Esther Perel
Mentioned in 36 analyzed podcast episodes across 10 shows
A world-renowned relationship therapist and psychotherapist known for insights on modern love, desire, and relationship dynamics who hosts the podcast *Where Should We Begin?*, where she conducts real-time counseling sessions with callers. She is frequently cited across podcasts for her perspectives on attraction, infidelity, intimacy, and partnership, and has reached millions through her TED Talks and published works like *Mating in Captivity*. Her expertise spans dating trends, workplace romance, conflict resolution, and the complexities of maintaining passion in long-term relationships.
Appears On
Episode Appearances
James Reed: all about business · Jul 20, 2026
88. How to build a disruptive product without outspending industry giants | Mark Rushmore
“World-famous couples therapist; mentioned as business coach for another founder to support co-founder relationships”
Habits and Hustle · Jun 16, 2026
Episode 563: Sadia Khan: The Modern Relationship Advice Your Therapist Got Wrong
“Referenced as example of credible relationship advice-giver whose appearance conveys expertise and experience”
The Daily · Jun 13, 2026
Seth Rogen Knows the Secret to Marriage — and Being Rich in Hollywood
“Consultant on The Invite film; her philosophy on evolving relationships within long-term partnerships influenced the script”
The Dr. John Delony Show · May 13, 2026
Ask Me Anything #8: John Answers Your Questions
“Quoted regarding concept of multiple great loves within a single long-term relationship”
Young and Profiting with Hala Taha (Entrepreneurship, Sales, Marketing) · May 13, 2026
Dr. John Delony: The Mental Health Crisis Silently Destroying Entrepreneurs | Mental Wealth Series | E2
“Referenced for perspective on normalizing varied sexual intimacy and removing performative pressure from relationships”
Savage Lovecast · May 12, 2026
Savage Lovecast Episode 1018
“Co-host of Sessions Live event mentioned for May 15-16 in New York City”
How to Be a Better Human · May 11, 2026
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)
“Renowned therapist quoted for insight that 'trust is an active engagement with the unknown'”
Pleasure Project: Sex and Relationships · May 10, 2026
Getting What You Want w/ Jocelyn Silva | Szn. 4 Ep. 17
“Cited for her book 'Mating in Captivity' on how couples lose identity and desire through enmeshment”
Savage Lovecast · May 5, 2026
Savage Lovecast Episode 1017
“Co-hosting Sessions Live 2026 event in New York City with Dan Savage”
Savage Lovecast · Apr 21, 2026
Savage Love Episode 1015
“Organizer of Sessions Live 2026 conference; author of Mating in Captivity cited throughout show's 20-year history”
Call Her Daddy · Apr 15, 2026
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection
“Guest discussing modern relationships, infidelity, intimacy, codependency, and conflict resolution with extensive clinical experience”
Call Her Daddy · Apr 1, 2026
Becky G: Cheating & People Pleasing
“Relationship therapist and author whose work on infidelity and conscious uncoupling influenced Becky G's approach”
Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques · Mar 23, 2026
274. Choose Connection Over Perfection: Why Happiness Starts with Better Communication
“Cited by Lyubomirsky as admired communicator for surprising insights and expertise in relationships”
Modern Wisdom · Mar 16, 2026
#1072 - Dr Debra Soh - Why Nobody is Having Sex Anymore (& why it matters)
“Referenced for views on female arousal and partner desire in long-term relationships”
Girls Gotta Eat · Feb 23, 2026
Is It Me…or Are My Friends Leaving Me Out?
“Relationship expert quoted on podcast discussing attraction to partners pursuing passionate projects outside themselves”
Circle This · Feb 17, 2026
Unlocking the Truth About Love: Healing the Wound Beneath Conflict with Odette & Dave Annable (Part 1)
“Relationship therapist quoted for insight that most people have multiple marriages or committed relationships with the same person”
Girls Gotta Eat · Feb 16, 2026
2026 Dating Trends: Chalance, Friendfluence, Voice Notes, and More
“Dating and relationship expert; previously discussed on podcast regarding group dating and relationship dynamics”
Pleasure Project: Sex and Relationships · Feb 15, 2026
From Burnt Out to Turned On w/ Fernanda Bressan | Szn. 4 Ep. 1
“Facilitator of the Costa Rica retreat where Dr. Kennedy and Fernanda participated in rope play and somatic exploration exercises.”
