Strictly Anonymous Confessions

1453 - Recycling Booty Calls, Period Sex?, No Sex for Gen Z and More w/Billy

67 min
May 10, 202621 days ago
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Summary

Host Kathy interviews Billy from the Man Whore Podcast about casual sex, booty calls, recycling exes, and generational differences in sexual behavior. They debate dick pics vs. tricep pics, discuss period sex, and explore how to maintain respectful casual relationships without emotional entanglement.

Insights
  • Gen Z is having measurably less sex than prior generations, potentially due to desire for stability over casual exploration, which may create challenges for future relationship development and sexual confidence
  • Successful casual sexual relationships require explicit communication about boundaries and expectations upfront, treating partners with respect regardless of relationship status, and separating romantic gestures from physical intimacy
  • Women's sexual confidence, skill, and enjoyment typically increase significantly in their 40s-50s due to hormonal changes, body acceptance, reduced social shame, and accumulated experience
  • Honest disclosure about casual relationship intentions is more effective than love-bombing or ambiguous behavior; people can handle truth better than mixed signals
  • Body image insecurity affects both genders differently but significantly; men's concerns are often unspoken due to masculinity norms, while women vocalize concerns that partners typically don't share
Trends
Declining sexual activity among Gen Z attributed to preference for relationship stability over casual explorationIncreased sexual agency and exploration among women in their 40s-50s as hormonal and social factors alignGrowing normalization of non-monogamous and open relationship structures among millennialsShift toward explicit consent and boundary-setting conversations in casual dating cultureWomen becoming more vocal about sexual preferences and pleasure requirements in public discourseResurgence of interest in alternative sexual experiences and erogenous zones beyond conventional practicesMale body image concerns remaining largely unspoken despite prevalence, creating gender communication gapPodcast culture enabling more candid sexual discussion and normalization of diverse relationship structures
Topics
Casual sex and booty call dynamicsGenerational differences in sexual behavior (Gen Z vs. Millennials)Emotional attachment prevention in casual relationshipsPeriod sex and menstrual cycle sexualityDick pics and unsolicited intimate photosBody image and sexual confidenceNon-monogamy and open relationshipsFemale sexual pleasure and orgasmConsent and boundary communicationRecycling ex-partners for casual sexAge-related changes in sexual function and desireArmpit erotica and alternative erogenous zonesSexual chemistry and compatibilityRespectful casual dating practicesPodcast culture and sexual discourse
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Supermarket chain advertising low prices without membership requirements or loyalty programs
People
Billy
Guest discussing casual relationships, booty calls, recycling exes, and sexual experiences; runs naked comedy show
Kathy
Host conducting interview about sexual relationships, generational differences, and casual dating practices
Samia Mounts
Sex podcaster who appeared on Billy's show and subsequently had casual sexual encounter with him in New York
Ryan Driller
Mega male porn star interviewed by Kathy discussing how camera angles distort perceived penis size in pornography
Quotes
"There's nothing worse than a girl that has an opinion. Oh my God. Kill her now. Okay. Listen, if I was a guy, I'd be like, beloved. I'd be like so fucking popular alpha."
KathyEarly in episode
"I think it's just about age, like you use historically, whatever era we're in, if it's the 70s, it's more evolved. If it's now the youth are always the ones who are saying you shouldn't say that."
BillyMid-episode
"The biggest risk to your life Kathy is you know men so it's like oh I'm gonna risk my life I'm gonna risk my life and I'm not even gonna nut."
BillyMid-episode
"Women don't care because listen, few and far between are there those big muscle heads that look perfect. In the gay world, I think that that's much more of a bigger thing, but in the straight world, it's just not."
KathyMid-episode
"I want to have fun with you. You're going to be respected in that fun. That fun is going to be pleasurable for you too, where I'm damn near going to try."
BillyLate episode
Full Transcript
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Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and shame. Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous Podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at StrictAnonymous. If you want to be on the show, you can send me an email, StrictlyAnonymousPodcast at gmail.com or go to my website, StrictlyAnonymousPodcast.com and click on be on the show. It's called Strictly Anonymous because I change voices and names. I'm not changing today's guest and I'm not going into my whole intro because it's a Sunday episode and I don't do that for you on Sunday. That's my day off. So I'm going to get right into today's app. I have Billy from the Man Horror Podcast on. On Sundays, I've just been having like my friends on and people that I know really well to just like rap about different things. We talk about booty calls on this episode. We talk about the younger generation and how they're not having sex. We talk about, like I said, booty calls, his booty calls, my booty calls, him recycling, a lot of his exes. He talks about all the chicks he's been banging again, including one lesbian. I got a free pass that he's been with and he talks about hooking up with her before and after. We also talk about period sex, armpit sex or like armpit erotica. We talk about dick pics and tricep pics at the end. We have a little debate about that at the end, but we talk about so much more. It's always fun to talk to Billy. He's got a podcast, Man Horror Podcast, so you should go check it out. He also does a naked comedy show where everyone's like naked. Every comedian on the stage is naked and he gives a shout out to that at the end. I'll put all of his links in the description, but the conversation, like I said, is super fun. There are some shout outs to people in the episode to like go and comment and tell me what you think. Are you on Billy's side or my side? Because we do debate about dick pics and tricep pics at the end, but everything else in the beginning is super fun too. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Billy. Hi Billy from the Man Horror Podcast. My favorite guy to spar with. At least you're fucking down. At least you're down to spar. I get such big babies on like comment section complaining like, I can't believe you said that and that and like the person's not even mad. Why are you mad? Some people can't handle a good spar, but you can and I can and we might spar on this episode. I don't know, but we are going to talk about recycling X's because you're doing a lot of that now. Booty calls. I'm going to have some questions for you about like what you're down for in the bedroom. What do you consider yourself as far as generation wise is concerned? Are you a millennial? Well, first, I just want to give a shout to anyone who's defending me in the comments on Spotify. I love you. I see you. I appreciate you. I'm not alone against this, this dictator of a podcast. Oh my God, please don't give them any more fuel to their fire. No way. Listen, there's nothing worse. Fascist on a mic. There's nothing worse than a girl that has an opinion. Oh my God. Kill her now. Okay. Listen, if I was a guy, I'd be like, beloved. I'd be like so fucking popular alpha. What man is like my personality as a man is like the fucking bomb as a girl. It's like, it's horrifying to some people, but it's why I have a big audience too. You are a big deal. You are a big deal. Yeah. I have more people that like me than don't. Okay. So let's talk about you though. What is because we also were going to talk about like the generation. They're not fucking at all, but you're not like that generation. What generation are you? Who are you? Are you a millennial? Yeah, I'm a 36th. I'll be 37 next month. And yeah, no, I'm a millennial. Very much a gen Y. 1989 baby just slipped into