1450 - Kylie and her Husband are Into MFM Threesomes, Couple Swaps and More

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So today I have on Kylie. You're going to love Kylie. Okay. She's got a really interesting hot story. Her and her hubby have been married for a while just recently. Okay. By the end of the episode after she's told me so many stories of so many things that they did, I was like, how long you've been doing this for six months? Just so it's very recent. They wound up, they wound up opening up their marriage and they've done all kinds of things. M F M's. They've been with couples. They have a couple friend that they're into and they fooled around and they go like all the way with them. They've been to sex clubs with them. They like I said have been with other guys. They've met with a bunch of bulls and she gives all the stories. There's lots of them. She goes into all the details about all of them. She talks about the evolution of things in her relationship. We start off definitely with how they went from being a couple that doesn't do this to a couple that does and that's a super interesting story. Like I said, she gets very detailed. There's a lot of action that they've had in six months and then we end talking about how it really has changed things in the relationship. Of course. So anyway, I do have hot picks of them over on my Patreon. If you want to see them anonymous pecs anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Kylie. Hi Kylie. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you, Kathy? I'm good. So Kylie, you sound super young to me. You're not married. You got a boyfriend, right? And you have an open relationship. No, no, no, no. You're not married. I'm 35 and I'm married. Oh, okay. All right. You sound like you're 25 and I'll take that. All right. So you're married. You're still young to me. You're 35 and yeah, married for 10 years. Yeah. And somewhere along the line, you guys decided to be very open about what you guys were into and then you started to play around. You've done three since you got into sex clubs. I was like, before we get on the call, what are you guys swingers and you're like, I hate that word. I'm like, yeah, kind of like is an old school word that kind of takes to me. I don't know older people. I don't know what's wrong with swingers, but it is a very old school word. What word do you prefer or no words? I like we intermingle. Okay. That so you would say, oh, we're interminglers. I hate swap too. Like I'm not here to swap. We're intermingling. Yeah, I like it. Okay. You're like sex, obviously. Okay. Listen, Kylie, your husband sitting right next to you. We might get him to call in, but most likely we're not gonna. We're going to just get the whole story from you because there's nothing more that my listeners love than a girl that's open and not shameful about the fact that she loves sex and she's into all this kind of stuff. Right. So that's why we have you on instead of your husband. Okay, Kylie. So tell me your guy's story. You've been married for 10 years and when, what was your sex life before you guys decided to open things up? Yeah. So we've been married for 10 years. I kind of dislike sometimes when I hear y'all talking about on other podcasts, how vanilla couples like they may not be as tight or they don't cause I'm like, when we were vanilla, we were still, we have had fire relationship and sex from the get go even like through kids. Like I always hate when people use kids as an excuse to not have sex. No, but it happens to people. You're just, you're just the odd one. Yeah, man. I'm like always ready for sex. Like the kids could be like banging on the door and I'm like, shh. Yeah. Your, your husband right there. He should just like kneel down right now and bow to you because it's not the norm. I'm saying I had a kid. I wasn't with a guy at the time. So I was like, thank God I'm not with him because at the end of the night when I was done taking care of my baby, I was like, thank God I don't have to blow someone right now. We fucking check. Yeah. And I wasn't horny. I have to say I, I got very far away from that part of me. I like being a mom in the beginning, it totally came back, but being a mom in that nesting phase, I didn't feel hot. I can't explain it and people promise to me, don't worry. That's normal. So I think you're, I don't, I do not think that people that say that are using it as an excuse. They're just the norm and you're not. And so like I said, your husband's lucky. You stayed super fucking horny. Your hormones were raging, which is great because I think it's so important. It's like my, it's like my SSRI is like my antidepressant. Well, listen, it is for everybody and that's like the best thing you could do is keep in touch and a hold of that through kids because it's not only the excuse, it's not only the thing that actually happens. A lot of times it's the thing that ruins relationships. The kids because the kids come and then the stress comes and if there's no sex to release that stress, it just becomes like a, you know, a downward spiral. Yeah, totally. So you guys in how that your vanilla life quote unquote was super hot. Now, were you guys always open about what you were into or was that what kind of changed the game? So I thought we were, but I guess the truth is I was open about what I wanted and he wasn't necessarily all the way open. Okay, so what were the things that you were open to him about and then what were the things that he brought to the table? So we always were like into exhibitionism to some extent like we have some really hot solo vanilla fucking like on like we ride motorcycles. So there was a time where we like rode our motorcycles to the top of this hill like overlooking a busy road with people driving by and they could clearly see us where he like stripped me butt ass naked and not just a pants down. Oh yeah, like a bit over motorcycle. But I was I came from a background where my dad cheated on my mom and I think that made me a very by nature. I'm very prone to monogamy and while I've told you that I love sex and I'm like very willing to do it all the time and I'm very willing to please my partner. So what he wants gets me off. I am very picky. So my husband's actually the third guy I've ever been with. Mm hmm. Okay. His past is the opposite. Very casual like no idea what his count is. Yeah. So us coming together is kind of an interesting thing. But yeah, I would say what really opened him up to telling me what he really liked was actually the low point of us. So he we're both military. Mm hmm. And we spent basically six years of our marriage with him deploying for like half of the year