Are you a H.A.D? #25
92 min
•Apr 15, 202612 days agoSummary
In episode 25 of 'Let's Rap About It,' the hosts celebrate reaching 25 episodes (top 1% of podcasts) while discussing parenting challenges, the balance between being a friend and parent to children, life insurance planning, casual dating dynamics, and fan interactions. The episode features candid conversations about discipline, setting boundaries with kids, and navigating uncomfortable public moments.
Insights
- Most podcasts fail before episode 20; reaching 25 episodes places a show in the top 1% of all podcasts, indicating significant audience retention and consistency
- Modern parenting requires balancing friendship with authority—parents who establish clear rules while remaining accessible create healthier relationships than those who blur boundaries entirely
- Life insurance is perceived as a 'death countdown' by some, creating psychological resistance despite its practical value for securing children's futures and handling funeral expenses
- Casual dating can include romantic activities like dinners and dates without implying commitment, as long as exclusivity and future expectations aren't established
- Public figures face constant boundary violations from fans; establishing clear personal limits while respecting fan appreciation requires diplomatic communication
Trends
Podcast longevity as a competitive advantage—shows surviving past episode 20 gain significant credibility and audience loyaltyGenerational parenting shifts—younger parents struggle more with the friend-vs-parent dynamic than previous generationsFinancial planning anxiety among high-net-worth individuals—superstition and psychological resistance delay essential estate planningCasual dating normalization—romantic gestures no longer automatically signal relationship escalation in modern dating cultureCelebrity boundary management—public figures increasingly need strategies to handle invasive fan behavior while maintaining brand accessibilityMentorship through lived experience—parents teaching children about risks (smoking, drinking, nightlife) through supervised exposure rather than prohibitionStreet culture vs. business culture collision—artists struggle to apply street codes to corporate music industry dealings with legal consequences
Topics
Podcast Sustainability and LongevityParenting Philosophy: Friend vs. Authority FigureLife Insurance and Estate PlanningCasual Dating and Relationship BoundariesFan Interactions and Celebrity PrivacyHarm Reduction Parenting StrategiesArtist Rights and Record Label DisputesGenerational Differences in ParentingFinancial Legacy PlanningPublic Figure Boundary SettingYouth Risk ManagementBusiness vs. Street Code in Music IndustryFuneral Planning and Community SupportSuperstition and Financial Decision-MakingUncomfortable Public Moments Management
Companies
PrizePicks
Sports betting and daily fantasy sports platform mentioned as sponsor with promotional code integration
Morgan and Morgan
Personal injury law firm highlighted for recovering settlements; mentioned cases of $6.1M, $29.5M, and $10.6M recoveries
Blue Chew
ED medication brand sponsoring the podcast with promotional code 'Let's Rap' for 10% off first month
Baskin-Ladder
Black-owned beard and hair care company offering products for textured hair; promo code 'let'swrap' for 20% off
Guilty Pleasure Treats
Cookie/snack brand mentioned multiple times during casual conversation about food products
People
Fabolous
Co-host discussing parenting challenges, casual dating, and fan interactions from personal experience
Maino
Co-host contributing perspectives on parenting, life insurance, and relationship dynamics
Dave East
Co-host sharing experiences on parenting, casual dating, and handling uncomfortable fan moments
Jim Jones
Co-host discussing parenting philosophy, life insurance concerns, and relationship advice
Vado
Featured rapper performing freestyle/verse during the 25th episode celebration segment
Gucci Mane
Discussed in context of artist-label disputes and handling business conflicts through legal vs. street methods
Quotes
"Most podcasts don't last past 20 shows. The ones that do are in the top 1%. We're in the top 1% right now."
Host (Maino)•Early episode
"Being a parent is just being a hater. That's pretty much what it is. Hating is something that comes with being a parent."
Host (Dave East)•Parenting segment
"If you're gonna smoke, then you need to smoke in the house. We figure that shit out. That's still being a parent."
Host (Fabolous)•Parenting discussion
"Life insurance is a great business move. You can borrow against that. It's a great business move."
Host (Jim Jones)•Financial planning segment
"Casual dating without sex? You're just a serial dater at this point. That's the real fucking T."
Host (Fabolous)•Dating discussion
Full Transcript
Sup y'all we are back. Yes, we want to shout out all the fans man have been supporting the part Let's rap about it today. We are at episode 25 So my dog let's toast about it Yeah 25 episodes shout out to all the people that thought we wouldn't do at least 25 At least 15 they say that a little haters that thought that we wouldn't you know keep this thing going on And shout out to all of the niggas that been hating on us shots to play maker Shout to play me. That's the prize picks, but I can't we don't want to not give the haters day proper Oh, you gotta give them a proper shot. I hate nice niggas that I would have slapped the fuck out you niggas, but shouts to y'all I Ain't got time right now We too busy doing deals and getting this shit together And shout out to you niggas that that thought we wouldn't make it but We did um and we're gonna continue doing what we're doing and it's let's wrap about it Talk about it and we get in the tattoos and the chains and everything not getting it. You go with this tattoo shit, man I don't know if I'm getting the tattoo I'm definitely gonna get the chain I'm not getting the tattoo man. Let's let's wrap about it. That's in taxes is outlandish. I don't like how you keep saying that I don't like But the same day and get this We're cool. We're click we are vibe. We are fucking that's why we get changed. We're culture That's why we get to change main we tied it. Where you pause. What are you putting it? Like I don't like where this is Putting the tattoo I got room Yo, yo, hey, yo, guys, they're in spicy today We got a lot Before we started it it was crazy Look, he was Saying I don't want to do that. No, no, no as a chain of the chain. I'm with no let's wrap about a chain We could do the chain we could we could you we could get right with the tattoos. No, no, no stats I Don't want I don't want my Today, I learned this from just the voice stats. Yeah It said that most podcasts don't last past 20 shows don't last past 20 episodes That's most though. They're gang and the ones that do are in the top What is it 1% what was that? So we're in the top 1% right now of Park kastas because we made it past the 20 in the top 1% because we made it past that's flavors Flavors Oh Wow, okay, so look we doing our thing Let's talk about that too. Come on. I'm time. Let's talk about that. Come on. So it's about it Let's talk about that for us being in a 1% of doing our stuff I'll cast 1% is that still out here doing things and you know that we from New York City It's it's even a plus. Okay Is the age every show becoming too expensive To be this poorly maintained so this man was riding on a scooter. Okay, you know the scooters that be in the street The motor scooters right not not the moped. That's the more page you be right now I don't ride more pads and I ride a cow so I can care a lot Right, I'll ride a classic bike. I don't want we not gonna Classic something something it was a tragedy to have everybody rest the tragedy man. Man a pothole and died God bless the soul So is New York City becoming I wouldn't say becoming nothing that the power was ain't nothing new Exactly, if you better if you died from the pop if you better New York now He died from hitting the power And his head the way he landed the way he landed he hit his head So that's what I mean But that been going like so he riding this bike. I wasn't there man I wasn't there but he hit a power it could be dangerous if you on a bike it hit a power Right, but we hit potholes on bikes all the time. Obviously it was a terrible He was on the wrong it could be a And he landed wrong. Okay got it FDL that one left not Say oh zone park That's Queens he died on regular street. Oh shit. I don't know Man You ever seen one of them shits on a gram would it be like it'd be a joke But they be like doing something that you could get killed and then you just didn't just snap and he like That's one of them that's one of them ones though You get the scooter and then you snap it you like nah That's the last thing on your mind like no way that Oh No, we gotta know we gotta we gotta talk about this Someone lost a life we're not doing this Next up but the fact that he died on a motor scooter, okay Let's go to the next one on a regular street though Please for what's up man? Look at me. It's great. I'm trying to stay main. I'm trying to stand please please What'd you say please? Let's have some respect. No, I'm trying to stand no we have a respect But it's a regular street. Oh my south ozone. All right. Let's leave it alone. Thank you Check this out. Can you be a child's friend and parent? Man check this We can rap about every topic, you know the vibe okay God bless that man his family End up in heaven That's a final dust Ask you how you get there man check this. Can you be a child's friend and parent or do you have to choose one? I'm struggling with that. You going through that. I'm struggling. Yeah, that's a good one. I'm struggling, bro That's a good one because as much as you want to be your child's friend There's times that you have to be the parent which I had to be I'm struggling with that Brothers, I mean that's where you at with it Me I'm struggling like it's hard. It's hard to have to turn into that parent when that's your dog Like that's my nigga like you did have to be like oh, I gotta be a dad and tell you some wack shit like yo, bro And it's like damn I play both you got it You have it has to be some boundaries and it has to be some discipline. Yeah, but it's like that you have boundaries I watch you do all kind of wild shit Look at you one thing I can say y'all y'all kids a little older, right? Like I still got like my oldest is 10 like I really mean