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To the exact same bar three years ago. She does not remember me at all. Holy shit. And the first time we went out, we talked, had some good answers. And she said, like, oh, I'm getting more of like a friend vibe than like a romantic thing. And it was, you know, whatever. But now I know that I have seen her before and she has no idea. And to her, I'm just this new guy who came up and she hooked up with. This is like, now I what's the Jim Carrey eternal. Eternal sunshine. But like, if you're not in love with it, you just got it. It's like, yeah, you forgot her because neither you are interested. Yeah. Yeah. This is where I wonder if he improved or her life got worse in three years. Which happened to keep going, Elvis. Like, I don't know. Like, I feel like I'm being dishonest in not telling her that we have. Met up before. But, you know, I wanted a second chance and I got it and it totally worked. So he got to repeat it. Now I like the new. I do I take this to the grave? If I use her or do I tell her at some point? I feel like that might fuck up the dynamic a little bit. So I don't know. Do I just kind of take this as a win and just keep it with me? Whatever your thoughts are, would appreciate this is really interesting. This is I think on the next first date they go on. I think you. Well, I mean. Yeah, you kind of how many first dates have you fucked up? That was just like, oh, if it was a little different. Oh, I went, you know, I wasn't in. I wasn't on my A game. I wish I could do it differently. The universe just gave him a second chance for no reason at all. And I don't know. Same bar is so funny. Yeah. Well, yeah, creatures of habit. Yeah, I think you should. I think you should always tell the person because if you do end up spending there's a chance you could spend the rest of your life with this person. You're just what you just have to carry that secret around. So I think you should always if it's someone you actually. Think of someone that you really like. I think you have to tell them there is a type of dishonesty here, though, at the end of the day, eldest where it's like, and look, you can you can meet us halfway and pretend you were going through your texts or something or you can make up. Oh, yeah, no, fully. Yeah. And be like, hey, I was going through my I message and I mess. Yeah, popped up like, did we we were on a date here? Like, this is so insane. We were. Yeah, you could do it that way. Because the good news is she doesn't remember you either. So though, at the same time that she could be fucking calling into, you know, girls, we yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, guys, we're doing whatever and asking the same thing. You don't know. She could have been like, oh, fuck, we went on a date before. I don't know. I don't think I don't think you need to. Unless like it ever gets serious. And then if it does get serious, you get to bring it up. You wait. This is one of those classic. The longer you wait, the weirder it is something like this is like so inconsequential. And is it he's fucking the count of Monte Cristo over here. Monte Cristo, Monte Cristo, fuck. Men them thousand Island Stairzo now. Fuck. What is that? I said the month on a month. And go to go up. Which is my which is my. My. I'm fucked here. I'm fucked. He's getting angry. Chris doesn't even taste good. I don't even like Chris. Go it's shortening. My mom used to make for cookies. Sov wants pie. God, I'm thinking about it. This is happening on purpose now subconsciously. Anyway, this guy's the count of Monte Cristo for pussy. He's been scheming. He was scheming on this pussy, dude. Yeah, it's not a scheme, though. It's a bit of a scheme. It's scheme in the sense, which is not necessarily negative. If we want to trust him, he didn't realize it until after the first day. No, no, no. He knew. Oh, really? He said he wanted a second chance. Oh, well, I think it's well, I think it's the easiest thing. Because if it occurs to her one day, it's the easiest side to be like, what? Oh, yeah. He cannot pull that. He cannot pull that. I think he can. I think that's the easiest thing. You could never pull that off. I could pull it off. But I'll keep it cool. But I also it's not like he did something so bad. You know what I mean? Yeah. And that's why I'm saying it's yes. But I think it's the kind of thing where the longer you wait, the weirder it is. Yes, exactly. The less weird thing is to be like, as soon as you're on the date, you could be like, we've done this before. Like you bring this up at some point. I would say it was some people would see this as dishonest and which I'm not going to that far. I don't think this guy is a criminal or anything like that. I'm just saying he's like the quicker you say it. And yeah, you can couch it in the terms of like, hey, oh, we like we were on a date before, whatever. I