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Vanessa Marin

Mentioned in 19 analyzed podcast episodes across 3 shows

Sex therapist and co-host of Pillow Talks with over 20 years of clinical experience. Known for addressing common sexual concerns and relationship intimacy issues, including co-authoring the New York Times bestseller 'Sex Talks' and developing the Finishing School course. Regularly shares professional expertise and personal insights on topics ranging from orgasm and communication to maintaining connection during challenging times.

Episode Appearances

Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · May 21, 2026

E261: ED, PE & Everything In Between: Your Performance Problems Solved (Part 2)

Sex therapist with 20+ years experience co-hosting podcast and providing clinical insights on sexual dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction (ED) and medication disclosure in relationshipsPremature ejaculation (PE) and anxiety management techniquesDelayed ejaculation and realistic expectations for intercourse duration
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · May 14, 2026

E260: How To Orgasm Like A Man: Breaking The Blocks That Keep Women Stuck

Sex therapist with 20+ years experience; co-hosts podcast and created Finishing School orgasm course

Female orgasm blockages and psychological barriersBody image anxiety during sexual activityCommunication and feedback in intimate relationships
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · May 7, 2026

E259: Sex and Intimacy After Kids: What Actually Works (From Parents Who've Figured It Out)

Licensed marriage and family therapist with 20+ years experience; co-host providing expert framework for relationship advice

Scheduled sex and intentional intimacy planning for busy parentsNon-sexual touch and physical affection maintenanceMental load distribution and household equity
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Apr 30, 2026

E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire

Co-host with 20+ years of sex therapy experience; shares personal sobriety journey and professional perspective on substance use and intimacy

Alcohol and sexual performance (erectile dysfunction, delayed orgasm, reduced sensation)Cannabis and sexual sensation (heightened touch, altered time perception, paranoia effects)Consent and intoxication in long-term relationships
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Apr 23, 2026

E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming

Co-host with 20+ years experience in sex therapy providing relationship and intimacy advice

Relationship boundaries and oversharing with friends/familySexual communication and initiation in long-term relationshipsApartment living and noise complaints during intimate moments
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Apr 16, 2026

E256: Doggy Style: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure

Co-host with 20+ years of sex therapy experience providing detailed sex education and relationship advice

Doggy Style Positioning and LogisticsFemale Orgasm and Clitoral StimulationSex Position Variations and Modifications
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Apr 9, 2026

E255: The Sexiest Thing You're Not Doing in Bed…Mutual Masturbation

Co-host with 20+ years of sex therapy experience discussing mutual masturbation techniques and relationship advice

Mutual masturbation techniques and initiation strategiesOvercoming shame and embarrassment around masturbationFemale sexual pleasure and masturbation techniques
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Mar 26, 2026

E253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sex

Co-host with 20+ years of sex therapy experience; primary expert providing relationship and sexual wellness advice throughout episode

Body image and confidence in intimate settingsResponsive vs. spontaneous sexual desireManaging mismatched sexual preferences in relationships
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Mar 19, 2026

E252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead)

Licensed sex therapist with 20+ years experience co-hosting podcast and creating sex education course

Age-appropriate sex education frameworksParental communication strategies for sensitive topicsBreaking generational shame cycles in families
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Mar 12, 2026

E251: What’s Your Desire Type? Our NEW Framework for Understanding What You and Your Partner Really Want

Sex therapist with 20+ years experience; co-host and co-developer of the four-desire-type framework

Spontaneous vs. responsive desire modelsBrain-first vs. body-first desire activationEmotional-connection-first vs. physical-connection-first intimacy preferences
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Mar 5, 2026

E250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + areolas)

Co-host with 20+ years sex therapy experience; drives relationship and sexual dynamics discussion

Mental load in relationships and household labor equityGender socialization and its impact on sexuality and intimacyFemale breadwinner dynamics and male identity
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Feb 26, 2026

E249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do?

Sex therapist with 20+ years experience and co-host; shared personal struggle with orgasm and developed Finishing School course.

Female orgasm dysfunction and barriers to pleasureFaking orgasms in relationshipsSexual communication with partners
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Feb 19, 2026

E248: How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird)

Sex therapist co-host with 20+ years experience; co-author of 'Sex Talks' New York Times bestseller

Non-goal-oriented sexual communication techniquesOvercoming sexual shame and performance anxietyInitiating sex conversations with resistant partners
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Feb 12, 2026

E247: Our Recent Foreplay Discoveries (and how to explore more)

Co-host and sex therapist with 20+ years of experience; shares relationship insights and personal sexual exploration experiments.

Foreplay techniques and positioningSexual communication in long-term relationshipsReducing performance anxiety during intimacy
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Feb 5, 2026

E246: How To Stay Connected When The World Feels Like It’s Burning

Sex therapist with 20+ years experience; co-host discussing relationship intimacy during crisis and activism guilt

Nervous system regulation and co-regulation in relationshipsImpact of chronic stress on sexual desire and libidoActivism guilt and pleasure during political crises
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Jan 29, 2026

E245: What It’s Really Like to Start TRT: Xander’s Testosterone Journey

Co-host with 20+ years experience in sex therapy, provides clinical perspective and relationship impact observations

Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) - forms and delivery methodsFunctional Medicine - root cause approach to health optimizationHormone Testing and Blood Work Protocols
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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks · Jan 22, 2026

E244: How To Schedule Sex (our hot take)

Co-host with 20+ years sex therapy experience discussing scheduling sex and relationship intimacy

Scheduling sex and intentional intimacy planningResponsive vs. spontaneous sexual desireAnticipation and dopamine in sexual satisfaction
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The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Mel Robbins Podcast · Dec 25, 2025

9 Habits That Will Change Your Life: The Best Expert Advice I’m Using This Year

Licensed sex therapist with 20+ years practice; featured for research-backed advice on sex and intimacy

Getting Unstuck and Letting Go of Past IdentitiesAdult Friendship Dynamics and Natural PruningCancer Prevention Through Nutrition (Berries, Purple Sweet Potatoes, Cruciferous Vegetables, Beans, Edamame, Kiwi)
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The Peter Attia Drive

The Peter Attia Drive · Nov 3, 2025

#371 – Women's sexual health: desire, arousal, and orgasms, navigating perimenopause, and enhancing satisfaction | Sally Greenwald, M.D., M.P.H.

Author of 'Sex Talks' providing communication frameworks for couples discussing sexual preferences

Female orgasm physiology and four-stage model (excitement, plateau, orgasm, resolution)Clitoral anatomy including external tip, wishbone structures, and anterior vaginal branch (G-spot)Responsive vs. spontaneous desire and accelerator-brake neurotransmitter model
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