the 80s. Yeah. You were like my first fight on my podcast and that and it was so before we realized that millennials, you just have to walk on eggshells with them. Like it's a very different generation from when I grew up. I have to think it's about generation. I think it's just about age, like you use historically, whatever era we're in, if it's the 70s, it's more evolved. If it's now the youth are always the ones who are saying you shouldn't say that. Yeah. Well, that's it's true. And that's what I always say. I say like my son is going to be way more evolved than me and then his kids as well. And I was way more involved than my parents. I was looking at them like, what's your problem? And you know what I mean? And that's the way that it goes. And that's the way it should go. That's nature, right? It's like, it makes sense. I'm just saying that I have to say like me, my son started watching Fear Factory recently and I was like, oh my God, and they're also mean to each other and they do vicious things on that show. And I was like, I was like going to cry for it, like thinking about the good old days, like when you could be like really rude to people. I mean, I grew up in such a harsh time. It was like out of control. And now things are so different that you were like saying, like, oh my God, we should talk about the fact that like these people behind you now, like your generation was like, you know, to me very different than my generation. And now the generation behind you is very different than you. And that you're saying like they don't even fuck anymore because I have 20 year olds that are doing crazy things. Well, yeah, I mean, it's not like all young people are in fucking, but I mean, have you seen the statistics? Yeah, yeah, this has been something for the last several years. They've been reporting that Gen Z is being led, well, to say, measureably less sex than prior generations, which is not, it's frequently been like millennials were having more sex in their toys than the Gen X and Gen X more than this, just because as casual sex and sex positivity get more and more normalized. And, you know, we're not just like restricting ourselves to sex within marriage. But Gen Z, the first one where it's pulling back, I do want to like dive deeper into like these like this research, but I am curious of their measuring sex. Like, are they just saying sex? Are they defining sex? Are they having more kinky sex, but it's not technically, you know, HIV sex? Are they having queer sex? Like that I'd be very curious about, but they are, it seems, having less sex than the counterparts. And like you're seeing like the TikTok people coming on and talking about, like, I was in the park yesterday in Washington Square Park and I saw like people do a man on the street. These two like 23 year old dudes who like were wearing fuck boy uniforms. I mean, like hoodies with pins and, you know, and they're just in like a big, big baggy pants and they're just going, yeah, no, I want to settle down. I've done everything. I'm ready. I want to be, that's not serious. It's immature to be fucking. And I thought, sir, you're 23. Like you just started fucking. You don't even know. They mature. I think, so what I'm reading and seeing is that Gen Z wants to start like doing, they want more stability and so that they want more to focus more on creating stable relationships, which is not a bad thing, but it does feel like they are like dating less and fucking less in the process, which I think exposes you to less potential, you know, long-term relationship partners. Yeah. And I wonder, and we're going to move on to like what you're doing now and you're going through a phase where you're doing something a lot and we're going to talk about it. But real quick, what I was going to say is like, I just wonder what their midlife crisis then looks like. You know what I mean? Do they start then having a lot of sex later on because, you know, I feel like there's always like pros and cons attached to any kind of thing, right? So like what happens to the 20 year old that's focused more on stability when they're 50 and they've had that their whole life. You know what I mean? To me, I look back at my 20s and I'm like the best part of my 20s is I was unstable and I could do all the shit I wanted and I can make mistakes and fuck up and do everything. And I could look back and be like a fucking high five that girl because she was so young, you know what I mean? But I'm a together person now. So that's fine. You know, but you're Gen Fs, right? I guess. Yeah. And so I don't really know. But then so many years later, you know, you change and you grow. I feel like your 20s are about fucking up, being not being perfect, figuring out who you are, having fucking fun. Okay. Because the rest of your life when you get stable and you're on Groundhog Day and you're doing all the things and you have kids and a career, you know, life's difficult. You know, you need the pleasures and you need to look back and be like, okay, been there, done that had fucking fun. So now I could just like grind, but let's talk about you because you're recycling a lot of X's and I love booty call talk because I like a very opinionated about how to have a good booty call. I recycle X's all the time. I think they're great people to have sex with on the side when you're done, if you've like, you know, sort of edged out of like the emotional thing. Or you are when you say you're recycling a lot of X's now, are they people that you previously were romantically involved with or just like fuck buddies? Like these are people who are like, I would call them more like sexual partners from my past for sure. And so after I broke up with my girlfriend back in December, and you know, I think we've talked about this on previous times I've been on the show where just like I go up, I was going up and down with my libido and you know, a few a couple weeks after the breakup, I mean, it was exploding like how I was like, uh, yeah, I feel horny again, I would like to, I would like to go fuck people and do things. And so I started just to get started. I just kind of now that I was single and unattached and can do sex with whomever however I'd like to, I just hit up a lot of X partners. I just was like, Oh, hi, hello. The people I hadn't had sex with in like years. And that was we were non-monogamous. So it's like, I could have had sex with I could have sex with other people. I just had that desire of it. And then all of a sudden I'm Kathy, I was bursting. It's crazy. I felt I was like, I'm kind of feeling like a monster. I'm going like, like a horny monster is going like, who else? Who else? I'm scheduling too many dates in the week where I go like, I got to pull back because I got to remember like do comedy. I got like, do more afternoon fuck dates than, than the nighttime ones. But yeah, so I did start texting a bunch of people I hadn't slept with in like two, three, five years. And were they all down? A good chunk. Yeah. Including one woman who like, she, she did my podcast, the man or podcast, which she did the podcast because she was a past like we had hooked up years back. Yeah. Right. And so then I, and we really clicked on the mic again. I was, I was sad to hear that she was like, she was dating a guy at the time. So she couldn't do anything. But I did like, let her know about the breakup, just letting her know. And maybe like a week after I let her know, she said, well, not the neck again. So like, we could totally, you know, get together and make out or something. And we like, we did that. And that was awesome. I hit up this other woman, this older woman who circles in now of my life every two to four years. We try, we try to fuck. We fight about AI. We stop talking to each other for a while. We get back together. We fight about AI. We fool around. Are you fighting after the session or do you ruin, do you not even have the session? Cause you're fighting first. So this, this woman was more like heavy making out. And then like, cause she likes to move slow. And then eventually like we would go into a bedroom. We actually on this last iteration, like had PIB sex for the first time, we've been hooking up off and on for like 10 years, but just we never like made it to that. I was going to ask you, when you go back to all these X's is the sex always as good, if not better, or the same or disappointing, or it really depends