Up and Vanished

25 | Final Boarding Call

55 min
Jan 16, 20263 months ago
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Summary

Episode 25 of Up and Vanished investigates the 2016 disappearance of Joseph Balderas in Nome, Alaska, focusing on inconsistencies in witness timelines, a missing handgun, and suspicious behavior from the Piscoya family. The episode presents evidence suggesting potential foul play and reveals a recorded phone conversation between Kirk and Bonnie discussing the podcast investigation.

Insights
  • Timeline manipulation is a key investigative indicator—witnesses shifting Joseph's last sighting from Saturday to Sunday suggests coordinated narrative control rather than genuine memory confusion
  • The missing handgun and its case represent critical physical evidence that law enforcement failed to properly document or investigate, indicating potential investigative negligence or deliberate oversight
  • Family dynamics and social hierarchy within tight-knit communities can create conditions where loyalty supersedes accountability, potentially enabling cover-ups of serious crimes
  • Behavioral inconsistencies—lying about alibis, phone restoration, refusal to listen to podcast evidence—often indicate consciousness of guilt more reliably than direct confessions
  • In missing persons cases, absence of evidence (no body, no belongings found) does not prove innocence; it may indicate deliberate concealment or disposal of remains
Trends
Investigative podcasts as alternative accountability mechanisms when traditional law enforcement investigations stall or appear compromisedDigital forensics and phone data as critical investigative tools, with deliberate data destruction raising immediate suspicionCommunity-based tip lines and crowdsourced investigation models enabling witnesses to come forward outside official channelsPsychological profiling of suspects based on family background, upbringing, and behavioral patterns in missing persons casesExamination of small-town power dynamics and family networks as factors in case resolution and witness cooperation
Topics
Missing Persons InvestigationTimeline Reconstruction and InconsistenciesWitness Credibility AssessmentPhysical Evidence DocumentationAlibi Construction and CoordinationDigital Data DestructionFamily Dynamics and LoyaltyLaw Enforcement Investigative GapsBehavioral Analysis and Deception DetectionRemote Community Investigation ChallengesFirearm Ownership and TrackingTip Line ManagementCircumstantial Evidence EvaluationRecorded Conversations as EvidencePodcast as Investigative Tool
Companies
Tenderfoot TV
Production company that produces Up and Vanished and High Strange podcasts distributed across multiple platforms
iHeartRadio
Podcast distribution platform where High Strange and Up and Vanished are available for free listening
Apple Podcasts
Podcast platform offering free and subscription access to Tenderfoot TV shows including Up and Vanished
Odyssey
Production partner in association with Tenderfoot TV for Up and Vanished in the Midnight Sun
Alaska Airlines
Employer of Kirk Reynolds; mentioned as source of his professional identity and validation-seeking behavior
Bering Air
Alaska-based airline where Kirk Reynolds worked as a pilot before joining Alaska Airlines
People
Joseph Balderas
Missing person at center of investigation; 36-year-old temporary worker in Nome engaged to Megan Ryder
Payne Lindsey
Host and lead investigator of Up and Vanished podcast conducting investigation into Joseph's disappearance
Megan Ryder
Joseph's fiancée in Juneau; received suspicious text messages from Joseph's phone morning of his disappearance
Christine Piscoya
Last known person with Joseph before disappearance; claims beach plans Saturday; restored phone deleting evidence
Jake Piscoya
Joseph's roommate and Christine's cousin; lied about Saturday alibi and recruited friends to create false story
Kevin Piscoya
Christine's uncle; appears at multiple pressure points in case; allegedly involved in moving Joseph's truck
Kirk Reynolds
Jake's stepfather; Alaska Airlines pilot; claims to have seen Joseph's truck Sunday; recorded discussing podcast
Bonnie Piscoya
Jake's mother; claims Joseph at beach Sunday; family matriarch figure; recorded discussing podcast investigation
Carol Piscoya
Family matriarch and clear authority figure within Piscoya family; prioritizes family reputation and control
Harvey Miller Jr.
Anonymous caller to Finding Joseph tip line; witnessed Joseph's blue truck being backed into driveway by Kevin
Andy Klamzer
Private investigator who identified missing handgun as significant evidence early in investigation
Selena Balderas
Joseph's sister; established Finding Joseph tip line; actively investigating brother's disappearance
Quotes
"That's not confusion. That's not reconstruction. That's just what it is."
