Bianca had an interesting day yesterday. Had a little outing with some ladies. You had a little girls lunch, huh? Little girls lunch, like tea time, mega tea time. Mega tea time. Mega tea time. Yesterday. Tee time, Tee time. Yesterday I went out to lunch with Bryce's mom and his aunt. Your boyfriend's mom and aunt. Yes. Now have you ever done this? You were by yourself? Yeah, just me. He wasn't there. Wow. No sister, no nothing. It was just me and- She was at the store and she bought her. She bought me. Yup. Okay. And at first I thought there was a catch. I'm like, hmm, what's going to go on here? Like what are they going to ask me? But we sat down, we ate our food. It was great. Honestly, his aunt is just like me. So we got along very well. It was good. What do you mean by just like you? Okay, you know who I am. She's kind of goofy. She's kind of goofy. She's bubbly. Was this your first time meeting her? Yes. First time meeting her. We're eating our food and we're towards the end of our meal and she was like, okay, time for the questions. I was like, all right, here we go. So the first thing she asked was, so why do you want to date Bryce? Like why Bryce out of all people? Is the aunt asking? Yes. Now is the aunt really close with Bryce? Yeah. It's like the mom, like Bryce's mom and then this is her sister-in-law. They're like best friends. So no one's ever asked me this before. So I was a little caught off guard. I felt like I was in a job interview and it took me a minute to think about it because I don't know. I just, I hang out with Bryce every day. So yeah, sometimes it's funny when people will ask the formal question. Yeah. Why you're with somebody and you're like, cause it just feels right. At first I was about to be like, I don't know. But I was like, yeah, we wouldn't say not be a good answer. You would not get the job. But no, I started. So I started going off, started telling him how I met him through here at the studio when he came to visit last year and then just kind of his features. But I started getting like really, I guess I started getting too personal about it because his mom's like, you know, I can't listen to this. What kind of features? I was like, physical or what? I was like, he's tall, he's handsome. He got a nice build out like cuddling with him. I was like, he's so hot. He like treats me well. His mom's like, you know, I'm not, I don't want to deal with this. I don't want to deal with this. And then the aunt mentioned something. She was like something, she said something. It was like, Renee, you think they to sit there and stare at each other all day. And she's like, yeah. She's like, no, come on. They're not doing that. We're also like, we're not doing like that bad of things. I don't know. That bad of things. The conversation, the conversation was like that. Did it come up? Have you had this question or comment from either Bryce's family or from your parents specifically where it's like, hey, you guys got to be careful. You shouldn't be fooling around or whatever. Yeah. Okay. I think both of our parents have said that, but we're like, we're waiting till marriage. We're not doing that. Did they talk about that at this lunch? Yeah, it was brought up. Was it really? Yeah, which I was not expecting because who brought it up. Bryce didn't give you the answer. The aunt did. The aunt's like, come on. Yeah. What did Bryce, did Bryce have any knowledge that this was going to happen? No, he had no idea of the conversation. I honestly didn't think the conversation was going this because we're in a public spot. Like, I know this people around us probably listening to this conversation. It was getting deep. But I told her, I was like, you got nothing to worry about on that end. I was like, nothing like that's going to happen. And then she also mentioned. She said, I told Bryce, he can propose to you at 21. Wow. 21. Oh, that's in two years. That's fair. I think that's fair. You think so? I think it's fairies. Oh, too early. I think it's too early. Well, that'd be dating. I would, but I would think that that's minimum. I would make sure that he at least is 21 and gets finished school. If she came on and said that, does that make you think that he's already maybe mentioned something to them? Yeah, because, because the aunt heard the topic about how we went to go look at wedding rings and stuff. And they're already starting to go look at wedding rings. Oh my God, she's a listener. So I was like, yeah, I mean, I would, I would, I would get engaged to him at 21, but I'm not going to marry him until like 20, like till he's 23 or 24. I'm 28, you know, like down the road. And then I asked his mom, because me and Bryce have been talking about this. I was like, what would you think of him and I took a vacation together? Like go on like a weekend trip. I was like, even to the west side on Grand Rapids or, you know, she's like, nope. She's like, nope, not happening. And then they told me about their stories and how they weren't even like able to have sleepovers with each other until they're married and stuff and how their parents were super strict. Could, could you guys do a family? Would they let you go on their family vacation with them or no? Um, honestly, maybe, maybe