every year. I wasn't with anyone else while he was deployed. We were still very monogamous at that point. But he was able to be monogamous. Yeah, he was. Okay. But but what I found out later like two years later was that there was like this brief electronic cheating that occurred. Oh, interesting. He told you. Well, I think I might have been on his computer because we never hide. It wasn't like me going through it. We just never hide our things from each other. You know what I'm saying? There's no reason to because we're very, very like transparent with each other. Though neither of us are the type that would go through each other's things. That's not our nature. Okay. But I think I was on it doing something in messenger had like old messages on it where I found the messages and honestly kind of crushed me because at that point it was two years later we were like in a great place. Yeah, of course. And I was like, how could this be happening? Like I thought we were like the top one percent of marriages, which I still think we are. Yeah. So I brought it up to him and it kind of opened up to like, well, I thought you were getting everything you needed, but obviously you weren't. So tell me what it is. What is it that made this happen or whatever? At which point he kind of admitted to me. He never actually wanted to cheat on me, but that the cheating discussion was kind of a hot thing for him. Oh, when you would talk about it. Yeah, of course. It wasn't to my show. It wouldn't have made sense to me if I never did my show. I'd be like, if I was just your regular girlfriend, I'd be like, who gets turned on by cheating? But it turns out it's a thing. Yeah. Yeah. So that prompted me being like, well, be honest with me. If there's something you want, let's talk about it. And so I think at some point that opened some role playing of like me pretending like I was some girl that isn't his wife and vice versa. I don't know. It just turned into some role play dirty talk. And eventually he kind of opened up to me that the his favorite corn is MFM. Oh, okay. And that's what he likes to see. And oh, by the way, it would be really hot to share you with another guy. Oh my God. Did you ever think like he would be putting that on the table? That's like a surprise, right? Yeah. Yeah. I am very much like my beloved is mine and I am my beloved. Yeah. But, but like I told you, I do definitely get off on my partner getting off. So if this is something you find hot, I don't know. Let's think about it. Well, that just turned into like dirty talk during sex. Mm hmm. Oh, wouldn't it be hot if if you were sucking another guy while I was fucking you like this? And we did that probably for six to 12 months. 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It's his second wife and we had never met her, but we were very, very close with him. Like he lived with us for three months at a time when he was getting out of the army and like very close friends of ours. So we've never met the wife and so they were going to come visit our house and he brought his new wife and all their kids by the way and all of our kids are here. And we get one night where we just go out together where we're able to go out all the kids are babysat and so we all go out. We start talking somehow about like her past sex experiences and how like she's done some like three some type things. And I don't know we had a couple dirty martinis that alcohol was flowing. She and I end up like making out during this like dinner at a bar type thing. Now had you ever done that with a girl before? So my extent of girl on girl before her was only making out in front of guys to excite guys. Yeah. That's it. No touching and not into women either. Okay. And still am not really into women. Okay. Except her. Okay. So that turns into us like making out a bunch and the guys are like, okay, we probably need to get an Uber and get out of here before we get in trouble. Basically, cause we're like starting to grab each other a little and I now think in retrospect the guys talked about this before, but for us, did you ever ask your guy if that's true? Yeah. And I feel like they had some loose discussions about it. Yeah. Well, what did your husband say when you asked him? Yeah, we talked about it a little. They don't lie, but they never talked about it with the girls. Yeah. Hilarious. Okay. So we get home. No, let me tell you, we get in the Uber. She and I get in the back of it. It's like a van. We start making out hardcore. She's like ripping my pants off in the Uber jeans, not even like up a skirt. Like pulling my jeans down. I don't make that. She starts fingering me. I start fingering her. We're still making out. She's like going down on me. Oh my God. In the Uber and all ours. Is everyone in the backseat together? The guys are there watching. So the girls are in the back bench. The guys are in captain's chairs right in front of us, but they have the middle open. So they're watching us. Both of them are obviously like getting hard on us now. Her husband reaches his hand back out of nowhere and starts fingering me. Oh, obviously my husband is now going nuts over. I have no idea because I'm more of the jealous type. I don't really want to see him with a girl, but this girl for whatever reason is an exception in my mind. Interesting. Because we just vibe well. And I think it's because it's so obvious that she is so hot for her husband. Yeah, you know her and trust her, right? It's a trust thing for sure. So I grabbed his hand and I shove it towards her and he starts fingering her. So now like we're getting fingered by opposite husbands making out, still grabbing each other. Oh my God, that Uber driver. Oh my gosh, like he must be like mortified. Not really hard. He was probably hard just so you know, guys are different than girls. I think a girl would be mortified if guys were getting on the backseat, but a guy's like, I hit the fucking jackpot. Yeah. So at some point I just get like super eager and I start sucking her husband off, which she loves. I don't think she knew she was gonna let that either. Yeah. She's kind of anti that too. So we get home, we get out of the Uber half closed basically. We start like taking turns giving each husband double blow jobs like on our knees in the garage. And at one point the other husband goes inside to make sure basically that all the kids are asleep because now we've decided we're all going to go get in the hot tub. So we all go get in the hot tub again, just everybody on top of everybody. And I think that's like what's so hot about the four of us together is that it's not this. I told you earlier. I don't like the word swap. It's not this divided off swap. And