Why Men Are Afraid to Get Married in 2026 | Pearl Davis | DSH #1841
36 min
•Mar 1, 2026about 2 months agoSummary
Pearl Davis discusses her upcoming debate with Anna and shares insights from interviewing men affected by divorce, child custody disputes, and family court systems. She explores why men are increasingly hesitant about marriage, citing financial risks, custody battles, and systemic inequalities in family law.
Insights
- Family court systems disproportionately favor mothers in custody and financial settlements, with men often paying 50%+ of income in combined child support, alimony, and related expenses
- Divorce and family court outcomes are driving measurable mental health crises among men, with suicide rates 9x higher post-divorce and homelessness linked to unpaid child support obligations
- The incentive structure in family law (lawyer retainers, prolonged cases, alimony systems) creates financial motivation for attorneys to extend disputes rather than resolve them quickly
- Women's expanded access to economic and social opportunities (dating apps, OnlyFans, social status) has shifted relationship dynamics, making traditional marriage less appealing to younger women
- Paternity fraud remains a systemic issue with estimates ranging 5-33% of births, yet DNA testing at birth is not standard practice despite potential to resolve false paternity cases
Trends
Rising male skepticism toward marriage driven by family court financial exposure and custody riskIncreasing visibility of men's issues in podcasting and debate spaces challenging feminist narrativesGrowth of 'passport bro' movement as men seek relationships outside US legal jurisdictionNormalization of sex dolls and incel communities as alternatives to traditional datingDeclining birth rates and population decline creating future gender imbalance in dating marketsOnlyFans creators using religious conversion narratives to rebrand after adult content careersLooks-maxing and cosmetic surgery optimization becoming mainstream discussion topics among young menDebate culture and content creation around gender dynamics attracting large audiences
Topics
Family Court Bias Against FathersChild Support and Alimony Calculation SystemsPaternity Fraud and DNA TestingDivorce Financial Impact on MenCustody Disputes and Parental AlienationMen's Mental Health and Suicide RatesMarriage Hesitancy Among Young MenFeminism and Gender DynamicsFamily Law Attorney IncentivesDating App Culture and HypergamyOnlyFans Creator EconomicsDebate Culture and Public DiscourseLooks-Maxing and Cosmetic SurgeryIncel Movement and Male IsolationPopulation Decline and Gender Imbalance
Companies
OnlyFans
Discussed as platform enabling content creators to monetize adult content and rebrand afterward
People
Pearl Davis
Host/guest debater discussing men's issues in family court, divorce outcomes, and marriage hesitancy
Anna
Upcoming debate opponent that Pearl Davis is preparing to face on feminism and related topics
Steven Crowder
Referenced as example of high-profile divorce case where ex-wife received $30,000 monthly support
Jeff Younger
Texas father who fought legal battles to prevent child's medical transition, case lost in court
James O'Keefe
Mentioned as facing 51st lawsuit, parallel to host's own legal challenges
Myron
Referenced for debate appearance on Flagrant podcast and controversial statements about ethnicity
Clavicular
Young debater (age 19) discussed for looks-maxing advocacy and jaw surgery optimization
Michael Mull
Debater with decade of experience, mentioned as having been debated by Clavicular
Nick Fuentes
Referenced in context of incel movement and online male communities
Nala Ray
Content creator criticized for OnlyFans pivot followed by religious rebranding narrative
Lily Phillips
Adult content creator recently baptized while continuing in industry, example of rebrand pattern
Sarah Palin
Political figure Pearl Davis met at pro-life rally during childhood, influenced her worldview
Quotes
"Men are nine times more likely to commit suicide after a divorce and I've interviewed men that are on the brink of it like I've interviewed men that are living in their cars like they're homeless"
Pearl Davis
"There's no accountability on the female side because some of these women are getting tens of thousands a month and then they don't spend it on the kid"
Pearl Davis
"I have a hard time believing that a family court attorney that's worked for 20 years didn't participate in this because the industry, they make so much money off of the wives"
Pearl Davis
"You can't control another person so you're trying to put accountability on the man but you can only do that if he has authority"
Pearl Davis
"I think people do what benefits them. And so if you look at people's choices, it makes sense"
Pearl Davis
Full Transcript
