I Cloned Myself With AI… And It’s Scary Accurate | Natasha Graziano | DSH #1844

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That's Shopify.nl. you can date someone 10 years younger than you 10 years older 20 years older 20 years younger but if you're dating someone just know you're going to be at different points in your life you're going to have points of confliction and you just have to like work around those things but ultimately i am not looking to be your mom i made jokes about being your sugar mama but like if you behave like a king i can be in my queen energy and i can be in my feminine if you behave like a boy i have to be your mother and i will send you home to your mother so when you mix friendship with business it gets crazy it's true if you meet in business and you become friends you can sustain it but if you're friends and then you do business you're fucked yeah i agree how's that happened to you yeah it's happened to me um multiple times where somebody is like but i'm your friend or somebody worse wants to have your services for free bitch why am i paying for you to be on a magazine cover for free like out my pocket yeah i'll just go dig in to my bank for you yeah that doesn't make any sense yeah it hasn't worked out with me i need to change it up no yeah it's tough i feel like there are certain partnerships where you're not like on the friendliest terms where it's like i know your mom's name you know my mom like it's not in that genre. But if you're business friends, definitely you can do it. Yeah. What about a dating partner? Would you work with your dating partner? Oh, 100%. I'll build your whole grandbaby and I'll rave it down if we're not together. Really? So you don't have issues mixing the two? No. I can't say this. That sounds evil that I just said that. But the truth is, if I give you everything and then you fuck me over, I will remove all of my context out of it. And whoops. Damn. So you hold a grudge. I mean, I don't mean to. I try and let go of grudges. But like, fuck, sometimes it can be tough. I mean, it's probably frustrating, right? Yeah. You see them killing it and you know you played a role in that. Yeah. And then you're like, why is that? You know, why is that happening? I try and choose dating partners wisely. I think that we get locked into people who are sometimes losers and that's not it. I've been with enough NPCs to the whole of the USA and Great Britain. I'm over NPCs. For anyone watching, that's a non-playable character. Go play Fortnite. I just realized that it's not about going for an NPC anymore. You have to go for someone that matches your energy. But you don't attract what you want. You attract what you are. Yeah, you were attracting people at my wedding. Yeah? Really? So many guys were coming up to me. That's funny. Yeah, no, I was just like being me and I was getting hit on like wildfire. I don't know if it's because my dress was see-through. That might be wild. I didn't know that. That might have been wild. I mean, I don't really know, but like the dress was just slightly see-through, but that was tough, you know? But it was a beautiful wedding, but I was surprised people were asking about me like that. A lot. I think there was a lot of girls there, but they were in relationships. You know what I mean? So that could have played a role. but yeah so many guys were coming up to me who is that girl i'm like right yeah you are attracting a lot of people but i think it's your energy too it is i don't think it's just physical i think it's like your presence it is it's an aura right like if you're a star you have an aura and you carry it around you and it's like wherever you go into whatever room you go in you you radiate this aura you just people say to me like i can smell you and see you before you walk into a room and actually there is science behind this and it looks something like this if you go into a room and you are wearing something that is slightly offbeat like let's say you're wearing a black suit with a bright orange scarf you're gonna get looked at and you wear something that smells really ott so i wear oude from saudi arabia you can't buy it here it's like literally an oil that you put on it like radiates That's smart. So no one else has your scent. Nobody has my scent. I don't buy anything commercial. Everything is personalized when it comes to my scent. And every man I've been with, I will create them a perfume. So it's like, here's your scent. You know, so that, like, that's our thing. I upgrade my man. Yeah. Big time. But anyway, so. That's a hack right there. Because everyone buys the same cologne. You know, you could tell. Yeah. Like, whether it's Gucci or whatever cologne. I'm like, oh, that's Dior. Oh. Yeah, no, literally. I know my scent so well. So I'm like, no. I will wear my own thing. I mean, to the extent that people are, they'll come up to me in the street and be like, I'm so sorry to stop you. But I used to be that girl until I learned what the enigma was. And by enigma, I mean, why is that person so enigmatic? Being enigmatic is what Marilyn Monroe was. She'd walk into a room and you couldn't place her. You couldn't put her in a box. You couldn't understand her. She was mysterious. So I am Marilyn Monroe. Yeah, she was one of a kind. People still talk to her to this day. That's how impactful she was. Oh, no. She's so amazing. I went to her grave. Oh, yeah. It's here in LA. Really? Yes. I didn't know that. It was wild. And it was so emotional. I just cried. I think it's a video on my Instagram. If you scroll down, I was wearing a pink outfit. And I just cried so much. I didn't know I was going to feel that. Oh. Yeah, it was wild. So when you walk into a room, you do the Marilyn Monroe effect. But you have something that stands out that you wear. So it could be the wildest earrings or the craziest hat. or like you know you wear a big scent and then you walk in and you go straight towards your thing you sort of walk with like a an essence you walk with an energy with an aura and when you do that you are naturally magnetizing to you people who are wanting to be a part of your world who are like wow what is that it's more what is that than who it's like what just came in so whenever you see a woman walk into a restaurant or dude and the people's heads are just turning it's their energy but they know these things yeah have you seen dudes being able to pull that off yeah all the time guys who wear slightly out there shit and like they'll you know they'll they'll dress nice but there's something offbeat but it's not offbeat it's cool it's fashion but it stands out and it's like i'd be after this everyone's gonna come on your show and be wearing bjorn's scarf I'll be like everyone you see is a fan of your show be like I learned that from her I'm wearing something crazy but you just add it to your thing so that when you go in a room you instantly stand out you instantly have something which sets you apart from everybody else yeah everyone's just copying each other these days I mean you got to have your own personal brand right that's super important personal branding is everything