don't know. I think what you said is perfect. Because he shouldn't. Because I guess the problem now is that he the whole this whole new day was kind of a lie. Because it's a lie. But I think I think the lie you said you lie the truth out. I would lie the truth. Say like I look back. Oh, we went on a date. I guess we're both not very. Which maybe is even more just maybe people are like, that's actually the worst thing you could do. I wouldn't lie the truth. I will say if two people go on a date and neither of them remember, it's probably not a good sign for the future. He remembers, though. Oh, but he didn't remember enough. He did remember. He didn't want to tell her because he didn't want to fuck it up. I thought he realized it at the bar. Did he know the whole time? He knew. Oh, that's how I took it. But wait, I'm confused. Because he realized it at the bar. That's different. I'm confused, though, because how did he even how did the date even get arranged then? Like he messaged. He saw her on a fucking dating app or some shit. She didn't remember. Yeah. And he did. Oh, so it really started as a lie. So so far, this relationship has been her completely forgetting his existence and then him lying. Yes. I'm thinking of making. I guess I wouldn't worry about it because it's like, what are the odds that it'll get serious even? That's when you have to worry about it. No, I think like there's a thing about. We have to have some morality in Stavis within Stavis world. And we're not even saying come fully clean. We're even saying like I was, you know, I had such a great time and I just started getting this feeling of deja vu. And I look back through like whatever, like I think we match before. But he did. He remembers and she doesn't remember at all. That's a little weird. Yeah. That's a little drunk. Did he roofie her? Is this the part? Yeah, that was like. And also, I mean, you know, I really didn't remember. Yeah, I mean, I think obviously the long, it doesn't get easier to tell her. Yes. It only gets harder. Best time to play in a tree is 20 years ago. The second best time is right now. Yeah. That's how it is with lies to exactly you. You it's not like you don't want to tell her this shit. Like you don't want to be like, you know, she's on her death bed. You gotta be like our whole relationship with a lie from the beginning. Yeah. I would just tell her, I don't think it's such a lie. That's the perfect compromise. You're lying. A soft lie about like having a and by the way, prepare yourself to lie. Unlike eldest pretend hoping he's got to be at the ready in case she remembers and he's going to fucking be Daniel Day Lewis. But you know why you know why the advice is great though, too, is because what you're kind of saying by that is that the lie it really isn't about morality. It's just simply like this is inconvenient for you to have to like it's not good for you to have to like have this in your head. Right. So like so like lie a little to get a little on the mind. There's a little morality to it, too, where it's like, no, no, you're Nile. I'm sorry. You're harboring a little. Yeah, you're right. You it would be good to free yourself of the burden. But you are harboring a an untruth here. But you are. But the lie to get that out kind of shows us not just morality. What I would say exactly with that, I guess what I'm proposing is almost like you have gangrene in your pinky right now. Yeah. Right. The pinkies gone. Yeah. Cut the pinky off with a different lie. Yes. It's a different lie cuts the pinky off. It doesn't spread. If you don't spread, it doesn't spread. Now coming fully clean would be curing the gangrene. Right. Being like, I have something to tell you. I. But that's weird. It's now you sound like a criminal. You sound like a criminal. Confess to it. Now you're like, I've been plotting this day. And also like why should this guy be punished for the universe giving him this gift of this second chance? It's not his fault. He lied. The universe didn't do it. Boring ask. If the universe did not plunk him on the fucking head, he had temporary amnesia and he had a great date with this woman he broke up with him. Did he use stuff from the first day to like learn? That's interesting. Yeah. OK, that's a good point. This groundhog day. How right. It was this groundhog day for you. Have you been thinking? Have you been reading up on her interests? Did she say she liked French poetry on the first one? He's going to think you're an associate in French poetry the last couple of years. Yeah, that's it. That actually how much now did you just match with a girl who didn't remember you? You went on a date and went well. Then I feel like you can fucking just be like, hey, I had some deja vu. I looked at it. We had matched whatever. If you've been plotting this a lot, you did something fucked up. Yeah. You did something that makes me feel a little uneasy.
