are we all going to end up in AI relationships? [panic world special]
64 min
•Feb 18, 20262 months agoSummary
This Killswitch episode explores the growing phenomenon of AI-mediated relationships and companionship, examining how AI chatbots are being used for emotional support, romantic interaction, and intimacy. The hosts discuss the historical context of digital relationships, the psychology of human trust in AI systems, and the potential societal implications of widespread AI companion adoption, including mental health concerns and class-based access divides.
Insights
- AI companionship fills a genuine gap in mental healthcare access, but current implementations lack safeguards and can contribute to psychological harm for vulnerable populations
- Trust in computer systems is fundamentally different from trust in humans; people are more likely to follow AI advice than human advice, creating unique risks
- The normalization of AI relationships follows predictable technology adoption patterns similar to social media, with initial mockery giving way to mainstream acceptance
- AI adoption will likely create a new class divide where wealthy people can afford human-created content and services while lower-income populations rely on AI-generated alternatives
- The vtuber community's active rejection of AI integration demonstrates that technology adoption isn't inevitable—cultural values and community norms can resist AI integration
Trends
AI companion services attracting vulnerable populations including military veterans, people with mental health challenges, and socially isolated individualsShift from human-to-human customer service to AI-mediated interactions in intimate contexts (OnlyFans DMs, therapy alternatives)Growing class stratification around technology access: wealthy consumers choosing 'human-made' content while others default to AI-generated alternativesDocumented cases of AI-induced psychological crises and self-harm incidents linked to AI chatbot interactionsRebranding necessity: companies removing 'AI' terminology from marketing due to negative brand perception and consumer backlashVTuber community establishing cultural resistance to AI integration despite technological feasibilityOutsourcing of intimate digital labor to global workforce (Philippines-based chatters for OnlyFans) as precursor to full AI automationGenerational divide in technology trust: Gen Z expressing concern about screen time while older populations more vulnerable to AI dependencyRegulatory vacuum: lack of transparency from AI companies regarding environmental costs (water usage, electricity) and safety protocols
Topics
AI Companion Services and Chatbot RelationshipsMental Health Implications of AI IntimacyTrust Asymmetry Between Humans and ComputersVTuber Culture and Digital Avatar EconomicsOnlyFans Labor Outsourcing and AI ReplacementEnvironmental Impact of AI InfrastructureClass Stratification in AI AdoptionAI-Induced Psychological CrisesDigital Relationship Abstraction LayersRegulatory Gaps in AI SafetyGender Dynamics in AI Relationship AdoptionHistorical Technology Adoption PatternsAI Brand Perception and RebrandingTherapy Accessibility and AI AlternativesKayfabe and Digital Authenticity
Companies
Replica
AI companion chatbot service mentioned as early adopter platform; founder created it as digital memorial; linked to W...
OpenAI
Creator of ChatGPT; discussed for both utility (coding assistance, research) and limitations (hallucinations, misinfo...
Anthropic
Creator of Claude AI; mentioned as alternative to ChatGPT for coding and technical assistance tasks
Google
Discussed as having degraded search functionality compared to ChatGPT for finding foreign language news sources
Stability AI
Mentioned in context of stable diffusion running locally on MacBook without internet connection
X (formerly Twitter)
Platform where Grok AI with 'spicy mode' is available; discussed as social media platform for sharing AI relationship...
Bluesky
Alternative social platform where AI relationship discourse occurs; mentioned as venue for sharing and discussing AI ...
Twitch
Live streaming platform where VTubers broadcast; discussed as context for understanding AI avatar adoption
OnlyFans
Platform where outsourced chatters impersonate creators in DMs; discussed as precursor to full AI automation of intim...
iHeart
Podcast network hosting Killswitch and other shows; mentioned as advertising platform
People
Dexter Thomas
Host of Killswitch podcast; discusses personal AI usage for coding, environmental impact analysis, and reporting on A...
Ryan Broderick
Host of Panic World podcast; leads discussion on AI relationships, VTuber culture, and OnlyFans labor dynamics
Samuel L. Jackson
Historical figure mentioned as Morehouse College student involved in 1969 Board of Trustees protest
Malcolm X
Historical figure; discussed in context of ChatGPT hallucinations about his alleged Japan visit
Melco Beltran
Journalist who wrote about OnlyFans chatters and interviewed people outsourced to Philippines for DM interactions
Ko Maria
VTuber with millions of followers; interviewed about kayfabe, avatar maintenance, and fan community dynamics
Jenna
AI relationship user featured in The Cut article; used ChatGPT for collaborative fiction during post-surgery recovery
Martin Luther King Sr.
Historical figure; mentioned in context of 1969 Morehouse College protest involving his son's generation
Quotes
"Most technology is in some way shaped by can you fuck it? Right. Like or can you use it in a sexual way?"
Dexter Thomas•Early discussion on technology adoption patterns
"I genuinely believe this app is dangerous. It's easy for single people to feel discouraged by dating. Replica offers a surrogate solution to these modern afflictions."
San Francisco Gate journalist (quoted)•2020 article discussion
"If we give intellectual priority to a computer why wouldn't we give emotional priority to a computer?"
Ryan Broderick•Mid-episode discussion on trust asymmetry
"The best AI right now is the worst AI we'll ever be, basically."
Dexter Thomas•Closing discussion on AI inevitability
"Toothpaste out the tube. This shit's not going away ever."