on the person. Well, the first one I brought up, I mean, the blowjob is just as insane as the last time I remember. And then there's another one. Yeah. Yeah. It's definitely a talent. And there's another woman like in, you know, about like 10 years older than me, who I, who I hit up, who I kind of, I kind of did ghost her a couple, you know, two, three years ago, and she was gracious enough to like give me another try. And again, just like, yeah, I didn't say the sex is like about the same, but the 50 year old, that is an interesting story where it's changed, where it got better, because when I met her, she was just opening up her marriage of over 20 years to a woman. Oh, and she was a lesbian. Wait, she was a full-time lesbian. Now she's going to check out guys. She was starting to realize she might be by, well, she had sexual men before her wife. Okay. And I think she just ended up with the wife. I think she always claimed bisexuality. And so they, you know, I met her at the speed dating event. It was like a queer woman speed dating event that I, as a man was hosting, I'm not in charge of the hiring. I just show up with my bell and do my job. But she like is lingering around afterwards and talking to me. We get talking. They just opened up the marriage so that she could go explore. She was getting a horny. So, but she was pretty sexually experienced with, with penises for sure. She hadn't seen one in 20 plus years. And so I was like the first talk she took in a long, long time. Right. So she, so, and like the blow job was like, and you know, we've talked about it. I, I feel fine saying it on a podcast. The blow job could use work, but her handling of a penis definitely could have used, needed some practice because again, and done it. But she was like excited about that. She said, Oh my gosh, well, now I have like a thing to work on. Like she was excited to be sleeping with me and do, and work on her skillset. Figuring it out. But then as I mentioned, like, you know, up and down the veto times, I got lost in the cloud of weed smoke and I just kind of faded away and we, we stopped having sex. But then I circled back. I was like, Hey, I don't want to still open. She was still open and still with her wife, by the way, like did her opening up with guys ever change that relationship? I mean, like the changes are have happened in the relationship, but like they are, yes, they are together. They're married. They're in love. They co-parent. They're still doing the thing. Okay, cool. But I reach out and she has been, you know, and I knew this because we were keeping touch a little bit, but she had been flooding it out so hard. She was like, she's now a member of like every sex party club in New York City. She has like a roster of dudes and women. And she's like, she's 50 years old having the time of her fucking life. And I was just grateful that she was like wants to commit any scheduling time to me. And then so when we hook up like the first time we hooked up again, you know what that blowjob definitely improved. I was like, yeah, I need to know like, I need to know the scorecard because like, you know, my son gets like midterm grades and then end grades beginning of the year grades. Like, what was her, you know, so many years later grades compared to before? She certainly had practice, you know, like I could definitely tell she worked on that. And that there was also like a love of it again, right? The first time maybe was like going through motions and doing what she kind of remembered doing in college. And now she was like, no, because I do this all the time. I got a cock in my mouth. And also she could take a dick differently because at the time remember she just was it. She's more of a clitoral person with her, with her wife. She doesn't like, sound like they're doing strap-ons with each other. Right. And right. 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That's Q I N C E.com slash strictly a non for free shipping and 365 day returns quince.com slash strictly a non or just go to the description and click on the link. So yeah, it's interesting to see someone's sexual skills change over time and get better in adulthood. Like yeah, yeah, from the age of like from mid 40s to when you're 50. I feel like we you know, the whole an old dog can't learn new tricks. That's true. No, sometimes an old dog can learn how to give a better blow job. Not only that women definitely go through something. And I feel like, you know, a when they get into their 40s, most women if they're like on the typical trajectory to menopause, they get a hornier than they've ever been in their whole life. That's why a lot of 40 something year olds are banging 25 year olds because they have their sex drive is out like off the charts crazy. And then, you know, when you get into your 50s, the other thing that happens to women is they just feel more comfortable in their skin. Women are very self conscious, even if they're the perfect bodies, you know, when they're younger, it's just like we're crazy about everything. We're so self conscious. So it's a little bit harder to just like, you know, relax and get into it and stuff because sex for women is much more mental. So I think by the time a woman's in her 50s, a lot of the times she's so okay with who she is and what she's working with and whatever that she could just like, you know, most women come into their own and they have fucking fun and a lot of times they don't care what people think. That's a third thing. Most people, men and women by the time they're like 50 something, they don't fucking care anymore about what people think. That's the beauty of getting older, you know, that's one of the pros. And because they don't care, they tend to be more open. This is what I find, especially from the women who call it comes to my show is they're like, they're starting to explore things that they never thought that they would before because they were afraid of what it would mean or they had shame about it, you know what I mean? So they're more freaky. I think women get way more freaky when they're later in life and they start living out fantasies they never thought they even had. Yeah, or fantasies you didn't know you were allowed to have. Exactly. They got older and changed, but society is also changed, you know, also can I throw this out to, because like, again, I forget where you are and you're, you know, aging, cycle, body stuff, but you bring up the comfortable and skin. She's 50 and so like her hormones have been changing. Yeah. And her body was different. Yeah, like she's still like she's because she's like a very she's like a petite lady. And then like she's still petite or her hips and ass have gotten huge. Like, you love that, right? Yeah. Oh my god. I mean, like, look, I like her body then I like her body now. But she did ask me the first time we slept together again, she was just like, notice anything different. I'm like, are your kids bigger? I was like, in place, she's like, no, I was like, that's crazy. She's like all naturally grown, that much later, I guess it has something to do with her. Yeah, for sure. Sostero and estrogen. I don't know if you know this, I'm not a doctor, so I don't really understand. No, women's bodies change for sure. Yeah. And what's so great is that you say that is because like, you know, she obviously owned it and stuff, but a lot of women think, Oh, bigger ass, bigger, but like, they feel even uncomfortable with that sometimes. They don't understand like guys are just gonna like fucking love that. You know what I mean? Wait, and let me ask you this question that I've been asking guys, because every woman is like so fucking petrified if she has like one ounce of like cellulite on her. Do you as a guy give a fuck if a girl has cellulite? I barely noticed the cellulite. I don't think I don't think I think my answer is that I'm dumb, so I don't know when cellulite and it's just like what skin is. Right. So that means you don't even care. You don't care. You don't seem like it's been a problem for me. Right. Right. And you've been with bigger girls like you're like equal opportunity. You like all kinds of body types, correct? Just like hot. Yeah, I'm big on the face. So it's like the face is where I'm looking at my own ass. You'd be like, do I have cellulite? No, it's okay. It looks smooth. My whole point is that so many women listening like so many women are so