John Gottman
Mentioned in 12 analyzed podcast episodes across 10 shows
Prominent relationship researcher at the University of Washington whose scientific work on couple dynamics and conflict prediction is widely cited across psychology and wellness podcasts. Best known for identifying the "four horsemen of the apocalypse"—communication patterns that predict relationship failure—as well as concepts like the 5:1 positive-to-negative ratio and "love maps" that inform couples therapy and relationship counseling. His research on communication patterns, repair capacity, and acceptance of influence, conducted often in collaboration with Julie Gottman, provides evidence-based frameworks that podcasters reference when discussing relationship success and conflict resolution.
Appears On
Episode Appearances
Entrepreneur Parents - Pretty & Punk Podcast | Family Success, Business Tactics, Relationship Goals · Apr 8, 2026
Your Children Are Quietly Studying Your Marriage!
“Research cited regarding father-child interaction and emotional connection in family relationships”
Change Your Brain Every Day · Feb 23, 2026
How To Move on From People & Things That Aren't Working
“Relationship researcher cited for his work on 'four horsemen of the apocalypse' that predict relationship failure”
On Purpose with Jay Shetty · Feb 20, 2026
Stop Trying to “Win” An Argument With Your Partner! (THIS Shift Will Turn Conflict into Communication)
“Psychologist whose research on couples' communication patterns, repair capacity, and acceptance of influence is cited throughout the episode”
The Science of Happiness · Feb 12, 2026
The Science of Love (Episode 2)
“Co-researcher with Julie Gottman on long-term relationship success factors”
Huberman Lab · Feb 12, 2026
Essentials: The Science of Love, Desire & Attachment
“University of Washington researcher who identified the four horsemen predictors of relationship failure”
Speaking of Psychology · Feb 11, 2026
What relationship science says about finding love, with Paul Eastwick, PhD
“Relationship researcher whose work on couple dynamics and conflict prediction is discussed as complementary to Eastwick's research”
Women Road Warriors · Feb 10, 2026
Mind Training: The Science of Real Self-Empowerment
“University of Washington researcher who identified the 5:1 positive-to-negative ratio needed to sustain healthy relationships”
Sex With Emily · Feb 6, 2026
I Don't Know What I Want Sexually (Help)
“Relationship expert referenced for couples therapy approach involving taking sex off the table”
Dhru Purohit Show · Feb 4, 2026
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols
“Relationship researcher whose 'love maps' concept is cited as foundational to relationship satisfaction”
Something You Should Know · Jan 19, 2026
How to Adapt When Life Throws a Curveball & Understanding the Flow of Time
“Psychologist and relationship authority; research shows kindness and generosity determine relationship success”
Office Hours with Arthur Brooks · Oct 20, 2025
4 Ways to Love the People You Disagree With
“World's leading expert on marital reconciliation; identifies contempt (eye-rolling, sarcasm) as predictor of divorce”
Two Hot Takes · Aug 7, 2025
228: Something's Amiss.. Ft. Kamie Crawford
“Referenced for his research on 'four horsemen of the apocalypse' predicting relationship failure with 95% accuracy”