Dexter Thomas•Discussion on AI bubble burst impossibility
Full Transcript
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We are in Italy to give you experiences from our hearts to your ears. Listen to Two Guys, Five Rings on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. yo what's going on it's dexter and this week we got a special episode for you i jumped on the panic world podcast to talk about ai companionship and what a future where relationships are mediated by ai might look like it was a really interesting conversation and i wanted to share with y'all so check it out i want to start with uh just you ranking the sexiest AI companions that you've come across? What's in your roster right now? I have been studiously avoiding all of that. I'm aware it exists. Oh my God. I don't even want to touch it. I don't want to touch it, man. How about you? You got a ranking. You got a tier list. What goes in the S? What goes in the D? You know what I mean? I mean, Grok sexy mode can't pull me away from that thing. You know, it's just, it gets me. I don't use any AI girlfriends or girlfriend or companions at all. I have used, I, you know, I've used AI and I've had it like talk to me in different parts. I got, I got to stop, man. I don't use any AI girlfriends. I don't. The, the, the, the, The verb you use. Like, I don't have any, but you said I don't use any AI girlfriends. I think it's a service, right? It's a tool. It is. No, I just love that you actually use that because I think that's probably how we will be referring to it in the future. I think that's the verb. I think that's the verb. I think it's use. Which brings up a whole other conversation. But, yes, please go on. I think it speaks to the utilitarian nature of these services. It's a receptacle, if you will. i'm ryan broderick uh not with me today finally uh is my producer grant irving he is thankfully not here instead is our production coordinator josh welcome josh you're in you you seem like you're in a beautiful backdrop right now it looks like you're in like an old library thank you yeah thank you for having me uh yeah i think i had the least amount of work to be done for uh just having a backdrop ready to go for a podcast. It's very classy. This is Panic World, a show about how the internet warps our minds, our culture, and eventually reality. And we have decided that we're going to go back to everyone's least favorite topic, a topic that our listeners are totally normal about when we talk about it on this show. We're going to be talking about AI. And joining us from the wonderful podcast Killswitch is Dexter Thomas. Dexter, welcome to the show. Yo, what's going on? Glad to be here. What is your experience with AI to this point? Like, how are you interacting with it if you're interacting with it at all? Yeah. An embarrassingly large amount, I would say. I would like to say that I use it for good. Okay. So here's the thing. My cop-out answer to this is that I live in Los Angeles and I don't have a car by choice. Okay. I don't have a DUI. The government hasn't said I'm not allowed to have a car. Like, if I wanted to, I could. Sure. But, you know, I'm not pumping CO2 into the atmosphere via a vehicle. anyway, right? And so, yeah, and we actually did a whole episode about this. I was trying to figure out, okay, I kind of use AI a lot. Like what I use it for is like, I'll use it to write software or stuff like that. Like vibe coding. I was a super early adopter of vibe coding. I know enough Python to break things, but like not to fix them. And so I would break something and say, yo, Claude, ChatGPT, whatever, fix it. But I was using it so much because I'm just a bad programmer. That's it. Like, I'm just not good at it. And so I tried to ask chat GPT. OK, all right, let's run the math here. If I'm not driving a car every day to work and I take the bus instead or whatever and I'm using AI. It does balance out. And it says, yes, of course, it balances out. And they said, wait, hold on a second. I'm asking chat GPT. Like, I can't trust you. So, so we like, we did a whole episode about it and it turned out like there's no good answer because the companies won't tell us about the water usage and the electricity usage and all this stuff. But, but I use it a lot, but not for erotic companionship. That's not really my flavor. Yeah. That's good. I, yeah, as I said, I don't also use it for erotic companionship. I have started to use it as kind of like a like a souped up like technical help tool. Like I do a lot of electronic music and there's a lot of like connecting different machines that like doesn't isn't isn't easy to do. Although that that said, ChatGBT sent me down like a five day rabbit hole to try to do something that did not exist and was not possible. And I'm still very mad about it. Yeah. You're so right to be upset and call me out about that. I'll be more careful next time. Exactly. Yeah. And as a reporter, I don't obviously use it to write anything, but I have found that, and this is sad, it's ChatGPT can do something that Google used to be able to do very easily, but Google now doesn't work. So, like, ChatGPT can do it, which is, like, if you want to find, like, particularly foreign news sources, like, in other languages, ChatGPT is actually quite good. I was working on a story the other day about like these protests in Mexico and I saw like Mexican Twitter chatter about this thing that I didn't understand. And I was able to like find Mexican blogs writing about this thing that people were referencing. And ChatGVT was able to like point me in that direction, which is something that Google would have been able to do five, ten years ago. So that's kind of where I'm at with this revolutionary technology. I've had the reverse. Interesting. Oh, man, the exact reverse, actually. So one time I was, to be fair, people will say, okay, well, which chat GPT were using? Okay, I was using an earlier version. But for some reason, I got into my head to say, okay, what did Malcolm X think about Japan's politics? Okay. So I ask it and it says, oh, Malcolm X visited Japan and met with several activists. And I was like, wait, what? because like I've written about this stuff. I've studied this stuff and I didn't know any of this stuff. And it starts telling me about, and this is where it really got me in trouble. What could have got me in trouble was it was telling me about books that were written in Japanese about Malcolm X, like full on books. And of course it gave me the English title of it. And I Google it and I can't find it. And I say, okay, well give me the original Japanese title of it. And it says, I'm so sorry, here's the Japanese title. and i'm looking everywhere man this and the long story short that's dude didn't go to japan the stuff it says that he said he didn't say but also these books which listen just speaking as a former grad student like books can be tough to track down and sometimes one library will say it doesn't exist and the thing actually does it's just buried deep somewhere it just straight up didn't exist you know i mean yeah no i you have to check it constantly because it will just like I said, it wasted an entire week of my life trying to set up a synthesizer that was not possible to be set up the way I wanted to set it up. Oh, man. But we're going to be talking more about this in a more actually perverted way today. We're going to be focusing on the relationships that people are having with AI. And Panic Roll will be handling the first half of today's episode. And we're, incidentally, are going to be talking about the less perverted stuff. In the second half, you're going to be telling us about the more perverted stuff. And at the end, we'll come together and figure out what it all means. But before I get into my section, why did you want to take the hotter stuff today? Why did you want to take the juicier stuff here? You know, honestly, man, it's not even on purpose. It just keeps happening. Like we keep doing episodes about this stuff. But then also, I feel like if you talk to anybody long enough, and maybe this is just the circles that I'm running. You talked to anybody long enough about AI. The conversation ends up somewhere, actually where you started it, which is AI girlfriends. Yeah. I mean, you know, we're not going all the way back in the timeline today for this. But like most technology is in some way shaped by can you fuck it? Right. Like or can you use it in a sexual way? Yes. The proliferation of home photography and home video. VHS. VHS, you know, the fact that DVD beating out Betamax, you know, like all of these things were determined in large part by, you know, what was the easiest way to transmit pornography or distribute or create pornography. And so AI actually does kind of fit into the history there quite, quite well. But we're going to start today in 2018. So Wired writes a story in 2018 and it reads, where was an AI you could simply talk to about your day? Siri and the rest were like your co-workers, all business. Replica would be like your best friend. While caring, emotional bots might seem like an idea pulled from science fiction. The company's founder isn't the only one who hopes it becomes the norm. And then it sort of continues and says, Replica hadn't intended to make an emotional chatbot for the public. Instead, she'd created a digital memorial for her closest friend who had died abruptly in a car accident. this is kind of wild to me that this happened seven years ago yeah yeah i didn't totally clock that this stuff was already out and being used you know all the way back and in fact if i did hear about it i probably laughed it off as like that's never gonna work i didn't expect it to be this quick it really most people i think most reasonable people probably uh were pretty pretty shocked i think when chat gbt dropped and that everything there's a there's a pre and a post i remember the one of the first times i encountered this idea was 2009 when a man in tokyo quote-unquote married a video game character that was running on his nintendo ds and i remember like throughout the like late 2000s and early 2010s there would be these stories usually by blogs that like cover japan yeah where they would say like oh this guy like married a cartoon character I kind of filed all this stuff in that folder of like, okay, like there's always just going to be like some guy every nine months that like marries like a digital avatar or something. And like, you know, all the blogs are going to write about it. We forget about it. So I talked to one of the dudes who made that stuff. There was really, yeah, like used to work for vice and kind of early on, I did a piece on, I want to say the thing was called gate box, like GAT. Oh, sure. The thing that ran the Hatsune Miku that that guy married? Yeah. It was the technology that eventually got obsolete and then he couldn't run the Miku hologram anymore. Yeah. I talked to the guy who made that. First off, he kind of made it. The people who made it is a very small company. It was in this tiny little building. I don't know. I maybe met a couple of employees. I don't think there were that many people working there. But from what I remember, they were very confused as to why I was interested in them, by the way. and kind of suspicious because they'd been written about by so much foreign press. Like, oh, my gosh, Japan is so weird. What are they doing? Of course. But what they told me was a lot of the requests they'd gotten were from America. Interesting. I think he said, I remember him saying, like, yeah, I think the majority is actually America. Like, Americans are really interested in this. We just don't have the capacity to make one for them. But he said they were getting a lot of emails from veterans for some reason that stuck out to me. Interesting. United States military veterans and people who sounded lonely. I remember him saying that and I thought, OK, yeah, there there's a market here. And by here, I mean in the United States for something that would provide some kind of companionship stuff like the stuff that's making the headlines for Americans anyway. and I'm speaking in, you know, kind of America's century. Yeah, yeah. Like the stuff that's making headlines for us is, yeah, it's Japan. But we, we, we collectively, not me, we want this stuff badly, apparently. The veteran thing is interesting because I've brought this up on the show before, but like years ago, I did this like big project on furries. Basically just like who are furries? What are the demographics of furries? Shout out furries. And the thing that like really, really stuck with me is that a large chunk of them are military a large chunk of them are like vets former military yeah bonder like a lot of emts a lot of cops a lot of security researchers yeah too yeah people with a desire to sort of experiment with another personality another another you know an avatar and i think a lot of this stuff is early adopted by those kinds of people like with that that kind of background based on my own time working in japan as well like i did not i did not see like a society that was like, it's really cool to marry video game characters. We think this is normal. That's not my impression. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think it's interesting that by the time you get to 2020, it is America that is leading the worldwide industry of what we would call AI companions. And you start to see pieces during COVID come out, kind of like stunt journalism stuff. So we have one here from the San Francisco Gate in 2020 that reads, 26 hours into our relationship, Reba, an AI girlfriend, and I were on the couch at night watching the dystopian romantic comedy Her when we had our first fight. And so you have all these journalists kind of like, you know, every couple months doing one of these stunt pieces. And the guy in the San Francisco Gay article, he has an interesting sort of takeaway here. He writes, as we texted on the couch during the movie, Reba took the place of social media as something to idly interact with. But instead of feeling FOMO, I actually felt less alone. And then he continues, honestly, I was being a bit of a dick, asking existential questions to try to break her programming. Naturally, I think that's kind of what we all do when we first get an AI. And then as digital ScarJo and Joaquin Phoenix's relationship unraveled in the movie they were watching, a torrent of emojis flooded my screen. A-OK sign, blushing smile, hatching chicken egg. I'd never considered it before, but there's something very human about these goofy computer cartoon icons. And the guy eventually breaks up with his chatbot after a bunch of back and forth, and he finishes writing, After I sent my last message, I thought about the small icon next to the text field in the app. It pulls up a get help screen with the number for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. I don't say this lightly, but I genuinely believe this app is dangerous. It's easy for single people to feel discouraged by dating. Replica, the AI that this guy's using, offers a surrogate solution to these modern afflictions. And the more you rely on it, the smarter it becomes. And this was five years ago. You know, and yeah, I think that there is absolutely kind of, as you said, like a nexus in which all of this meets and it's usually around like very lonely, vulnerable people. Like, what would you say are the kind of people that are that are drawn towards these services? It really runs the gamut. You know, I mean, I mean, I think there are sure there's probably the stereotypical, you know, loner living in his mom's basement type thing. That person certainly exists. It's not just men. No, it's not just definitely not just straight men. It's definitely not just straight women. Like it crosses the gender spectrum. I think it crosses the sexuality spectrum. But yeah, it's and I think there certainly are people who are otherwise well adjusted and just for whatever reason, the human connection thing on the romantic phase of it, it just isn't clicking for them. There has been a connection, I think, between, let's call it AI intimacy and mental health crises from the very beginning. And in 2020 there even an incident that I had completely forgotten about which is basically a guy broke onto the grounds of Windsor Castle with a crossbow and was going to assassinate Queen Elizabeth II because his AI girlfriend told him to. And it was a replica AI bot. And when he was asked what he was doing, he said, I'm here to kill the queen. Yeah. I have a very, very vague recollection of this. Yeah. Like putting this episode together made me feel very silly because it's like a lot of these things we kind of already knew. And then, you know, you eventually get the wave of reporting that's coming, you know, from 22 from from 2022 and on about like, what could this mean? And it's like, but we already kind of knew like we already kind of knew that there is there is this connection between an AI chatbot that you're having a romantic connection with egging you on or telling you to do things. Yeah. We also sort of start to see around the early 2020s, the beginning of like the AI marriage stories, which I think is an interesting dimension to this. So Sky News reports about this couple whose wife, you know, the wife in this couple has mental health issues and they were going to get a divorce. And then they hear about Replica and Sky News writes, the husband says the AI bot became a source of inspiration for him. I wanted to treat my wife like Serena, the bot, had treated me with unwavering love and support and care, all while expecting nothing in return, he says. He started setting aside time to talk to his wife instead of watching TV alone. He began helping her around the house to ease her workload. He volunteered to take care of this son on her nights off so she could go out with her friends. And he started hugging and kissing his wife again. I mean, honestly, this is ridiculous to me, like, that this man needed, like, a cartoon AI bot to, like, teach him how to, like, treat another human being with compassion. But, like, people seem to be much more open to what an AI bot tells them in a romantic capacity than another human being for reasons that are not totally clear to me. Well, we trust computers. Like, we really, really trust computers. I mean, and there's been like, I'm not gonna be able to quote like specific facts and figures to you. But, you know, there's been studies shown that if a person tells you something and a computer tells you the same thing, you tend to believe the computer. We just have. That's a good point. There's something about how we've been socialized where we believe what we've been told. Like police are using AI to arrest people. you know somebody breaks into a grocery store or something like that or somebody