much more judgmental about their bodies than a guy will ever be. And women are so petrified of cellulite and everything for themselves. But I don't know one guy that would be like, oh, I met the hottest girl and she's got like Kim Kardashian's body, but oh my God, she has cellulite. I can't fuck her. You know what I mean? He doesn't. You're no more from it. You're here from it. Meet those guys, but those guys like suck. You don't want to be with that guy. No, that's a weird guy. That's the same guy who doesn't wash his butt because he thinks if he touches his butt, holy it's gay. That's the same guy. You don't want to be with that guy. So it's like the only guys who care about the cellulite weren't that desirable in the first place. Yeah, I don't know guys like that. I think normal guys don't care about that. And my point is that women worry so much more about things that guys don't care and they don't really realize, you know, I was always when I was with my guys, my booty call guys and like, I was like, I love a good booty call and I've had very successful booty calls. I personally liked the same person as a booty call. I'm going to ask you about your sort of keys to success for booty calls so that nobody cops feelings. But like, I would love my booty calls because I would feel so comfortable with them that I'd be like, Oh, do you notice like when my leg goes back, like this crinkles, like, is that a turn off to you? Like I would always ask guys like my guys, like what they think about things just to figure out like, how do guys think? Are they looking at the things that I'm looking at? You know what I mean? But women are just so much more sort of self conscious than guys are. Do you know, do you find like your- I would push back against that. There's a lot of, there are studies about like men and indisauras and body image, but they're a lot more quiet about it because society says like- Oh, that they are for themselves. You're not supposed to be self conscious. Oh, of course. Guys have it too. Yeah. There's plenty of body image issues with guys. Well, they're dick size. They're not going to show you light. No, they're dick size. Come on. You know, your, your, our chests, you know, the whole mantis thing. The hair. That's all that. Yeah, the hair, everything. So it's, the guys have a lot of that too. Let's talk about it. Well, like I think the last time I looked up the researchers, like something like a one in three boys have like body image issues, like in though the adolescence age, like when they're hitting middle school, high school, it's, it's real. It's just not, it's more quiet. It doesn't feel spoken about as much because it's considered weak and if it's weak, then it's not masculine. So I slightly pushed back against that as the one guy at my boarding school who's in the eating disorder line with the other girls. It was very fun. I would say, yes, women have a lot of, you know, self-conscious about their bodies. I'm not, but just because I say that doesn't mean that guys don't. Okay. Those are two separate things. I think guys completely do. Yeah. I mean, when you're like, you know, fooling around with a guy and you feel his chest and it's like razor stubble, like that guy obviously has a problem with his hairy chest and he, you know, what about guys with hair on their back? You know what I mean? Like guys have plenty of things they could be self-conscious. I think the biggest one is their size and that's a tough thing for a guy, you know, I mean, for sure. You know, especially that one's, sorry, keep going. No, I was going to say, especially because of porn and how skewed sort of, if you're watching porn all the time that you think like every guy is like hung like a horse when the average is really not that big. Also, the cameras like do things anyways. Like I interviewed Ryan Driller, who's a mega male porn star. Yeah. And he was going like, I'm actually really average. Like it's not, it looks bigger on camera. You know, when you feel like the camera adds 10 pounds, like maybe it adds two inches because he's like, I'm like maybe six and a half inches or something like that. And he's like, so it's like, it's not, it's not huge, but you know, there's that. And also, I think we're coming around on the dick size stuff slowly because I think a lot more women are being more publicly vocal about like dick sizes everything. Yeah. Every woman wants the huge dick. And like, I would like to have a dick I can use every day rather than the monster cock that like I need to ice my pussy after with more guys are hearing that and then it validates it just like with me, like when I started seeing more women posting that like, yes, I actually prefer a thick dude to know that like that's out there just as much as there are women who want the guy with the abs. There's also plenty of girls who want a guy with like a little belly who they can cuddle after they fuck. Like, I personally think that women, more women are, don't give a fuck about a guy being in perfect shape than, you know, men are regarding women's bodies. You know what I mean? Women don't care because listen, few and far between are there those big muscle heads that look perfect. In the gay world, I think that that's much more of a bigger thing, but in the straight world, it's just not. Yeah. And it's like, yes, they're like, you know, if a guy's listening to this and he feels like he was rejected because like he wasn't super in shape. Yes, there are those women who do want that. But like, there are a lot of women who are into like my my fitness, but I don't believe that when like a guidance counselor tells you like, no, but it's like, I have to hear it from like the horny chicks on ready. I had nothing to do with I just have to see dozens and dozens of women shining in. I need to be on a podcast. I need to hear on a podcast, like women talking about that amongst themselves where I where I know that the motivation isn't to make me feel better. They're actually just expressing their desires and they're like, yeah, I want to grab a handful of fucking man ass when he's on top of me. I need to hear that to know which reel. So I think we're getting there. And so yeah, ladies, keep being publicly horny, keep publicly stating things like this because it makes us feel better, which means we can be a little more confident when we try to, you know, be big, strong man or whatever bullsh**. Well, do you think of yourself as a not confident guy? I mean, I have had such a confidence journey. I think I mean, now today at 36 in late stage capitalism, yeah, I think I'm a very confident sexual guy. I am a lot more confident with my body now, especially right now because I've been, you know, I've been losing way. I've been back in the gym like three, four days a week. Do you do the GLP one? I love it. I've got Dominican, Ozyntic. Yeah, great. And it works, right? I mean, I haven't done it, but I mean, I'm all for it. If I wanted to lose weight, I would use that. Yeah, it's just nice to like not be fighting a major fight every single day against my cravings and something I've been struggling with for 30 years. So it's just nice to like get some assistance so I can use that brainpower on like anything else. Yeah. So yeah, so it's like, I feel, but you know, I didn't always feel this way. You know, when I gained a bunch of weight during COVID, that's kind of why I stopped shooting only fans content because I started seeing like, I didn't like what I was seeing on the camera. Oh, interesting. Pre-COVID, I think things were getting, you know, we're kind of there, but I wasn't sure like if women like the thickness when I was younger, I mean, I got bullied for being fat even though I wasn't fat. Oh, yeah. I like, yeah, I had obese kids calling me fat and then I'm like, I need to buy a mirror and carry it around. No, no, no, it's terrible. Nowadays, all the kids roast each other. There's this thing called roasting that goes down in these little kids life like my son and they all, all the fat kids are calling all the skinny kids fat. Like it's literally like my son is being called fat and he's not found. He's like five, 10 in sixth or fifth grade and he's like tall, he's like a Viking and like he's getting called fat by the fattest kid in school and they're buddies, you know what I mean? But it's like, it's so bizarre. That's been going on since the dawn of time. It's so sad because you like, you