like yeah, but size of wild shit though They would still watch his work every day day in and day out hundred percent go hard They what you mean like so is it's not just seeing us do all type of wild shit. We have discipline to us. So it's like It's my son's birthday We just finished having a party for him in a club and he was lit. He got this bottles is coming. I'm just like Fuck this And then we go home He like your dad. I got some people coming through Cars keep pulling up. I'm like What is this remind you are you cause the girls keep pulling up like this is a full-fledged party in my house, right? I'm in the kitchen just watching it's just like people up and down. I'm just like what I'm telling you like I didn't know what to do Like I didn't I didn't know what to do like I didn't I didn't know how to Join in you wanted to tap it. He was ready to turn up You ain't know if you need to participate a little bit thought about that, but I'm saying I need to be a father I need to be an example. I need to somebody gotta be grown in here I might have to be grown in the night, right like what the like it's like little niggas is walking around my house I'm like I don't like the way they walk I Move it like they been there before like yo, what is that yo? Why would you go up up my steps? Yeah, you you downstairs you upstairs niggas know where the bathrooms was that know that people then his girls keep pulling up and always I'm just like what the fuck Yeah, that's shit. Well, you were you proud? No, I was worried I Didn't understand something like yo, bro, like what's going on? Are you good over here? Like I'm good dad I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. That's the fine line right there. Yeah, and this is like I want to like lay my law down but this is like You don't want fuck up the book the vibe You want to be the vibe killer you want to be the you don't want to be the this grungy old nigga, right? Never want to be that you know man. It's like damn bro. How long you gonna keep this going? What time y'all in the This is gonna stop what time y'all in the shit Damn I think you gotta find that is a it's a My daughter's not of that age yet. I'll howl at y'all in like ten years That's like the pot the cattle black. I think it's a It's a man. Stop You think special because your son still young yo, but your one son is older. It's a mean balance, bro I think I want to be respected as a parent all the time and like I could be your friend second like I don't I think you have to have a certain amount of respect of your parents even as we grown we still have a certain respect For your mom, I think it I think sometimes when you like when you're a younger parent or you got like kids close to age Like how you just say your your your daughter's ten, right? You you automatically just parent. There's a there's a line here But when you when your kids get to like 18 or 20 or whatever you start trying to blend in to be their friend But I think that's what a lot of the the line of Respect get like it could get blurry. You know I blurred it bro. Yeah It took me to get another cut you up It took me to get to a certain age like right now, right as a as an older adult. I Can smoke with my mom's? That's some out this world shit to me like not as you grown I think when I was a Respect you can't you only want to smoke? I even want to know I was hot Different cuz I find my mom his mom's told me that he was smoking when he's about 16 So it's like for me is like I I Know niggas is not gonna stop smoking cuz I know I've been there you dig so it's like I'm saying am I am I gonna Feel comfortable with him sneaking around trying to get smoke all over the fucking place and it's fencing all and all that shit running around out here all types, so I'm like How to go sit down or how to talk with them picked him up. I told him roll a blunt. I'm like, you know you smoke we right? Smoke the blunt to eat damn they could smoke no more to see if this really wouldn't want to do but it's like if you're gonna smoke then you need to smoke in the house and We figure that shit out even that though is still you being a parent cuz you've taken it and Trying to teach him a lesson or even if you saying like if you gonna smoke You know me and I'd rather you be doing it in this in this in this kind of safe space rather than you sneaking around and doing all Of that that's still being apparent to me like being a friend would have been like You know this certain like you'll see certain people with their kids and they just doing everything with their kids Drink smoke dude like you know me and it is the line is blurred. So that's why I said for me like I always want my Son to feel like he could come to me to talk and have conversations But I also want the respect from the door I'm getting dad sacrifice. I didn't do a lot for you to even get to this Hey, yo, bro, you ever like sit back and seen somebody make a move Right, and then you just have to sit back and go nah That's different. No, you know what that is. That's a power move. Hmm You know like when somebody counted you out and you double back you run it up Mm-hmm. Oh when they try to low-boy you you stand firm and end up getting what you really deserve Exactly, that's what we mean when we say that's a power move and look the same thing applies when life hit you different If you're ever injured because of someone else's negligence you can check out Morgan and Morgan America's largest injury law firm They're not small with an evil over a hundred Officers nationwide and over a thousand lawyers. 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I mean like so I'm Every now and then I might pass in the blunt and shit like that, but I don't like he not coming up They'll pass the blood like we don't Then I know he has that respect and it's not like you dig the most he might ask before like you got any weed I could get like he not gonna Tell me how to become a grown man. I mean it's not the smoke will pops That wasn't no and remember I played ball so even though I was smoking my pops was like he was getting hot But he was looking down on that shit right Once he peep that didn't work out and I remember came we started becoming smoking partners from me getting him the bud Because it was like I don't know who you get that shit from but You know me and my niggas got pain right now like So Pop like anything depressing you for a dog. Have you get it? So you saw your pops and we Gave him we I had it No, and what you said about basically having rules because I felt like you got it I'm trying to Clarity no I felt like my son had got to a age where he was gonna start exploring In starting wanting to be outside so I was like look if you had a age you 18 If you want to be outside instead of going out and hanging out with your friends and doing stupid shit come do it with me I'm gonna show you how to respect that. I'm gonna show you the right way in the wrong way To do this shit. I was my thing. Yeah, right and then it's like There's rules so that don't be like if you want to if you go into drink I'd rather you not don't be accepting those drinks from just anybody There's safety is first, right? You make sure everybody is with you comes with you and gets home peacefully like Then I've seen him in the club one time in LA and it was just like he's getting lap dances. It's just like It was lit. I'm standing in it's like what Son is getting lap danced in a regular club like what do I do? But did you have the lap dance talk and how did that make you feel was that you was it a proud dad moment? I don't know how to it's just so you hate on his vibe as I'm looking at him and I'm saying he's getting he's getting Would you rather that be happening without you seeing it because if he doing it in front of you He definitely You wanted to be the sacrificial lamb so he was you wasn't getting a lap dance. I don't want that's what I think it was Might have been a little Must have had no motion He was low. Yeah See now the truth coming out No, I'm a father damn zane. I'm a boy. I'm a real father bro and all I'm saying I sound like what happened in the party. She was more hating that his party was more popping in the party He's having his house. I don't think his party's that he had in the house was his pop in the Zanes party See what this is. I think it's just a hate can you give a house party pops of Bob's let this nigga talk damn This is a yeah, he Say you a hater dad, right? Oh, you just totally missed everything I said and the Jews that I was dropping There was no proud dad moments and none of this A lot of proud dad moments in all these situations So what hey nags dad Hey, that's dad. I had that's a hat It's a dead And I feel like this is a planned attack the half the hate nags father I think we all Be a Had Is no way You've been ahead I'm not saying I be hating on but I'm I know you do shit that When I take Kobe I pad I'm the biggest hate or Keeping a hundred percent I need you to be honest with me bro till I make it here. Hey, the same Do you think I ever was a hating ass father or a hate nags dad? On you be honest I Had Hey On you If a nigga ever asked you yo when I hate it on you he definitely hated Was crazy You Expect that yeah, that was crazy cuz you hated on a user had That was one hate you hated one time You hate it you hate it the first time now you mad cuz you hated Okay Me The basketball playoffs have arrived and there's no better way to cash in on the high flying hoops action than prospects. Every bucket, every dime, every win means more when you're playing on prospects. So don't pass up on your next shot with prospects and get $50 instantly in lineups when you play your first $5. Prospects now has early payouts. If your player gets off to a hot start, you now have the option to cash out on those winnings before the game even finishes. Join millions of users and sign up for America's number one sports picks app. Yo, just download the prize picks app today and use code Let's Wrap to get $50 in lineups after you play your first $5 lineup. That's code Let's Wrap to get $50 in lineups after you play your first $5 lineup. Prospects. This is how you know this is a real show because I just called my son and he just confirmed all of my wildest fears. He just confirmed my deepest, darkest fears that he would consider me a hater. That's how I know you was dirty mac. A hate-nass dad-ass nigga. I never dirty mac, bud. If you was a hate-nass dad, you definitely was a dirty mac. A dirty mac. I feel like a dirty mac turns into a hate-nass dad. A hundred percent. It's a part of the system. It starts as a dirty mac. It turns into a hate-nass dad. It turns into a dirty mac. It turns into a hate-nass dad. It turns into a dirty mac. It turns into a hate-nass dad. It transforms. I see niggas with trash. Niggas been coming at me tonight. So a hate-nass dad. Damn. A DMHAD, this nigga. Yeah. Yeah. They ain't even hear you, but just chill. Rough DMHAD. He said some shit over there. Chill. Chill. He told me to chill. We can just sweep it under the rug. I poured juice and sweep it under the rug. Just chill. Let's keep it back to the show. They need to hear you over there. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. Right under the rug. You don't even know, you hated on something that they wanted to do. Something they wanted to do, you was like, nah, I ain't jacking that. Really, really played me tonight. I ain't kept it a buck. I'm gonna take my son, Ipad. You didn't did your fair shit here. You know what it is, he thought he wasn't a hat though. Yeah, you never thought that. He was smooth, you heard? He never thought he was going on would be exposed today, in this way. Yo, you going in, I go in there and tell my son, you can't get him. He's a hat. Ipad off, time to go to bed. Yep. Turn it off. You close the door, I think he be like, hating that. You know he's saying that. Like you know he's like, look at my call, you all cut and shit. Time to go to bed, turn it off, turn it off, time to go to bed. Stickers to hat. Hating that. This nigga, this nigga be hating. It was that, the wrong block was just jumping. Cut that shit off, it's over. It is what it is. He be like, I definitely mumbled some suckers shit on the big brother. He just argued, I just, we. You kept it a buck. Now when I took my son Carl, cause he fucked it up, what you think he called me? You thought he was hating. What? I took the wheels for like two months, bro. You know I was a hater for them 60 days. Being a parent is just being a hater. That's just pretty much what it is. Being a parent comes with just hating. Sometimes what he is. Hating is something that's more than being a parent. Now I thought I was the coolest dad in the fucking world. You find out now that I'm a fucking hating ass dad, a hat? It's crazy. I'm on the cast. You think it's a hat? I'm on the cast, you a hat. Live with the cast, I realized that I'm a hat. This whole time, I never thought that. Never thought it. I never would have done it. You got confirmation of that, buddy. And it's because of you. You and Zane, Shouts to Zane, man. I didn't call Zane. Shouts to Zane, man. You started this. No need to worry about it. I got you though, no worry about it. You started it. You doing something so cool. These niggas don't know I'm the coolest dad ever. Oh, no, you never hated on me. No, you my dad. You talking about marriage? You. You. You. You. You. You. You got to take a dump in there with it. Yo, the realization that I'm a hat is crazy. I was saying it. It's affecting me in a deeper way. He ain't even saying that. Zane, remix that shit. Can't. Remix. The fact that I know that, I gotta walk around and show you I'm a hat. You a hat. I got to get up tomorrow morning knowing I'm a hat. The betrayal is real. A hat. We got to do merch. Hat, shirts, hats. All the merries, all the girls. All the merries on the air. All the cool hearts that you have. You been a hat. Me. Yo. You been hating on me. Yo. Yo. You know what's. You was hating on you. You know what's the sad part, Dave? The millions of fathers that's going to realize they've been a hat all this time. I've got to tell them. You showed me some. You got your hats out there. You're not talking about a ham? Man, you're not the only hat. It's a community. I thought, I really want to say you're not, you sure you're not talking about a ham. I hate an ass mom. No. I mean. Hating ass mother. There's hams out there. There's a lot of hams out there. The mothers never get done. You don't get done. Mothers never get done. You know what you're right. It's going to be more hats than hams. Stuff a lot of hams. Or mother never get hams. Stuff a lot. Stuff a lot. It's going to be more hats. It's going to be a lot more hams. They get love. They don't get ham. They get lamb. N***a. Love and ass moms. You know what it is. I'm going to let it be what it is. It's bad. It all ends up bad for us. Man, watch when this drop. How many hats is out there? Word up. I didn't know I was one though. Yeah, you part of that. I need you to understand the pain that I'm in. We need to have a like a. I'm going to have two. I do my shit. I do my shit. I didn't know though. Step 12 program for hats because this is bad. No, but is there a way to get out of it? No, I'm going to be real with you. Step 12 program. Is there a way to not be it? Listen, listen. I think there way to not be it. We got to take the step 12 program to get out of it. I think once you become a hat, you it. Can I read my piece? No, I do want to get this one piece off. I feel like being a hat or ham. They don't get that. They get lamb. Man, I just told you that. Hat or ham comes with being a good parent. Oh, okay. So I'm a good friend. I'm a good father. Right. You feel you know what I'm saying? Because if you not, if you not a hat at all, my mom's definitely was hating. Apparently not hating at all. My mom's used to be shut down. Can't do what he want to do. So you got to kind of you have to go lie. Got those some hating. We don't want you to be a rapper. My mom's not going to be a rapper. I ain't gonna lie. My pops ain't gonna be a rapper. I ain't gonna lie. My mom's was hate. Document it. You can go on Netflix. My dad's saying with that nigga to rap. It's documented. He's the last shit my dad wanted me to do. My mom's was a hating bro. I love my mom's a job. So that's a game. For it your mom. You have to come and say she would not get home. My mom was hating. Never. Damn. At all. Never hated. She had lamb. She was with it. Shit me. Y'all got hated on my mom. You's a king. You're gonna do whatever you want to do. I got hated on my mom. I think my mom wasn't hating though. My mom let me do it the fuck I want to do it too. I got love up until basketball ain't worked. Then it was well-hated. Bro my mom, I would get in trouble. My mom's come to school and curse everybody out. It was hate coming through. My mom was like, I wish your mom would come to an air condition. My mom's did that too. My mom's like that. She still was a hater. My mom's was my first hater. For real. Like everything. Like I used to always look at my mom. Like yo you don't want. But when you look back in hindsight a lot of stuff that she was keeping me from helped build the kind of person I was. But in that time. My grandma was a hate. My grandma was a hate. My grandma was a hate. Nothing gate. My mom's was like your mom's though. My grandma was a hate. My mom's loved me so much. My mom's was a land. My mom's was a land. My mom's was a land. My grandma was a hag. She hated that grandma. What? She hate what? Hag. Yeah. She's from old school. My mom's was like that too though. You'll copyright all these terms for niggas run with these terms. We dropped. No this is ours. For the tees. We dropped some joints tonight. For the tees. Hag. Yeah. Yeah. Ham. Ham. Ham. Hag. That's our shit. Hag. That's our shit. That's our shit. Yo let's rap about some hoops real quick. Brought to you by the homies at Prospects. Nick's is in the playoffs and it's a better ball out right now. What we talking about is the playoffs. So we're in the playoffs man. What we doing? We going up. We that what we doing? Killing. What we doing? We going more on everything with the nicks right now. More on everything with the nicks. On everything. It's up. We ain't got no. Chalene. More points, more rebounds. Everything's got to up. We think the nicks getting out of the first round of the playoffs. Definitely. For sure. More rebounds with Josh Hart. Definitely. I'm going. More points too. Everybody got to up it. That's how I feel. It's playoff season. The whole team got to up it a little more. City count on this. We've been doing good the last couple of years in the playoffs. We got to get ready to take it there. We there. Cat definitely. More points, more rebounds. We need production out of cat. Cat got to really step up. Every game. Like you know what I'm saying? He can't. Cat is like, you know, when he's in the offense and they and really like controlling the offense, he's one of the reasons that the nicks win. You know, J.B. always does his job. When cat do his thing, it's like, you know, they hard to beat. What about Miquel Bridges? Miquel Bridges, I think he's going to, he's like an X factor player to me. So like he could have like a game where he just, you know, go for 25. He hitting the big shots. So I need him to be that kind of player in the playoffs. You know what I'm saying? That play because everybody look at the stars or look at J.B. and cat. You know, sometimes like Bridges or OG, like when they, when they contribute, they make it a little bit like you can't just factor in on the stars. You know what I'm saying? Whatever they've been doing to get to the playoffs, everybody got to step it up, turn it up a little notch. Like that's it. Nicks, it is up. It's playoffs. Don't let us down, baby. For real. Can the nicks get the Eastern Conference? Can they, can they, I mean, if we, if we, I believe, I believe we can. Who press in the conference? Celtics. Boston. I'm saying I'm going through the national progression in the last few years. Like we kept going up now. The next, the pistons, the pistons is tough. The next one is we got to take it. I think New York could take the Eastern Conference. We got to. That's the next, that's the next step up. Everybody, everybody. Let's just put it in the universe. We're going to do it. 100%. Don't let us down next. He get into existence. Have you saved anything to pass down to your kids or playing on passing something you have now down to your kids? Have you nicked saved? I'm saving. I mean, so I got accounts for my, all my kids. So that's fire. They definitely got a lot more money than I had at their ages. Let me tell you an easy way to do it other than doing like a trust and all that. That's just great. Right. But another way to do it is just having a life insurance policy, a nice one, a nice one for your kids. On your life or your kids life? On your life, nigga, in case when you croak, nigga. I'm