We got Pearl here. She's debating Anna tomorrow. I think it's going to be tough for her. I think it's going to be harder than she thinks. What are your thoughts on Nala Ray? Nala Ray just did the typical riff, which is I'm going to do OnlyFans and then say sorry after and pretend I'm sorry, but keep the money. I mean, it's just... All right, guys, here at Word War Debate, we got Pearl here. She's debating Anna tomorrow. well, this is going to be a big debate for you, right? Yeah, I'm excited. One of your tougher opponents, I feel like. Or no. Well, it depends how it goes, right? Yeah. If I win easily, I'll say yes. If I don't, I'll be like, yeah, I was the toughest opponent ever. I feel like you're so knowledgeable on feminism, though. There's not many people that can compete with you on that at this point. Yeah. I mean, because I've been doing the same thing. I mean, I think it's going to be tough for her. I think it's going to be harder than she thinks. because I mean she has to know all about all these random topics like I see you're talking about Gaza about the Democrat like I don't cover all that yeah I do one thing you just talk about feminism I have been here for I have been here for five years like um yeah I mean occasionally I'll do other stuff but not a ton yeah I mean you stick to what you know you know other people try to I feel like they spread themselves too thin and then they're not as knowledgeable and then they look kind of dumb sometimes yeah do you know what happened i got cooked in a debate pretty bad a few years ago and i was like i never wanted that to happen again and i just felt like to get to the point where nobody could completely cook me i just have to stick to one oh i feel uh damn have you shared which one that is or no no i do i i'll tell you off camera but i don't want to give them the satisfaction i wonder if it's who i think it is because i know you've debated andrew wilson I know you've debated some pretty big names so I really do wonder yeah I'll tell you later okay okay um is it like a pretty structured debate or is it kind of freestyle tomorrow no it's pretty structured it's a little different than I'm used to actually because like most of the debates I do are pretty like unstructured but it'll be good because sometimes I'm just not a yeller so like if one person starts yelling they're just gonna over talk you know what I mean that's not your style yeah because i saw your pod with uh sean strickland that got pretty feisty yeah but i guess but i didn't really take it personal i didn't think he was like mad or anything i've had people like scream at me so to me that wasn't that was nothing right yeah yeah you you grew up in a lot worse environments than that saw a lot not not growing up but like i mean i had like i did one show when this girl just starts like screaming in my face like i had another girl threatened to come back and like you know i forgot what she said but but it was a threat it was definitely a threat jeez and i was so annoyed because then after that i just start getting security like for the debates that i would do it just takes one person to crash yeah and that's expensive it's so expensive yeah security is like 500 plus an hour some of them you know if you want armed it's more yeah i mean i'm not gonna talk about what security but yeah yeah it's the space you're in though it's very polarizing topic i feel like people are so emotional yeah they get really emotional and i think my problem is i say a lot of things that offend people but like i really don't try to go personal at anybody yeah um but that favor just never returns it's just never like like because if they say something that offends me like i can just chill out yeah yeah you don't really go for the personal attacks you kind of talk with facts and studies and i try to i will yeah if i get pushed to a certain point but anyone would right if they're attacking you and calling you a slut and whatever you get called all sorts of names i'm sure nothing phases you at this point it doesn't have you always been pretty anti-feminist or were you in support at a certain point well um i would say my some of my views have evolved but i've always been right leaning like when i was in eighth grade one of my earliest memories is me arguing with my friend about abortion wow in eighth grade i met sarah palin when i was like i don't know how old i was but i know i met her um because my mom would take me to like a sarah palin like rally or whatever it was like a pro-life speech like my grandma was pretty involved in the pro-life stuff um so huh like she would go to events or whatever so you kind of had that world view from her growing up and then what happened um well i wasn't that political but i would always vote right you know um and then when i was in england i went there to play volleyball and then on the side i just started my youtube channel um and when i was doing that i started interviewing men that were victims of like divorce rape and like that sort of thing um and that kind of evolved my views a little bit because I didn't you know I'd say when I started I was very pro like marriage and family and that kind of thing but when I interview men that have just been like gotten their lives absolutely destroyed um from getting married I I don't know I don't think I could in good faith tell people to do or not do it's just something like every person's got to decide on yeah yeah that's interesting um how do you find these men everywhere no do you know it's funny they're around you you just don't know it really yeah okay i don't really chase trends anymore i just want clothes that work feel good and last i've stopped buying a lot of clothes and started buying better ones stuff that fits right holds up and i actually wear that's why i've been going with quints they've got basics i actually use organic cotton 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Very uppity kind of telling me I'm a doomer on this show has no idea that the guy that drives his guests to and from the airport um had his son kidnapped out of state wait why i'll tell you who off camera but like because i don't think i'd want to that's wild yeah because um he like his driver told me that like his son had been um like essentially um you know if a man took his son out of the