said you weren't even fat. Unfortunately, I feel like that's like a stand up comedy to blame thing. Like people's people, the rise of the roast battle culture, which honestly, I remember being in college in 2011 thinking this roast battle, that's when the Comedy Central show like, yeah, I thought this is going to be a fad that like fades away and no like roast battle fights are like, they're huge and people love them. But that's, but we're supposed to do that. Your son's friends are supposed to because they're like not talented yet. We are insulting. No, that's all that's all that we do. I don't roast battle people. I don't like it's not fun. Yeah, let me get back to sex. So what about like your booty calls? Like how do you keep them? I mean, I know for me, the key to having a successful booty call for me, for me to be able to bang somebody for seven years or five years or all the time, you know, to me, there's a certain ingredients that go into it so that I know for sure I'm not going to cop feelings for this guy, because sometimes that can happen. And for me, it's like, it has to be somebody that I've spun out emotionally for in the past, been there, done that, got over them. And the other thing that I think is really great for booty calls is like, I just fuck them and they leave. Even if they're my friend, I see them separately for like friendship and stuff. But there's like no cuddling afterwards or dinner before. There's no like kissy face and things. There's no fake relationship going on with the sex, you know, because that's the stuff that I think muddies things up. You know what I mean? You can't treat a girl like a girlfriend, but tell her every day you're not my girlfriend, and don't feel feelings for me yet. You're blowing up her phone like she's your fucking girlfriend, you're taking her out to dinner like she's your girlfriend. But just because you say she's not, she's supposed to like fucking get it. Your actions have to match your words. If someone's just a fuck buddy, just fuck them. Okay, that's it. 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All you got to do is go to the description and click on the link and use my code strictly. Wow, that there's so much that I'm back there, Kathy. Okay. You can say what everyone, minds have been successful because of all of that. That's just me. I know, I know, I know. Well, let's start there. The agreeable part. People can do casual sexual relationships or any relationship by saying how they want to do so long as they're working on the same page and communicate like, Hi, here's how I do casual relationships. I do casual relationships. Are we compatible? No, I want to know how you do it. I want to know how you don't need to like do you tell me your keys to success, even if they're completely different. That's what that's what I'm interested in. You know, okay. Yeah, I do get accused of being pedantic. I will say like there are, you know, friends with benefits. It's like, there is the word friend in there. I like to be friends with the people. Friends with my people too. Yes, very good friends. And I like that. I like that you said like, Hey, we have our play dates and then we'd have our actual like, yeah, keep them separate. But that's again, how you do. So for me, it's like, I like to be in communication. I'm not, I also don't think texting someone like every other day. I don't think that is treating someone like a girlfriend, but the extreme you describe like an extreme version, you know, taking them out to dinner, doing this, doing that, and then not wanting to commit. That's a very real thing. That's the thing that people do. Yeah. And people do that all the time when they meet somebody, this happens typically in the beginning, not someone you're recycling. It's typically like a guy meets a girl. Let's just put it as a guy thing, but it could be vice versa. You meet someone, you know, for sure, I'm not dating this person ever. Like, you know, we all know that like right away, right? Like, I'm never going to date this person. So you tell them straight to their face, but you like fucking them because they're hot or whatever. And you start fucking them. And then a lot of times people just start putting in all that other stuff because why not? They have nobody else, you know what I mean? But that's the other stuff, that fake relationship stuff that fucks people up. And it's not fair because you can't say I don't like, I had a guy that did that and he fucking loved bomb me every day. And he'd be like, but I don't like you. You're not my girlfriend. But like he would like be blowing up my phone 24 seven kids and we kissy faces and emojis and all this fucking nonsense. But I don't like you. So that one sentence is going to change all that fucking shit taking me to the movies, taking me on vacation, sleeping over your house, but I don't like you. I'm not dating them. That's not ridiculous. Well, we can go on vacation together, but like, you know, you're paying your side. So like for me, like, you know, so I like to be friends. So like, I'm doing that, but I'm not blowing up people's phones all the time. I'm just like, you know, like the normal now I text like any other of my friends. I don't, of course, that's not what it was. That's not what I'm talking about. Absolutely. So it's like, so for me, like, I've always been like casual is not like a license to disregard someone. It's like a human being. So like I, a girlfriend, I probably text every day. But like a friend with benefits who like I actually enjoy the talking part. And it's hard for me to have like a fuck buddy who like we don't at least like, like the talk for a half hour before and after. I probably text like a few times a week, just like something fun. Yeah, yeah. I saw something that made me think of you. Also, I can't wait for you to sit on my face again. Right? Like you keep sex, the conversation as well as friendly conversation. I don't think there's a way to do that. But wait, I just want to tell you, I do all of those things. My booty call guys are always my they're they're very good friends. And I'll do even lunch or dinner with them. And I, I to them about regular things. They're my friends, you know, I mean, I like them as people and we do talk, but it's not like, like, I can't explain it's not that fake romantic shit that a lot of people throw into booty calls with people that they just meet. They're not writing you love poems, like at the dinner table. It's not fake shit. We're not using pretending to use each other because I've had fake relationships. So, you know, we, everyone uses people sometimes when they don't have anybody else, you know what I mean? It puts all that other nonsense in there. And then they're like, Oh, she's such a fucking asshole. She started liking me. It's like, yeah, well, you're cheating or like your fake girlfriend. What do you expect? So it's like, and here's the thing. Again, I said, I like to like the people as fuck. When you talk about like how you avoid like catching feelings, I don't know that that's like a thing I'm worried about because I'm not scared of the girl. Do they ever catch feelings for you? If they do, like I say, well, then let me know and we'll talk about it. Like, I don't think feelings are this like, terrifying thing. And at the end of the day, it's like feelings for what? Like, is it feelings like you want to build a life with me kind of feelings? No, I'll tell you what the feelings are. I have had fuck buddies who I love. I love them. I have a lot of deep care for like if we are doing it long enough, I have deep care for that person. Like I'm, you know, they're crying about something I might be crying about too. I want to take care of that. I want to do that. But that's because like as a friend, whether or not I was fucking them, right? And so I'm not scared of the feelings. No, I'm telling you the feelings. The person comes to you and they're like all of a sudden now they are jealous. If you're fucking other people, they start, they feel like maybe they have to start being with you because they like you more and they're like jonesing for you and they want those typical feelings that come up and that ruin booty calls because I just never caring like stop starts a cop, you know, starts having feelings and then they can't do just casual sex and they need more. And they're not getting it. Maybe I'm just, maybe I'm just not lovable