going to keep it real with you. I don't have that on my life yet. And I think I should, but I feel like the day I do that, I'm over with it. Million dollar policies for all your daughters. I think the day I do that, I'm like, yup, I'm about to die. That's not true. No, that's not true. I just feel like that. You nicked my mom. That's the difference between you nicked her. I have a life insurance on my body. That's not true, bro. I got life insurance. I ain't dead yet, nigga. And I'm on the edge. I feel you. I feel you. I live on the edge, nigga. That's just me though. I feel like you might need it. That's why you got life insurance because you live on the edge. That's why. You on the edge, nigga. Get you some insurance. Man, I'm a superstitious, nigga. No funny shit. I'm poor. I feel like the day I do that, it's like I set my countdown. Yeah, that's how I feel. Word of mouth, a couple. I feel like I got that out. Honestly, to be a grown man. The kid's going to be good, but I feel like it's a countdown for me. Other than having to trust and all that, having a life insurance policy. I don't like that shit. Intact for your kids in case of anything is good. It's 100% good. That's a great thing. We did not say that. We did not say that. It's a great business move. You can borrow against that. It's a great business move. It's a great business move. You can borrow against that. I'm still here. 100%. I'm hit on all of that. I'm not so... You're not saying nothing wrong. I'm just saying the reason why... What's your reason, nigga? I feel like they feel like I'm going... That shit's spooky to me, bro. It's not spooky to me, bro. It's not spooky, bro. But not saying I'm not taking different measures... We're taking risks anyway. ...different measures to do certain things to secure... That's the easiest way to do it. That's the easiest way to do it. ...that's the easiest way to do it. Why we talking about the subject if I'm here to leave anything for my son? On your side. Besides a blueprint and the knowledge that I always try to give him, because if it all goes bad and I can't leave him nothing, I'll at least won't leave him the knowledge to build a kingdom. Right. Life insurance policy on top of that. Right. So listen to what I'm saying. Hold on. Hold on. Look what I'm talking about. We need a life insurance. We need a life insurance. We need a life insurance. We need a life insurance. If you sprinkle... Hold on. A little life insurance. A little L.I. Can I get us some money? Can I get us some money? Yeah. Can I get us some money? Yeah. A little life insurance coming out there. A little life insurance coming out there. That would like to come sit down with us. Man. Maybe help us out with showing us the benefits that you got to check. I watched for lipstick files too much. They have to be having a promo here. You heard your show. They be leaving niggas for them life insurance policies. I need some of that life insurance right now. I know what you're saying. I know what you're saying. You got a fear of the unknown. I understand. Y'all niggas are scared. I don't want to tell the people I'm ready to die. That's not telling them about you ready to die. That's how it is. That's having things in place in case you die. We all going to die. Ain't no increase. Everybody's dying. Everybody in this fucking room is going to be dead. We're going to check out. I don't want to think about me checking out until my checkout get here. 100% I'm coming everybody for you. I don't want to go talk about my checkout and then I got 30 more years of living. I don't want them combos. I'm scared of that shit. It's not a combo. Go get you life insurance. Put a million dollar policy. And you telling the nigga in case I die. Or your babies. Maybe it's not a Harlem thing. Maybe it's not a Harlem thing. Brooklyn niggas do life insurance policies. That's a big a shit. I had my mom's had life insurance on me since we was like kids. I had life insurance. You got your own known that did you do that on your own too? Your kids nigga. I'm not mad at you. I'm not mad at you. I'm not mad at you. I'm not mad at you. I'm not mad at you. Did your kids niggas do this? Did your kids niggas do this? Did your kids niggas do this? Did your kids niggas do this? Did your kids niggas do this? What you say? Y'all ready? Y'all giving y'all ready? Wow, this shit is crazy, bro. What? This is crazy, bro. That's what it sound like. Listen. You said we ready to go? Like I said. It sound like. That's not what we're saying, though. It sounded like. In case we go, nigga, I'm volatile, nigga. It's no in case. We're going to go. I mean, listen to this. I just said that you and Fab are 1,000% right. I'm currently, everyone out there who have life insurance on fan and investment. 100%. But see me hanging with y'all. I'm probably getting influenced to go do some shit like that. Shit like that. So I get it. You know what? Just the purpose of this. I like your superstition. Keep it. That's the purpose of this. Because I don't want nothing to happen. Like as soon as you get it, then it's like, oh, shit. Oh, damn it. Then I get hit by a bus or some dumb shit. That's not David. He got hit by a fucking bus. And y'all just spoke that shit off. Yeah, I'm not with that. See? See? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Leave it like that, though. Leave it like that. If you ain't got it, don't get it. When the time calls for it. If you ain't got it, fuck it. Don't get it. When the time calls. You know what I mean? Yeah. All right, so how much money y'all put out on y'all on each other if I'm not getting too much detail? It's a policy. It's a policy. Monthly? Like it's a misuse. It's another bill. Yes, it's another bill. It's like health insurance. When I think about it now, I feel like my mom's did it from a hood standpoint. So if something happens, she would be able to bury you correctly, have your brother. That's true, though. There's a lot of people who die in a hood, and they don't know about it. Next thing you know, niggas don't have money. They're doing fish fries. Right. Waiting for other people to pay for it. So when you niggas do, that's the hood. I've never seen that. I've never saw a fish fry, though. You've never seen niggas make money for food? To get the muck, I never saw that. I've been a mad fish fry for years. I was out of it, bro. You just never seen that before? You just made that up. He made that up. I never saw a fish fry. I think that was going around. The fish fries after, it's like after the funeral. You just gotta do whatever. The fish fries, the raised money, bro. It's a repass. They might be selling them. They might be selling them. It's the raised money. It's a repass, the fish fries. They're selling them plates, bro. Let me finish my point, though. The plates help. I think my mom's did it from that standpoint so that she wouldn't be stuck in the case of something happening to her or something happening to her child or whatever like that. But when I think about it now, I don't know how much I need the insurance for. Like I can just pay for a funeral for whoever needs a funeral. I wouldn't need insurance when I'm thinking about it now. Like when you're in a hood, she doing the insurance because she may not have the kind of money to get a proper burial. But now I don't think that I need insurance to do it. So I'm kind of like, I do have insurance, but I'm at the same time kind of feeling like I may not even need to have a policy because I could just, but the policy helps your kids when you're going. And they got a million dollars. But back then, I don't know about it. If you got money, though, if you got, your money going to go to them anyway. That was attached to people's jobs back then. Like I remember all the people in my family that did have jobs, they take money out for their life insurance and all that. Yeah, right, right, right. It's still like that, it's still like that. So whatever you leave them, then they got to ask you. But what's the difference in having life insurance and you pass and now say you got multiple kids and now they all arguing over how they break that down? Or you gonna have to break it down? No, life insurance, you set up the policy. You set up the policy. But if you don't have a policy, that's when that type of shit happens. Now you die and your kids, everybody want to do different things. So with the policy, you can set up like your will. You can set up how you want. This one, this one, go to that one. Something about me felt like I would just want to give it to Ka. And there's one baby. What? There's one daughter. I hope she delegated that. And I think she's going to do right. No, I think you need to revisit that a couple years. Get you a policy, nigga. Get you a policy, nigga. Get you a policy, nigga. No, I really believe you. It's easy. They come over there and check you out. I think if it was the other way around, like if my pops, say I was the one and my pops was the person that had the bag like that and they gave it, I would hit my brother and my sister off. I wouldn't violate it. Siblings, they done went through all over the type of shit. That's me though. I wouldn't violate it. Now if my little brother got it, I don't know. Siblings went, that's why you set up those things. I love Arrow to Death, but I don't know. That's why they set up them things. Eat my dip off. I got one. I'ma look out. I don't know. I don't know who we ain't really gotta go through. I got a daughter though. Sibling rivalry and shit like that. I got a son and a daughter. Oh yeah, so you got Sibling rivalry. You got one. You can't lead that with more than one kid. I got more than one kid. Yeah, but I got policies though. They got it all set up. I got it all set. I got a dude from Atlanta. He runs a big ass life insurance company. He been trying to get me to do that for like the last 15 years. It's good. He called me like a month world. Yo, you ready? You ready? So I think that... Get a little policy man. Knowing that you'll, like sometimes I need to... Cause you be out there poppin' shit. Get your little... See? It's your policy. Cause you pop a lot of shit. I don't know what that mean. What that mean? You pop a lot of shit. So what? You pop shit, then it's your policy. Legendary shit started. Yes, any nigga that pop shit should have a policy. So they telling you to get started, you should have a policy. Get ready to go. You need a policy, then. You pop a shit. That's what they promote over there. Get ready, you