Every Outfit · Feb 13, 2026
260: A Valentine's Day Mailbag Epsiode (Feat. Karley Sciortino)
“Relationship expert cited for concept that desire requires space and distance in partnerships”
What Now? with Trevor Noah · Feb 12, 2026
Dulce Sloan: Will You Be My Valentine?
“Relationship expert previously on podcast; discussed infinite choice in dating and modern relationships”
Fashion Neurosis with Bella Freud · Feb 11, 2026
Esther Perel
“World-renowned relationship therapist and author discussing fashion and therapeutic practice”
Savage Lovecast · Feb 10, 2026
Savage Lovecast Episode 1005
“Relationship expert cited for insight that 'the victim of the affair is not always the victim of the marriage'”
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel · Feb 9, 2026
I Have a Crush on a Coworker
“Relationship therapist and podcast host providing guidance on workplace romance, divorce recovery, and relationship decision-making”
Dhru Purohit Show · Feb 4, 2026
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols
“Relationship therapist and podcast guest referenced for insights on planned intimacy vs. spontaneity myth”
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel · Feb 2, 2026
Our Sex Life is a Disaster
“Therapist and host conducting one-time counseling session with couple; author of 'Mating in Captivity'”
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel · Jan 26, 2026
I Told My Friend I Was in Love with Her, Then She Told Everyone
“Relationship therapist and host conducting the intervention call, guiding the caller through emotional processing and pattern recognition.”
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel · Jan 19, 2026
It's Very Hard to Live with a Saint
“Psychotherapist and host conducting the couples counseling session, analyzing relationship dynamics and conflict patterns”
Digital Disruption with Geoff Nielson · Jan 12, 2026
AI's Most Dangerous Truth: We've Already Lost Control
“Therapist; noted that AI therapy is 'thin' and may lower expectations for human relationships”
This Is Actually Happening · Jan 8, 2026
394: What if a devastating truth only deepened the mystery? [Rebroadcast Ep250]
“Therapist whose article 'Why Happy People Cheat' provided framework for understanding infidelity outside relationship dissatisfaction”
Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin · Dec 22, 2025
If You Do the Chores, He Gets the Promotion: The Hidden Economics of Domestic Labor with Eve Rodsky
“Relationship expert referenced for work on emotional affairs as consequence of unequal household labor distribution”
The Dr. John Delony Show · Dec 12, 2025
I’ve Married the Same Man 3 Times (Am I Crazy?)
“Cited for her Twin Towers analogy about rebuilding marriages after infidelity and major relationship ruptures”
The Resetter Podcast with Dr. Mindy · Dec 1, 2025
Why Relationships Change in Midlife: Menopause, Awakening & the Marriage Reset with Jillian Turecki
“Relationship expert referenced for concept of eroticism and mystery as essential elements in long-term sexual relationships.”
Curse of: America’s Next Top Model · Nov 21, 2025
Introducing — Smart Girl Dumb Questions
“Renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert with 50M+ TED Talk views; discusses modern love, feminism, and gender dynamics”
The $100M Entrepreneur Podcast · Oct 10, 2025
Stop Chasing, Start Choosing: How to Create Demand That Lasts from Daniel Priestley
“Couples therapist example who raised pricing from $100 to $250,000 per client by targeting ultra-high-net-worth individuals”
The Resetter Podcast with Dr. Mindy · Aug 25, 2025
Create (Peri) Menopausal Confidence: Cut the Noise with Tamsen Fadal
“Teachings on relationships referenced; concept of multiple loves in lifetime applied to menopausal relationship renegotiation”
The Resetter Podcast with Dr. Mindy · Jul 7, 2025
Know & Love Yourself First: Dating at 60 with Fiona Lambert
“Cited for perspective that most people fall in love 2-3 times in adulthood, not necessarily with the same person”