pretty well. So I thought we'd just like get into that again. So like if I don't want to answer it, I'll just sip, I guess. I wish I had a martini, but a Diet Coke will be sufficient enough. Okay. What's the most embarrassing thing you've done to get a guy's attention? I don't really have to work that hard to get guys' attention. I feel like I just, like, I'm just, like, kind of loud and, like, in their faces about... And I don't really get embarrassed by it. Like, if he... I don't know. I just I think the embarrassing part is really having to work that hard for it, which we've all been there. But I don't know the most embarrassing thing I've done. I post on my story like where I am when I like want to get a guy's attention, depending on what city I'm in. It's like if Miami, I like the first thing I do when I land is like geotag that Miami. And I'll hope like Joe Schmo text me about, oh, my God, let's link up later. Usually works, honestly, but I don't even know if I would call that embarrassing. I just feel like that's just part of girlhood at the end of the day. Have you ever faked being chill about something that actually ruined your week? All the time. All the time. But, like, as I've gotten older, I've, like, lost patience. So, like, faking chill is just a lot more energy than to just, like, have, like, a freak out. And, like, I'd rather just freak out, I guess. It's more fun. Like, yeah, I guess, like, when you're, like, in a situation with a guy. And he does something, as he probably will. You want to pretend like you're coy about it and then it's like not that big of a deal. But obviously, you know, you got to play cool sometimes. It's just how you play the game, I guess. Let's take a very exciting commercial break to talk about our flirty friend, Tinder. 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It starts with a Swipe, download Tinder today. Have you ever checked a man following list before going out with him I always check a man following list before I even follow them back Just because if they follow certain people it a red flag to me Those people are usually like... You can just tell if someone's a clout chaser based off of who they follow. So if they follow Graydon and Alex and Paige, I'm like, okay, so like, what are this man's intentions? Like you follow like everyone I know and work with. I just feel like to me, that's a red flag, but like, I don't know. You know what I mean? Does that make sense? Am I making sense over here? Okay. So what's the longest you've gone without sex in the last five years? Like sex sex, like oral sex, anything. Sex sex, I think I've gone like nine months, eight months in the past year, six months. between six to eight months, which I feel like is like a long time for me. I feel like people just based off the way I talk, especially on the show or on TikTok, I think people think I'm getting railed like every day. I'm not. I go through phases where we all have like a dry spell. Although I hooked up with someone this weekend, but like I'm not in a dry spell right now. Usually during the winter, I go through a dry spell. Last summer was a dry spell. It just ebbs and flows, but I think six to eight months, that's okay. It's not bad, but it's not great. Have you ever doubled back to someone you swore off? I do that literally every week. I do that all the time. I mean, it happens to the best of us. I feel like those are like the most famous last words. Like, I'm never going to see you again, fuck you. And then you're like with them the following night. Like I do that all the time. but i don't feel really that bad about that have you ever compared a guy's performances in bed to another guy's have you ever compared a guy's performances in bed to another guy parentheses to him question mark yeah i have but like they probably are doing the same to me so but like comparison is the thief of joy so i try to just really lock him in the moment and ignore it like act like he's the only guy i've ever gone with ever but it's hard not to compare especially if you are trying to get over someone that you like having sex with and then you hook up with another guy and he has a micro penis and it's like a whole thing so yeah i've done that before when was the last time you hate stalk someone why i guess i'll sip i don't like love to hate stalk people some people like follow people just to like hate them which i'm sure in a lot of cases people do that with me but like if i hate someone or i hate seeing someone pop up my free page i don't want to see them so i block them or mute them like some people get a rise out of hate stalking people i like get annoyed with the person on my screen i feel like i'm giving them like engagement and screen time so i try not to do it there's definitely people have like stock being like this bitch is fucking crazy maybe ash trevino i don't hate her but like i'm just like in awe of her do you guys know what that is ash trevino it's like watching a car accident like you can't look away. It's so entertaining though. But like, is she probably a bad person? Yeah. She should be in jail. But like, entertaining as fuck. I guess I'm cool with answering Ashabina. She won't come for me. What makes you feel instantly competitive? I don't know. I'm not a super competitive person. This will unfold in a few weeks after that secret project that I did. in Park City, you can tell like I'm just kind of like lackadaisical. Is that a word? Yeah, lackadaisical. And I kind of just like lollygag and I'm like, I don't really like to exert myself and my energy and I get like, you know, like I'm not super competitive. I was never a competitive sport player growing up either. So I don't really have that instilled in me. But I could say men make me pretty competitive like if there's like two girls if there's other girls interested in one guy I feel like I was recently in the situation where like you're kind of just like fighting over that person's attention which you don't want to be in a position where you're doing that but like it happens sometimes and it like is annoying but I don't know I'm trying to think what else makes me feel competitive I'm very competitive with myself like I always am trying to like level up in some