Payne LindseyMid-episode analysis of timeline manipulation
"If nothing happened on Saturday night, then there's no reason to lie about Saturday night."
Payne LindseyAnalysis of Jake's false alibi
"I think Joseph was killed that night. And there's one more thing I need to tell you."
Harvey Miller Jr.Tip line caller describing witnessed events
"He doesn't know anything. This guy doesn't even know anything. He's just making all this stuff up."
Kirk ReynoldsRecorded phone conversation dismissing podcast investigation
"If you never find that person at all, how do you know someone is unarmed? Easy answer. You don't."
Payne LindseyAnalysis of missing handgun significance
Full Transcript
You're listening to a Tenderfoot TV podcast. Is the government hiding proof of intelligent life beyond our planet? A new season of High Strange is here. The explanation keeps changing, but the stories don't go away. Videos appearing to show UFOs flying through the air are real. My name is Payne Lindsey, and my new season of High Strange goes deeper into real encounters, first-hand accounts, and the explanations that never seem to stick. Images of that rotating thing captured by U.S. Navy aircraft. I talked to scientists, military witnesses, pilots, and people who saw something they can't unsee. There is no other explanation for what we saw that day. I remembered those faces and they weren't human. High Strange is available now. Listen for free on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. To binge the entire season of High Strange now, ad-free, subscribe to Tenderfoot Plus at tenderfootplus.com. Up and Vanished in the Midnight Sun is released every Thursday and brought to you absolutely free. But for ad-free listening and exclusive bonuses, subscribe to Tenderfoot Plus at tenderfootplus.com or on Apple Podcasts. TV, or Odyssey. Thank you so much for listening. When Joseph Balderas disappeared in Nome, Alaska, it didn't feel like a mystery. It felt like a shock. Welcome to Alaska. This is it. This is my little piece of home here. That's open ocean out there. You can certainly feel the magnitude of the ocean when you're on this. You don't really want to fuck around out there. Gives me the heebie-jeebies just being there here. Joseph was 36. He had a career. A fiancé. He had plans. Real plans. A future already moving forward. Gnome wasn't a place Joseph came to disappear. It was temporary. Just a job. A chapter. Not an ending. Let's get one thing straight. Joseph Poldaris wasn't reckless. He wasn't spiraling. He wasn't running from his life. Everybody was pretty consistent about what they said about Joseph. Charismatic, smart guy who loved Alaska and had a lot of plans for the future. Met this woman in Juneau, Megan Ryder. They were planning to get married. There was nothing negative that I found in researching Joseph, nothing that raised red flags for me. And he and Megan were going to get married. He was very in love with her. He would text her right away. She sent us all the messages. If she messaged him, he messaged her right back. There is no wait time. Good morning, Meg. I hope you have a good Friday in fact I know you will I'm sure Cafe Internationale is going to be hopping today and I'm sure you're going to have a good lunch and I'm sure you're going to have good walks and a good hike but I just wanted to say also that I love you and have a great day babe, bye that's who he was punctual, real vulnerable, no bullshit in the days before he vanished Joseph was doing what people do in small towns, meeting people, being social. And in Nome, that matters. You don't just hang out. You eat dinner together, sitting at the same table. You all become familiar. And before Joseph went missing, he was spending a lot of his time with the Piscoya family. Weekly dinners, camp talk, local life. And that Friday night in June, Joseph was out. He was seen. He was alive. This part is solid. But then Saturday came. And from that moment on, the story stopped acting like the truth. It became a very big deal in Nome quickly. They had done a lot in terms of searching. Helicopters and airplanes. I think they had the Coast Guard helping. the state's conclusion, he had been attacked by a bear or had some kind of accident, and they just didn't find the body. The last person was going to be seen within about a mile or half a mile of his truck. And we covered all that area, big time. Not only was his gun missing, this new handgun that he had purchased, but the case for the handgun was missing. I think that's a very significant fact. Before we pull everything apart, we need this timeline to be straight. Because once the days blur, nothing makes sense. In June of 2016, Joseph Balderas is in Nome, Alaska for work. Temporarily, not permanent. Back in Juneau is his fiancée, Megan Ryder. A wedding planned and a life waiting. Joseph is not the person to disappear quietly. He doesn't ghost the person he's about to marry. Friday, June 24, 2016, is the last time Joseph is reliably seen. No one disputes this. That Friday night is the anchor. Christine Pescoia is someone who Joseph had been spending time with, talking as friends, making plans. And