I mean you have a really strong personal brand so if we look at you you're always wearing digital social hour everywhere you go people know you for your amazing look the way that you present yourself the particular glasses that you wear every single detail is a part of your brand can we go here there's you i'm guessing this is like right this is like a mini you so your brand is everywhere the backing right here everything the coloring of it it's blue we know your personal brand that's how fierce it is now we'll look at virgin virgin is not a personal brand but it's a brand all red when you think of any person who has built a business their personal brand is really strong in the way it comes across and it's public and it's online and they're in media and they're everywhere they have worked on themselves in a way of being public and worked on their authority authority is everything when you look at somebody who has a strong personal brand Gary V we know him by the five because that's a strong personal brand When you look at me, you know me by scripting. We know people for different things. Okay. So everybody has something which is their thing. We call it your USP, your unique selling point. So what is your unique selling point? And somebody here will sit with me and some of my clients when they come to me, they'll be like, my selling point is that my unique selling point is that I help people get over limousine beliefs. I'm like, like the other 999,000 coaches that do that. What else do you do? And then we finally, after many sessions, find something like Mel Robbins, The High Five, Gary Vee, The Five, Garak Cardone, 10X, Natasha Graziano, scripting. We each have something which is going to be in books, podcasts, everywhere, on all sorts of interviews on TV and in publications because you have something so unique which the world wants to know. Yeah. I don't really chase trends anymore. I just want clothes at work, feel good, and last. I stopped buying a lot of clothes. I started buying better ones. 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Life insurance is never cheaper than it is today get the right life insurance for you for less and save more than 50 percent at selectquote.com slash dsh save more than 50 percent on term life insurance at selectquote.com slash dsh today to get started at selectquote.com slash dsh how's the scripting going you still doing it every day i love it have you tried it yeah so you came on my show right two years ago and i tried it I like it. I still do it, actually. Really? Yeah. You know, it's so beautiful because journaling has been proven scientifically to change your life. Journaling has been proved to help you in so many ways, physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, to get through things, to overcome situations. Scripting is a version of journaling. Scripting is the... Such poor form of podcast host. I had my first asylum. scripting has been proven to help you achieve your goals faster because you're writing down in the past tense exactly what you want to achieve as though you've already achieved this you'll be like i became the number one podcaster i became the number one salesperson i became the number one in my field and you'll write about it as though it's already happened so it'll sound something like i became the number one salesperson utah and i made a hundred thousand dollars a week and And I built a multi-million dollar business. But here's the trick. When you're writing it down, not only is it A, in the past tense, B, pen to paper or pencil to paper, rather than typing, because it activates the ventrolateral prefrontal cortex in your brain. And your brain doesn't know as you're writing it down in the past tense, and all these things are happening at the same time, these actions, your brain doesn't know what you're writing down, whether it's real or imaginary. and it stores it as a memory. It's powerful. Before I started the show, I made a dream hunter list. You did? I was actually reviewing it last week. I love this. 67 out of 100 have been on the show. Kidding. Yeah. If I showed you that list three years ago, you would have, like, not you, but people would have laughed. They're like, yeah, good luck getting these people on the show. You know what I mean? Yeah, it's funny. I know what you mean. Like, when we, and you get those people who are naysayers and then when you stick to it And we are big manifestors. We write it down. You know, you put on paper, I'm going to do this, I'm going to do that. You wrote your 100 and you will tick off all 100. Yeah. I know it. I'm talking huge names. Like, I've always been laughed out of certain rooms. Really? Yeah, yeah. And you know how I started. I used to film on iPhones. You came on then. Thank you for showing me love early on. Always. I think this is my third time on here. Yeah, you've been on a few times. So you came on early, you took a chance on me, and I'll always appreciate it. You showed up in McLaren merch. Yes, I did. You were in a biggest group form. Literally. And I was like, I'm going to go and be on this amazing guy's show. And that was the start of our friendship. Yep. I was like, you know. Tommy scripting. Tommy writing in the past tense. It worked. It worked. Look at the show now. It's crazy. I'm so proud of me. The show is so insane. Everyone watches it. Your WhatsApp groups are just insane. They're so big. There's so many on Troop for North in there. It like there so much business happening If I ever need to promote a business or find out about a business or an idea you just drop a little comment in the group I did go the day and Larry who here with me now my literal godfather, the founder of E! who's also been on your show, I put a comment about something I was, you know, going to be doing soon. And, you know, Larry is coming back straight away and it creates excitement and people start talking and start replying. So you have a great group. The power of connection. And people always ask me why I do these connections, why I do these intros for free and I don't charge. And I believe in karma. You know, I believe it'll come back to me. So when two people in the group chat meet up and do business together, I think that will come back to me. I believe it does. And actually, some people who meet in that group, who perhaps, like, let's say an IPO was happening or perhaps somebody was investing in a business or going to do like a big affiliate deal. Yeah. Somebody at some point is going to give you a call and go, send me your bank details. Yeah, I hope so. Because there've been... It won't be me. Don't be worried. That's the kind of thing I do. Shah, is that not something that I do? It is. I literally, this is one of my like girlfriends who I also work with. And I called her one day and I said, hey, send me a bag details. Do you remember this person you introduced me to? I coached her. Send me a bag details. Yeah. But I'm loyal because I want her to send me more people. I want her to show up every day and be like, you know what? What else can we do together? So now whenever I have offers, I'll call Shah and a couple of my