pop shit. You pop shit, get ready to go. Get your policy. Yo, your policy would... So how your life ensures together? Just put it evenly between your two kids? Yeah. Even at the different ages they have. Yeah, but get you a policy nigga. You be out there. My favorite kid gets the most. Who's the favorite kid? That's what they gonna find out when that happens. So you gotta be, you in the running. Yo, I'm alive, you in the running. Yo, yo, yo. Don't switch up on me. Yo, pop's dead and gone. That's the day you find out. That's when they open the envelope. I knew this nigga was a hat. I knew he best ones a hat. Just hating ass nigga. No, I'm the one show they shot at three. What's the name? They be like, in the winter it is. In the winter. Yeah, the other two, man. This nigga's a hat. Man, I knew it. He ain't never support my shit. I'm alive, y'all all gotta even shot. That's it. That nigga always hated on me. He ain't really never showed me no love. He ain't showed me no real love. That's crazy. You find out the dead nigga go. He said I'm gone. I'm out of here. Y'all hollering me next time. Y'all see me. Y'all hollering me, man. We can talk about it on the side. That's what I had for y'all, y'all. Can you have casual sex with someone that's still going dates or does that automatically make it more than casual? I like to go on dates with the people I have casual sex with. All right. Fah! Damn! Yeah. You know why? Because it's like. What's that sound there? Yeah, it makes it fun. We go on dates and still have casual sex. Don't ask me if I'm a business though when I'm not with you, but. No, ask me that. I'm a business. I ain't your business. Mind your business. Mind your business. You see me talk to somebody while I'm with you, mind your business. Your thing going on a date doesn't make, doesn't change it being casual sex. It ain't casual no more. They trying to say casual sex, you're not supposed to have any kind of connection. Oh. Can it still be casual without the, even though you're going to date? Oh, oh, so I don't understand. So you combined it really. That's like your thing is casual. Yeah, everything is casual. Oh, but some people only get sex. You dress casual. Some people only get cash. That's what they saying. They saying those people are casual. Like the people that. What if I show up to the house is just cash. Yeah, but so when you go. He just pulled up casual. So in fact, you took out to eat. Does that, does that make it casual anymore? And that's a deepening. They're casual because I'm not, if I'm not committing, I'm not in a, I'm not in a, a committed relationship. Does it depend on where the date was at? Like where? Like if you went somewhere that was flavors or you went to some bullshit. Like does that matter? Also, is it safe to say anybody we see you on a date with, you're having casual sex with? That's it. That's the real quick. We see you out eating. And it's a young lady. He put that shit so eloquently. He said also, he robbed the right. No, no, what he said is a high possibility. No, this is my dog. He understands me. You know, right? So check this out. Here's the thing. There's people that you don't go on date sweet, but that you just go fuck. Did it. That's not the question. This is the question. That wasn't it. That wasn't the problem. We understand what you're saying. No, no, no, no. No, what's this? The question was based on dating. What's the problem? It's actually like a real, oh, hey, what's your problem? What's your problem over there, young boy? What's his problem? I got the tech. I got the tech. I got the tech. I got the tech. I'm not in a band. Hey man, what's his problem? I got the tech. What's his problem? Jack put a jack on it. That's what he's saying. What's his problem, man? The question is saying, if there's people that you just go to, you just go to late at night. To the boom boom room. Right? The people that you just go late at night with. No dating? No dating. It's just casual sex, but. If you take them on dates, does it still mean that it's casual still? That's what the question is. Is it still casual? It's about the date. Because you took them on a date, does that automatically make them more casual? Everybody's not date worthy. So we're asking you, so if you have a casual sex with a girl and then you take her out on a date, now does it take it a step up from casual or we still casual sex? If I'm not taking you out on a date, then that means you're not date worthy. Okay, so it's past casual after you take her out on a date? So what? I didn't understand what you said. You've been having casual sex with this woman. Right. Hypothetically. Right. Now you take her out on a date. But I should have took her on a date before we had sex. That's the truth, nigga. Okay. You fucking know my hypothetical. It's my hypothetical. You always got a hypothetical. That's what I'm saying. When it comes to me, you always got a hypothetical. You always got a hypothetical. What's all, why? So you want me to tell them? You're a nigga with many hypotheticals. I'm trying to give you grace and spear you because I don't want to tell them the real you. So I was like, I'm trying to, you know what I mean? I'm trying to make you. You're painting a narrative. You're painting a narrative. Listen, if I take you on a date, I like you. So it's not casual anymore. No, it's still casual. He's taking you on a date because he likes her casual sex. Yeah, cause if you like her, then it's past casual. It's not casual anymore. And when you drink casual. I still gonna like you. I like you. You like the casualness of you. Yeah, I'm in lust with you, girl. So it's past casual, it's lust now. Lust is like. There's no more casual no more. It's nothing like casual sex. Remember like sex that makes me feel. You like meaningful sex? Provocative. I like provocative. I think. I don't. I like provocative. You're perplexed. What is casual sex? They're not having me having it. Niggas interrogated that nigga with a casual sex question. And they get on the what the answer is. That nigga over there just started. I don't like casual sex. I'm on a date having casual sex. Do I be going? I like to go to the dates to get casual sex. Man. Sometimes casual sex is the date. You don't even know where the hoax is. Sometimes it is the date. Yo. I'm gonna sit over here and launch. Like I don't know where the fuck this shit went. I'm like what? He said sometimes it is the date. Yo bro. Yeah, cause you got two niggas in charge. Y'all playing. Listen, listen. Niggas lost me a long time ago. I'm like. I don't know. This shit got it bro. I'm confused man. I'm confused. Sometimes casual sex is the date. That got it. I don't know. Oh shit. I don't know. Oh shit. First of all, define casual sex. What does that even mean? Oh man. That's what the first thing we should have did. You got doc you. Cause we don't know. I mean you got doc. We not that knowledgeable bro. You got docas on. We not that knowledgeable. You got on some casual shit. That shit all the way back and said. What is casual sex? What is casual sex? Chloe, what is casual sex? You're having sex and some casual shit. Is it sex and, is it sex and soup? No that's a black tiger fear. More like Penny Lofas. Hush puppies. Jamie. What is it? Hush puppies, this is casual. Jamie, what is casual sex? In psychology, casual sex refers to sexual sexual activities between people who are not in a committed romantic relationship. Often without expectations of exclusivity, emotional intimacy or a future together. So that means that you can actually take. You can go on dates. Dates, right. And still have casual sex. You can be a casual dater. Right. And the thing is you can go on dates and enjoy what it feels like to be on dates, to do something fun and to do something cool. Go to the movies, go to somewhere, go to a play, go to dinner. You can do all these things. It still be not being a committed relationship. I don't like the casual dates with no sex. Do you get casual sex after the casual date? No, no, no, no, no. Do you hear me just saying? No, we're not doing that. With no sex? Casual dating without sex? You're just a serial date at this point. Right, that's the real fucking T. That is the real problem. We're not doing that. That sounds like a lot of money being spent. Right, without sex. Look, now Jim's lost. Jim's lost now. Jamie, now you fucking... You lost? Are you lost? Are you lost? No, are you lost? I don't think it was glitching, man. It was stuck. I'm just like, yo. No, going on dates, a casual date, okay? And then not selling a deal after. That's a casualty. A casualty. That's definitely a casualty. Casualty of war. We went on a date. She said not the night and left. Girl, we got both. That was casualty. I like that one. That's a casualty. That's a casualty. That's a casualty of war. That was good. That's a casualty. I went to war tonight and I didn't make it. Yeah, I don't like that. I don't like coming home like that because then it felt like you've been through some shit. Defeated, like you should get. You feel defeated. Like, yeah, real bullets. The bad feeling to go home with. You start questioning yourself. It's a long drive home. Yeah. I don't think it's this crazy out here, man. I don't like it. I don't like that at all. I don't like that. I don't like it. We learned a lot about being casualty today. Damn. Hey, yo, y'all heard of Blue Chew before, right? Blue Chew? Well, I'm telling you, man, Blue Chew, exactly. They dropped something crazy. I'm talking next level championship belt, gold plated energy, bro. Ah, shit, brother. Tell me more. Blue Chew Gold is the newest innovation from the number one Chewable ED brand. Remember them blue pills that your grandfather used to take? Well, these aren't them. This is the four in one beast setting, the gold standard for performance, baby. High performance? Yeah, the greatest performance. Forget the 1-800 Maino. 