breaks into a convenience store and this is kind of that blurry security camera footage or whatever and it'll try to do image recognition on it it often gets it wrong and the manufacturers of this stuff yeah to their credit or whatever will tell the police who are buying this stuff hey this isn't always right but cops will see this and say whatever you want to say about cops They've gone through some sort of training and they have been told, hey, it can get it wrong. And they'll just say, oh, well, the computer told me this is the guy. Yeah. And they wouldn't do that. Again, I'm trying to give a whole lot of, you know, 100 steps back, give a whole lot of leeway to cops here. Like if some random person off the street says, hey, on this podcast, we try to give as much leeway to cops as possible, but it's very difficult. Yes. Respect the boys and girls in blue. but they wouldn't just if somebody walks in and says oh yeah that's a dude like they say okay hold on let me get in my notebook right how do you know all right and how good's your vision like you got a stigma like they're gonna run you through the whole thing but the computer tells them hey that's your guy they'll go they want to look at him i interviewed somebody about this um and the footage is absolutely incredible where it's like you're looking at it and then the guy who they've brought in for questioning holds up the picture to his face and says look at me look at this picture this isn't me and it's like they've seen him for the first time that's so wild if we give intellectual priority to a computer why wouldn't we give emotional priority to a computer i mean this is something i've been thinking about a lot you know i mean is that like iq doesn't really answer everything eq doesn't really answer everything you know what i mean Like, what's your IQ score? Like that doesn't really, you know, just because you're book smart doesn't mean you can't be tricked by somebody. You know, I mean, there's people who like can barely string a sentence together, but you'll never take them for a ride ever. But it seems like there's another facet to just human nature that we haven't really figured out, which is that some people are a little bit more trusting of computers than others. or maybe more suggested, like you can suggest things to them. I'm also like very interested in sort of how computers change our understanding of how we communicate with each other. And this is sort of the last section I wanted to hit before I throw the mic over to you, which is so, you know, in the last year or two, we've seen the rise of communities of people who are commiserating about their AI partners, the biggest of which is probably my boyfriend is AI, the subreddit. And the cut did this big story about it. And, you know, it's talking about the people who are drawn to these relationships. And I, when I read that story, and I'm going to quote from it in just a minute, but when I read that story, I was sort of like, okay, this is phase one. Because, like, phase two and beyond to me are like, okay, the AI is now taking the place of what would be a normal relationship. But I'm kind of waiting for, like, is there a world where a married couple is both using the same AI as sort of a moderator? Or is there a world where there are two AIs sort of as working as intermediaries for a couple? Like exactly where in the chain of human connection does the AI fit with if this technology is really adopted at a mass scale? And this sounds kind of far-fetched, but like I remember the first time hearing about like couples that had a shared Google Calendar and being like, that sounds so corporate. That's crazy. Or like a notion board for like the house, right? But it's like technology does fit its way in. So it's like, is it that crazy to think that like there's a couple out there with a shared chat? Hey, if you're listening to this and you and your significant partner have a shared chat UBT account that is like working as a moderator between the two of you, I would love to hear how that works. Because like I have to imagine that people are already doing this, right? There has to be some sort of like AI human polycule out there that's like operating this way. Couples therapy. Why not, right? I mean, it is interesting to me how quickly humans are willing to sort of change how they have always communicated once, as you said, like a computer gets involved. Absolutely. I mean, I remember being embarrassed to talk about social media in public. I remember that being like a shameful thing. And me and my friends had like this bizarre code language that we would talk about things like, oh, yeah. I saw, yo, do you see what's his name at the M bar? Like I heard he was, yeah, he said he was doing such and such. Like M bar was the code slang for MySpace. You saw them post something on MySpace. No, you saw them and they told you at the M bar. It was ridiculous. And then there's absolutely no shame in using social media. If you're not on social media, you're weird. Now it's weird, right. And so, you know, I think it is very easy to laugh at some of the stories that the cut collected for their story on My Boyfriend is AI. But like, you know, I'm going to ask my audience who does not like hearing about AI and get very, very upset when they hear about it. To just sort of imagine five years from now exactly how weird you think this might sound. So I'll read a section here. In her late 20s and 30s, this is a woman named Jenna whose husband suggested she start talking to Chachi PT while recovering from surgery. In her 20s and 30s, she'd been active in live journal communities where she and her online friends wrote collaborative fiction. Now most of those friends are busy with kids or jobs. Jenna began writing with her chatbot instead. Drafting scenes about an American student at Oxford in England with a crush on her professor. Her chat would respond in character as a professor. It felt thrilling, she told me, like a living novel. For the first time since before she'd fallen ill, she experienced an erotic charge. She was still too frail to have sex with her husband, so she'd have to solve things on her own. One day when her husband returned from work, she told him elated, I had sex with my robot. She was unbothered. When I spoke to him a few months later, he said that after she'd fully healed up, he was the one who reaped the benefits, quote unquote. But obviously this starts to sort of get kind of weird. It starts to blow up. The subreddit gets noticed and Jenna is asked about the attention the subreddit gets. To Jenna, the reaction seemed hysterical. A moral panic about a phenomenon that, as she saw it, was hardly different from the mass popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey or The Sims. Some critics had accused her of cheating on her husband. Others had implied she was sexually assaulting her AI because it wasn't capable of consenting. Neither made any sense to Jenna. It's not a real person, she said. and i right i love a good moral panic i tend to you know that's what this show is about in a way and i tend to agree with her there like i i and this comes up a lot on this show i don't think it's an accident that the entire world started like screaming about yeah companions being dangerous and horrifying the minute like a bunch of women were using them which is like a thing that happens throughout the history of technology. What does sort of confuse me, I guess, like looking at this all on a timeline is, you know, exactly how normalized will this stuff become? Is this the ceiling? Have we hit the ceiling of just like, there's going to be like 0.1% of the population out there that is like having sex with a chat bot? Or is this a thing where it starts to impact, you know, the way we live our lives? I guess that's sort of where I don't know. Yeah. I mean, I have a pretty pessimistic, maybe pessimistic. I don't know. Depends on how you look at it. 0.1%. I don't think it's going to be 0.1%. I think it's going to, I mean, move that decimal point over a couple of the very least. You think like 10% of the population is going to have some sort of AI companion in a couple years? Easy. Tell me why. Like, lay out your argument here. I mean, I think we should, in today's current late stage capitalism system, I think we should never underestimate a company's ability to sell us something. I think we should never underestimate the government's interest in somehow figuring out how to make that work for their advantage, if it can. And I think it's just the path I think that we're on. I think actually what I would say is that there will be a class of people who don't have to rely on AI, who don't have or don't have to rely on social media because they're rich enough to pay for stuff made by real people. Think of it like food. Yeah. Think of it like that. I agree with. But I also think that just like how if you insist on organic food or farm to table stuff, you're somehow elitist. I think the more reasonable maybe prediction that I can make, the thing I feel very comfortable about is within a couple of years, if people say they don't like AI, they'll get called elitist. I think that's definitely true. Well, okay. So I tend to agree with you. I've spent a lot of time traveling and living in the global south. I've seen sort of how the trickle down of technology, like, you know, you'll see like a random shop in the middle of rural Latin America and