country there would be like like the government would go track him down and get him back right if he stole his son yeah but women do that all the time like one guy um he took his son to ukraine and he was trying to get his son during the war it was crazy story he got like pronounced dead because um when he he took his son um like he took it he went to ukraine got his son took it back during like when the whole like the whole war just started yeah and then um he got arrested in ukraine they took his id and then the guy who took his ID like blew up or something what police yeah and so he got they thought it was him and so he got pronounced dead like oh but one of the dads I interviewed holy shit that wasn't that wasn't the driver I'm talking about I've interviewed so many they blend together but yeah um I I guarantee if we got 10 guys and I said have you or anyone you know had a false accusation or gotten divorced and it been extremely contentious. And if you ask the right questions, they're everywhere. People just don't pay attention or they don't want to see it. I don't know. So does that really set your opinion when it comes to marriage of just not really doing it? I don't say don't do it because it's not my place. Right. I mean, as a guy, I think men naturally weigh the pros and the cons of a decision um but at least know what you're signing up for i can see that yeah because i've interviewed like men that will not retire like one of the guys i interviewed was um a pro he what's it called when you work in prisons a guard or yeah and he did that he had a housewife like six or seven kids i think in idaho one of those states and he got divorced um and because he had a stay-at-home wife he was on the hook for more child support and alimony and he'll never retire because he's in his 60s jeez like the men that get divorced at like 40 kind of have it easy because they can rebuild but they get divorced at 60 it's almost too late right to rebuild at that point yeah i mean men are nine times more likely to commit suicide after a divorce and i've interviewed men that are on the brink of it like i've interviewed men that are living in their cars like they're homeless yeah and it to me i just didn't understand how no one was talking about it because it was way more common than you think um i mean even in the podcasting world like i could steven crowder you know that like his wife was getting 30 000 a month damn awesome that's and remember he buried a girl that was a virgin like a virgin conservative christian blonde like can't get much purer than that on paper i mean Yeah, and paper, right? Yeah. That's why I'm like, at this point, because guys will always ask me well what can I do And I like look I seen women with every reason that that like you think she gonna do it they didn do it like one of the best wives i've ever met on paper you wouldn't think yeah um and i've seen women like yeah i mean some it's obvious but some it's yeah i've seen men try ukraine and then she stole the kid to go back like he tried overseas women yeah passport bro yeah that's that's the issue you get with them though a lot of them will get the kid and take it back and the u.s doesn't really bring the like they don't have any law it they don't really put a lot of resources into getting the kids back even though if the roles were reversed they probably would right that's awful wow stealing the kid and going to whenever you get amber alerts half the time that's just the dad taking his kid really i know somebody that lost custody of his kid um and the or the mother killed one of the kids because she was so irresponsible oh my god and um he didn't even um like she still got primary custody because it was something that like he it could have i forgot how the kid died but it was in some way that like it was negligence but it wasn't like malicious yeah yeah i saw this with my dad honestly he got divorced and almost ended his life you know so what you're saying really like i've seen yeah so in my own life everyone has yeah i mean it's been it's been like what two three generations like who doesn't know somebody yeah and the divorce rate is crazy these days and i was kind of oblivious to a lot of it so um i'd maybe seen like false allegations um on like college campuses but the divorce stuff i didn't because again like i knew one girl growing up that went through it but i believed the mother i thought he was abusive and then you start like unraveling and you're like oh he probably wasn't he's kind of a chill guy like you know that's crazy but it's it's hard because when everyone's saying it you think maybe he is yeah so you put most of the blame on the woman though for for divorces um well it depends on the divorce yeah i guess like overall like from what you've seen women are filing yeah yeah um i don't really like if a woman wants to get divorced that's fine i just wish it would stop like i wish it could just be 50 50 you don't need his money it's totally fine if you get divorced it's fine just pay for it yeah for it but instead the man pays for yeah almost everything right yeah because i mean it's like women get all the debt from college and they run out of money they have to get a bailout plan 10 years later then um the guy signs up a lot of times he'll pay off the debt and then in eight years later then she can divorce him and now she's got another decade of money from him i don't think i'm married now but i don't think i'd ever date a woman in debt you know what i mean especially when you're just starting out like that's the