No gloss, no filter, just stories, spoken without fear. A person who is not generous cannot be an artist. The world will be at peace only when it is ruled by poets and philosophers. Listen to my weekly podcast, the puja bhajjo on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. Come for the honesty, stay for the fire. This is the second date update, a mojo in the morning. Second date update, why are you not getting a call back after you went on a date? Mark has no idea why this would be. How did you guys meet, Mark? We met on Tinder. How many dates did you guys end up going on with each other? Uh, just maybe one or two. And then you guys have been talking for a little bit of time too, so you kind of built up to that? Yeah, I mean, you know, we would kind of get flirty over text and stuff like that. And you know, but then I don't know what happened afterwards. So the last date that you went on, did anything happen that was just weird or did you think that things went great? No, we just went for drinks. And after you guys got done, you guys kiss goodbye or what did you do? Yeah, we kissed goodbye. And you thought that you were going to get another date but have not heard from her. We're going to find out what's going on. Mark, say hello to Haley. Haley. Hi, Haley's ghosting us. Haley, are you there? Hello. Hi. Hi. Hi, Mark. Sorry, phone was on mute. No, no, that's okay. So you were listening to Mark here with the phone on mute and you heard him talk about your last date and everything going good. Are you happy with Mark? Like, did you enjoy Mark's company? I have been enjoying his company for a while, although this last date was a little weird. What was so weird about it? I just felt out of place. I felt like, you know, I, this is becoming too serious, too fast. Like he was just too much? Sure. Yeah, you know, I don't know why he cares so much. He's talking to a lot of other girls. So I feel like he's in the school. Yeah, he needs to go figure it out with them before I can give myself some body. How do you know he's talking to a lot of girls? Well, he mentioned it at dinner and I was kind of, I thought he was joking. And when he mentioned it again, again, I thought it was a joke and then he mentioned it a third time. You know, they say third time's a charm. I said, okay, yes, this is too much. And I think he's being honest there. So I just decided this is too much for me. So Mark, are you, are you just on Tinder dating a bunch of girls or what do you, what does she mean by you're talking to a lot of girls? Well, no, I'm polyamorous. And so I'm in relationships with other people and everybody knows about each other. And everybody's happy with it. And, you know, I like Haley and I want to bring her into it. Hold on a second. I'm looking up. He was that he wanted me to go back to his place and meet his girlfriend that was living there. Okay. Okay, wait a minute. I just asked. That does not come up exactly. That's a pretty big thing. Can I real quick, before you talk more, I just asked a chatgy PT what polyamorous is. The practice of having or desiring multiple consensual romantic relationships, stimulus or simultaneously emphasizing honest communication and ethical non monogamy. So there you go. What a definition. So Mark, that's just a lifestyle that you live. Keyword consensual and ethical. For sure. For absolutely. But you, you got, you got to let people know that that's your thing that they would be a part of. It's all like he did. But I feel like after the after two days. Yeah, before that. Even when you're on like Tinder, it's you can put that on your profile. Yeah, but I wanted to get her to get to know me first. But that's, that's a big piece of you. Can I ask a quick question about the whole lifestyle of being polyamorous? I mean, everybody like would go over to your place, like you're going to bring Haley in there. Do they like become closer together or do you guys like, like, are you the person that is the person bringing them into it? Like what happens if Haley goes over and meets the other, you know, you know, Shannon and Anna's that are sitting there and not that you guys are in a polyamorous relationship. But what if they do that and they find that they like the women that you're in the relationship with better than you? I'm one where I feel like my competition level would come into play. See, that's why I don't believe in being competitive. You know, if I was into Haley and something made Haley happy, that I would want to encourage an extra relationship that would make her happy. I would not want to try to challenge it. You know what I mean? And you don't think she's doing that for you? Well, I mean, again, that's where a conversation would come into play. But like, I get that's what the like, consensual and ethical part of it are. How where good? How many girlfriends do you currently have? Two. Gotcha. And do you like is three to cap or like, how far are you trying to take this? I mean, I'm not trying to like build a small empire here. Just, you know, I like Haley. Okay. Yeah, that's stuff. And that needs to be disclosed. Agreed. I was just right off the bat. I was just reminded that we had Neo on our show. Yeah. And he talked about this before. Yes. 844-MOJO-LIVE 844-665-6548-TACS-95500. Is there anybody that could be in a relationship with somebody like Mark who has two other girlfriends? So you want three girlfriends or do you stop at three or do you keep going? Like, what's what's your ultimate goal, Mark? I have no intention to keep going. I just really like Haley. So you like if you put that on your Tinder profile from the get go, I wouldn't be and you change this. I would have just kept going. I just I'm not judging you. I hope you don't take it that way. But