according to Christine, plans were made with Joseph for that Friday night and for Saturday. Friday night, they were at the bars and no. This is a known fact. We actually have pictures of them together. But Christina said they also had plans for Saturday. Plans to go to the beach. Okay, let's pause here. So far, everything tracks, right? Friday night, he's alive. He's seen. Pictures. There's proof. There's Saturday plans, but then silence. The Saturday morning of June 25, 2016 is when this whole story turns. Joseph stops responding. Calls go unanswered. Messages go unread, then eventually undelivered. This is the exact point in time his fiancée Megan Ryder starts to become concerned. There actually were text messages from Joseph that morning sent to his fiancée. Well, at least from his phone. But according to her, they didn't sound like him. I mean, when you know someone really well, you kind of know how they talk. You know what feels normal. And his fiancée, Megan, has a bad feeling about it. Nothing concrete or that she could prove physically, but just a feeling. An instinct. And as someone's partner in life, to me that holds some weight. Christine's phone matters a lot here. It held all the last messages, dozens of texts, to Joseph. but after Joseph vanished so did Christine's phone not physically but all the information on it according to her she locked herself out of her iPhone and completely restored it I mean I don't care who you are you'd be losing a lot of stuff photos videos I don't know everything but just like that poof it was gone a digital footprint that's gone forever the last clean record of Joseph being alive was erased. I thought about that they were like boyfriend-girlfriend. So you guys were never boyfriend-girlfriend then? No, we were just friends. We were good friends. My family adopted him. We took him right in. He fit right in. My family thought we should date, but him and I, just friends. Better off friends. Christine talks about the beach a lot. So you hung out at each beach for approximately how long? Probably about until 2.30, quarter to three, just about two hours. But no one sees Joseph there. There are no witnesses, no photos, no confirmation. Just Christine's story. Their rendezvous at the beach that Saturday exists in the story, but not in reality. Moving on. Was he upset about anything? Not that I know of, because he was excited that he had mentioned to me before, not the same weekend, but had mentioned to me before that him and Megan were going to get married. I said, okay, well, I started asking questions. I said, how long have you been dating? How did you meet her? What do you guys plan to do? Because he was moving to Juneau, because his term was done here in August. And he seemed excited about it, and I said, okay, well, you guys have, let's see, you've been single for six years, right? He's like, yeah. And now you've been dating for what, six months-ish? Yeah. You know, it was five months, six months. And I was like, and you're going to get married? I was like, don't you think that's a little dumb, Joseph? Do you still have the texts that you can refer to? No, because my phone got, I had to restore my phone because the passcode got disabled. I was not very happy. My brother disabled my phone. He messed with my PIN, you know. That night? No, that day. Sunday? Sunday. Oh, no. And so I was so mad because, I mean, everything I had was, you know, the text messages, the call logs, they were still there. And so he disabled it, so every pin code I thought it would be, I used, and it wasn't, so it ended up disabling it. Nobody really thought that was a possibility, but I, but if, you know, if you, did you see any depression issues or sadness or anything leading up to his disappearance? No. Jake, that's Joseph's roommate. Also, Christine's cousin. Jake is right in the middle of all of this. I understand from friends that there had been a little bit of tension between the two. The roommate was younger and there was some partying. Joseph wasn't comfortable with that. I have not been able to interview Jake. i set up two interviews he's never showed up to either one saturday passes and joseph never reappears and when the police start asking jake about saturday night jake says he was at home with friends this was a lie he lied about this we have video proof that jake was actually at a bonfire party with his summer girlfriend he wasn't home she's talked to us verified it i've the videos of him with time stamps. Jake also asks his friends to lie about this. They literally create an alibi. It's just really important for us to get this timeline figured out. I mean, we don't think that anybody did anything wrong, but what really important to us Jake is getting these timelines figured out because if we leave a gap in any of this time sequence that happened people are going to fill it with whatever they want No one saw him after you did Let's call that last known alive type thing. He didn't really talk to anybody after that. There was no communications. There was no contact with anybody on his cell phone or anything after Saturday. I guarantee the family is going to be asking