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U Up?

Podcasts · Society & Culture

U Up?

552 episodes · 20 with AI analysis

U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes. To sign up and become a friend (with benefits) today head to: subscribe.betches.com Watch U Up? on YouTube: http://youtube.com/betches

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Topics · top 10

Dating app strategy and limitationsIn-person flirting techniques and body languageLong-distance relationships and relocationWorkplace dating and professional boundariesBreakup communication and emotional honestyRejection sensitivity and dating confidenceGen Z dating culture and commitment anxietyPrivate membership clubs as dating venuesMisophonia and dealbreakers in relationshipsCareer vs. relationship prioritization

Analyzed Episodes

Mar 25, 2026

I Dumped Him in Public So He “Wouldn’t Make a Scene” ft Tiff Baira

Dating app strategy and limitationsIn-person flirting techniques and body languageLong-distance relationships and relocation
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May 22, 2026

Dr. Orna On The Biggest Mistake Couples Make

Couples therapy ethics and confidentiality in televised settingsAuthenticity vs. performance in early datingConflict resolution and communication patterns in relationships
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Mar 27, 2026

My Partner Makes Me Feel Stupid… Now What? ft Emma Willmann

Relationship red flags vs. deal-breakers in long-term partnershipsGrammar correction as emotional abuse and power dynamicDyslexia and workplace/relationship insecurity
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Apr 1, 2026

What Changes In A Relationship After Kids?

Relationship dynamics after having childrenPre-natal couples therapy and preparationWork-life balance for new parents
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Apr 3, 2026

Follow These Rules For Meeting The Family

Meeting the family in new relationshipsLong-distance relationship logistics and schedulingRed flags in early dating (Instagram requests, OnlyFans comments)
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Apr 29, 2026

Ryan Seacrest’s Dating Red Flags Make No Sense

Dating app communication standards and pre-date logisticsEngagement timing and surprise vs. informed expectationsParental leave policy and family optimization
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May 6, 2026

The “Girl You Don’t Need to Worry About” Problem

Dating app communication patterns and early-stage texting behaviorRed flags in heterosexual relationships involving opposite-sex friendshipsHonesty vs. respect in romantic relationships
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May 8, 2026

He Won’t Go To Therapy But Says I’m the Problem

Dating app communication etiquette and pre-date texting normsEarly relationship red flags and personality incompatibility signalsTherapy resistance in relationships and male attitudes toward mental health support
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May 13, 2026

Is a Breakup Revenge Post Ever Okay?

Casual dating and friends-with-benefits arrangementsCommunication in relationshipsBreakup etiquette and post-breakup behavior
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May 15, 2026

Married a Gay Man… And We’re Completely Monogamous ft I Married a Gay Man

Inter-orientation relationships and marriageSexual identity versus romantic partnershipMonogamy and commitment in non-traditional relationships
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May 1, 2026

Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy

Reality TV dating show analysis and recapsRelationship dynamics and communication skillsSocial media influence on dating motivations
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Apr 22, 2026

He Matched With Me… And My Brother! A Dating App Nightmare

Dating app matching with family membersLiving with ex-partners during new relationshipsFirst-date spending and financial expectations
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Apr 24, 2026

Should You DM the Girlfriend If You’re the Other Woman?

Infidelity disclosure ethics and timingDating app fatigue and when to quitTransactional vs. authentic dating mindset
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Apr 8, 2026

Why Situationships Hurt More Than Breakups

Situationship vs. breakup emotional impactLong-distance relationship sustainability and communicationSexual compatibility and oral sex preferences in relationships
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Apr 10, 2026

My Friend & My Ex Are Hooking Up!

Situationship dynamics and emotional asymmetryPublic relations missteps in celebrity relationshipsEarly-stage dating communication norms
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Apr 15, 2026

The Moment His TikTok Fame Ruined the Date

Dating app communication authenticity vs. AI detectionSocioeconomic differences in relationships and coded languageSocial media impact on dating anxiety and relationship insecurity
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Apr 17, 2026

What’s the Right Way to Approach Someone IRL?

Cold approach dating in public spacesInstagram paid features and dating privacyRelationship timeline misalignment
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Feb 4, 2026

Why Money Conversations Matter Early in Dating ft Vivian Tu

Proportional rent splitting formulas for couples with unequal incomesTiming of salary disclosure conversations in dating relationshipsPrenuptial agreement benefits and family wealth protection
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Feb 6, 2026

He Dumped Me Because Of My Music Taste?!

Age-gap relationships and family acceptanceMusic taste compatibility in relationshipsHerpes disclosure timing and communication strategies
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Feb 11, 2026

When Body Image Becomes a Dating Issue ft. Sami Sage - Co Founder of Betches

GLP-1 Medications and Dating TransparencyBody Image Issues in Early RelationshipsValentine's Day Gift Expectations and Gender Dynamics
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