in a couple of months, like I still haven't met like his most of his family. You met the aunt though for the first time. But Natalie wants to comment. What's up Natalie? Good morning guys. Yanka, I feel this. I, when I was in high school, I was dating this guy. I like thought I was in love with him and we broke up and my mom said to me, aren't you glad you didn't have sex with him? And I went, oh, yeah. Oh, gee. Mama, no, no, no, no. We are high school. Wow, that's a good story. So it worked out five years married this year. So we got married at 21. So it's not too early. I promise he's my best friend and it all worked out the way it was. I like that, that you guys had those, you know, family conversations where everybody felt that comfortable though to sit there and talk. Cause I think it's important that you guys have that, you know, with each other. She was having sex though. Hold on one second here. Bryce's mom is on the phone. Is she a first time long time? Renee, have you ever been on the show before? Hello. No, I haven't. First time. Oh, what's up Renee? How are you? Good morning, everyone. I'm doing good. I'm doing good. Just tired. I was at the Tigers game last night. Oh man. And, and you had a long lunch with our very famous being. It was so exhausting. Oh my God. Two hours to eat a salad. Yeah. So I heard Bryce's aunt was pulling a mojo asking lots of questions. Huh? Oh no, she was doing all the talking for me. I was just uncomfortable. Really? I gave her a list of things to talk about and I walked away. Oh, did you really? You actually, did you actually talk to her ahead of time and say, this is stuff I want to talk about? Well, yeah, we do talk often. She's like my sister. Yeah. So she's, I can find in her and everything. It's, you know, she's a little bit younger than me and she knows better, I guess. Yeah, I do. I love her and she's someone I talk to and, you know, okay. Oh, hold on. She's on the phone too. Hold on. She's on the phone. Aunt Amanda is on the phone with us right now. First time. Is it? Are you a first time? Long time Amanda? Good morning. Good morning. Aunt Amanda, what do you think of Bianca? I love her. Mm-hmm. I literally like, I've loved her before I even met her. She is like a younger version of how I was when I married into the family. Exactly. And she literally is like a replica. We get along so well. She's very sweet. She's down to earth. You know, she blends in perfect with the family. I really, really approve of her. I like it. Thank you. We were like spilling all the tea yesterday. I was asking him how they got proposed to Amanda, such a guy proposed to in the bedroom, no ring. Oh, really? What were you doing in the bedroom, Amanda? We were watching a movie. Oh my God. Watching or making? Uh-oh. I don't know. No, no, no. No, no, no, no. I'm about to walk away. This is my brother talking about it. Oh, okay. I want to hear because I'll be honest. Bryce told me y'all were on the phone the whole way home after the lunch, recapping the events. So I want to know what your guys' conversation was on the recap. I was just telling her when we were going to have a next lunch. Oh, with Amanda. Okay. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. No, I wanted a next lunch. I said, I already approve of you. I love you. You're part of the family. And I love this. I love that. I know Bryce told me a while ago, you guys didn't know this, but he said, when we, when you have your first kid down the road, it's going to be Amanda, my mom and your mom in the delivery room. I was like, all right. I'm not going to be nowhere near that. Bianca, I'll be next. I'll be next to you. I like, Amanda can be there. I'm going to ask, I'll be there a hundred percent and I'll tell her and help her and I'll, you know, like, go ahead, push, you know, and I'll look at greatness. I want to ask, I want to talk to Renee real quick for one second. Bryce's mom, I want to ask you this question. Bianca brought up the, that she said, hey, could we go on a vacation together? And you said no, which by the way, Chelsea and I love you for that. Yeah. Jim and her is a no. Yeah. Yeah. Chelsea. Chelsea and I are, are we, some people call it old fashioned, but I think that's just parenting on that. And it drove us crazy that my kid would move in with it, you know, his girlfriend and stuff like that. Let me ask you this, this, if they, they do wait and eventually one day, God willing, they end up, you know, getting married to each other. Would you ever let them live together before they got married or would they not be allowed to do that? This is a touchy subject with me. I'm more open minded in some ways. I don't know about that. You know, dad, I know dad. Dad's dad's old school. Dad. Yeah. Very old school. Yeah. You know, I appreciate my dad. I mean, his dad being old school. Yeah. But sometimes he's got to let loose. Honestly, I don't want to move in though. Before I don't know. No, I don't want to joke around. I did joke around for years and I still joke around sometimes to him. I'm like, I should have lived with you before I married. Yeah. Although Chelsea Chelsea and I say that all the time, but I don't think we would have gotten married. Yeah. Yeah. So I think