Call Her Daddy

Anitta: Daddies, Dating & Dancing (FBF)

46 min
Feb 20, 2026about 2 months ago
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Summary

Alex Cooper interviews Brazilian artist Anitta about her rise from the favelas to global stardom, her creative process across five languages, and her candid perspectives on sexuality, relationships, and personal wellness. The conversation covers her dual persona (Larissa vs. Anitta), collaborations with major artists, viral dance challenges, and detailed sexual health and relationship advice.

Insights
  • Successful artists benefit from creating distinct performance personas that allow them to break social boundaries and entertain audiences while maintaining private authenticity
  • Overwork and constant pursuit of metrics (streams, followers, chart positions) can diminish fulfillment; strategic rest and selective engagement improve long-term satisfaction
  • Building a career from humble beginnings requires early clarity of vision, self-management skills, and willingness to learn business alongside creative craft
  • Cultural differences in social behavior (Brazilian vs. American party culture) reflect deeper values around community, spontaneity, and collective experience
  • Open discussion of taboo topics (sexuality, bodily functions, mental health) reduces shame and creates authentic connection with audiences
Trends
Celebrity wellness narratives shifting from hustle culture to sustainable success and mental health prioritizationViral dance challenges as primary discovery mechanism for music artists, particularly on TikTokMultilingual artist development as competitive advantage in global music marketsCreator-led product extensions (perfume, beauty) leveraging personal brand and solving real problemsAuthenticity and boundary-breaking as differentiation strategy in crowded entertainment marketsParasocial relationships between fans and artists enabling direct feedback and co-creationSexual health and pleasure education becoming mainstream podcast contentArtist self-management and entrepreneurship as standard career model rather than exception
Topics
Artist Career Development and Self-ManagementPersonal Branding and Dual PersonasMultilingual Music ProductionViral Dance Challenges and TikTok StrategyWork-Life Balance and Burnout PreventionSexual Health and Pleasure EducationRelationship Red Flags and Boundary SettingOvercoming Abusive RelationshipsCultural Differences in Social BehaviorParasocial Fan RelationshipsCelebrity Product ExtensionsMental Health and TherapyAuthenticity vs. Performance in EntertainmentCelibacy and Self-SufficiencyTaboo Topic Normalization in Media
Companies
Billboard Magazine
Referenced as source crediting Anitta as more influential than Beyoncé, Rihanna, and Lady Gaga
Grammy Awards
Anitta nominated for Best New Artist award in current year
Fenty
Anitta is sponsored by Fenty, performed in Fenty show, and does photo shoots for the brand
Spotify
Referenced as platform requiring constant content creation for artist success
Instagram
Social media platform mentioned as mandatory for artist visibility and success
YouTube
Video platform cited as essential channel for modern artist promotion
TikTok
Platform where Anitta's dance challenge went viral and drives music discovery
People
Mariah Carey
Anitta's first musical idol and diva inspiration; spoke with her for hours by phone
Rihanna
Artist Anitta admired growing up; now sponsored by her Fenty brand
Lady Gaga
Referenced in Billboard comparison as less influential than Anitta internationally
Snoop Dogg
Anitta's favorite collaboration partner; praised for humble energy and vibe-based approach
Cardi B
Collaborated with Anitta; noted for funny personality and positive energy
Pharrell
Listed among Anitta's notable collaborators
Missy Elliott
Collaborated with Anitta; described as having great energy
Rita Ora
Listed among Anitta's notable collaborators
Saweetie
Listed among Anitta's notable collaborators
Becky G
One of Anitta's best friends and collaborators
Beyoncé
Referenced in Billboard comparison as less influential than Anitta
Quotes
"I think we should always remember because sometimes the industry does this to us they push us to think that we need always more more and more and more and i think nowadays with the internet it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything everyone every time"
Anitta
"I'm not saying i regret the thousands of people i fucked i'm just saying right now i don't feel like maybe next month i feel like fucking thousands of people again just now i just feel like not right now"
Anitta
"when the guy tries his selfish he tries to say he's doing things for you but he's actually doing for him he doesn't want to be alone he is needy"
Anitta
"i think sometimes men forget like would you want us like jackhammering your dick yeah no you like when it's like very wet and like you don't need it to be like let's fucking go"
Anitta
"i think i'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy you know that's the artist i like to be about everything not only sex but i bring up subjects which is like talk about my plastic surgeries talk about sex talk about poop talk about things that we all do"
Anitta
Full Transcript
What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy. Anita, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Thank you. Daddy Gang, we are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all, and I'm honored to be sitting with you today. Anita is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country. billboard magazine has called her more influential than beyonce rihanna and lady gaga what the fuck no no big fucking deal anita in brazil maybe i don't know international i don't know you also are nominated for a grammy this year for best new artist congratulations thank you it is like your career is incredible and watching you grow has just been so fucking cool but I know you from when we met at the baby to baby gala yeah I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event because I I know we met like briefly but we were sitting next to each other I was dying you are so funny you're so charismatic you have such a personality what do you remember from that event I think our table was so fun. We had like very fun people with us. And we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction, you know, dinner. I don't think. Yes. Anita and I are like, we meet and two seconds later, Anita's like, so like, how does your vagina smell? And I was like, oh, hey girl, what's up? And we're like, let's talk about our buttholes and our vaginas as like a corporate Spotify person is sitting directly to our left. my favorite was also when they not that like everyone knows the baby to baby gala but so there's like angels that work at the event so oh my god so anita is like chilling and like now it's like towards the end of the night like people have left but like people are saying so anita's like you know girl like i got an early morning like i'm gonna dip out and i'm like totally get it i'll be leaving soon so everyone in the crowd is sitting and they're like hey can all the angels stand up to give people context it's about 11 women in a crowd of 300 and they go everyone all the angels stand up anita just starts standing up she's like bye everyone i gotta go and it's a dead silent room and she's like wait and i'm like anita it's only the it's worse than that it's worse than that tell us in my mind i thought he was she was telling she was calling all the women angels stand up all the women and I thought all the women was gonna stand up that's why I stood up and you're like this is the perfect moment for me to like sneak out the back door only 11 people of like 300 and Anita literally sits back down she's like mother fuck that was terrible it was it was a great moment let's kind of go back through like your life a little bit to get to know you better what was life like where you grew up outside of rio de janeiro so people don't think when when they see me or they see like my songs and whatever they don't imagine that i come from like the communities it could be called the ghetto a little bit it's like the favelas when you go to brazil there's like communities places that like the houses are really close to each other it's a really like humble place simple i come from a place like that i was born and raised in a place like that my mom used to do the best she could to fake the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother so we all see everything with like this beauty and playing in the streets things like that very like very like in the hood you know and and but she always told us that a way for us to leave there it's not that we don't like there but we all want to leave because we want a better life so she always said that the only way to get out would be studying and we always did the best we could like studying and doing like all we could and um I always loved music so I started doing music but also like studying everything I was my own manager for like 10 years me and my brother we were partners so it was a whole job not only from arts but also like business when and at what age did you realize your love for performing oh no since since i was a little kid i was already like singing and when i was three years old like four or five i was already singing and my family used to ask me like these these questions like what are you gonna be when you grow up whatever and i always used to be like i'm gonna be famous i'm gonna be an artist i'm gonna have a pool in my house blah blah blah that was literally me so you kind of always knew always i would pass through some pass by some places that I knew it was like TV places like studios or whatever and I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say like you guys are gonna see me I'm gonna work here blah blah nine years old I was always like this personality kind of crazy I love that so much though because I think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you need to get sure i was sure it was not that i said like oh i want to be i was sure i was i would tell my family where i was gonna live how my house would be the tv shows i were gonna be the people we're gonna meet i would be like that when i was a kid i could literally like see and dream about this and like my family was like okay because it was a very humble life so they would never prospect that in my life totally so they would be like okay and i was like you guys don't understand i'm not saying i want to i'm gonna be there but there's no option it's happening do you guys want to come along for the ride or not exactly who were some artists that you admired growing up mariah carey was my first one she's my first diva i and i had the the opportunity to tell her that and it was crazy and be on the phone with her for hours that was also crazy and for me she was the number one forever and um then Rihanna and now I I'm sponsored by Fenty I did the Fenty show I do like photo shoots for Fenty it's crazy even when you're saying that like does it still feel surreal like how much success you've had i think we should always remember because um sometimes and i think the industry does this to us they push us to think that we need always more more and more and more and i think nowadays with the internet it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything everyone every time you got to be happy also you got to take time for yourself also so i think that uh this speech that I used to have for my life for many years like you can be more you can do more never stop never give up I was like that and when I was like that I couldn't see those things that happened in my life I would be like okay yeah I met Mariah okay yeah I loved it but I couldn't like look and be like wow nowadays for me it's like yeah we can definitely give up we can definitely go rest take a nap go to sleep we don't need all the money in the world you know a person the money doesn't mean happiness and the many as many number ones you get in your life that's not going to make you happier or not so for me it's like every single thing that happened that happened in my life I learned how to stop and be like wow look at what I did this is so and then live that moment again I got to this reflection when, cause last year I got super sick, right? Super sick. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't go upstairs at my house. I couldn't do anything. Literally for three months I was like, and I thought literally that I was going to die. It was a whole thing. And then I was in the hospital for so long. And then I was like, you know what? I was just working, working, working to reach everything and thinking I still didn't have enough. and now i'm here and what did i get from life like right did i enjoy it did i have fun did i do nothing did i and the thing that i wanted the most was like to travel to have more free time and but today is too much for you to be successful you gotta be on instagram youtube tiktok spotify it's so many things that you gotta do we're just one human being it's too much how can we do all of that it's a lot so I'm not up to waste my life searching for for things anymore because I'm almost 30 now I'm 29 and I do think it was important and amazing for me to do that for so many years but now I just want to rest if I get more success amazing if no amazing it's okay your birth name is actually Larissa yeah do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anita so um my name Larissa is very common in Brazil Anita is a name that there was just one character from a series called Anita and I wanted to be this girl because she used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series she used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl she liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be today i want to be crazy tomorrow i want to be sexy and then i want to be pretty and then i want to be princess and i was like that's so cool because i don't want i don't like to define myself and be like okay i'm this yep i'm so many things i like to discover every day a new me you know and i think people have the necessity of defining you'll be like she is that and i like to be all what is the difference between larissa and anita oh my god it's huge it's huge i started my career 12 years ago here in america i am a best new artist i'm joking but i am nominated as best new artist for the grammys because it's a new career i started from the zero you know i left everything and i came to start here again but 12 years ago when i started there i created this character because me larissa i'm very shy to be honest i'm very insecure i'm very like i don't like going out i don't like socializing i don't like doing anything you know i'm so the opposite of who i am when i'm in this character and when i created this character anita I wanted a person, a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy, you know, people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other, you know. And that's what I wanted to do. How many languages can you sing in? Sing, I can sing in five languages. It because I sing in Portuguese Spanish English Italian and French But French just a little bit I speak just a little bit and italian a little bit how the fuck did you learn all these languages so i'm gonna give a very good example right now of larissa and anita right okay so when i go to interview as anita you gotta deliver entertainment right yeah so people ask me how did you learn so many languages i say with boyfriends whenever i wanted to have a no and no language i would date a different guy and like different accents but in reality i had which is kind of boring the reality larissa i hired different teachers from different places of the world and i would i used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments i had so i used to like get two hours of glam every day i would be studying this during this two hours the teacher would be telling me and i would be like studying for these two hours i fucking love your honesty of like let me be so clear anita is like if i wanted to learn italian i'm going to date an italian man fuck an italian guy like actually i was just hiring people and they were just teaching me do you ever worry that like now being so honest about like the two characters that people will be like wait why what the fuck like this isn't the real you no because i think uh it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that i use my character to break rules to bake to break boundaries and like uh things that limit us women to do all women women that wants to be free in sex women to want women women that wants to be free in um work whatever i like this character it brings it brings to us um self-esteem confidence and something to look at even i do when i'm myself larissa nowadays i look at me as a character and i'd be like okay i think i can get that from anita and be a little bit more confident about myself you know it's so much easier for people to watch a movie and see that character and be like okay and understand the actor is another thing yeah but they don't understand that musicians singers they do the same thing we do the same thing there's no way we're bringing the on self the person that we are at home the person that we are in family and bring this person on stage it's not entertainable it's not it's not different enough for people to look and be like oh this is special who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song a snoop dog that is for sure because i think him and cardi b because they are so funny and snoop dogg is very like simple humble and he's like everything for him is a vibe it's all about if he likes you if he likes what's your your energy if if he see he has something kind of i don't know he sees someone and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or not i feel i think so that's what i think from him because i just feel like i can hug him and be there like safe forever i think he's one of the coolest guys and cardi b she's just just funny but good energy like best energy like high level i love that i was reading the list i'm like pharrell missy elliott snoop dog rita aura cardi b saweetie becky g i'm like back is one of my best friends missy elliott was great energy too it was so good so good okay anita you're also known for your dancing okay yeah the anita challenge went viral on tiktok which i remember just watching these videos and being like one how is this not getting censored on tiktok i can't even like fucking curse in my tiktok meanwhile people are like doing the challenge and like it's incredible watching it can you explain how twerking in brazil is different than twerking in america because it's not even only twerking it's partying in general i think here in america people in the parties they're more concerned about who they're with where they're going what they're wearing and you know it's like the table situation in brazil there's no table situation you go to the party there's no table everyone is just one place mess together just find out you know and um we love dancing we love dancing sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing we just want to dance sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over they just sing a different melody just same words always and we love it we just want to dance we just want to listen and dance what is it like being known for like the way that you dance though are you like so proud of yourself it's crazy because in brazil it started this fever of like oh we're gonna do anita moves anita moves okay now we need you to twerk okay okay so this is be iconic i think people will love it is this the wrong surface oh my god okay okay so do you want music we have music no it doesn't need to okay so you just go like you're gonna do a push-up right okay and then you just do a circle that basically you're doing this with your knees okay What? Wait. That must take a lot of upper body. It's like when you're doing this, but in this position. Anita. Oh my God. I could only breathe. No, but your... This other one is hard though. When you do a circle, but you stop in the middle, so you do a square. I feel so creepy. I'm literally like, holy shit. Dude, that was so good. I am like inspired now to go home and like secretly practice it, but like not letting anyone know I'm practicing it. But like I will be working on it. And next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to bust out. and do you incorporate these into your sex no no it's just a dance when the guy asks me to dance i go like dance first he's never gonna fucking dance so i'm like what the fucking question is that right you're like i'm not i'm not performing like exactly i get silly it's so annoying like dance first you you dance i dance are you currently single or in a relationship i'm single completely single and not looking for anything i'm so happy with myself and i don't have sex in months so many months i don't even remember the last time i had sex to be honest with you Are you just masturbating? No. Like I'm celibate. Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like, okay, this one deserves to come here. And I didn't find it yet. You're spending time alone. But I was crazy before. I used to like fuck even like one person that would cross me on the street. I would be like, you come here. Stop. I would be like that. How did you get that confidence? Just like go up to people. because i was living anita 24 7 of the time do you have a type of guy no girl breathing in the life i don't know there's something inside that comes and this something for some reason i can feel it and then i'm like so there's no type i can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends and you'll be like what's the sense between these people i love that though what do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person i think we are when they are funny i love when they're funny you make me laugh i'm like ah i love it and um it's so good when they are confident a little aggressive but in a good way i like when they are aggressive in a good way not like abusive relations have you found yourself in um any like abusive relationships oh yeah terrible but i needed just once and then never again like in two months after this one guy i had like for a year and something wow uh i can look if i'm starting with someone in one month i can feel it's abusive i'm like out can you try to give like if people are listening they're like fuck like i think i may be in one like do you have any like signs or things to look for yeah because in the beginning they let you feel very uncomfortable you know and then they start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying they don't say you are less or not you know yeah they just make they point it's like they point things and other people that they are actually talking about you but they pretend they're not and then oh honey i'm almost a psychologist i i look and i'm like okay and then i start bringing shit over for themselves to think so you mean like they'll point something out and someone in a room yeah that like sure relates to you or is like what you don't have or or or just say like you see that's so bad oh my god kind of like to guide you how to not be are you usually the one breaking up with people or they yeah i am i need that to change though i think that's why i'm waiting so much i want things to be different got it what is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship when i feel suffocated i don't like that or when i think when i feel suffocated is the number one thing like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason you know like too much come on or needy like i miss you i want to talk to you like 24 7 come on give me a break give me a time to breathe right there's nothing more like unattractive which i get it we're all insecure but being in a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship it's like such a turn off you're like can you just like yeah get into therapy muster the courage when the guy tries his selfish he tries to say he's doing things for you but he's actually doing for him he doesn't want to be alone he is needy he doesn want to stand with himself alone but he he says that oh no i doing this for you come on you not i want to be fucking alone yeah for a little time can you give advice to women listening that are like okay wait anita you have not been with someone you're not hooking up with people like how are you so comfortable being alone so everything started and i i hope people don't need that to change lives when i got sick that was like when i was in bed thinking i was gonna die i started to look over all the things of my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again it's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore please God I'm down I'm open I'm free tonight I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things and I want to do differently I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because i don't want to lose him i want to have sex sex because i feel like doing it because i feel like this guy deserves my this queen going to you know i don't know and before i didn't used to like staying by myself i used to just like need friends every time in my house friends every time i needed people yep and now i don't need no but i can be alone like this for days you know cook my own food and be like life is beautiful i'm just here chilling and i i feel like we need to ask ourselves why are we scared of the silence what is inside of us that we don't want to listen to you know what what we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it i'm not saying i regret the thousands of people i fucked i'm just saying right now i don't feel like maybe next month i feel like fucking thousands of people again just now i just feel like not right now is it worth it i remember i went through almost this is i've never said this i almost went an entire year in my 20s where i did not have sex and i was like totally happy oh i'm so happy like it was like just like a reclaiming moment for myself of like i need to just figure my own shit out and i don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while i try to i kind of want but it needs to be a great penis it needs to be a penis plus a brain plus a tongue plus so many things you know it needs to be uh like a mix because it's a lot of work to have sex For me, it's a lot of work. I like to put a show on. Oh, you do. Can you give us some tips, Anita? Like, if the girls are like, what do you mean put a show on? Like, give us some tips. Like, what's your go-to? Because I like to enjoy myself. I like to feel like I'm, like, dancing and performing. Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at, like, eating you out? I teach. I love you. I would teach. I would say, come on, let me say something. do this do that and i don't like when they go like this look they put the tongue very um hard and they go like and it's like you go like oh my god i don't like that right it's just like a little like slithering and you're like it's so bad i was this day these days oh by the way i didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls I did have so I was teaching this friend of mine how to how to eat a pussy these days and she was like oh it's that easy and I was like yeah I came in three minutes she came in two wait you were practicing on each other yeah and you're just friends yeah there was no like sexual connection oh no I was just teaching her you just like took off your pants like here's my vagina let me teach you uh-huh fuck okay like we need some tips it without taking off your pants and us doing it do you have any like like one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just like help achieve more i will say first of all for girls for whatever guys girls to eat girls personally i think it's kind of different for each girl i don't know the things i like can be different from the things yep other girls like me personally when i'm doing that with a girl i go nice and slow i do circles and then i just do up and down and i do side by side but like slow and wet and not like you're eating a pasta it's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your tongue if you're gonna you're gonna freeze your tongue you're gonna feel like ice cold and um yeah i just go nice and slow and then i put a finger on it and i don't put the finger on it like you know i just put it like nice and slow small moving movements and like just smooth you know and And then, like, I don't go in the crazy side by side. I just go in a smooth, keep going with the flow, you know? And the girl is kind of going to guide you. And then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina. You don't need to go all the way down there. And it's not because the woman squirted that she came. There was this time this guy made me squirt like 20 times. and I was not coming. I was like, this doesn't mean something's happening. Men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt. Look at me in the eyes of this camera. Stop. The next day, it hurts. Oh, it hurts so bad. Come on. I think sometimes men forget, like, would you want us, like, jackhammering your dick? Yeah. No. You like when it's, like, very wet and, like, you don't need it to be, like, let's fucking go. Imagine we did that also dry. you would have rug burn same for us okay same for us there is also like with guys what i do um let me try to give an example i always use oil when i can when the guy is not full of like some guys are like oh you're using the i love i love using lubricant love it and some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job shut the fuck up it's just more pleasing yes you use lubricant i put the lubricant i'm gonna teach you in this bottle okay okay here we go i put the lubricant and then i go like this first of all i go like this and then this is one movement and then you're gonna do something there's something you can do that they are not gonna understand what you're doing you could tell him to close his eyes you're gonna do this you're gonna hold here and the bottom and you're gonna do this with the hands like this you go down and circle down a circle down a circle and then you go up and down up and you do this but up and down up and down and you do this don't don't don't he's gonna be like what is happening but you should put um lubricant on it but you go like this don't do this it's like go up and down don't don't let it go just open up and down and you do this open and close open and close because then you're gonna switch the pressure on it and you're gonna be like what is she doing though but you gotta put lubricant on it right so you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base yeah like this oh that's magical and then they get super confused because it feels like a blow job but it's not and then you for the blow job i like using um things that you put in your teeth to to fix it plastic yeah yeah yeah the Invitiline kind of yeah there's a bunch of brands yeah if you use the one down just the one down life-changing really it feels like you don't have teeth I need a it feels like you don't have teeth yeah you can try I just added that to my Amazon cart while you were you can ask them wow they're gonna feel like you don't have teeth and just on the bottom because it's gonna touch the yeah because it's on the up too it's gonna look weird yeah but if you use only on the bottom they're gonna feel like you don't have teeth because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here because it's not like aggressive it's like smooth as a plastic this is an educational podcast today okay we are educating but this is bad they don't like it like The brand of the dentists, they will try to kill me. And they're going to say I'm bullshit. Because I try to say that in Brazil. Wow. They wanted to kill me. I feel like they would love it. The sales are going to rock it. They wanted to kill me. No, no, no. That's not the purpose. This is health for people to take care of the... Right. While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth. You're multitasking. But people don't want to know about that. They don't do blowjobs. They just were born from sand spirit that came. and so everyone is virgin today i am i am claiming that this is a great technique and you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick nothing better i wouldn't say that i'm not a dentist i'm just saying if you want to try you try if no it's okay totally if you already have one pop it in see how it works hate me because i said that and in brazil they hate dentists they do because I said you it's good when you use it but they hate it they don't like that I said they're the virgin dentists they need to fucking relax have you ever been cheated on once when i was um 19 18 so how did you find out oh my god online a fan a fan told me no and uh oh but twice i was twice once was a fan told me second one i pretended it was a fan because i actually dreamed about it i dream about about a lot of things that actually happen so there was one time I went to sleep this boy I landed my car to him he didn't have a car I landed my car to him I was already a singer I was performing somewhere else he went to the place and he I when I went to sleep I literally went to like in my dream I went to the club he was I saw him kissing the girl he was wearing blah blah blah blah the girl was wearing and it was so clear to me and I know I have these type type of dreams So I didn tell him I dreamed I said hi a fan took a picture and sent me you were with this girl you were wearing blah blah blah she was wearing blah blah blah and then he was desperate saying yeah I'm sorry after months I told him I dreamed it have you ever got caught cheating um no I'm so smart i am so smart how do you feel about sex on the first date i don't care yeah if i feel like i do you just be yourself and if he likes you amazing if he doesn't it's because he's an asshole and he's not that he's an asshole he doesn't match you and you just want him because of you think you need him for something but you don't i love that advice it's like if you're good with yourself who gives a fuck if they if you don't care it doesn't matter there was this one time this one guy i went on a date after it did not it ended up not happening anymore i was like he doesn't want me blah blah and then after two weeks when i was like better with my therapy on the on point and i was like what the fuck i was doing with that guy he has he makes no say he kisses terribly his kiss i was like where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss it was like it was a terrible kiss the sex would be even worse why i was caring so much it was it's just our fear of being rejected has nothing to do with the guy we don't even care about the fucking guy so true has nothing to do with the fucking person the person sometimes is shitty yes and we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected i also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up then now assess would you actually like them like if you're coming from a place of like they don't like me i want them to like that's just the chase and we get no and then he texted me and i was like no thank you like you kiss like a frog i was like no today i have my mind so on point no thanks some people you just go with them because your mind is not on point right and then you wake up one day and it's like alleluia what the fuck what i was doing with that person it's so crazy too when you look back and you're like i can't believe i was fucking obsessed with that guy he fucking sucked yeah sometimes you just need to like step away from it how do you feel about sharing nudes i don't do that you don't no is it just because you're nervous because like you're a celebrity before yes nowadays i just think it's uh new i think it's more sexy when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing but it doesn't show i think it's more sexy plays more with the imagination to be honest i love that we're like having a hand on it you know it's more even a picture of a dick it's not beautiful come on getting a picture of a dick let's be honest it's not great let's be honest it's not great you're like oh there it is when you see that guy naked like it's not hot that's not hot what are you responding if a guy sends you a dick pic i'd be like i sent an emoji or