as the more we've gotten into the lifestyle, I've found out that there are so many couples that are really just here for this divided off swap. But I'm not here for that. If I want to get fucked by a guy, the best I could ever get fucked by a guy. I have that at home. Right. Like I'm not here to fuck other people. I'm here to have some crazy fun experience that I couldn't have otherwise. Right. But most people that are fucking other guys, it's not because their guys suck at home, it's just that that's an added turn on. They're into it. That's a thing for them. Yeah. I guess that's just not a thing for me. It's their turning their guy on. It's a turn on. It's an extension, but by no means unless there's a problem at home. And typically I'm talking to successful people like you by no means is this person typically going for somebody else because their guy can't fuck them. Yeah. That's a good point though, that you're talking to successful people mostly. Yeah. But I had, listen, the ones who go into it for that exact reason that you just said, those are the ones that aren't successful. And I love to have the unsuccessful. Yeah. I love to have those people on because that's real life. Okay. Not everybody does it the right way. I like to show the right way and the fucking wrong way. And so it should never be like my guy can't fuck me. So I'm going to go find a guy that's better in bed. No way. Yeah. And we run into some of that. Yeah. So keep going. Sorry. So we're in the hot tub. It's bodies like all over bodies making out no guy on guy though. Neither of them are into men. They're not against being like in close proximity. But at some point, like they have us both on top of the hot tub cover and they're going down on opposite wives with us laid out next to each other. And she's like touching my boobs next to me. And that's probably the other thing that makes her like hot and an exception for me is that she's always like checking in with me too. Right. Yeah. I'm sure. Yeah. Which is very cool. Mm hmm. So we end up going upstairs to their guest room. We're still like everyone's going down on everyone. There was never full penetration with opposite couples that night though. Okay. Super fucking hot though. And we woke up in the morning like nothing happened. Like we're just friends cooking breakfast for our kids. So it's funny because we're all like talking about it and I'm kind of checking in. You okay? Everybody feel okay because we didn't discuss any rules. There was no boundary set like. Yeah. I don't know. That kind of made it hotter though. Like I know that's like the wrong answer. You really should discuss things in advance. But I don't know. It was very hot that it was like completely spontaneous. No rules were set out and everybody had a great time. Yeah. For sure. I could see that. I could see why you feel that way. So that situation kind of prompted then when they left more talk right because now my husband's had a taste of it and he's out so fucking hot to see a guy go down on you. Mm hmm. And watching you come while I'm like on the periphery super hot to me. So at some point a couple of days or a couple of weeks later I was had had a couple martinis and he's talking about it again and I'm like fuck it. So I just open up a field account at this point. It just has like photos of me but it says I'm married and I'm interested in like MFM or couple things. Uh huh. And so people start lighting us up and we we did talk to a couple guys. I feel like this was my first taste of realizing how flaky people are in this community. Do you do you know that they're flaky in every community? Sometimes people like oh they're so flaky here aren't your friends flaky aren't isn't everybody fucking flaky people are flaky. Okay. I'm a direct person. So if I'm not into you I'll just be like hey I'm sorry I don't think we're a good match. I know but don't you also know most people are not direct? Yeah I know. I just hate the ghosting. The ghosting is like. But that happens in the regular dating life. Most people hate confrontation. They're all fucking phony. Okay. I'm like you I role like you but. Yeah. I'll just be like hey I'm not I'm sorry but we're not a good match. Yeah. Just get it over with. Yeah. Yeah. But nobody is roles that way though. We're the minority. So welcome to the real world. That's just the way it is. Dating, life, friends, swingers is all that. It's just it's people in general are like that. Just like I don't give my husband the silent treatment if I'm mad. If I'm mad you're going to hear about that. I know. Yeah exactly. And then you're over it fast. I get it. Yeah. So yeah. Go on. So we we ended up talking to this guy for a while and I feel like the lesson I learned from him is I'm not ready to share all these photos and videos again until I know you're actually legit. Yeah. Because I shared so much with him. We have a hotel room lined up. He was going to meet us and the day of he's like oh hey. I can't come. Yeah. This is how everybody learns. People get really I'm talking to someone the other day the guy Antonio I just aired and he was saying like he's on SDC and like on SDC and certain sites like people are verified and they have reviews. I have a new code for my SDC. I have to give it out when I talk about it now because I waited really long time to find out who I could really promote on my show because people are always trying to ask me like where should I join and what I love about SDC is you can not only hook up with people but you could find out like events and stuff and do events yourself. But I love also it being you know having people be verified by other people so you could weed out like the trash a little bit better. I feel like my SDC code and there's a link in my description to this episode if anyone wants to join you get a free trial so you can see what it's all about and my code is three seven seven one two. I'll put it's all in the description anyway go on. So we met this this really hot guy who was a semi pro wrestler and he and I tried to yeah he so I I lift I have muscle and I get I'm not trying to sound like shallow but I'm interested in men that are like jacked. Oh I like that type MMA fighters. Yeah. Yeah I like that type too. I totally get it. There's nothing shallow about that. You think guys aren't shallow. Come on everyone shallow. I just want if you can lift my body weight with one of your arms. Yeah that's hot. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So we we talked for like a whole month probably because he had matches like every weekend so it was hard to find a scheduled time. Yeah. And we talked for about a month but then we did we set up a time that he was going to come to our town and meet up with us. Mm-hmm. So we met him at a bar immediately upon seeing him because we've been talking back and forth. I can't I can't be with someone sexually that I have. I can't be with a stranger. So we've been talking back and forth a little with my husband like on a lot of the texting and we meet up in person. There's a immediate chemistry like he's staring me up and down. I'm staring him up and down. My husband comes over shakes his hand make sure he's not like a creep that's going to cut me up and put me in the trunk and then and then he walks away for a while. It's like well I'm just going to go have a drink over here. So the two of us are like immediately like touching each other's legs a bunch and we did end up making out at the bar and essentially he gave us like 15 minutes came back was like hey you guys ready to get out of here and we were like hell yes let's go. We didn't have the kids home. We had the house to ourselves. So we got in the hot tub. They're both like touching me all over tons of kissing him going down on me. No penetration but just lots of touching kissing sucking very fucking hot. My husband basically told us to go rinse off in the shower without him. Interesting. He told me before I want to see it go in you. So we went in the shower. We're just again like making out washing each other off. He comes in. It was like in my bed in our house super comfortable and pretty much just me getting like switched back and forth spit roasted between the two of them like all night. Oh my God. How was that for you? So fucking hot and I have to tell you I really only did this for him. Yeah. Truly if I had the rest of my life if he had never said he wanted this it's never something I would have even thought about. But I definitely went into it for him but it makes me want to shake every woman and be like listen. You should try it. Really? So I'm not into being like the center of things normally though. Like I told you before like it gets me off to get my guy off. But so that was a little bit of an adjustment for me but it was so fucking hot. Like you're just being touched everywhere. It's a dream for a girl. I feel like. Okay. Listen guys. We all know that performance in the bedroom isn't just physical. It's mental too. And that's where blue chew gold comes in. While most ED Mads only focus on blood flow which get you hard. Blue chew gold goes further by combining two active ingredients for blood flow with two ingredients for mental arousal and connections. So you're not only going to be physically hard and ready. You're going to be in the mood. 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Oh, I would have been like, hell no. Yeah, which to me is always interesting. Yeah. So I still can't, I still can't get on board with, I would never be able to have a different guy every week. That's just not going to be me. I'm willing to play in this world, but I still can't do that part of it. So I, this is recurrent and... With the same guy. Right. That's what I would prefer. I would prefer we have one or two recurrent guys and honestly, if it's only this couple from now on, I'd be happy with that. Yeah, I roll like that. And a lot of girls do, like even Ember, what was so interesting about Ember's update with me the other day is she found like one ball and she's, I rather just be with that one guy. Like I like to know the person, feel comfortable with them and I know I'm going to have... They know what you like, the sex gets better every time. Yeah. And I'm sure your guy's happy with that. He's still getting like everything, all of that kind of good stuff, right? Like you're... Listen, he is a freak. We'll just say that. If I wanted strangers, he'd be like, yeah, let's do it. I still think at some point he has some fantasy down the line of him bringing some guy that I've never met. I still think that that's something that he wants at some point, but I'm very happy to move slowly with this. Okay. So now you have, you did say you went to sex clubs, like how we just not gotten there or like... We just haven't gotten there yet. Okay. So we hooked up with him a couple of times. Unfortunately, fortunately, he ended up like starting to date a girl seriously. We are still good friends though. Like when we ended it, it was like, hey, good best of luck for you. And I promise I won't cross any lines and hit us up if something changes down the line. Yeah. But we still check in with each other and our friends. So we did meet a couple after that that we had very good vibes with and we met for a meal, everybody liked everybody and we decided we were going to meet up again. Interestingly, she's a sex therapist. Oh, interesting. So before we met up for actual playing, there were rules. The rule was we're going to hook up this first time and only soft swap. Yeah. Hate that word, but here we are. And I'm like, that sounds like a great idea. At this point, I've never seen my husband with another woman like that and I'm not sure I want to. Yeah. So we went out to dinner. Everybody's like having a good time, having a couple drinks again back at our house. Kids gone. Thank you for Mimi's. And we were in the hot tub. Everything's hot. The girls are making out a little. The guys are like swapping us. We're sitting in their laps and swapping back and forth. There's definitely like points in time where both girls are blowing each guy. Like they're both getting double blowjobs and we end up moving inside. And the moving inside is where things for me went not fun because it basically became this divided off swap with him and her on one couch and he and I on one couch. And at this point, he's not even making eye contact with me. He also had too much to drink because he really wasn't trying to get into any of this to be with another girl. Like really, he, he really likes me with another guy more. Yeah. Mm hmm. That's so it just became divided off for too long and it was like not really fun for me. It was a little bit of a buzz kill. Mm hmm. That makes sense. And the guy also was saying things to me that I kind of hated like that I was like the hottest body he'd ever touched and like your wife is like right next to you. Like you should think she's the hottest body you've ever touched. Oh, interesting. Yeah. Like I don't need you to say that to me. Yeah. You're very like, yeah, I get as a woman, you're going to be thinking like from her standpoint, just yeah. I'm like, that's kind of crummy. Like, but maybe she was into it a little bit. She might be. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. Their experience prior to us has actually only been like separate room swapping. Oh, interesting. So they do that's all that's what they prefer. That's what they do. So we did discuss that though, because I'm not trying to make anybody do something they don't want to do. Yeah. But I don't think their idea of group was the same idea that we had. So it basically just got divided off. I kind of lost my whole like turned on vibeness of it. At some point I did finally say, okay, I want my husband back and we fucked like in the same room next to each other and it was hot, but it was like really short and then I was like kind of ready to go to bed. So you, I obviously you didn't see those that couple again. No, we didn't. I just don't think the vibe was like very good between the four of us. It just didn't mesh well, which like, I've heard this on your show, before, but I wholeheartedly believe finding another couple is actually the real unicorn. Oh yeah. That's the hardest because think about it. It's like a four way matchup and that's, yeah, of course attraction that. Yep. So no hard feelings. That just didn't really work out for us. So we then had a couple male solos that we were talking with. One of them was like a really experienced bull hate the terms, but he actually calls himself that. I had a whole debate about the word bull on my computer recently. Anyway, go on. Yeah. So I guess if we're using terms, my husband and I would be like this tag mixing type thing. But anyway, he was more experienced and we met up with him for dinner. I really was thinking it was just going to be dinner because I'm again, not the type that can just jump in bed. Yeah. But he was hot and there was like good chemistry there. So my husband was like, well, let's go to another place for a drink. So we get in the car. I get in the back seat and I expect him to get in the front seat next to my husband, but then my husband is now you can ride back there with her. Of course, she's like trying to get him back there. Right. So he immediately starts like rubbing his hands up my thighs. I'm wearing like this cute little summer dress. He's like grabbing my boobs, kissing all over my neck. My husband is like ear to ear smiling in the front seat. Um, he ends up going down on me while my husband is still driving. Like pulling my underwear to the side going down on me. My husband ends up pulling into a parking garage because now he's fucking turned on. So he comes and gets in that he parks the car comes and gets in the back seat. Now I'm like blowing both of them. Swallow both of their loads. My husband is now like getting hard again, but we drop this guy off. Like I'm not, I'm not ready to have sex with him or anything. So we dropped this guy off back at his car. Now my husband is like full blown raging boner again. And I basically started fucking him on the way home while he was driving. Like facing him. Like that way. I'm not. Yeah. Oh my God. Oh my God. Did he come while he was driving and stay on the road? No. So, so my husband loves when I get on top, but he is a very like Alpha male. I know that sounds like corny, but he is. And I think he just wanted to fuck me so bad that he ended up pulling over before we got home so that he could bend me over the tailgate of his truck and have his way with me. Yeah, he could concentrate more too because he's like, you know, on the road. Oh, driving. Yeah. Yeah. Of course, it's good. He's going to want to really do it the right way to fully get off for short. So that was fun with that guy. But yeah, it was fun with that guy, but it was more fun what happened after that guy actually. Yeah, for sure. I mean, it does add that reclaiming quote unquote term, you know, it does always add to people's sex life. Typically after that, there was another guy. We found him on S. D. C. I think and he was a good fit, very fit, very fit, nice body and good chemistry. Like he texted well, whatever he and my husband actually like really could have been good buddies. They're like drinking whiskey together. We met for dinner. They're drinking whiskey together. They have great conversation and he kind of loved that. That's great. If the guys get along. Yeah, for sure. So we had a really nice dinner, very enjoyable and then decided we were going to go. He was visiting our town and he had a hotel room. So we were going to go back to his hotel room. Before as soon as we get to the hotel room, he offers my husband like a, I guess, a micro dose of shrimps. Oh my God, which my husband has never done. So now these two are doing streams together. I'm like, now I'm good. Like I'm not. I'm not partaking in that. Mm hmm. So super fucking hot sex again, like me being spit roasted swap between the two of them. I think at some point while the other guy was fucking me, my husband like came up from behind and put a butt plug in me because he's always trying to, you know, he wants the DP to happen. Yeah. Has it happened yet? Not yet. No, I'm going to be honest. I feel like I'm small. Like I don't know if my anatomy will even allow for this. You mean on your budget, like which hole is small, both small and atomically overall. I feel like if someone's in one side, the other side shut. Yeah. Yeah. That's so funny. You might need a smaller guy behind. I think you get a comedy husband has a huge cock. Oh, okay. There you go. Yeah. I think it's hard to maybe you wouldn't, maybe you wouldn't be able to. Yeah. Like I don't think I realized actually how big his cock was until we started doing this. Yeah. And seeing other guys, right? Cause most guys don't have big decks. Yeah. Nobody here has a cock as big as my husband. Yeah. So, so yeah, that was a good experience and we were texting back and forth after we had planned to meet up again. And then all of a sudden he disappeared, vanished. At this point, we were even like Facebook friends. Like I could see his kids. He could see mine. Well, did you see what happened to him? Maybe he got in a relationship. Maybe. So I suspect based on how like hot he was and then all of a sudden cold that he was in some relationship and got caught. Yeah. Yeah. Maybe. Mm hmm. Or maybe felt guilty afterwards. Yeah. I don't know. A million things that happened, but I mean he didn't die, right? You don't know. Cause sometimes. No, no, no, no. He's not dead. He just deleted everything. Yeah. Okay. Um, so that, that kind of went sour, but then we had a planned meetup for the couple that started this whole thing, our friends. He was turning 40 and we were going to come surprise him. His wife was like, Hey, it would be so awesome if you guys flew here. That's the unfortunate part is that we live like a flight away. Yeah. So he's like, it would be so hot if you guys like flew here and surprised him for his birthday. So we're like, you