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Women entertainers, they fuck a lot. They fuck easier. I'm gonna be honest with you. Oh, man. They fuck faster. Ooh. Say what? No, women. Listen to what I'm saying. That's exactly what he's gonna be talking about. This is exactly what he's leaving. I'm not... You're leaving exactly what you're saying. It's your sugarcoating. With all due respect, I don't mean no disrespect. What I've come to understand, being that I'm a scientist... A scientist or guru? Relationship or guru. I love Dr.... A scientist. Now a scientist. No, because I know science. Gravity is a theory. It's a theory. I understand science. Okay. I am a scientist. Okay. It's things that I know. Maino the scientist is crazy. So what's the science for today, God? What's today's science, God? Women that are entertainers, like singers and actresses, they fuck faster. Like quicker. Like, you mean them, they fuck. Like, oh, shit. Not like they fuck fast. They just fuck faster. It goes right there. It just goes right there. And... Is this casual or just... It just happens. Casual. No day. I thought he meant like they fuck fast. Like... They like fast like rapists or they go... They get their quick. They casually... Is this casually done? Is this casually done or is this casually... Or they give it up quick. I'm trying to... They give it... They casually fuck. It's fast. You said they fuck fast. I didn't know. Right. So like they... They try to get to the point. Clear it up. Because you understand what they deal with a lot, right? So it's like, they entertain us. They deal with a high level of responsibility having to be places, traveling, schedule, interviews. There's a lot of stress. So then when they... Pick up. So then when they get to your city, it's like... They say... They send you a text. Nigga, what's up with that dick? What? 100%. That's the text you begin. I'm gonna go pause, but we don't let you slide. That's what they send it. It was the ladies that sent it. It's not a pause. This is the... Say it again? That's what they text it. Don't make him say that again. I'll let you... What's going on in bed? Don't dare make him repeat that. Because he gonna tell me it's not a pause. So say it again, nigga. Say it again? I'm gonna say what I gotta say. If a lady sent me a text... Nigga, what's up with that? It's crazy. Because the way you said it, nigga, what's... Nigga, what's up with that dick? That's what the ladies say. You didn't say that the first time. That's what I'm saying, nigga. I'm only talking. Nigga, get the fuck out of here. I'm only talking about the ladies. We trying to figure it out. We trying to figure out. Get the fuck out of here. You ain't trying to figure out shit. You ain't trying... Cabo. What was your time... Oh, these niggas, they tried me tonight. Don't look over here. I don't got nothing for you. Ask Fab how you feel about what you said, bro. I don't give a fuck. I don't know. Y'all know what I'm talking about. I'm talking about women. Yo, I can't... I don't feel anything. Yo, J. Bensow... What? I felt nothing. Bensow. They say he's numb to the fact. After this one? Oh, shit. This is crazy. This is the guy crazy fast, man. Yo, I can't fucking... Nah, I ain't no fucking break. Break, man. I'm trying to ask the question, man. No, you don't... Let me tell you something real quick. I used to treat my beard like it was just here. Like, you know, use the same shampoo or use it on my face. Same shampoo. I use it in the shower. You know, all that. Thought I was saving time. Whole time, I really wasn't. It's crazy, right? Nah, that's facts. Do what we thinking that. One product, just do everything. Exactly. I had to earn a lot of that, too. I'm just thinking more product, more washing. That's the move. Whole time, I'm just stripping everything. No growth, no fullness. Just a straight vibe and frustration. And that's the worst part. When you're doing everything people say and still not getting the results. 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You know, I never had an encounter with a midget when the midget put their hands on me. That's one thing I will say. I never, it was a time that I wished it to happen, but it just didn't. So is there a type of female that can do that to you and it doesn't bother you? I'm saying, a woman that you're interested in, of course, whatever that be. Is she paying? Then it's okay. It's all good. No matter how you just felt uncomfortable, no matter how she fondled you. It's okay. Instantly it becomes okay. It's all good. This is from your baby who's going to the club, and there was an artist that presented him with a painting of his two daughters. Oh, my God. And the baby took that to a fence, which as a father, any father would, especially in opposition as we try to keep our kids shelter. But on the flip side, I don't think the artist meant any harm. So it was a banter, a little bit of banter. Baby went social media, let people know how he felt about it. The artist went to social media, said he apologized, he meant no disrespect, took it down off a social media page, so hopefully they can figure out how to maybe do something in the future. But as a person that has daughters, Dave, you, Spitz, how do you feel about that? You got your daughters, how would you feel about that? I feel him 100%, but then on the flip side, I also, I live in reality. So you can feel how you feel, but then you also gotta understand, this is my opinion. If I post pictures of my kids, or I post pictures of my mother, or I post pictures of my girl, I post pictures of my dog, whatever I post that's personal to me, and I put it on the internet, now it's for the world to have. So, it might bother me, but at the same time, it's like, you wouldn't have got that picture, or had that photo of my children, unless I posted it. You get what I mean? So it's almost like a, I feel him as a father, I feel like you don't want to fucking run it down on you with that. I get that all the time. You know, I painted your daughter, I painted your man that died, or a lot of that shit is personal. And the person that's pulling up to you with the painting, they don't know these people, but they think and that's the thing that's gonna make them get right to you. That's gonna skip them through the line, cause they painted something that's so how would you have that? Personal to you. You just finished performing. Right. You walking out the club. Me personally, I would have said, thank you, bro. Would you took the pain? I probably would have took it. Just because he took time out of his day to do that. That's probably how I would have reacted. I wouldn't, I don't think that would have offended me. Cause it happened so often where, I know these motherfuckers don't know me or my kids, but I'm obviously doing enough to inspire them to wanna, you know what I mean? Do that. So I probably wouldn't have knocked them in that, in that, in that space. You would not have been offended. I don't think so. And if the picture looked like my kids, now if you paying some shit, you know a lot of motherfuckers are violate. What they look like a cartoon and shit. Like if I feel like you playing with me, then that's a whole another story. But if I see the photo on this, like, damn, that looked like the picture I posted of my daughter. And it's a great picture. It's a portrait. It might be something I put up in my crib or something like that. You know what I mean? So I don't, and that, I feel like in that moment, I can respect how he moved, but at the same time, it's like, you put that out. Like, you know what I mean? So you can't really, really can't knock what you already been gave to the internet. You know what I mean? However it come back to you, like, might be a pain, it might be a drawing, whatever, but you put it out there. I think it's to each his own of how they want a parent. Obviously the baby, that's the way he chooses the parent and how he chooses to have his children respected and public. But I don't think it was wrong for the person to paint. They, you know, fans and trying to actually just give you a piece of art. But I think, you know, the baby is his own person, his own dad, his own, he has his own set of rules for how he wants to raise his kids. So, you know, I can't speak on that and whatever his choices or preferences is, you gotta let respect that. I think there's fans to answer the whole question as a whole, I think fans, it's hard to deal with it sometimes because everybody also that just runs up to you or trying to take a picture really all the time, ain't fans, they just, you know, somebody wanna take a picture sometimes with whoever they see or they look at them as famous. So it's hard to even separate who's a fan or who just somebody who wanna take a picture with somebody who people know. So they can put it on their page or whatever like that. But I think when they do stuff that's uncomfortable, it doesn't matter if it's a fan or, you know what I'm saying? I want respect as a person when I'm out in public and I just, you know, you could be a fan and, you know, like what I do, but at the same time in that, you gotta respect me as a person as well. So I think like I would have that conversation with a fan that who's doing something a little bit more uncomfortable or I gotta remove myself from the situation, you know what I'm saying? I'm not gonna crash out or let somebody who too excited make me crash out in a sense, but at the same time, I'm not, you know, I'm gonna have a line of respect. We all been in spaces where you don't have that extra amount of time to even talk with the fan or speak with the, you know what I mean? You might be getting rushed in the car or rushed backstage or rushed, you know what I mean? So I feel like I see both sides of it because I think a fan sometimes think, oh, if I paint his kids, this is gonna make him, you know what I mean? This might make him curve everybody else. He be like, oh no, you mean, that's some intimate shit. So I feel like a fan might not be thinking that's gonna get him curved. Nigga, don't be painting my motherfucking kids. You don't know how to parent feel about that. Like, you know what I mean? In that moment, to each his own, like Spitz was saying, like, you know what I mean? I understand. I'm on my third cookie. Who made this? I'm just different. I had to put them some damn- Lexus made this? She made this? Yeah, it's a company. Oh my God. I'm different, different. I only had four. I'm on the third one. Guilty pleasure treats. Tap in. That's crazy. What happened to you that made you uncomfortable? Me? Yeah. The only shit I don't, like, it ain't really been nothing crazy, but like you were saying earlier, like some spots I go to and it's like, it'd be like older women. Sometimes it'd be younger women. I'm like older women. No, I love old women. Asia, you know what I mean? I'm not really, I ain't gonna get into that. But I just don't like the, I don't like the grabbing, to see the sneaky grabbing of the gat. What's going on today, bro? You hear me? The sneaky grabbing going on. Now that happens, like