hardest time to make money like that would take so long to pay off i guess it depends how much debt but if we're talking college debt. I mean, the average is like $35,000, 32. That's a good amount of money. I don't really chase trends anymore. I just want clothes that work, feel good and last. I've stopped buying a lot of clothes and started buying better ones. Stuff that fits right, holds up and I actually wear. That's why I've been going with Quince. They've got basics I actually use, organic cotton sweaters, clean polos, lightweight jackets, stuff that holds up to daily wear and still looks good. The quality is solid and everything's built to last. What makes Quince different is how they do it. They work directly with top factories, cut out the middleman, and you're not paying for brand mark-off, just quality clothing. And they only partner with factories that meet high standards for craftsmanship and ethical production. Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com slash dsh for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. That's quince.com slash dsh. Now available in Canada too. 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Quince.com slash dsh. you'd have to really love her 35 000 but the stuff these days i hear with college debt is way higher than that well and another thing they don't talk about is like married men earn more but it's just because the woman a lot of times will put the biggest purchases on the man's card so wow like i mean now you have to yeah man yeah you're bringing and if you don't pay child support you go to jail so a lot of the men that you see that are homeless like they're homeless because um of child support because like if you really do the math a lot of times it's more than 50 percent of a man's income because like he's on the hook for health insurance dental um and you can do the like the child support calculator to see what the payments are um so like a lot of a lot of men just they can't pay it so they just like are in the system wow so it's over 50 you're saying usually not oh i mean it it depends but a good chunk of the time if you include like the other things that the man has to pay for you jeez that's crazy and then if you don't pay you go to jail i mean the other thing is like take your fishing license they even take what they take fishing away from him that's just evil a lot of men like to fish but um my issue with that is like a lot of women get the money right and then they don't spend it on the kid so there's also no accountability on the female side because some of these women are getting tens of thousands a month yeah i mean it's tied to social security so they'll never like there's too many people making money off of men no so they need more men paying into the system like the entire you know it's crazy so there's a law firm in dallas and i went there um for one of the most expensive divorces that i'd ever like worked with he spent 1.5 million on a divorce still didn't get primary custody but got good visitation like 49 so for a guy that's pretty decent yeah um but it's still kind of crazy that he spent that amount of money it's still nuts like she still gets to make the decision but whatever it's all relative right so like my dad spent like 50 000 or whatever which for him is a lot like that could be relevant to 1.5 for that person yeah well anyways um so i thought this this law firm was cool i met the lawyers and this whole thing i find out like a year later i interview another guy from texas and he says oh he was the guy that got his kid transitioned um i don't know jeff younger was this in texas and he went so far um he wanted this to not happen so bad obviously yeah because he went took a law to like the supreme i don't know what it's called but like he tried to get a law passed to stop his kid from getting like castrated um because it's illegal in texas but there's nothing stopping them from bringing the kid to california and doing it and so he wanted a law to stop that and um yeah they they shot it down basically so there was like literally nothing else he could have did his kid um was in fact transitioned oh my god and i found out the same lawyer that won the case for the other dad um actually was the one that represented this other dad in getting the kid transitioned wow so i hate i like that was kind of when i realized shit a lot of these lawyers like they might even seem cool but a lot of them have blood on their hands if i'm being honest because the industry it's they make so much money off of the wives there's just no way like i have a hard time believing that a family court attorney that's worked for 20 years didn't participate i i mean i don't i don't really believe it i mean being a divorce lawyer is probably one of best jobs right now yeah you know there's some they don't run out of clients or business i know there's a few that go in pods and go really viral but and they're they're they're trying to drag it out if we're being honest yeah i mean and even because a lot of the ones that go on shows i mean i just again i just have a hard time believing they weren't a part of it i do too yeah because you're trying to make money yeah let's be honest you're a divorce lawyer you want to drag this out you get paid retainer about an hour it's like why would you want to get it done quick yeah exactly that's why i hate lawyers in general honestly i mean it sucks in our job we have to deal with lawsuits and shit that's a whole nother podcast i actually am getting sued right now really james o'keefe just announced