know what? Fuck yeah, let's do it. Mm hmm. We buy plane tickets last minute and we fly to them. He has no idea we're coming. And that, that weekend was like the hottest fucking thing ever. So we show up to their house. She's like in a nightie with her nipples, like showing through it. That's like how the weekend started. Like, Hey friends. Oh, yeah. So we ended up like all four of us having sex that night. And that is the first time that I've seen him. Fuck another woman. Oh, and how was that? Because it was that girl was a cool. So I think it was only okay for me because it was that girl. I'm still not convinced that I'll be into it with any other girl, but I'm open minded to things changing. So the four of us had the super fucking hot night. We're like swapping back and forth with each other. The other hot thing about them is that they're our good friends. So we know they don't have any SCIs. We don't have any. There's no condoms being used. Everybody's just like swapping of fluids everywhere basically. So super fucking hot night. And we, the next night is when we all four went to a sex club together. Oh, okay. This is where the sex club comes in. Yes. So this is something that my husband had been wanting to do for six months. And I keep being like, I don't know. It's kind of skeebie to me. Like I don't know if I can put on like a hot outfit and have just everybody see me like that. Yeah. But okay, we're going to go with this couple. That makes me feel a little more comfortable because now it's like the four of us going, we're not picking anybody up. Like we could just fuck there and that it's just like a fun environment. So we go to the sex club, the four of us and they had a bar in the bottom floor of it and then like an area upstairs where you could like have sex. There's like leather couches everywhere and just everyone is fucking everywhere. And they also have what was kind of hot is that they had these windows where you can't see who's watching you, but in another room, other people could watch you, but on your side, it looks like a mirror, like an interrogation room. Yeah. So we had a drink or two hung out downstairs and then went upstairs and the four of us, we just have such good chemistry. The four of us just immediately start like going at it and we have quite a number of people staring at us, which for me was like super fucking hot. Yeah. That's why I was thinking like, why would you think you're not going to enjoy a sex club? You're the one that likes to be in front of people and everything. So everybody is like staring at us. People are like, you can hear them like whispering, right? Cause you're supposed to be quiet in all of these rooms. They're like, oh, they're swapping now. Oh, they're swapping back. Like, oh, she's about to ride him. Like, yes. Right. Yeah. You can hear them all kind of getting excited about it, which is super hot. And I have so many like, I feel like when, when you're in that moment and you're having like orgasm after orgasm after orgasm for me at least, it's like a high. Yeah. So it's almost like when you look back on it, the, the, the memories are like slightly blurry at times because you were just like on this huge like dopamine and Dorfin high, right? Oh yeah. That's why people do the things they do. Yeah. I keep having flashbacks of like random little moments in that four way. Yeah. Like at one point she and I are laying on our backs with opposite men on top of us missionary fucking us, but he's like choking me a little. And I'm asking him like, how tight is her pussy? Like how, how good does her pussy feel? Which is obviously making him like good nuts. Oh my goodness. And that's your guy right next to you. Yeah. So I also have a memory of now we're having sex for hours. Like no woman, I stay wet for a long time, but no woman can stay wet forever without some help there. So I can see that he's fucking his wife and she's getting a little uncomfortable because he has a very good sized penis also. So I pull him out of her, suck him off for 30 seconds, spit on my hand, rub it all over her pussy and guide his cock back into her. These are just the hot things that the four of us, I don't know. I feel like we just have that chemistry. Sounds like great chemistry work. Like you could do whatever you want and you and you could just go there and it just flows the right way. That's what defined. That's the chemistry. So that's kind of the extent of where we are at now. We are planning to meet up with that same couple again in a couple weeks actually just for a family vacation. Oh God, what are you going to do when the kids are asleep? Yeah, I don't know. We're going to have to find a way to sort of sneak away at some point. Obviously. Oh my God. Now, do they play? Was this their first time at the club too? Or had they been before? So from my understanding for them, she has some experience unrelated to him before with a little bit of swinging if we're using that stupid word. Yeah. And he does not but finds it very hot. Like with his first wife, when he was married to his first wife and we were friends with him, he was constantly making remarks about me being hot, but like in a playful fun way and vice versa. So I know that he's into that, but I don't think he has any experience prior to this. Indeed presents. Hires you can't afford to get wrong like a warehouse operations manager. Uh, where are the forklifts? I sold them. They were too expensive. I got a great deal on these scooters though. You expect us to move a two tonne pallet on a scooter. It'll be fun. 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That's interesting. Don't you think? Yeah. For sure. You only like hers. I don't know. I don't know how you could say I'm grossed out by pussy, but I eat her pussy at the same time. You might like it and you both said you were both good. So obviously you were having fun and doing it. So you don't, I don't think I wouldn't say you hate pussy. I say you kind of like, you might kind of like it. You know, if it's right to the right one. Yeah, exactly. And I feel like your podcast, by the way, which my husband listened to much longer than me and then basically got me on board with listening to. It has been helpful because I feel like my mindset after listening to a bunch of your people is like, it's, it's a, it's a sliding scale. Like I'm comfortable with this right now. We have openly communicated that I like this. I'm willing to do this. I'm not willing to do this. But I also feel like I'm very open minded to that being a constantly changing thing. Yeah. Because I'm sure you've heard those stories where it, when you see them longer term, right? Cause I've, I sometimes