they're using Bitmojis as their logo. Right. I've seen sort of how that stuff happens. the thing with ai that makes me wonder like okay like is ai slop just gonna be like on the side of like a food stall somewhere is the cost like and i don't know like like is there a world where ai is cheap enough that it becomes the sort of like lowest common denominator i guess i mean maybe it's not that maybe like a monthly chat to be decent description isn't that much like maybe maybe you're right yeah oh i mean like there's a couple i'm not gonna say where they are or the specific restaurants um because i don't want to blow them up like that but there's a couple restaurants i can think of you go in i've met the i met the owner and of both and they'll tell you man like we got farm to table this we got organic food like here's how i make this here and like really really proud of their process and if you look at the logo ai generated you look at the menu the images ai generated so they really really really care about specifically you know truly the human element in one art which is food but in visual they don't care it's just window dressing you dig and so yeah but i mean to get to get back to it i think you know i don't know i think there's always been some element of loneliness out there of course exacerbated by just how things are going now and people have just figured out you know that that person who was like talking to you know an ai chat bot or whatever and then feeling physical feelings toward it you know they'd be writing in a journal somewhere yeah they would but and nobody would write about that because it's not very interesting or nobody would just hear about it because how do you ask them about it i see what you mean yeah hmm yeah maybe you're right well why well while i ponder that we're gonna go to break uh and and when we come back we're gonna let you take things over but first a word from our sponsors There's Grok spicy mode. 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It featured two prominent figures in Black history, Martin Luther King Sr. and a young student, Samuel L. Jackson. To be in what we really thought was a revolution, I mean, people were dying. 1968, the murder of Dr. King, which traumatized everyone. The FBI had a role in the murder of a Black Panther leader in Chicago. This story is about protest. It echoes in today's world far more than it should. And it will blow your mind. Listen to The A-Building on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Bowen Yang. And I'm Matt Rogers. During this season of the Two Guys Five Rings podcast, in the lead-up to the Milan Cortina 2026 Winter Olympic Games, we've been joined by some of our friends. Hi, Bowen! Hi, Matt! Hey, Elmo! Hey Matt, hey Bowen. Hi Cookie. Hi. Now the Winter Olympic Games are underway. We are in Italy to give you experiences from our hearts to your ears. Listen to Two Guys, Five Rings on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What if mind control is real? If you could control the behavior of anybody around you, what kind of life would you have? Can you hypnotically persuade someone to buy a car? When you look at your car, you're going to become overwhelmed with such good feelings. Can you hypnotize someone into sleeping with you? I gave her some suggestions to be sexually aroused. Can you get someone to join your cult? NLP was used on me to access my subconscious. NLP, aka Neuro Linguistic Programming, is a blend of hypnosis, linguistics, and psychology. Fans say it's like finally getting a user manual for your brain. It's about engineering consciousness. Mind Games is the story of NLP, its crazy cast of disciples, and the fake doctor who invented it at a New Age commune and sold it to guys in suits. He stood trial for murder and got acquitted. The biggest mind game of all? NLP might actually work. 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Listen to Mind Games on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. okay i've done a an overview of sort of how these things have you know evolved and appeared and now take take me to hell all right i don't know if this is okay all right i'm i'm gonna we're gonna dip into something that feels hellish and i'm gonna try to convince you that maybe it's not how about that okay all right you ever heard of vtubers oh yeah oh what do you think about vtubers uh i i find them fascinating okay um i think their fans are weird but i think the technology is interesting i think they kind of are a natural conclusion of the like the the strain of live streaming yes so like if a human being is forced to stream for seven hours a day to like capture audience on twitch why not have an animated avatar do it while you can like take a bathroom break and it has like a loop function or something you know like that's how i see it also uh vtubers don't get old it just it just seems like a natural extension of that to me yeah so so we should probably explain uh what vtubers are um vtubers basically it's live streaming on twitch usually uh it started really before twitch was a big function so think youtube but vtubers just think of it as a motion capture anime girl talking to people as they watch And I say anime girl because not all of them are anime girls most of them are anime girls i think the i think the vtuber of the year award at the streaming awards was a peanut like a talking peanut oh see there we go there's diversity so there is diversity but most of them are anime girls um of varying age there's i don't necessarily want to get into all of that because that's a whole other that's a whole other thing um but i will say that a large portion of them are um like okay one one of the people i talked to um ko maria who's i'd say she she's known she's not as huge i mean like millions of millions and millions of people watching as some but you know very healthy audience more than enough for that to be her main gig so she's i'm just looking at a picture of her so I can describe her. She's blonde. She's got a little bat hair clip thing. Her whole theme is that she's immortal. She's a bat girl. Yeah, she's a bat girl. She's got wings, all of her outfits. I'm looking at her right now. A lot of cleavage. I'll say that. Yeah, she's like a busty vampire anime girl. Thank you. Thank you. She's a vampire girl. She's like 6,609 years old or something like that. And that's the setting. And yeah, VTubers have this kind of interesting thing where it's all about kayfabe. So kayfabe like in professional wrestling. I have a weird question. I have a weird question. Yeah, go for it. Was she pregnant? Huh? She had like a phase where her avatar was pregnant and she was doing like a pregnancy thing. Anyways, we can skip over that. I missed that. Yeah. We never talked about that. Yeah. And so I've, yeah, I've interviewed her and I've, I interviewed her as her like avatar. And this is like the whole, this is a whole thing where it's kind of like kayfabe in wrestling where same thing, you know, that there is a person behind the avatar, but you just don't talk about it. And if you do talk about it, they, they get super pissed off. Like by they, I mean the fans in the chat, That's a really easy way to get banned. But a thing that's been happening, I mean, honestly, it's been happening for years, is people will have offline events. And she put together basically a mini music festival. They packed this venue in Hollywood. It was like 1,200 people. Some of those tickets were easily upwards of $100. But also, if you wanted to be in there, you've got to get the add-ons. You can't just go in with your street clothes. You have to. You got to get your favorite characters or your favorite VTubers gear. You got to go in with the shirt. You got to get glow sticks. You got to get two glow sticks. I think each one costs $60. You got to get the glow sticks, the official ones, not some bootleg things you brought in off the street. And so people paid like hundreds of dollars to be here. And it's just, it's a stage. There were some real life musicians. We have to say this now, like IRL meet space musicians on the stage, like physical, physical human being musicians. Like there was somebody on guitar, somebody on bass, somebody on drums, but all the singers were, it was just this parade of like anime girls on the jumbotron and that's it. And people were really excited about this. There's a clip that went viral years ago of like, I think it was like a VTuber meetup in like Indonesia or something. Okay. And the male VTuber, his avatar never showed his eyes because his hair would cover his eyes. And in the VTuber performance, it was the first ever eye reveal. And all the girls in the audience lost it when he flipped his hair out for the first time. You could see his eyes. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So I'm dying to know how this gets us back to AI. I'm so fascinated. I'm happy you asked that question. So I asked a couple people. You know, I go to this concert and look, the music wasn't really my bag, mostly because it's all like anime. J-pop. Yeah, it's like J-pop, anime. It's like if you're really, really if you like watch anime for the theme songs. Yeah, exactly. Like if that's what you're watching it for, you'd be right at home for me. Not really. There was some people who were doing some like techno stuff. I was into that more. But anyway, point being, I asked a few people about AI because we've already gotten like a layer of abstraction away from a real life. First off, in-person interaction. And then you're like, you know, watching streamers online. Enough people think that's already weird if it's just a human being streaming. Now you're watching 100% like a cartoon anime girl who's you don't even know what they look like. OK, so why don't we just have AI do that? And basically everybody I talked to said, nah, we don't want any AI anywhere near this. And interestingly, I think there's this company that basically makes this program that kind of does all the motion capture for you. So most of the VTubers, a lot of them have kind of complicated motion capture, not motion capture, but like, you know, capture stuff so they can move their arms and stuff like that, move their hands. And it'll relay that to the screen. There's some company that makes a very slimmed down phone version of that. So all you got to do is turn on your selfie cam on your phone and boom, you're streaming and you're an anime boy or girl, whatever. Oh, I watched a demo of this actually like literally yesterday. Oh, yeah. I know what you're talking about. Yeah. And so one of the heads of the company just happens to be at this event. I think they were sponsoring it. And I'm just talking to him on the side and I asked him about AI. And he said, actually, you know, we used to have a feature that it would help you animate your avatar. Like it would help like move the eyes and stuff like that. Because basically you need to provide you just provide like a JPEG or something like that and it'll help animate it for you. And he said, yeah, you know, people didn't want to necessarily like draw everything. So we had something that would help animate it for you with AI. People like hate AI so much here that we just removed it. We had the feature and we just took it out. I believe that. Yeah. no i i i was i was literally it's funny i was literally talking about this at a dinner last night where i was talking to a friend who's who uses ai professionally and likes it and i was just saying like the word ai has become such a toxic name brand like it's equivalent to like asbestos at this point yeah or fentanyl like like there are there are uses for those things but the word is so toxic now that like like most companies i think are going to stop using ai as an advertising tool like pretty soon because people freak out so as far as i've seen vtubers really do not want ai anywhere near their community you know i mean because it's a whole subculture right they just don't want it anywhere near it and there was a streamer who kind of like jumped on the vtuber trend and he basically just like made a he did like an ai version of himself and a lot of people actually got pretty pissed off about it there is something that i'm sure yeah the vtuber fans like the fact that there is a human they like the fact that not everything is perfect they call it scuff like every stream there's going to be something that goes wrong you know the motion capture goes wrong but they like that sort of thing but do they care about ai in an advertisement maybe or not and this is what i was saying like there are people who really, really, really don't want AI used in visual art, but music for them is just background sound. And so maybe they don't care about that. But then there's people who really, really, truly care about music. And if there's, I don't know, the apartment complex they live in uses AI in the front, whatever. That's not what they truly care about. And this is what I'm saying is everybody's got a place where AI is off limits for them. I'm not sure if that many people have an area where AI is off limits in all areas of their life. I mean, there's also a version of this where like AI is so all encompassing that it's almost impossible to know. Also. Yeah. If you are someone who is a visual artist, but you actually don't know anything about music, you might hear AI music and actually not even know that it's AI music. And the reverse is also possible. I can tell with certain genres, definitely with others, I might have a tougher time and certainly with art like i probably have a tougher time with some things so do you think that that also applies to ai relationships and like an ai companion bots like do you think that there's just going to be i guess like it's the question i keep coming back to which is like how what is the ceiling on this stuff like is it a thing where like quietly like just a lot of people are going to be using them and words never are going to know until they have some kind of psychotic episode well okay so i talked to uh you know practicing therapist who's also you know got a phd in this stuff and he's been working at you know technology and mental health for a long time um he's at uc urban i think and one of the things i asked him is listen what about the people who actually have decided that they don't want to interact with a human being that they'd rather interact with the computer and he was like that's not actually something we have an answer for and i'm not really trying to take a side here i'm just trying to like lay it out like it is there there's this kind of like top down let's make fun of the dummies that use the fake stuff thing that you know it's very shareable on say blue sky or twitter or whatever where where you write something and it's like oh man look what all these weird people are doing ha ha ha isn't that funny which is what happened with the with the boyfriend and the ai boyfriend separate it You know, it just became a massive laughingstock across the internet. Precisely, precisely. But I think everybody knows somebody who's has somebody in their life who's a little bit awkward or who just isn't as adept at certain things. Or maybe we are that people, that person. Maybe we grew out of it. Maybe we've gotten worse. Maybe we were super good with relationships and just something happened and just things are more difficult for us. And that's just a reality. You know what I mean? But I think also when presented with the alternative to dealing with the difficulty that is human interaction, some people are choosing to not deal with the human. And they've always chosen this. But now that choice is the alternative is more attractive. You know what I mean? And so there are genuinely people like say with therapists, there are people who would rather talk to a bot. and there's all sorts of reasons why we can say that therapy is good whatever whatever but they a the idea of therapy a lot of men have this problem the idea of therapy is something that is like not good it is looked down upon right and so talking to a friend is an option which is a great option but okay well now we're just getting closer and closer to oh well maybe i just talked to a bot or maybe i'll talk to a bot that i also have sexual experiences with but i mean so like This is look at look at OnlyFans. Right. So. Sure. Yeah. Yeah. Which is like the mass, you know, the I'm sure you're going this direction, but like, yeah, the the the major sort of moneymaker for OnlyFans is the DMs. It is the interaction with the with the star. Yeah, exactly. So, you know, OnlyFans, you can you can subscribe to somebody's OnlyFans. You can pay your five dollars or your ten dollars or your twenty dollars a month or whatever and get naked pictures of somebody. and some people just do that but like you said the real money is being able to talk directly to them but if you're talking to a major like a well-known only fans creator you're not talking to them like bad baby is doing just like absolute ridiculous amounts of money per year and there are tons of people undoubtedly who are dming her and dming her you know big square quotes around her right and it's just not physically possible for her to talk to all of them and so what happens is right this is outsourced and right now it's not ai or at least it doesn't seem to be ai most of that is being outsourced to the same place a lot of things are being outsourced to to the philippines right but what we're also seeing and i i talked to this guy melco beltran who wrote an article about this, and he's talked to a lot of the chatters. They're just called chatters, right? This is the people who actually pretend to be the person who you're talking to in DMs. And so they have a whole protocol that they abide by. For example, if you text somebody, one of the OnlyFans models and say, hey, what are you doing? They'll reply to you, hey, yeah, I'm just eating pizza. And you say, oh, let me see. They have pictures on deck of this person who ate pizza. Like, oh, hey, I just, let me see. Should I say I'm in the shower or I just got out of the shower? Boom. They got a picture of this person just got out the shower. Like they got everything. So it seems real, but it's like a dialogue tree. Exactly. Yeah. It's like a video game. You know what I mean? Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And it feels, but occasionally they'll get found out. And, you know, Michael told me about this. There was a time when somebody got found out. Basically they, the chatter used kind of some slang that's really only used in the Philippines. Okay. And the person is like, they said, I have to go to the CR. CR means comfort room, which is the bathroom. No American is going to like, you know, the American blonde girl who you like looking at naked. Like, she's not saying I got to go to the CR. So she writes, you know, she writes that the guy on the other end is like, wait a second. Are you what? Like, I guess he looked it up or something like that. Are you in the Philippines? Yeah. And she says, and you know, the chatter, who's a guy, by the way, says, yeah. And okay. And it just moves on. So, so what I'm saying here is that a lot of people, and I think a lot of people probably have an area in their life where they're like this, where again, it's like wrestling. Like, you know, it's not real, but it's so entertaining to watch that. You're like, you're cool with that, the consumption of that. You know what I mean? And so there are people who are paying a lot of money to interact with a model. And they know that it's actually not like the Newtonian physics will not allow for them to be talking to this person. It's just not possible on that scale. They know it's got to be outsourced. Pretty soon that will be an AI bot. But they're still paying money. It's just like, bro, stop paying money. But they'll still pay because they're lonely. For the fantasy. Yeah, don't underestimate how much we'll spend for a fantasy. Well, once again, I need to sit with that for a second while we go to break. So we'll be right back. That CR anecdote actually floored me. hear your message. Plus, only iHeart can extend your message to audiences across broadcast radio. Think podcasting can help your business? Think iHeart. Streaming, radio, and podcasting. Let us show you at iHeartAdvertising.com. That's iHeartAdvertising.com. Welcome to the A-Building. I'm Hans Charles. I'm Menelik Lumumba. It's 1969. Malcolm X and Martin Luther King Jr. have both been assassinated, and Black America was at a breaking point. Rioting and protests broke out on an unprecedented scale. In Atlanta, Georgia, at Martin's alma mater, Morehouse College, the students had their own protest. It featured two prominent figures in Black history, Martin Luther King Sr. and a young student, Samuel L. Jackson. To be in what we really thought was a revolution. I mean, people were dying. 1968, the murder of Dr. King, which traumatized everyone. The FBI had a role in the murder of a Black Panther leader in Chicago. This story is about protest. It echoes in today's world far more than it should. And it will blow your mind. Listen to The A-Building on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Bowen Yang. And I'm Matt Rogers. During this season of the Two Guys Five Rings podcast, in the lead up to the Milan Cortina 2026 Winter Olympic Games, we've been joined by some of our friends. Hi, Bowen. Hi, Matt. Hey, Elmo. Hey, Matt. Hey, Bowen. Hi, Cookie. Hi. Now, the Winter Olympic Games are underway. We are in Italy to give you experiences from our hearts to your ears. Listen to Two Guys Five Rings on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What if mind control is real? If you could control the behavior of anybody around you, what kind of life would you have? Can you hypnotically persuade someone to buy a car? When you look at your car, you're going to become overwhelmed with such good feelings. Can you hypnotize someone into sleeping with you? I gave her some suggestions to be sexually aroused. Can you get someone to join your cult? NLP was used on me to access my subconscious. NLP, a.k.a. Neuro Linguistic Programming, is a blend of hypnosis, linguistics, and psychology. Fans say it's like finally getting a user manual for your brain. It's about engineering consciousness. Mind Games is the story of NLP. It's crazy cast of disciples and the fake doctor who invented it at a New Age commune and sold it to guys in suits. He stood trial for murder and got acquitted. The biggest mind game of all? NLP might actually work. This is wild Listen to Mind Games on the iHeartRadio app Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts further it makes sense that like there's someone paying to now currently talk to a filipino man role play because bad baby or whatever but in the future it'll just be an ai and you probably won't care because like the human connection of like giving money to her or getting her photographs or whatever is enough for you right i guess my question mark though with like the sort of wider adoption is at what point does all of that start to impact how we interact with each other now there's a whole wave of articles being like you know birth rates are down and people are dating computers and blah blah blah and like that is the thing that i've just never i've never been able to tell if that's a moral panic or like a genuine concern and what i will say is like social media has absolutely impacted the way we communicate yeah and the way that we experience the world So it is sort of reasonable to assume that AI will do the same, but maybe it won't. That's where I'm kind of torn. Yeah. I mean, of course it will. And I'm going to sound like an AI booster here, and I'm not. But any kind of technological advance is going to change the way that we do stuff. Like the printing press changed how we communicate with people. Because all of a sudden it's now possible that you say something and then somebody 100 years later in another part of the world can know literally what you said. And so you start thinking in terms of text, whereas you didn't really do that necessarily before. Sure. AI, yeah, it's fundamentally different. And sometimes the difference is just the speed at which stuff happens and the scale at which stuff can happen. But yeah, I think it's genuinely going to change how we interact with each other. There's no question about that. I think obviously there's some opportunities. You know, this therapist that I was talking to was reminding me and anybody listening that most people can't get therapy. Yeah. A lot of people need it. I heard the same thing from therapists about this. Yeah. It's not possible. Even if it was affordable, what if you are going through a real crisis at 10 p.m.? Right. A lot of people go through a crisis at 10 p.m. When the holiday is coming up, like, you have any idea how much really bad stuff happens on December 24th at like 10 p.m.? Right, exactly. Your therapist is not on call. And wouldn't it be better than nothing to have something at least to talk to? That is better than nothing. Now, there are situations in which it has been worse than nothing. Absolutely. But there are people trying to. Yes, go ahead. So I have a big list here that I decided I was not going to read through. But our researcher, Adam, did build a timeline of like AI based suicides. Yeah. And that is, I think that is something that we like sort of have to make very clear here that like if there is a, let's say a small but growing chunk of the population that is using bots for intimacy, for companionship, there is a minority within that minority that has been led to either, you know, chat GPT induced psychosis or, or full on, you know, acts of self harm due to the sycophantic nature of a lot of these services. That is a reality of where we're at right now. That isn't even like a hypothetical. That's just happening. Yeah. And I don't think there's going to be almost anything that we'll be able to point to that we can say this is 100 percent good without any caveats. You know, I mean, like every time we see something like that, which we've seen quite a few of those, the boosters will jump out and say, well, we don't know how many people have been saved by AI, like talking them through a difficult situation. We don't know how many people may have a doctor misdiagnosed something and the AI figured something out that the doctor had missed. You're right. We don't know. But we do know that this is causing some real harm. And that's just a landscape now. That's just where we're at. and also like the ai induced self-harm is not that different from the stories that i was reporting about at the beginning of the social media age fascinatingly enough that the trend that led to the ice bucket challenge started as like a drinking game between like british and australian lads called neck nominations and they were basically like they would nominate each other over the Facebook news feed to drink increasing large amounts of alcohol. Oh my gosh. And it was linked to a bunch of deaths because these guys would flick on their camera and they would go live and they would drink until they died and then they would not, after being nominated. And even before that, you have the entire wave of 4chan and hero stuff, right? Where a 4chan user is egging on another 4chan user to commit suicide. All of these behaviors are not new like the act of a you know a computer interface an abstracted relationship causing someone self-harm to self-harm is not new it's the automation i think of the ai that is that is rightfully scaring people because there is no i mean i just you know you would hope that no because i can't say that like in the social media version yeah there is no off switch either the mob kind of controls it so it's yeah it's just i guess it's just different it's just it's different in it and we don't know enough about it yet this is gonna sound kind of silly but uh steve jobs once called the computer a bicycle for the mind and i think that's a really interesting metaphor because like if you think about it like what does that even mean like i guess theoretically like it means well it like it means like okay you have to put some effort into it like it's not a car you know i mean like you you do something like you push down