questions. Everything doesn't add up. All the inconsistencies. He saw him mourning with the backpack whenever somebody else witnessed the truck already planted out there on mile 44. But all the other sightings from different people who aren't related, they don't connect. They're all different timings. This is not confusion. This is coordination. And when it finally stops making sense, Jake admits he lied. They realized that he was texting friends, trying to get friends to create an alibi for him for Saturday night. Jake, originally you told me that you went out for a drive and then I talked to your buddies and they said that didn't happen. They told me that you specifically went for a drive that way and then they told me that they weren't with you or that didn't happen. But again, my issue is when confronted with, hey, what did you do last weekend, I wouldn't say I went for a drive someplace I wasn't. To me, it seems like either you're lying now because you're covering it, covering up for something that you don't want to tell us that for, or you were lying then. He says he was nervous. He didn't know what to say. Okay, but here's the problem. If nothing happened on Saturday night, then there's no reason to lie about Saturday night. And then we get to Sunday. Suddenly, Joseph isn't last seen on Saturday. Now he's alive and well on Sunday. Jake himself repeatedly, to the cops, private investigators, you name it, swears up and down that he saw Joseph alive on Sunday morning. And again, Sunday afternoon. Let's pause here. If this is true, if Joseph was alive on Sunday morning, that would mean he ghosted his fiancée for over 24 hours. No call, no text, nothing. That's not Joseph. And here's the most important piece. Sunday doesn't exist because it explains anything. Sunday exists because it pushes the timeline. Later, farther, safer. Now let's add in Kevin. Kevin Piscoya. I stayed an extra day there to try to interview Kevin Piscoya. ran over the trail. I just know that something's not adding up right with that. This is Christine's uncle, Jake's uncle. Kevin's odd behavior during the search efforts clearly stand out. And all this is coming from more than one person. The name Kevin Pascoya keeps reappearing at pressure points. That's not my opinion. That's what everyone in the town of Nome besides a Pascoya actually thinks. Now watch the pattern. Joseph disappears Saturday. Then Sunday. Then later Sunday. Then farther away Sunday. The timeline doesn't just wander. It moves. A little later, a little farther, just a little bit safer. So I want you to ask yourself, if Joseph Balderas was really alive on Sunday, then why did Jake lie about Saturday night? Why recruit his friends in on it? Why build an alibi? An alibi for what? Well, that's because Saturday is the only day that actually matters. That's not confusion. That's not reconstruction. That's just what it is. There's already way too many names here. And honestly, I don't expect anyone to remember all of them. But there's one thing I hope you pick up on. Have you noticed their last name? Have you noticed how often it keeps coming up? And in all the messiness, if that's what you want to call it, of the timeline the weekend Joseph went missing, we have two other names. Bonnie Pascoya and Kirk Reynolds. Bonnie is Jake Pascoya's mother. Kirk is Jake's stepfather. and together they're all part of the same family, the family Joseph Balduris was spending time around right up until he went missing. For most of this season, the names Bonnie and Kirk have largely stayed in the background. They haven't really been too loud, but as the timeline gets tighter and the contradictions start stacking up, Bonnie and Kirk don't drift away from the story. They move closer to the dead center. The sightings of Bonnie and Kirk start to matter more. Their explanations start carrying more weight. And slowly, almost without anyone noticing, two people who once felt peripheral begin showing up at nearly every pressure point in this entire case. Not as answers, but as something that now needs to be understood. Here's Bonnie. Sunday, we were at camp. I'd seen his vehicle drive by. We were outside working on the addition at camp, and I remember saying, how do you mean he didn't stop? Bonnie stated very adamant that he was with Christine 1.30 to 3 on the beach Sunday. Sunday or Saturday? I asked her point blank, was it Sunday? She says yes. So we're getting conflicting information right from the get-go. And here's Kirk. Do you recall seeing Joseph at any point during the weekend that he disappeared? That'd be the 25th, June 25th. We were, last time I saw him was when he drove by camp on Sunday. I'm not sure what the date of that would have been. that weekend. We were working on the new addition there at camp, which is at mile 26 on the council road. And we were, my wife and I were working on the deck and we saw his pickup go just flying by and she mentioned something like, oh, there goes Joseph. And I looked up at the last second to see the blue truck go by and I didn't really realize he had a blue truck, I guess. I didn't really He'd pay attention to what he drove. So I just didn't think anything