he's getting a his 51st lawsuit right now too i've dealt with a few guests where um like they'll talk shit about someone and then that person will message me to take it down i'm sure you deal with that too oh really well sort of just this one it was a guy's wife she wrote a book about him and then he goes on one podcast and now she's dragging us all the court she wrote a whole ass book about this guy that's some uh next level pettiness it was like doxing i'm like i fucking hate women oh that's some next level pettiness to write a whole book yeah because she married rich again and so now she's got more money to waste i'm like how do guys and he's so nice to the dad that's the worst part i'll meet these dads and they're so cool yeah i mean they fall for it though they can't control their dick do you know what it's not even that it's women change you know i mean it's like it's kind of easy to say when we're in our 20s and like 30s that they should have seen it coming or whatever but i've seen guys do every mitigation strategy and like no debt. I mean the one guy that he actually kind of part of my monologue tomorrow Yeah He had a whole list She needs to be from a two home She needs to not have debt She needs to like whole list he went for He would only get married under those circumstances. Found the girl, had two kids. She was so spiteful she killed his chocolate lab. What? Yeah. Oh, my God. And this was a guy who had every, like, what else was he supposed to do? You know? That's crazy. Under, like, he was under a certain age, you know? Yeah. So women change, I guess that's where the attention has to shift to trying to prevent the change. You know what I mean? Or do you think it's inevitable? You'd have to like literally box them in. I feel like that's not really. I mean, have you changed in the last 10 years? I don't really chase trends anymore. I just want clothes that work, feel good and last. I've stopped buying a lot of clothes and started buying better ones. Stuff that fits right, holds up and I actually wear. That's why I've been going with Quince. They've got basics I actually use, organic cotton sweaters, clean polos, lightweight jackets, stuff that holds up to daily wear and still looks good. The quality's solid and everything's built to last. What makes Quince different is how they do it. They work directly with top factories, cut out the middleman, and you're not paying for brand markup, just quality clothing. And they only partner with factories that meet high standards for craftsmanship and ethical production. refresh your wardrobe with quince go to quince.com slash dsh for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns that's q u i n c e.com slash dsh now available in canada too free shipping and 365 day returns quince.com slash dsh yeah i mean i've like we've all changed yeah i can't really the problem is you just can't control another person so you're trying to put not you but like in general people try to put accountability on the man but you can only do that if he has authority you know like if she says i I want to spend a bunch of money on your credit card. And he says, no. Right. And she does it anyway. Can he beat her? No. No. Can he like, what, what can he do? Yeah. So I guess you just need really good boundaries. I mean, what does it matter if you have boundaries, if she doesn't respect them? Yeah. Yeah. Cause then you can't, there's no accountability if she breaks the rule, right? You're married. Like, what are you going to do? And so, yeah. So mine just may, if you pay attention, most relationships are kind of transgender. what do you mean by that like if you pay attention i think i've met one seen one relationship in my life where like the relationship's really on the guy's terms and not the woman i don't really chase trends anymore i just want clothes that work feel good and last i've stopped buying a lot of clothes started buying better ones stuff that fits right holds up and i actually wear that's why i've been going with Quince. They've got basics I actually use, organic cotton sweaters, queen polos, lightweight jackets, stuff that holds up to daily wear and still looks good. Quality's solid and everything's built to last. What makes Quince different is how they do it. They work directly with top factories, cut out the middleman, and you're not paying for brand markup, just quality clothing. And they only partner with factories that meet high standards for craftsmanship and ethical production. Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com slash dsh for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns. That's q-u-i-n-c-e.com slash dsh. Now available in Canada too, free shipping and 365 day returns, quince.com slash dsh. Like most men make small concessions for their like girlfriend and just, they end up living where she wants to live. They end up doing what she wants to do. I'm definitely guilty of that. I feel like it's inevitable. Yeah, because if the girl always freaks out, girls are just always going to freak out more than the guy and be more unhappy or whatever. And then men just make slow concessions over time. And then over time, they're basically enslaved to her emotions. And now with all the programming, I feel like with the feminist movement and God knows what else they're being. I don't really believe it's programming. You don't think so? I think that's kind of conservative cope. No, I mean, okay, you're an 18-year-old girl. Do you want to marry your high school sweetheart or go party with the highest-status, richest men