other girlfriends who are like really powerful into selling, like have their own shit going on. And then they'll go and call their clients. And I'm just loyal like that. You know, I don't ever want to be that person who is sneaky and behind people's backs. Because when you take, the universe just takes right back for you. I mean, every time I give, I just receive abundance back. So even on times where I've had a sales girl work for me and she pushed the commission crazy. And they, you know, they'll be like, we did really well on this. Can I get a little bit more? And I'm like, you know what? I'm going to do it. And then abundance comes back in. The more you give, the more you get. Absolutely. And it goes both ways. When you look at scammers or people that make money in the fairest ways, they always lose it. You know what? You're so right. And that comes down to give more value than what you are charging. When you are giving a product, selling a product, you have to give immense value in order to receive more gold back. It goes back to Napoleon Hill. You must always give more value in the services, in the products, in the things rendered that you are doing than what you are asking for in your weight in gold. And that's how we make money. That's how we make money fast because I give so much value to my clients. I give so much value to helping them build their personal brand, helping them get out that bad mindset, helping them build a business, helping them get exposure and be seen online. and I give so much that they'll be like whoa that's like a a huge package that you're doing for this and I'm like yeah because I believe in you yeah so when people come and say hey can I get a discount I'm like a discount off the discount is crazy I don't do discounts also yeah no I don't believe in yourself you can't you either see the value like you know okay for example with podcasts we have shows which are very successful we have A-list stars on yeah and if you have a guest who is completely unknown, has never invested in themselves online, has never bothered to grow their social media, hasn't put in the sweat, blood and tears that people like you and I have gone through financially, emotionally, physically, spiritually to get to where we are, okay? Our partners, our world, they know what we've been through. That you get somebody who just says, hey, can I come on your show? Of course, but you are unknown. You will kill my ratings and kill my reviews, frankly. So respectfully, my production team is going to charge you. And boom. Then they're like, why am i paying but okay come back to me in one year when you've invested in yourself got a coach got out there gone and played paid to play on bigger podcasts now come to me 100% know what i mean yeah 100% we have costs we got editing costs we got travel costs you coming on we're losing money you know what i mean yeah yeah i i say that to them same shit like it costs me more to have a guest on than it does like it's a podcast really starts for fun until you do big ads but then the big ads want to sponsor my celebrity shows they don't want to sponsor the random person so i have to take the loss somewhere else yeah shuffle it around so for sure if someone is watching today and you know you want to get on bigger shows hit up the big shows like sean's hit up the big shows like mine hit up the big shows and ask to go on but be prepared to pay yeah while you are growing and i believe in the pay-to-play model more than anything because it gets you on stages, OPS and OPP, other people's podcasts. And when you go on OPS and OPP, it will change your life. Oh, yeah. I think that one of the best investments I made was Mastermind. Really? Yeah, Dan Fletchman's. I spoke at the 100M1. Oh, that's the first one I joined. No. Yeah, that changed my life. Were you in that squad? I was in that when I was 20 years old. Congratulations. I would be youngest one, spend half my net worth on it at the time because I was young and only had, it's 100,000 to join. 100,000 to join, yeah. So I was just surrounded by just all these successful people and just that mindset and that frequency shift. Just, yeah, chase your game. I spoke at that. I love it. And now Zain and I are friends and we do a lot of stuff together. I know. I know. He loves you. So paying for rooms like that is what I'm saying is worth it. It is worth it because you get in the room. Pay for proximity. Get in the room. Be around the people rubbing shoulders with the right people. If you want to go on a bigger stage, you've got to invest in yourself to go on those stages sometimes until you have the name. But once you've been on Sean Kelly's podcast, once you've been on Natasha Graziano's podcast, once you've been on Dave Meltzer's podcast, now you can go to another show and say, I've been on these three. Now, I'm kind of going to put you on just because you've been on Sean. No, it's crazy to see how my show is sort of a stepping stone sometimes to some of these guys going on like Rogaine, Chris Williamson, all the other even bigger. I've seen that happen. Yeah. Gary Bracco is a good example. It's just pretty nuts. He's a great guy. Yeah. Shout out to Bracco. Changed my life. You've done like you did all the, I know, say. Did the gene test. Did the blood test. Is he still with TEDx? No. We talk a lot on this show about taking risks and trying to get ahead. But let's be real, the world feels shaky right now. AI is changing jobs. Markets are all over the place. Nothing feels guaranteed. And at some point, you realize no one's coming to save you. You've got to protect yourself. And one thing people forget about is life insurance. If you're new to it, you're not alone. That's why I checked out SelectQuote. They've been around for over 40 years and helped more than 2 million Americans find coverage that actually fits their life and budget. They compare policies from top rated insurance companies and do the work for you for free. You can even get same day coverage up to $2 million with no medical exam. Life insurance is never cheaper than it is today. Get the right life insurance for you for less and save more than 50% at selectquote.com slash dsh. Save more than 50% on term life insurance at selectquote.com slash dsh today to get started at selectquote.com slash dsh. Dang, so that was real. That was another friendship, business, partnership turn. That was wild because Guant's also real cool and he's been on my show. Yeah, that one was tricky because it was public. Yeah. And that gets dicey. I try and keep shit of my personal life offline because I'm such a public person so people will be like what the fuck are you talking about? Everything I want you to see is offline but anything that I don't want someone to see I just keep offline I don't believe in hanging out my dirty laundry online I feel like there's certain things which just should be kept under the rug and I'm the most open person about everything I'm open that I was a webcam girl 10-12 years ago I'm open that I was you know in that industry and have fucking a sex tape out there I don't give a fuck I talk about it's part of my story it's