of the truck. But we thought, I wonder why he didn't stop. It was about time to eat, and normally he probably would have stopped in to say hi, but he didn't, and so we didn't really think anything of it. Like, well, maybe he'll stop back on the way by it. I'm assuming that was him in the truck. I couldn't get a super good look at his face because he went by pretty fast. How sure are you that it was Joss' truck? I'm probably 100% sure because that's the truck that was parked down there where he was going hiking. There's another blue one in town, but I'm pretty sure it's an extended cab, not a single cab like his was. So it had the little extra window in the back, and his didn't have that. And it was the same one that was parked down there. Yeah, yeah. So I want you to use a 1 to 10 scale with 10 being absolutely positive, like you're looking out at something, and 1 being not at all sure. How sure are you using that scale that it was Joseph's truck that went by? Not the driver, just the truck. A 10. Because I looked at the vehicles that went by and I didn't know at that time that was Joseph's truck until later when Bonnie said that he was driving that truck and then it was down there at the road. Because I didn't even know he had a vehicle until then. But same one that was parked on there. Yep, same exact one. Because we were talking about the difference in those two trucks later and I said, well The one that passed us was a single cab, and I know that other one at home is an extended cab, so I could tell the difference when I'm buying. Okay, let's explore some new information. And by new, I only mean just now coming to light. Joseph's sister, Selena, who has worked her ass off with the rest of her family to find Joseph, opened up a tip line. This was nearly 10 years ago now. It was the Finding Joseph hotline, a number that routed straight to her cell phone, and she literally answered every call. Late one night, back in 2017, someone called the tip line. If you didn't do anything, but you knew something, why wouldn't you come forward? At what point does silence become complicity? What if you saw something that you couldn't unsee? Something that scared the hell out of you? A piece of information you think might be directly related to a missing person. Finding Joseph. Hello? Hi. Hi. Want some information? I'm listening. Harvey Miller Jr. Sorry, what was that? Harvey Miller Jr. Do you have information, you said? Yeah. Kevin. Kevin Piscoya. Kevin Piscoya. Parts of his call were difficult to play on the podcast, so he reconstructed it verbatim. It was late. I was going to my Aunt Carol's house Carol Piscoia As I was walking down the street I walked past my dad's house I ran into my dad It was about to be his birthday So everyone was up late and drinking My dad told me he wanted to talk to me about something It sounded serious He said, we're going to drive around together, and we're going to drink. But then, he walked away into the other room. He was gone for a while. I peeked in, and I could tell that he was on the phone with someone. And then I heard my dad say, you got a guy right here? Like he was asking the other person on the phone if someone was available for something. What it was, I don't know. Out of nowhere Kevin Piscoya came around the corner He just stopped and stared at me in the eyes He said, do you know who I am? Kevin was angry, and he was saying all kinds of weird stuff. He demanded that I go upstairs. Then Kevin reached out and demanded that I give him my cell phone. So I did. Then my dad came rushing out of the other room and yelled at me to go upstairs too. So I did. Can I repeat the story to make sure I understand correctly, Harvey? Kevin Piscoria showed up and said to go inside and you went upstairs and they took your phone. Yeah. when I got upstairs and went into our laundry room. Very quietly, I looked out the laundry room window. Down below, in the driveway, I saw that old blue pickup truck. You know the one? The blue truck. The one that belonged to Joseph. All I could see is my dad and Kevin Piscoya backing that blue truck into the driveway. Then I heard my mom scream my name. she told me to stop looking. A few days later, someone called my dad on his cell phone. It was hard to hear, but the person on the other line said something like, Joseph wants his truck. My dad paused for a minute. Then my dad told the person on the phone that Joseph went on vacation. That didn't make any sense to me. This was right around the time that people in town started saying Joseph was missing. The next day I asked my dad about it. And again, he gave me the same answer. My dad told me that Joseph was gone on vacation. I didn't believe him. I know what I saw that night. I think Joseph was killed that night. And there's one more thing I need to tell you. It's been really bothering me. In our backyard, there's like a big hole in the ground. Sinkhole in our backyard. For several months, my dad kept complaining about it, saying that he wanted to fill it. But he never did, because he didn't have enough money to pay for it. But then, out of nowhere, just days after that night, that sinkhole in the backyard