it's a good thing to get to know the person. Yeah. I mean, one time my face, I was shown me his room and it was like a disaster. His closet door was on the track and I was like, Hey, this reminds me of love on the spectrum. I was like, there's no way we're doing this. His desk chair had clothes piled up almost to the ceiling. I was like, Hey, this is never going to happen. You know what though? That's where you got it. Yeah. You got to hold on a second, mom. You got to make Bryce clean. Yeah. It's funny you said love on the spectrum. I do work with kids with special needs. Yeah. On a daily basis. So do I. Bianca, perfect. So do I. I think Bianca might be a little on the spectrum. Yeah. So now Bryce needs to go out with your dad and your uncle. Oh my God. Would he do what would your album be like? That would be a. I don't know. My dad is so blunt and straightforward and foreign and. So far. I think Bryce would be able to handle it though. Yeah. I'm sure for his age, but I think Bryce would be super nervous. Bryce would be very nervous, especially with my Caldean uncles, bro. Like that'd be like, let's say, uh-huh. Should we do it? Should we set it up? Oh my God. But we have to do it live stream. Renee, can we get that like a foreign watch and like, we dress up as like old grandmas and sit from afar to watch them. Hold on. Hold on. Taylor listener wants to comment. What's up, Taylor? So I know that, you know, you have, you know, religious things that, you know, is obviously kind of plays a big role in how you live and things you do. But my personal opinion is that if you lived with someone before you marry them, you know what they're like in their 24 seven life, you know, what they're like when they're sleeping, if they snore, you want to know, like, you know, they're breastfeeding in the morning, all that stuff, you know, all of that stuff comes out, how they're, you know, daily hygiene, like they may come out looking nice, but you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Oh, no, I do trust because me and Bryce sleep on face time together. We know every single minute of the day. That is by the way, is wild. Jen, what's going on, Jen? Hey guys, how you doing? Good. What's happening? So I have been with my husband since we were 17 years old. There was a time we were actually at my house. I still live with my parents. I had just turned 18 and they were coming home and my husband had come over and we were sleeping in the bed and my dad came home and found us. Oh God. And you have your very mad and kicked him out. And then he went through my garbage and found something that he was very, he was very disappointed. And I'm like, what? I'm using protection and they were so mad and they wouldn't let him call the house. He wasn't allowed. They hated him. And I'm now 50 years old and we've been married for 27 years. Oh my God. And does your dad still go through your garbage? No, not for a long time. Oh, that's why it is wild. I've been with Chelsea for a long time too. And her dad, man, was still probably has the gun that he showed me the first day on that. What's going on, Alexa? Hey, how's it going guys? Good. Say hello to Bryce's mom and aunt. Hi, man. Hello. I'm sorry. What's up? Hi, good morning. Hi. What's going on? Good morning. Hey, Alexa. I have this exact situation. Hi. Yeah. What's your situation? I had this exact situation with my now husband. We went on a vacation to Dominican when we were dating. He actually proposed to me on that trip, but he told his mom and his mom was like, oh, I thought the first vacation you went on was when you guys would be your honeymoon. My husband was like, well, we're adults. This is probably like 26 and 27. And he's like, we're adults. And so we are going to go on vacation and we ended up doing that, but we did not live together before we got married. See, I think that's okay. I'm going to respect their family and not go on a vacation with him. But if we were ever to do like a day trip, sure. I think that'd be so nice. I'll listen to her. I said a day trip was fine. Yeah. By the way, this is my favorite text and I'm going to end with it. I'm going to end on this one. Jordy says, I think if Bryce doesn't go out with Bianca's dad and uncle, Mojo and Kev should take Bryce out to lunch and have a talk with him. Oh, we have a boy. That would be so cool. So I remember a long time ago, Mojo said, I got to meet your boyfriend and interview him first before he's allowed to date you. There you go. You gotta go do it. Well, you didn't listen. You're already dating. Well, no, because he knows what to do before. Actually, I don't want to go to lunch with him. I want to hang out with Renee and Amanda. Anytime I can hang out with two Kaldian ladies. They're too baddies. Hey, we'll get ourselves some hummus together. All right. Yeah, I know hummus here. And drink some chai. Where did you guys go, by the way? Where'd you go to? Lula's Cafe. It was on like Shelby. Okay. Yeah. All right. Well, Renee, it's always nice to talk to you. Beautiful lady. Likewise. Thank you. And and Amanda, I hope I get a chance to meet you and Amanda. Yeah, hopefully. Oh, you will. One day. All right. At the wedding. At the wedding. At the wedding. At the wedding.