when you getting moved to a crowd, not real shit, you getting moved to a crowd, you got motherfuckers that are just risky. Like I never seen this nigga before this is the first time he in my city. They might try to grab you, like, you know what I mean? And the moment's in that shit I don't be, I don't really be liking that. And I mean, but other than that, I don't really, not really make me feel uncomfortable. Besides a nigga trying to talk to me all night. Whoa. What? What did you say? What? No, you said. What? What did you say? What. The question was what makes me comfortable. A nigga. A what? A nigga. Trying to talk to me all night. That's crazy. That's crazy. Oh, okay. I get it. That's crazy. No, no, no. I don't do pause. But what's crazy about that. I didn't hear what you said. A nigga trying to talk to you all night long that you don't know not your man But a nigga in the spot. I understand what you're saying now. You know what I'm saying the point It's something about the way you said it earlier a nigga trying to talk to me all night. That's crazy Where did your mind go man? I don't like how I feel. I play Paul so I don't go nowhere. Well your mind went couple I don't know. I don't know. All the time. I just didn't say it didn't make me feel comfortable No, I understand. No, Mr. David. I'm not here to make these niggas feel comfortable. You a cookie shop, no, I'm on my phone what pause How's that a pause though honestly though a Chico cookies why he eat his cookie I don't like how each cookie sounds, but you like but you got Frank's in your in your in your fridges, right? That's you said allegedly. Yeah, you got hot dogs or glissies in your friend for this. Yeah, you gladiator niggas you Yeah, but you don't like come on man glissie gladiators I'm accountable for my actions Know I had glissies in my frizzy if I didn't tell you so you're not secretive with the glissie I'm not the nigga that got a problem with that. See this is all These guys will make you uncomfortable One time we went to What was that we went to and the kids was acting like he was gonna take your chain. Oh That was like a Uncomfortable fan moment, but it was a prank He didn't know he Know was a prank like playing like playing much talking to my Choked them booba Yeah, I'm so man. I like that kid. I like him a lot I didn't know he's that young but that was one of the things that that that's how they go up like you know Yeah, they like they help them actually like those kind of responses because it makes them have to death. I didn't mean it though Somebody came to the other side like yo man over here choking his kid out. I'm like, you know what? What and he was a little saucy before he left so I'm like, oh this nigga main going over there It's my nigga you found out it was a prank. That's what you really feel like For service pause and Verizon or something in them niggas be they see you and then they start fanning out. Yeah, yeah That shit makes me feel uncomfortable. Yeah, that's anything extra makes me uncomfortable Anything you do House like it's you know, I even show no professionalism or you just it's like too much for me now and now I don't know what's going on. I'm in my robe in my debos my debos slippers My ups package whatever I got a sign for it open the door and they go. Oh shit. I'm like damn. I Don't like that I agree with you. I be wanting to move No, that happened a hundred percent happen He may have been wanting to fight with a new usps nigga one time, but that happens But it's something isn't it something like in the contract they not poster I don't know about that, but I don't feel like they still know like even if a nigga Job title say he not posted say nothing about where he going or make it hot that he went to a Most uncomfortable is when like I don't like them even knowing when I'm when I'm outside somewhere It's like the big joints. They just be like overbearing Big girls. Yeah, they just like you don't like big girls. I like big girl One of my big girls that they confidence is to the roof though And I feel what's wrong with that sometimes it's like you keep imposing your will on me You don't like that they pushing they self on yeah So a slimmer girl did that to you be all good with it. I don't know they don't do that only the big girls Yeah, they're like what's up nigga? You already know I With that voice to If any girl had that voice you just had I would I would it's the confidence It's like yeah, because yeah, and this is all natural nigga I know you be over in that podcast talking about BBL's, but this is all natural and I'll be like the big joints been running down on you Yeah, I get ran down on them. It'd be awesome. Yeah Yeah, yeah for a minute now. Damn boy. They must have sold that carousel. Yeah, they what? I Had a Joe I'm going to front. No, you know fuck this nigga No, no Fuck this nigga man. I'm trying to I'm going to front. Yo, go ahead. All right. Let's go Spends gas bitch you by the same time I heard you no, I'm telling you her carousel Oh I'm a legend Yeah, true be told my son made a legend. Yeah Yeah, I'm right. Look leave it alone. Oh my god Yo, speak it up such things as being a legend for the wrong reasons, right? No, nigga That's a bad legend that's a bad Legend No, never. No if an artist feels trapped in a bad deal is it ever justified to take matters into their own hands I got my air now punched in the shit before Yeah Yeah, it's been a couple we did a couple things that I wouldn't Hypothetically I was coming across the stage and they can say yo so you what up? I said go punch in the shit I said it's been a few things that we Might not be the best thing to deal to get out of deals and things like that, but hey that nigga this shit you live and you learn I as we go as we go. I guess it's a stomach from um Gucci man in the push ice the incident though. We don't know all the ins and outs only what the media is saying, but Yeah I get it. I understand what from both angles. What was going on? I'm gonna be honest with you I'm just gonna say like that type of shit. It don't work because if it worked I would been doing it Hmm. Yeah, trust me. I would have been with it. We got a we got away with we got away with a couple of those Yeah, I would have been doing it right now. I've been doing that a couple of those We could have like more like pre-so I think that's more like pre-social media Yeah, I think since social media drop That's it's harder to do that now because you're viral in the morning back then y'all for like before social media you could You know me pull up they thought and they was worried. I'm like a nigga had to hear about that like you know me like now Being a street nigga. There's cameras everywhere. They got footage among fuckers getting oh, I mean It was banking on Gucci being a street nigga. I'm telling you what happened. That's what it was banking on It's footage of it's footage of everything cameras is crystal clear. I don't know what happened But if it if it did happen the way I'm thinking about it happen, man First of all, I have to hear the discrepancy. They saying that Gucci man may have pointed the guy out I'm not based on what it says. I'm it says it kind of like I don't know right But then I start to really analyze it and I looked at Gucci's wife And I said oh shit. She runs shit So then I thought about the conversation he's had that we got the he got off the plane And got back home. She said motherfucker You ain't no street nigga no more You are businessman You're gonna get your ass up. What you gonna do what you're gonna pick up the sticks You're gonna do what you you gonna spend them you ain't spending shit You're gonna get your ass up And you're gonna go down to that motherfucking police Precent and make a report Okay, that's how I work you are a businessman you are not a street nigga no more Okay, if you want to save this relationship and they got the fucking wedding band you're gonna get that back That's what I believe happened That's what I believe happened Well, we're not gonna do here is we're not did we don't one we're not feeding into a social media says we just did it We're trying to stay the fact of How they handle business no, but do you think that his wife made him go down in and point the finger if he did I don't think in today's time and in in society and what's going on with social media Me personally, I don't feel like any business That's the way to go and I mean like I get it if if you feel like you're being fucked over But everything is gonna be exposed everything for legally Unless you really like Getting off the grid and doing so as you running up in the motherfucking massive pill up on Nas with the drake over I couldn't picture it because it's like For what I would advise any To handle business in a business fashion, you know get your lawyer I don't think we are in any times where You could just take matters in your own hands and Just it's just not the time so I think like Especially in the music business, so you saw his contracts involved. There's a course, you know there's these are street artists that are also involved in hip-hop, but This is not a street business It doesn't work that doesn't have the same street codes and ethics the people who operate through it They don't everybody in it is not rooted through the streets. So this is a business. So anything that goes on I would advise people to like get a lawyer and find out what way you can fight in That way in line gets blurred on you could be You could be street, but this is not a street business and but that line gets blurred you know what I'm saying the content So people say oh Gucci's a street nigga, you know, but the music is street the motherfuckers that's cutting them checks They are street The checks not Tomorrow what's business saying in this situation? Say it all went through and we didn't even see what was going on the media and maybe they pulled it off Well, but when Gucci leaves and then call his lawyer in the morning like I ran into some shit where people had pressure on me And then we sign his papers as false the lawyers now gonna it's not it's not that easy because they made them like at the end Of the day is no way to get around He has signed you heard us he signed the paper that needed lawyers and all type of shit President can say oh, you know how the shit go is that's right and they said he said that in there They said he said yo, you know this ain't how both of those You know you got to get the lawyers the lawyers got it. They said the niggas said shut your bitch your ass up for we shoot you See listen, there's another I'm just I'm just saying where I'm saying I'm trying to say what happens legally like at the end I had this come earlier not a cut you off couple Being a young artist right Being a young artist now it takes I think Maturity it takes years in this shit To look at it a certain way But when you I feel like when you young you thinking about the money the person that signs you is somebody you looked up to That somebody you was a big fan of so you you're not talking with no lawyer You're not you're not dealing with none of the business aspects of the shit Now your lawyer might be you know me all that has to still get handled but the person you're dealing with is the artist So when they come down to it you feel like if shit don't go right You don't feel like the business fucked you over you feel like the artist fucked you over The person that signed you the person that was co-signing the person that was in the pictures with you The person that got you hot so check this out. You know what I'm saying if Gucci so let's I see both sides Let's say if he did have 25 million right However, that may be if he did have 25 million legally it must have been through whatever they negotiated on contract for Gushi to end up 25 million so when we all get in the game a lot of like myself To for me to get in the games this act and say it was a professional in this game I took the deal that they had for me because I figured when I get in the game. I'm gonna make this deal better I'm gonna turn I'm gonna go MVP on these niggas So we forget about what we agree to when we first get into it and then we become super successful sometimes And now we're seeing everything that we're supposed to have but we agree to something already because We want to get in the game. I mean, I'm just talking No, and you know what I mean? And so it's like I know a lot of that and a lot of what Dave is saying also Like it could be a a bunch of things that could determine the fact that if somebody crashing I don't know. None of the factors or shit like that you dig so I hope all of like your hands was being signed for artists that you looked up to I just know with me if even with the non-situation I didn't deal with nobody. I didn't deal with nobody Making a great point. You know what I mean? I didn't deal with nobody but but that's like him One other person at the label, but my contact was bro. Right. So it's like Okay, it could go left. It could go right, but This was what was going on. This is the combos I'm having. This is what I'm basing what I'm doing on like So I could I could I see both sides of that shit. Of course, this is a business but If you if you only dealing with with Gucci or you that's the only person you you you in contact with It Have a lot of us don't have the guidance though. So you You have to be just sat up a lot of what David's saying is true But if you deal on somebody personally and you not being guided business Lee like you don't I mean business wise like so you It gets blurred that way because a lot of people are not told how to handle business in those situations ripe is real Right, which your your issue is solid. But the way you is ways you handle it It becomes either a problem or it becomes asset for you And if you have no guidance and never been in those situations to know how to handle this You might you might you might rely rely on what you knew That's all you know So you don't know the business or the lawyers or how I can do this to the lawyer. So I'm trying to play you I'm gonna move. I'm gonna move how I know how to move. Yeah, that's all that is I mean, but whatever the case may be hopefully they can handle that shit Applicably like I said and figure all that out shouts the Gucci. What was that word? Shouts the bulls eyes Let me hit a word. I said it No, I'm saying it again You said it right though. What you what you what you laughing at? I can be where's you laughing at though? Why you? I can't say it right. You said it right. What was the word brother? Applicably, I don't think that was it. Oh I think you said What What He said it right though the first time what he said he said amicably. No, that's not what he said. No He said applicably What's the word I'm not going through it. No, amicably. You just trying to score right there. You've been dying to score all night That's what the school basket man. He said it the first time You wouldn't you wouldn't you told me when you told me say it again. It's a smoke. Oh, that was the smoke Tommy said it. It was right Amicably what amicably I'm gonna be Abercrombie Abracadabra My nigga amicably cousin. That's not what he's that's not what I'm saying is another word. I'm but you said that I don't know what you said. I'm going to win. I'm going to win 100 may know But that's oh, so you just want to get off the point though. See why you can't you want to end this up? I'm leaving with a win. You said that. I'm leaving with a win. You're leaving with a win. Okay, it was your night I'll you I wouldn't give you that though. But what's the word you said? I'm leaving with a win He's trying to give me the lose at the buzzer beat. I'm not all right though. He's niggas a rook. We trying to Say application. I said at mad times What was the word Okay, so this is one 800 main oh I am a love guru I am a relationship specialist a scientist a scientist as well. You know the scientist I'm a I'm a lot of things man. Main oh luther king 100 100% okay, yeah, okay. How do you tell your man that he can't eat the cookie, right? Like That's why I didn't like eating cook. That's why I didn't like how we say eating the cookie because see what this went I don't like the word. I don't like I would rather have said box or pussy or something But that's what I'm saying. We got cookies. See I feel bad now like it's like he really is horrible at eating the cookie I want to show him but he doesn't listen like it's making him unattractive to me even though If you care about the nigga that you Unbelievable I'm a little bit upset because he's bad. Yeah, listen, yo, if you win a nigga talk to a man Okay, and you feel like he cannot eat your box the right proper way the cookie main could do it for you He's not a cookie not a cookie monster He's not a cookie monster This cookie box right there this shit junk That's a cookie box right there. That's a cookie box right there. That's a cookie fucking box We eat cookies over here, baby Is the good eat section over here, but here's the thing though If you win a nigga and you feel like he can't eat your box Y'all plan man This is why the people don't take us serious This is why He's just pain right here If you feel like The guy that you with is not eating your box the proper way If you like him it is your duty to explain to him and to show him properly The way you like your pussy Eight cookie. How'd that conversation go cookie? Listen nigga. I need you to Do it like this like that lay back on this go You don't do more that she's giving them a More more more more And she giving them instructions now Do she got do she got to take them in the room and like give them a class like like like how's this how's it work? Do it do it you do do everything in your pop and your power To school a nigga that you like because outside of that Then you just want to be outside. I'ma be real. Can I I know this is 1 800? I mean oh, can I can I no go ahead? I think head is one of them things that you could totally craft You can learn how to do it Both sides like man basketball something The woman that woman could crack like that's exactly that's so you could mold that in that like so she should so so what she should do You can mold the head part of it It takes it takes practice put the nigga together That's crazy Crazy What nobody said that so say mold the nigga so the nigga nobody said that my question is my question is because right now She's ready to break up with a nigga because he can't eat the box right as this this is this she probably want to fuck somebody else That's the real no, she said that's not it This is what it is Figure out excuse for her to be like, you know what I'm out of here sound like I'm stepping out on this nigga I don't want her to do that because outside Because if he hitting it right and he gotta be hitting it right because he she just complaining about him not eating the box Right like we so Me she's not though She didn't specify But maybe that's her thing. That's a double negative. He's not he's not hitting it right And I eat the box and I eat the box She might be more into getting it and fucking kind of lingus. She's a kind of linguist. She's a kind of linguist Hahaha That type of language. Okay. I guess you you got you made It's great. He gave you everything you need. Baby girl. What more what more do you want? Yeah, hold on We gotta hold on. Time to fuck out. First of all, get it right. Get it. We gotta give her advice Okay. Here's the thing Okay, young lady If you have a nigga that you care about Okay what you should do is talk to him, have an open line of communication on the way you need your box eight. Right. Okay? That's it. If you like your ass eight a little bit with that, let him know. So she get the nigga, The main special. So she get the nigga that's eating her box right to show him. What? You call it the main special? What? The what? That's on the menu? Say baby girl, you ever been the main? Damn. That's a whole place. Oh my God. Y'all not taking life seriously? I like that. Well, you ever been the main? You ever been the main mama? This is a 25th episode, bro. I'll take you there. 25th episode. Main is a place, it's crazy. I'll take you there. This thing is a noun, a verb, a pronoun. He's everything, bro. I can't wait the next week. I'm coming ready. I'm coming ready. I'm coming ready. Playmaker. Yeah. We did enough chatting. We did enough chatting, but since it's our 25th episode, we need to do some rapping, man. We got my God Vado. Vado. Fire. Fire. Slime. Shop hot. So let's take it to the booth. Let's rock about it. Shout out to Playmaker. You already know what it is. And yo Piff, what you cooking up? Hey yo, the flow got a glow. I really mopped it. I'm in the class by myself and it's really crowded. Was told to never show dough when you really got it. That's why the volume so low. I'm really shouting. Lower up on the NBs, I copped last year. Lower up on the sleeve, the socks cashmere. 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