sort of way and I'm hard on myself when I don't so I guess you know that's a competitive side of me but like with other people not so much have you ever pretended not to know who someone was when you absolutely did yeah I do this with most celebrities I meet not to like knock them down a notch just because it's just like I feel like it's kind of like not rude but like when you're meeting someone like I feel like the polite thing to do is like introduce yourself and ask their name like that's a normal human interaction and I feel like a lot of celebrities kind of crave that out of people instead of just like getting fangirls like I would I'm never gonna like fangirl anyone maybe like say like I love their work but I would never like really toot their horn that much maybe that's I don't know I'm just like I wouldn't want to be I don't know I'm just like cautious of overstepping in that way so I just treat everyone the same which I think is a good thing what's something you think you deserve that you haven't gotten yet like a like a plane like when's someone gonna get me a plane I want a plane or like a nice bag, you know, respect, love. These are all things I think I deserve. Maybe not today. I don't feel that well today, but like in general, in the grand scheme of things, a plain respect, love, and gifts, period. Do you believe woman can propose to men? No. I hate to like, I know that's like a very, I don't want to even say it's trendy. I've only seen a couple people do it. And whenever I see it, I'm like, this is really fucking weird. That's just my opinion, though. Like, do whatever the fuck you want. I don't really actually give a shit what you do in your own house. But, like, no. This is, like, one of the things where I feel like we should keep it. I don't even. No, I'm just going to go with no. That's just my opinion, though. how much money do you spend on a night out in new york city the goal is none and just to gather a bunch of men and buy me drinks and food but if i'm going out to dinner with my girlfriends i'll it depends like if we're ordering nice wine like i went out to dinner the other night with my friend dylan and we got two nice bottles of wine i think i paid like 1200 bucks at dinner it was like a whole thing but I try not to do that that much I just it just happens sometimes when I get excited but an average night I don't know like 100 200 bucks maybe if there's no hot men around what's a brand deal you'd kill to get it's a good question I really want to work with Uggs I feel like Uggs is like a cool one for some reason I've been so hyper fixated on Uggs for like a hot minute now. I wear a lot of Uggs and I think they're cozy and chic so I would love to work with them. I feel like it'd be like a seamless brand partnership. So Uggs if you're watching like hit me up please. But I think Uggs would be a good one to work with. What's something you've deleted offline because you were scared of the reaction? I don't really delete things because I'm scared of a reaction. I usually delete things after I get a negative reaction which happens to me often although sometimes i don't really care like i've gotten in a lot of trouble before for you know things i've said and i post about it and i've doubled down on it and gotten completely canceled for it so you know and i i never deleted that video i just kept it up because you know that was just my opinion at the time so it just really depends what kind of mood i'm in but I don't think I like I'm pretty bold when it comes to what I post online and like what I say so I just get a little nervous if I'm getting a big general negative reaction and I still have time to delete something and then I'll delete it but for the most part I feel like I don't do that name someone you've muted on your Instagram you have muted on your Instagram right now I have any, any guy I've ever hooked up with is muted on Instagram. It's weird though, because I have every guy that I've hooked up with muted on Instagram, but they're also all my close friends because I want to make sure they're watching my shit. It's kind of brilliant if you ask me, but yeah every guy i've ever gone with and some like new york city influencers just yeah i don't know but i'm not gonna name those people i'd rather not get my head chopped off by them okay next would you rather fall in love with a broke creative or a boring millionaire I don't know, probably the bro creative, because we can like I don know this is like I rather fucking put a gun in my mouth It just sounds like I rather be single Because I don even think I would like a creative broke guy either But boring millionaire? And I couldn't cheat on him with a broke creative? I don't know. There's definitely a loophole in here somewhere. okay would you rather would you rather your ex write a tell-all about your you or your best friend i mean probably me it'd be really interesting new york's bestseller i feel like it'd be a great tell-all to write about you know our antics but i don't know why would he write about my best friend that would be kind of mean what does he have against my best friend like what would he say about me that was that bad and who's to say anyone would read it like what if he's a shitty writer like i don't think my either of maxes like can really string a sentence together so i don't know that's an interesting one okay next open your instagram search history and read the first three names that pop up No, I'm good on that. I'll sip my Diet Coke. Show a video or photo in your drafts that you were too scared to actually post. I post everything. I post too much. I have one draft and it is just me absolutely devouring a selfie. But I think I put this in a dump. I don't even know why it's draft to be honest. Delete draft. Have you ever paid for one of the apps that tracks who unfollows you? Yeah, in college I would do this. But so many people unfollow me now. It's just like, why even do that to myself? It's self-inflicting pain. But I would love, you know how on TikTok you can see if it says follow back or follow? I wish you would get notified when people you follow unfollow you. You know what I mean? And like, I wish there was like a friend's folder. But usually I look, I'm like an