on the planet if you're good-looking? You don't even have to be that hot now. I mean, if an average-looking woman get to, like, deal with celebrity, you know, really, like, why would they not? Do you think it's just kind of natural for a woman to think that way? I mean, I think it's like there's— I think people do what benefits them. Yeah. You know, and so if you look at people's choices, it like makes sense. I do hear that evolutionary brain argument sometimes. Not even like evolution. It's like women love parties, concerts, excite, right? Yeah. That's stuff we like. So if your choice is like a boring from like the female point of view, like a boring life with kids or like in a family and like marrying your like the average guy from your high school or you get to go party with Drake. I mean, I mean, even as a guy, if I could picture. And like as a woman, like a lot of conservatives are like, oh, women have to work and it's so hard. I'm like, not really. what jobs are women doing that are that hard that would be harder than like working on a farm my grandma had nine kids and worked on a farm in wisconsin and like i mean this is scooping chicken poop you know cow manure milking the cows chopping chickens heads i mean i don't really know because i've never worked on a farm but i've heard it's pretty hard like i've spoken to a few farmers very hard they can't even like leave the area because there's just so much to do on the farm yeah and then you could do that or you could go live in new york city you could have men take you on dates all the time you could go to the greatest the like vip part what are they gonna like duh yeah no i completely get why women use their looks to their advantage it makes sense why wouldn't you if you're given these looks yeah you know what i mean but now like average women are getting the same perks too these days oh god yeah why is that it's weird well because america's fat like i don't mind the hot girls getting those perks because they're just gifted with amazing genetics and like yeah you should be going to parties and shit but now like average women are are getting those benefits well and it's gonna be interesting because people aren't having kids so younger women are gonna have more power because they're really rare so it's like that's a good point yeah because i was looking at the population chart and now it's like dropping and i'm like in 10 years there's gonna be more single men because um like everyone's divorcing and like can't stay together whatever wow and then so you're gonna have like the men that are 30 the men that are 40 the men that are 50 the 20 year old guys aren't even in the game anymore yeah they're iced out but men that are 60 and they're all competing for like the one kid everybody had and i think people have more boys so and ai robots the sex robots are going to be coming in around then too yeah we'll see i don't know if i think we'll see some people think it's gonna impact stuff a lot i don't know we'll see you don't think so i'm undecided i'll say that i haven't made a decision i just would think a sex robot would be hard to clean all the time that's where your brain goes with it you're so logical no i'm just like that's kind of gross yeah it would have to have some blue light or something auto clean it yeah maybe if they put auto clean yeah i wouldn't want to manually clean it i'd be disgusting reaching your hand in there yeah let's say to auto clean you'd be deaf i mean do you know what happened i'll tell you what so someone called i was like no one will buy that and someone calls into my show and they had a doll in the background oh my god and then i was thinking i'm like i'm not beating these incel allegations yeah i mean people can't guys can't get laid you know yeah they're buying these weird there was just a handjob device at ces in vegas sold like 300 000 units just for like a machine giving you a handjob that's where we're at now because guys can't pull the incel movement's growing shout out to nick fuentes is well and what is an incel right because the guy like the guy with the doll he was divorced but now he's like 55 like 60 he's not gonna go find a new bit yeah a new a new girl i think at that age that's old yeah i think statistically it's like you know i don't really chase trends anymore i just want clothes that work feel good and last i've stopped buying a lot of clothes and started buying better ones stuff that fits right holds up and i actually wear that's why i've been going with Quince. 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Yeah. And, you know, power corrupts and like we've given women unlimited power to do anything. Yeah. They do have a feel like they have more power than men now, right? Oh God. Yeah. I mean, paternity fraud, like you can be on child support even if you're, even if she is found guilty of paternity fraud. Yeah. So like, why, why is that not illegal? Like you could end that tomorrow if we had DNA tests at birth. Yeah. why isn't that and i mean a third of paternity tests come back as the child's not the father a third according to the american blood bank association some people can test that stat um so i we're never really gonna know the answer some people say it's five percent but even five's high it's like one in 20 births yeah dad that's stupid high it's really high my dad got two done on me what he got two paternity tests done on me yeah he didn't trust it uh the first time he said the girl was the girl was asian and she was in on it but um like everyone thought he was crazy at first