was filled in. Like it just happened overnight. The timing was so strange. I don't know. I feel like something might be in there. I feel like there's something buried under there. I heard Kevin and my dad talking about money. Kevin said something about someone disappearing. It was scary. And I didn't like how he said it. And I think I heard them say that Bonnie knows something too. If I was a family member and I knew about that, somebody's been digging that shit up. You'd be digging that shit up. I'm going to go over there and dig that shit up myself. and it really bothers me. I was told that there's a truck now that's kind of parked, so you can't get in there. Be honest. Be honest. Yeah, you might get charged with something, but be honest. If you weren't the person that did it, be honest. There's one single detail in this case that should have stopped everything. And to be completely honest, the private investigator Andy Klamzer mentioned this the first day I met him. But at the time, in all the noise, it was hard to see just how important this could potentially be. not only was his gun missing this new handgun that he had purchased but the case for the handgun was missing i think that's a very significant fact the troopers didn't even enter that handgun into the computer system missing or stolen why why would they do that you know they weren't interested I mean, this is just my impression. The case was done, they had moved on, and they didn't want to reopen it and do more work on it. The missing gun and the case that went with it is really significant, I think. These are big leads to follow up on in a missing persons case. What does that tell you? That somebody stole the gun. He's missing, and somebody stole the gun. Something happened to him and his gun and the case disappeared. So what kind of scenario did those still for you in your head? That he was murdered. After I interviewed Kirk, they were urging me to talk to Jake. So I called Jake a bunch of times, like 11 times, I think the first day I was there. and he always had his phone set to not accept calls. He continues to say that he observed Joseph coming out of his bedroom about 1.30 p.m. on Sunday and leaving the house. He claims that he never saw any guns at the house there that Joseph might have had. Frankly, that didn't ring true to me because Joseph couldn't even latch the door to his room. He had to keep the door closed with a bungee cord. He had bought that Taurus pistol in March, and I just think it's highly unlikely that Jake, staying in a bedroom right next to his, wasn't aware of that and never saw it. Let me break this down cleanly. Joseph bought a handgun in Nome, a new handgun. Joseph kept this gun at his house. After Joseph disappeared, the gun was never found. It wasn't in his truck. It wasn't in the woods. Not visible anywhere in the dozens and dozens of miles they searched. His gun was simply gone. Hi, Payne. I wanted to give you some background on Kirk and the Piscoya family from my perspective. I believe it provides important context. Kirk and I were raised in a very unconventional household near Talkeetna, Alaska. The adults who raised us converted to an extreme form of Seventh-day Adventism when we were very young. This included complete homeschooling, no television, no secular music, no makeup, no jewelry, no secular books, and no Christmas trees because they were considered pagan. Although there was a loving maternal presence, the father figure was intensely rigid about religious rules, while also being deeply anti-government and willing to break any rule he didn't agree with. He would not work on Friday afternoons because the Sabbath began at sunset, which in Alaska can be as early as 3.30 p.m. in winter. We were raised listening to conservative talk radio during long drives to town, with very limited exposure to the outside world. This kind of upbringing is more common in Alaska than people realize, especially in remote areas with little oversight. When your only socialization is with like-minded individuals once a week at church, it shapes your worldview in ways that are very difficult to undo. Kirk and I responded to this environment differently. I was academically inclined and largely self-taught, a high school curriculum at home. Kirk struggled academically and did not complete homeschooling until he was around 20. He became interested in flying as a teenager and illegally soloed a neighbor's plane with adult permission at 15. He became a licensed pilot at 16 and had little interest in academics. We both married young. Kirk's first marriage ended after three years, leaving him with a one-year-old child, parenting and early adulthood. After his first marriage ended, Kirk moved to Unala Cleet to build flight hours. Other family members had to step into parental roles for his son, either traveling to care for him or having him stay elsewhere. Kirk took parenting lightly and often prioritized social life over responsibility, leaving the actual care of his child to others. He later remarried a woman significantly older than him, a relationship that eventually became abusive and ended in divorce. After a key maternal