because I just have this problem. No girls ever fall from that way. Like I, maybe that's just by nature of like who I am and for how long I've been who I am, like, you know, I've been doing my show over 12 years. So, you know, any, since I was 24, if you went on a date with me, like you knew I was on the Nogmas because like it's on the internet. I'm out there. It says man whore. Like you have an understanding of who you're dealing with. But what I also do to combat that because it's very easy to see man whore podcast and think of like the douchiest guy possible. And I'm only like the fourth, like most douchiest guy possible. I'm not, you know, so it's like, I have to actually, so I, some of the things I've already said, like how I don't think being casual is a license to disregard someone, like I'll communicate that stuff with someone early on, like on a first or second date. And I say date, just meaning we're getting together, you know, for drinks before maybe we hook up. And I'll communicate like, here's what casual sex is like for me. And here's how I like to do it. It's like, I'm reassuring them. And I think a lot of men could take comfort, you know, would be wise to do so if they enjoy having casual sexual relationships is like, let them know that yes, like we're not committing to building a life together at this moment. We're not like looking to get into a romantic relationship. Those aren't the feelings I feel here. However, like, I want to have fun with you. You're going to be respected in that fun. That fun is going to be pleasurable for you too, where I'm damn near going to try. And I'm not going to just like, like, I'm not going to not text you back for like five days when you asked me like a question that would be because that would be rude to do to anyone. I like that. I'm not fucking right. And the fact is that guys don't understand. Sometimes I think guys, you understand women. Sometimes what happens is like guys, I think don't understand that girls can just fuck you. Like girls don't need to caught feelings for you. They can fuck without liking a guy. But a lot of times what happens is all that love bombing and stuff the guy does because he thinks he has to do it to keep her banging him. It's actually better to be like you and be honest and let the girls know for sure like nothing else is going on here. And if she knows that and she get that out of her, she could like have fun and fuck you. But if you fuck with her head and you keep it gray because you want her to keep fucking you, that's where you have problems. I used to do that to guys too. I would fuck three guys at the same time and they all knew about each other and I would be straight up honest and nobody am I going to be like, how do you keep them all liking you and be cool? Because I'm like honest because I'm not fucking playing them thinking that if I told them the truth, because like what my whole point is that like a lot of people don't understand that people could handle the truth a lot more than all the bullshit. You know what I mean? And people don't give you people credit. It sounds like you are honest with women about it and you treat them respectfully and therefore they feel comfortable and that's the way to roll because you're here to say that you have plenty of girls that just fuck you and don't cut feelings and you have fun with them and that's what every guy would want sometimes, right? But sometimes they don't believe it, I think. Or maybe they get or some can catch whatever catch feelings, whatever we're making that to mean just to be like and then they can handle like that's of them. They'll handle it because they already know what's going on. They don't have to be confused. They can be like, I have these feelings but I also know what this is and there's clarity. And so that's what's there is that and I do and part of my making sure I get that out front is because not because I want to make sure like I've cleared my basis. It's more like I want to make her comfortable because I know like so many times I'm on a date with a woman and I see her which defenses she has up and I know which ways the guy has dicked her over based on the way she's being defensive now. Like basically a lot of guys has made have made dating more difficult for me because they were shitty and then she's like overcorrecting, right? So because and guys again, have female friends because so you understand what a woman's lived experience kind of is that ways you can talk to them in a way that's like affected. Yeah, so like I understand some of the things that a lot of women may be nervous about getting to a casual sexual relationship and then I am going to explain why maybe those things aren't true with me specifically. There was I think I've said this on your show before but pre-COVID there was a study and it basically suggested that at least among heterosexual women because that's who they talk to. More straight women would have more casual sex if they thought the sex was going to be both safe and pleasurable. If they were like oh if I'm not going to get you know assaulted or murdered and I'm going to come I'm more likely to get involved but like women go they're like oh wait I'm gonna because I don't know if you know but like the biggest risk to your life Kathy is you know men so it's like oh I'm gonna risk my life I'm gonna risk my life and I'm not even gonna nut I'm not gonna nut like a guy we risk we won't risk it I'm not impervious to like gunshots or stab wounds but like I know I'm gonna nut because like I know I know I know I'm gonna come and so that's why I will walk into Claremont Park in the Bronx with my dick out and walk past five coyotes because a lady did say if I walked through all that I can come on her tits and so I'm like yeah let's go find out but like women go on a date with you know with a guy and they need to know like hey all this stuff is going to be safe is this going to be emotionally safe am I going to be physically safe and then well guys when you get into the bedroom you better deliver. Right yeah totally. That's usually how I tackle it. Yeah I love it. I have a very good... But also if I want to throw out there I think some guys also will then do that and maybe some women too I think some people will do all that disclosure but like in a callous way and they're trying to like do in a way like hey this is what's up and like as if almost like you're a fucking corporate lawyer. And don't fuck it no no no and yeah and because I said this now you can't change the fucking game you know what I mean because I said it well and that's what I'm saying I'm talking about that typical guy that's like oh I told her I didn't like my guy that was like I don't like you well I told you I didn't like you it's like yeah but you did all this other shit like it's just that just saying it doesn't you know you have to and you have to be open to okay like you said like you make when you say safe it's like safety is also like you know that that guy will hear you out if something comes into play you know what I mean it doesn't like fucking shut you down. I have a very off topic question that I did a poll on Patreon recently about period sex because you know like I have had guys and I couldn't believe that this wasn't like a thing like I would put if I had my period you girls are very horny on their period it's that time of the month right and like I would put a tampon in and let a guy go down on me and not one guy wouldn't go down on me with a tampon and then when I put that question out there to some girl once she was like are you kidding me I would never I'm like what I'm like but guys would and then a lot of guys are like I would never like would you do that is that like a weird thing? I don't like using the word weird very often okay you went out I forgot your generation yeah what's the word what wait can I just ask you what's the word in the millennial word for weird? I just I just I discovered the concept when it comes to most sex stuff okay cool I think it's I think it's weird when you can only comment if I put a gun in your mouth okay well how's that gonna be different yeah yeah I don't know that's pretty extreme just like um I am it's personal preference so like for me like are you asking if I do period sex or if I eat girl out of a period no no but if they had a tampon in? I think it depends on their like flow and our level chemistry I don't know that