but like honestly i think everyone should do that i feel like i never stopped working i'm like a talker and i'm like on a plane once and i found um there was a woman that sat next to me and i was telling her what i do for a living and she said she was the daughter where like she was the daughter that wasn't her dad's and so she found out her mom like did paternity fraud on her dad she was the oldest whoa so her younger siblings were from her dad and but she wasn't wow and she said her whole life she felt like she didn't like fit in and like when she found out it just like made sense and then she met her dad and it was like great. That's crazy. Yeah, I don't know. I took the 23 meeting so I'm pretty sure I'm good. I'm just at three now. Is your mom crazy or something? I'm scared. She watches every show so I'm going to be respectful but my dad had a lot to say about her. I'll say that. Pretty nasty divorce. Did you have a divorced environment? Oh, really? No, my parents are still together. Wow. That's kind of ironic though, right? Yeah. You talk about this and they're still happily together yeah that's interesting damn do they support what you do at least um they think i'm extreme um i'm like yeah probably different generation yeah i feel like they're more laid back and this is a whole new world to them actually my dad called me today he's like did you say that indians smell how is that controvert and i was like dad they do smell and then he's like but not all of them and i'm like dad but i'm like but if they say white people can't dance i don't say not all white people and like show them you know people get so triggered these days yeah i know like that's not even my dad's not even triggered easily but he's just like i think his mindset is just like why yeah like why do you have to say that's not a hot take to me like people were racist to me growing up but i never took it personal you know being asian ching chong eating dogs dumb stuff like that but they do smell let's be honest i know myron gets canceled for saying that too have you been on a fresh and fit um yeah i went a while ago but the last time i went a fight broke out what yeah not between me but between two of the girls oh wow and honestly like that was just i was just like i can't do this ghetto shit it's like i'm done i gotta i gotta scroll back and watch that one yeah it was a while ago i think if i'm kind of itching so maybe i will go back but i don't know i feel like they were crazy that's where i feel like i like in 23 i saw your tweet you said you don't want to be as known as you were in 23 yeah because do you know what i don't like that many eyes on me really it's kind of weird yeah i just it's it's like fun but it just kind of comes with problems yeah because you were getting hundreds of millions maybe even billions of views that year i mean i think you said your youtube had a billion views i had to delete it all that's crazy what are your thoughts on um nala ray you know my thoughts setting you up um i mean nala ray just you know did the typical grift which is i'm gonna do only fans and then say sorry after and pretend i'm sorry but keep the money i mean it's just it's just it's happened so many times at this point looks like lily phillips is next to do that she just got baptized i don't know if you saw that yeah but hers is still i think she's still doing porn yeah i don't know how that would make sense right yeah do you know what christians they just want to be right so bad that it's taken advantage like they love hearing that they're right about their religion and so they just get bamboozled the most because they just want like to be told that they're right so if they have a girl say oh i don't even believe that the girls didn't enjoy doing the porn that's what they always say after that they didn't like it but i'm like they seem pretty happy dude at the time yeah i don't they're like i was secretly sad i'm like you didn't look sad secretly sad uh what do you think of this looks maxing trend uh that's that's pretty hot right now from clavicular i've seen you tweet about him a few times oh i think he's funny um i actually think it's cool so i i think the jaw surgery is a little extreme um for me personally but i i don't know i saw him on michael mulls and i just thought he was cooking i saw that i just thought he cooked so and i couldn't believe he was only like what 19 yeah and michael's been debating for a decade um yeah so i thought he cooked him he has confidence when he speaks even if he's wrong he's just it's kind of like oh i'm interested you know yeah um yeah i mean some of it's extreme as in anything but i think it's cool i love hearing why people are ugly like i love hearing like why you're chopped yeah i love his rating that's great yeah and he's so specific yeah he'll say the left orbital was five centimeters off shout out to Clavicular man doing his thing alright last one would you ever vote for a female president are both candidates female? because then I'm forced no it would be a female versus male it would have to be such a bad maybe if it was like Trudeau and a woman maybe do some maybe do some in a woman or you'd pick new some over wow this man has like allegedly committed like fraud and stolen money well women commit fraud like women lie every day like we wear makeup you know what i mean like so that would be tough all right well i think by the time this comes out you'll already have debated Anna and I think you'll win from what it sounds like. 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