figure in the family passed away at a young age, his son was exposed to a series of new relationships Kirk brought into his life. Eventually Kirk moved to Nome to fly for Bering Air, where he met Bonnie Stettenbentz, who was married at the time and worked as the office manager. They had an affair, Bonnie divorced her husband, and she and Kirk married in 2014 when the children involved were teenagers. The Piscoya Family Dynamic I first met the Piscoya family in Nome in 2013. From the beginning, there was a clear hierarchy. Some children were treated as central, and others as peripheral. Kirk openly tolerated his own son being treated as lesser than Bonnie's children. I personally witnessed Bonnie instruct his son to sit on the floor so her children could sit on the couch. This was not an isolated incident, but part of a consistent pattern. Kirk has always been a follower rather than a leader. He consistently deferred to his partner's wishes, even when it came at the expense of his own child. His son was treated as a servant, expected to do chores while others were not. He was held to strict rules while other children were allowed far more freedom. At one point as a teenager, he was expected to perform physically demanding caregiving tasks for an elderly family member, Responsibilities more appropriate for a trained adult, while others were not asked to help. The Piscoya family is extremely close. They have weekly meals together and are deeply intertwined economically, emotionally, and culturally in Nome. Carol functions as a clear matriarch, and family reputation is treated as paramount. Control, image, and relationships. Kirk and Bonnie have long been over-involved in Christine's romantic life. Public comments and family behavior strongly suggested they were pushing Joseph toward a relationship with her. In a small town like Nome, being invited to weekly family dinners is not casual. It signals inclusion and expectation. I am not surprised Joseph would have felt welcomed and wanted to spend time with them I would also not be surprised if the family reacted strongly to any perceived rejection or slight involving Christine who was described as a favorite within the family. After the podcast was released, Kirk told his son that a large family meeting had been held where the decision was made to say nothing publicly. His son was not included in that meeting and was not informed about the podcast for weeks. When it became impossible to hide, the podcast was minimized and you were demeaned as the podcaster. Kirk's Personality Kirk is outwardly charismatic, and people tend to like him. At the same time, he has long struggled with low self-esteem and reacts poorly to people he perceives as more successful. He frequently brags about being an Alaska Airlines pilot and is very image conscious. He seeks attention and validation, often performing publicly, including filming himself playing piano in airports. Bonnie shares this showy behavior, which is notably out of step with Alaska Native cultural norms that typically value humility and self-restraint. Kirk does not think independently. and often needs external pressure to act. His advancement to Alaska Airlines captain occurred only after degree requirements were dropped and after strong advocacy from Bonnie's brother. When conflict later arose, Kirk cut ties rather than engage directly. He requires constant validation, reacts angrily when challenged, and will gaslight when confronted with factual inconsistencies. He routinely diminishes educated professionals in order to elevate himself. Money and Loyalty Kirk has a long history of financial irresponsibility. He and Bonnie spend lavishly on Carol's adopted children, posting frequent trips and experiences, while his own son did not receive comparable care or support. Kirk has repeatedly chosen the Piscoya family over his own relatives. He ignored an elderly family member for over a year after a serious medical event until confronted. He severed relationships rather than repair them, even refusing to make amends when asked at the end of life. After Joseph's disappearance, we never heard about law enforcement interviews when they happened. Kirk and Bonnie occasionally posted about Joseph being missing, often accompanied by smiling selfies. If Kirk had believed he was meaningfully assisting the investigation, he would have spoken about it openly. Instead, this was hidden from much of the family and only discovered later through the podcast. Kirk is entirely devoted to the Piscoya family and will comply with whatever Carol or Bonnie wishes. While I want to believe he would not be directly involved in wrongdoing, I do believe he would bend moral boundaries to protect the family's image. He has always treated rules as flexible, especially when they conflict with loyalty or self-interest. Kirk has refused to listen to the podcast. There is no rational explanation for this. anyone being discussed on a national platform would normally want to hear what was being said especially if it were false. His refusal and his anger when others listened strongly suggests he already knows what happened and does not want to hear