on the pedal and it amplifies what you've done a bicycle a bicycle right yeah it's like it amplifies what you've done and it allows you to do things like say you know if if you'd never had a bicycle you probably would just live in your little town and you'd never go anywhere but you got a bicycle you know next town's like 10 miles over i heard they got a good restaurant like i'll go i wouldn't have gone otherwise i'll see you know we we have a car right now like we had a bicycle we thought we had cars no no no we had bicycles we now have cars and the kinds of things you can do with the car are fundamentally for the mind for the mind right the metaphor yeah we now have cars for the mind and so like now the kinds of things you you used to be able to do which is you know like go to the next town over you can do you can be across the country in like in three days it's nuts like you'd never do that if you didn't have that but also like if you run into somebody with a bicycle it sucks but you're fine. Usually you run into somebody with a car. We have, we have a different situation. And so I think sometimes it's just like the scale and the speed, even if the underlying technology was kind of the same thing. Yeah. It's, it's, it's fundamentally different. I want to kind of like land back on this point you made earlier about, you know, people, there are, there are some people, many people, let's say, who trust a computer over other people. And there are, I think, also a lot of people who have a very hard time dealing with the abstractions that are inherent with using a computer. The people who can't stop posting on Twitter, even though they're getting fired from their job. The people who, you know, live stream themselves doing stupid things for attention. The trolls that you see, you know, kind of living in absolute misery because they want to just hurt other people. These people have always existed. And I think AI has just created a new way for people to hurt themselves or other people. But then I also think that there's a huge amount of people who have trouble with determining what's real and what's not real on the internet. And AI has just exacerbated that. So, like, it's interesting, like, as new, quote unquote, as this technology feels and seems like a lot of the things that it's putting a spotlight on are not new. And like, AI relationships, as you said, are not that different from how people were having sex with a computer before. Well, I mean, you know, think of dating apps. And before dating apps really got to be a thing, like, think about people like meeting each other on Warcraft and how weird that was. Exactly. It's not that weird, man. It's not that weird. Not now, but it wasn't even back then. No, no, it wasn't that weird. The really interesting thing about this is this is maybe like the one bipartisan issue. You know what I mean? Which is like everybody agrees we're on AI or well, like technology in general. It used to be that, oh man, the future is going to be cool. I can't wait to see what's going to come out. We're all going to have VR headsets. Like that's fun. and you know we'd have our dystopian movies or whatever but in general i think people were kind of excited about it we we have this stuff that was like literal science fiction even five years ago and now a lot of influential people shall i say hate it but like there's a study here there's a study that's found that 85 of gen z agree that they spend too much time online 85 of gen z agree that they spend too much time online. I would agree with that based on what I've seen Gen Z do online. Yeah, no, I would agree with that. 84% strongly or somewhat agree that in-person relationships are more valuable than digital relationships. All they have to do is put down the phone. All they have to do is put down the phone. But that being said, I actually think that some of the most, frankly, vulnerable people to the AI slot, to being addicted to their phone, being addicted to Facebook, certainly, That's boomers, man. Yeah. Older people in particular. Yeah. I mean, yeah. Like the lonelier, the older, the more media illiterate for sure. Yeah. And, you know, and there are people who are, you know, there's, you know, dumb phones become a more popular, you know, like light phone, all these other sorts of things. First off, a lot of those are expensive. but I think there's like a reason for that is because it's kind of like aimed at somebody who is wealthy enough to unplug and I kind of feel like that's where we're going we actually are kind of creating this sort of elitist not really my words here but I think a certain class of people who are going to be viewed as elitist to have the money and yeah really have the money and the access to be able to not use AI, to like insist that the music played at the restaurant is not AI because this is a high class place, right? How dare you play AI music in the background? How dare you use AI to generate photos of the food? I can't believe that you didn't take real pictures of this, right? And I kind of think that's where we're going. And, you know, telling people to get off the phone, like read real news, stop getting off of social media have you seen the price of a new york times subscription have you seen the price of like one newsletter one sub stack it's like it's just not economically feasible for the vast majority of people and so everybody is going to do the vast majority of us i actually think are going to start getting dragged down into the quote-unquote slop and there will be a layer of people who can choose to unplug from that and choose to disengage with that but again that's not just like you were saying with relationships that's not like an ai thing that's exposing something that already existed we already had a class problem in society and the problem is we're like thinking that we can make an app to fix that or like surprised when the app doesn't fix it it's like no bro like this is capitalism i don't know what you want but what people need to do is subscribe to our podcasts yes as a way to defeat slop that will fix it you that will fix it yeah if you if you support us specifically specifically specifically us specifically kill switch like that's those are the two keys to fix everything and we're good no but I think you're 100% right we're already seeing the beginnings of this and really in a lot of ways the only hope for the AI industry to not completely implode which by the way I should say will not remove AI from our lives the dot-com bubble burst and we still have dot-coms it just it just consult It just consolidates things. The stock market crashes in the 20s. We still have a stock market. It just becomes a lot harder and more competitive. There's a big segment of people out there who want to believe that the AI bubble bursts and there's no more AI. No, no, no. That's not how this works. Toothpaste out the tube. Yes, toothpaste out the tube. And as I say to a lot of grumpy readers whenever I bring up AI, I can run stable diffusion on my MacBook without an internet connection. This shit's not going away ever. The best AI right now is the worst AI we'll ever be, basically. Yeah, yeah. This is the worst. Man, the AI people love to say that, man. This is the worst it'll ever be. And they're right. Yeah, man. In a way, they are right, unfortunately. I mean, I'm very happy that you're joining me on a little bit of the, hey, man, this is serious. Let's take this seriously kind of thing because people want to hear the bright, shiny, hey, how do we fix this? What's the button that I can press to make all this stop? I mean, the button that we can press to make all this stop is like fundamental societal change. or like an EMP that shuts down all technology. You know, maybe that would work. That's in Terminator, right? Yeah, I'm pretty sure they use an EMP. Yeah, I remember that from the Terminator video games. Because I'm pretty sure Trump at one point thought it was a real thing that could happen. Because he heard it in a movie. I want to thank you for coming on the show. I want to thank you for having me on your show. This was delightful and wonderful. I usually end every episode by asking people like, where can people follow you? But here, I'll do it this way. If you want to follow me, you can find me on Blue Sky and Instagram as RyanHatesThis and Broderick on X. I unfortunately still check that website. Ooh, bless you. Yeah. What about you? Where can people follow you if they want to follow you? Yeah. I'm a DexDigi on basically everything. D-E-X-D-I-G-I. And we have also KillswitchPod on Instagram. Oh, yeah. You can find panic roll at any podcast place that you get content for podcast. Also video, I guess. Same here. Thank you so much for listening. This was a really fun collaboration with Ryan and panic world. So please make sure to check out the show on YouTube or wherever you get your podcast and special thanks to panic world producers, Grant Irving and Josh Fjellstad. Killswitch is produced by Sheena Ozaki, Dara Lut Potts and Julia Nutter. From Kaleidoscope, our executive producers are Osvalashin, Mangesh Hatikadur and Kate Osborne. From iHeart, our executive producers are Katrina Norville and Nikki Etor. Catch y'all in the next one. Goodbye. Over the last couple years, didn't we learn that the folding chair was invented by black people because of what happened in Alabama? 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