who I am today there is no shock you know don't start dating me and tell me I didn't know you had a sex tape why did you not do your research I talk about it on stage and this is the third time I've spoke about it on your show I talk about it all over the place you never want to hide your skeletons you get ahead of them so no one can come up to you and go i didn't know you're a webcam girl but i talk about it sweetheart it's how i use the money to transfer into other things and you know yeah build things and so i think just getting ahead of where you were and becoming the new you yeah yeah don't be ashamed of your past right everything happens uh what is it for you yes for a reason to out of a reason you're right well either happens to you or for you. So make it happen for you. Yeah, don't have the victim mindset. Fuck no. Victim mindset is the worst. I was the victim. I used to say, oh my God, you're the problem. You're the problem. But watch this. When I point the finger and go, you're the problem. One, two, three fingers are pointing back at who? At me. Who is the problem? I'm the problem. So even though they might be doing something to inflict your reaction, no, no, I can control my reaction. and I also am the problem for the way that I'm responding to this, attracted this. You can look at it however you want. Cause, effect, cause, effect. So I like to get ahead of things and be like, okay, I know I'd be triggered by that, so I'm not going to react in that situation. And never playing victim because when you are a victim, you will attract more victim shite to you. And all of a sudden, you're wondering why your life is crashing down. But you're playing the victim, oh, woe is me. life is so terrible i just got out of that years ago i just decided i'm gonna take responsibility i'm an eloquent educated woman and i am gonna take responsibility for the woman that i am i love that that's powerful you and i know a lot of successful people i've never met a successful successful person with a victim mindset you're right i don't think i have either because if they did they wouldn't be a multi-millionaire they wouldn't be a billionaire they wouldn't be a super successful entrepreneur or star. If you play the victim, you put yourself in a vulnerable position to have more attacks happen. I once did that. I was on that show, Big Brother. Oh, you were on that? Oh my God. I got to watch that one. Oh, horrendous when I was 21. So we're talking like freaking 13 years ago. Okay, so like, no. So I was the first out to check this out. Right, so it was fucking horrendous. It was the worst thing I ever did. but here's what happened when i did that show instead of being empowered i was super young didn't know better when i came out of that's how i got famous in the uk to start when i came out of there instead of being empowered and being like a real like badass who i am today because i don't know that version of me by them right i've i've shed that skin 10 times before i am natasha graziano i had a whole different name back then like anyway the point is when i was her in that moment in that energy i played the victim because i was coming out first so i walked out like oh no and i got booed when you get booed on stage i will tell you now you will never get booed again because you will learn from it and you will never allow yourself to get booed again because you played the victim which is why you got booed so if you play the victim and you play the oh no it's like when you're scared of a dog the dog will go for you if you show vulnerability if you show the victim mentality people will go for you you can't do that so if I come out of there like what's up they might have booed but they start to cheer okay so me going from that vulnerable weak victim girl to then years later fucking up my whole life and it all coming crashing down being in debt hundreds of thousands having a sickness being bed bound losing everything being a single mother pushed away the whole world and my family going through these awful things in my life I could have played the victim. But instead, I found the inspiration inside of me to go on and inspire other people to go on and inspire their communities. And I became a motivational speaker. But who would have thought out of that victim girl would have come this motivational woman that you see today? Crazy. Now you're one of the highest paid motivational speakers in the world. Nuts, right? Crazy. Wow. And that was just 13 years ago. Right. You can change at any point. At any point, you can change your life. It just takes you deciding, you know what? Today's the day. And you don't have to go the full 100% today. You just get 1% better today. 1% better the next day. 1% better the 1% full. Can you get 1% better every single day? And if you can, you will be at 100% in 100 days. And all of a sudden, you are a whole different person. I say to people, I'm so sorry that you don't know the version of me now because I'm not the same person that I was 10 years ago let alone yesterday people don't know that version of me then and I love her but she's not me yeah I mean we are constantly evolving learning more right I look at some of the texts I sent even though you're gone I'm like cringing you know what I mean oh yeah same I look back like looking at some of the shit I would say like two potential clients I'm like that's so not it you don't know if you read back yeah oh my god so the best thing about instagram you can press unsend oh thank god they added that because they didn't always have that we need that was a fire feature well i have had like celebrities come on my show now who i hit up in 2021 like just started the show and i was like hey taking a chance on you right whereas like now it's like hey bro 25 of your friends have been on and like you know yeah i have the same thing yeah i'll unsend it and i unsend him resend it yes that's funny that's funny You have to. There is no fucking way that I'm going to leave those messages on fucking red. Because you can't have three unanswered in a row. So you've got to unsend. See a blue. Nobody wants to see a blue when you're dating or in business. Unsend, unsend, unsend. And if you're in the text thread, don't do the delete thing. Because then it says message deleted. Oh, I didn't know that. Yeah, that's real. Because texts, you only have five minutes to unsend, right? Or something like an hour. I don know actually about it I know you can shake your phone It will like ruin certain things I don know Definitely on email But if you do that on iPhone But if you are texting somebody and you press delete for everyone so it says delete for me or delete for everyone. That feature only lasts for X amount of time. I'm not sure how long. I think it's like 24 hours or however long it is. Don't quote me, but it's something in that vein. And when you press unsend, it will then basically delete for everyone. It deletes for everyone, but it says deleted message. And so now I'm like, what was that? That's why. How did you just delete? Like, what did you tell me? I've had people in business go crazy at me who have unsent things and