Rebecca Goldstein

Mentioned in 8 analyzed podcast episodes across 1 show

Philosopher featured in the "You Matter" series on Passion Struck, discussing the mattering instinct and its role in human flourishing. Known for exploring how the need to matter influences personal development and can lead to either positive growth or destructive outcomes. Contributes to conversations about internal mattering maps and what it means to feel seen by others.

Appears On

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Episode Appearances

Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Mar 24, 2026

Why Humans Are Wired for Love but Struggling to Connect | Dr. Justin Garcia — EP 745

“Author of 'The Mattering Instinct'; discussed distinction between connection and mattering with Miles”

Evolutionary biology of pair bonding and romantic loveNeurobiological mechanisms of romantic attachment and rejectionTouch deprivation and physical intimacy in modern relationships

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 24, 2026

How to Make Your Child Feel Seen: The Science of Mattering | Gordon Flett – EP 733

“Researcher on mattering instinct; discussed mattering projects and how they can lead to flourishing or destructive outcomes”

Anti-mattering and psychological pain correlationDouble jeopardy (loneliness + insignificance)Unbearable insignificance as psychological condition

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 20, 2026

The Mattering Mirror: How to Rewire Your Worth Today | John R. Miles - EP 732

“Philosopher featured in You Matter series discussing the mattering instinct and human flourishing”

Social Media Addiction and Platform Design EthicsIntrinsic vs. Extrinsic Worth and Self-ValidationPerfectionism Epidemic and Mental Health Crisis

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 19, 2026

Bonded by Evolution: How Attraction Really Works | Paul Eastwick - EP 731

“Guest from previous Passion Struck episode discussing the mattering instinct and internal mattering maps”

Evolutionary Psychology and Mating BehaviorAttachment Theory in Romantic RelationshipsDating App Design and Relationship Formation

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 17, 2026

How to Feel Loved: The 5 Mindsets That Change Everything | | Sonja Lyubomirsky & Harry Reis – EP 730

“Guest on Passion Struck who discussed the mattering instinct and mattering map”

Feeling Loved vs. Being LovedResponsiveness in RelationshipsVulnerability and Self-Disclosure

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 13, 2026

The Luma Effect: Rewiring Worth Before the World Scripts It | John R. Miles EP 729

“Philosopher discussed the mattering instinct as a core biological drive to be significant and its role in human flourishing”

Intrinsic Worth and Unconditional AffirmationThe Mattering Instinct in Child DevelopmentWet Cement Window (Ages 4-8) in Self-Concept Formation

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 6, 2026

The Speech Impediment of the Soul: A Path to Intrinsic Worth | John R. Miles EP 726

“Philosopher and New York Times bestselling author of 'The Mattering Instinct' appearing as guest in upcoming episode”

Childhood Trauma and Long-Term Psychological ImpactIntrinsic Worth vs. Achievement-Based Self-EsteemPerformance Trap and Overachievement as Compensation

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Feb 3, 2026

Why Choosing Wisely Shapes Agency, Meaning, and Mattering | Barry Schwartz - EP 724

“Author of The Mattering Instinct; participated in 2019 mattering research meeting with Schwartz and Seligman”

Paradox of Choice and decision overloadRational Choice Theory limitations in human decision-makingQuantification and metrics in organizational management

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