it's just not for me. Do you like Haley enough to give up the other two that you're with right now? Yeah. No. Why not? I don't know. Exactly. Well, okay. Because give up is like, you know, I don't I don't like that term. Clearly, that's why you have two of them. Well, I mean, my relationship with each one of them is very, very different. And so like, if I had a relationship with Haley, like it would. I think you would be the other relation. Yeah, you're at it. Does that make sense? Each relationship is completely different. So Haley would add something that you did. I understand, but she would still have to coexist with two other relationships, two other women. I just think based on text exchanges between the two of us from before, I feel like it would just be purely that. And again, I'm not. I'm not counting that. Hey, hold on one second. Hold on. Erica, let me ask you a question. Erica, would you be in a relationship with a guy that had two no, one other girlfriends that he was with? No. What if he said you're the newest and best of the people sister wives? You're the Robin. I forgot about that show. Absolutely not. I K. Why? What's up, jelly? What's up, K. Why? Or oh, hi. Oh, that's. Oh my God. But that's not how you would spell. Hi. Is it? He does. K. A. I. How do you spell your name? K. A. I. K. A. I. It's just as K. Why? His name is K. Why? People. Wait, K. A. Y. Is Kai. I thought that's K. A. I K. I Shannon. Nobody's name is K. Y. Nobody's K. Y. But we got T. J. We got M. J. We got B. J. I'm just saying. What about K. Y. All right. Hi, Kai. What's going on? K. Y. You call us immediately. What's going on? Nothing. I was just saying that I'm also polyamorous, but that is something that you have to disclose like right away when you start talking to somebody. You do not wait a couple of days or dates. That's just that's not ethical at all. Mark, you hear that? I hear it. So, so Mark, here's the problem. The problem is you're getting the pool of non interested in polyamorous relationships that are like, wait a second. This is crazy. This unusual. If you put it out there, you got Kai here who might say, all right, I'm kind of cool with this. I'd like to meet the other two. I could be better off that is castle and fall. Kai is still there. How many how many people are in your relationship? I only have two partners right now. I have kids and it's like, I can't handle more than two. I'm poly saturated. How did yours start? Did you do the fishing or did you get hooked? Did I what I'm sorry? Like, did you are either where the relationship starts and then you reached out to the other parties or were you brought into an existing relationship? Actually, my husband and I, we opened up a few years ago and then I am. I actually met someone at a like a local meetup and that's kind of just how we met. And the other person has no relationship with your husband? No, we're there's different type. Holly, like kitchen table and stuff like that, that where people will meet other partners, but my two partners, they don't, they don't meet. Gotcha. And your husband is okay with that. You just going out and meeting some other dude. Yeah, I'm actually bi so he, I date both men and women. Oh, so it's a woman. Two current partners are both male. Oh, okay. All right. Interesting. Wow. That's kind of wild. Thanks for sharing. Quick question for you. Who gets the better Christmas gift? I don't know. That's a good question. I don't know. Are your children know about, about, like the other guy, they do. Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, they're, they're young. You know what this is? You know what this is? This is how my mom and dad were like friends with other people, but I used to call them all uncle and aunt. But they really weren't my uncle and aunt. They were all in a polyamorous relationship. You're a polysaccharite. You can imagine. I love this. You can imagine. You can imagine. Back then, if that was the case. Wow. And they have meetups. And they have the meetups at the kitchen table. What's going on? Voice of Skies, initial B. What's up, B? Hello. First time in a long time. Hey, B on the phone. What's happening? I was talking about the polyamorous relationship. I have been in one actually since 2018. And I am part of a house with three other members. Wow. So I was trying to listen to your guys' topic. Someone not disclosing that information before the date. I think that's really important information to... Yeah. Disclose before bringing in other people. Yeah. Can I ask a quick question, B? Yeah. I feel like people in polyamorous relationships live in the country. Do you guys live in the country or do you live in the city? We live in the city. Oh, wow. Okay. I thought for some reason they lived in like farmhouses. You know what I mean? You're thinking, uh-huh. Utah. No, that's what I thought. I thought they were... Sister-wide. Yeah, or something. They live in a big land. Lots of land. They got land. So you guys are in the city. All right. Okay. Yeah. All right. Well, thank you for the call and everybody that's in a poly relationship. Now, texting is saying the same thing. You have to identify. And actually, somebody said that you can get kicked off for Tinder for not identifying, too. So that's interesting. All right. Mojo in the morning. You're home aboard the roses. The five lives to tell your mom phone scams. And Shannon's dirty on the 30. This is Mojo in the morning. No gloss, no filter, just stories, spoken without fear. A person who is not generous cannot be an artist. The world will be at peace only when it is ruled by poets and philosophers. Listen to my weekly podcast, the Pooja Bhachio on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Come for the honesty. Stay for the fire.