it not deleted properly. Like some parts of it wouldn't go. And I'm like, what happened? Damn. And then they'll be like, sorry, I had an imperfect breakdown. I'm like, I can see that. Jeez. But only one part of your message. How bad were the other parts? Wow. I know. Do you make your trust issues because of stuff like that? You know what? The truth is, I think I actually am realizing I still have embedded trust issues from trauma of, I mean, look, I'll go all the way back. I've never told anybody this. So when I was in my mom's womb, be in mind, the womb is the breath of life. It's the womb of life, right? The earth is the womb. I was in my mom's belly and I was eight months. So one month away from being Jew. And my mom walked in on my dad with the nanny. No way. So she sees upstairs in the house, shoes outside the door. She sees my dad's shoes outside the nanny's door. And she's like, that doesn't make any sense. Why would his shoes be outside the nanny's door facing inward? Anyway, she opened the door. so I sorry dad I hope you didn't see that but like fuck but anyway it's like I love him still but that created unbearable trauma for me I was born into a world through stress I was born two days later wow so I came out early so when someone says like you have trust issues it's like bro you try coming into the world through a trust issue yeah you know so that doesn't leave you right it doesn't really so i have to work on it all the time so i'm like constantly working on trust issues but at least i'm working through them and i'm like they're present with it and i'm not like trying to hide it or something but you know i'm better i'm way better but in business too like i'm really careful with who i let into my circle like i don't have too many people around me for that reason because i just don't trust people enough so i keep the same people around me and it's just I don't really like no difference. 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No, you got to move smart at a certain level in business, especially these days with like handlers and people trying to control your life. I thought you were the same. You're exactly the same. Like you think the same like that. Like you just can't. There's too many people who like see too much and just like want to assassinate what you have just because of your success. Yeah. I also won't take a sales call in front of a friend, in front of my family, in front of a partner. Interesting. Will not take a sales call. You know why? because when i'm talking about multi six figure seven figure deals on the phone right this could be for anyone whether you're selling real estate or a coaching program or anything in between when you sit in someone else's energy imagine i'm sitting there going hey okay so wait are you good with a million you're gonna set you're gonna wire a million for this program tomorrow the person sitting next to you right miss x mr x they perhaps are a hairstylist who have never seen a million dollars in one transaction because they charge 120 dollars now maybe that hairstylist has a whole business so they have seen that kind of transaction but if you are sitting next to somebody that has a career or a job that has never even seen transactions of that kind in their lifetime let alone in a two minute deal or a two hour deal it is unheard of so what happens is subconsciously indirectly on accident they end up sending what we call and i have it on the evil eye and they send it to you by mistake because they can't fathom those numbers now they're not even sitting there thinking they're not even going they're going i wish i was her i wish i earned that money then they're really thinking innocent things they're going i want to do it i want to do that oh why do they have it and not me and in their mind that little like person inside them that like evil character that sneaks up on them imposter syndrome essentially is sitting there telling them why them why not you and now they're sending energy and thoughts have frequency so i never make a call in front of somebody i just feel like the evil eyes on you that is great advice i'm gonna start doing that never i will i will not sit and do a single deal i will be like hey i'm gonna hit you right back or i'm gonna go out the room i won't even do it in front of a partner because again the partner might be making way more money than you but all of a sudden they're threatened by your success or they're making way less than you and they are super insecure about your success so i just have a golden rule i do not take a single sales call and if i'm on a sales call i will tell them i'll text you the numbers if there is no way of me getting off the aeroplane with certain people i'll be like i'll text you the numbers now and then i will even pretend i'll even mute the phone like this while i'm on the phone with the people around me and be like yes so it'll be like a hundred dollars so that the audience doesn't have the evil eye that it was a hundred thousand dollars so i'll i'll be like yeah a hundred you know but that obviously means 100k i don't even do business for under like if i am you know yeah you do high ticket high ticket although saying that i do have a low ticket oh yeah coming is that the ai twin yeah let's go so how does that work for people watching well you like ai right yeah i love i use it every day right like how do you use AI? For health. So I'll import my blood work. I'll import my scans. Yeah, it gives phenomenal health. Yeah, you can take blood work, right? Download the PDF, import it into whatever AI you use, ask for holistic advice because I don't take any Western medicine. And then it gives phenomenal advice. And I do that on Claw, Gemini, Grok, and ShaftyBT. So I get four different opinions. And usually they're all pretty similar opinions. I use it for business when I'm preparing for guests. It'll summarize podcasts for me. It'll summarize books. how do you get to summarize a podcast um you basically there's a chrome extension so you go on youtube click the chrome extension summarize the whole episodes gives you the key talking points because to watch a two-hour podcast oh and i have to watch five for my guests you watch five well watch i use the ai to summarize so that would take a lot of time wow that's insane okay well talking of things and duplicating this is exactly what i created I may have done something a little bit batshit crazy, but I cloned myself. Wow. So I decided that everybody for years has been asking me about my coaching. I want your love advice. I want your dating advice. I want your business advice. Show me how to grow my name. Show me how to build my personal brand. And there's just so many people that I can't physically in a week get to everybody and even in a year. So I was like, people want me around the clock. They want me 24-7 when I make my twin. so for the last year i've been working really closely with training my twin who is she looks like me talks like me she may as well smell like me i mean she has everything just like me she is phenomenal she coaches like me she has my framework in business she has my framework