avid looker to see if people still follow me. But I don't know. What's the shortest amount of time you've waited after a breakup to sleep with someone else? Six hours, I guess. Maybe less. I don't know. I'm like pretty bad about like going through breakups because I feel like I'm like, i immediately try to distract myself with someone else which is like you know putting a band-aid on like an open wound and just like doesn't really do anything and you just feel like more shit the next day but i've definitely felt i've definitely fell victim to hooking up with someone pretty quickly but that's okay if you had to cut one person out of your inner circle for 250 000 who would it be i'm not answering that i don't even know how i would answer that we'll sit that would be crazy for me to answer i don't even know if i have an answer to that because like I wouldn't cut anyone out. I have to do a lot more than 200K. But okay, that was really fun. I don't think I sip much, but I definitely expose myself. But you win some, you lose some. Next, let's do a quick segment of Q&A before we wrap the episode. And I like these because it's something new every time we do it so all right let's start with this queen okay this isn't for the pod but you should really try the app field having the time of my life hot sexual daddies of all shapes and sizes and net worths okay um hot single daddies that kind of sounds like seeking arrangements but i'm gonna have to look into that because who doesn't love a hot daddy all shapes and sizes and net worths that's beautiful and poetic um i'll look into it i'm like so scared to go on dating apps like that now like do they even vet these guys like when i did seeking arrangements back in the day when i thought i was getting kicked out of my house and taken out of the will um because i threw a house party and she threw up all over the carpet um the men definitely were predators like some of them like just like really sketchy those kind of apps i never went on any dates but i once sent feet pics for like 500 bucks that was a quick cash grab but but I'll look into it I'll look into it okay next how do you regain confidence now lost it's a good question it's a deep question I feel like confidence just kind of ebbs and flows I mean I go through phases where I'm super confident and then like the next week I'll be super it's really seasonal for me I get really bad seasonal depression and then I kind of spiral which I feel like I'm in the middle of right now and it all depends how pale I am like the UV like there's a lot of things that go into confidence for me specifically but I feel like if a good you got it like a good bead on and a good outfit on that's a quick and easy way to like boost your confidence a little bit I also like you know go through Raya see who I've matched with that also kind of strokes my ego but the confidence thing i feel like it's kind of a person-to-person thing but those be my quick fixes sun moon rising i'm a double libra wait let me look at my co-star i'm a libra i've also recently really gotten into this i'm a libra virgo virgo libro wait whoa whoa my son's in Libra, my moon's in Virgo, and my ascendant is in Libra, which is kind of interesting. I don't really know much about Virgo, though. I'm a Virgo. It says your moon is in Virgo, meaning your emotional self is analytical, responsible, and pacifying a bundle of nerves you struggle with a need to be pure that may come out in self-sacrificing or nitpicking tendencies okay that came for me um yeah i mean astrology is so crazy like i don't really know i was kind of skeptical about it for a while but like after i downloaded co-star and i like read all of it it like is really interesting like it's interesting stuff okay next is it bad at this point i don't even know my body count i mean it's over 50 under 100 same and that's okay i do keep track though in the notes app and i don't know recently i just stopped keeping track because i just i don't i don't want to know also like what if i get hacked one day and like it's just like my whole list in there it's like a burn buck some of these people on here if I pass them in the street like I say this all the time if I pass some of these guys in my notes app on the street I wouldn't be able to like pick them out in a lineup which is really scary and but like that was college I was a nutcase in college um no the answer is I don't think that's bad but like I'm the one telling you that so I don't even know what that means how do you feel about having sex with friends i mean mentally i think if you can like handle it then it's fine if you're like very clear about your boundaries but you know once like you get sex involved it can be like kind of confusing you like have like the pillow talk and like the feeling this can get there but if it's just pure sex and then friendship then that sounds like a great relationship honestly but do i i do this probably more than i'd like to admit but like for some reason recently i feel like emotionally i've been just like so closed off i can make i feel like i'm okay with just like having very casual no strings things at this point in my life right now which is i don't know if that's good or bad because i feel like i should be going in the other direction of wanting to find something more serious, but I feel like if anything, I want the least serious things ever. What do I do? I hooked up with two roommates by accident. Sounds like you're just in college having fun. I've done this. There was this hall called Davidson in my college back in the day. And there was a guy that had a room in the basement level, And then there was a guy that had a room in the second floor. And I remember I used to like bounce between those two rooms. And they were like in the same frat and everything. And it took like the months to find out about each other. But they did. But I think it's okay. I mean, who fucking cares? Like they're probably doing it. So not that big of a deal. Okay, guys, as always, I love you all. And I will see you next week. you can watch me on youtube you're not doing that listen to me on any other platform like comment subscribe tell your friends etc i appreciate you all and i will see you next week love ya