I would do that with like someone the first couple times I've hooked up with them right like the 50 year old recently actually she just hit me up it also feels very intimate to do that so I just think it's someone like I think in a you know romantic relationship I think and she wants me to do that then yeah I'm more game but someone like I fuck like every few weeks maybe not like the 50 year old we just like postponed a date because she said like she was getting on her you know she was on her period and like I'm fine with period sex but like I love eating pussy I like eating her pussy yeah and I would like to do that a little bit more like vigorously freely uh yeah more freely so it was like um and also I happened to like have a thing that day and I thought well like for a lot of reasons like let's just let's just wait like a few more days yeah I know we're gonna hook up uh this the on Friday or something but for me I would always I mean the move for me was always like I would like put the fresh one in right before so you know that there's not gonna be anything and I don't know like no guy ever had a problem but I couldn't believe how many people weren't into it how many girls would never allow a guy to do it and how many guys wouldn't either yet I never had a problem with a guy doing it you know it's for a woman it's very horrifying like if she gets it in the middle of something you know what I mean or whatever I knew a friend whose guy would go down on her without a tampon I was like what like you know what I mean and so there are some people that are fine with that too but I think it's very we call them oh really bloodhounds oh okay it's very rare though I don't know you're are you a bloodhounds no no no no I don't like the taste of copper what about armpits you ever take you ever go down on someone's armpits it's like a really good thing I don't know how that popped into my hand and someone I if someone asked me to I would but I have not no one's ever gone down on your armpit oh I've had I think I've had like one or two girls like want to get like or not like lick but they'll like get their nose in there and get that like man sense yeah but that no armpits are not usually a part of my sexual you should try it I'm just telling you I mean I haven't done it in so long it was something that I remember recently for some reason and I once like went down on someone's armpit and then they went down on mine and like I mean for me as a girl every guy I always like loved it and for me it was like oh my armpit is attached to my pussy like it's like there's a line that's like you go down on my armpit it's like I feel it down there like it's like so crazy because it's like if you think about it I feel like you could literally go down on any part of a body that's very like that has a lot of nerve endings and you tickle right you're probably like the back of the knee the inside of the arm you know and you could really like and it could become like an erogenous zone because it's like if you're tickling and it's a highly tickable area tickle below area whatever the word would be it's because there's a lot of nerve endings there so why wouldn't it feel fucking good and those nerve I feel like all my nerve endings go right between my legs like there's there's an attached all to there like everything goes from between my legs out to every other part of my body so you know sometimes you could you know someone like is goes down on your ear right like the inside of your ear you feel it between your legs right like if someone's like going into your ear you're right it's the same shit I love I love a tongue in my ear right remember that yeah but you know what Kathy I gotta save something for my 50s so like maybe I'll put arms right on a later list when I'm just bored of everything you know we're yeah I'm surprised like are we allowed to talk about the fact of and I'll edit this out if we're not about the a podcaster that I kind of I feel like I hooked you up with her and you did wind up like having her on her show and then I got a picture of you guys like in bed together naked yeah that was fun can we talk about that sure so I have okay so this is the story so that girl Samia mounts on my show and I'm like oh Billy like she would be great for your show and you're like oh you know you have this thing where like if someone's not coming into your studio you're not having the motherfucking show but I sent you a picture of her and you're like oh she's hot I'll have her on my show you don't mean like no no no I looked at her page and her like I mean her bio was like something like aggressively poly or something yeah okay this you know even the fit it had to do with her being cute that was just a bonus oh okay yeah she was your vibe I could tell I mean you know what I mean like I just could tell and so you had her on your podcast and then so you know it's then you know you reached out to her she wound up on your show and then one day I get a text from her of you and her like in bed together I'm like what the fuck how did that happen did you guys like tape a show and then wind up in bed like how did you guys wind up in bed from taping a podcast together hey Sam yeah if you're if you're listening uh so I still I still struggle with pronouncing her name it's a whole she's in my amia I think so yeah it's amia mounts we spent like at least three minutes like trying to get me to say her right she's in my phone as salmonella mounting but it's fine I like that she knows that so now we uh yeah we you connected us then she wanted to have me on her podcast that she has so I did her podcast virtually and she had a trip to New York also upcoming so it was like okay I'll do her show and just I guess we had like really good chemistry on her podcast I guess she thought it was pretty and then she started like being kind of flirty towards the end and like when we were like off off like Mike but so she came to your studio or your house to tape is that what happened well first it was the we I we virtually did her podcast yes yeah I get it virtual a product I know yeah and it was so it was flirty on that okay and then uh there was like just more flirting dms and she was getting pretty explicit that like hey no big deal but like I don't want to bang you if you're gonna be down like when she comes to New York so yeah she's aggressive I was so fucking impressed with her aggression when she was telling me shit I was like oh my god you go after what you fucking want so she was telling you before she was letting you know before she got to New York already that this was maybe gonna happen oh yeah oh yeah so yeah we we had a recording day so she came over you keep saying my studio but my studio is just my home that's okay let's just pretend she's she's she's on the couch and uh for an hour the couch is the studio okay so she's on the couch we do the episode it's still flirty and whatnot um yeah but wait let's paint the picture here okay a little bit she walks in you've only seen her virtually and everything and now she's like in your presence are you like very very nice are you hot for her when she walks in oh she's well she's really hot she's like a sexy looking woman you know yeah and and so like it was nice just like one just that first hug is like okay there's like an intimacy there and I'm like oh okay when's it gonna have it I was low key like kind of getting half hard right now just remembering it uh and uh yes we do the podcast so she she's sitting on the couch I'm keeping my distance in my chair in my respectful professional manner you know this is going to be podcast time and then we can do time after yeah and then she just you know then it was kind of like hey you should go get some whiskey this is like three in the afternoon oh right I run around in the corner I grab us a bottle of some booze I pour us some glasses um but before I even go to the liquor store I just like go like we gotta get this out of the way I just like lean down and kiss her and it was really good she's a great kisser and that was very exciting because I do like entering the liquor store with a boner so I did that the bourbon with the boner and uh yeah I came back and like it was pretty quick like I poured the drink and we talked in for a bit but like maybe 10 minutes goes by and before I think she had my dick in her mouth wow and you guys fully begged everything yeah she's stuck in me and