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One of the girls is his daughter. Wait, wait, wait. Let's come back just a second. Okay. Walk us through the whole thing. Okay, so how did you meet this guy? I met him through a friend. I met him through a friend. So this wasn't a dating site or online or anything used to say in-person meet? No. So you met the first time in person? The first time I met him in person is when he came here. Well, this week actually would be in a year. Eight years that he'd been in this country actually. That's the first time I met him when he came here to be with me. Okay. He came to visit me. So you met him online, so to speak? Yes. Okay. All right. And so you guys are having this relationship using WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger? Yes. Facebook, Facebook, yes. Okay. So you're online with this guy, Nichuria, and you're getting comfy cozy and he's promising you all kinds of things. And then... I know he didn't promise me anything. He met me and he was talking about how his wife passed away when he was in Nigeria. He was so lonely that he was glad to meet some person to talk to some person. You know, like that. He came here. I was supposed to do surgery. He begged me not to do the surgery. He was going to come here to be with me when I was going through my surgery. Okay. And that's how it all started. Okay. So he was promising you to be the guy that you want. At this point, how long have you been married? I'm June the 8th. June this year, it'd be eight years. Okay. And are you still currently legally married? Yes, we are. Okay. Okay. And so how can we help you? Because I went... He's using my social security number. Taking... He bought a house under my social. He bought... He's using... Also, he take credit cards out under my social security number. You know, there's a lot of whole stuff he keeps doing to me. And every time my social security number now is on the black web. So it's my son's social security number is shown up on the black web. You know, I went down to Gavison to follow a fraud identity tab. I went call the fraud department. That's good. Also, there's one... That was good. Yeah. I have... I have a... They give me a number. I have my own special number for them. I went to rent to where he live in Alabama State. I don't want to call the state. Went to Alabama State where he's living. And because I keep on my credit report every... By the time he left me in January last year, he's just being keep running up my social security number. I'm being losing points. I'm losing over 50 something. All right. So... So... I just... So you're... So you're... I'm not getting any help. Nobody is trying to help me. You know... I don't want to get help. You can't... I... I'm here and here up here by me. I went for help. They're telling me because I'm legally demarcating him. He has rights to use my social... No. I call Social Security. They said no. I called the fraud department. They said no. He needs to be charged with this. I'm trying to get help. I went to this town when I found... I have a police report. And also I reported it to the police down there. I have a police report. I called the... I went down there. The investigator called me back. I sent him all of the... He told me I can't send him nothing from prior from up in Georgia. I go, I need to send a watch. Okay. Here's... Here's Deborah. Let me... Let me just interrupt you. Okay. Number one. Okay. I'm really sorry that you're going through this. I mean, it's not just financial abuse that you're going through, but also emotional abuse. Okay. It's also emotional abuse because you love this guy, but you wouldn't marry him. Okay. But as it turns out, the guy's a bum. Okay. And so... He's a... So what we have... What you have to do is figure out how to separate yourself from this guy. Now, you did the right thing. You did... It's a... It's form 14039 that you defiled with the IRS. And it's a... It's an identity theft affidavit. You did that. Okay. You file a police report. Okay. That's what you need to do. I did that too. Okay. That's good. You also file at identity theft.gov. Now, I don't know... I did that for them. I'm not a lawyer. I can't give you legal advice, but there's probably some immigration fraud maybe in here too. And so what I would encourage you to do is to find an immigration attorney. I can't. That's if everybody has been calling. Everybody's been turning. He's... No. That doesn't mean they can't help me. I'll be on the phone every day calling attorneys. Every day calling attorneys. And then here's what I want you to do. Here's what I want you to do. That national domestic violence hotline, they will help you. And financial abuse is domestic violence. It is. And so what you need to do is, is they have financial abuse specialists who can help navigate this exact situation. Because here, there's a lot of complicated stories in here. There's a lot of things that are going on. I will tell you that if you have any type of documentation, I want you to make sure that you save that. Any type of WhatsApp conversations, anything that you may have in email or in documents. I want you to make sure that you save all this. And if you can chronicle it, and as far as this is what happened on this day, on this day, and on this day, and also that friend that introduced you. Be very careful of that friend. That's not a friend. She all, and you mentioned this all the time. This year goes for everybody, but especially her, lock down your credit so he can't buy any more houses, so he can't open any more credit cards. Yeah, freeze your credit. Exactly. Maybe, you know, for that, I would sign up for Nord Protect. I mean, so this way you lock down your identity, and everything is frozen, everything is secure so that this way, they basically need to call you in order to do any type of activity to allow him to do anything. But I really want, I'm really encouraging you, and we're going to give you the phone number here on the break for the National Domestic Violence Hotline, because they can navigate these waters. You're in some very, very tricky waters right now, and if there's anything else that we can do, I want you to, you know, to just give us a call right back. Hey, want to stay in the tech now without wasting your time? Join nearly a million folks who get my free newsletter, The Current, where you'll see the latest in tech in just five minutes every single day. You're just going to love it. It has a five out of five star rating over on Trustpilot. Sign up right now at GetKim.com. That's GetKim.com.