of my thinking in all the answers i even ask her advice and it gives me exactly what i would say that it's wildly on point we've done so much work with her she sounds like me i mean it's literally talking to me and you sit there and you're like whoa i actually feel like i'm with natasha so if you have a question like at 11 p.m at night and they're like oh my boyfriend's driving me crazy you don't have to wait until your session in two weeks or you don't have to pay tens of thousands of dollars to work with me you can just go and get this for like i think it's 30 bucks a month and you can have unlimited questions and just talk to me and just ask things and i'm sitting right there looks like me sounds like me it's my twin and it's dope it's like yeah you get this coaching but like i mean two figures i could probably see a lot of people copying you if that works yeah it's actually really cool i should use these in the company yeah please it's phenomenal i will actually i'll put in a text right after this it is so good because it's somebody who can just talk and like they are you and so even i'll ask my own advice i'll be like hey what should i do and then it tells me what to do or it's so great and it's good for every single area in love and health and and wealth, and money, and finances, and success, and marriage, and everything. And she's so advanced. And she even has my tone when I'm in my motivational side or when I'm super soft. She does meditations for me. No way. Yeah, she can put you to sleep at night. Wow. I really hope that it doesn't go further than that. Yeah. But I didn't even think about it. Yeah, what if someone asked it for phone sex or something? It probably will say like ChatGVT does. Have you ever tried with ChatGVT? Well, not to have sex like that. I've asked it about the Epstein files, like, because I was looking for survivors to interview. And it said, I can't do that. So I asked it for fun. So I asked it one night. I wanted to see, like, for fun. And I was going to take a picture of it and film the whole thing and put it on my Instagram. But yeah, no, it's one of those things that, like, you know, you want to, like, the twin is something that you want to either have yourself, if you're watching this and you want to do it, like, get your own twin. It is so good. And your AI has been so phenomenal. I am so grateful. I absolutely love it. So, yeah, it's just been so cool. So my twin is out now. So you can literally go online and go and talk to me and not have to pay multiple. Nice. Yeah. I love the audio. Because imagine having an Natasha twin in your pocket or like Alex Ramosi or Elon Musk, whoever you idolize, right? Right. And imagine having that for 30 bucks in your pocket. A hundred. literally you don't need to pay the bigger prices if you're gonna have this you know version of me but the one-to-one is for the top level entrepreneurs it's for entrepreneurs who are like you know what i'm ready to invest in myself and you know maybe you're just starting out who want to get ahead in where they are it's like exposure you're paying to get someone to show you results-based coach of how you can transform your life and then scale it scale your business Yeah, you had some big names to your one-to-one. Yeah. Big names. It's been cool. That's impressive. Yeah. A lot of people can land those clients. Right. And, you know, I think what we do is we give to those kind of clients, like the big A-list stars. A lot of the time, you know, some pay, but some of them, they were gifts at first. Yeah. But those are the ones that bring your other high-tech. Yeah. That's how I approach the podcast, too. Oh, yeah. For sure. Certain guys you know you're inviting on because they got a network. Right. They're going to bring some heavy hitters. Right. And I love that. and like bring those people off. Yeah, please. We love that. I mean, it's so fun. Like, podcasting is everything. It changed my life. Oh my God, the networking's insane. I'm learning so much. I had on a billionaire right before you. Just like... God, I love it. It's crazy. I know. You were actually just sitting and listening to people. It's like... And you are such a sponge for information. I feel like you're super bright, and you pick up information and then... Yeah. That's the Aquarius of me, I think. Yeah. Oh, definitely. I mean, the thing with knowledge. knowledge is just knowledge until applied and then it becomes power you've got to apply the knowledge in order for it to change your life otherwise it just literally sits in the bank of your brain and it's just there and it doesn't get applied so the trick is when you hear something go share it so take this episode go share it with five friends instantly so that you can share something and go hey watch this and by the way i'm gonna just like give you something that i loved in it uh go to like point three or like i love where this we were learning about this particular topic when you regurgitate information to people it is embedded in your brain and you learn it faster yourself it sticks and now you can take it out into the world yeah i've seen that you learn the most from teaching yeah you do it's ironic right um but i'm all about taking action that's what separates you and i from like because there's people that consume a ton of information but they don't take action no like they if they just watched your show every single is once a week once a day shit you're at once a day yeah we used to do two of that wait seven a week yeah we used to do three of that actually seven guests a week at least yeah holy shit i didn't even fucking know that yeah where have i been we got a four month backlog it's crazy so you film like how long 1200 episodes i film two to three times a week four episodes a day holy yeah this was the fifth one today and they're all long about 45 okay beautiful wow yeah but you got to take action like listen to the podcast but then put it into ai and ask how can i take action exactly like take an episode and do something with it so here is a great example listen to your podcast every single day it's seven days a week learn a new thing from every single thing that you listen write it down and now go take it out in the world on your instagram be like love this on the uh digital social hour podcast and by the way it changed my life like go out there and use your knowledge like that is what you got to do watch my show and you going to learn about the rule of attraction secrets you going to learn about like mindset you can learn about like how to better your life through these certain secrets of the world that have been hidden from so many people so you go and do different things and listen to different things so that you learn different things and if you do something different you'll get a different result because if you always did what you always did you'll always get what you always got wow that's a bar right there i love that yeah you crush the mindset stuff you have on some brilliant people on your show. Thank you. Yeah, I really love it. I'm like, I'm so excited to just like, when are you coming on eventually? I know, I gotta