HTDE: One-Liners and Free Throws

Support for NPR and the following message come from the William and Flora Hewlett Foundation. Investing in creative thinkers and problem solvers who help people, communities, and the planet flourish. More information is available at Hewlett.org. Hey everybody, it's Peter coming up the season finale of our sister podcast. How to do everything made by Wait-Wait-Producers Mike Damporth and Ian Schell-Ognovis is a particularly important and wonderful episode because it features me sharing my personal trick for comfortably falling asleep on airplanes and I just want you all to understand that the fact that I'm telling you all about it for free rather than patting it and becoming a sociopathic billionaire like I've always wanted to do is just one more sign of my generosity to you. So if you've enjoyed listening to how to do everything be sure to follow the show in their own feed and with that let my generosity commence. We fly for work a lot for our other job producing the show Wait-Wait-Don't Tell Me. And right now we're actually in Phoenix, Arizona for a Wait-Wait-Taping. Peter Sago, the host of the show, is with us now. Peter, you say you have a new hack for sleeping on planes? Uh yes, although I have to give credit to the person who taught me this. So my elderly father just turned 89 to spend many, many winters in Florida and he recently said to me, Peter, we have to go meet a friend of mine. The friend was a woman named Annie and Annie's business is driving cars back and forth from Florida where she lives to the homes of snowbirds, people who come to Florida for vacation. So this woman walks in, she's there in the Chicago area to pick up somebody's car and she is wearing a backpack with a pool noodle in it, a pool noodle, a pool noodle, although not a whole pool noodle about say a two foot length of pool noodle. And she's like I said, all business, she's there to pick up the car, get going, she just flew in, but I say, Annie, why do you have a pool noodle in your backpack? And she says, oh, it's how I sleep on planes. I asked her to demonstrate. She takes out the pool noodle and she sticks it in her vest so that it's pointing up right under her chin. And then she mime falling asleep with her chin falling in the pool noodle and being suspended there as opposed to the chin falling forward and waking you up. So it's like the pool noodle makes a pedestal for your head to rest on. Exactly right. As you can, the classic Roman pose of putting your fist under your chin, do that, but just imagine it's a pool noodle instead. Okay, so it's like a go-t basically. No, I don't think a go-t provides any structural support at all. Is it more like a pedestal? Yeah, this sounds crazy, but you tried it. I did. It just so happens that we had a trip coming up and I have children, so I have pool noodles. So I took one of these pool noodles and I cut one down to about a two foot length and I put it in my carry-on bag and sure enough, I got on the plane and I was sleepy. So I took it. I put it down my jacket and put my chin on it completely ignoring what other people might be thinking loudly as I looked at me and had a lovely hour nap. Seriously? Wow. Worked brilliantly. You showed me and I love you. You looked like an idiot. I have no doubt that I look like a complete fool. So, but what's interesting about this is do people do not look good with these with the airline pillows around there? No, fools, right? I mean, they just it's not a good look either. So I don't I think it's just because it's novel. Yeah, that's right. Yeah, I mean, I think what it needs is really just to explain to other people what it is because otherwise they just think you're kind of insane. But if it had like like how an emotional support dog has a vest that says, you know, I'm working, you could just say emotional support, poll, do not pet. Exactly. I'm a whole sleeper. I think if this catches on, you know the way that they come up and down and they hand out headphones to people to bring with it, they're gonna start handing up whole noodles. This is how to do everything. I'm Mike and I'm Ian on today's show How to Help Out Your Favorite Basketball Team while also spreading diseases. But first, hey, Kelly, what can we help you with? Well, I have breast cancer. I'm getting chemo. I have no hair and so and I'm in real estate. So I'm constantly meeting clients and building long-term relationships and I'm out in the community and volunteer and also think and I just like to make things fun and funny and comfortable for people and I'm totally content with where I'm at and I would like preferably a humorous or lighthearted way to address the elephant in the room which is my baldness because I no longer have long curly hair. Oh, that's that's awful and how are you doing with with all the treatment and everything? Great, yeah, just I mean chemo's a beast, but yeah doing as well as a ham. Well good. All right, so do we just leave that aside now and we joke about not having hair? Sure. Or joke about now all of it. Yeah. So have you as you've sort of been out in the world, have there been times where you know an interaction has made you feel like oh I need to think about this or are you just sort of like predicting that? I think I've been predicting it when I knew I was going to see people and they were seeing me for the first time bald actually texted them and advanced. Oh, but like you know I'm constantly meeting new clients who haven't seen me with hair. Right. Although they may have seen my email or my photo online or something and that wow, this is super different. There's no long curly hair there, but yeah. Yeah, so with people that I know with new when I had hair and I say hey, didn't want you to be surprised by my stylish new look. Yeah. So what are what are you doing? Like how are you handling that then? What's the what's the approach with the head? The approach in beanies. Okay. I'm here in Spokane, Washington. It's winter and it's beanies season. Yeah. So I can get away with tucking it down, but it won't be beanies season here forever and it's going to be a long time before I have hair again. Yeah. Before all this happened, did you think about your hair a lot? I mean, I've always had long curly hair and I've always gotten compliments on my hair from young, from old, from strangers, from new people I meet. So I knew it wasn't going to be a big change to not have that as my identity because it was such a part of who I am. Yeah. But like all of this, I'm just embracing it. It's like, okay, let's just go for it. I'm not dwelling on the negatives and anything like that. But you know, in writing into your show, I figure I can't be the only one. I mean, people go bald from chemo all the time and people are in public or long-term client relationships like me. So I'm like, this might not be the only one with this problem. I mean, I would I would say Mike if you're comfortable. So Mike is a cancer survivor and also really likes it's true. It's not making people uncomfortable and likes making people laugh. Like what did you? We haven't really talked about it, but like, did you think about this when you were going through it? I, well, I don't know. I loved it. I loved being able to shave my head because I didn't have to worry about it. But unlike Kelly, I wasn't, I didn't have cool hair. You don't. Right? Like, you've seen my head. It's fine. But like having a shaved head, and again, I recognize for a man it's different. Maybe then for a woman, I never want to assume anything. But yeah, I, I thought it was fun to have a shaved head. And now since then, when I just have my dumb hair that I have now, I've often felt like, man, if only I could just shave my head, but my kids don't want me to shave my head because they don't think that would look good either. So, yeah, no win. No way situation for me. I mean, is there any Kelly, is there any, are there any positives to this? Positives to having no hair and positive to be involved? You know, the one thing I thought of is like, I've been carrying, and I don't know how this was for you, but I've been carrying around this cancer diagnosis and knowing all these treatments were coming. And yet, I looked fine on the outside. And now I kind of feel like, wow, maybe you should cut me some slack. Yeah, right. Look at what I'm going through. So I was a tiny bit looking forward to being who I really am, which is the person going through cancer and keep. So yeah, and yeah, I mean, I guess because I'm trying to look on the bright side of everything. So it was like, okay, here's the next page. And yeah, what I really look like. So yeah, well, we'll, we'll keep our fingers crossed. Everything goes as well as it can. Yeah, yeah, we'll be thinking about you as we try and solve this problem. Yeah, we're solving it for me, but I know there's others. So let's help all of them. All right, Kelly, good to talk to you. Okay, you as well. Okay, so Kelly wants a funny joke, a one-liner, to make things comfortable for people when they see her for the first time without hair. So right now, we are going to call up some very funny people to see if they can help. We'll start with a voice memo that Jeff Hiller just sent us. Jeff just want to Emmy for his role in somebody somewhere. Hi, it's Jeff Hiller. And here are my thoughts. You could say, I like my hair, but I thought it was distracting from my bold lip color. Or you could say, cancer is bad, but looking like Cynthia Erivo is good. Or you could say, I always thought I could pull it off because of my long neck. And now I know I can. Pat and Oswald, you got anything for Kelly? Well, based on my interest in my area of the world, but just maybe she should go, hi, I'm Kelly. I'm your real turn. If it helps, you pretend the professor acts as filling you out. Thanks, Pat. Okay, we got Tom Papa up next. Do you ever, do you have, have you ever had to talk about hair in your act? Is your hair changed over the course of your career? You know that mean for you. Well, it was the way he really talked around. What he was trying to say. I was trying to say what I was trying to say was what I said. And I would say what you're going to say, at least treat Tom Papa with the respect. Be direct with him. That was really, that was the way my wife asked me to do something. Tom, you know, I have only the greatest respect, the greatest respect for your wife and her methods. I'm thinking it kind of depends on who she's talking to. If you're dealing with a, like, Republican megavide, I would just lean in and say, sorry about this. I blame the vaccine. You could say, sorry, if I look a little different, this is just in general, a general one, you could just lean in and say, sorry, sorry, if I look a little different, I started trimming my eyebrows and I couldn't stop. I know what you're thinking. Do the current, and you match the draped. I'll tell you, I'll tell you after we get through escrow. That's all I got. Tignitaro, do you have any ideas for Kelly? I would say to Kelly, the response I had immediately was to say something like, I just got back from the hair stylist. I feel like maybe they went a little too short. What do you think? Maybe I should have brought a picture. That's what I would say. If I was looking for a way to diffuse a situation like that, that's what my gut says. That is wonderful. I think that's going to be really good for Kelly. Were there other things at that time that you thought about or that you tried that you remember? I was never bald. There was no reason for me to say that. I don't know if it's the opposite or what, but I did an HBO special and took my shirt off. I didn't give any information. I guess it is the opposite. From that time, right after your diagnosis, do you remember any interactions you had with people as people were learning what was happening to you people in your life? Were there any awkward or just other interactions that you remember? I think because after my diagnosis, I spoke so publicly about it. It was kind of everywhere in the news. I would say the most awkward thing for me was my mother had died right before I was diagnosed. My stepfather was my parent that I was now in contact with in a way that had never happened before because we were very, even though he raised me since I was two, he was just very standoffish and reserved and we weren't terribly close and so everything, all communication went through my mother basically. It was very odd to now be sick and having to call and talk to him about my breasts all the time. That was terribly uncomfortable for me because I barely talked to him about anything and now we were constantly in conversation about my boots. It was like a nightmare for me. Did it get better? Talking to him about my boots. Sure, I never was like, oh, I can't wait to call Rick and bring this up again, but it was totally fine and he was very, he really stepped up after my mother died, which was a real pleasant surprise. That's great. Yeah. Well, TIG, thank you so much for helping Kelly out. Yeah, thank you. Comedian Rachel Coster left a voice memo for Kelly. Hi, I hope that the chemo is effective and let you feel better soon, but in the meantime, while you are bald, you can let people know that you're in your Elmer Fud era and that it's Wabbit season. I hope that's helpful. And last but not least, Mohanet El Shehi, what do you have for us? Yeah, I mean honestly that she's a, sorry, she's showing people houses and stuff. I guess you could be like, you know, I promise the house looks exactly like the picture so. That's really good. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think, I think, you know, there's so many things one could say, you know, like the picture thing, but also you can just explain to him what, explain to them what happened, you know, you went to Turkey, you kind of met, stuff got lost in translation and they did the opposite, they did reverse hair transplant. Yeah. And this is what you left with. You should see my back. Yeah. I went to Turkey to be a donor. Somebody has, it's not a zero sum game. Or you know, sometimes if, like, I just look too beautiful with the hair, I just want you to focus on the house. Yeah. Not me. This is for you as a service. This is, I like this for Kelly. I feel like these are like, they're funny and they're also like, I feel like she's going to seal a deal with these. Yeah. 100%. And Kelly, just FYI, if you seal any deals using any of these jokes, I'm getting 10% out of that 10%. Okay. So we have Kelly online with us now. So what's going on? What's the, is it too personal to ask for a health update? No, no, no, no, I finished breast cancer treatment in June. So he'd be so proud of you. Congratulations. Yeah. Yeah. Super grateful. Is there anything practical from there that you feel like you could use any, any phrases you could adopt? Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Like, oh, I went to do my eyebrows, but apparently I did too much. And I swear the house looks just like a picture, even though the picture you saw of me was nothing like what's dating in front of you. And then something Tic said, she said she had to talk to her dad about her breast. And my kids are young adults. They're 1921 and 22. And so I'm going to talk about my, my kids about my breasts. And I'm sure they don't want to hear the word breast coming from their mom. Yeah. Yeah. This is a tough one. So those are my, my, my, my favorite. All of them were fabulous. And I can't believe you got some of the best people to comment. I really appreciate that. Sure. Well, Kelly, it's so good to talk to you. And we wish you continued good health. Yes. Thank you very much. I enjoyed continued good health. Hey, if you have any questions, you'd like us to take on, go ahead and send us an email. You can send us an email at how to at npr.org. We are, this is our last episode of the season. 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More information is available at huelet.org. Hey Jeff, what can we help you with? Well, I've had this question kind of pondering around my brain for a long while now. I basketball games, especially free throws, people in the stands kind of act crazy, scream, wave signs, and things like that try to distract them. And I've always thought, like, they're professionals. They do this a million times. It's not going to work. But what if there was something that would actually work? And the best I could come up with would be like an entire section of fans, like blowing air some way or another, to try to like adjust the path of the ball as it's going towards the basket. You're imagining everybody behind the basket blowing at the ball. It's not, it has to be perpendicular, not behind. And yeah, like either like you're blowing out a birthday candle or maybe everyone has those little hand-held fans, you know, like in the thumb or something like this. Kind of like, you know, if you're at a concert and they turn the lights out, but everyone does their cell phone light. Sure. It's like, you know, enough people are doing it. Is it enough to matter? So create resistance that would impact the ball enough that it would throw it off and they'd miss the shot. Exactly. Yeah. Let me ask you this. When you're at a basketball game, do you try blowing during a free throw just