talking to people that have been doing it for longer and you see how the, how it changes and evolves over time. Most of the time with most couples rules go out the window things. People become into things that they never thought that they were even your story. How long you guys been doing this for? It's only been like six months. Right. Six months. Oh my God. And listen to all this shit you guys have done. You are a horny. Okay. So in six months you've gone to town, but like you also your relationship very much evolved too. So you don't know that two years down the line, you're going to change on other things too. Most likely you are because you were the type that would never think to be with another guy. And now like MFM is like something you've done with many people. You hate pussy yet you've gone down on a girl. I mean, like, so you just, you're most likely two years from now, you're going to be doing some things that are off the table. What are off the table for you right now? So there are a few things that my husband has openly told me he thinks are hot and he's never pushy. But he's told me like, Hey, if you ever want to do this, I'm super into it. Haha. Like that. I'm not ready for like, well, he definitely is really wants me to be D P'd. Yeah, you said that. Yeah. And I do anal with him, but I've never done anal with someone else. Mm hmm. And the extent of what I've had in me while he's had sex with me is a tiny but plug. I'm not talking a big one, but that's something that he wants that I'm not saying no to that. I'm just saying it would have, it would have to be with someone that I've worked to comfort up with. And then the other thing that he's really into that I don't know if I'll ever be into, but I'm not going to say no is that he would love to see me with more than two guys. Oh, okay. But when I say see me, my husband is never the watching type. Like he's definitely going to be involved at all points. Yeah. But he did like you to go. He does. He have a little bit of like, maybe like, would be like to watch for a minute. Yeah. He does like to watch for a minute. He does enjoy that. He's also said if we get to the point where we have a comfort with the guy, he might find it hot if we were like upstairs fucking and he was having a drink downstairs knowing what was happening. Yeah, for sure. It's the same part of him that said, Hey, go into the shower alone. There's something about that. A lot of times guys or even women that have that thing, it's the little cuck thing. And just because I say cuck doesn't mean I think he's like this, this weak guy that likes to be humiliated. No, that wouldn't offend him. Yeah. But those types of people that are into that type of a thing having the person in the other room or hearing it over the phone or so that's a part. That's a lot of times a big part of that of the turn on. So I when people start to do solo play where it's totally like you leave and go. So I don't think we'll ever do that. Yeah. That's a big jump. But you know, maybe going upstairs and doing it when he's not there. So that in anticipation. That's like a whole just an extension of what he's into that I would assume he's into that too for sure. For him, what he what he thinks is hot is the idea of him walking in on it happening. Yeah. Yeah. I could see that because he that's the cheating scenario that he wants. Yeah. There's tons of porn out there for men in that exact thing because guys have that on the reverse though. I what your show has also helped me not feel guilty about like I told you I'm a very giving lover. Like I want him to be pleased and I had some trouble at first with the idea that like he wants to see me with another man, but I don't really want to see you with another girl and I kind of felt bad about that. Like well, I'm sorry. I can't really return the favor, I guess, but listening to your show has kind of made me feel like well, that's actually kind of how most women are. Like a lot of women don't want to see that and just because he likes to see me do that doesn't mean I like to see him do that. Totally. And the good news is I would say 90% of the guys that have what your guy is into that kink, right? It's not a fetish. It's like a kink that is into that kind of kink. Don't give a shit about them being with another woman. I'm telling you or else like you'd be it'd be a different kind of set up. Most of the time those guys have no need for the variety with women. Their need and their turn on is their girl with another guy. Like he said, I'd love to see you with two guys. Like he's not thinking, oh, like when am I going to get to fucking another girl? He's thinking of like more guys and more scenarios of that exact thing that he's into. He did love fucking the friend of ours though. He did enjoy that. Well, who's not gonna? But I'm just saying that you could keep him. It's just typically that way. And I think that most of the time that's the way those guys roll. And a lot of times the women doesn't want to. And a lot of times there is some guilt. They feel bad. It seems not fair. But if everybody's happy, everyone's happy. I'm sorry. You're guys like, yeah, it sounds like everyone's happy in your situation. He does get to be with another woman sometimes with that friend. When I believe for you down the line, there might be another time that that happens to. Oh, I'm definitely open to it. Yeah. Yeah. I just think what's most important and what's first of all, what's most important is that like that the like you're kind of driving it and your guy is like not pushing you to anything. And that's like super important. And a lot of times I'm sorry, but in that this kind of lifestyle, the woman is the leader and the man should let her lead because women have a lot more boundaries and rules and stuff that they're uncomfortable than guys. Listen, if they got to run the show, everybody would just fuck everybody. Oh my God. I have I had a guy for I had a gay guy friend that the stories he would tell me I'm like in the straight world with that happened to a woman. She'd send that guy to jail. Okay. But with guys on guys, forget about it. They would just be like all fucking everywhere. Everyone would be fucking everywhere. It'd be a f-ing free for all. But but listen, I can't believe everything that you guys have done in just six months. I know it's like a really small time. Like you went through like stuff that I think some people went through in three years. I thought you were going to say, Oh, for a couple of years, you're like six months. I'm like, Oh my God. Yeah. That's amazing. So I can't imagine what you guys are going to be doing down the line. I love that you called in to my show and