it framed publicly. Kirk has been urged by other family members to reconcile with his son and has consistently refused, offering excuse after excuse. He will villainize his own child while continuing to prioritize others. I do not want to speak for his son. Other immediate family members are deeply troubled by what appears to be the Piscoya family's role in this tragedy, and by Kirk's lack of honesty surrounding it. If Kirk cannot show compassion for either his own family or Joseph's family, then he has fully aligned himself with the Piscoya family and whatever role they played. If you need further context, I am available. Nothing of Joseph was found at all. Besides his blue truck, strangely parked on the road, there was nothing. No pieces of clothing, no backpack, no phone. There was no body, no gear, nothing. Got it? Okay. So, here's a very basic question. How do you know someone is unarmed? if you never find that person at all? Easy answer. You don't. If Joseph owned a gun and that gun was missing from his house, the most logical assumption would be that he took it with him. Right? Any personal belongings that are missing would likely be on his person, which we've never found. That's not speculation. that's just how logic works the police reports aren't public all the interviews that you've heard from Andy Clamser, the private investigator literally no one has heard these except for us and now you guys hopefully we're all on the same page now I'm about to play you some tape which is part of the reason we've taken this long abrupt pause in the first place the same week we did the very impromptu polygraph test with Oregon John someone very close to this case reached out with what I feel is bombshell material I'll shoot you straight at that time in my life I was completely overloaded not solely from the podcast just life and so I took a long pause and I left you guys hanging it wasn't my intent but yeah I did but I was sitting on something that required a lot more scrutiny detail protection not just for me but for the sources themselves and after over 6 months of talking to them they've agreed to release this tape this was obtained 100% legally the laws of one party consent apply in all audio, and there's written permission granted from the other caller on the phone. This is Kirk and Bonnie. There's a stupid podcast person who like does investigative stuff on missing people and He started doing this podcast about Joseph and that we're all murderers and part of the mafia and that Graham's a mafia person and we should all lose our job. I mean, it's bad seeing that we're the one who made Joseph disappear. He doesn't know anything. This guy doesn't even know anything. He's just making all this stuff up and dragging everybody to the dirt about it. That first day, he found 29 bears. In that area? In that area. But Selena, Justice is there. Thanks there. No, that can't be it. That can't be it. This guy is just an idiot. I think he should be sued for lying and for trying to scare people. That's not right. I think he should be sued for it. He probably doesn't have any money, though. That's probably the deal. I don't know how you get paid for podcasts, probably by viewers or something. Everybody in our family, a long time ago, after all those interviews with us, they cleared us all. Because we all had outbodies of what we were doing, what we all were doing. It had nothing to do with us. We probably got taken out by a bear somewhere, but this guy won't agree with that. I don't know why somebody would want to hurt him. He was such a nice person. I mean, you met him, you knew him. He was a nice guy. They'd have to know Joseph owned a gun in the first place. This was not emphasized by police. This wasn't common knowledge at all. Okay, I'll play devil's advocate. Maybe some people learned about the gun later. But that explanation doesn't work here. If nothing of Joseph was ever found out there, how does he know he didn't have his gun with him? Because even though this was said recently, it wasn't the first time Kirk said this. He also said it back in 2017. So what are your gut instincts about what happened to him? Part of me says it's a bear, just because this area and where he was and alone, not armed. He wasn't saying maybe he didn't have a gun. He also knew that gun was not with Joseph. So where the fuck is it? In the next episode of Up and Vanished and the Midnight Sun, you'll hear the rest of this phone call. This is the captain speaking. Up and Vanished in the Midnight Sun is a production of Tenderfoot TV in association with Odyssey. Your host is Payne Lindsay. The show is written by Payne Lindsay with additional assistance from Mike Rooney. Executive producers are Donald Albright and Payne Lindsay. Lead producer is Mike Rooney, along with producers Dylan Harrington and Cooper Skinner. Editing by Mike Rooney and Cooper Skinner, with additional editing by Dylan Harrington. Supervising producer is Tracy Kaplan. Additional production by Victoria McKenzie, Alice Kanik-Glen, and Eric Quintana. Artwork by Rob Sheridan. Original music by Makeup and Vanity Set. 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