then I brought her to the bed I went down on her and fingered her then eventually like yeah she samia mounts mounted me and how was sex between two sex podcasters good my lots of smiles um lots of poor competency and uh laugh you know I like to laugh and smile in bed so it's uh there's a lot of that but yeah like we had a good fuck I think we had like good sexual chemistry that is interesting like my dick definitely like reacts and feels differently with different people yeah like my stamina be different with different people it's not that it's not like how am I feeling and then that's determines like am I gonna be quick am I in the middle could I go for 20 minutes 30 minutes straight of the of the you know piv of the fucking uh and it's like consistent with the same person so there have been somewhere when where like I really struggle to like last more than like a couple minutes just like consistently with that vagina and with my dick that's what it is then there's like you know this other this newer um you know sexual partner of mine like we fucked and I really kind of can just hold it for like a long time with her and samia also it's like my dick just liked being inside her and I could feel that I was like yeah I don't know it's just dope like how is what's the like two sets podcasters fuck it's great well it was funny because I gotta tell you that she was having a party that I she sent me that picture and then she was like high on like then let me tell you she was like after someone else that I know that I hooked her up with and she was like I'm gonna have a threesome with him but it turns out and this is gonna be I'm just gonna come back to you okay I'm not gonna mention who the other person is but I hooked them up and she was like oh I want to mount him too okay this is funny that she's called samia mounts and she was like I'm gonna hook up a threesome I'm like oh my god is she gonna hit on me next like she's hitting on everybody like she's like coming into town and she's got her marks you know what I mean like she's marking this next guy she's got Billy and then she goes to this party and all these people show up and that guy that other person is there and she's like oh I wasn't into him yeah she was I wasn't into him I still like Billy like so did you fuck again that night you and her we did not but we did we did make out on the street oh okay okay so you've never done it again since well yeah no she hasn't been back to New York but like again if I'm ever in of course she's San Antonio if she's ever in New York I think she's moving to the east coast at some point yeah it's clear like oh this is a cool person who is from the check in with you and there and we get back to the you know how do you do a casual thing in a way that's like both respectful but not like pretending to be a boyfriend girlfriend exactly yeah every I don't text her even every week but so like everyone's on here and there like we we have a chat and it's flirty and we remind each other that like we're hot sometimes maybe there's like a hot photo you know yeah sometimes I'm just laying on the couch and like my dick looks good in that moment and I get a picture and it's like who do I think right who do I want to share this this right now with and sometimes it's Sam yeah and I send it to her and we're like you know it just say can I ask you a question about dick pics and then we're gonna go uh because I have a guy that sends me them a lot and I'm like I wonder if he's sending them to 10 people will you send one dick pic to like more than one girl tell the truth yeah I knew it I knew it it's good when I asked myself who would I want to share this with right now who would be exciting to think there's more than one person on that list well sometimes it's one and sometimes it's three it's it's not like I text it to the whole I'm not thoughtless of course it's like I just send it to the whole roster of course it's just like yeah it's purposeful but I'll tell you this instead of dick pics it's I don't send those randomly like yeah if anything it'll be like the hint of the dick it might be like I pulled down the waistband right and show like the root right you know but even more so and this is something you can send just kind of freely you don't really need to ask permission I don't think is I've been as I've been going to the gym and feel myself I've been just like sending like a good like bicep shot or something just like showing them my musculature and so like my face may not even be in and it will be like a really good shot of like my whole deltoid like my front deltoid with you know my shoulder with my arm and just like let them see that yeah and that will also yeah no offense but girls are as uninterested in that as they are your dick pics pics you'd be surprised yeah okay well we're all fake okay I'm sorry we say oh my god that's so hot it looks good you think they're gonna say like we're not interested in this you'd be surprised I've had people say when they were interested in something and some people think it's hot to see because what I'm showing like a body a tricep no it'd be like because no because it's like the whole arm and shoulder like this is what will hold you in bed oh my god this is what's wrapping around you when we're like laying in bed after we just thought like this is like the angle I'm showing I'm not in the mirror flexing this is like I'm laying on the couch no no no it's not about that it's not about that showing my chest hair okay it's not about that I'm just saying it's about women not caring about pictures of body parts whether it's your fucking arm or your thing it's not about you being cocky it's not about any of those things it's about like women just typically are just as uninterested in that picture as they are like a bunch of dick pics sorry it's the truth uh that's it and I'll disagree okay you okay I love that well you know what wait I love to end on something where we're gonna get people in the comment section girls if you're listening comment on whether you would enjoy like and turn on by like a bicep pic we already know dick pics most women are like who cares but like you know once in a blue moon you get a dick pic when you're horny you're like oh that's fucking hot but most of the time it's like whatever but I'll just say nice things like oh my god it looks so big but you know a tricep picture is even worse but you know what do you think and guys do you think your girls love those pics and you have experience I love a good debate people are gonna typically they just always go on the guy side over me uh so you know go to the comment section boys boys boys boys boys so be on uh Billy side but Billy why don't you give a shout out to your podcast or any kind of uh stuff you have going on real quick and I'll put a link to your website in the description well yeah as always uh we're still going strong 12 years later with the man whore podcast wherever you're listening to strictly anonymous uh except youtube you can come find the man whore podcast there and if you live in the greater New York City area I run the naked comedy show uh and our next show is is coming up on May 14th and yes the comedians are all naked how naked naked because that's what naked means also if you live in Philadelphia we'll be there in uh on June 6th so if you all live out in these areas uh you know just come check it out it's a good time I love my penis come see my biceps yeah in full form because you're naked too and everyone else is naked yeah interesting interesting naked fucking comedy show I mean how many are you sell out all the time the last uh three of the last four shows sold out yeah yeah amazing well go check it out uh thanks Billy for coming on you're always fun to talk to thanks Kathy you know so anyway thanks again thanks and kissy face emoji fuck face you then you can't you signed in as fuck face fuck face prasita thanks fuck face bye bye bye Billy at Aldi we think low prices are for everyone and boy do we mean everyone you you nan your cock a poo your ex-situationship Barbara from next door traffic wardens here's Morgan even that annoying guy James from finance yep low prices should be enjoyed by all not just those with the membership what's it so Aldi don't do one no points no cards no fath Aldi which cheapest supermarket even without a loyalty thingy ready to launch your 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