something i don't know i'm like that's not it i don't know i don't feel anything with that what emoji um but the eyes you know these two eyes that look like that's it it kind of doesn't say anything it's just not to leave the guy in red i kind of love it though because then it could make him a little insecure of like wait hello and you're like that's all you got that's all you got do you like sexting sex what sexting like texting sexting no no me all these things for me are just not i like the real thing come on come here let's yes not the sex sex i like the little horny talk uh-huh but not the sex like i'm gonna put my dick put in your pussy and bang it 20 times i don't like that i like the little horny thing you know what intimidates you in the bedroom what intimidates me a huge insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass that's very intimidating when a dick is like huge it's so scary trying to go in your butthole it's kind of not good because you're so scared this one guy i saw i was like okay i think i'm gonna try here and then his dick was so big so big and i was like listen i'm scared i didn't know why and then i said this is something i don't think i can handle right now at this moment of my life i cannot handle this i think check back with me in a couple months and then we just talked and cuddled and it was it have you ever had a threesome oh so many times do you enjoy them i do i think it's cool i like it i think it's more but you you have to be very aligned with everyone you know and yeah i have threesome four six some six some i had a boyfriend that used to like to like switch couples and all do you like the the swapping thing yeah did you like it yeah he was very like comfortable and uh the people he always let me pick and um it was just fun it was very cool and respectful and fun did you ever get jealous oh no no i'm not a jealous person i'm jealous if i don't feel respected if i don't feel respected i'm very i get not even jealous i get angry i think that people that want to potentially do threesomes or foursomes or orgies or whatever like i think you need to know yourself before you do that of like if you're a jealous person yeah don't fucking do do that yeah know yourself sometimes people i think do it for their partner and it's like if you know your relationship don't do it just because you think he or she wants to do it yeah that's a big issue to be honest i don't yeah i think you need to be very friends with your partner to make sure he also there is this one time and three times also with guys but he wouldn't be with a guy just me and he was super comfortable with that he picked it and it was cool i liked it to be honest but he let me feel feel free with that do you like to use toys in the bedroom i do the guy gotta be confident though i know but i do me too and that's why i i did my line of perfume like when i did that it was more about like i was doing concerts and obviously i'm performing for like two hours and carnival is like four hours performing non-stop even seven hours i've done and um when you finish you don't smell good so let's just have a real talk a butthole smells like butthole if you go in the end of the day you put your finger in the butthole and you smell it it smells like butthole it's a place there is there inside locked in the dark warm hot doing this the whole date this is gonna sweat it's like under your arms there's no way you're gonna sweat you're gonna smell it's there inside of your whole clothes so i was like i don't like i'm obsessed with smell right i was like i don't like smelling like sweat in my butthole and then a friend of mine told me oh i'm gonna do something for you and she did this perfume and i used it and it was like i was smelling great even if i went to the saada desert and i did a music video there it was like 42 degrees celsius and it was so hot i was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic i was sweating like crazy and i was still smelling good i was like you know what i'm gonna make this like professional and then i did it and you just smell amazing your pussy and your butthole smell great the whole time and then i give it to the guys that i'm with and they put in their balls and the dick in the butts too they smell great for me it's such a like a turn on i love it after i got this product something i always done was like to forget oh my god by accident my panties at the place so they smell so good and smells insanely good like strawberry or whatever cotton candy and this guy obviously when you leave guys pay attention he will smell the panties he will smell the panties he wants to know and then he will smell the part that your butthole is on it and it's not gonna smell like butthole and it's just heaven they always come back anita you're giving us everything we need today okay there's so few people that you can just like have an open conversation like this talk about your sexuality your sex life what do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual if they're watching today and they're like new fans like what would you want to say i would say definitely what i said here like i think i'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy you know that's the artist i like to be about everything not only sex but i bring up subjects which is like talk about my plastic surgeries talk about sex talk about poop talk about things that we all do and for some reason we leave we live our lives pretending we don't yeah you know and i don't understand what's the type of insecurities or i don't know that make people live in this fake world that just pretend life is this 24-7 glam. Knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft, like you are running the show. You're your own manager. You do everything. I really respect you. And I cannot wait to see what you do next. And I can't wait for the new album and all the things. You deserve all of it. So thank you so much for coming on. Thank you. I loved it. I felt really at home. I hope people like it. and I loved meeting you. You have great energy. You do too. Love you.