come on. Next time I'm out here. Just literally, next time you're here, we'll just do it. Your studio's right there. I know. I fly into Burbank. We talk a lot on this show about taking risks and trying to get ahead. But let's be real, the world feels shaky right now. AI's changing jobs, markets are all over the place, nothing feels guaranteed, and at some point, you realize no one's coming to save you. You've got to protect yourself, and one thing people forget about is life insurance. If you're new to it, you're not alone. That's why I checked out SelectQuote. They've been around for over 40 years and helped more than 2 million Americans find coverage that actually fits their life and budget. They compare policies from top rated insurance companies and do the work for you for free. You can even get same day coverage up to $2 million with no medical exam. Life insurance is never cheaper than it is today. Get the right life insurance for you for less and save more than 50% at SelectQuote.com slash DSH. Save more than 50% on term life insurance at SelectQuote.com slash dsh today to get started at selectquote.com slash dsh. All the time. Really? Five minutes from here. Okay, we're doing it. So next thing we're here, set aside, tell me to come, and then we'll just switch it. Yeah, we'll do it for sure. 100%. Oh, my God. Are we going to do like, oh, my God. Finally, like that feeling. I know. It was because you're podcasting so much. In Vegas, yeah. Do you go on other people's shows? Rarely. I'm selective. You gotta be. You have to. I saw Tony Robbins, I think it was. Yeah, Tony Robbins only does five podcasts a year. That's how he does it. He chooses five shows a year because you don't want to be on every podcast. Then you gotta leave your brand. Yeah, so it's like a game. That's interesting because some people are like, I want to go on 150 podcasts and they go and pay people to go and put them on 150 podcasts, but it's like the most random. It's the same message over and over. You don't have 150 different messages. No. You know what I mean? I feel like when you go on a show, you're going to give it something every time it's something different you got to give something new because people watch the same show so they're gonna see you twice basically say the same thing like what the hell what is that so how many will you do i'm gonna stick to one a day for now we might go down to 20 of that if the numbers make sense i mean 20 a month sorry wow 20 no i mean how many shows will you go on as well oh i'll probably do 10 to 15 a year love that yeah that's actually quality shows that's like one a month yeah and i'm going on some big ones i just went on laura laura cleary she's out here oh cool yeah we have to do some like yeah she did a one for you um yeah oh maria menounas that's a good one that's a brilliant one okay yeah she's amazing she's calling my show i've been on hers who else's was really transformative bradley's that's a good one yeah that's a really good he's been on mine but i gotta go on his yeah right he's online i've been on his possibly god it goes back though doesn't it like years so many things that we've done over the time i love shows that vegas has got it though you guys have the best i think we're number we're number one or number two for pods right now are you i think so i want to name you five shows in vegas right now that are huge oh you're saying vegas is number one as i say you aren't you number one too you're really i'm either i'm top three in vegas yeah we got hodge twins ice coffee hour bradley yeah dave uh melzer um eric warre oh yeah yeah there's some big dog poor mozi oh yeah some big dogs in vegas you've got some yeah you do you You have some really big shows there. Here's interesting. I just, I love it. Podcast has changed the world for everyone. Podcasting is the way forwards. Like I literally, I love having people on my show and just learning and absorbing information and going into a zone and taking that energy and just like, it will change my day. No longer when I cook, do I go on the phone to a girlfriend and chat shit. I will press play on a podcast that I pre-saved ahead of the week. I got 10 to 15 episodes that I need to get through in that week and I will make time. Same. 2x speed when I walk, when I'm at the gym, in the sauna. Love the 2x speed. It's so much better. Depending on the show, sometimes 1x5. Yeah. Don't 10x my name. Square is my name, darling. I only need one. I'm fine. You bring energy. There's certain people who talk fast who don't need it, but if you have a really slow voice and you talk, you're going to 2x it. Yeah. So do you think guys should pay for dates even if they're younger than you? So I believe that the man on a first date should pay hands down. Like, I just want to be spoiled. But if a guy is younger than you, then honey, I'm going to be your sugar mama. I don't even care. Like, I just am successful enough to know that at your age, if you're 10 years younger than me, you may not, but you might be, depending on if you're like a superstar or an athlete. Like, you are probably not going to be earning as much as a girl who is older than you in that situation. So therefore, you are likely to pay for things for them. But would I allow an older guy, if I was dating an older guy, and bear in mind I married one 24 years older than me the first time, would I have it any other way where I would pay for him? Hell no. If you're older than me, best believe you've got your shit together. I want a house, a car, and everything else. And you are going to provide. But maybe if you're younger, come to mama. Okay. Would you date someone way younger than you? I already am. He's 10 years younger than me. A bit less than 10 years younger than me. But like we are so compatible and I love it. And I just say to people, if you are dating any age, it doesn't matter. It's a sole thing. You can date someone 10 years younger than you, 10 years older, 20 years older, 20 years younger. But if you're dating someone, just know you're going to be at different points in your life. You're going to have like points of confliction and you just have to like work around those things but ultimately i am not looking to be your mom i made jokes about being a sugar mama but like i am not looking to be your mama if you behave like a king i can be in my queen energy and i can be in my feminine if you behave like a boy i have to be your mother and i will send you home to your mother and that's your masculine energy right yeah so that brings up my masculine energy so i'm not looking to date a boy who is you know acting like a boy at 25 26 24 whatever like age for me is irrelevant as long as you are a man yeah and you allow me to hang my pants at the door because i'm one of the most alpha females you're gonna meet and that is hard for some guys to date even 100 like i need a real masculine man but that doesn't mean a hard face like that means he is so loving and soft but my god he's masculine he's gonna pick you up and just could you date someone that didn't make as much money as you yep that is so crazy to say but yep i could because if they