shared your story. The last thing I would ask you is because listen, you guys did have this great relationship before both in bed and out of bed. How do you feel like crossing these lines and opening up your marriage has changed things? If if they if it has. I still think the same answer that everyone says is true. We do communicate a lot now. We always did communicate, but like about sex in particular. I don't, you know, we do communicate more about it. He does feel a lot more closeness from it. I think when we talk about it, he feels a lot closer to me from it. Probably because he's now shared with me all of his fantasies and in the cliche thing where he's like watching his porn star, he does say that. Yeah. He does think it's really hot to watch and so I think it has brought us closer. Yes. Yeah, for sure. And it's only six months later and you could see it already. But listen, it's great that you guys had that stability going in. I think that that is always important. You're never, it's this is never going to be a fix for something. Well, you know why the stability is important is because and you say this all the time on your show, but it is so true that sometimes you don't know what you're going to be into or not into until you get in that situation. And you really need a stable partner where you can say to them after I feel upset, I'm not going to leave you, but this is what I'm upset about. I didn't enjoy that you did this because that's going to happen. That's just realistic. And the last thing you want is a partner and this happens a lot of the time and this is not fucking cool. That is like, well, blah, blah, blah and gets defensive about it. You can not be defensive about that person's feelings, whether it's right or wrong. That's not what it's about. It's has you have. Yeah, because that partner is then never going to feel safe with you and then they're never going to move forward. It's like you have to allow them to feel comfortable, whether it's a man or woman that they could put on the table that they didn't feel right. For whatever reason, it's like I said, sometimes it's just the way the wind blew that day. That felt right. He's realized some things that he has hangups about that he never thought he would like the solo texting. We have found out he doesn't really enjoy that a ton. If it gets. Yeah, I can understand that and that's smart of him by the way. So for him, it's not it's nothing physical or sexual. It's when he feels there's like affection going on. Of course. Because listen, remember when he was cheating on you texting? Like it's because that's cause and why you got upset. Why did you get upset with that? It's almost like it's hard because it's like a it's like a different kind of a thing. So I get it. Right. But you know, it's how you receive that person's in quote unquote insecurities or whatever because you're going to have them. It's just very normal and it's just a matter of how you receive that information and instead of making your partner feel bad or making them feel like they're not allowed to feel that way. You have to make them feel like you support them and you're totally like fine to never do that again or whatever it is because sorry, don't lift it. Look at gift horse in the mouth. Okay. Like I have talked to those couples where they have this great sort of situation and then someone just fucks it up by being a douchebag like that and kind of not understanding or like doing something on the DL behind their back after someone's been totally open and I just never understand those people. It's like you've got it. I don't get it either. Yeah. You're living some a world that like most of my listeners like a life that most of my listeners aren't living right? That's why they're listening because they're kind of living vicariously. So don't fuck it up and but it sounds like you guys aren't you since since you do listen to my show. I love pictures of my audience, my patreon members love pictures. Can you send me a non-miss pics for my page? I'm totally down but I am covered in ink. Oh, but I have a great way. If you send I have a great way. I can't send you all kinds of photos. I could completely blur your ink and what I'll do. Okay. Just to make you feel secure because I don't want to fuck you over or make you feel uncomfortable. I will tweak them like the way that I have done and I will send them back to you so you could see first and then what I will do too is give you access to my discord. It's free right? And then if you want to go in there as a guest, there's a guest channel in there when your episode airs, you could go talk to people and you could post whatever you want in there or do whatever you want over there. That's more private. Only my Patreon members have access to it. You do have to pay your Patreon member. Oh, so he has access to it too. So send me the pics. I'll send them back to you and thanks so much for calling in. Your episode will be up very soon. Cool. It was great. I loved it. Thank you, Kathy. It was so nice talking to you. Thank you, Kylie and tell your guy you're happy. Thank you for listening to my show and being such a loyal listener. Sorry we didn't have them on. Okay. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book. The book is called strictly non-miss confessions. Secret sex lives of total strangers. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talked about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cook queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang being girl story. That's like, you know, like I said, 17 stories and they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book though. There's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories. Like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an e-book available. If you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book, get the e-book. It's available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary link to my discord. My discord does not disappoints. Okay. There's no way you'll get the discord and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks. Okay. It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my discord. It is private. This is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there, people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to my discord. Send it to strictlyanonymouspodcast.gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description. Okay. Or just Google it strictly anonymous confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books, send me the picture and I'll give you access to my discord email strictlyanonymouspodcast.gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening.