3/27/26 Pregnant and My Mom Won't Make Some Sandwiches! š¤°| Brown Bag Mornings
78 min
ā¢Mar 27, 20262 months agoSummary
Brown Bag Mornings episode covering entertainment gossip (T.I. vs 50 Cent beef, J. Cole's near-signing to G-Unit), viral animal stories (Chinese highway dogs), and a listener call-in about family dynamics during pregnancy where a daughter seeks advice on uninviting her unsupportive mother from her baby shower.
Insights
- Family dynamics during major life events (pregnancy, marriage) often reveal generational differences in how support is expressedāfinancial help vs. emotional presence matter differently to different people
- Social media and cultural pride (lowrider culture, hip-hop history) are driving mainstream institutional recognition and commercial opportunities previously unavailable
- Viral narratives on social media are often incomplete or misleading; audience should verify before emotional investment (e.g., Chinese dogs story had alternate explanation)
- Boundary-setting with family members requires clear communication and willingness to enforce consequences, not just expressing feelings
- Celebrity legal settlements increasingly include non-disparagement clauses that create complex contractual obligations around public speech
Trends
Lowrider culture gaining mainstream institutional recognition through government licensing and postal service commemorationsCelebrity feuds increasingly involve family members and spouses being dragged into public disputes on social mediaViral animal rescue narratives spreading without verification, reflecting audience desire for feel-good storiesHip-hop industry retrospectives examining near-deals and what-ifs (J. Cole/G-Unit) as cultural nostalgia contentLegal settlements in entertainment increasingly restricting public commentary and social media behaviorGenerational differences in parenting support models (financial vs. emotional labor) creating family conflictWildlife rehabilitation using human-animal costume interaction as training method for orphaned animalsCold weather linked to increased cardiac mortality, driving health awareness in seasonal climates
Topics
Lowrider Culture and Government RecognitionHip-Hop Industry Near-Deals and RetrospectivesCelebrity Feuds and Family InvolvementLegal Settlements and Non-Disparagement ClausesViral Misinformation on Social MediaFamily Dynamics During PregnancyBoundary-Setting with ParentsWildlife Rehabilitation TechniquesSeasonal Health and Cardiac MortalityGenerational Differences in Support ModelsSocial Media and Cultural PrideCourtroom Behavior and Judge AuthorityDistracted Driving Legal CasesEntertainment Industry Contracts
Companies
US Postal Service
Released lowrider-themed postage stamps that sold out, demonstrating mainstream cultural recognition of lowrider heri...
California DMV
Proposed new lowrider license plates with custom art designs, with fees funding youth and community arts programs
Costco
Mentioned as source for pre-made sandwich bread and supplies for catering events
Toyota
Mentioned as sponsor of the Chezmation segment on the show
La Curacao
Referenced in context of a caller winning $10,000 from the retailer
Hulu
Streaming platform involved in legal settlement dispute regarding content about celebrity tape
San Diego Humane Society
Received orphaned bear cubs from wildlife rehabilitation after mother bear was euthanized
People
Mark Gonzalez
Proposed California bill for official lowrider license plates to celebrate lowrider culture
J. Cole
Discussed near-signing to 50 Cent's G-Unit label; 50 Cent rejected him for being too soft musically
50 Cent
Rejected J. Cole from G-Unit; currently in feud with T.I. involving family members
T.I.
In ongoing feud with 50 Cent; wife Tiny and sons became involved in public dispute
Tiny
Wife of T.I.; dragged into feud with 50 Cent who posted unflattering photos of her
King
T.I.'s son who defended his mother Tiny during feud with 50 Cent
Melissa
Pregnant woman seeking advice on whether to uninvite unsupportive mother from baby shower
Mariana
Melissa's mother; called into show during segment; expressed love for daughter despite conflict
Albert
Married caller sharing similar family dynamics experience with unsupportive in-laws
Cam
Caller advising Melissa to set firm boundaries with mother and enforce consequences
B-Real
Host of Brown Bag Mornings; member of Cypress Hill
Angie
Co-host of Brown Bag Mornings; leads Chezmation entertainment gossip segment
Shohei Ohtani
LA Dodgers player who gifted $4,000 Seiko watches to all 25 teammates on opening day
Quotes
"Don't tell me that you love me. You love me. Talk to me like that."
Mariana (Melissa's mother)ā¢During phone call segment
"You're a man and you're dealing with another man. You should keep the beef between you and that man. You know what I'm saying? To bring me in it, it's like for what?"
Tinyā¢Chezmation segment
"Can't sign this. She ain't too tight."
50 Cent (regarding J. Cole)ā¢Rap Sheet segment
"The judge always is going to be more petty than you. And then they got the power lookie."
Hostā¢Courtroom stories segment
"You can't replace someone's mom. Okay? All right, all right."
Hostā¢Bear cubs story discussion
Full Transcript
Hey, don't make your life harder than it needs to be. You really want to type rap back mornings every single time? Nah, just hit the subscribe button, Perrito, do it, go! What's up? This is B-Rail from Cypress Hill. Where are you from, Esse? Don't you know I'm local? And I was looking up for lowrider in my system, you know, lowrider. We found lowriding by FM. This is a sample. This is a sample. Banger. I just thought they made songs about planes, bro. That was 2010's bait right here. Look at G6. Look at G6. Please tell me there was a Berrida remix to this. I heard it. Of course, it was all banger. Hold on, I'm waiting for it to come in. Yeah, I heard that. Never heard this in my life. This is about like jerking time too. That's fire though. It's fire though. Big up to FM. I want to show you some lowriding because this is pretty cool. This is a pretty cool new bill that's proposed by our homie, Mark Gonzalez. He's came in here, a really cool guy. Talks to us all the time about what's going down over there in the area of East LA. He talked to us. He even made EDM day. Yeah, that guy. A new bill that he proposed that could bring official lowrider license plates to the streets of California. Nice. If you think there's a special California license plate that have the sun on it and stuff like that. Oh, the poppies. These would have lowrider portraits or lowrider art and stuff like that. And of course it come with an extra fee as anything does as pretty customized in the DMV. But it would go to fun arts programs, youth initiatives and community events tied to lowrider culture to keep that culture going strong. I'm loving how I'm seeing the appreciation for lowrider culture granted us being Latinos and Chicanos. We've always felt that way. But like those stamps that they just dropped for what that had lowrider is, the US Postal Service sold out. You can't get them anywhere. And it's meant to give a push for people to start sending more mail because clearly there needs to be funding in like actual mail. Yeah. Physical mail. And to see this go on as well, I really like it. Yeah. Well, it's cool to see like a 180 because the writing was like banned. Still is. Essentially, like in a lot of parts of the city. I mean, they allow it in certain places, you know, like they'll kind of turn the other way. But to like embrace it, you know, is actually pretty cool. So yeah, I like that. Yeah. And you're totally right on that big seeing like these lowrider documentaries about how it started out here in Los Angeles and even why there's hydraulics because cars couldn't be a certain inch, certain inches from the ground. So hydraulics would have them lift up so they wouldn't get in trouble with the cops. All these cool little insights and to see it celebrated. I like it very much. So people that have lowriders already have to go through hella processes to like they have to pay extra fees, do extra tests, all of these things. So to see them now being appreciated, I do, I do like that. And for that, we're going to play. Every day. We have got your butt. Through my veins. This is the first. This is a song I play when I get in my dad's lowrider all the time. I always love you. 311 or. This is a banger. 311. Are you playing the sample or you're playing the FM record? FM, come on. Who doesn't? I like the original. Both. Ready, guys. Just be like. I always love you. We made E-Man happy today. All right. This is some cheesemation. Zulu, come here. Now what's going on? Cheesemation with Angie. With me and you guys. T.I. is wife. Tiny is actually responding back at 50 Cent. After he posted like unflattering pictures of herself on IG. So if you guys don't know T.I. and 50 Cent, they've been beefing it. They've had a back and forth, right? Because it started pretty much as T.I. was challenging for a verses. And 50 Cent was just like laughing it off, right? Yeah. So they've been having a back and forth and 50 Cent being 50 Cent. He posted this picture of Tiny. And it's just like a picture of her looking not so great. And so recently they asked Tiny like how did you feel when you got dragged into this beef? I felt like it was of course uncalled for. Because I mean I feel like you're a man and you're dealing with another man. You should keep the beef between you and that man. You know what I'm saying? To bring me in it, it's like for what? For what? For what? I thought it was uncalled for. She's from the south. I know she's from the south. She's from the south. She's from the south. She's from the south. I know she's from the south. She's from the south. She has a little accent. Yeah. And a lot of people were praising her for that because it's like yeah you're right. These should have been just between you guys. The men? Yeah, between T.I. and 50. But also if you guys remember the sons, T.I. sons, they all got involved too. And so they asked her like how did you feel about that? I wasn't as affected as my family was. Like they really, it was like they really felt some kind of way. And I was like whatever, you know what I'm saying? But you know I appreciate them for wanting to step up. I didn't know they were going to do that. Especially the money. It was a shock to me. I already know King's going to go to bat for me at all costs. Yeah. It's beautiful to see I guess as a mom, your children ride for you. Yeah. Without being asked to. Because like oh my god. Thank you. I'm not growing your life. Like you love me like that. I know for real. But she gets clown on a lot. She does. So for her to grow that like tough skin because people do clown her. She looks on their relationship, the dynamics of all of that. And yeah dudes always bring girls into beefs. So yeah. Especially beefing with 50. 50 is going to go at whatever, whoever's around you. Any week in his brother. Whatever. Any week that she's in a z-move. And then they went back, he's dead mother. Yeah that's when King went, yeah, yeah, yeah. Did they ask her what that went? They did ask her and she was just saying like you know what? I was not agreeing with what he was doing. And I kept telling King like take it off. That's not going to be doing that. But King's going to do whatever he wants to do. Nice. Because we're normal. 50 got armadillo skin bro. He's just thick. He just laughs it off. You're right. Thick and rough. Thick and rough. All right. That's it for Chizmation. Brought to you guys by your Toyota dealers. I'm Angie from Brownback Mornings. I'm part 106. Spending a 50 cents. If it's hip hop. You know Letty's on the act go. Rap sheet. Letty's set go. We find now that G G G G UNIT could have had J. Cole is doing a press run on his album that just dropped the fallout. And he was talking to Cameron about the time he almost signed to 50 cent. Check this out. If it plays. They was trying to put I think 50 on him. I'm not before J. Had heard my and I think they played my fifth year and what I was told his response was like mind you I had like lost. I had like, I had this song called Lost Ones, I had Lights Please, I think 50 reaction from what I heard was, can't sign this. She ain't too tight. Ha ha ha ha. Are you going off the image, right? Right, I mean, I get it too, because I mean, guess what? That's when I made no sense, me going to G-Unit, you know what I mean? But shout to Shop Money, you know what I mean? And Hove, who's seen the vision. Oh my gosh, you got a thing. They played at 50 Cent. Yeah. Lights please. I don't feel bad, thanks, something like them tents. Oh, 50 Cent. No. Like this. Too soft for me, big New York, okay? Oh, don't treat you and it had a hell of a lovey-dovey song. Yeah, they had a song. What? This is 21 Question by Nets Friends. 21, most of 50's bangers were best friends. Yeah. Come on. Yeah, like his melodic vibes. Yeah. He's a window shopper. Yeah. I don't know. You're going to tell me he didn't fit, they didn't want him to fit. Yeah, 50 also responded on Instagram being the troll that he is to Jake Cole. But I would have liked them to have done something. They have a song together. On Born Center, on the second track, on the second album. They have a song together. The bonus album? What song is it? Something New York? It's something, yeah, it's like a New York song. I remember that. Yeah, I mean, but yeah, no, in the heyday. That wasn't 50's heyday. I would have liked... Oh, New York Times? Yes, yeah, New York Times. I would have liked Jake Cole to be like the Joe of... For the, I wanna get to know you. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah. Bro, by the way, Lost Ones by Jake Cole is a very deep record. And it tripped me out that they would show 50 Cent that. Yeah, why would they do that? Right? Yeah, play them something else. Lost Ones is a crazy record. It's a song about a couple that's going through getting pregnant and the guy not wanting it and stuff like that. Like it's... What? Yeah, something like that. Yeah. Let me live. I didn't, Nick Cannon have one of those records as well. What is that? I... Bang girl. Wow, you guys don't know hip hop, I guess. We don't. It's so funny, because we always ask country to shine men on the hip hop segments, because he stays out of it. This is what he says. And this is what he says. And you have Vast, Nick Cannon, hip hop now? Nick Hunt and FF? No, no, no, no, what about... Brennan's got a baby. Brennan's got a baby right now, two-part. What? What? What? Alright, happy Friday. Happy Friday. Nick Cannon. On the way. On the way. You're a couple years late, buddy. Girl, what's going down, Chris. Yes, we are so desperate for good news that we are making fake stories go viral. Oh, dang. That's true. Like, Uncri's Chair. Hip hop. Whoop, whoop. That's the sound of the police. The petty police. You're petty. You're just petty. I'm being petty. Petty, petty girl. Pretty and a pettiest. Pretty and a pettiest. Real answers only has anyone ever been in a courthouse? Yeah. Yeah. OK. Have you ever tried to be petty with the judge or seen other people maybe in other cases before you try to be petty with the judge? Yeah, start arguing, those idiots. Yeah. Start arguing or like give petty answers or attitude. Yes. The judge always is going to be more petty than you. And then they got the power lookie. That is true. That is true. That doesn't stop you though, Henry. It does stop me, but yeah. They were trying to help me, but I was just being petty because I was mad that I was there. Oh my goodness. It's not the judge's fault though. We mad at the officer. Yeah, screw that guy. Oh my. So what were you being petty like? I got pulled over because my Lexus had like blacked out lights on it. So the cop gave me a ticket. But I sold the Lexus and I went to court. And when I got to court, the cop was like, oh, did you fix it? I was like, I don't have the car anymore. He's like, did you fix it? And I was like, I don't have the car. He's like, I'm not asking. You have to ask the question. Did you fix it? And I was like, I don't have it. He's like, did you fix the car? And I was like, I don't have it. He's like, go outside. Take a picture of your car. Come back in here and show me a picture if you fixed it. So I showed him a picture of the car that I had. He's like, OK, that's all you have to do. And I was like, oh my gosh. Stop, please. Please, stop. Please, no. All right. This is a really funny and petty story that happened over in Michigan. So they were doing a virtual court hearing, right? With a lady that was supposed to chime in. And I don't know that if she knew that the camera was on. But she was driving. She tried to gaslight the judge that it wasn't her driving. You need to hear how it goes down. You cannot be driving, ma'am. What are you doing? Come on. I'm not driving. I'm a passenger in a car. Am I crazy or does it not look like you're driving that car? I'm not driving the car. I'm a passenger in the car, sir. What side of the car are you on? I'm on the left-hand side. That's the driver's side. Probably be on the left-hand side if you're a passenger in the front seat. Am I missing something? Left-hand, right-hand side. I'm sorry. I've been sitting in a room. I didn't know. Oh my gosh. OK, so then I literally, I was watching this. I'm like, show the driver. Ask for the driver. And so he ends up asking. All right, put the driver on the call. Let me see. I wish you knew the driver. Let me see the driver. Hang on one second. Now. I have to ask her permission. Now. There was no driver. She was freaking driving. She starts pulling over. And you see all of this. Like, you see her pulling over when she's asking for permission. She gets out of the car. And at that point, the judge had enough and then hit her with this. I'm entering a default judge. Mickey lied to me. They put in their defendant was not available at the time and then was driving a car and telling the court she was not. I'm entering a default judgment. Have a great day. Thank you. Thank you, Anne. She's so mad. Oh my gosh. She shows me. She shows me. She's so dumb. What a moron. Who does that? It would have been so easy to say my car is a Japanese mod where it's on the other side. Your sister's done. The scene was on the other side. No. Important it from Japan? Yes. And granted, the fact that she was in a moving vehicle, it was clearly driving. It's distracted driving. But you could have pulled over. You could have done it from that. And you could have been like, you know what? I'm sorry. I didn't know I shouldn't have been driving on this car. Like, I apologize, judge. It's so easy. You're literally? It's that simple. It is. I got pulled over yesterday. Her hands on the steering wheel. I am not driving. You are moving. Yeah, it's gaslighting to the upteenth degree. And the judge was like, no, no. No, whatever. Not driving. Move, moron. I'm not driving. Watch her reason was for distracted driving. He doesn't say why she was in the virtual court for the record. But yeah, don't do that. Don't do that. Don't lie to judges, guys. And people will still do it. Greg will still go up there and argue with the judge. Yeah. Only God can judge me the only way. He's the ultimate judge. That's right. You're listening to Young Jack in the Streets Morning. Take over now available as a podcast. Hosted by me, Young Jack, your favorite cousin. And Ms. Shadnicka. Plus, Shada Shada. As we dive into a world of engaging statements like the day dilemma. So you like a guy from the rougher side of the tracks. Like, you want a thug. Yeah, you get me. Yeah. So what you like for a d-day b-ing? Come here. That could sound good. That would sound good. Oh, Lord, did you hear that? No, did you hear? Lord, Tripp, you got it. Really? That's what you like? I mean, every once in a while, they don't be meanin' it. Jared with a G, are you there? Yes, I'm here. Call her a b-ing. She might like you a little better. OK, let me see here. Well, take your a-ing back to the hem. It's not pretty natural. You tried. It still sounds like Jared with a G, but. Ha! Ha! Ha! Hell no! Don't miss out on the fun and the entertainment with your favorite cousin, me, Young Jack. Tune in to Young Jack in the Streets Morning. Take over available now on your favorite podcast platform. Sprolling with dummies. You know, everyone on the internet always gets in their feels when they see sad videos of little dogs just all by themselves. And just. In the arms of an angel. You just see the little cute faces. Yeah. That one's got us all at one point. Oh, my God. I have multiple points in time. You see the dogs? Yeah. Yeah, right in the middle of watching Maury. Yeah. Just one dollar a day. Yeah. Help this dog right here. Yep. But there's a viral video right now that's going around from China. Of 10. Why do you say like that? I know. China. Because I'm Chinese, man. Let me tell you. What? Tell the story. Tell the story. That doesn't exist in China. Tell the story. Yeah. There's 10 dogs walking on the side of a highway. And everybody is so sad about these dogs because of the German Shepherd that looks injured. They all look confused. And it's like, where are these dogs going? Yeah, this weekend it was hella viral. Everywhere. That's supposedly they escaped a truck that would send them to Slaughter. A Triton truck? Yeah. And then they were trying to find their way back home, help the German Shepherd. It was viral. Everybody was trying to find out where these dogs... Homeward bound. Yes. Great movie. We're sold. Everyone was trying to find out where these dogs are going. What's wrong with them? Where are they? That's so sad. I fell for it. You fell for it, right? What do you mean, you fell for it? It's not true. What? Dogs are not lost at all. Those dogs are not lost. They have a home. There's another video going viral as well of them walking through a field actually returning to home. But you know what they're saying? That's still part of the story. Homeward bound, dog. No, but you know what the craziest part is? The dogs weren't lost. They were in heat. They were genuine? No. They were chasing pony? What? They were pony? Reportedly, allegedly, the German Shepherd, the main dog in the video, was in heat. And the other dogs are following him for that reason. What? Yes! So the dogs are trying to get it on. Okay, that sounds crazier than the other story. How do I know your story is true? It's reportedly allegedly true. Wait. Wait! That's a secret code. So how do you know that that's true? The other thing is alive. That's why there's so many dogs around. The dog said that it's in heat. But who said that? The doctors. What doctors? The scientists. The scientists. The scientists. The scientists. You've never heard of the stories. I didn't watch the full story. Yes, I did. Someone from the village that those dogs are from told reporters, hey, that thing that's going viral is not true. These are actually from our village and that one is in heat and that's why they were all swarming it. Yes. Yes! Okay. So the corgi, the story that I fell for with the corgi was leading. Yeah, the corgi was leading. That's not true. That's not true. That's us making up stuff so that we could feel better about the state of the world. Or is it all Chinese propaganda? For what? Chinese propaganda, man. For what? It's real. It's real. What do you mean? They're trying to get one over on punch? Yeah. Punch, monkey. Monkey punch. Yeah, it's like, okay, y'all gave it to Japan. I didn't bring it over here. Chinese propaganda. Well, let's do some of our own. That's right. Watch, they probably have stories of dolphins from over here. Right? Made it cold. American dolphins. Everybody watches different things from, like every country has little differences. I'm sticking with it. Yeah, that's the truth. The dogs are wearing heat and their horns up. All the dogs follow other dogs when they're all, I don't know, I never heard of that. I have lipstick was out. The red rocket. It's a heat, it's a girl. The push pop was out. So they were all trying to get a turner one. Yeah. What? German shepherd, even the corgi? All the dogs. That's it, it's funny because there's a video. The corgi. The corgi. Get out of your corgi. Corgi and German shepherd. You can't even get up my leg. All right, thanks Greg. Which dog went last? Why do you want to know? I don't know. Creep. They're trying to list for that. All right, let's get into the weather. Concrete. And now the weather. Oh, hell, the dogs. With concrete storm. Es viernes y el cuerpo lo sabe perritos de desgondar por the weather. Friday, March 27th, the kids are happy. Yeah. First, we throw the dub up in the city of LA. The Dodgers are happy. Winning after the first game. 83 and 59 degrees at night. Now we hit up circus liquor in the city of Hollywood. Kappa three pack of Modellos makes the body. What makes the body good? What makes the body. No, it's, you know, 84 and 60 degrees at night. Next, we spin the classics in the city of Norwalk where full state catching fades like a short stop. 80 degrees at night. Last week, we back up the homies in the city of Montclair where fools trip and get folded like a lawn chair. Actually pretty nice over there. 60 degrees in 61 at night. Paritos is going to be pretty warm. Keep your water coolers filled up with Modellos and beers and all that stuff. It's going to be a good weekend, man. You guys have a good one. Dodgers play today again, right? Today's what I'm running for. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. I'm running for the day. Dodgers play today again, right? Today's what I'm running for. Ring ceremony today, right? I don't know why you asking the boundaries, man. Ring ceremony because he stays watching us. No, I tell you he does. He does. Your biggest haters are your biggest watchers. Los Angeles scandal is you're going to be 83 and 59 degrees at night. North Hollywood you're going to be 84 and 60 degrees at night. Norwalk, 84 and 59 and Montclair, 86 and 61 degrees at night. Paritos, it's your boy Conqueri. For brand-new mornings, our proud one is six. Let's go. All right, check this out, homie. We need some help. We need your help. We need a line. I mean, phone line. We got you, folks. The homie help line. Melissa needs our help. Melissa hit us up and said, hey, brown bag, I'm Melissa and I am so stressed out about planning my baby shower. She said, I feel like I don't have much help and it seems like I'm literally planning the baby shower all by myself. She said, a baby shower is supposed to be thrown for you and I'm not feeling showered at all. Hey, yo. She said, my friends haven't asked to help with anything. My in-laws gave us money, so that's something I'm really grateful for, but my mom and my brothers are quiet. My mom is more worried about inviting her friends and when I explained to her that we have, even though I explained to her that we have a limited guest count, she said, she also complained about the simple task I gave her, which was to make the sandwiches and two agua frescas and a salad. Every day she calls me asking, when am I going to do her nails? When am I going to take her to eat? Why I don't take her food and coffee to work? She even called me Takanya for not doing these things for her. What does that mean? Yeah. Cheap. Oh, okay. Frugal, stingy. Stingy, yeah. She said, instead of calling me and telling me to focus on studying for my board's test, she worries about herself and her needs. This is her first grandchild and you would think she would be helping more and would want me to be stress free, but all she's thinking about is her stupid friends and her displaying my baby shower as if she's even acting like a good grandparent now. Little do her friends know she isn't helping with much. She said she only agreed to make sandwiches because I said, if she makes them, we can invite her friends, but it was just to see what she would say. She even said to give her money to pay for the stuff because it's too much. My mom isn't helping this process at all. She's making it harder. Would it be wrong of me to uninvite her and all her friends? So the sandwiches that she's talking about, like, isn't it just regular sandwiches with ham and mayo and that's it? Like a sandwich? Yeah, a sandwich. I'm assuming catering type with a little toothpick. Her little input. Oh, okay. Because I'm like, that's pretty simple. Like a little something. But the part of like, oh, can you send me the money for that is messed up. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's what she said. That's expensive. That's what I'm asking you for this. You know what I'm saying? It's like, so what? You have to cover like a hundred bucks maybe of sandwich stuff. I'm wondering what the mom's like financial situation is too. Because there's this book called Rich Dad Poor Dad and it's the difference in between having a wealthier parent and not one. Not so much. Yeah. And I'm thinking maybe because she sees the swag that how much they put in, it can cause her a little bit resentment towards what her family does. But also it could be there's a difference there. You know what I'm saying? Possibly, but there's still like an effort thing. Yeah. Like asking. Well, she said she was going to do it, but just pay for it. Because maybe I don't have the bread. Maybe I can give in an effort while he's you know, that's just that's what the only question I would ask like what would her financial situation be in this in this situation? Yeah. It's very easy to start comparing. We do it with our partners. We do it with our lives and we can easily do it with our parents. Yeah. And you know it's their first grandkids. So they're going to go band for band on the sweatgrass. Like yeah, they're going to go crazy. Yeah. We have the in-laws just giving money and getting out the way is like they're making things easier. And I guess what someone else would be like, yeah, they give me money, but they're not putting in. Yeah, they're not getting effort. They're not decorating. There's there's always going to be. But sometimes you can just throw money at things just to and it's like that. Well, it doesn't count to other people. Like you could just throw money, but like, are you there? Are you present? Are you doing this? So again, it's like that comparison factor. What's been this is love language. Yes, it might be. Love language. It might be don't make me do it all myself. Yeah. Let's talk to her. Oh yeah. She's charity. Help me clean up. Yeah. Melissa. Melissa. Melissa. Hello. Hi. It's Melissa. Just waking up. Good morning. Good morning, bro. It's good morning. She's pregnant. Melissa, talk to us. No way. I had an initial question. Can you tell us about your mom's financial situation? So my mom's a preschool teacher, so she lives. She's not rich. She's not like, you know, but she lives comfortably. Okay. She was going on trips, so it might be as she's fine. Oh, she's good. That changes everything. No, it doesn't. That's her. Es su gusto. No, but she doesn't have $100 for sandwiches. If she wants something, she gets it. Okay. Wow. All right. All right. So you feel very unshowered, is what you said. Pause. That people, not like that. She's freaking pregnant. Bro, baby shower full. So first off, my friends aren't really in a good place to be helping me a lot. One of them is a Boston. The other one, they're going through like a family emergency and the other one has a kid of her own. So they, they, they have their own things to worry about. So to put any pressure on them would be selfish of me. Now my mom, um, it's just the fact that she has so many opinions, so many, so many things to say yet. When I give her a task, she's like, I know, no kidding. Dilela, Julie. Dilela. Like someone, one of you or the couple. Like your inconvenience in her. Yeah. Like, I'm like, dang, like a salad or when I asked her, okay, well, would you, would you want to help me with, okay, the pose at las aguas? No, one hour and one salad. I was like, okay. I could make you a salad. A, the, a one drink. Yeah. It's one salad, one hour. And I was like, well, it's for like 60, 70 people. Like, can you make another one? I possess, okay, whatever. Like it was, she complains about doing it. Yeah, I get it. And then I'm, and I'm like, okay, I want to do the, and the sandwiches I want are like the croissant breads from Costco and I've done them before for my bridal shower. Okay. And my swag, that was the one who made them. So then that's why she was like, oh, no, I've heard of you. She did a good last time. It's just putting bread, cheese and turkey together. Like that's a lot. And then again, she only said that because I was like, well, if you do them, you can invite all your friends. And then she's like, oh, okay. Like what? Wow. Okay. So she wanted to invite her friends. So when we were making our guest list, when we totaled up everything without having extra mom's friends, we're like, okay, we're already kind of at math. You're in the thousands at that point. So, so I let my mom, I let my mom know and his mom know. And like, okay, you can, we're inviting this much. You right now, we don't really have room for extra people in the case that people are like, no, we can't make it or whatever. Then cool. But I gave her that, that I just, we decided on that. And she's like, oh, well, I have this person, this person. Okay. We'll pick one. We'll know I have four. We'll know where you can only have one. Okay. I mean, some baby shower. I mean, some baby showers are like that. Girls only. I like it, Colid. But it's, I like, yeah, it's men and we're doing men and women. But it's our decision. It's the fact that you're not respecting that. And it's not just me, it's my husband now too. Yeah. Melissa, is this the way your mom has always been? Or is she usually supportive and like helpful and throws you parties and all of that? Because I see on your page you recently got married, right? Yeah. So at the wedding, again, my son helped us financially a lot. Without my man's, my man's the type to not ask for anything. He likes to take care of us on his own. His mom literally had it thrown at us because like he just does not like to take anything. But they helped a lot. My mom offered like, okay, con que te puedo ayudar. I asked her, I'm like, do you want to help me with my dress? And she was like, ay no, tú, tú compras, like, oh my God. Like she asked me what I need help with. I give her what I need help with. And then she tells me no. I'm like, okay, you tell me what you could help with. And what does she help you with? And look at you. And so I don't even remember if she even helped you at all. She even helped with, yeah. So then she is like this. So this is how she lets her pattern. Let me tell you, and I love my mom. When it comes to my kiss, I love being extra. I love doing cute things for her. And I think that's why she's just got so comfortable with like asking me for like little and their little things. But yeah, like her nails and like these coffee. Yeah. So before I go into the program of school, I started like picking up on doing nails just for fun as a little side hustle. And so I do her nails all the time. When I was in school, it slowed down because I'm studying. I'm stressed. I can't do that. I was in there. I was doing them. And again, now I'm studying for my boards. And every day she's like, when do you know I'm stressed? You know what I'm going through. Like I'm a belly right now woman. So what's your question? Should she, should you uninvite her? So I thought of the idea of having like she can throw a separate one if she wants with just her friends. And it's not a lot of friends. And she can make one little agua and one little salad. Yes. But again, my mom's not the type to want a whole. So I'm like, if I tell her that she'll just get mad. You know, Melissa, from what I'm hearing, look, your mom is not the one that's going to help out and all that at all. So God wouldn't said, I'm going to send you a man and a mother-in-law that's going to take care of you. So count your blessings with that. She wants her mom to be part of it though. She wants to be part of it. But then you just have her show up. Her manera, in su manera. Which is stressing her out. All it is is doing the stressing her out. Yeah. I don't know how. Don't let it stress you out. Yeah. You're going to be stressed out anyway. And I love it. Like I don't love it for you, but welcome to motherhood. And this is every little thing that stresses us out the way our mothers are going to stress us out the way our swagger might be is going to stress us out. Like all of that is going to stress us out. And it's going to be like, why is nobody helping me? It's always going to be like a lonely battle. And on there and they're probably thinking they're helping you. Your mom probably thinks spending time with you while you do her nails is helping you true. Yeah. At the end of the day, I have my man whenever I have my own. And I need to tell them, I found this person can you tell them. I found this, I like this person can you. She does that. Money bags. Oh wow. All you're doing. Let me ask you this. Sometimes your mom does what her mom did for her. Maybe her mom wasn't there for her so she doesn't know how to express that. She doesn't know how to be there. I wasn't even invited to my mom's baby shower as a kid. Like. Where are you the baby? No, I'm with my two little brothers. Oh, okay. Okay. I'll invite you. One is 19, one is 21. Yeah. And you are? I'm 29. I'm gonna be 30 next. Who made that baby shower for her? Was it herself? I think it was one of my mother in there. Yeah, that's their bed. Melissa, maybe you're then follow us on. Maybe. No, she's not. Wait, no, wait, wait a minute. Let them talk. Let them talk. Maybe you're then follow us on. Why? What makes you say that? I don't know. Maybe she's. Are you grateful? No, I'm not saying I'm grateful. Maybe, maybe, maybe because you're pregnant you're extra needy. I don't know. I'm just saying. I don't ask nobody for nothing. I'm just my mom. My mom won't do nothing. Wait, wait, hold on. You did ask your mom for a couple things. I have so little feet. Wait, hold on. Hold on. It's the fact that. Is it weird to ask you what ethnicity your mom is? Mexican. She's Mexican. Oh, okay. Because I'm looking at this photo of you guys on your page. She reminds me. She reminds me so much of my mom and my mom's out there. But it's like, oh my, like she dressed you up when you were little. You guys took like glamour shots. No, it seems like it's very, I don't, I think the closest would probably be pageant mom of like a mom that likes to show out. That likes to like, oh, mire lo que tengo. I don't get tiene o no. Like look at what I have. Yeah, it's my turn for my picture. Yes. Yes. Yes. And I really like this post that you gave because you're so cute online for show. It doesn't seem like you have problems with your mom. She put. She probably doesn't. She said, I wouldn't be who I am without the love this lady gave. And still gives me every single day. My best friend, my biggest supporter. No, I love it. I love it. And then her bridal shower is like, thank you to my mom and my. What? Yes. Yes. Well, actually, of course. I'm not going to pay for any of it. But thank you for her for attending. No, I think it's just now. Like I don't know if now my mom is just so used to being like, it wasn't that way previously. Before it's like that now. And let me ask you this. What is your husband think of all this? He think what he doesn't think. So he doesn't. So he's more like, whatever we got it. Yeah. Yeah. You know, which is true, but. And your mom's probably like, whatever they got it. Does your husband make a lot of money? Um, he does well. Girl, my part looks at it like, oh, they got the money. Your mom might be. I know. Yeah. I get it. You're right. It should not be like that. It should not be like that. I'm your only daughter. Oh, I'm the only daughter. This is your first grandchild. Like even I'm not asking you to pay for things. I pay for the food. It's going to trip you out when your brother has a kid. Yeah. She's right. She's going to go out loud. Your mom might be a bomb or Alice. Let me tell you when my older brother, when my older brother got a scholarship to Northridge. We live in, we live in San Bernardino. She's on. She would cook. She would make these big old meals, fill up a yellow to make for make to make like two weeks worth of food. All for to send him because he didn't know how to drive and he didn't know how to cook. You're the middle child. I'm the second. Yeah. Yeah. All right. All this daughter. You're a fan for yourself. The only daughter. Only daughter. Yeah. And you nothing have, but you can see it. And it's not fair to you. It's totally not fair. Eat the puppy. So my, my stepdad who we passed away. Oh, sorry. My real dad, he's not really present in the picture much. Yeah. He's not real. Not real. He's not a real dad. Not a real dad. All right. Oh, my little sweetheart. No, she's going through. This is a big thing in her life right now because she's pregnant and she's literally plotting on, should I let this lady that gave birth to me even come? Here's my baby shower because she doesn't want to make no sound issues. Wait, mom's done. She already gave you a weight. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You must get it. But also you mentioned that she's the first one flexing everything. Does that really bother you? Mama need the life too. Yeah. She was like, well, it's not, it's not right that I don't invite everybody. I invited to the, to the shower from the wedding. I'm like, what do you mean? I'm not even inviting everybody from the wedding. Like she's like, why? She's like, yeah, I just, yeah, I just, I'm like, what? She loves that. You're her pride and joy. She's telling all her homegirls. Can we talk to her? Yeah. I would love to talk to her. She sounds fine. She's a woman. Pon carpa, porque vas a caliente. She sounds like a vibe. Can you help me put it? No, no. No. No, no. No, no. No, no. She's the one, the good person. She is. She is. In that same pose that put, she's everybody's best friend. Cause everybody loves her. She's cool. She's the like, the little party. She's the vibe. She's the vibe. She's the vibe. That's me, guys. She's the one who needs to prep. Who needs to do all of this? I'm just here for the vibe, guys. She likes to dance at parties all the time. The two steps. I don't know. She's, she's, yeah, she's fun, but she's just, I don't know. But you don't need that right now. You need to be taking care of, well, I have a question. What if this is all an elaborate hoax and they're throwing you a surprise baby shower? Respectfully, you should not be throwing out your own baby shower. True. What if your friend's coming from Boston? You don't even know. No, she's coming for sure. I know that. But what if it's like this weekend and you like, you're all stressed for nothing. I know you're going to call the radio station. Everybody. I hate my mom. I don't want her in my baby shower. Why she don't want me, man? Oh, let her. Stop it before we give her Braxton hits six, whatever. Braxton Hicks, yeah. Hickups for the baby. No, it's fake. It's false alarms. It's like false contractions. All of that. Okay. But you and your swaggerals and your man, you're good. They're kind of like, look, we'll take care of it, but you really, you're needing your mom at this point in time. And it's totally understandable. You're about to be a first time mom. You know, like this is all new territory. There's a lot of hormones. All of that. You're feelings are valid. Melissa needs help figuring out whether she should ban her mother from her baby shower or not. Her mom seems to be very hung up on making this, like a better term about herself. Talking about the baby, talking about the decorations or what she needs to have or how many friends she can invite. But the moment that Melissa's like, Hey, can you help me out with something? She gets like, I know. Why would I like? Yeah. You want, you want more than one? How am I got who needs more than one? I got there. That's so easy to make dog. Is it? Yes. Flowers. They make them prepackaged. You just add water. Literally, they just buy the jugs. It's so easy. Baby girl's love language is probably access service because you could buy it at Costco or a buy out. But it just means more of you make. She even said it. Mom, just make the sandwiches. I count. How nice is that? Yeah. Yeah. I think she did a really good vent session because the stuff she's posted is how her mom helped for the bridal shower and her and that would just happen. Like, Melissa, you just got married. No, like last year. In October, in October, like all of these things are very recent, right? You getting married, the bridal shower, all of that. And your mom was there. And she didn't pay for anything. No, she helped in her way. In a way. Yeah. Okay. In a way. She paid with blessings. I'm going to see you. Yeah. Did she give you away at your wedding? Her and my dad from Mexico, he had flew out and it was like his chance to like kind of make a relationship. And so I let him and he's already back in Mexico. But yeah, I let her. Incredible. So when she gave you to her man, it's a figurative like to your man, it's figurative to like your problem. Yes. Your problem. Now she's your problem. I'm just her homegirl. We just do our nails together. Yeah, but you're, it's frustrating for Melissa because Melissa is with child. She wants her mom. And she wants her mom. She wants her mom. What is it? I even texted her like a few days ago, like look mom, like, and because sometimes I, so I speak to her in English since I was little. I, it's just the way it always was. I speak during English, she, she talked to me in Spanish. So sometimes when I'm texting, I'm like, maybe it's getting lost in translation and it comes off as disrespectful. So I translated it in the nicest way without being mean or anything. Just basically, mom, I'm stressed. I need to worry about passing my test. It's a two-part test. So I passed the first one. Oh, you're doing the second one. You're going through a lot of life changes. Yeah. And so I was like, I'm stressed about that. I just need your help with the food. If you can't do that, that's fine. I'll figure it out another way. And then she called me and she's like, why are you talking to me like that? I don't like it when you tell me these things. Oh my God. Like, I'm like, whoa, all life, all life, why is it wrong? Like, I was just so shocked. I'm like, what did I say? Don't tell me that you love me. You love me. Talk to me like that. And this is going to be your new normal, baby girl. Do you want me to say it right? Right? Right? But hey, you need to give us her number. We need to talk to the lady. We'll pretend like, hey, we just want to know what you think of your daughter and then let her talk about how she loves you. And then you can cry. She's on, she's at work. She'll still answer. She'll still answer. She don't even worry. She literally has, like, she's a preschool teacher, so she can't leave. Oh yeah, she just won $10,000 from La Curaçao. Yeah. Well, call her during nap time. La Curaçao. Okay, let's go to the phone line. Should Melissa un-invite her mom for not being as supportive, not helping put in, it seems, and Melissa's really stressed. Life is really like, a lot of changes, a career change. She's now married, got married in October. Now she's having a baby shower. Okay. Let's go to Albert in Southgate. What's up Albert? Albert. Yeah, well, we have the wrong guy. Well, yes. Good morning, Albert. Albert, why do you sound familiar? I don't know, but I guess I have a familiar voice. Yeah. He heard you in his dreams. That's why. No. Okay. All right, Albert, what would you tell Melissa? I'm still currently going and I've been married for like nine years, bro, and I'm still going through the same situation Melissa's going. Right? And my parents have always been well off, financially, everything stable, everything. When I got married, my parents, they might have just had paid the wedding for me. Wow. Wow. So you're different then. Yes. Oh, you're talking your wife is like her. My, my wife has the identical situation. She always hits me with like, why didn't my mom supportive? Can you believe it? I'm like, look at the end of the day, that is your mom. I cannot give you my opinion directly because you'll feel some type of way. You gave me. Except I was like, if your mom, what do you mean if my mom? Don't give me that. Exactly. Exactly. You know, where my wife had our first son. The first thing where my son, I walked into the room was like, I, why don't you get ready, lady, put your makeup on? She told that to your wife after giving birth. Like literally 10 minutes after giving birth. I'm in the room. I'm in the room like, like looking at this lady. Like, do you know what your daughter just went through? She just got hit almost by a train and you're over here thinking of makeup. Yeah. For the picture. Let her look for you. Let her look for you. As she's going to go with another girl. No, no, no. I left that for the girls who aren't married. The ones that are still dating and stuff like that. You know, you're a mom. You're a mom. You gave me. So it's one of those things where, like she said that her, her man tells her she's got to suck it up and they got this. At the end of the day, I think that's the best situation. And if it's possible, just all right, let the friends and the mom come. Who cares, you know, you, you try because if you go into this with thinking, I'm not even right. My mom, I don't want her friends. I don't want her. It's just going to cause way more problems. I get it. It's her mom. She wants supportive. She wants to do this and she wants her mom to be next to her. But sometimes these seniors, they, they, I don't know. They influence too much by social media that they, they want to present everything. Oh, look, a flower. Let me take a picture. They all. I'm going to Disneyland with my straight out one time and I said, never again, because my kids were taking pictures and getting all right. I'm like, what? My kids didn't come here to take pictures. I'm like, oh, look, here's the memory. So what's wrong with that? I had a memory. Memory. The memories that they went to stand to take pictures, the memories that the little kids were all right. Yes. She's never, she was, she was the kid ones and she never got to see this and now her little babies, little babies are doing it. God forbid you mother. God forbid you mother. I want to picture it. Never again. Never again. Never again. Oh my God. You want to show her. No. You want to show her. No. You want more. We could have been on space mountain by now. We're here to get on rides business only. Exactly. You know that part with respectfully where we went last time, I'm like, look, I'm buying fast pass for everything and if who wants to come with me, they better get the fast pass, lightning pass, whatever it's called. And we're not taking pictures. We're getting on every ride. You stopped the all-in. You stopped the all-in. You stopped the all-in. Hey, hold on. Are you going for your kids or for you? Yeah. I'm going to go to the toilet with the four folks. The kids are two? I'm a little heavy-sake guy, bro. How do I look on the little, we need to pull ride, bro. Come on. I'm really fine. My kids, my kids come first and that's it. Now, as far as the Sregaraz and everything, she's got to understand she's married now. She can't look for acceptance in her Sregaraz and stuff like that and her mom, whatever. If they want to help, I get it. You know? Thank you. You appreciate it. You can't change an old soul. You can't. You can't anymore. Thank you, bro. Thank you, bro. I appreciate you coming, my friend. Make sure you take no pictures, all right? No pictures. Oh, my God. That's wild. And he was making a lot of nonsense, but that one was the one. That was the one. I'm sharing on top. You didn't believe she wanted to take pictures? Yeah, she wanted memories. Well, that probably irked him because he spent a lot of money and not to take pictures. He spent a lot of money to get on rides. You know? Make memories. Make memories. This is making me appreciate my mom more. If you're hungry, drink the water from Pirates of the Caribbean. We're here to get on all the rides today. We're going to bathe here too. We're going to get on the boat right now. Melissa wants to know if she should un-invite her mom to her own baby shower. She feels very unsupported by... And she's like, look, I can't hold it against my friends. Everybody's going through a life thing. And then my sweat rolls. They'll give us whatever we need. We just got to ask for money and they'll do it. where on my mom on the other hand, anything I ask her, it's like, oh, no, oh, why? Oh, but I don't know, which is a mom. Renegando. Yeah, but it's like, you do it, but like you're complaining why you do it, but look, you have just felt like, oh, that's just, that's just vibes, like that's just her personality, right? I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna complain about it, but it'll be done, right? And she's inviting all her homegirls, the mom is, she wants to make it look a certain way. However, according to Melissa, she feels like it's not the effort's not there. And she just wants that, especially as she is pregnant, she's dealing with her own stresses of passing a state board and she's trying to figure all of that out. So should she uninvite her mom? Let's go to Cam. Cam and Pasadena. Go with, go with Cam. Cam. Cam. Good morning Brownbeck. Good morning Cam. Cam, help out our girl Melissa, what should she do? Okay, so I, I'ma just put this out there, I'm black. We got two different types of families, cultures, those type of things. And you know, I feel like they both end up doing that. And maybe that's because they missed out to have a great opportunity when they were younger and they're putting that off on us. But like I stated, you know, I think it's best that if they're not putting any effort towards it, they don't have a say so. And if she wants to have a say so or something, maybe she needs to go have her own baby shower. Oh, baby shower. Yeah, you're right. You're like, who comes there? Why can't she tell her that? Right. You gotta stand up, you gotta stand on business. Yeah. You know when Kendrick said, tell my own granny off of shoes, see how I see a shoe. Yep. Oh, mama off. You gotta do what you gotta do. I like that. So yeah, if she's not putting in no money and helping you like you want her to then no friends. You tell us that if she doesn't do what you say then she's uninvited. And her friends. Cam, it seems like Melissa doesn't stand tentals down. It seems like, yeah, she really wants that. She really wants it. You know what I'm saying? Even the uninviting part, I'm like, are you really gonna invite her? You want her there. Nah, I don't uninvite her. That's messed up. Don't uninvite her and invite the friends. It's the friends. Yeah, it's the friends. Let her friends. But then who's gonna take all the centerpieces, Cam? Who's gonna take all the centerpieces at the end of the night? The friends, the aunties and the grandmas always want to do that. No, it's time for the aunties, the young aunties to do that. It's our time. It's our time to take the centerpieces. Not the, uh, exactly, exactly my point. So, you know, I think that once she starts standing on business with her mom, then she'll see some change. But until then she's just gonna keep running over you telling you what to do, telling you what she wants. Don't do her nails. Oh my gosh, Cam, that's so mean. I like Cam. I like Cam. Cam is firm. She's hard-core. Cam, a real one. Nah, this is serious. This is serious business. It's happened to you before? So, congrats to her. I think I know baby. Come on, Angie. Just one. Cam knows better. Wow, Angie, you're out. I'm waiting till I go to law school. So. Oh, no, Cam. So she'll say take away the girls' time from her then. No nails, no hanging out. Yeah, that's right. Exactly. Take all that away from her. She won't do it. She won't do it. She won't do it. For your action. You and she should get our brown bag, show me health signs, and save it for the person that actually will do what you guys suggest. Don't get on here, ask it for help, and not take it. Oh! Yeah! Cam is hard-core. Yeah. That's so cool. That is so serious. Cam, to her credit, sometimes we give BS advice. Like some 15-pound advice. No, your advice be good. I'm telling you, your advice be a-one. Cam, we already like you, Cam. We already like you, Cam. Even if you only. You need to call in more. Cam wants to give you some. You guys like me. Why didn't you pick my homey helpline? Oh! What is it? What is it? Hold on to the light. Tell Umberto. Tell Umberto. Wow. We're kidding. Damn, Cam. Better go screen that, Vic. Vic is the one in charge of getting us our homey helpline. No, literally. Go now. We'll hold it down, bro. We'll hold it down. All right. Melissa wants to know if she should invite or uninvite her mom to her own baby shower. I really do feel like this is a great setup for a surprise baby shower, Melissa. I feel like you are completely distracted. I feel like you are completely emotional that when you walk in, maybe your mom's house to tell her she's not invited, you're going to walk into a surprise of your own baby shower. And I want them to be playing your venting as you're walking in. They're playing the homey helpline as you're walking in. Nobody cares about me. Melissa, why did your swag make the baby shower? So when we were barely planning in and everything, she did tell my man, like, hey, I want to help, but I don't want to overstep. Maybe because she thought, okay, this is a baby. Maybe her mom does want to do it. So maybe she didn't fully commit because there was some thought of that my mom would step up, but that never happened. Have you ever thought maybe like your mom thinks like, oh, you know, she's super on, you know, her new family's financially available? She's going to get everything I could never give her. Yeah, like she's super on. No, I think if my mom wanted to help, she could. And financially, if she wanted to, she could not maybe not as much, but I don't know. But I also don't think it's right to put the, because at the end of the phone call when I told you that she called me saying, I put the message of the sea. She's like, no, you know, I use that. Come to my bed. I'm like, well, actually somebody's helping me more than you. Like, what do you mean? Like she said she has all these standards and like says that she's she holds herself on this pedestal, but she doesn't show it either. Like, how could you say, oh, you're the only one that's ever going to help me? You're the only one that's ever no one's ever going to love me like my mom. Oh, did she ever tell you? Did she ever tell you you'll know what I mean when you have kids? Oh, all the time. Yeah. And are you having a girl by any chance? Yes. Oh, I can't wait. The saga continues. I can't wait to your daughter just once freaking tamarindo at her party and you're like, I know. You're going to tell I have to figure it out. Your grandma didn't help me. Why are you asking me? My friends. Oh, don't you want your friends at her baby shower one day? I mean, she but. Melissa, what's your mom's name? My mom. Yeah. Mariana. OK, because I think she's on the line. Did someone tell her? I wish that was her. OK, go ahead. OK, all right. We have a senior on the line right now. Hello. Oh, my God. Mariana. It is the mom. Are you the mom of Melissa? She is a mother, but I don't know why I'm in school. Oh, my God. Oh, my gosh. To begin, no, you're daughter called this, because it's a good thing. No, that's the only one that's not coming. I get it. She said you're not helping her the way that she feels like you should be. She's a mother. She's not. I know. She's grateful. She's ungrateful. Does it know that she doesn't get it? She doesn't have money. A.I. said. Can you get the money? I'm not going to get it. Juan Gabriel. What? Is this? Who is this? This is not her mom. Mariana. Oh, OK. OK. Kelly, you're the seed. What would you want to tell Melissa? It's not. I'm not. She's listening. It's good. I'm not. I'm not. Because I'm not. Oh, my God. Ain't no. No. She wants to fight the mother-in-law. What? Oh, dude. I want to fight with a woman. What? Why? Why? Because I feel bad. So you don't like the mother-in-law? She wants to pay everything. She wants to pay everything. She wants to pay everything. The money is not everything. The money is not everything. That's right. Why don't you want sandwiches and water? Because I don't like the bowls and my daughter wants to cross. I love bowls. Because she says she doesn't like the type of sandwiches. Her daughter. Oh, maybe make a cake. OK, Mrs. Mariana. This we're talking to Melissa's mom right now. She's thinking about telling you not to go to the baby shower. How do you feel that she doesn't... She's thinking of uninviting you to the baby shower. So if she doesn't invite you, OK, you're never going to babysit the kids. Never. Not ever. When she's not hot and bothered, don't look at her. OK. But she just wants to spend time with you. Oh, you want to be with your friends? She doesn't want to do your nails. I also have a daddy's nail. I have more dreams than you. Daddy's nail? Oh my God. OK, what do you want to see? We're going to go to get her response. What would you like to tell your daughter? I love her a lot. I'm going to get her a baby shower. I'm going to get her a baby shower. Oh, nice. That's right. Yeah, that's good. That's good. And we love soup on the hot days. Hot days. Melissa, your mom sounds so sweet, Melissa. She does, Melissa. Oh, God. What? Let her be. The other is messy. What? Let her be a part of things. We're on her side now. Do you hear how sweet she sounds? That is not my mama. Yeah, it is. You can't tell because you're all caliente right now. My mama don't even like to cook. Oh, that's what gave me that. Why are you making her two sandwiches? Exactly cooking and making sandwiches. That's the same thing. Do you have her do the things she likes, Melissa? Like if she likes decorating, have her. She likes posting pictures so much, have her be the photographer. Like have her do things that she likes to do. Let her get in where she fits in. Yeah. No, I think just giving her like distancing either myself, letting her like really think about. No, no. Wait, wait, what does she think? If I express my feelings just like in that text message, if I express my feelings, that's me being gross. Yeah. What is the mama like? I don't know. I want to ask her. Señora Mariana, she doesn't want, now she wants no relationship with you. And maybe you'll learn. Distancia. Señora Mariana. Distance. I see. How come? Now you're talking to take care of the little girl. She's hot and cold. Oh my gosh. Is she hot? Yeah, yeah. She's talking about it. She's like, oh, all of a sudden she doesn't want a relationship with me. Crazy. Oh my God. Crazy. Wow. She's going to sound sad. She sounds sad? Mariana, are you sad? Yes, a lot of times my daughter doesn't love me. No, I'm sorry. Señora Lisa, look at this. She says you're not even her mom. Wait, you're not even her mom. Wait, you're not even her mom. Wait, you're not even her mom. Oh yeah, you're in daycare. We're in the kindergarten. Miguelita is there. Jaden, please, we're in the kindergarten. Oh my God. Melissa, Melissa, that's so messed up. She's calling during nap time, Melissa. Oh my God. Can you just forgive her already? She's crying. She's crying. Oh my God. Forgive her. Okay. Okay, yeah. Señora Mariana, ya tienes su hija. She said it's okay. She said you can go to the baby shower. No, no, no, no. Don't catch a case. Don't catch a case. What's up, this is BReal from Cypress Hill. Where are you from, Esse? Don't you know I'm local. This is actually crazy. You know how there's animal stories all over the world. You got punch over there in that one zoo. You got the dogs that weren't really, the dogs on the highway. And trying all of that. And us over here, we have some animals. and trying all of that and us over here we got the black bear that got euthanized unfortunately a couple weeks ago what yes it was in the area of is it alhambra area or akadia area it is arquadia yes manrovia all the all that little area something called the adias all the adias yes it was up over there and it had swiped at a woman walking her dog because that was a second time they reported that this bear had quote unquote attacked or seemed very violent towards a human they euthanized the bear against the wishes of the neighbors who grew up with that bear kind of in their pools and all of that and city officials right however that bear was a mama bear and it had two orphan cubs right the orphan cubs had since been moved to san diego humane societies remona wildlife center and there's a picture going viral because of the way that the the workers look handling the cubs the workers not dressed as a bear bear so oh my gosh brownback mornings one oh six on instagram ridiculous so you could see it yourself there's a so they removed the mama from this planet and then they dressed up as the mama for these cubs this is like the beginnings of a movie i'm not gonna lie and their plans is to release the cubs back in the same area that the mama was but it's like why if they already know y'all go probably get get a damnster something happened when they're older yeah this is almost the exact plot of the movie hoppers that just came out uh disney movie and how because they uh pretty much because it's humans that pose as animals okay but no mama was taken i saw hoppers great movie no not the mama but like just the the animals like humans posing as animals no it's like avatar it's a little like that too yeah it's like combo but like it's it's it's weird like it's like it's it's very i don't like it it's yeah of course the cubs are gonna stay in this rehab for several months okay they're gonna be taught survival behaviors kind of like their mama's trying to show them um and then they want to be released back to they want to release them back into the wild so that's so dumb so like you're the killers are raising the kids think about that oh my god think about that you're right no you're right yeah but they could have totally just gotten the mama bear and the little babies and then the same thing that they're doing and move them to the san diego wherever they're at it kept them there no i know but this is this is wrong it's wrong it's only level you have to go look at the photo brown bag morning's one of those things on instagram it's like a whole like a suit like it's a whole bear it's a bear face bear suit and you think the animals are gonna be like oh yeah hi mom mama of course no it's like you're a girl get out of here get your nails done i let my hair down and boo boo thinks i'm a mom what your kids think you're mom with your hair down no we're not gonna do that you can't replace someone's mom okay all right all right let's get into some shizma do it come here now what's going on cheese mation with angie okay you guys know that famous freaky video between kim kardashan and reijay right i've never seen it what are you talking about i never watched oh my god don't even don't even because no we're not like you actually sorry okay both said that they watched it so don't wow i've only been able to watch five minutes that's all they have available for free online so oh are that's all they took yeah to get you are you no no no it's just it's a clean five minutes trailer would have done it no never seen it actually but apparently they actually had a secret deal about it so allegedly there was a six million dollar settlement agreement around 2023 where both chris ummy uh kim kardashan and reijay both agreed to never talk publicly about the tape anymore and if they did then there would be like any financial penalties like a million dollar penalties anything like that right they paid him off no there was a settlement between the two they gave reijay six million dollars and in it and part of the settlement was you cannot talk badly about the other person like reijay can't talk issue about kim kim can't talk issue about reijay in that also that settlement and also said re you can't get mad at what hulu airs about said video yeah right so they already knew they were going to be talking about it yeah but according to reijay there's he's saying that you know what kim kardashan actually did break the agreement because she talked about it on the show yeah oh okay and he should have read the paperwork because that's what's happening they're in court right now over that you know reijay famously was like yeah they're getting a rekel case like the fbi is really bad like yeah so essentially talking smack about kim kim goes and sues him for the talking smack breaking that contract then he's like no you guys broke it you guys talked about it on hulu now they presented the paperwork and it looks like they already had that set in the paperwork yeah they can talk about it it was in the fine yeah but because he disparaged her he talked smack about her on that stream we all saw the stream yeah yeah yeah that now he broke the the the agreement yeah the contract it's up man you don't have to pay those six million dollars by again oh no he's gonna fake it that hurt him yeah hey actually jesus he's saying that he's sick i would for six million i'm gone baby i'm mackerelie yeah i mean mackerelie i'm dead six million i didn't say nothing it was ai you know it was an ai reijay that they had a whole like secret agreement and that was just three years ago and the tape were actually leaked what 2007 something like that right yeah around there so say what you want about la kim she's doing something really nice kim yeah kardin yeah you know how she's in the show kardin actually she's in the show all's fair you know the show where she's like a lawyer oh the one that everybody watches all the time the number one tv show can't keep my eyes off of i'm not saying that i see how mean you are i'm just saying the show that she's always plays a lawyer and she's right and taylor's in that yes and she's she's known for in the show for wearing some risqué lawyer outfits huh yeah yeah why is she doing this photo out we got to put it around anybody off with that so on instagram case one all right explain it guys explain the outfit well this this makes sense why i don't watch it because who wants to watch that kind of explain i want a lawyer that's gonna be dressed appropriately okay and not with a g string hanging out honestly that she can you explain this outfit for people that can't see it that lawyer's ass can you explain professional that outfit could get anybody off okay well kind of off explain the outfit describe okay so she's wearing what would be a pencil skirt uh and it's does not fit her behind her backside and so i would say the top layer of a g string is very visible yes okay she seems like she's in contempt of court yes okay well the i believe the whole gist of that show is it's different it's women that represent other women and a lot of it is going uh divorced uh okay settlement stuff i i mean i object here erect i object sorry she's like a hard-hitting uh lawyer all of that and she dresses up very provocatively right so now she's putting these outfits from this tv show up for auction and in real life she's gonna use all the funds from that to fund free legal services for women across los angeles oh that's nice see that's very nice so someone is going to get that skirt that you said that was on kim k his body that gave her a wedgie yeah so much i heard g strings popping out and it will fund a woman that may need it it's gonna it's gonna fall into the hands of a creep let's be honest it does don't know hey it's fresh it's on fix it it's fresh but don't let her sit down in one of these seats Vic will be the one to sniff it what what that's a different show that's a whole different show you've done that Vic will kill a baby seal for it because drank out of someone's water bottle i thought it was mine who who said someone water bottles did you drink it i thought i thought uh i thought sweeties was i thought it was my water bottle no it wasn't sweeties you got sweeties backwash an accident on accident how did it taste it was carties it was carty beans backwash and i think he did something with camila cabello i spiced that down and he was like oh this chair i wasn't even here for i spiced i know i know it wasn't but when you came back how are you gonna tell me for something i wasn't even here for call me roger rabbi so yes you're right it will lie in the hands of a creep i wouldn't do things like that i like that teo big you're that guy but it was ever wonder why you're paying so high to live in cali well it's because you're paying to stay alive right mona what winter is delirious for your heart then summer study finds guys cold temperatures are linked to an estimated 42 735 heart disease deaths per year in the us for 42 735 heart disease deaths per year in the us most cold related cardiac deaths are recorded as heart attacks or strokes with temperatures rarely noted as a contribution but damn it the cold is killing america and that's why here in the california southern california we live longer dog but our hospitals always cold for like diseases that's why i said it's a conspiracy see that they're killing us in the hospital's dog die at home the environment is really like it's really important in your mental health that's why even when it's the colder times of year anywhere like december age it's really tough for people that are suffering mental health crises and all of that because it could get really dark for them yes so like the weather has a lot to do with our emotions our feelings and all of that let me tell you when i was in greenland last week i was dying inside right minus 45 degrees let me tell you it was bad why i think i went after to make people laugh oh you need they needed it they needed it for sure and they didn't want you to leave after they didn't want me to leave but people die of heat stroke too and heat exhaustion so then we kind of have that part too people just die it is but i don't know if you know this this is part life it is but i rather i don't see that in my study all right you guys i just want to give a big congratulations to the dodgers for winning the world series championship for the third time in three years let's clap it up for them whoo three p is three p as it happens is the lakers yes and uh it also hasn't happened yeah it's gonna happen yeah it's gonna happen okay why can you just let us rejoice yeah this morning i love it but we'll go but it hasn't happened it pretty much it just jinks itself show hey just stamp the three p you used to do we're gonna broadcast live and you just jinxed it one thing that did happen one thing that did happen vik is that the san joker podger is lost the san joker the san jaco podger is gone is because when you talk you guys this is low no you mash up your words i do yeah you just have to make fun of my story in parliament on it's fun it's not a story yes i have a story problem that's not even i have a story problem okay i speak in dyslexic no you have a studying problem vika i thought we were on the same damn team we're on the dodgers that we just won a three p hurry up phone hurry up phone we gotta go okay show hey just stamped the three p with his generosity on the first game of the season yesterday um because when the dodgers players got in the clubhouse they all had a gift waiting for them a japanese seiko watch with a note that said let's three p all right and he likely chose the brand seiko because the word translate to success so he knows exactly what he's doing um and the watch was about four thousand dollars you know bought one for every single one of his teammates so that's 25 one for each player so that means he spent five percent of his salary on the first game of the season to his for his teammates let the we can i know five percent you're the show here of the show yeah you're the one that sits in the big big girl chair over there's a big girl chair she's not what i why'd you call it your big girl i didn't you're sitting in the queen's chair there oh queen b queen b for beluga way can you finish your story please we're giving you a speech for you so again uh the dodgers are gonna three p they just nailed it um pretty much uh also because they won the first game of the last two uh season oh my god this can you tell him to finish 2024 or 2025 they won they won the first game of the season yes we get it we get it and they won again last night so it's a three p on the way let's go dodgers three p yes and we're gonna broadcast live from the 2026 world series parade again you heard it here first all right are we getting i didn't call you fat you call me fat fine i had to be back i didn't call you i have a big back chair i think what you get dude was by our watch now yes you're the you're the trade we got and we're spent work on clartin paying you off so you are showing i'm deferred i'm deferred for 10 years yeah you are showing that's right what do you guys okay what do you guys want if if you get anything at you what would you want a house come on let me tell me you literally said anything i wanted no come on be serious be serious a car a car full be serious i know but like like realistically okay what's my budget yeah that's a good question let's just say under a thousand under oh what the oh i already got money what the wallets a purse a purse okay all right dick i like that chain man well this is not under a thousand yeah buddy it's under 20 turn 500 bucks a chain okay so jordan once i've always wanted them they're 500 so jordan one yeah 500 i've seen one for a bug 20 dog no like some actual like real ones not like the air jordan's you buy okay in order to get things you can't oh yeah that's me that's me that you freaking loser make make me a clown loser okay uh levy what would you like just your friendship bro it's priceless oh thank you thank you you win and your loyalty you're the only one that gets you that that gets surprised there we go there we were all friends already what okay we're splitting up the crew out there