have ambition to make money they will grow and if you're in my presence i assure you darling you will be a millionaire i make people millionaires like you're going to make money the first thing i do when i sit down with someone that i'm dating is i go through how they make money what are your multiple streams of income you only have two okay problem you need seven you need seven streams of income so if we're dating what are we building together what's our family business gonna look like are we gonna get married and where is this going like i am looking at us as a brand as a power couple if it doesn't fit into that ciao yeah i feel uh wow so you get in there with them oh yeah like i'm cool with it like books open up the books straight away like and also talk to me like if you're going through it don't like suffer inside like they do and i'm like yo like it's okay i'll just invest in you for a while we'll like do something but like don't don't bring it out later and be like you know and resentful that i'm making money they're scared that you'll leave them that's why they hide it oh yeah that's why guys feel shame because they're like the breadwinner and i just don't care i'm like you will be the breadwinner one day and then i also empower them by letting them know like first of all i don't do sales calls around them as i told you i don't let them know what's in my bank account and i don't let them know what's coming in the daily like i just keep it quiet i used to be like babe oh my god i did a 200 000 deal again today like i used to be like really out there and now i'm like that really kills a man's like masculinity he's not making as much as you and if he is then he's empowered by you but he also don't like it he's threatened by the fact that you make money you don't need him yeah the best piece of advice i have to give to women is earn your own money i don't care what you're doing whether you are a housewife or whether you are somebody who is building a business and you're with a man or you're looking to marry for money. Build your own business. Don't have your man buy you bags and watches. Have your man invest in your business. So whenever I coach women, I'm like, okay, you have sugar daddy? I'm like, what did he just buy for you? She's like, five Louis Vuitton bags. I'm like, slow clap. I'm like, what is that doing for your life? Get your man or the sugar daddy, wherever the fuck you're dealing with to invest in your business because that is going to change your life. You never want to be in a position where you can't leave a man because he provides such an insane lifestyle that you're now stuck in it and you're going to be back to driving the Honda Civic with the fucking broken tire. Like, you don't want to be back as that bitch. So upgrade your life and earn your own money and build your own business so you are never stuck in a marriage or a relationship. Or sugar daddies are a common day in LA. I've never met one. I mean, you wouldn't necessarily. hey what's up i'm a sugar daddy like actually it's so crazy uh i think it's very common like when i was young i'm sure i had a sugar daddy doesn't mean you have to actually get with them sexually but like you don't actually like it's all around you people will date a guy particularly older and he'll be like providing for her paying her bills probably like you know i once had someone like helped me out of the situation when i was a single mom you like paid my bills and shit i wasn't having sex with him sugar daddies are traditionally like people that you're like hooking up in some way uh like my body count is super low and i'm oh yeah like i talk about this with like my my partner i'm like my body count is like hugely low and i'm sometimes embarrassed by like how low it would even yeah because it makes me feel like i haven't actually been out there sexy with people but the truth is i just keep myself like really away from people like i just don't i've never just yeah i'm proud of mine really yeah oh wait i'm proud of my body count is it ridiculously yes no no it's super low okay it's either a thousand or it's one yeah it's one oh my god wow congratulations it's wild that's yeah no picture me sleeping with a thousand that's really funny in a way yeah like you're a cool guy i mean i get a lot of dms yeah like i easily could have like right right could have done that but that's disgusting man i agree like how do you and i'm the same as a woman i'm like it's disgusting if i get sent a dick pic which i rarely do seldom do i because people just don't look at me like i don't i'm not a thirst trap i don't go online and post in little tiny bikinis rarely i will be wearing something that's like there's a reason for me in a certain fit like i just don't do the like you know because i was that and i was selling my body but i'm not selling my body anymore and i don't need to sell my body like my body's a part of who I am as everyone should be so proud of her body but I am not selling that it is not a thing and so you know if I get a dm of a dick pic I'm so put off by it like I find it I can't believe guys saying that that's wild yeah like well I don't get so many but I know girls do but it's disgusting but how do you like avoid when you get dms like are you just like mentally strong um with girls it's not even a thought because I'm sapiosexual so I'm only it's when you're track it to intelligence overlooks so like if a girl messages me like doesn't mean honey they give it why can't more men be sapious yeah so with friendships too like i prefer intelligence that's like the number one oh i agree you know having somebody who's bright and smart and understands it's so much better like i want to be brain fucked versus being like i just don't enjoy that you know so it's it's much better to get into my heart and my head through my my mind Like that's really where I go with this. Yeah, you can orgasm just from that. Can you? Yeah. I just really- Yeah. Wow. Yeah. What, from like someone talking to you? Yeah, just from talking. But like, does it have to be sexual chat? Um, no, it could just be super intellectual conversation. Really? What? Yeah. Oh my God. Someone's having an orgasm talking about robotics. Someone else having an orgasm talking about, you know, Einstein's laws. Laws, like, that's incredible. I never would have thought about that. Yeah, look into that. Wow, that's crazy. I will. I might try that. Test it off. Sit with my partner, Baby Chalk Einstein. Well, this is great. Where can people watch your show, get your AI and all that? Oh my God, amazing. So, Law of Attraction Secrets Podcast is the name of my show. Y'all can find it right here on the same platform you're listening to this. It's available everywhere. And that is where you will learn about mindset and bettering your life, leveling the fuck up. Let's go. And then Natasha Graziano is just my name everywhere. Right now, you can get my twin and get access to her right now if you want to just be coached by me and you just want to, like, give it a go. It's so exciting. Oh, my God. Let me know you like it. Check it out, guys. Click the link below. Peace.