to see if one man can make a difference? Not a chance. No. I'm not. It's not a... First of all, that definitely wouldn't work. And second of all, like the person in front of me would be like, what the heck's happening? So you don't believe in the butterfly effect I take at Jeff. No, I guess not. You know, I feel like the the right person to help with this is a PhD and expert in fluid mechanics. David, who is a professor at Georgia Tech's George W. Woodruff School of Mechanical Engineering? David, could people blowing at a basketball affect a free throw? Yeah, this is an interesting problem. I worked this out at my kid's or the dentist the other day. It all depends on how far they're sitting away. So if someone's making a free throw, they're in the middle of this whole stadium and you've got 50,000 seats around you. I mean, people have a lung capacity about three liters. Okay, so they could... If you exhale that, the issue is they're not going to get close enough to generate a strong wind near the basketball. Maybe you've heard out... I heard a saying like, you can blow out a birthday cake but you can't suck out a birthday cake candle. Oh, I haven't heard that yet. Yeah, but it makes sense. We do have a different circles. But basically, air jets, they travel a certain distance, but then air has very low density and it's basically got all this stationary air around it. So as you're pushing the air around you, pushing the air out of your mouth, you can't create this jet. You can blow out a birthday candle pretty well if you're just within like two or three inches of this candle. But if someone puts that candle foot away from you or two feet, all the air that you pushed out is basically... it's slowed down by the air around it and it just does not get very far. I mean, if you could concentrate all these 50,000 people into like, I don't know, somehow I'm going to have one giant person that would be almost like having like a leaf blower or maybe some really big... like a couple really big strong people coughing right next to the person. Like right next to the ball, then maybe you could deviate a little bit. So it sounds like the crowd is going to be too far away. But you know, there are the players, the defensive players standing right next to the free-throw shooter. They could probably lean in and be a couple inches away as the ball leaves the hand. And as far as I know, that's legal. Could they blow the ball enough off course? They'd have to time it really, really precisely right when that person's releasing the ball just to change the directory. You'd have to have... man, not just even one person, but I think a few few people. I think if they really focus and really coughed or sneezed on the ball, but that probably has more effect on the person trying to shoot this thing too. If you have three defenders waiting for that shot to go up and I think, Dr. Who, this is a question I have, these are not regular people, right? A lot of these people are seven feet tall. Does that... do they still only have three liters of lung capacity or do they have slightly more because they're giants? Yeah, the average person as three liters, I mean volume goes as height to the one third. So if you basically get someone that's 50% taller, 50% taller, 1.5 to the third, yeah, you could maybe you get double that. Oh, okay. Yeah, what if you had... six liters? If you had then, just imagine this, imagine a scenario where you had three shacks, two on one side, one on the other side, blowing on that basketball. Do you think they could affect the trajectory of that ball? They've got to get really, really close and get their their timing right and if they all sneeze, sneeze and coughing, you know, it's... you'd have to do some kind of... like the body can only generate those speeds outside of our conscious control, like when we cough it's... I mean it's almost like a third of a leafler, 15 meters per second. It's like many, many miles per hour. Wow, okay. If you're close enough, so three shacks sneezing, I think someone has to put that to the test. Well, Dr. Who, thank you so much for helping us out. Well, I'm happy to. Well, that does it for this week's show. What'd you learn, Ian? Why learned that you can use a pool noodle to sleep on a plane? Yeah. If you're willing to look like an idiot. Here's a thought I have that I think could make sense. Could make this doable. What if you just brought a baguette on the flight? Because a baguette is something you can eat. You could even, if you do following Peter's method, tuck the baguette in your shirt, rest your chin on it, and you... I think you have an excuse that would take away the embarrassment. You just fell asleep while eating a baguette. You're right, you're right, and it is incredible. I think very telling about the pool noodle method that it is less embarrassing to tell everybody around you, you fell asleep while eating a baguette. Well, that just opens up the world to any number of foods. You could say you fell asleep eating a footlong sub. You could do, I fell asleep eating a pool noodle. This bread is so hard, I just got exhausted. How to do everything is produced by Skylar Swenson with Hina Shervostova. Technical direction from Lorna White. This is our last new episode for a little while, but we will be, as we said, working hard to help you with your how-to questions. Keep them coming to how-to at npr.org. Or use our phone number and leave a voicemail at 1-888-Gagax5. Just trips off the tongue 1-888-Gagax5. I'm Ian, and I'm Mike. Thanks. Support for NPR and the following message come from the William and Flora Hulett Foundation. Investing in creative thinkers and problem solvers who help people, communities, and the planet flourish. More information is available at Hulett.org.